Wrestling back the steering wheel of your life from ADD, frustration, depression, anger, and more

"It is not what you do for your children, but what you have taught them to do for themselves that will make them successful human beings."
Of all the 10 starting point measurements, the most telling is your TLB score.

It tells me, and it tells you, how much discomfort you are able to experience and not run away mentally, emotionally, or physically. And therefore it tells you whether you can have the good life, health, wealth, love and fulfillment... or not.

Its activating mechanism is below your conscious awareness, and is quite habitual.

In modern parlance they call it "Attention Deficit"... but it"s B.S.

As long as there is no structural difference between an ADD person"s brain and a person who can stay planted... attentive, it is more a habit than a disease.
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The more popular something is, the more likely that it is low vibration, and not true.

Why? Because the majority is always wrong.

In most cases majority/minority is an extreme proportional inequality: 98-99% to 1~2%

The other extreme is: 90% to 10%, meaning: the "good, productive, true" is never higher than 10%.

There was an Italian economist and sociologist Vilfredo Pareto (1848–1923) who noticed this pattern: that the distribution of income, brain, etc. is not even, not equal, but grossly unequal.

They call this the Pareto"s Principle or the 80-20 principle, but if you are a stickler for precision, like I am, you will know that my numbers are closer to how it is than 80-20.
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Wise people are pattern recognizers...

One such wise person was Ann Landers. Here are some of her quotes: all of them are profound, all of them are recognized patterns, based on the thousands of letters she answered in her long career.



Ann Landers quotes

“All married couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of making love. Good battle is objective and honest - never vicious or cruel. Good battle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principles of equal partnership."

"Anyone who believes the competitive spirit in America is dead has never been in a supermarket when the cashier opens another check-out line."

"Asking a writer what he thinks about critics is like asking what a fire hydrant feels about dogs."

"at every party there are two kinds of people - those who want to go home and those who don"t. the trouble is, they are usually married to each other."

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How well do you recognize patterns? How many? This is, essentially, what the IQ tests measure.

It is said that there are only three types of people. (The illustrations I use in this article reveal more patterns, so pay attention, please)

1. make things happen
2. observes things happen
3. ponders what the heck happened.

This is so because of the three different ways to see patterns.

1. recognizes patterns, knows them intimately. The slightest indication of the pattern gives them clue about how things work
2. observes things happen, but doesn"t recognize patterns... unless they are pointed out. And only when they are pointed out. Is satisfied with so-so knowledge, surface... so cannot make things happen
3. can"t even (or won"t even) recognize patterns when they are pointed out. Is in the dark.


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When we talk about fields of communication, we actually talk about energy fields.

When we talk about fields of communication, we actually talk about energy fields.

They look innocent, but they are energy fields... and some things can happen in an energy field, and others can"t.

You have a "homepage", that, in my experience, is predictable by your soul correction plus your Zodiac sign.

Why? I don"t know. My guess is that those are energy fields too.

What is an energy field? I"ll repeat what I have said three lines above: some things can happen in an energy field, and others can"t.

I know this is way beyond rational, and way beyond what any sane person would be willing to see... but lots of evidence points to the fact that fields are energy fields, and they are obvious from what can and what cannot happen inside them.
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I am still working on kindness. And will continue until I get good at it.

By the way, this is exactly how I "dealt with" the tens of spiritual capacities in the past 30 plus years: "chew" on one until I got all the juice out of it.

Spiritual capacities are a lot like a language: with each new one a whole new world, a whole new understanding becomes available. A whole new person. A whole new way of looking at the world.

I"ve read somewhere that schizophrenia and speaking several languages are intimately connected: the new language brings about as much change as if you were had grown a new personality... They probably should have written: multiple personality disorder... Disorder smisorder... Bah.

I am speaking about the miraculous switching ability of perspective, of understanding... the capacity underlying kindness. Where at a moment"s notice the "kind" person moves their perspective to include the place from where the other is speaking. Or in the parlance of the Partnership Course, they can change the field inside which to listen.

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High vibration - low vibration: what does it really signify? What does it really mean?

Everyone wants to have their vibration measured. But they don"t know how to measure vibration, and they don"t know what the number they get means.

This is an old article that is as relevant today as it was when I wrote it. It clarifies what low vibration, high vibration is, and how to raise your vibration...

I woke up late today. I could recall my dream. It was nightmarish, but it was a guidance dream. A first in a long long time.

I was in a mental hospital, in Hungary, talking to my psychiatrist; young,innocent, pregnant, terrified of me.

I was explaining that we all have a dark side, as long as the light source is outside of ourselves. She asked: even a sheet of paper has a dark side? Yes, no matter how thin paper is it has a dark side.

Slice it even thinner... but...

No matter how thinly you slice the paper, it will still have a dark side and a light side.

That was the dream... the rest of the guidance happened while I was sitting in the cold room on the edge of my bed... the only way to have no dark side is to be the Light.

Which means...

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Your days of power energy download

It"s a Days of power day today. I had the worst day in decades yesterday, and I am having the second worst day in a decade. the two days separated by a night... horrid... night...

Today I have another webinar to lead when i normally download the energy of the day... so I went up there and downloaded it to myself...

The energy is good as always, but when it hit the Earth it seems to have gone through some changes: and it feels horrid. To me.

So it just so happens that it"s good that I don"t have time to do a public energy download today.

By the way, you can use last time"s recording to download it to yourself today"s energy. It will work for 24 hours.

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The hidden spiritual capacity that is underneath all the others... I think.

It"s been coming up with more and more frequency:
We don"t know what it looks like to be good, to be kind, to be independent, to be happy, etc.
I wrote recently about my quest to become a kind person.

I am 70 years old. Why now? why so late in life?

When I look back at my childhood, when I look at my brothers, their wives, I see no kindness. EVER.
I am now able to be kind except right now, today... I am irritated, and out of balance... I don"t want to share the "story", but please know that there are innate capacities and learned capacities. I will never be as patient as a saint... especially when I am out of balance... Kindness and patience are intimately connected.
Spiritual virtues, like kindness, goodness, love, forgiveness... etc. you only learn when you see it in many situations. We could be simplistic and call it learning by osmosis.
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The genius path to become a person with a Self

Being successful as a human

When you look at people, you notice that there are two different ways to be successful:

1. worldly success... and
2. successful as in well rounded, fulfilled, joyful, and loving life.

The two don"t happen in the same person too often.

There are notable exceptions. Einstein was one of the exceptions. ((Einstein"s Human success score: 50))

Your vibration is a lot more correlated with the human success score than with worldly success score: fame, money, notoriety.

Obviously I train people in human success first, and worldly success second... and I have chosen, for myself, the same.

Why? Because no worldly success compensates for wretchedness.

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I have decided to learn kindness.

That is the hardest virtue for me to practice... let alone master.

So I have been watching kind people in movies, and I am reading Benjamin Franklin"s autobiography.

I am noting the discrepancy between the behavior I observe and the behavior I would have in the same situation.

It is so far out of my realm of possibility to be calm, allowing, and kind, maybe to even shut up, that it looks hopeless.

But like with everything, there is a threshold... a moment when something now invisible will show up and suddenly the whole business of change will become easy.

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What can geniuses teach you... no matter what is your IQ

I just finished reading an article online, a National Geographic article on genius.

Like Tai makes us look at billionaires to learn from, I am looking at genius to learn from how to teach you.

I"ve read the article. I found it occasionally irritating.

It"s not a conscious irritation, like "nooo, you don"t know! or Nooo, not true!" you often experience when you hear something or read something you don"t like.

This was an irritation I just noticed... after I read the article.

So let me deal with this first, so I can get to what I want to say:

Researchers and their questions are pedestrian.
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The invisible distinction that can causes reality and map of reality to match

We look at life through the space we locate ourselves in.

When you go home for the holidays, you have a space inside which you interact with your mother. You have a space inside which you interact with your father, another space with your siblings.

Some people live their whole life out of one favorite space.

When you know what space you think you are in, and the other person makes no sense, that is because they relate to you inside a different space.

For example, Nancy lives inside Mother-child space. She is either the mother, or she is the child. When she is the child, I am either the mother (she loves that) or Not mother... she hates that.

This is invisible for her. It"s the water she swims in.

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Let"s talk about balance: The myth, and reality... and Self that is more important than balance

First off: about the Tree of Knowledge.

The purpose of the Tree of Knowledge is to keep you from doing your own assessments, to take ready ideas and swallow them whole. Ultimately the aim of the Tree of Knowledge is to keep you in sheep state.

If you ever visited a mental institution, you have seen the zombie-like patients, that whenever they started to act as people, they were injected with chemicals, to make them comply.
The Tree of Knowledge is the larger than a psychiatric ward solution to the same "problem". The Tree of Knowledge controls you with words and words that carry emotions.
Easy peasy...
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Please don"t get mad at me... I am still talking about The One thing book...

Here is another thing I found in that book: schedule your "one thing" times and your life around your breaks, around your vacations.

I read it last night.

It is the most shocking thing. Breaks? Vacation?

Ever since at age 17 I decided to become a high achiever, I never planned breaks, never planned vacations, never even planned for weekends without work.

I had unplanned breaks, when I collapsed from exhaustion... or got ill. but planning for breaks? Never.

Without this new context I would never have shared this with you. I would not even think of it, this is just how it is.

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Why I was miserable for 17 straight years... I didn"t know until just now

As I said in a previous article, I am reading the book, The One Thing.

Most books, just like Tai says, are one-gold-nugget books. Tree of Knowledge. This one is full of gold nuggets. The One Thing book is a Tree of Life book
The nugget I discovered yesterday may be the most important thing I have missed, and I see others miss...
It is and have been in plain sight but at the same time it is invisible, like most new distinctions. Until you see it, you don"t...

The nugget, this new distinction, is the foundation for the Ben Jonson quote from Poor Richard"s Almanac: "He that is taught only by himself has a fool for a master" ((Which doesn"t mean that he that is taught by a teacher isn"t taught by a fool... as most teachers are clueless themselves... :-( Regarding this distinction, this article is about, I have been clueless myself...))

People who don"t have this distinction (the gold nugget from this book) are, forever, mediocre.
Here is the surprising bit of gold, that made me want to read all the 250 page that came after it: How Gary Keller made it a short affair to become good at playing the guitar.
The author, Gary Keller, is not self-taught only. He actually hired a guitar teacher. And when looking what would take him to mastery fastest, the teacher recommended one thing: practicing one thing: his scales.

I was a musician in my childhood, singing, the violin, classical guitar. I spent 90% of my time doing scales. And I was good in all three "instruments", uncommonly good. Because of the scales...

If you want a sports example, football players, basketball players, the training is 90% drills.

I was a swimmer... I needed to practice the turns and the jumping into the water part most of my "career" as a competitive swimmer.

I was a gymnast. I practiced 90% of the time things like the landing after the work on the uneven bars... that was the only thing I did well, the uneven bars.

Chess players practice fragments of games.

The key, the path to mediocrity is to not like your drills, and therefore depend on your natural strengths only.
People who lack humility, the ingredient that allows you to be taught, will be stuck in doing the best they can.
People who allow a teacher to teach them, will grow to the level where they can do the best that can be done.
The best you can do vs. the best that is possible.
You may have observed in the world, in movies, that when someone says: "I was doing the best I could", or promise "I"ll do the best I can" the mouth of the other persons twitches.

Why? Because people who stop developing their skills are a dime a dozen, and extraordinary results won"t come from them. They will produce mediocre results at best.
But... knowing what is a skill is a stumbling block for most people. It is definitely true about my students.
I occasionally recommend to my "blind to skills" people to do the skill-finding exercises in the book "What Color is Your Parachute".

And every time I find that
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I got scared this morning. My stomach is still in a knot...

Something interesting happened to me this morning: I got scared.

What"s so interesting about that, Sophie? Good question. I don"t normally get scared. Last I got scared when Trump got elected. That was four months ago. That was also interesting. ((That is my "invented" attitude about life: it"s interesting. A lot like a bug. You can say "ugh", or you can say "interesting" and then observe it. I choose to do the second. It"s helped me be even keeled and undisturbed, so attitude is a keeper.))

You can say that I get scared twice, maybe three times a year... nowadays.

So what happened that scared me this time was a request to "read" someone"s vibration. Not the whole ten measurements, the starting point measurements, just their vibration. That is always a warning sign, by the way. It means, I feel, that there is no curiosity, it is just checking ME against what they KNOW.

Of the 10 measurements the vibration is the least useful and you have the least amount of chance to effect directly. So when someone only asks for that, my warning signals go off... Either they are too stupid, or too arrogant to know what is up.
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How we spend our days is of course how we spend our lives...

I am reading a book, The One Thing. Tai recommended it, so I had been resisting.

But like most of the book Tai recommends, it does have a kernel of gold... Maybe more than one kernel.

One of these is what he says about will power. Quite fascinating and very useful.
He says, that just like glycogen, brain food for thinking, will power uses energy, food, and can be depleted.
I don"t rely on will power, because about a year ago I started to reorganize my life to habitually do the things that serve me, and remove the opportunities for doing things that don"t serve me.

It did take will power to establish the habits, but I did it one at a time, and one at a time it was easier to see that the new habits served me.
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If you can understand it, it is probably not true, or it is not the whole truth

This is part 2 of the article "The crucial difference between people who are on the top and you"

I will start with a confession: this is new knowledge. I myself have been part of the "not on the top" people...

Let me explain what happened.

About a month ago I read an article that had a list of 20 books that Charlie Munger recommends.

I measured Charlie Munger"s overall intelligence at 150. And decided that he probably knows something that I don"t. Both Warren Buffet and Bill Gates say that he is the smartest person they know... so who am I to not want to learn from him.

But instead of learning from what he says (you"ll see why later in this article), I decided to learn from where he learns from.

We have been doing the same in the 67 steps coaching...

So I promptly ordered four of the books on his book list, and started to read.


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The crucial difference between people who are on the top and you. Part 1

I slept till 7 today. That is two hours past my normal wakeup time.

I had a dream till the moment I opened my eyes. Lots of smart people to talk to in the dream, so I was hanging around longer than usual. Warren Buffet, Charlie Munger, Bill Gates, Michael Jordan...

I wasn"t looking for answers, I was looking. And I got some answers.

I was curious to see how they were that they could go so far in wealth, success. In fame.

One of the most important thing I saw is that they didn"t try. Didn"t try to understand things. There was no forcing. No violence.

When I watch you, you have two modes: you try and give up.
Trying is forceful. It is violence.

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What tragedy happened to humanity at the beginning of the 20th Century?

What happened to humanity, starting at the beginning of the 20th Century is a big tragedy.

Success literature happened.

And success gurus, success writers, motivational speakers, and the whole industry of the Lottery Approach.

The same thing happened in spirituality and in healing. Even religion was kinder to people... Even religion robbed them less that this new wave of success literature. Killing Life... for most people.

Liars, shysters, snake oil salesmen, con artists. all making money through selling lies. Teaching you things that don"t work.

Unfounded, untested, untrue.

With rare exceptions.
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Does what you know about eating serve you well?

I wrote about skill building yesterday.

One of the skills you need to build is to eat right.

The information out there is faulty.

Just like the person who commented on my site this morning, people, who are clueless, misguided, delusional, have as much right to post on the internet as people with legitimate knowledge. And they do... in droves.

It is as if you went to a school where the teachers were volunteers from all walks of life, and you can"t tell the difference between what they teach and what is so.

A lot like church. If you say it fervently enough, it must be true.

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Investor mentality: what are your non-renewable resources?

When you want to make sure you only eat what is on your food list, I suggest that you don"t have anything in your cupboards that you should not eat.

But what should you do if you are always distracted, click-baited on the Internet, and therefore never amount to much? Never amounting to much is a version of being fat, obese, a lump of fat... in a way.

This is how I do it?

I have a lot of small things to do I have chosen, the good food equivalent for my success and growth, that I have committed to do every day.
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Unwillingness

New insight:

As you may have noticed, one of the spiritual capacities that can raise your vibration is willingness.

But I am a lot more interested in unwillingness... because no amount of desire to be willing will counter unwillingness in its many forms, with its many causes.

One of the reasons for unwillingness to be so ubiquitous, is that it is counter intuitive.

When I say "intuition" I don"t mean real intuition. I mean that if you live on the Tree of Knowledge, then what is intuitive to you is what makes sense... on the Tree of Knowledge.

And about 70% that makes sense on the Tree of Knowledge is actually useless, untrue, falsehood, and damaging.

Being willing does not make sense on the Tree of Knowledge. What makes sense is to resist.
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What is the dynamics of hate? What is the real cause of hate?

I know, I know. All you positive thinkers don"t even want to accept that there is hate. Because you so hate negativity, right? From joking aside, listen up.
If you want love, you need to be intimately familiar with hate. If you want peace you need to be intimately familiar with hate. If you want good: you need to know evil more than the evil person.
You won"t get tainted. It doesn"t stick. Nothing that is not yours will stick to you.
But if you hate covering it up with sticky sweetness... this article will help you see the dynamic, and stop it at its root.
So, here it goes:

From time to time, some incident triggers me to get bummed out. I don"t even have to be present... I can just think it... lol.

Yesterday I measured a person who had an attachment. I removed the attachment, because I was already connected to her. Her vibration jumped to 260. The highest vibration of a person ever coming to me.
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This won"t be my first experiment that either succeeds or not. Either prove or disprove a theory.

We live in a culture that wants answers, certainty, security, and abhors uncertainty. We live in a culture that we want instant results... and we act accordingly.
So my work doesn"t appeal to many people, because I am an experimenter.
I ask questions and then I test them... Every question is a theory. A theory that needs to be proven or disproved, if possible.
This, about Tinnitus, won"t be my first experiment that either succeeds or not. Either prove or disprove a theory. (The theory is that a break in your "energy body" will show up, to me, a true empath, as a pullable cord, attachment, and if I pull it, the noise in the ear will stop.)
A theory is just that... an idea that may be true. Arguments won"t decide it. Only experiments.
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Word of the Year 2016 is... Post-Truth

Word of the Year 2016 is...
Republished from https://en.oxforddictionaries.com/word-of-the-year/word-of-the-year-2016

After much discussion, debate, and research, the Oxford Dictionaries Word of the Year 2016 is post-truth – an adjective defined as ‘relating to or denoting circumstances in which objective facts are less influential in shaping public opinion than appeals to emotion and personal belief’.

The script was provided by a guest writer, the cultural commentator Neil Midgley.
Why was this chosen?
The concept of post-truth has been in existence for the past decade, but Oxford Dictionaries has seen a spike in frequency this year in the context of the EU referendum in the United Kingdom and the presidential election in the United States. It has also become associated with a particular noun, in the phrase post-truth politics.
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What clued me in that Tinnitus is probably an energetic disturbance, like an energetic attachment?

When I watched that video on the Reddit method... it is an energetic method to disrupt negative energy... I have learned versions of it from a guy who used it as a ski instructor to remove clients" fear... It works and it"s energetic.

So if that is the case, all the methods out there that are not energetic, claiming to do something with Tinnitus are B.S.

So, with the limited knowledge I have, let me look what I think "energetic disturbance" is.

For one: it is in the invisible realm. So when someone is told: it is all in your head... dismissing them and their complaints, the most likely cause is: energetic disturbance.

Tinnitus seems to be only in your head... it isn"t.
Fear... irrational fear. Seems to be only in your head... maybe it isn"t.
Schizophrenia... seems to be only in your head, though some claim that they can see it in an EEG... but, of course, EEG checks energetic stuff...
Many blockages are energetic.

Electrical, chemical communication... energetic.
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I found myself saying: I don"t need you to be different than you are. Refuse to be governed!

Yesterday, at the Days of Power energy download, people were blocking the flow. In the end I had to remove everyone from the call, and do the download by myself.

Today, when some of the people apologized, I found myself saying: I don"t need you to be where you are not. I don"t need you to be different than you are ((I found this remarkable article online:
Statists, a difference of opinion is like this: Lisa likes chocolate ice cream and you like strawberry. So the two of you each buy the kind you like. That’s a difference of opinion.

But what you call a difference of opinion is more like this: Here comes the ice cream truck. You say to Lisa “You shouldn’t eat chocolate. Strawberry is better. I eat strawberry, so you should like it too.”

“But I like chocolate,” she replies. “I’m getting chocolate. I have enough money.”

“You are getting STRAWBERRY! It’s the rule,” you say.

“You’re not the boss of me! I’m getting chocolate with my money,” says Lisa.

“You’re an anti-rule extremist, and a criminal,” you tell Lisa. “So I’m gonna tie you to that tree.” When she resists, you escalate the level of force and kick her ass black and blue until she stops resisting. You tie her to the tree, and take her ice cream money. The truck comes and you buy two STRAWBERRY ice cream treats. The truck leaves, and you let Lisa loose, tossing her the strawberry.

“You didn’t buy that ice cream on your own,” you say, “so you owe me a favor now, Lisa. That’s the deal.”

“I didn’t make any deals!! You’re not the boss of me!!” screams Lisa.

“You better calm down and stop disturbing my peace, or else.” You say.

Can you see how kicking someone’s ass, or using government for caging or killing someone who refuses to let you force your own opinions onto them is not just “a difference of opinion?”

That line of consent, which separates sex from rape, gift from robbery, and volunteer work from slavery is a line you have within you just like everyone else. You find it bad when your self ownership is violated, just like everyone else.

stat·ist =  an advocate of a political system in which the state has substantial centralized control over social and economic affairs.))

I don"t think I have even thought that, let alone say that.

But it makes sense, now that I am examining that sentence.
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Tinnitus and energetic attachments. Can attachments be the cause of Tinnitus, the ringing of the ears?

I have one client with Tinnitus.

Tinnitus is a noise you hear in your ear... It can be whistling, rustling, the sound of rushing blood...

It can interfere with your sense of well-being.

I have had a pulsing noise (pulsing to the rhythm of my heart beat) in my ear for some time... but because of all the emotional load on me, I am tough as nail... so it was just "par for the day"... for me.

But my client really suffered.

So... on Sunday there was a video in my "Digg" email about how a simple technique created silence for Tinnitus sufferers. The video didn"t say for how long. I said: OK...

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Undeclared commitments: what is under the hood

My horoscope often tells me what I should be dealing with, either for myself, or for you and me.

This is the horoscope I received in my email box today, from Rob Brezsny:
VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): If you were a snake, it would be a fine time to molt your skin. If you were a river, it would be a perfect moment to overflow your banks in a spring flood. If you were an office worker, it would be an excellent phase to trade in your claustrophobic cubicle for a spacious new niche. In other words, Virgo, you"re primed to outgrow at least one of your containers. The boundaries you knew you would have to transgress some day are finally ready to be transgressed. Even now, your attention span is expanding and your imagination is stretching.
Now, whether it is addressed to me, or whether it is addressed to us, I am going to attend to both aspect.

The first thing to examine where it is where "we", you and me, consider certainty, security, knowing more comfortable than stretching.

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Personality vs Self... what is the difference? Tree of Knowledge vs Tree of Life

How do you know you don"t have a Self? And if you don"t... what is missing?

As with everything in life, things are never completely this way or that way. All physical laws are only 100% true in imagination: in reality there are too many factors to consider.

It is a matter of spiritual and emotional maturity whether a person can be with controversy and ambivalence... or in this case degrees of anything.

What I am trying to say: there is no one who has no Self at all, and there is no one who is 100% in possession of their Self.

There is a huge variety, and a huge variety of ways on isn"t willing to have a Self.

Why do I say "willing"? Isn"t it the goal to have a Self?

It is and it isn"t. We all have a personality of some sort... and most of us are satisfied with that.

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Personality traits that serve you, and personality traits that don"t.

This is not my creation, and honestly, I haven"t spent much time analyzing it either. But, just so you know, this is a Tree of Knowledge list... I, in my work, deal with the underlying attitudes, not personality traits...
638 Primary Personality Traits
Positive Traits (234 = 37%)

Accessible
Active
Adaptable
Admirable
Adventurous
Agreeable
Alert
Allocentric
Amiable
Anticipative
Appreciative
Articulate
Aspiring
Athletic
Attractive

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How do I know who I am?

This article will try to get to the heart of the matter of who you are, what is your self that you are so desperately missing.

For those of you that just want the bottom line, who you are is what you say yes to and what you say no to. A mix... always.

You are often the last person to know yourself. Because, for the most part, your justification and explanation, in your mind, is as good as replaces what you said yes to or no to.

Because you lie.

The longer than the bottom line answer is almost the same, with some additions.

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The curse of understanding... Understanding is the booby prize

If I know you well, your relationship to life is mainly through understanding. Which you either have or not.

When you do, you are happy, even though you are just as unsuccessful living well, being fulfilled as you were before.

When you hear something, when you see something, you try to understand it. When people do something, stupid, smart, hurtful, you want to understand why they did it. Don"t you?

When you read, you try to understand it.

But...

People who are successful, high achievers, they don"t try to understand, they may not understand at all.

What?

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Are you a zombie? There are reasons for that...

For the second night in a row I am dreaming of spices.

My dreams repeat until I get and acknowledge what they are teaching me.

In case of this dream, the fact that the reason we eat spices because they have the trace minerals we need to live. To be healthy. To be well.

In Hungary, every meal has a compatible salad, which is NOT some leaf and salad dressing like in America, but some vegetable, some spices, and some vinaigrette of sort.

If it is not fresh vegetable in the winter, then it is a preserve. That has mustard seeds, or dill, or some other spice or spices.

The food we call vegetables has practically nothing useful for us in them, with the exception of the innocent looking zucchini, which is practically our only source of Manganese. And without Manganese we can"t sparkle. We can"t step dance to work. No energy, no shine. Why? Because most enzymes, the miraculous chemical agents, can"t be manufactured without them in the body. No enzymes, you dull. No enzymes and you are sluggish, you are sickly, you lack energy.
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How the rich think. I didn"t say what? I didn"t say what they believe? I said how...

Custom diet plan... versus a plan off the rack.
I want to do more Health Consultations. So I have been reading emails in my spam folder for ideas what hooks people... Spammers, marketeers know how you think and therefore they know how to hook you.
I found this subject line: "Custom diet plan..." and I contemplated using it. A custom diet plan, this is what I give people, will cost you. But unlike custom made clothes, this will not cost you much more than a diet plan off the rack, in fact on the long run, it will cost you less.
But here is the interesting thing: even when someone comes to me for a health consultation, they quickly return to their lives and do what they have always done: chasing mirages. Chasing quick fixes. Chasing a fix. ((Just as in clothes... they go back to frumpy, they go back to buying stuff at the whim of the moment... stuff that makes no difference.))
But why? What is the difference between clients that do well with the diet and clients who do well for a while, but then go back to almost the way they were?
This is what I am examining in this article. It"s long, be forewarned.

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Clarity of speaking is a sign of clarity of thinking... What is your numbnut/moron score?

I am sure you think you are clear. But the number of words you use accurately in a language gives away your level of clarity... And it"s low. I measure it as the 10th measurement in the Starting Point Measurements.

When I say clarity, I mean every area of life... including health as you"ll see later in this article.

Now, why is this important? Because your clarity is what defines whether your actions, your reactions, your emotions are going to be in line with reality or not.
Whether you"ll be astute, or a numbnut. (( numbnuts
A person of severely limited intellectual prowess. A complete dumbass, one whose intelligence quotient does not surpass that of the average rock. Obviously there are levels to being a numbnut or moron... as you will see from the article. I am 60% NOT moron... i.e. clear... This is also correlated with the truth value I use when I evaluate authors, speakers, teachers, gurus, healers, and other windbags... who speak as if they knew what they are talking about. Average truth value is around 6% for people who "teach"... Average truth value aka clarity aka numbnut/moron score in the world is 1% clarity. Or 99% moron.))

http://evp-50116959de4b9-dd521b5ed563ee25508422182c681a30.s3.amazonaws.com/THE%20BOOK%20OF%20MORON%20-%20The%20Line.mp4

. ((here is the page with more of video clips from that Book of Moron show ))

There are levels of astuteness. Astute is someone who bases their decisions on reality, not some vague concepts, vague emotions, or vague anything... or what they have heard, read, dreamed... lol

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Recommended products

These are third party products. My own products are on the What can you buy page
Health:


Hemp: reviewed in http://www.yourvibration.com/33789/hemp/
Hemp Powder:
https://www.amazon.com/Nutiva-Organic-Protein-Hi-Fiber-Pound/dp/B0012C2GFM

or hemp kernels
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00EPO157O/

I am not an affiliate, so I don"t get commissions from Amazon...

To energize your water


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Hemp kernels... the perfect food that"s also tasty

I don"t remember why I first bought hemp seeds but I did... and ate a tablespoonful here and there. Last September, I think...

It made no noticeable difference. I guess the hulled seeds and little bits of hull staying in the mix didn"t make it that appetizing. Had to brush my teeth after it... the kernels stuck to my teeth.

But when about a month ago I found out that coffee was going to kill me, lol, I was looking for something that could help. I wanted to go back to drinking tea, but I can"t drink tea without milk. And tea without milk also tests too acidic for me. That was also the problem with coffee. I have a sensitive stomach and a damaged esophagus.

So I looked for information on how to make almond milk at home, and found out that hulled hemp seeds made great hemp milk... Tested it and lo and behold, they do. Much smoother and richer than almonds.

And because I am a tea addict, I am drinking a godawful lot of hemp milk with my tea... and I am getting better. Healthier. Stronger. Younger looking. My wrinkles are smoothing out, which I didn"t much care about, but others do.
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What is the main difference between people who are worth a damn and people who aren"t?

What is the main difference between people who are worth a damn and people who aren"t?

The answer flies in the face of everything most anyone teaches, except one book and maybe one teacher in particular. ((The book is The Science of Getting Rich (read it in my subscribers only site), and the teacher is Tai Lopez.))
What is being taught is to take massive action towards your goal.
But almost no one is on the level among my readers, and I am not there either. On the level meaning where one massive action can get one to the goal. ((This is a lot like rockets. It seems that the launching of the rocket, the massive action, is what is important. What is invisible is the trillions of hours of research, experiments, study, that built the science, the technology, the fuel, and the rocket itself. Media bias... Tree of Knowledge... creating masses of people who chase mirages.))

The massive action followers are trying to build results on thin air...
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You got well... Yeah, but what did I do? What of what I have been doing got me well?

My health number is at 60%. I am not healthy. Yet.

I know you expect me to be healthy, given that I give you health advice.

But what qualifies me to give health advice is not my current number. It"s increasing my health number from 7% to 60% in a year! That is what qualifies me to give health advice. And of course that I can muscle test stuff for you and me...

You see, most people have a much lower health number, even though they are a lot younger than me. I am nearing 70 years old. And I am from a family with not very high life expectancy.

Longevity is not a Jewish trait.

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Lots of people unsubscribed after I published that I don"t believe in the Law of Attraction.

If I could stand on the rooftop and yell it to every person who visits my site, I would have a mailing list that has eliminated the weak, the slothful, the unable to think for themselves crowd.

So, what is the "famous" law of attraction myth and what are the common characteristics of the people who believe in it?
In the New Thought philosophy, the law of attraction is the belief that by focusing on positive or negative thoughts a person brings positive or negative experiences into their life. The teaching is based upon the idea that people and their thoughts are both made from "pure energy", and that through the process of "like energy attracting like energy" a person can improve their own health, wealth and personal relationships.

The concept of law of attraction received criticism in skeptical essays, such as Robert Todd Carroll"s The Skeptic"s Dictionary.

Law of attraction is an example of a pseudoscience.

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Winning and keeping love

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Why when you acknowledge the source of a good thing raises your TLB score?

When I ask a question, either on the phone or on a webinar, I feel where the person I am asking is looking for an answer.

99% of the time the person is looking in their head. As if that were the only place to look.

When I ask people if they ever knew the answer to my question, they don"t hesitate to tell me that no, they had never met the question or the answer. And yet... they look in their mind.

I have had this question for some time: what made me have a high TLB that is getting higher all the time. Because if I knew that, I would be able to teach it. ((toughening up hasn"t been the answer!))

I didn"t go into my head for it. I knew I didn"t know the answer. In fact, I am probably the first person to ask this question.

I patiently waited for the answer to come to me. Dressed in disguise... but come anyway.

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Kabbalah Chick

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You got well... Yeah, but what am I doing? What of what I have been doing got me well?

My health number is at 60%. I am not healthy. Yet.

I know you expect me to be healthy, given that I give you health advice.

But what qualifies me to give health advice is not my current number. It"s increasing my health number from 7% to 60% in a year! That is what qualifies me to give health advice. And of course that I can muscle test stuff for you and me...

You see, most people have a much lower health number, even though they are a lot younger than me. I am nearing 70 years old. And I am from a family with not very high life expectancy.

Longevity is not a Jewish trait.

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Raising your vibration and having agendas: can you do it?

Whether there is such a thing "law of attraction" or not, there is a phenomenon that I have observed.
If you want something, it tends to get away from you.
Whether it is love, having a community, being well thought of, or money... the wanting it renders you tense, reactive, and closed off. Act in predictable ways, the ways we have revealed for some of you in the Upsets workshop. (Started as Feelings webinars)

Wanting is a mind thing. Maybe a desire trap, maybe not, but definitely not from the Tree of Life, where it is obvious that if you want something, then you go for it, and do the things that get it for you. Not what you always do...

No tension, no tightness, no tight throat... just doing the things that get it for you.
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The results are in: you can raise your energy by listening to a simple audio

I don"t quite know why it works so well, but it does. So let me try to decipher... and see why it works, what it does, how it creates such a dramatic difference in your energy level... OK?

As usual, my students, volunteering to be guinea pigs, tested it. And this morning I connected to them and measured their cell hydration... and the numbers are proof: the audio works directly on their cell water level, meaning the cells are willing to use more water because more water is coherent.

Coherence is like the difference between orderly and chaotic. Cells are not willing to use chaotic, incoherent water. Coherence, just like boiling point, is at a set level of energy: 653 on the vibrational scale. Being that natural waters found on the planet are between 150 and 250 vibration, it takes a lot of energy to make water coherent.

What is the connection between an audio, the cells, hydration, and energy?

Let me explain. Obviously I am not a scientist, so I will use laymen"s terms.

First, about the cells.

The cells are like little workshops. They are specialized, but all cells need nutrients and water.

Water is what makes the cell be able to use the nutrients, and generate energy. Without the cells generating enough energy to live, they die and you die.

Our bodies are about 60% water, and the water is in the form of blood, pee, lymph fluid, in your digestive tract, and cell-water.

Cells are picky. They are like you at a Smorgasbord... they pick what they like. They don"t like incoherent water. But if the coherent water is available, they thirstily gulp it up.

When they get more coherent water into the cells, the energy production (and taking out the waste products) can start to go in earnest.

But...

A "normal" person"s cell hydration is 10% or under.

Which means: you can get only a fraction of the energy out of your cells than they are capable of producing.

Plants can make the incoherent water in the soil coherent. So when you eat food that has a high water content, you get coherent water into your body.

Animals cannot turn incoherent water into coherent... neither can humans. My hunch is that photosynthesis, using the sun"s energy to turn minerals and water into plants also make the water coherent in plants.

Dry food, grains beans, nuts, don"t have high water content. So they have, therefore, a drying out effect to the body.

Fresh plant eating animals have higher cell hydration than animals than carnivores. Even cooked vegetables retain their coherent cell water content.

Now, if you manage to make your intercellular water coherent, then the cell will instantly absorb as much of that water as it can... and hydrate itself.

Once it is hydrated, it can generate a lot more energy, and it can also "take out the trash"... i.e. it will detoxify itself.

When the cells generate more energy, you have more energy. It will first show up in your thinking. It will get clearer, and you"ll be emotionally freer,
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