Monday, June 30, 2014
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NEW: Energies Part 2: The water energizer
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Water... OK... first my story.
In 1993 a physician declared me incurable. I was weak, I was malnourished, and my blood work did not respond to anything, and was completely messed up. I didn"t seemingly have any known disease: had I died they would have put in cause of death: old age. I was 46 years old
I hired a nutritionist, who out of desperation, put me on a complete elimination diet: I was living on protein shakes for a little while. and then slowly moved on to the complete elimination diet: you try to find out what doesn"t agree with your body.
In spite of all that effort, dietary changes, etc., two years later, a naturopathic physician still declared me incurable.
My body had no energy, my cells were drying out, and I could barely work.
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NEW: Ten signs that you are on the path of spiritual awakening
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Here is a video I want you to see. I am testing how to make you more interactive, so I am locking this video and allow you to see it only if you share it on facebook.
Don"t have a Facebook account? Get one. You need to share it with one Facebook friend, and you are good to go.
This is a ...
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Sunday, June 29, 2014
NEW: Energies... a series... Part 1: Subtle energies
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Energies: Subtle energies
This is going to be a series on energies. I will try to make it such that regardless of your vibration, regardless on the level of your education, you will be able to get a glimpse into the invisible world of energies.
Make no mistake about it: energies are largely invisible. Just like light. You can only see their effects... You don"t see light, you see the result of it.
If there is nothing to reflect it, to vibrate with it, you"ll see no light.
I am going to use examples, and you are going to "get it." It will undo some of the misleading information you have been bombarded with.
And knowledge is power. My promise is that after reading this series you"ll have more personal power... Use it for good! Please.
Subtle energies... the energies of unconscious communication
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Saturday, June 28, 2014
NEW: What will you do if the economy tanks? If the trouble you are afraid of actually happens?
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I have a wide cone of vision (I see the big picture) in most issues regarding "the economy." Maybe because both my parents were economists? Who knows.
But having a wide cone of vision, especially in this arena, has its advantages.
People call me to find out, if their personal experience is indicative of a personal issue, or if it just feels that way.
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Friday, June 27, 2014
NEW: All the things you know won"t make your life smooth sailing
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This article may be a bit upsetting... but hey, I am known for rocking the boat... Being a trouble-maker. Have always been...
Can you identify with this scenario?
Something bothers you. Something hits you the wrong way.
You sit and you say: "I know I shouldn"t be upset about this. I know it is not cool. I even know that it is my issue, but I am still bothered."
And you are bothered, and you are bothered.
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NEW: Express Yourself: Am I a self-promoting marketer pretending to be superior to all?
A reader from California writes:
The way you shamelessly steal from Landmark (Education) on one day and than use Landmark as a platform to show how superior you are to Landmark another day is just amazing.
You are nothing but a desperate telemarketer trying to grab the market any way she ...
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Thursday, June 26, 2014
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NEW: The "Racket" of transformation, transformational methods, programs, potions, transmissions, pills revealed
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Warning: I use all my articles as a vehicle for me to muddle through issues, to gain clarity, to distill the truth, to separate illusion from reality.
This article goes through a meandering path... and unless you follow the path closely, you won"t get to the result and get the same clarity, so you will be wasting your time.
If you don"t have the time to read this article attentively, don"t read it, it will make no sense in the end.
The juice is in the detail, the juice is in the journey, the scenery one can see... You"ve been warned.
Humanity lives in quiet desperation. Everyone. Even the rich and famous. They are aimless, purposeless, dissatisfied, judgmental, jealous and envious, craving love, craving sex, craving belonging, craving a sense of meaning. At times more than at others.
Was it always like this? Before our time? I don"t know. I actually think so. But I can"t know. My memories of another life are just memories, me-centered, so I don"t know what life was like for people. I know in every past life memory I lived in quiet desperation.
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Wednesday, June 25, 2014
NEW: Vibrational Review: Tamra Oviatt and www.sacredactivation.com
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I had a reader send me a comment, complaining of a sudden deterioration of health and connection after she connected to Tamra Oviatt.
Here is a vibrational review of Tamra Oviatt:
I went to her site, and looked around. I did not connect... if she put an attachment on the reader, she"ll ...
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Tuesday, June 24, 2014
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NEW: Why your spiritual practice isn"t raising your vibration
I get a lot of people ask for their vibrational reading.
The feedback I get is their life experience matches my experience of them, and the vibration I say they are at... but they are puzzled that in spite of all the spiritual work they do or have done, their vibration is so low.
As I am preparing for the first session of the workshop, Playground, it hit me why.
No matter what you do, meditate, chant, firewalk, etc. unless your speaking changes you won"t rise on the vibrational scale.
Positive thinking, the controlling your speaking in vogue, encourages you to lie about your life, about what you think and what you feel.
It is at the vibrational level of lie... you can gather it is very low.
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Monday, June 23, 2014
NEW: What is the Playground coaching program? Why is it special? It is really a mastery course
The Playground is a one of a kind program, the like of which I have never experienced. We should call it Mastery Course...
We have seen that the main issue that holds humans back from becoming Human Beings is delusions.
Delusion is misjudging what is real and what is not.
Unless you know what is real, all your actions are going to be misdirected, and it"s a miracle if anything every get done well around you, if you ever go to places.
Although the level of delusions becomes less as your vibration rises, the cause and effect relationship is reverse: as you see delusions for what they are, and reality for what it is, your vibration can begin to rise, and rise and rise.
In the Playground you get to practice telling apart reality and delusion, under strict guidance. The only rule for the program is to listen to the guidance. I will create as many displays of the ways to tell those two apart: reality and illusion, so is becomes easier and easier.
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NEW: Hope: public enemy. Ego"s way to keep you waiting
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You have hopes, aspirations, you have dreams. Some have been around and with you since you were a little kid.
You keep them close to your vest, because without hope what have you? If you lost your hopes, you would have nothing, you feel... so you keep them close to your vest, you are protective of them.
But...
If you took hope out, instead of hoping, you would, probably, have a sudden clarity about the fact that what you are doing and not doing are not in concert, not in harmony with your aspirations.
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NEW: Recorded Courses
Some past courses have been recorded and they are available for purchase.
Second phase activators
Third phase activators
Brilliance at will level one and level 2
Activate your divinity
Daily connection
The pebble in your shoes
Carrot and stick
Empath Training
Self healing ...
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At this point there are three coaching programs you can participate in.
Path (Elite) coaching program - not open for new clients. You need to have been an active participant in the beginner level programs to apply
Happiness (Beginner level) coaching program
Playground: self-help ...
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Sunday, June 22, 2014
NEW: Can you handle it? Can your spouse handle it?
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Whether a person is successful or not can be boiled down to this question... successful people say they can handle it, unsuccessful people say they can"t. And this is where your word (I can/I can"t) will give you everything.
I have read about a man whose doctor told him that he had terminal cancer, and he should go home and take care of his things. The man went home, took care of his things. A week later he died.
Turns out he was healthy. He didn"t have terminal cancer, he didn"t have any cancer, any disease. He died because he said: I can"t handle it...
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NEW: Updated: How to turn an oceanliner around in a tight bay... or how should you go from where you are to where you want to be, emotionally and all ways
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UPDATE: I wrote this article in 2007... when I did business trainings, business coaching... So please consider that some of what I say in this article is outdated in that regard.
I ended my core group training, and as it seems I now have some energy to coach.
Instantly three "associates" called, on the same day, and I accepted all three for some friendly coaching: just for the fun of it.
Who or what kind of people are people I like to coach:
They need to have a business already. That shows courage and direction. That shows that they are above 95% of humanity, maybe even more. They are up to something and therefore the coaching can have a direction.
They need to need the coaching, and they need to know it. They need to request it and make a commitment to take the steps I recommend. Rare indeed.
One of these people probably won"t have a big enough commitment and will be "fired" by me.
Another one of these people is probably going to want to quit when the going gets tough or make me do his work... I"ll probably fire him.
The third guy will succeed, beyond his wildest dreams.
How do I know it? Because when I shared with him the article I wrote some three years ago on the method of turning a big ship around in a tight bay, he cried. I mean wept...
Then he found the video below: and sent it to me. He was "touched, moved and inspired."
He will take actions, even though it is his son"s birthday and Easter all at the same time. Even though he has a wife with good ideas... :-(
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Saturday, June 21, 2014
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NEW: Does it look hopeless? To have fulfillment, and a life worth living?
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Part 1: The Question
I just got off a call with my friend, Alex. This call was about starting a business that can make money for me... I asked him to coach me about 10 days ago, and we"ve spoken already a few times.
I am not paying him with money: money comes and goes. Instead I pay him with a currency that will pay him dividends over and over: I ask him to do what he is helping me to do: start a business that can make money for him for a long time.
He is making a living, but building a business is more than just making a living: it is exciting.
So today"s call was a brainstorming question about his business to decide what kind of business he wants to build.
I was full of questions that I didn"t think of asking myself. Some questions were old, like:
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Friday, June 20, 2014
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NEW: I had an "interesting" and terrifying experience this past week or two. My brain was taken over...
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It started two weeks ago with not having a book to read. So I went back to watching Netflix movies.
I didn"t see that anything I can do will make a difference (yes, me! lol) so passing my time doing something that won"t matter was the "best" choice.
I picked a series called "Chuck" to watch. The series is about a guy who downloads the entire database of the CIA to his brain, and he can access it through flashing: i.e. when he sees something or someone that triggers a "search-found" result in that database.
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NEW: Eliminating mistakes, errors in thinking, is the fastest way to good results, including raising your vibration
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There is an approach to growth that requires a mindset that cherishes mistakes. That is my whole approach to teaching, that is my whole methodology. The methodology for exponential growth.
But first you need to find the mistakes and look at them... That is against our current culture that only wants to deal with what is "good". ((The method Japan learned from Deming, the small steps improvement method was all based on mistakes, and caused Japan to be a leader in industry, in spite of it being destroyed in WW2. Since they have become more like Americans, and are now losing their leading edge... I think, though I am not following the news at all... it"s just a feeling.
The method is called Kaizen, and it is simply: finding a mistake, an error, an improper piece, and improve it... Very different approach from how you live your life...
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Thursday, June 19, 2014
NEW: How to avoid negativity but not your feelings? or How to be with The things you can"t be with, you can"t accept
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I got a really great question yesterday from a student.
He asks: Is it possible to be with what you can"t accept, killing, rape, and such? And how do you do it without jeopardizing your personal values, your personal integrity, and at the same time still be able to be happy and not be mired in the dark energies of hatred?
This is a really great question. After all isn"t the world REALLY divided to right and wrong? Good or bad? And wouldn"t it put you on the side of bad and wrong if you accepted what you don"t agree with, what you don"t like, what you abhor?
The answer to the question, as almost always, is hidden in the question.
It takes a shift of vantage point.
The Tree of Good and Evil
In the book called the Bible, there are distinctions, the good and evil. They are revealed to the first humans through eating from the Tree of Knowledge. From that point on the world is divided to good and evil.
But what disappears, what is taken out, is personal power. All power is relegated to a "higher power", an impersonal "entity" who can deal with anything, because it doesn"t exist.
Great hoax, people, great hoax. You got duped, and your forefathers got duped.
There is no inherent right and wrong
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NEW: Fear talks... Depending on what it says, you"ll run, you"ll hide, or you"ll continue charging forward
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I now have a coach to report to on what I accomplish in the project I started a week ago.
Just like you, my first report was something like this: "I know I did little, but there was this fear..."
"What does fear have to do with anything?" he asked... and I was dumbfounded. I know the guy, we"ve been friends now for 3-4 years, and he is always stopped by fear... Who is he kidding?!
I didn"t spend our time together to explain things, after all his role, this time around, is to coach me, not the other way around.
But, in this article, I"ll say everything about fear, and how it works. I will also talk about how to gain the upper hand, at least some of the time, in the face of fear. OK?
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Wednesday, June 18, 2014
NEW: The most frequent type of envy can be expressed with "how come they can/have/got X and I don"t?"
How come they succeeded and I don"t. How come they got the promotion and I didn"t. How come they have a nice partner and I don"t. How come they are thin and I am fat? How come they get the results and I don"t? How come, how come, how come... What am I, chopped liver?
And more often than not, the answer is: "Because they do what you don"t."
When you are the one who is slighted, how didn"t, can"t, don"t have, or didn"t get X, it is near impossible to see what it is the THEY do that you don"t.
One of my areas of didn"t, can"t, don"t have, or didn"t get X has something to do with being liked.
Not many people like me. It used to be better, and it used to be worse.
In Hungary I had friends, I had fans. I only had problems with authority: I never got a raise, never was promoted, and I was widely unpopular by the top brass of the companies I worked for.
Then between ages 34 and 64, 30 years, OMG! I was mostly alone. I only talked to people when I was giving them something, mostly stuff that they would have to pay for. I begged them to take it. I wanted to buy my way into friendship.
The past two years it"s been nicer.
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NEW: How come some people get results and other don"t, when they do a program?
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The easy and obvious answer would be that some do the work of the program, others don"t.
But what if neither do the work? And yet, some have results, and other don"t.
What is the explanation? Are the "some" smarter?
The answer is is your reticular activator.
The reticular activator works for you behind the scenes
The reticular activator function is an attention function. It is also a pattern recognizing, zeroing in function, much like a heat seeking missile: it cannot miss. It is a function that below your conscious awareness gets the work done for you.
Your attitude to the program either works with your reticular activator or it doesn"t. And that largely depends on your attitude about yourself.
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NEW: How to go from lazy, procrastinating never do well to someone who gets things done? This also applies to raising your vibration...
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One of the typical mistakes I see comes from the "culture" of instant, quick, magic buttons, magic bullets.
The idea that if you can imagine it you can do it.
It"s not true, or it is not that simple.
We all understand that things take time to get up to speed, your car, an airplane, your computer, but we don"t think that the same rule applies to us. We actually really think, really hope, that someone can touch us, a holy man or woman, and we will be healed, and throw away our cane, walker, and run away dancing, laughing, victorious.
This is what the fake gurus (i.e. the associates of the Dark Side) want us to believe.
But why are they selling us a bill of goods if it is not true? The answer is simple: because what they sell matches your desire, so you will buy it.
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Tuesday, June 17, 2014
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NEW: Your emotional baseline and your chances for success
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I read a very interesting article ((6 Insane Things Science Can Predict About You at Infancy
We like to think that, for the most part, who we are is based on life experience, hard knocks and good old-fashioned attitude. Sure, genetics plays a part, but ultimately it"s your own choices that matter -- you"re not "destined" to be anything.
But science, as it usually does, has some surprising and kind of scary things to tell us. Apparently, no matter what kind of life you lead, scientists can still figure out who you"ll be at 30 based on who you were as a toddler. Studies show ...
#6. If a 4-Year-Old Is Patient, He or She Will Be a Successful Adult
In the 1960s, a Stanford psychologist basically tortured 653 4- to 6-year-old kids by putting candy in front of them and telling them not to eat it. In the process, he may have unlocked the entire secret to a successful life.
The experiment went like this: The children were placed in front of a plate of treats like marshmallows and Oreos and told that they had a choice -- they could either choose one treat right away, or get two treats later. All they had to do to double their treats was sit alone with the candy for 15 minutes while the researcher left the room. It was testing their ability to delay gratification.
Naturally, most of the kids at least attempted to wait, but when left alone, they began sweating and seizing like heroin addicts. Most of them cracked and went on a sugar-devouring rampage. Only about 30 percent were able to hang in there for the whole 15 minutes. And those kids wound up being more successful in life.
They found this out with a follow-up study on those same kids, and learned that the impatient children were more likely to be stressed, found it harder to maintain friendships and had lower SAT scores. The SAT scores of the kids who delayed gratification for the full 15 minutes were, on average, 210 points higher, and their parents described them as "significantly more competent." Though at this stage, it could still theoretically be chalked up to the brain-destroying power of marshmallow overconsumption.
Then, in their 30s, the patient kids were living Leave It to Beaver-like lives of happiness and success, and the impatient kids were more likely to be fat, unhappy drug addicts. So the researchers decided to scan their subjects" brains to see what was going on up there. Apparently, the patient subjects had a lot of prefrontal cortex activity, meaning they had greater control over social behavior and planning. The scans of the impatient kids showed more activity in the ventral striatum, the portion of the brain commonly linked with addiction.
So, if you want to predict the futures of the 4- to 6-year-old children in your life, tell them to not eat a marshmallow for 15 minutes. If they don"t eat it, continue pumping cash into their college funds. If they do, just go ahead and buy that speedboat you"ve always wanted.
#5. Babies Fed on Demand Are More Likely to Be Smart
So, now that you"re familiar with the above test, you might think that this means good parents will teach their kids to wait for their food, damn it! If they"re not born with the ability to delay gratification, then you"ll delay it for them! That"ll teach the little bastards!
Nope. While conventional wisdom says that giving kids what they want, whenever they want, is the best way to create terrible humans, research says otherwise -- at least when we"re talking about infants. Babies who are fed on their own terms (i.e., "whenever they start crying") have IQs up to five points higher at age 8 than babies who are fed according to a set schedule. They also do better on their SATs -- the effect lasts right through their teens.
And this was a huge study, too -- 10,419 children all together. The Institute for Social and Economic Research found that "schedule-fed babies performed around 17 percent of a standard deviation below demand-fed babies in standardized tests at all ages, and four points lower in IQ tests at age 8 years."
And yes, before you ask, this proved still to be true after the study had corrected for socially disadvantaged kids and mothers who couldn"t afford to feed their kids until they started trying to eat the bars of their cribs. In fact, poor kids scored the same advantage as rich kids who were just as demanding.
Author and psychologist Penelope Leach says it has to do with the development of the baby brain, which is in the early stages of learning how to communicate with other humans. At that age, the "Crying for food equals I get food" lesson and bonding with mom are more important than the "Life is a cruel bitch that laughs at my desires" lesson that will inevitably be taught later.
#4. A Baby Who Snores Is More Likely to Be a Problem Child
Aw, your baby"s snoring! So adorable! Now keep that in mind so you can pinpoint the origins of the insatiable thirst for chaos he"ll later develop.
Yes, a baby who snores is 20 to 100 percent more likely to become a hyperactive tyrant. Researchers conducted a sleep habit study that followed 11,000 children from birth to age 7. The parents enrolled in the study filled out questionnaires about their child"s sleep habits and breathing difficulties at six different points in the seven-year span. A second component to the study involved screening the children for emotional and behavioral problems at ages 4 and 7. The researchers then slammed the two halves of the study together until science fell out.
They discovered that babies who snored displayed more behavior problems at ages 4 and 7, including aggressive, combative conduct and depression. By 7, a snoring baby was 1.5 times more likely to be a hyperactive, defiant monster child.
Dr. Karen Bonuck, the study"s lead author, hypothesizes that snoring causes the baby to deliver more carbon dioxide to his or her brain than oxygen. Since the child is still forming neural connections, this could cross some of the wires in the emotional regulation and social conduct centers of the brain. Or maybe what you"re misinterpreting as "snoring" is just the sound of the devils who have possessed your child growling in the night. It could go either way.
#3. Smaller Babies Do Worse on Exams
A study conducted in England found that the smaller the baby at birth, the poorer he or she performs on exams later in life.
The researchers picked out 334 kids from schools that had a pretty homogenous socioeconomic enrollment set (so they could prevent winding up with a bunch of kids who were both small and stupid for some extraneous reason, like, say, they were malnourished due to their parents" crippling meth addiction).
Half of the kids selected were of lower-than-normal birth weight, and the others were normal or larger. At 8 years old, the kids were all given IQ tests. The researchers then examined all of their GCSE (a standardized test) scores when the kids had turned 20. The normal birth weight group not only scored higher on the IQ tests, but also scored an average of a half grade better on their GCSE tests than their less wind resistant classmates. They also completed more of the exam (the GCSE lets you choose which portions you take).
The leader of the research team, Professor Peter Pharoah of the University of Liverpool, stresses that this doesn"t mean that your gigantic freak mammoth baby is going to win a Nobel Prize. But nevertheless, science doesn"t quite know how it works, though it does seem to contradict the cliche of the short, scrawny nerd outsmarting his ogrish jock classmates.
What we"re trying to say is that for accuracy"s sake, Bruce Banner should be bigger than the Hulk.
#2. Moody Toddlers Grow Up to Be Gamblers
Back in the "70s, some researchers in Dunedin, New Zealand, decided to examine a bunch of 3-year-olds to see whether they could predict future temperaments in kids who are still only old enough to drool on themselves and regard mundane objects with confused fascination. Observing the toddlers during independent 90-minute sessions, the researchers classified the kids as best they could as well-adjusted, reserved, confident, inhibited or "undercontrolled" (because you can"t call toddlers "assholes").
Roughly 10 percent of the children were in that last category, which involved "lack of self-control, rapidly shifting emotions, impulsive and willful behavior and relatively high levels of negative feelings."
When they returned to study those kids at ages 21 and 32, the researchers discovered an unexpected side effect of their subjects" infant dickishness -- they didn"t all wind up in jail, as might be expected, but scientists did find that when the "undercontrolled" kids grew up, they were twice as likely to have gambling problems as any other temperament classification.
Lead researcher Wendy Slutske cautions that just because your toddler is a mood-shifting jerk, that doesn"t mean he or she is destined to be a compulsive gambler, but she suspects that some are born vulnerable to addiction. This would explain why some people can hit up a penny slot, win $100 and never gamble ever again, and others play until they"re buried in the desert.
#1. Fearless Babies Are More Likely to Become Criminals
If you"ve ever screamed at a baby and the baby just stared back with hardcore steely resolve, just go ahead and teach him or her how to turn pacifiers into shanks, because, according to Adrian Raine, a University of Pennsylvania psychologist, a fearless baby is more likely to become a criminal as an adult.
Raine got his hands on a mental illness study from the 1970s that tested the fear responses of about 1,800 3-year-olds. The toddlers were exposed to two sets of sounds -- one was a neutral tone that was followed by nothing, and the other was a neutral tone followed by a shit-your-pants-terrifying wail. The toddlers quickly figured out when to expect the scary noise, and most of them sweated in response -- a normal fear reaction. Then again, there were some kids who showed no signs of fear at all.
In 2009, Raine checked in to see what the original test subjects had been doing with their lives, and found something fascinating. Along with everyone being a little fatter and uglier than they were when they were 3, Raine found that 137 of the test subjects had criminal records -- and not one of them had been among the group who had sweated during the fear study when they were 3.
The discovery was examined for any result-skewing factors such as race, gender and income, but more than anything else, the outstanding variable was that all of the convicted subjects had been fearless toddlers. This leaves us with an unsettling implication -- the possibility that some people are actually born criminals.
Before you use this research to establish a Minority Report-style pre-emptive justice system, Raine notes that many other kids who also didn"t show fear as babies went on to lead perfectly law-abiding lives. We would like to note that this only proves that they were never caught committing any crimes. Or maybe they grew up to be scientists who tormented 3-year-olds by blasting scary noises at them.
Read more: http://www.cracked.com/article_19889_6-insane-things-science-can-predict-about-you-at-infancy.html)) today. It is about being able to predict from how you were as a baby and toddler your chances for success, your chances for being smart, your chances for aberrant, deviant behavior, like crime or addictions.
And although most of you, if you read it, will be resigned to how you turned out, or alternatively argue till you are hoarse with the predictions, there is a more constructive way to read the article: get guidance.
Of course, if you are already having trouble in life, you are habitually relating to everything as a good reason to get depressed, turn to the bottle, get angry, or eat more m&m"s, but if you are not quite there, there is the guidance I recommend that you get:
All of those signs you demonstrated as a toddler are correctable by the Bach Flower Energies.
If you have a propensity for being impatient, wanting immediate gratification, not being able to hang in there and do what you need to do even if it is tedious, or unsuccessful at the moment, the Bach Flower Energy Impatience will increase your capacity for more patience, so you can actually get something done, learn something, hang in there.
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Monday, June 16, 2014
NEW: What is the most important thing in life?
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The "culture" we live in, the mind-meme that is the dominant influencer of our emotions, our actions, our decisions in life says: the most important thing in life is fitting in, taking care of your loved ones, to be loved, to belong.
Sounds so nice, doesn"t it? Sounds like that is what will cause our species to survive, that is what is going to cause us to be happy.
Let"s examine if it, in fact, contributes to happiness, and to the survival of the species... i.e. if it contributes to personal growth, personal evolution, because any species that its members don"t grow or can"t grow is declining and dying.
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Sunday, June 15, 2014
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NEW: Great Stuff I want you to See: Are you setting yourself up for failure? You probably are...
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Most of what we do, most of what we are taught, most of what we understand sets us up for failure.
I have a lot of success skills, and yet, I am not as successful as I"d like to be.
This past week I started a project of causing, consciously causing success in a particular endeavor, creating and marketing a new product largely unrelated to what I do on this blog.
I have been coming up against a lot of walls, fear, anxiety, overwhelm, wanting to stay comfortable.
And although I am doing this all with my eyes open, as an impartial observer, and I am starting to see methods to break through the blockages, I am sure I have more to learn.
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NEW: Emotions are like fire storms, cause incoherence, and are the most manipulated aspects of a human
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The best way to examine whether emotions give you a reliable internal guidance system is looking at the flip side of emotions.
In emotional terms, for example, love"s opposite is hate, disgust, being appalled, repelled. But if you look at your emotions, these opposites are right there, right behind the emotion: love... They come together like the front of your hand and the back of your hand. You are in perpetual ambivalence, yoyo-ing back and forth, ups and downs, and incoherence.
Love, the one that vibrates at 525 or so, is not an emotion. Love is a commitment to love. Love is a commitment to accept another human exactly the way they are and exactly the way they aren"t. Whether they do the right thing, love you back, chew their food with their mouth open, lower back the lid on the toilet, or leave the top off the tooth paste.
Commitment. Not a promise, a commitment.
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Saturday, June 14, 2014
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NEW: Is the love that you feel a good guidance for your life?
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There is a saying I like: you can feel your way through life.
Is that feeling an emotion?
If there are at least 10 comments, YOUR answers to this question, I will tell you what is Source"s take on this...
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Friday, June 13, 2014
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NEW: Restoring Coherence. Harness and redirect the energy instead of allowing it to diminish you
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Note: there is a 10-day trial of the Harmonize Your vibration audio at the end of this post...
Not everything you feel is an emotion.
There are emotions and then there are the effects of emotions. But all emotions can cause incoherence.
You know you are incoherent when your decisions are wrong, and take you down the path of self-destruction or hurting yourself or someone else. When you can"t hear what someone is saying. When you find your attention wandering. When you are not present.
Some emotions" energy goes outward, other emotions" energy goes inward.
Either type of emotions,
in a weak person, wreak havoc and cause devastation. A strong person can harness their outward emotions to move mountains, to accomplish, to achieve, to grow.
And a strong person can accept their inward going emotions as not necessary, and let them go.
Examples:
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Thursday, June 12, 2014
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NEW: Coherence to incoherence... the path to becoming zombie
Warning: if you like your glass half filled, if you are a positive thinker, if you are optimistic, if you think hope is good, then please don"t read this article: it will attack your world at its core.
A society or a species that can have coherence and maintain that coherence is a species that survives most any calamity.
If you want to destroy a species (or and individual) you need to introduce incoherence.
Incoherence means: stuff is there that doesn"t fit. That doesn"t work well with the rest of the organism. That conflicts with the goals of the organism.
How is incoherence introduced?
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Wednesday, June 11, 2014
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NEW: Mastery: how to go from unconscious incompetence to unconscious competence?
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The one rule of the Playground Program: All speaking needs to answer the questions: what happened, what is real?
One of the first things people learn in the Landmark Forum is the idea that most of what you think happened to you, around you, in your life, is a story.
It"s a simple distinction, yet it is profound, it is life altering... for a moment. In the moment of seeing that, it is profound. Then it disappears, it goes underground. It is replaced completely by the story... Flash in the pan, kitchen fire, not forest fire... Inconsequential. In spite of the fact that when it is alive, when it is operational, it is life altering, transformational. Big.
When I talk to graduates of Landmark"s programs, they, maybe, can give lip-service to this distinction, "story", they know about it, but if you listen to them, it is not a distinction that is alive and well, guiding them through the maze of mind-full (living from the mind) living, unconscious living, living without distinctions.
My experience has been that a little knowledge will definitely lower your vibration to lower than it was before that little knowledge. Tree of Knowledge... knowing about it, but no mastery.
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NEW: Spirituality, your success, your health, your happiness... Working it as a 9 to 5.
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Most people relate to their spiritual growth exactly the same way they relate to their job, their marriage, or their health.
They are working it as a 9 to 5... ((
nine-to-five
[nahyn-tuh-fahyv] Show IPA
adjective Informal.
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of, pertaining to, or during the workday, especially the hours from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. when offices are characteristically open for business: the nine-to-five grind.
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of, reflecting, or exhibiting a lack of willingness to work beyond the required amount of time or with more than minimal effort: With your nine-to-five mentality, you"ll never get a promotion.
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They seem to do it for "The Man", meaning whoever they think is watching, whoever they think has the power.
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Tuesday, June 10, 2014
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NEW: Raising your vibration happens through doing things that you wouldn"t do without the intention to raise your vibration
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Raising your vibration happens through doing things that you wouldn"t do without the intention to raise your vibration.
Coaching is making you do what you need to do, but don"t want to, that will get you what you desire.
Often any deviation from the normal, the accepted, the habitual, the regular, the easy, the socially acceptable is all you need to open up and allow you to glimpse at dormant capacities. Or alternatively see your need for capacities that you don"t have but could start to desire.
This is exactly what I did to be the pioneer and the guinea pig of the grand DNA upgrade. It took me 27 years, because I was the first. It will take you less time, but you need to work at it. It is not given to you, you need to earn it, just like one digs out gold, one grows their food, one brings up a child. A lot of work, and the results are never promised. So unless you fall in love with the process, you will hate it, you will stop, and you won"t get what you thought desired.
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NEW: A coach"s job is to make you do things you don"t want to do
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A discussion with hidden argumentative undertones is going on in the comments of some posts.
It"s about coaching.
Most people want gentle guidance. They want the results, but they want it all to be easy, nice, a walk in the park. They can"t find this anywhere, so they sign up to my coaching calls, but they don"t like what they are getting. They wanted gentle guidance, but they get coaching.
A coach"s job is to make you do what you don"t want to do so you can have what you won"t have if you do what you want to do.
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Monday, June 9, 2014
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NEW: Another really painful example of "unless." One Word That Should Never Follow "I Love You"
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It"s been very difficult for me to bring examples to the phenomenon "or-ness", in spite of the fact that it is all over. I was trying to define it, but it"s eluded me.
Here is an article I didn"t write. It is a beautiful illustration of the principle or how to replace "or" with "and" and give birth to a lot better, a lot more loving life than it was before. Really nicely done:
It started with "I love you, but ..."
It could have been "I love you, but you"re driving me crazy" or any of the following: "I love you, but you"re not listening to me"; "I love you, but stop leaving dirty dishes in the sink"; or "I love you, but I need some alone time." I"ve begun many a sentence with those four words, and never paused for a moment to think about what they mean. What are we actually conveying when we begin a sentence like that?
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NEW: Conversations, intimacy, human connection: are you emotionally unavailable? Emotionally slutty?
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“Yesterday I was clever and tried to change the world. Today I am wise and try to change myself.†~ Rumi
I offer private healing sessions to supplement my income. It is mainly a massage, a conversation, and sharing some of my observations for change.
I only see older people, mainly men. I don"t like to work with women in this capacity. I don"t enjoy their energy.
In my screening email exchange I look for two things:
that their vibration is above a certain point, 170 seems to be the minimum, but sometimes I take an exception if a 150 feels right to me.
I spend minutes connected to them, living in their shoes in their vibration, and if I find it miserable, or victim-like, I won"t see them. I find a way to tell them I won"t see them. I lie.
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Sunday, June 8, 2014
NEW: Playground: it is now open
I have scheduled the first session of the Playground: It is never tool late to have a happy childhood.
If you are interested, please check out the page here: http://www.yourvibration.com/playground
That is the program I first run in 1988, that had a 100% of the participants produce ...
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NEW: Updated: What is Source"s Take on Negativity? Prepare To Be Surprised!
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People talk about positive and negative, positivity, negativity, and other Law of Attraction b.s. but they are completely misdirected, mistaken, shallow and involved in magical thinking.
The only real divisions of "content" when it comes to your mind, your actions, your emotions, your intentions, your context and principles: is it from the Tree of Life or from the Tree of Knowledge, or said in an even simpler way: is it reality or is it unreality, is it a fact or is it a fiction.
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Saturday, June 7, 2014
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NEW: Can you be sick and be well at the same time?
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Some days the DS energies are stronger than others. Today is one of those days.
The energies can effect the emotions (just like the ones in the Heaven on Earth! just the opposite way: make them stronger instead of weakening them), other days the energies are like physical pain... if you imagine someone using a voodoo doll to torture you, by proxy.
I have an appointment at 3 and I need to decide if I should cancel it.
I connect to Source, and I muscle test: "Am I going to be well at 3?" The answer is yes. I know that the question was "illegal", I am not allowed to divinate, ask questions about the future. Hm... I ask another question: "Am I OK now?" and the answer is yes.
I laugh and laugh and laugh.
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NEW: Updated: What is your strategy to avoid your own transformation and to stay miserable? - Here are a few strategies: Which ones do you use?
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What is your strategy to avoid your own transformation and stay miserable? Here are a few strategies: Which ones do you use?
Let"s first look what is transformation to understand why anyone would want to avoid it. After all transformation sounds all good, doesn"t it?
Transformation is very simple, but it is not that simple and it is not that easy to cause it, whether for yourself or not.
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NEW: Republished: The Duct Tape Approach to Raising Your Vibration
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The Duct Tape Approach to Raising your vibration
My observation has been that the biggest obstacle to returning people to the pristine state we began is the business of the mind, the business of the body.
What I call business is not the activity of getting things done: on the contrary: the wasteful, self-serving misfiring of the nerve-endings, whether it expresses itself in activity or not. The restlessness, the ADHD-type of running around, aimlessly, but self-importantly.
I have a few students that have taken this restlessness to the max, they do not allow any moment for themselves to just be.
What I did is I recommended that they voluntarily stop talking. Claim chronic laryngitis, or anything, and shut up.
What happened is that they reduced the compulsive talking, compulsive thinking, compulsive actions. Did those disappear?
Judging from the results, when they kept their word to me, the compulsiveness disappeared, or at least kept at bay.
The operative words are: kept their word to me.
Integrity is a rare commodity, especially because we think that integrity is good and no integrity is bad. What people don"t know, is that integrity is an inside job. It is between you and you. You can"t be out of integrity with me, and I have no right to say anything about your integrity. I will, so I can teach you something, but as a private individual, I have no right to judge your integrity, because integrity is really and inside job.
I know a lot of people that do everything they said they would do, yet, when I look into their feelings, there is no peace there. There is no feeling of integrity.
When you procrastinate, the problem you experience is an out of integrity with yourself.
When you are wasting your life being busy judging, controlling, manipulating, dominating, comparing, competing, you feel miserable.
The source of that misery is that you are out of integrity with yourself.
In order to understand that you with yourself statement, I need to take a little detour to reveal the aspects of a human being, that are relevant in this context.
When we look at a human being, the "normal" way to look at us is this:
I have a body
I have a mind
I have feelings
The sum-total of this way of looking is that you are a thinking and feeling skin-bag.
What I teach, the Original Design I got from Source, is that you have a lot of energies, good, bad, and neutral, making up who you are.
A few of those energies are:
the physical body
the mind
the ego
the soul
the self
the will
the evil inclination
etc.
In the misery you experience, the conflict is that the mind and the body will be at odds with the self and the soul.
What do I mean by that? Your behavior, and your thinking will be disharmonious with the soul"s desire.
What does the soul want? The soul, very insistently, wants you to fulfill the Original Design: become like the Creator that you are.
To become, or better said, return to the Original Design, you need to act on your feelings rather than on your thoughts.
The social development, the enslavement of humans, the reducing human beings into biological robots, is what we are attempting to counteract.
Thoughts are the easiest way to control people en masse... and the entire huge machine of control, education, media, medical professionals, legal professionals, and politicians, scientists, are all in the same business, to control your mind so you need them. So you need them because you can"t... can"t think for yourself, can"t feel anything other than what they suggest that you should feel, and can"t heal yourself either.
It is all an intricate net of lies, and you ate it.
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Friday, June 6, 2014
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NEW: Muscle testing: How do you know that you are asking the wrong question?
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One of the signs of human arrogance is that we think our questions are relevant. That our questions will get answers that are usable, useful, and truthful.
Nothing is further from the truth.
When you ask your question you are already too deep in "knowing"... much like a detective who has already narrowed his search and investigation to one suspect: if the detective is off, the questions are off. And even if they get a yes answer every step of the way, that won"t make the suspect guilty... They asked the wrong question... and there are not enough yes answers to make it the right question.
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NEW: Updated: Case Study: Inelia Benz
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Update June 2014: A reader asked if I am still afraid of Inelia Benz... so I made a mistake and I connected to her. Immediately I got three energetic attachments, also known as Dark Side attachments designed to kill.
An energetic attachment is much like heart worm: it goes deep and it blocks life force, and eventually makes you sick and kill you.
The male person also mentioned in the footnote, does the same thing... the attachments do the same, and attach at a similar place... I have had people listening to these "teachers" come to me for attachment removal. It is nasty to remove...
I had to connect to measure her vibration... it is 100. Low and nasty.
Original Article from 2011:
Inelia Benz www.inelia.com
All the people I have reviewed or critiqued, I have had no fear. Not so with Inelia Benz. I am afraid. ((Upon further consideration, I am also afraid of Sai Maa and Trivedi. What is in common?))
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NEW: I caught myself grieving yesterday... What are you grieving when you are grieving?
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I caught myself grieving yesterday.
I got a brochure in the mail that had pictures of Budapest in it. I left Hungary, and Budapest, the capital I was born and lived for 34 years 32 years ago.
Every time I considered grieving, a song welled up in my head, a song about home and home sickness. It"s about longing, and it"s about regret. And I refused to regret anything. Like Edith Piaf, Je ne regrette rien. No regrets. ((Edith Piaf grieved a lot, and also suppressed her grief by drugs, sex, and other ways. But when you actually do your grieving in earnest, looking at all your losses, you can become someone with no regrets, unburdened, unhindered, flying.))
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Thursday, June 5, 2014
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NEW: Are you arrogant? Oh, no, not you? How dare I say that?
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Yesterday I had a coaching call. One of the students was talking about her difficulty of getting to sleep and then starting her day.
I checked her vibration and it was 130, slightly under her usual vibration of 150. As usual, she was scared of what may get revealed in our interaction about her. Rightfully so...
What got revealed that she scans the articles on my site, and at such low vibration you are also low on intelligence, low on comprehension, low on patience.
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Wednesday, June 4, 2014
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NEW: What does religious mean? And what does it have to do with not being happy, fulfilled, etc.
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Will you choose the truth or the dogma? Love or "luv"? The personal cost of being religious...
I brought up the issue, my issue, my inability to be OK around religion.
Because I am so practiced activating my "Reticular Activator" and I am so committed to keep on expanding as a human being, my whole world shifted the moment I put my attention to the phenomenon.
All the books suddenly point to something that is related to my "object", my dreams, articles, everything.
It is not in the foreground all the time, instead it is simmering on the back burner.
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NEW: 12 steps toward becoming truly who you are: the Playground program
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The Playground program: the history
Back in 1988 when I first created the Playground: It is never too late to have a happy childhood, I"d just come out from participating in a 12-step program, similar to AA, but for people who suffered from the behavior of the alcoholic.
It turns out, that a troubled household with troubled parents creates the same symptoms as one with an alcoholic parent: a lack of safety. My parents weren"t alcoholic, but their behavior was erratic. One day I was beaten up for a behavior, the next it was ignored... Nerve wrecking. There was nothing I could count on to be quasi permanent and reliable. It"s a miracle that I didn"t withdraw into schizophrenia.
What"s good about 12-step programs?
Anyway, I liked the environment of a 12-step meeting: the meeting had principles, but it had no coaching, no rebuttal, no arguments, it was a very adult and equals program, as opposed to any other place in the world.
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Tuesday, June 3, 2014
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NEW: Keep your enemies close... with friends like this who needs enemies?
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I am reading all the books by Michael Connelly.
I had read about 20 before getting to the last few I have on my kindle... these books stirred up something in me...
Suddenly, in these last few books, there is an unexpected twist: the last three novels have a similar element, not quite there, or maybe even missing from the previous ones: a friend or colleague is turning against friend or colleague...
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Monday, June 2, 2014
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NEW: The Truth of the Story you tell... or how to change your future by changing the story
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Your story is boring, repetitive, and fixed. You tell it the same every time the same, and it gives you a life of gloom and doom, an every narrowing, ever more impoverished version of the Life you could have.
This article is about blowing some life into your story, so you can have more life.
"Know something, sugar? Stories only happen to people who can tell them." - Allan Gurganus
Gurganus is right. The truth happens to everyone, but stories only happen to people who can tell them. And tell them well...
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Sunday, June 1, 2014
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NEW: Spiritual? Religious? Atheist?
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It is undeniable that there is more to reality than what you can see with your eyes. The below the water level stuff... or behind the curtain type of stuff... mostly about the invisible dynamics, the invisible motive powers of people, and maybe even stuff.
I grew up atheist, a Marxist, and a seriously anti-religious child. Most of that wasn"t from my parents, I don"t ever remember them talking about any of that among themselves: they almost never talked to me about anything.
I never thought there were monsters under the bed, or that the Easter Bunny filled the boots in the windows (we are talking about Hungarian customs, don"t get confused!) or any other superstition. I was free to observe... unimpeded, unhindered, unguided by others" imagination and fantasies, like religion.
I knew there were at least two layers to every human: what they showed and what was inside...
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