Monday, September 24, 2018

Get outside of the nine dots

After yesterday"s article I got an email from one of the readers asking if solving jigsaw puzzles will develop their eye muscles to enable them to see the bigger picture and to see the deeper picture.

It doesn"t.

So I started to ponder and spent my day pondering about the topic: seeing, creativity, innovation, cone of vision, and what is the difference between extraordinary people and ordinary people.

I have found that extraordinary people don"t necessarily have more brain cells... but they habitually use more spiritual capacities that allows them to play with a fuller deck.

If you look at yourself, you almost always look for things where you know they are, or where you think they are.

In your mind, or when they belong, or where you normally put them.

So you stick to a defined area to look for them.

You have the box cover as people who play jigsaw puzzle have, so you know what the finished product will look like. You know what you are looking for.

You can solve a jigsaw puzzle using a penlight to find the fitting pieces. And if you have the piece, you"ll find it.

This is one level of puzzle solving.
  • This is what "normal" police detectives do: they look for motive and opportunity, and they have their fitting piece, and they put that fitting piece to prison.

  • This is what "normal" medical doctors do: they look for symptoms, compare them with the "box cover" and then treat the disease the box cover says you have.

  • This is also what psychologists do... this is what economists do... this is what governments do...


Their combined truth value is 7%. Which means: they are 93% wrong.

This is normally what you do: you make decisions from the information available to you, to fit your solution to the "box cover".

Now, not surprisingly, I am interested in you having a life that has a higher truth value than 1%.

My training of you, my coaching or you, my teaching of you, my energy products are designed to bring you up from your starting truth value to 7% and above.


What? you ask, and you are offended.

But truth be told, a normal person lives, makes decisions, works, eats, loves with a combined truth value of 1%.

The truth value is a comparative number. It compares what you know accurately with the truth that is available.


A PhD"s truth value, in his chosen field, is 7%, while their truth value, across all areas of life, is 1%.

So I am not insulting you. In your chosen field, if you have one, you may have a higher truth value.

And when you are using your penlight size search light inside the area that you are searching, your average truth value remains the same.

Let"s take a few examples of people you can, you may know from television:
  • Dr. House, the diagnostic genius. His average truth value, in life, is 1%
    his knowledge all things medical, is 7%
    His results, his accuracy, in diagnostics is 50%.

  • Countless detectives, my latest favorite: Brenda Leigh Johnson from The Closer: truth value regarding all of life: 1%,
    Her results, her accuracy of finding the perpetrator: 30%. If she left her staff do the work, they would have the standard 7% accuracy.


I am getting these numbers from muscle testing while I am connected to Source. So the answers don"t come from my knowledge, because I only know what the shows show me... mighty little. But Source knows the cases I don"t see as well.
  • Sherlock Holmes from British author Sir Arthur Conan Doyle: savvy, truth value in life: 1%. Accuracy in finding the perpetrator: 40%.

Now, the question on your mind should be: where does the discrepancy come from, the increased accuracy over the standard 7%?


The answer is: from left field.

Left field is an idiom. To originate from a surprising or strange place. ("Left field" is the metaphorical origin of something uncommon, unpopular, or otherwise strange.) That suggestion certainly came from left field! How did you come up with that one?

A question, statement, or event which comes from left field or comes out of left field is completely unexpected. The question came out of left field, but Mary Ann wasn"t really surprised. This letter sort of came out of left field. Compare with left-field. Note: In baseball, left field is part of the outfield. A ball is said to come out of left field when the pitcher throws it in such a way that it seems to come out of nowhere.

Said in another way:

the famous doctor, the famous detective, the famous inventors, famous painters, whose results don"t match the expected results get a piece of the puzzle, an insight from outside the area a "normal", an average person searches for clues.


Same with any of the famous billionaires, famous inventors, famous writers, famous composers. They get their inspiration from outside of the "normal" playground, what we can call the "box cover" of the jigsaw puzzle.

So how do you get access to the "left field" from where the unexpected solutions come from?


Yes, that is the million dollar question.

Observing the people/characters who have access to the left field, you will notice that they don"t jump into conclusions. They remain open. Their brain, their eyes, their ears remain open, unfocused. They cast their net without prejudice.

The clue can come from anyone, the clue can come from anywhere... they remain open.

This is, by the way, humility in action.
The more willing you are to be the bumbling idiot, the clueless klutz, the incompetent, the wider you can cast your net, the more willing you are to hear what will give you a clue.

They call this the "cocktail party effect", where you can hear, in the noise of a party, the piece you need, over the noise, spoken in the other end of the room.

This is what we try to activate in the "color exercise" that no one takes seriously after they find three objects with the exact color.

Why? Because it is a capacity, a spiritual capacity that is activated in people who dare to look outside of the box, outside of the nine dots, outside of the box cover.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c9d78k7T0R4

0.6 percent of humanity has it. It is the needed capacity to have a life that worth writing home about.

In every program of mine, the human error, the misunderstanding, the failure to come from your inability, your incuriousness of what you don"t know is causing your lack of success, not the program.

The lack of looking outside your tiny box.


You don"t ask, and don"t hear, that my energies are co-creative, so you have to DO something that is not your usual doing.

In the Playground we look to separate what happened, reality, the facts, stuff that can be measured, and has a beginning, a middle and an end, and the words that the "event", the "incident", the reality comes with or we would not know it happened.

Without words you don"t know that something is happening, or like dogs, you would only know some things... like going to the vet, or dinner.

So there are always words, but they are not telling the truth, they are not part of what happened, they are placed on the top of them, like a wig on your head... they don"t belong, they are an addition.

I write about the method that when fully utilized, when it is made instinctual, reliably raises your level of happiness, effectiveness, finances, relationships, life satisfaction by 60% in another article.

It"s the Playground method.

I had a conversation with a student today that opened my eyes to a bunch of reasons why you don"t hear me, why you can"t even use what I teach: no exception.


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The same things that keep you poor, unhealthy, unhappy, unfulfilled will also make you not hear some of the call... some of what is being said. Also no exceptions.

But the more you hear, the closer you get to be able to change some attitudes and some behavior that are preventing you from learning anything new. Learning to see new, learning to hear new, learning to do new.


Understanding is the booby prize... and you have a tendency to be satisfied with the booby prize... And of course it is your business, your life, who am I to tell you to not be satisfied.

But if you want a better life, you better not stop at understanding. Why? Because your understanding is worthless... and in addition, your understanding is more misunderstanding more of the time than you care to consider.

I measure that proportion in the Starting Point Measurements.

Measure #24. the percentage of input that gets through to you. This number is a combination of your awareness number and your coachability number. The higher that number is the more chance you have that you heard and understood accurately what was being said.

The average level of humanity is 1%. The average humility level of high achievers is 30%. The average level of my students, my paying students is 7%. Meaning that 93% goes way over your head... because you have no foundation to hear it.

But obviously students also started at 1%, and built enough foundation to raise their level to 7%.

I know I am the messenger, the bringer of bad news.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JOvjIAbB2i8

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uFJBgnCMk-E

Sunday, September 23, 2018

Been there done that! the fixed mindset and how it prevents you from changing yourself and your life...

How the notes you take, the stories you tell, put blinders on you and prevent you from growing...

As a coach, I will send you back to the same book, the same video a number of times. My intention is that you watch it... But some students won"t watch it again, they go to their notes, and read them instead. In their mind they say: I have done that... I know! And they kill their chance to see how much they have grown, and their chance to allow their consciousness to see something different.

This is the same mechanism that your stories remain the same. You say the same thing at age 50 as what you said at age six. If the stories you tell remain the same, then be sure: you have remained the same.

http://evp-50116959de4b9-dd521b5ed563ee25508422182c681a30.s3.amazonaws.com/story-you-tell.mp4

Telling what happened the same way is the most important way fixed mindset manifests.

Fixed mindset violates the adage: you can"t step in the same river twice...

The well translated (from Greek) quote is "“No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it’s not the same river and he’s not the same man.”

If you think that the river is the same, or if you think you are the same, you have a fixed mindset. And even if you have changed, you won"t know... you will not allow what you consciously see become different.

What do I mean?

The seed level on which I base my coaching is that the basis of your existence is what you see. It gives you the second part of the "occurrence", what you perceive happens, and your actions will be in a perfect correlation, in a perfect dance with what you see: the occurrence.

So my job, as a "change agent", a coach, is to use what I have available to myself, as tools to change what you see, the occurrence.

The "thing" you look at can be life, events, other people, and yourself.

I am rarely able to change the reality part of occurrence (occurrence=reality+what you say about it), but more often than not, that has already happened, so I can only change the "what you say about it" part, that is, depending on the level of your fixed mindset, can change a little bit or a lot.

When occurrence thus changes, your further actions and what you say about life, yourself, can change.

That is the whole secret of growth, that is the whole secret of coaching, that is the whole secret of self-actualization.

I bring the new angle of looking, I bring the speaking.

Your job is to come around and look from the new angle, to allow YOUR speaking to change.

It sounds easy, but there are obstacles, sticky hinges...

Occurrence is like a door than swings on sticky hinges. The stickier the hinges the less willing the door will be to swing, and the more likely it will automatically return to its original position when you are not looking.

So what makes the hinges sticky?

We"ll look at it through the starting point measurements.
  • 1. your vibration (1-1000): Your vibration is a combo number that tells me from what height and with what accuracy you look at reality. When this is a low number, your height and accuracy will be lacking, and you will listen to what I say as my opinion, my good idea, but you actually won"t be able to see it yourself.

  • 2. your overall intelligence, emotional, intellectual, spiritual, body, relationship, etc.: This is also a combination number, that grades your aptitude to see reality in different areas of life and respond accurately. This number is a percentage, instead of the vibration number, which is a logarithmic number. Your overall intelligence shows a percentage: to what degree you can work with what you have, instead of comparing you to other people.

    If you don"t have much to work with, but you use what you have brilliantly, your overall intelligence can be a high number. But most people "sport" a really low number, meaning that they have a lot of room to grow.

  • 3. the number of spiritual capacities you have: There are 160 spiritual capacities hardwired in your DNA. They are dormant, inactive, unusable in most people. They will turn on when you actually do things, regularly, that need them.

    Most people never do anything regularly that turns on capacities. This number is a very reliable indicator of a fixed mindset: you see yourself unchanged, and unchangeable: fixed, and you refuse to do things you are not already suited for.

  • 4. your soul correction (your machine): There are soul corrections that are more fixed mindset than others https://www.yourvibration.com/sc

  • 5. do you have attachments? Attachments can be so irritating, or so "leash-like" that you have no mind to spare for change. this is true to all attachment-like phenomena: placed on you by a malicious person, your soul fragments you denied, your base belief about yourself, or the "anchor to doom" around which you circle the drain. I talk about these somewhere else.

  • 6. the level of your health (1-100): The higher your health number, the more energy you have above mere survival... so this number directly influences how fixed is your few: survival mode, scarcity mode is a fixed view of the world and yourself.

  • 7. the level of your cell hydration (1-100): Same as the health number.

  • 8. your relationship to feedback and instruction: Of course, if your attitude to input is that it"s judgment, right/wrong, an attack, you won"t allow feedback and instruction to move you and move the door... This is a very significant reason most people cannot and will not grow.

  • 9. The level of discomfort you are willing to allow w/o trying to fix it. This is your TLB score... Growth, change are inherently scary. It is natural to be afraid. You will have a hard time allowing yourself to go with change and even if you change, this is the force that returns the door to the original position where life was comfortable and you didn"t have to feel discomfort.

  • 10. The size of your vocabulary: the number of words you can use accurately: This is a filter that causes you to not hear, not see anything that you haven"t already seen and decided about. If this number doesn"t change during your coaching, I know that I am failing. It"s hard work to raise this number. Reading and pondering changes it. Pondering is connecting the dots of reality differently than before. Busy people don"t ponder. They chase the next thing to do: no pondering.

  • 11. To what degree you think of yourself: This is the inverse humility number. If you have yourself in the center of the filter through with you look at events, things to do, reality, you can see that your view cannot change, because consciousness is fixed, anchored, and the view of life cannot change. This is the most important number that determines to what degree your door can open or not.

  • 12. % of fixed mindset: This is a combo number, and in my experience isn"t an accurate representation of your willingness you change your mind.

  • 13. Ambition: A higher ambition number indicates a higher willingness to make changes, and to actually invest energy into making things happen

  • 14. Desire: A high desire number indicates a desire trap. As with any trap, this number shows in reverse how far you are willing to go from the fixed view of life to get what you want. A high desire number indicates blinders.

  • 15. Degree of inauthenticity overall: Inauthenticity is the distance between your public self and your real self. The more you want to be seen as, the better, the more this acts as a barrier to growth, an barrier to change, a barrier to becoming. Without changing the environment, the people for whose sake you pretend, this number is quite fixed. Moving house, moving town, changing friends, changing jobs, may be necessary: very few people will be willing for that.

  • 16. Level of integrity 1-100: This number is very strongly correlated with the inauthenticity number.

  • 17. how enslaved are you to memes? (what percentage of your life is run by memes?) Memes act as the opposite of grease... the higher this number the more sticky, rusted hinges will behave.

  • 18. do you have a bridge between your precious "I" and your actual I? What is your level of delusion... The higher this number the more you"ll protect the Precious "I", the fake self, and the less you"ll be willing to change.

  • 19. To what degree you have access to your adult capacities. this is the inverse number that shows to what degree you"ve been willing to change the stories you tell.

  • 20. How teachable/how coachable are you? The higher this number is the more you are willing to allow your consciousness to go where the coach is taking it.

  • 21. The level of your awareness? if this number is low, you won"t notice that you are taken to places that are different. You will step into the same river every time.

  • 23. the percentage of time you spend in the mind: This number is the inverse of the awareness number... you cannot be aware inside the mind.

  • 24. the percentage of input that gets through to you. This number is a combination of your awareness number and your coachability number.

  • 25. How inspired can you become? And what level are you now... This number shows your intrinsic/internal motivation. The energy you have available after all the having to, needing to, wanting to and should. The more the shoulds drive you, the less you are willing to change.

As you can see, it is quite predictable how effective coaching and guidance can be for you.


What is the bottom line?

The more tethered your consciousness is to where it"s at, the less you can change what you see and the less willing you"ll be to say something different about what you see.

The Playground program is entirely dedicated to altering "occurrence".

We cannot change what happened, but when seen as a separate action, we can change what we say about it.

How successful you"ll be in that program depends on your fixed mindset that keeps what you react to the same.

This is ultimately the most important indicator of your life satisfaction: to what degree you have control over your life.

The degree of flexibility you have about what you say about things.

Positive thinking is a bastardized version of this: it is not about positive or negative: you cannot reduce life to two colors and be happy and effective in life.


The more colors you have in your palette, the more ways you can see, interpret, explain, the more creativity you have available for yourself in seeing things that are real, the more power you have over your life.

At this point you probably have one, maybe two ways... The job is to have many.

Reality: collective hunch at best. This means: we don"t know what things mean.


Will Durant historian said: unless you are able to see 500 years before and 500 years after, you have no idea what it means that this happened or that happened.

I have a 70 year perspective on the happenings in my life. My interpretation of the events in my life have gone through hundreds of re-evaluation, although in the beginning, just like you, I had very rusted hinges on the door to change.

The swinging of the door, frequently, removes the rust. And you can become all you can be.


You hope you can become all you can be without changing your mind about things that you have a strong opinion.

Dream on... it is not possible.

Unless what you see changes, you cannot change, and your life cannot change.

The person who you are now cannot and will not do well, will not accomplish what you desire, no matter how real it looks in your imagination.
In fact, that imagination is what keeps you stuck...

Been there done that! the fixed mindset and how it prevents you from changing yourself and your life...

How the notes you take, the stories you tell, put blinders on you and prevent you from growing...

As a coach, I will send you back to the same book, the same video a number of times. My intention is that you watch it... But some students won"t watch it again, they go to their notes, and read them instead. In their mind they say: I have done that... I know! And they kill their chance to see how much they have grown, and their chance to allow their consciousness to see something different.

This is the same mechanism that your stories remain the same. You say the same thing at age 50 as what you said at age six. If the stories you tell remain the same, then be sure: you have remained the same.

http://evp-50116959de4b9-dd521b5ed563ee25508422182c681a30.s3.amazonaws.com/story-you-tell.mp4

Telling what happened the same way is the most important way fixed mindset manifests.

Fixed mindset violates the adage: you can"t step in the same river twice...

The well translated (from Greek) quote is "“No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it’s not the same river and he’s not the same man.”

If you think that the river is the same, or if you think you are the same, you have a fixed mindset. And even if you have changed, you won"t know... you will not allow what you consciously see become different.

What do I mean?

The seed level on which I base my coaching is that the basis of your existence is what you see. It gives you the second part of the "occurrence", what you perceive happens, and your actions will be in a perfect correlation, in a perfect dance with what you see: the occurrence.

So my job, as a "change agent", a coach, is to use what I have available to myself, as tools to change what you see, the occurrence.

The "thing" you look at can be life, events, other people, and yourself.

I am rarely able to change the reality part of occurrence (occurrence=reality+what you say about it), but more often than not, that has already happened, so I can only change the "what you say about it" part, that is, depending on the level of your fixed mindset, can change a little bit or a lot.

When occurrence thus changes, your further actions and what you say about life, yourself, can change.

That is the whole secret of growth, that is the whole secret of coaching, that is the whole secret of self-actualization.

I bring the new angle of looking, I bring the speaking.

Your job is to come around and look from the new angle, to allow YOUR speaking to change.

It sounds easy, but there are obstacles, sticky hinges...

Occurrence is like a door than swings on sticky hinges. The stickier the hinges the less willing the door will be to swing, and the more likely it will automatically return to its original position when you are not looking.

So what makes the hinges sticky?

We"ll look at it through the starting point measurements.
  • 1. your vibration (1-1000): Your vibration is a combo number that tells me from what height and with what accuracy you look at reality. When this is a low number, your height and accuracy will be lacking, and you will listen to what I say as my opinion, my good idea, but you actually won"t be able to see it yourself.

  • 2. your overall intelligence, emotional, intellectual, spiritual, body, relationship, etc.: This is also a combination number, that grades your aptitude to see reality in different areas of life and respond accurately. This number is a percentage, instead of the vibration number, which is a logarithmic number. Your overall intelligence shows a percentage: to what degree you can work with what you have, instead of comparing you to other people.

    If you don"t have much to work with, but you use what you have brilliantly, your overall intelligence can be a high number. But most people "sport" a really low number, meaning that they have a lot of room to grow.

  • 3. the number of spiritual capacities you have: There are 160 spiritual capacities hardwired in your DNA. They are dormant, inactive, unusable in most people. They will turn on when you actually do things, regularly, that need them.

    Most people never do anything regularly that turns on capacities. This number is a very reliable indicator of a fixed mindset: you see yourself unchanged, and unchangeable: fixed, and you refuse to do things you are not already suited for.

  • 4. your soul correction (your machine): There are soul corrections that are more fixed mindset than others https://www.yourvibration.com/sc

  • 5. do you have attachments? Attachments can be so irritating, or so "leash-like" that you have no mind to spare for change. this is true to all attachment-like phenomena: placed on you by a malicious person, your soul fragments you denied, your base belief about yourself, or the "anchor to doom" around which you circle the drain. I talk about these somewhere else.

  • 6. the level of your health (1-100): The higher your health number, the more energy you have above mere survival... so this number directly influences how fixed is your few: survival mode, scarcity mode is a fixed view of the world and yourself.

  • 7. the level of your cell hydration (1-100): Same as the health number.

  • 8. your relationship to feedback and instruction: Of course, if your attitude to input is that it"s judgment, right/wrong, an attack, you won"t allow feedback and instruction to move you and move the door... This is a very significant reason most people cannot and will not grow.

  • 9. The level of discomfort you are willing to allow w/o trying to fix it. This is your TLB score... Growth, change are inherently scary. It is natural to be afraid. You will have a hard time allowing yourself to go with change and even if you change, this is the force that returns the door to the original position where life was comfortable and you didn"t have to feel discomfort.

  • 10. The size of your vocabulary: the number of words you can use accurately: This is a filter that causes you to not hear, not see anything that you haven"t already seen and decided about. If this number doesn"t change during your coaching, I know that I am failing. It"s hard work to raise this number. Reading and pondering changes it. Pondering is connecting the dots of reality differently than before. Busy people don"t ponder. They chase the next thing to do: no pondering.

  • 11. To what degree you think of yourself: This is the inverse humility number. If you have yourself in the center of the filter through with you look at events, things to do, reality, you can see that your view cannot change, because consciousness is fixed, anchored, and the view of life cannot change. This is the most important number that determines to what degree your door can open or not.

  • 12. % of fixed mindset: This is a combo number, and in my experience isn"t an accurate representation of your willingness you change your mind.

  • 13. Ambition: A higher ambition number indicates a higher willingness to make changes, and to actually invest energy into making things happen

  • 14. Desire: A high desire number indicates a desire trap. As with any trap, this number shows in reverse how far you are willing to go from the fixed view of life to get what you want. A high desire number indicates blinders.

  • 15. Degree of inauthenticity overall: Inauthenticity is the distance between your public self and your real self. The more you want to be seen as, the better, the more this acts as a barrier to growth, an barrier to change, a barrier to becoming. Without changing the environment, the people for whose sake you pretend, this number is quite fixed. Moving house, moving town, changing friends, changing jobs, may be necessary: very few people will be willing for that.

  • 16. Level of integrity 1-100: This number is very strongly correlated with the inauthenticity number.

  • 17. how enslaved are you to memes? (what percentage of your life is run by memes?) Memes act as the opposite of grease... the higher this number the more sticky, rusted hinges will behave.

  • 18. do you have a bridge between your precious "I" and your actual I? What is your level of delusion... The higher this number the more you"ll protect the Precious "I", the fake self, and the less you"ll be willing to change.

  • 19. To what degree you have access to your adult capacities. this is the inverse number that shows to what degree you"ve been willing to change the stories you tell.

  • 20. How teachable/how coachable are you? The higher this number is the more you are willing to allow your consciousness to go where the coach is taking it.

  • 21. The level of your awareness? if this number is low, you won"t notice that you are taken to places that are different. You will step into the same river every time.

  • 23. the percentage of time you spend in the mind: This number is the inverse of the awareness number... you cannot be aware inside the mind.

  • 24. the percentage of input that gets through to you. This number is a combination of your awareness number and your coachability number.

  • 25. How inspired can you become? And what level are you now... This number shows your intrinsic/internal motivation. The energy you have available after all the having to, needing to, wanting to and should. The more the shoulds drive you, the less you are willing to change.

As you can see, it is quite predictable how effective coaching and guidance can be for you.


What is the bottom line?

The more tethered your consciousness is to where it"s at, the less you can change what you see and the less willing you"ll be to say something different about what you see.

The Playground program is entirely dedicated to altering "occurrence".

We cannot change what happened, but when seen as a separate action, we can change what we say about it.

How successful you"ll be in that program depends on your fixed mindset that keeps what you react to the same.

This is ultimately the most important indicator of your life satisfaction: to what degree you have control over your life.

The degree of flexibility you have about what you say about things.

Positive thinking is a bastardized version of this: it is not about positive or negative: you cannot reduce life to two colors and be happy and effective in life.


The more colors you have in your palette, the more ways you can see, interpret, explain, the more creativity you have available for yourself in seeing things that are real, the more power you have over your life.

At this point you probably have one, maybe two ways... The job is to have many.

Reality: collective hunch at best. This means: we don"t know what things mean.


Will Durant historian said: unless you are able to see 500 years before and 500 years after, you have no idea what it means that this happened or that happened.

I have a 70 year perspective on the happenings in my life. My interpretation of the events in my life have gone through hundreds of re-evaluation, although in the beginning, just like you, I had very rusted hinges on the door to change.

The swinging of the door, frequently, removes the rust. And you can become all you can be.


You hope you can become all you can be without changing your mind about things that you have a strong opinion.

Dream on... it is not possible.

Unless what you see changes, you cannot change, and your life cannot change.

The person who you are now cannot and will not do well, will not accomplish what you desire, no matter how real it looks in your imagination.
In fact, that imagination is what keeps you stuck...

Saturday, September 22, 2018

Remove just one attitude... and your happiness will grow 60%

The only effective method to make something work is to remove, little by little, all the things that make it not work, or not work as well as it could.

This is true in every area of life.

So what can be removed?



Attitudes are the number one, and the highest return on investment kind of things to remove.

Your attitudes are mostly invisible to you, because they feel like the truth, or the right way to be to get what you want.

All attitudes sit on words... world view words, that are invisible to you. They are a "given"... an "of course"... like the air you breathe.

You see other people"s attitudes but not your own.

Here is an attitude, but attitudes is a veritable mountain:

Entitled


Entitled... I should have it, because (and your main world view comes here.) I deserve it. They owe me... It"s only fair...

This attitude is what robs you of earning what you want in life. You consider that your parents, your employers, your spouse, your children, society, the country owes you, and therefore you should have it.

I have never met a person who, on some level, didn"t have this attitude.

60% of all unhappiness would disappear from the world, if this attitude disappeared.

The essence of this attitude is that you don"t interact with reality, for you X is not X...


The unreality you interact is a should-be-reality, and not how it is.

People should treat you in a certain way. You should be in a certain way. You should and they should and it should... and, of course you don"t, and they don"t, and it doesn"t... and so you are disappointed, disgusted, offended, sad, angry, violent, spewing...

You see how this leads to unhappiness.

The unhappiest countries" citizens feel the most entitlement. And the trend is that the unhappiness grows, worldwide.


Entitlement is a delusional aberration... Aberration is a departure from what is normal, usual, or expected, typically one that is unwelcome. Using the Anna Karenina principle we are endeavoring to remove what doesn"t get us what we want, happiness, for example.

I used to call this technique the Michelangelo Method, because we are removing everything that is not the you who can have health, wealth, love and fulfillment. But I think the Anna Karenina Principle method is easier to see.

Of course people do all kinds of stuff to get what they want.

The biggest desire is to have control over your life.

But the overwhelming feeling of people is that they don"t have control over their lives... As if you were entitled to have control of your life.


Everyone whats life to change, circumstances to change, the "other" to change... and no one considers that they can change their attitude, how much control they have over their attitude.

This morning I watched two videos on youtube, one was about men who want to grow taller, and are willing to go through extremely painful treatment. Hm.

The other was a compilation of episodes of a British show, Supernanny.


In that show this Supernanny works with families who have problems with their children. Children who without this intervention, in my humble opinion, will grow up to become criminals. ((
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DO-xS6TACvY
))

Depending on the country, the frequency of such families differs. The correlation between the attitude "entitled" and the parents failure to have a manageable, harmonious upbringing to their children is undeniable.

Happy people don"t become criminals. Happy people don"t lie, don"t steal, their entitlement level is low.


Obviously there are levels and there are levels.

To some degree we all feel entitled... You expect life to become better and easier. You expect to increase your fulfillment, your life satisfaction every year. You expect life to become easier.

To the degree you have these expectations, to the same level you are unhappy.

The attitude of entitlement and the attitude of "if it is to be it is up to me" are negatively correlated. The less expectations you have, the more you are willing to do what it takes to get what you want.


To EARN IT.

Physically, financially, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.

Most people are so alien to "if it is to be it is up to me", they can"t even come up with ways to grow in all those five aspects of life.

And even myself, when I observe myself, I find myself entitled, expecting life, business, to treat me well, because... because why? Because it would be only fair? Because I work for humanity?

The faster I snap out of it and attend to what I need to do, the faster I"ll earn what I want... and drop the attitude of entitlement.

People who visit my site on any given day are MORE entitled than the rest of the population.


Why? Because of all the teachings about spirituality and manifestation, they think they have done the work they needed to do, and now it is the Universe"s turn to give them what they want.

Not useful work, not effective, productive work, not the kind of work that makes you earn what you want... no, not that.

So when they read my articles, or get their Starting Point Measurements from me, they are furious. They are mad at me.


But they are not bad people.

When something isn"t working, it is time to stop and consider that what you know that you based your actions on, your "knowledge" isn"t true. It is time to do time-out and retool, re-design, and do something true and tried.

Something with a lot higher truth value than what you have been doing.
  • You see, my teaching"s truth value is 70%. Filtered through your low vocabulary, filtered through your unexamined beliefs, filtered through your living in the mind behavior, you"ll get 7% truth.

  • While, when you read the 7% truth value stuff you tend to read or listen to, with the same filters, you get "knowledge", answers that have a less than 1% truth value.


Tragic, if you ask me. And a very poor investment of your time and money.

So, if this article woke you up, you are one in every 15 people. Nice.


So if you are the small minority of my readers, what should you do?

Should you buy some activator? Maybe... on condition that you learn first how to actually use it... so you don"t waste your money by feeling entitled that the energy works without your input!
This coming Wednesday I"ll have a free webinar answering questions, and teaching you the attitude and actions that will get you the most out of my Avatar State Activator audios.

They can raise your vibration with a little help from you to the level where you can actually start seeing reality and start taking actions consistent with how reality is, instead of how it should be.

The session starts at 4 pm NY time, and I will stay on the call as long as there are questions.

I will record the call, and then make this an ever-green webinar... So if the time doesn"t work, you won"t miss it completely.

I am planning of offering something special to the people who are on the call live, that won"t be available through the recording.

The webinar is for subscribers only... So when you register, your email will be added, automatically to my mailing list.

Here is the link to register in the webinar or the replay
Register in the upcoming webinar

I"ll do my best to make it fun in addition to being educational.

Thursday, September 20, 2018

Feelings, emotions... if you could just feel better! How to increase your emotional intelligence?

We talk about feelings and emotions as if they were the same...

But they aren"t... And like with everything, on the current level of humanity we have a really hard time holding it together, and even hope for a life that is bearable.

But with knowledge can come power... and that is what I am offering in this article. ((I read some of Aristotle"s stuff. Honestly, I was just looking for his stuff on logic... reasoning, but what i found is his writing on the human body.

I had no idea, and had never given a thought about what people thought about how our bodies work thousands of years ago.

I was stunned. They thought the heart was the brain. That breathing was the soul... or the spirit... In Hungarian the words still reflect this level of truth value... less than 1%.

So suddenly it made sense to me how little we know, and how sure we are in our knowledge... wrongly.

The current level of knowledge, truth value, is 7%. Pitifully low. And we think we know everything. We live like we know everything. And the 7% is the level of scientists! Your level is still in the stone ages! yuk.))

Self-actualization, self-realization means: becoming the best you.

And the definition of good (according to Robert Hartman) is: that which fulfills completely its purpose.

One main area of life where we have been living in a dense fog is feelings.




The establishment of the "science" of psychology hasn"t helped, in fact it just made the fog deeper.

Why? because on the root level (think Tree!) nothing was revealed until a couple of years ago when a Hungarian engineer decided that it is time to approach this fog with the engineers understanding of dynamics... and he did a bang up job... meaning, an amazing job.

Margoczi writes:
On feelings, in a completely different way...
The fact that I can explain why Phineas P Gage used foul language may be interesting only to a few neurologists or psychologists at best.

My statement that Descartes"s famous saying "Cogito ergo sum", i.e. "I think, therefore I am" should be modified to "Sentio ergo sum", i.e. "I feel, therefore I am" will give a real headache only to a few philosophers.

"Okay, but then why should simple mortals read this book?" you may ask.

Because it can help you find your way in the world, one of the many individual worlds, but the only world that exists for you as well: the world of feelings – the world of your feelings.

Until his book we only had books that made absolutely no difference...

And this Freud quote had a 50% truth value for everyone...
The life imposed on us is too hard for us to bear: it brings too much pain, too many disappointments, too many insoluble problems. If we are to endure it, we cannot do without palliative measures. ... Of such measures there are perhaps three kinds: powerful distractions, which cause us to make light of our misery, substitutive satisfactions, which diminish it, and intoxicants, which anaesthetize us to it.

If you observed yourself (you probably don"t) you would see that this is true for you.

But why?

Our inner world, feelings, emotions, are impossible to have any power over, until you actually have some distinctions, until you actually can tell your ass from your elbow, and in this regard humanity is at a 7% truth value.


Everything biologists, geneticists, pharmacists, psychologists, medical doctors tell you has a maximum of 7% truth value, whether it is about what ails you, what you should eat, how you should live.

No clarity, no idea!

The man with one eye leads the blind, the blind leads the blind
If the blind lead the blind, both will fall into a pit

and this has been our reality...

But the Hungarian engineer"s book has clarified a huge part of the fog. With regards to feelings and emotions the Feelings/Words book combo has brought up our knowledge"s truth value to 50%

Regarding humanity"s well being, this is more significant than Einstein"s discovery.


Now, why is this not felt in the world?

Many of my students have read the books, and yet they are not much more powerful with their inner world... but why? What is missing that if it were there, they would have a lot more power?

I am going to point to the most controversial, the most argued measurement in my Starting Point Measurements: your clarity score.

You can"t match words with feelings and/or emotions accurately: this is why I said: you can"t tell your ass from your elbow.


You don"t have an accurate vocabulary.

Once you do: life can open up for you and become your oyster.

So how do you increase your vocabulary about feelings?

I don"t know. I can only tell you how I did it:

I used the Bach Flower Remedies as my teachers. And when I became good at them, knowing how each of those feelings/emotions felt and where, and how they moved, I asked Source to duplicate them, so I don"t need the drops any more...

Now, I am a true empath. Without going through the study of the Bach Flower Remedies, I would NOT be a TRUE empaths... and between you and me, an empath is a dime a dozen, while a TRUE empath is rare.

Why? Because you are born with empathy, but only work makes you a TRUE empath, or a true anything, really.

Anyway, how did I study the Bach Flower Remedies?


Each plant, each remedy represents a negative feeling, a bad feeling, a restrictive, unpleasant, blockage creating feeling.

Each is associated with a word or a few words. Also each plant has a story, a behavior pattern in its natural habitat.

Hundreds upon hundreds of pages of original writing, and thousands of second-hand writings...

I am not going to suggest that you try duplicate my efforts. Especially because you have a natural inclination to avoid bad feelings...
But I am going to suggest that you pick a few of your frequent bad feelings, and try to approach them analytically, with the intention to identify them accurately, and when succeeding at naming them, take them through the idea that all emotions are marker feelings.

Marker feelings is a concept invented by Margoczi, the Hungarian engineer.

The concept is that certain words are reliably coupled with certain negative feelings. It"s individual, it comes from the culture of your family, schooling, society, religion, etc. We can say: words trigger emotions.
  • Most of you have a harsh reaction to the idea of "wrong"... I have only a tiny blip in my stomach.

  • Worthless is a word that is strongly coupled for me with the need to kill myself.


Your words, your trigger words are, in my humble opinion, are very consistent with your soul correction.

When you increase your accurate vocabulary, your power over your life, your emotional states increases exponentially.

Even just adding one word can double your well-being, if that word is a dominant negative emotion.

For me, the first such word was: "I am personally offended"... I recognized it from the turned down corners of my mouth... And I could see how ridiculous that was to take everything so personally.

I haven"t felt that way for a long time now...

This morning I felt resentful. I felt imposed upon. I resented the way LIFE is treating me.


Once I identified the emotion, I could say: my resentment secretly says that life, reality should be different than it is... But that very moment I snapped out of it, because life, reality, is always the way it is, and my power comes from interacting with reality the way reality is, not how I think it should be. Duh.

Later I felt reluctant... and did a look and see what I must have said about what I was not wanting to do... writing this article... lol... I probably said: a waste of time! ugh.

All emotions are marker feelings. Fear, anxiety, worry, trepidation, stinginess, holding back, hate, regret, guilt, shame... all of them. How many feelings are there? About as many as the energies in my "famed" Heaven on Earth, the bundle of Bach Flower Energies®

40.

We have more words than 40, but only those 40 are a perfect match to the emotions.

Most people have access to about seven... The more you have access to, the more you"ll enjoy reading fiction, the more access you"ll have to good feelings... but you have what you have.

Your job, if you want to move to a higher level of life, need to gain power, or better said: pull back your power from those pesky words that make you miserable.

This is not to say: replace them with a positive word. That theory doesn"t hold water. That theory is to turn you into sheep.

No, what you need to do is discredit the words. Like I discredited the two words creating the two feelings, resentment and offended.

With an intelligent conversation.

One of the programs I actively help you to do that is the Playground. I am ready to start a women only group. Why keep men and women separately? Because men are from Mars and women are from Venus... they can be considered separate species, as far as the Playground method goes.

I am flexible with regards to starting times... 7 am on... I have one woman enrolled, she is in the UK...

Use https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/meetingtime.html to see if you have compatible times with her.

Then write to me... I am flexible, but she isn"t... so best to first.

Once you are cleared, here is the button to register



If you"d rather have private conversations with me on identifying and eliminating your triggered emotions, please contact me so I can decide if I can produce the results for you. Email is best. contact me

Why you are not confident... Why you don"t trust yourself... Why you aren"t happy...

self-confidenceI watch, I observe people"s behavior and the emotions that go with it.

Unless I can see what you did, your emotions and much of your behavior don"t make sense.

And occasionally I get the opportunity to see both the actions and the emotions...

  1. The most frequent behavior is you acting without looking.


    Much like a drunk jumps into an empty pool... expecting it to be full.

    You buy something. You are on the payment page. You assume you know what"s there... you are not looking. You don"t even suspect that you are singing up to a monthly program as well... and that you need to "un-tick" that if you don"t want it.



    How do I know? Nine of you "accidentally" and unknowingly signed up to Tai"s premium monthly program.

    I remember a month ago when I bought my 67-steps... I carefully looked before I paid. Sometimes swimming pools are empty... and if you assume they are full... you hurt yourself.

    Another example when you buy something on my site and you don"t wait to be taken to your purchase. The text on the page, small letters, says: wait until we redirect you to your purchase.

    Result: I have to manually add you to the site so you can get your purchase.

    I do it, begrudgingly, because I"d like students and clients who are awake, aware, and conscious.

    Your results in life are very consistent with your level of awareness...

  2. be confident with who you are, warts and all

    The second most frequent behavior is lying.


    I know it"s a word you don"t want to hear. The word lying has two meanings: telling something that is not true, and to rest horizontally in bed, for example. In American English, people stopped using the word even for the second action: they say "lay" instead, which means "make lie"...

    Why do people lie?

    Because they can"t face the truth. Because courage is in the shortest supply... there is a courage deficiency.

    The second reason they lie, even to themselves, is that they don"t know that the payment for a lie is intense unhappiness.

    civilizations-and-its-discontentsI am reading Freud"s essay, Civilizations and its discontents. It"s not an easy read... It"s Freud"s investigation into what makes humanity unhappy. What makes happiness impossible.

    Civilization wants to curtail humans" freedom to live by their instincts (sex, anger, hate, etc.) and makes it impossible for humans to live at peace with themselves.

    Humans, you, feel what you feel, have urges that you have, and then lie about it, even to yourself.

    Yesterday I had a conversation with someone whose soul correction is "Removing Hatred".

    He doesn"t seem angry, or full of hate, but at the same time he is not happy, he is further and further away from what he"d like to accomplish in his life.

    He cannot see, but until he makes peace with his own human urge to hate when he hates, he will never accomplish anything worth accomplishing in his life.

    And he will feel unhappy.

    I shared that I have flares of hate when I see you, my readers, my students, do the things you do: not be aware.

    Anger, hate, are like lightening... 2-3 seconds max... except when they are suppressed.
    When I was three years old, I remember lying awake in my bed, pondering why I wasn"t allowed to go to my baby sister"s funeral.

    She was going to be my knight in shining armor: the one that will love me in a world where nobody loved me.

    I decided that it is because I killer her. A three year old"s logic is hard to follow, but it is logic nevertheless.

    I never even visited her in the hospital during her 10 days struggle to live... she was a preemie like myself.

    But I KNEW that I killed her, I killed her with my anger. I KNEW...

    So, obviously, I started to suppress my anger from that point on. You suppress anything, you have to suppress everything.

    I don"t remember joy, I don"t remember happiness, I only remember anger and hate. They haunted me in my dreams.

    When I was 34 I read a book on how to release anger. That was after I had been hospitalized for depression three times...

    It took me another 20 years to clear the anger from my system, so when anger or hate comes, it is new... and not overwhelming.

    Suppressing a natural instinct makes you feel like you are sitting on a bomb... paralyzing.


    Expressing a natural instinct after it"s suppressed is dangerous: it may make you kill someone.

    The job is to gently and diligently release it from its prison... and to make the natural instinct, sexual, or aggression, ok to feel, ok to express, but redirect.

    I have redirected sexual energy most of my life, energy can be redirected... it"s like the energy of the river can be destructive, or it can create electricity... humans can do it.

    In the conversation, yesterday, when I spoke of my hate, my "Removing Hatred" friend tried to stop me and correct me: you didn"t hate them, you hated the behavior... he tried to dull the edge of my statement.

    Hell, I hate you for all of two seconds when you do something stupid. Can you be with that?

    People don"t hate behavior, they hate the perpetrator. Ask any dog... they attack you, even though it"s what you did they don"t like.

    If you won"t start cleaning up your act, and start allowing your aggression and your sex to be felt, you can"t even redirect it.

    You have to suppress it, lie about it, and be unhappy, as surely as that everybody has to die.

    Now, looking at the questions I ask in the title: who would trust a certified liar?

    My "Removing Hatred" friend is an underachiever, because he can"t trust himself, because he is a liar.

    Deliberate action is the hallmark of achievers. Your haste to close the page after paying, your haste to click the payment button, instead of checking if you are paying for what you think you are paying for, is a sign that you are a liar.

    I catch myself, once in a while, do the same.


    I don"t think I am stupid. I think I am a liar... and start looking what I am lying about. Where my integrity am out. I look until I find it. Sometimes it takes days... but I always find it, and then proceed to tell the truth about it.

    More often than not I promised to do something, and I am not doing it... currently the zenify my house project... I stopped being in action about it...

    Time to restart... Today is a good day for that.



Related post: https://www.yourvibration.com/16447/you-are-a-liar/

PS:

The nature of your suppression, the nature of your lies seems to be consistent with your soul correction.


You should get intimately familiar with your machine encoded in your soul correction.

Example: my soul correction is "Forget Thyself" and it is needing to be superior, thought of as superior and faultless.

Last week I bought something that today smelled funny. I muscle tested and although it would not make me sick... yet, muscle test says: don"t eat it.

I was looking to return it, but, I think, it was my fault: the thing was on sale, probably because it was expiring... I bought it nevertheless.

So I am just going to throw it away... it allows me to still look superior and faultless... Do you see the machine in action?

On the other hand, my friends who are "Speak your mind" soul correction (25) will buy stuff and return it a week later for a refund, even thought the thing was perishable and would not last a week... and it was obvious already in the store. They didn"t miss it... no, they like to think of themselves as people who take care of themselves... preferably at someone else"s expense.

What would your soul correction make you do in similar situation?

Wednesday, September 19, 2018

Stop Wanting and Start Having...

Everyone wants stuff, it seems we live in the age of wanting. Strong wanting. Desperate wanting. All consuming wanting. ((The entire paradigm of manifesting and law of attraction paradigm uses it to make money for the "teachers", experts, writers, youtube broadcasters.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L6pfCE_NkNM

))

Billionaire Charlie Munger says: Everybody wants the good life but not everybody gets the good life. “To get what you want, you have to deserve (earn!) what you want. The world is not yet a crazy enough place to reward a whole bunch of undeserving people.”

And deserving is being at the right place at the right time with the right attitude, doing the things that earns the stuff you want. Health, wealth, love, and happiness.

Earning it.


If I asked you what you do to earn what you want, you would say "nothing," or you would say "I do this and that."

...and when I ask you: how much of this and that do you do, timewise? we would find out that mostly you just think about it. Fantasize about it.

I remember as a child I fantasized a lot about how I was going to spend the million bucks I win on the lottery. My brother is not a child (he is 65) but he still does exactly that...

For years I supported him and his family, financially, and he never appreciated it. Why? Not because he is a bad person, and he may be a bad person... My contribution paled in comparison to the millions he fantasized about.

He wanted millions, and he was unhappy with my meager contribution to him... like 90% of humanity. 90% in the same trap. The technical term for that wanting is "the desire trap".

We live in an age of wanting, we live in the age of the Desire Trap.


You don"t even know what you would have to do, how much and with what attitude to actually earn what you want. Your wanting is just that... a gnawing dissatisfaction, with zero foundation in reality.

Life can be lived on two distinct planes (paradigms), the horizontal plane and the vertical plane.

Wanting keeps you squarely on the horizontal plane, the Valley of The Shadow of Death... every day you get one day closer to death, you are in a hurry, to avoid death, to avoid pain, to avoid discomfort, to avoid getting older.

You even do spirituality on the horizontal plane. You act how you think spirituality is... or should be.


Here is an email showing what I mean:
I see Orbs with me all the time, my outdoor cameras capture amazing Light Beings, since April I am able to feel the vibration from crystals and before that I feel vibrations from trees, especially if they are really old. At times I can feel their emotions. Wild cats come to me especially when I am sad or vibrating high.

Or your health:
I am very healthy and do not contract cold/flu. I"ve been sick once in the last few years. My skin is glowing. My hair lustrous. My skin on my body very soft to the touch. I am 42 but look much younger. I"m lean and fit. My body does not look it"s age or even close to my age.

Could you please explain this to me?

None of it is what spirituality or health on the vertical plane are.

On the vertical plane you see rightly. You see reality the way reality is, no distortions. No preconcieved notions. No Tree of Knowledge second-hand knowledge. You see.


Your wanting, on the horizontal plane, acts as a distortion filter what narrows your cone of vision, and blurs your vision.
If you want to deserve what you want, the good life, or any component of it, you need to get first to the vertical plane where you can see rightly, where you can have the right attitude.

Seeing rightly allows you to see where you are. See it with sober eyes, and see how from where you are you can get to where you want to get to.

It may take one action, it may take a million, but you"ll be able to see some actions that will, at least, take you to a place closer to where you want to be.

None of this is visible on the horizontal plane. And that means that every single action you take, or plan to take on the horizontal plane is misdirected. Based on a distorted view of reality, a distorted view of yourself as well.
  • One of the distortions is that you are better than you are.

  • Another is that it can be fast, maybe even instant... And when you believe that, when reality will look as if it supported that distorted view, you"ll do things that are designed to cause instant results.


Prayer, incantation, energy healing, schemes, goalsetting, vision boards, mind movies.

Some of those actually work on the vertical plane... but they never work instantly... because the nature of reality is that everything is a process.

Now, if you wanted to do what is the most expeditious action to get you what you want, your first step would be to get yourself in the position where you can see what is real, and act from there.

I have a bunch of short energy audios you can play in the background, looping, called Avatar State Activators.

They carry you onto the vertical plane as long as you consciously work with the energy.


I, for example play the Abundance Generator audio in my office. It has the audible birds in the meadow recording combined with the energy audio.

I am present to the audio, to the birds a few minutes in a normal day, and present and co-creative with the energy even less than that.

I asked one of my students how long he hears the audio. He told me he turns it on for a few minutes a day, the rest of the time he uses the speaker for something else.

And even when he hears the birds (he bought the Abundance Generator as well) he is not actively helping the energy to lift him to the vertical plane.

Joel Salatin says: I don"t mind carrying a man but I don"t want him dragging his feet... The co-creative energy is the same way: it will do half of the work, and your cooperation, your mindset, your attention will do the other half.


On the horizontal plane you expect everything to work without your input. If you bring that same attitude to getting to the vertical plane, to listening to the Avatar state activator audio. Your attitude is dragging your feet.

In my coaching methodology I only pay attention to the actions, attitudes, behaviors that keep you away from the heaven you seek.

And clarifying your vision, your target. Because without a vision, without a target to move towards, you are still dragging your feet.

Without a target you"ll be busy, but will go nowhere.


I am always suspicious of busy people. Busy-ness covers up that you don"t know where you are going, that you are scared to set a target, or that you just want excitement.

Even on the vertical plane it takes time for the eyes to see clearly, and to know what you are seeing. How do I know? I am observing myself, my eyes, and my own experience.

Obviously I don"t go to the cave of my mind to see...

Targets, visions, created in the cave of the mind are not based on reality, neither the outer reality, nor your inner reality. They are dreams.


I do most of my looking and pondering of what I want to pick as a target either while talking to someone who knows something about what one needs to set a realistic target. About 10% of coaches can do that. The 90% is utterly clueless.

I once had a coach who created plans and targets for people that completely ignored reality, but baited them to stay and pay her the big bucks.

I have a student who is getting good at being a brainstorming partner with me: this may be the direction his life is moving... we shall see.

Having a conversation with someone who cannot see reality is not useful. Someone who lives fully on the horizontal plane...

I once, doing a project in a Landmark course, had a coach who was like a cheerleader... utterly useless.

In my accountability coaching I pair up people who work on this exact thing: observing reality, inner and outer, and experiment... Post their results daily, read my feedback, daily, and in a weekly conversation with each other, they go deeper, and can brainstorm.


That program, the accountability coaching is suitable only for people who make time to do the work it takes to get better, and get closer to their target.

Often the first target is to choose a direction, by the way. A target picked out of thin air is a mind-product: useless, and a false start. The target needs to come from your inner and outer reality... not from your head.

But in the accountability coaching you can test it... it will prove itself... or not.

And, as you interact with your accountability partner and me, DAILY!!!, your inner and outer reality is becoming easier and easier to see. Your eyes become sharper, and your actions become more and more in line with the direction you want to go.

How long does it take?

It"s a tricky question. In my experience,

unless I see your direction through the inner and outer reality your revealed in your posts and actions, I can"t help you get there.


This is the main reason I refuse to take on many new participants. The more stuff they talk about, I know that they less they will be willing to reveal their reality.

The distance between their real self and their precious "I" they want to shove under my nose, is too big.

It takes courage and WORK to bring the two selves closer, no energy by itself, no course by itself, no person by themselves will be able to do it for you.


If you live an inauthentic life, if your livelihood, marriage, social standing is entrenched in having a façade, I most likely won"t take you on as a client.

I don"t mind carrying a man, but I don"t want them to drag their feet.
When you want to maintain appearances, that is dragging your feet.

Only in fables, like Jesus and the two sets of footprints FABLE suggest that you can be taken to heaven... No. Someone can walk you to heaven, but you need to do the walking.

Bad news? Hey... there is more where this came from.

Now, what would I do if I were you?


  1. I would pick an avatar state activator audio (it activates the avatar state... aka the vertical plane) of any flavor you like.

  2. And start playing it in the background, Just don"t play it in your bedroom: it won"t let you sleep... the energy is too strong. In fact it is too strong for your brain... so don"t listen too closely, no headphones, please.

  3. Start learning how to lift your feet of the ground, so you don"t drag them. Get the hang of it... Feel the lifting power of the energy. It lifts you by your chest...

  4. And when lifted, start looking at your life, at yourself, at what you"d want even if it cost you much.

The more successful you are at this stage, the more suitable you become for coaching of any kind.


What do you need?
  1. You need to pick one focus for the audio... not two-three-four like many have done. ONE.

  2. You need a good quality speaker that you can power without any other instrument... computer audio won"t work too well for this.

  3. The audio needs to be on the speaker itself.

  4. And you need your willingness to work WITH the energy. Consider the energy a fireman, a Jesus, who wants to carry you to safety, but cannot do it without your participation. That is how I do it. I move my chest up... and that, reliably, starts the process. In fact it works just like a switch or a signal...


I do that with every energy audio I have, by the way.

No energy does what it is designed to do without your conscious participation. This even includes the Dark Side energies that make you worry about what"s wrong... and that acts as a signal... from that point on the energy carries you where it was designed to carry you.


Heaven and Hell are real... Don"t kid yourself. Please.

OK, what"s next?

You can get the Abundance Generator Avatar State Activator here:


What can you expect from using this audio the way I explained above?

The Avatar State Activator Audio can pull you, like a vortex, onto the vertical plane where your intentions, your vibration, your attitude harmonizes themselves with making money.

While hearing and working with the audio on a freestanding speaker, not on headphones
  • You"ll be able to look at reality, yourself with sober eyes... to see what is realistic for you to do, what you can succeed at...

  • You"ll experience more affinity towards your work and will see how to make it more enjoyable

  • The audio will redirect your attention to behaviors and attitudes that are conducive to money

  • The audio will help you appreciate what you have, what you make, what is.

  • The audio, while you work with it, return you to a sense of power over yourself and over your life.


Instant access...



Or if you want to pick a different focus... here is the page with all the Avatar State Activatior Audios
Avatar State Activatior Audios

Stop Wanting and Start Having...

Everyone wants stuff, it seems we live in the age of wanting. Strong wanting. Desperate wanting. All consuming wanting. ((The entire paradigm of manifesting and law of attraction paradigm uses it to make money for the "teachers", experts, writers, youtube broadcasters.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L6pfCE_NkNM

))

Billionaire Charlie Munger says: Everybody wants the good life but not everybody gets the good life. “To get what you want, you have to deserve (earn!) what you want. The world is not yet a crazy enough place to reward a whole bunch of undeserving people.”

And deserving is being at the right place at the right time with the right attitude, doing the things that earns the stuff you want. Health, wealth, love, and happiness.

Earning it.


If I asked you what you do to earn what you want, you would say "nothing," or you would say "I do this and that."

...and when I ask you: how much of this and that do you do, timewise? we would find out that mostly you just think about it. Fantasize about it.

I remember as a child I fantasized a lot about how I was going to spend the million bucks I win on the lottery. My brother is not a child (he is 65) but he still does exactly that...

For years I supported him and his family, financially, and he never appreciated it. Why? Not because he is a bad person, and he may be a bad person... My contribution paled in comparison to the millions he fantasized about.

He wanted millions, and he was unhappy with my meager contribution to him... like 90% of humanity. 90% in the same trap. The technical term for that wanting is "the desire trap".

We live in an age of wanting, we live in the age of the Desire Trap.


You don"t even know what you would have to do, how much and with what attitude to actually earn what you want. Your wanting is just that... a gnawing dissatisfaction, with zero foundation in reality.

Life can be lived on two distinct planes (paradigms), the horizontal plane and the vertical plane.

Wanting keeps you squarely on the horizontal plane, the Valley of The Shadow of Death... every day you get one day closer to death, you are in a hurry, to avoid death, to avoid pain, to avoid discomfort, to avoid getting older.

You even do spirituality on the horizontal plane. You act how you think spirituality is... or should be.


Here is an email showing what I mean:
I see Orbs with me all the time, my outdoor cameras capture amazing Light Beings, since April I am able to feel the vibration from crystals and before that I feel vibrations from trees, especially if they are really old. At times I can feel their emotions. Wild cats come to me especially when I am sad or vibrating high.

Or your health:
I am very healthy and do not contract cold/flu. I"ve been sick once in the last few years. My skin is glowing. My hair lustrous. My skin on my body very soft to the touch. I am 42 but look much younger. I"m lean and fit. My body does not look it"s age or even close to my age.

Could you please explain this to me?

None of it is what spirituality or health on the vertical plane are.

On the vertical plane you see rightly. You see reality the way reality is, no distortions. No preconcieved notions. No Tree of Knowledge second-hand knowledge. You see.


Your wanting, on the horizontal plane, acts as a distortion filter what narrows your cone of vision, and blurs your vision.
If you want to deserve what you want, the good life, or any component of it, you need to get first to the vertical plane where you can see rightly, where you can have the right attitude.

Seeing rightly allows you to see where you are. See it with sober eyes, and see how from where you are you can get to where you want to get to.

It may take one action, it may take a million, but you"ll be able to see some actions that will, at least, take you to a place closer to where you want to be.

None of this is visible on the horizontal plane. And that means that every single action you take, or plan to take on the horizontal plane is misdirected. Based on a distorted view of reality, a distorted view of yourself as well.
  • One of the distortions is that you are better than you are.

  • Another is that it can be fast, maybe even instant... And when you believe that, when reality will look as if it supported that distorted view, you"ll do things that are designed to cause instant results.


Prayer, incantation, energy healing, schemes, goalsetting, vision boards, mind movies.

Some of those actually work on the vertical plane... but they never work instantly... because the nature of reality is that everything is a process.

Now, if you wanted to do what is the most expeditious action to get you what you want, your first step would be to get yourself in the position where you can see what is real, and act from there.

I have a bunch of short energy audios you can play in the background, looping, called Avatar State Activators.

They carry you onto the vertical plane as long as you consciously work with the energy.


I, for example play the Abundance Generator audio in my office. It has the audible birds in the meadow recording combined with the energy audio.

I am present to the audio, to the birds a few minutes in a normal day, and present and co-creative with the energy even less than that.

I asked one of my students how long he hears the audio. He told me he turns it on for a few minutes a day, the rest of the time he uses the speaker for something else.

And even when he hears the birds (he bought the Abundance Generator as well) he is not actively helping the energy to lift him to the vertical plane.

Joel Salatin says: I don"t mind carrying a man but I don"t want him dragging his feet... The co-creative energy is the same way: it will do half of the work, and your cooperation, your mindset, your attention will do the other half.


On the horizontal plane you expect everything to work without your input. If you bring that same attitude to getting to the vertical plane, to listening to the Avatar state activator audio. Your attitude is dragging your feet.

In my coaching methodology I only pay attention to the actions, attitudes, behaviors that keep you away from the heaven you seek.

And clarifying your vision, your target. Because without a vision, without a target to move towards, you are still dragging your feet.

Without a target you"ll be busy, but will go nowhere.


I am always suspicious of busy people. Busy-ness covers up that you don"t know where you are going, that you are scared to set a target, or that you just want excitement.

Even on the vertical plane it takes time for the eyes to see clearly, and to know what you are seeing. How do I know? I am observing myself, my eyes, and my own experience.

Obviously I don"t go to the cave of my mind to see...

Targets, visions, created in the cave of the mind are not based on reality, neither the outer reality, nor your inner reality. They are dreams.


I do most of my looking and pondering of what I want to pick as a target either while talking to someone who knows something about what one needs to set a realistic target. About 10% of coaches can do that. The 90% is utterly clueless.

I once had a coach who created plans and targets for people that completely ignored reality, but baited them to stay and pay her the big bucks.

I have a student who is getting good at being a brainstorming partner with me: this may be the direction his life is moving... we shall see.

Having a conversation with someone who cannot see reality is not useful. Someone who lives fully on the horizontal plane...

I once, doing a project in a Landmark course, had a coach who was like a cheerleader... utterly useless.

In my accountability coaching I pair up people who work on this exact thing: observing reality, inner and outer, and experiment... Post their results daily, read my feedback, daily, and in a weekly conversation with each other, they go deeper, and can brainstorm.


That program, the accountability coaching is suitable only for people who make time to do the work it takes to get better, and get closer to their target.

Often the first target is to choose a direction, by the way. A target picked out of thin air is a mind-product: useless, and a false start. The target needs to come from your inner and outer reality... not from your head.

But in the accountability coaching you can test it... it will prove itself... or not.

And, as you interact with your accountability partner and me, DAILY!!!, your inner and outer reality is becoming easier and easier to see. Your eyes become sharper, and your actions become more and more in line with the direction you want to go.

How long does it take?

It"s a tricky question. In my experience,

unless I see your direction through the inner and outer reality your revealed in your posts and actions, I can"t help you get there.


This is the main reason I refuse to take on many new participants. The more stuff they talk about, I know that they less they will be willing to reveal their reality.

The distance between their real self and their precious "I" they want to shove under my nose, is too big.

It takes courage and WORK to bring the two selves closer, no energy by itself, no course by itself, no person by themselves will be able to do it for you.


If you live an inauthentic life, if your livelihood, marriage, social standing is entrenched in having a façade, I most likely won"t take you on as a client.

I don"t mind carrying a man, but I don"t want them to drag their feet.
When you want to maintain appearances, that is dragging your feet.

Only in fables, like Jesus and the two sets of footprints FABLE suggest that you can be taken to heaven... No. Someone can walk you to heaven, but you need to do the walking.

Bad news? Hey... there is more where this came from.

Now, what would I do if I were you?


  1. I would pick an avatar state activator audio (it activates the avatar state... aka the vertical plane) of any flavor you like.

  2. And start playing it in the background, Just don"t play it in your bedroom: it won"t let you sleep... the energy is too strong. In fact it is too strong for your brain... so don"t listen too closely, no headphones, please.

  3. Start learning how to lift your feet of the ground, so you don"t drag them. Get the hang of it... Feel the lifting power of the energy. It lifts you by your chest...

  4. And when lifted, start looking at your life, at yourself, at what you"d want even if it cost you much.

The more successful you are at this stage, the more suitable you become for coaching of any kind.


What do you need?
  1. You need to pick one focus for the audio... not two-three-four like many have done. ONE.

  2. You need a good quality speaker that you can power without any other instrument... computer audio won"t work too well for this.

  3. The audio needs to be on the speaker itself.

  4. And you need your willingness to work WITH the energy. Consider the energy a fireman, a Jesus, who wants to carry you to safety, but cannot do it without your participation. That is how I do it. I move my chest up... and that, reliably, starts the process. In fact it works just like a switch or a signal...


I do that with every energy audio I have, by the way.

No energy does what it is designed to do without your conscious participation. This even includes the Dark Side energies that make you worry about what"s wrong... and that acts as a signal... from that point on the energy carries you where it was designed to carry you.


Heaven and Hell are real... Don"t kid yourself. Please.

OK, what"s next?

You can get the Abundance Generator Avatar State Activator here:


What can you expect from using this audio the way I explained above?

The Avatar State Activator Audio can pull you, like a vortex, onto the vertical plane where your intentions, your vibration, your attitude harmonizes themselves with making money.

While hearing and working with the audio on a freestanding speaker, not on headphones
  • You"ll be able to look at reality, yourself with sober eyes... to see what is realistic for you to do, what you can succeed at...

  • You"ll experience more affinity towards your work and will see how to make it more enjoyable

  • The audio will redirect your attention to behaviors and attitudes that are conducive to money

  • The audio will help you appreciate what you have, what you make, what is.

  • The audio, while you work with it, return you to a sense of power over yourself and over your life.


Instant access...



Or if you want to pick a different focus... here is the page with all the Avatar State Activatior Audios
Avatar State Activatior Audios

Tuesday, September 18, 2018

Overconfidence... do you screw up because of it? Or the opposite? lol

rushing to conclusionMy soul correction is "Forget Thyself".

One aspect of this soul correction is overconfidence. I have to invent tricks to counter it, but, from time to time, it creates hell in my life... like right now.

You know I have been working on this human biting mites, or said in another way: microscopic mites that bite humans, live on and in humans, torture humans; avoid detection, so doctors don"t know about them, blame chemicals, viruses, allergies, infections, etc. to cover up that they have no idea.


cost-overconfidence

unaware-unskilledWell, if I count how many times I was sure that I got the solution, only to see that a. it wasn"t a solution yet, b. that my solution made more trouble than I had before, c. to stop doing what I knew worked, and declared victory prematurely.

I could probably count more than there are fingers on my two hands.

Now, I am sure you say "thank god I am not like that" but you are probably kidding yourself: it is as human as anything, to jump into conclusions.

The art is not to never jump into conclusions. The art is to stay awake, stay aware, and admit the mistake. To go back to the drawing board, and continue looking, or to start all over again.

I told you I was a scientist by nature, and many scientists are this way. This is why of 135,000 pharmaceutical submissions a year, only a handful of medicines pass the muster...

So, if you are like me, jump into conclusion, know when you don"t... don"t try to change. Try to learn how to be someone who can make corrections.

tacking_drawingYou see the shortest distance between two points is a zig zag. Not on the drawing board, in real life.

1-1-1The easiest way to see this is sailing.

course-correctionIf you want to sail from point A to point B, listen up! is to first start moving.

sailing-straight-into-the-windA vessel that is not in motion cannot be directed at all. You need to make the vessel move, and then you can use the rudder... steering wheel, correction, whatever you want to call that "thing" that you operate to change directions.

So now the vessel is moving, so you change directions, and now the vessel is crossing the imaginary straight line between points A and B, but at least it"s moving. Now you can zig-zag your way to your goal, to your destination.

Most people are afraid to get started, because they don"t want to make a mistake. The don"t move, waffle, hesitate, plan some more, ask more advice, talk some more... because they can"t see that the only way to do anything is to start moving, start moving to the wrong direction. And be masterful at course-correction...

Of course, one of the reason people don"t want to start in the wrong direction, because they know that they get all busy doing the wrong thing: they know that they can"t keep a distance between themselves and the project: that they don"t have an active Observer.

They also know that they are so afraid that they will rub their nose into the thing... narrow cone of vision, losing perspective, losing the context, accidents, tragedies, losses result.

ALT_10.14.13But, for crying out loud, it is so easy to keep a distance! It is so easy to not get involved. It is so easy to stay aware, or at least put into your scheduler every 4-5 hours: "check where we are going! Make course corrections if necessary."

Between those that jump and quit, those that jump and go to hell, or those that never start... there are a few people, less than one percent, that actually enjoy "sailing", enjoy the zig-zag, enjoy the way life works, instead of hoping it will work differently.

Get to know yourself, both who you are that works, and what you do that doesn"t.

doubt-is-intelligentBut for that, ugh, you"ll have to keep your eyes open, and keep yourself at a slight distance, so you can see.

PS: You can be overconfident in yourself, in another, in what you read, in the Bible, in a method, in what somebody said... even in me. Don"t do it. It makes you stupid...

6-PerspectiveMy method of getting to the truth is called the Bumbling Idiot"s method... you keep on bumbling, with your eyes open, aware, paying attention to all the feedback, and you get to where you wanted to get. It"s not elegant, but it is very effective. You won"t impress... but your results will.

And, of course, the now customary video, that only loosely relates:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2gCsWjMLeeU