How to get out of your mind to reality where life happens?

Or how to unite your two selves so you can stop hating yourself, punishing yourself, and be happy inside and out

I had an insight this morning. I saw that every health issue I have ever had came from some idea, some thought, some teaching, not from my body.

Until age nine I was skinny. Then at that age I heard that whole grain is better for you... and I got promptly fat.

I have been hovering around 122 pounds when I heard from a student of mine about intermittent fasting. So I decided to do that. I promptly packed on three pounds. Nothing else changed...

All good ideas come from some mind, not your self. Your self is a lot smarter than you allow it to be. There is a separation between your mind and your real self. This article is to remove that separation, so you can be happy in all areas of life, physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually.

I have set a rule for myself recently... and of course I violated it promptly... The rule is: if it sounds like a good idea: let it be a good idea. And stick with what is working. And if you must, test it... But make the experiment short and sweet.

Of course, if your mind doesn"t know about your body, can"t feel your feelings, then this method will not work very well for you. Because you"ll look in your mind... and the mind is a lying machine.

Let me sneak in a little bit of teaching... Physics... ugh... I"ll make it easy on you. It"s about vibration... The vibration you claim you want to raise.

When a singer holds a certain high tone long enough, glasses vibrate and then shatter. One could say they got into vibrational harmony... and vibrational harmony makes the glass, a rigid object with tight molecular bonds, cannot be flexible enough, so it disintegrates.

Bridges... bridges are sensitive to vibration, because bridges, with its arches, are like the string of a violin, have an innate vibrational point, that if matched, the amplitude of the vibration starts to grow, and eventually may collapse the bridge.

Stomping feet, tanks" rumbling...



I have held power tools that threatened to shake my brain loose from my skull.

That is vibration, and that is vibrational frequency.

And, of course, vibration is also music. All musical notes are a vibration, a vibrational frequency. Some delight, some jar you awake, some irritate.

So why on earth are we using this word to measure someone consciousness?

Other words around vibration: resonate, and harmony.

What do you resonate with?

You resonate with, you are able to get into vibrational harmony with something that is like you. Not on the surface, mind you, but on the inside.

I am an empath. Like any ability, feeling your feelings, feeling your emotions can be honed, and can be made a weapon, a diagnostic tool, a healing instrument... not just the raw ability.

It can be used for good, it can be used for bad. Much like a knife... you can cut food, or people"s throat...

In a world of appearances, in a world with humans who all have two selves, the real self and the delusional self, an empath will not be popular.

The Emperor Has No Clothes

Do you think the little boy who yelled: the king is naked, was popular? Everyone hated him. The king because he was naked, duped, and people laughed at him.

But all the courtiers, who followed suit, and shed their fancy clothes to fit in, to be in vibrational harmony with the stupid king, they were angry too.

And the tailors, who sold the scam were angry, because the money they got from the kings and the courtiers was real... and the fleecing of the rich ended... suddenly.

People, humans, have been duped and fleeced forever. Why do they let them be fleeced?

Because it is easier to comply, because it is easier to allow, than to be a man and stand up for what is your right.

I have heard rich and famous people say: I have never had an original thought, everything I know I heard from others.

I understand. Even the rich is sheep, in some respect. Like those courtiers. Like the naked king.

When you fancy yourself holy, holier than others, you don"t want a little innocent kid yell out that you are naked.

The analogy, the comparison between you and the king is both true and flawed.

The flaw is that the king could get dressed any time, his king-ness won"t be effected.

YOU, on the other hand, cannot be viewed the same, you need to work on yourself to bring the two selves closer... or you"ll be forever this torn, angry, lost soul... pretending on one hand, and suffering and fretting and worrying on the other.

My work was, for years,to find a way to bring up your real self to the level of your delusional self. DNA activation, spiritual activators, an incredible amount of work and spiritual energy went into it.

That was a long experiment, and I have to confess that the experiment failed.

I have found that humans, you, are not willing to do the work it takes, to bring your real self up. You are not even willing to get in touch with it... because you hate it. You want to be that "higher" self, that pretend self, I call your delusional self.

Failure or not, the work is still the same: bring the two selves together, so they can embrace, so they can get into vibrational harmony, if you like that expression, so you can be one, and get great things done.

You see, as long as they are pulling in two different directions, you"ll never amount to much, because your energy is not strong enough to pull both selves in on direction, and stay that way.

Every night the imbalance rebuilds, and you start over again.

• The delusional self wants to get all the goodies a high vibration person gets, fame, success, adulation, unearned, of course.


• The real self doesn"t care all about that cheap glory... the real self wants to be itself, wants to be free to pursue its curiosity, enjoy living, enjoy its body, enjoy the sun on its skin.

But in the shadow of the delusional self the real self gets no respect, no support, no energy.

It may even become like one of those dogs that lie down and whimpers, in Martin Seligman"s learned helplessness experiment.

You can choose learned helplessness and you also get mental slothfulness. These are in vibrational harmony with each other.

I have written quite a few articles on learned helplessness, because I really thought that we, humans, can be knocked awake. That if I put the label on us that is offensive... to me, then we will start exercising your growth muscles, and start growing.

And start to go from mental slothfulness to mental diligence... Countries where people read are happy or at least happier countries.

Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.

Any one of these three are out of alignment, there is no harmony, there is no happiness.

Actually, there is a better way to say the same: When your physical body, your emotional body, your mental body, and your spiritual body are in alignment, in vibrational harmony with each other, then you are happy.

And if you look within: are you happy? No, instead lots of smiling for the camera...

When two years ago I started to look wider, when I was "forced" to look wider, 360 degrees with the help of the 67 steps, I started to see that what I am doing is not working, not quite.

And I still don"t have a magical solution.

Why? Because mental slothfulness reigns the world. Because people are setting into easy and comfortable...

But growing isn"t easy and isn"t comfortable. It is actually occasionally painful. You have to go through many small deaths to become a butterfly.

There are all kinds of models of transformation, models of growth, models of becoming a human being.

I have tried most, and they really are disappointing.

Religion, yoga, spiritual practices, energy modalities are all duping practices.

Duping you into thinking that your delusional self is your real self and your real self is your poor step-sister. Or evil step sister... but that it isn"t you.

When I ask Source to assist me in measuring your vibration, and other measurements in your Starting Point Measurements, to your surprise, Source measures your real self. The real you. And only relates to your puffed up, delusional self, in measuring the relationship of the two: your inauthenticity.

Recently I have retooled... and I am finding this new model a lot more effective than the previous ones.

People, who do the work, are popping.

The new model eases the tension between the two selves.

It takes off the burden for the delusional self to have to protect itself. So the natural self can breathe, and have some elbow-room... for many this, in an of itself, is a lot like happiness.

You know the joke where in hell the guy is taken around to choose which chamber he want to spend eternity. He happens upon a room where people are sitting around. He says: this looks like a good room. But the devil mercifully informs him that the people there are on break. What they do, when they are not on break, is breaking their own balls... ((Here is another version of that same joke:

Three Doors

A man dies and goes to hell. Satan greets him, shows him three doors, and says, "You must spend the rest of eternity in one of the rooms behind these doors. Look in each one and decide which one you want."

The man opens the first door, and sees a bunch of people standing on their heads on a wooden floor, looking very uncomfortable. He opens the second door, and sees a bunch of people standing on their heads on a concrete floor, looking even more uncomfortable. Finally, he opens the third door, and sees a bunch of people standing around chatting and drinking coffee, up to their knees in shit.

"Hmmm," he says, "that looks bad, but it"s better than the other two. I"ll take the third door." Satan smiles and shows him in.

Ten minutes later Satan walks back into the room and says, "Alright, coffee break"s over, everyone back on your heads!"

Here are some more jokes...

• Boudreaux goes to hell


• Bill Gates in the afterlife


• Bill Clinton in Hell

))

The new model, mercifully puts you on coffee break... so you don"t have to suffer. And then...

And recently, really recently, I have glimpsed a method to build a bridge between the still separated two selves.

You see, now the delusional self can create vibrational harmony with the real self... by actually building legs under the delusional self.

It is work. But the delusional self won"t be so adamant against building it, because it is now building underneath, in the invisible, so it can save face.

Now someone can start reading, and practice increasing their awareness of what they are reading... their vocabulary, their attention. Widen their cone of vision... without ever having to confess to weakness in any of the arenas.

Work on the invisible.

I call that building legs underneath the delusional self.

Making it real, honest, instead of a flimsy front.

Benjamin Franklin never had to admit to being the opposite of those 13 virtues... he could build them in the invisible, and become a very successful man.

I actually don"t know any of these famous successful people... but I have a hunch that they must have done the same: built legs, built bridges under their considerable ambition.

You cannot be really successful if your two selves don"t connect, if your two selves don"t work together, can"t work together.

For example, anger... anger is a burst of energy. Sustained anger is NOT anger, it is poison. But bursts of anger is useful.

NO feeling is sustained that is natural. The natural feelings are like a pump... it goes up and it comes down. Even hunger, even lust... They never last longer than a minute or two.

If you experience any natural feeling longer than a minute or two... then the feeling comes from the words that go around and around in your head... to push your buttons. To steal you away from your natural self.

Your delusional self lives in a cave. Humans invented a word for that cave. They call it mind. And then they decorate it... because they wholly moved in there.

But life happens outside the cave, and not inside.

The model I teach, the model one needs to work with, needs to practice, gets you out of the mind, and to reality, where you can make things happen. And where the two selves can meet and work together. In synergy.

To make things happen in reality. Where Health, Wealth, Love and Fulfillment lives.

And no matter how old you are, how young you are, you can start living. In earnest.

How to get out of your mind to reality where life happens?

Or how to unite your two selves so you can stop hating yourself, punishing yourself, and be happy inside and out

I had an insight this morning. I saw that every health issue I have ever had came from some idea, some thought, some teaching, not from my body.

Until age nine I was skinny. Then at that age I heard that whole grain is better for you... and I got promptly fat.

I have been hovering around 122 pounds when I heard from a student of mine about intermittent fasting. So I decided to do that. I promptly packed on three pounds. Nothing else changed...

All good ideas come from some mind, not your self. Your self is a lot smarter than you allow it to be. There is a separation between your mind and your real self. This article is to remove that separation, so you can be happy in all areas of life, physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually.

I have set a rule for myself recently... and of course I violated it promptly... The rule is: if it sounds like a good idea: let it be a good idea. And stick with what is working. And if you must, test it... But make the experiment short and sweet.

Of course, if your mind doesn"t know about your body, can"t feel your feelings, then this method will not work very well for you. Because you"ll look in your mind... and the mind is a lying machine.

Let me sneak in a little bit of teaching... Physics... ugh... I"ll make it easy on you. It"s about vibration... The vibration you claim you want to raise.

When a singer holds a certain high tone long enough, glasses vibrate and then shatter. One could say they got into vibrational harmony... and vibrational harmony makes the glass, a rigid object with tight molecular bonds, cannot be flexible enough, so it disintegrates.

Bridges... bridges are sensitive to vibration, because bridges, with its arches, are like the string of a violin, have an innate vibrational point, that if matched, the amplitude of the vibration starts to grow, and eventually may collapse the bridge.

Stomping feet, tanks" rumbling...



I have held power tools that threatened to shake my brain loose from my skull.

That is vibration, and that is vibrational frequency.

And, of course, vibration is also music. All musical notes are a vibration, a vibrational frequency. Some delight, some jar you awake, some irritate.

So why on earth are we using this word to measure someone consciousness?

Other words around vibration: resonate, and harmony.

What do you resonate with?

You resonate with, you are able to get into vibrational harmony with something that is like you. Not on the surface, mind you, but on the inside.

I am an empath. Like any ability, feeling your feelings, feeling your emotions can be honed, and can be made a weapon, a diagnostic tool, a healing instrument... not just the raw ability.

It can be used for good, it can be used for bad. Much like a knife... you can cut food, or people"s throat...

In a world of appearances, in a world with humans who all have two selves, the real self and the delusional self, an empath will not be popular.

The Emperor Has No Clothes

Do you think the little boy who yelled: the king is naked, was popular? Everyone hated him. The king because he was naked, duped, and people laughed at him.

But all the courtiers, who followed suit, and shed their fancy clothes to fit in, to be in vibrational harmony with the stupid king, they were angry too.

And the tailors, who sold the scam were angry, because the money they got from the kings and the courtiers was real... and the fleecing of the rich ended... suddenly.

People, humans, have been duped and fleeced forever. Why do they let them be fleeced?

Because it is easier to comply, because it is easier to allow, than to be a man and stand up for what is your right.

I have heard rich and famous people say: I have never had an original thought, everything I know I heard from others.

I understand. Even the rich is sheep, in some respect. Like those courtiers. Like the naked king.

When you fancy yourself holy, holier than others, you don"t want a little innocent kid yell out that you are naked.

The analogy, the comparison between you and the king is both true and flawed.

The flaw is that the king could get dressed any time, his king-ness won"t be effected.

YOU, on the other hand, cannot be viewed the same, you need to work on yourself to bring the two selves closer... or you"ll be forever this torn, angry, lost soul... pretending on one hand, and suffering and fretting and worrying on the other.

My work was, for years,to find a way to bring up your real self to the level of your delusional self. DNA activation, spiritual activators, an incredible amount of work and spiritual energy went into it.

That was a long experiment, and I have to confess that the experiment failed.

I have found that humans, you, are not willing to do the work it takes, to bring your real self up. You are not even willing to get in touch with it... because you hate it. You want to be that "higher" self, that pretend self, I call your delusional self.

Failure or not, the work is still the same: bring the two selves together, so they can embrace, so they can get into vibrational harmony, if you like that expression, so you can be one, and get great things done.

You see, as long as they are pulling in two different directions, you"ll never amount to much, because your energy is not strong enough to pull both selves in on direction, and stay that way.

Every night the imbalance rebuilds, and you start over again.

• The delusional self wants to get all the goodies a high vibration person gets, fame, success, adulation, unearned, of course.


• The real self doesn"t care all about that cheap glory... the real self wants to be itself, wants to be free to pursue its curiosity, enjoy living, enjoy its body, enjoy the sun on its skin.

But in the shadow of the delusional self the real self gets no respect, no support, no energy.

It may even become like one of those dogs that lie down and whimpers, in Martin Seligman"s learned helplessness experiment.

You can choose learned helplessness and you also get mental slothfulness. These are in vibrational harmony with each other.

I have written quite a few articles on learned helplessness, because I really thought that we, humans, can be knocked awake. That if I put the label on us that is offensive... to me, then we will start exercising your growth muscles, and start growing.

And start to go from mental slothfulness to mental diligence... Countries where people read are happy or at least happier countries.

Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.

Any one of these three are out of alignment, there is no harmony, there is no happiness.

Actually, there is a better way to say the same: When your physical body, your emotional body, your mental body, and your spiritual body are in alignment, in vibrational harmony with each other, then you are happy.

And if you look within: are you happy? No, instead lots of smiling for the camera...

When two years ago I started to look wider, when I was "forced" to look wider, 360 degrees with the help of the 67 steps, I started to see that what I am doing is not working, not quite.

And I still don"t have a magical solution.

Why? Because mental slothfulness reigns the world. Because people are setting into easy and comfortable...

But growing isn"t easy and isn"t comfortable. It is actually occasionally painful. You have to go through many small deaths to become a butterfly.

There are all kinds of models of transformation, models of growth, models of becoming a human being.

I have tried most, and they really are disappointing.

Religion, yoga, spiritual practices, energy modalities are all duping practices.

Duping you into thinking that your delusional self is your real self and your real self is your poor step-sister. Or evil step sister... but that it isn"t you.

When I ask Source to assist me in measuring your vibration, and other measurements in your Starting Point Measurements, to your surprise, Source measures your real self. The real you. And only relates to your puffed up, delusional self, in measuring the relationship of the two: your inauthenticity.

Recently I have retooled... and I am finding this new model a lot more effective than the previous ones.

People, who do the work, are popping.

The new model eases the tension between the two selves.

It takes off the burden for the delusional self to have to protect itself. So the natural self can breathe, and have some elbow-room... for many this, in an of itself, is a lot like happiness.

You know the joke where in hell the guy is taken around to choose which chamber he want to spend eternity. He happens upon a room where people are sitting around. He says: this looks like a good room. But the devil mercifully informs him that the people there are on break. What they do, when they are not on break, is breaking their own balls... ((Here is another version of that same joke:

Three Doors

A man dies and goes to hell. Satan greets him, shows him three doors, and says, "You must spend the rest of eternity in one of the rooms behind these doors. Look in each one and decide which one you want."

The man opens the first door, and sees a bunch of people standing on their heads on a wooden floor, looking very uncomfortable. He opens the second door, and sees a bunch of people standing on their heads on a concrete floor, looking even more uncomfortable. Finally, he opens the third door, and sees a bunch of people standing around chatting and drinking coffee, up to their knees in shit.

"Hmmm," he says, "that looks bad, but it"s better than the other two. I"ll take the third door." Satan smiles and shows him in.

Ten minutes later Satan walks back into the room and says, "Alright, coffee break"s over, everyone back on your heads!"

Here are some more jokes...

• Boudreaux goes to hell


• Bill Gates in the afterlife


• Bill Clinton in Hell

))

The new model, mercifully puts you on coffee break... so you don"t have to suffer. And then...

And recently, really recently, I have glimpsed a method to build a bridge between the still separated two selves.

You see, now the delusional self can create vibrational harmony with the real self... by actually building legs under the delusional self.

It is work. But the delusional self won"t be so adamant against building it, because it is now building underneath, in the invisible, so it can save face.

Now someone can start reading, and practice increasing their awareness of what they are reading... their vocabulary, their attention. Widen their cone of vision... without ever having to confess to weakness in any of the arenas.

Work on the invisible.

I call that building legs underneath the delusional self.

Making it real, honest, instead of a flimsy front.

Benjamin Franklin never had to admit to being the opposite of those 13 virtues... he could build them in the invisible, and become a very successful man.

I actually don"t know any of these famous successful people... but I have a hunch that they must have done the same: built legs, built bridges under their considerable ambition.

You cannot be really successful if your two selves don"t connect, if your two selves don"t work together, can"t work together.

For example, anger... anger is a burst of energy. Sustained anger is NOT anger, it is poison. But bursts of anger is useful.

NO feeling is sustained that is natural. The natural feelings are like a pump... it goes up and it comes down. Even hunger, even lust... They never last longer than a minute or two.

If you experience any natural feeling longer than a minute or two... then the feeling comes from the words that go around and around in your head... to push your buttons. To steal you away from your natural self.

Your delusional self lives in a cave. Humans invented a word for that cave. They call it mind. And then they decorate it... because they wholly moved in there.

But life happens outside the cave, and not inside.

The model I teach, the model one needs to work with, needs to practice, gets you out of the mind, and to reality, where you can make things happen. And where the two selves can meet and work together. In synergy.

To make things happen in reality. Where Health, Wealth, Love and Fulfillment lives.

And no matter how old you are, how young you are, you can start living. In earnest.

How to get out of your mind to reality where life happens?

Or how to unite your two selves so you can stop hating yourself, punishing yourself, and be happy inside and out

I had an insight this morning. I saw that every health issue I have ever had came from some idea, some thought, some teaching, not from my body.

Until age nine I was skinny. Then at that age I heard that whole grain is better for you... and I got promptly fat.

I have been hovering around 122 pounds when I heard from a student of mine about intermittent fasting. So I decided to do that. I promptly packed on three pounds. Nothing else changed...

All good ideas come from some mind, not your self. Your self is a lot smarter than you allow it to be. There is a separation between your mind and your real self. This article is to remove that separation, so you can be happy in all areas of life, physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually.

I have set a rule for myself recently... and of course I violated it promptly... The rule is: if it sounds like a good idea: let it be a good idea. And stick with what is working. And if you must, test it... But make the experiment short and sweet.

Of course, if your mind doesn"t know about your body, can"t feel your feelings, then this method will not work very well for you. Because you"ll look in your mind... and the mind is a lying machine.

Let me sneak in a little bit of teaching... Physics... ugh... I"ll make it easy on you. It"s about vibration... The vibration you claim you want to raise.

When a singer holds a certain high tone long enough, glasses vibrate and then shatter. One could say they got into vibrational harmony... and vibrational harmony makes the glass, a rigid object with tight molecular bonds, cannot be flexible enough, so it disintegrates.

Bridges... bridges are sensitive to vibration, because bridges, with its arches, are like the string of a violin, have an innate vibrational point, that if matched, the amplitude of the vibration starts to grow, and eventually may collapse the bridge.

Stomping feet, tanks" rumbling...



I have held power tools that threatened to shake my brain loose from my skull.

That is vibration, and that is vibrational frequency.

And, of course, vibration is also music. All musical notes are a vibration, a vibrational frequency. Some delight, some jar you awake, some irritate.

So why on earth are we using this word to measure someone consciousness?

Other words around vibration: resonate, and harmony.

What do you resonate with?

You resonate with, you are able to get into vibrational harmony with something that is like you. Not on the surface, mind you, but on the inside.

I am an empath. Like any ability, feeling your feelings, feeling your emotions can be honed, and can be made a weapon, a diagnostic tool, a healing instrument... not just the raw ability.

It can be used for good, it can be used for bad. Much like a knife... you can cut food, or people"s throat...

In a world of appearances, in a world with humans who all have two selves, the real self and the delusional self, an empath will not be popular.

The Emperor Has No Clothes

Do you think the little boy who yelled: the king is naked, was popular? Everyone hated him. The king because he was naked, duped, and people laughed at him.

But all the courtiers, who followed suit, and shed their fancy clothes to fit in, to be in vibrational harmony with the stupid king, they were angry too.

And the tailors, who sold the scam were angry, because the money they got from the kings and the courtiers was real... and the fleecing of the rich ended... suddenly.

People, humans, have been duped and fleeced forever. Why do they let them be fleeced?

Because it is easier to comply, because it is easier to allow, than to be a man and stand up for what is your right.

I have heard rich and famous people say: I have never had an original thought, everything I know I heard from others.

I understand. Even the rich is sheep, in some respect. Like those courtiers. Like the naked king.

When you fancy yourself holy, holier than others, you don"t want a little innocent kid yell out that you are naked.

The analogy, the comparison between you and the king is both true and flawed.

The flaw is that the king could get dressed any time, his king-ness won"t be effected.

YOU, on the other hand, cannot be viewed the same, you need to work on yourself to bring the two selves closer... or you"ll be forever this torn, angry, lost soul... pretending on one hand, and suffering and fretting and worrying on the other.

My work was, for years,to find a way to bring up your real self to the level of your delusional self. DNA activation, spiritual activators, an incredible amount of work and spiritual energy went into it.

That was a long experiment, and I have to confess that the experiment failed.

I have found that humans, you, are not willing to do the work it takes, to bring your real self up. You are not even willing to get in touch with it... because you hate it. You want to be that "higher" self, that pretend self, I call your delusional self.

Failure or not, the work is still the same: bring the two selves together, so they can embrace, so they can get into vibrational harmony, if you like that expression, so you can be one, and get great things done.

You see, as long as they are pulling in two different directions, you"ll never amount to much, because your energy is not strong enough to pull both selves in on direction, and stay that way.

Every night the imbalance rebuilds, and you start over again.

• The delusional self wants to get all the goodies a high vibration person gets, fame, success, adulation, unearned, of course.


• The real self doesn"t care all about that cheap glory... the real self wants to be itself, wants to be free to pursue its curiosity, enjoy living, enjoy its body, enjoy the sun on its skin.

But in the shadow of the delusional self the real self gets no respect, no support, no energy.

It may even become like one of those dogs that lie down and whimpers, in Martin Seligman"s learned helplessness experiment.

You can choose learned helplessness and you also get mental slothfulness. These are in vibrational harmony with each other.

I have written quite a few articles on learned helplessness, because I really thought that we, humans, can be knocked awake. That if I put the label on us that is offensive... to me, then we will start exercising your growth muscles, and start growing.

And start to go from mental slothfulness to mental diligence... Countries where people read are happy or at least happier countries.

Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.

Any one of these three are out of alignment, there is no harmony, there is no happiness.

Actually, there is a better way to say the same: When your physical body, your emotional body, your mental body, and your spiritual body are in alignment, in vibrational harmony with each other, then you are happy.

And if you look within: are you happy? No, instead lots of smiling for the camera...

When two years ago I started to look wider, when I was "forced" to look wider, 360 degrees with the help of the 67 steps, I started to see that what I am doing is not working, not quite.

And I still don"t have a magical solution.

Why? Because mental slothfulness reigns the world. Because people are setting into easy and comfortable...

But growing isn"t easy and isn"t comfortable. It is actually occasionally painful. You have to go through many small deaths to become a butterfly.

There are all kinds of models of transformation, models of growth, models of becoming a human being.

I have tried most, and they really are disappointing.

Religion, yoga, spiritual practices, energy modalities are all duping practices.

Duping you into thinking that your delusional self is your real self and your real self is your poor step-sister. Or evil step sister... but that it isn"t you.

When I ask Source to assist me in measuring your vibration, and other measurements in your Starting Point Measurements, to your surprise, Source measures your real self. The real you. And only relates to your puffed up, delusional self, in measuring the relationship of the two: your inauthenticity.

Recently I have retooled... and I am finding this new model a lot more effective than the previous ones.

People, who do the work, are popping.

The new model eases the tension between the two selves.

It takes off the burden for the delusional self to have to protect itself. So the natural self can breathe, and have some elbow-room... for many this, in an of itself, is a lot like happiness.

You know the joke where in hell the guy is taken around to choose which chamber he want to spend eternity. He happens upon a room where people are sitting around. He says: this looks like a good room. But the devil mercifully informs him that the people there are on break. What they do, when they are not on break, is breaking their own balls... ((Here is another version of that same joke:

Three Doors

A man dies and goes to hell. Satan greets him, shows him three doors, and says, "You must spend the rest of eternity in one of the rooms behind these doors. Look in each one and decide which one you want."

The man opens the first door, and sees a bunch of people standing on their heads on a wooden floor, looking very uncomfortable. He opens the second door, and sees a bunch of people standing on their heads on a concrete floor, looking even more uncomfortable. Finally, he opens the third door, and sees a bunch of people standing around chatting and drinking coffee, up to their knees in shit.

"Hmmm," he says, "that looks bad, but it"s better than the other two. I"ll take the third door." Satan smiles and shows him in.

Ten minutes later Satan walks back into the room and says, "Alright, coffee break"s over, everyone back on your heads!"

Here are some more jokes...

• Boudreaux goes to hell


• Bill Gates in the afterlife


• Bill Clinton in Hell

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The new model, mercifully puts you on coffee break... so you don"t have to suffer. And then...

And recently, really recently, I have glimpsed a method to build a bridge between the still separated two selves.

You see, now the delusional self can create vibrational harmony with the real self... by actually building legs under the delusional self.

It is work. But the delusional self won"t be so adamant against building it, because it is now building underneath, in the invisible, so it can save face.

Now someone can start reading, and practice increasing their awareness of what they are reading... their vocabulary, their attention. Widen their cone of vision... without ever having to confess to weakness in any of the arenas.

Work on the invisible.

I call that building legs underneath the delusional self.

Making it real, honest, instead of a flimsy front.

Benjamin Franklin never had to admit to being the opposite of those 13 virtues... he could build them in the invisible, and become a very successful man.

I actually don"t know any of these famous successful people... but I have a hunch that they must have done the same: built legs, built bridges under their considerable ambition.

You cannot be really successful if your two selves don"t connect, if your two selves don"t work together, can"t work together.

For example, anger... anger is a burst of energy. Sustained anger is NOT anger, it is poison. But bursts of anger is useful.

NO feeling is sustained that is natural. The natural feelings are like a pump... it goes up and it comes down. Even hunger, even lust... They never last longer than a minute or two.

If you experience any natural feeling longer than a minute or two... then the feeling comes from the words that go around and around in your head... to push your buttons. To steal you away from your natural self.

Your delusional self lives in a cave. Humans invented a word for that cave. They call it mind. And then they decorate it... because they wholly moved in there.

But life happens outside the cave, and not inside.

The model I teach, the model one needs to work with, needs to practice, gets you out of the mind, and to reality, where you can make things happen. And where the two selves can meet and work together. In synergy.

To make things happen in reality. Where Health, Wealth, Love and Fulfillment lives.

And no matter how old you are, how young you are, you can start living. In earnest.

How to get out of your mind to reality where life happens?

Or how to unite your two selves so you can stop hating yourself, punishing yourself, and be happy inside and out

I had an insight this morning. I saw that every health issue I have ever had came from some idea, some thought, some teaching, not from my body.

Until age nine I was skinny. Then at that age I heard that whole grain is better for you... and I got promptly fat.

I have been hovering around 122 pounds when I heard from a student of mine about intermittent fasting. So I decided to do that. I promptly packed on three pounds. Nothing else changed...

All good ideas come from some mind, not your self. Your self is a lot smarter than you allow it to be. There is a separation between your mind and your real self. This article is to remove that separation, so you can be happy in all areas of life, physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually.

I have set a rule for myself recently... and of course I violated it promptly... The rule is: if it sounds like a good idea: let it be a good idea. And stick with what is working. And if you must, test it... But make the experiment short and sweet.

Of course, if your mind doesn"t know about your body, can"t feel your feelings, then this method will not work very well for you. Because you"ll look in your mind... and the mind is a lying machine.

Let me sneak in a little bit of teaching... Physics... ugh... I"ll make it easy on you. It"s about vibration... The vibration you claim you want to raise.

When a singer holds a certain high tone long enough, glasses vibrate and then shatter. One could say they got into vibrational harmony... and vibrational harmony makes the glass, a rigid object with tight molecular bonds, cannot be flexible enough, so it disintegrates.

Bridges... bridges are sensitive to vibration, because bridges, with its arches, are like the string of a violin, have an innate vibrational point, that if matched, the amplitude of the vibration starts to grow, and eventually may collapse the bridge.

Stomping feet, tanks" rumbling...



I have held power tools that threatened to shake my brain loose from my skull.

That is vibration, and that is vibrational frequency.

And, of course, vibration is also music. All musical notes are a vibration, a vibrational frequency. Some delight, some jar you awake, some irritate.

So why on earth are we using this word to measure someone consciousness?

Other words around vibration: resonate, and harmony.

What do you resonate with?

You resonate with, you are able to get into vibrational harmony with something that is like you. Not on the surface, mind you, but on the inside.

I am an empath. Like any ability, feeling your feelings, feeling your emotions can be honed, and can be made a weapon, a diagnostic tool, a healing instrument... not just the raw ability.

It can be used for good, it can be used for bad. Much like a knife... you can cut food, or people"s throat...

In a world of appearances, in a world with humans who all have two selves, the real self and the delusional self, an empath will not be popular.

The Emperor Has No Clothes

Do you think the little boy who yelled: the king is naked, was popular? Everyone hated him. The king because he was naked, duped, and people laughed at him.

But all the courtiers, who followed suit, and shed their fancy clothes to fit in, to be in vibrational harmony with the stupid king, they were angry too.

And the tailors, who sold the scam were angry, because the money they got from the kings and the courtiers was real... and the fleecing of the rich ended... suddenly.

People, humans, have been duped and fleeced forever. Why do they let them be fleeced?

Because it is easier to comply, because it is easier to allow, than to be a man and stand up for what is your right.

I have heard rich and famous people say: I have never had an original thought, everything I know I heard from others.

I understand. Even the rich is sheep, in some respect. Like those courtiers. Like the naked king.

When you fancy yourself holy, holier than others, you don"t want a little innocent kid yell out that you are naked.

The analogy, the comparison between you and the king is both true and flawed.

The flaw is that the king could get dressed any time, his king-ness won"t be effected.

YOU, on the other hand, cannot be viewed the same, you need to work on yourself to bring the two selves closer... or you"ll be forever this torn, angry, lost soul... pretending on one hand, and suffering and fretting and worrying on the other.

My work was, for years,to find a way to bring up your real self to the level of your delusional self. DNA activation, spiritual activators, an incredible amount of work and spiritual energy went into it.

That was a long experiment, and I have to confess that the experiment failed.

I have found that humans, you, are not willing to do the work it takes, to bring your real self up. You are not even willing to get in touch with it... because you hate it. You want to be that "higher" self, that pretend self, I call your delusional self.

Failure or not, the work is still the same: bring the two selves together, so they can embrace, so they can get into vibrational harmony, if you like that expression, so you can be one, and get great things done.

You see, as long as they are pulling in two different directions, you"ll never amount to much, because your energy is not strong enough to pull both selves in on direction, and stay that way.

Every night the imbalance rebuilds, and you start over again.

• The delusional self wants to get all the goodies a high vibration person gets, fame, success, adulation, unearned, of course.


• The real self doesn"t care all about that cheap glory... the real self wants to be itself, wants to be free to pursue its curiosity, enjoy living, enjoy its body, enjoy the sun on its skin.

But in the shadow of the delusional self the real self gets no respect, no support, no energy.

It may even become like one of those dogs that lie down and whimpers, in Martin Seligman"s learned helplessness experiment.

You can choose learned helplessness and you also get mental slothfulness. These are in vibrational harmony with each other.

I have written quite a few articles on learned helplessness, because I really thought that we, humans, can be knocked awake. That if I put the label on us that is offensive... to me, then we will start exercising your growth muscles, and start growing.

And start to go from mental slothfulness to mental diligence... Countries where people read are happy or at least happier countries.

Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.

Any one of these three are out of alignment, there is no harmony, there is no happiness.

Actually, there is a better way to say the same: When your physical body, your emotional body, your mental body, and your spiritual body are in alignment, in vibrational harmony with each other, then you are happy.

And if you look within: are you happy? No, instead lots of smiling for the camera...

When two years ago I started to look wider, when I was "forced" to look wider, 360 degrees with the help of the 67 steps, I started to see that what I am doing is not working, not quite.

And I still don"t have a magical solution.

Why? Because mental slothfulness reigns the world. Because people are setting into easy and comfortable...

But growing isn"t easy and isn"t comfortable. It is actually occasionally painful. You have to go through many small deaths to become a butterfly.

There are all kinds of models of transformation, models of growth, models of becoming a human being.

I have tried most, and they really are disappointing.

Religion, yoga, spiritual practices, energy modalities are all duping practices.

Duping you into thinking that your delusional self is your real self and your real self is your poor step-sister. Or evil step sister... but that it isn"t you.

When I ask Source to assist me in measuring your vibration, and other measurements in your Starting Point Measurements, to your surprise, Source measures your real self. The real you. And only relates to your puffed up, delusional self, in measuring the relationship of the two: your inauthenticity.

Recently I have retooled... and I am finding this new model a lot more effective than the previous ones.

People, who do the work, are popping.

The new model eases the tension between the two selves.

It takes off the burden for the delusional self to have to protect itself. So the natural self can breathe, and have some elbow-room... for many this, in an of itself, is a lot like happiness.

You know the joke where in hell the guy is taken around to choose which chamber he want to spend eternity. He happens upon a room where people are sitting around. He says: this looks like a good room. But the devil mercifully informs him that the people there are on break. What they do, when they are not on break, is breaking their own balls... ((Here is another version of that same joke:

Three Doors

A man dies and goes to hell. Satan greets him, shows him three doors, and says, "You must spend the rest of eternity in one of the rooms behind these doors. Look in each one and decide which one you want."

The man opens the first door, and sees a bunch of people standing on their heads on a wooden floor, looking very uncomfortable. He opens the second door, and sees a bunch of people standing on their heads on a concrete floor, looking even more uncomfortable. Finally, he opens the third door, and sees a bunch of people standing around chatting and drinking coffee, up to their knees in shit.

"Hmmm," he says, "that looks bad, but it"s better than the other two. I"ll take the third door." Satan smiles and shows him in.

Ten minutes later Satan walks back into the room and says, "Alright, coffee break"s over, everyone back on your heads!"

Here are some more jokes...

• Boudreaux goes to hell


• Bill Gates in the afterlife


• Bill Clinton in Hell

))

The new model, mercifully puts you on coffee break... so you don"t have to suffer. And then...

And recently, really recently, I have glimpsed a method to build a bridge between the still separated two selves.

You see, now the delusional self can create vibrational harmony with the real self... by actually building legs under the delusional self.

It is work. But the delusional self won"t be so adamant against building it, because it is now building underneath, in the invisible, so it can save face.

Now someone can start reading, and practice increasing their awareness of what they are reading... their vocabulary, their attention. Widen their cone of vision... without ever having to confess to weakness in any of the arenas.

Work on the invisible.

I call that building legs underneath the delusional self.

Making it real, honest, instead of a flimsy front.

Benjamin Franklin never had to admit to being the opposite of those 13 virtues... he could build them in the invisible, and become a very successful man.

I actually don"t know any of these famous successful people... but I have a hunch that they must have done the same: built legs, built bridges under their considerable ambition.

You cannot be really successful if your two selves don"t connect, if your two selves don"t work together, can"t work together.

For example, anger... anger is a burst of energy. Sustained anger is NOT anger, it is poison. But bursts of anger is useful.

NO feeling is sustained that is natural. The natural feelings are like a pump... it goes up and it comes down. Even hunger, even lust... They never last longer than a minute or two.

If you experience any natural feeling longer than a minute or two... then the feeling comes from the words that go around and around in your head... to push your buttons. To steal you away from your natural self.

Your delusional self lives in a cave. Humans invented a word for that cave. They call it mind. And then they decorate it... because they wholly moved in there.

But life happens outside the cave, and not inside.

The model I teach, the model one needs to work with, needs to practice, gets you out of the mind, and to reality, where you can make things happen. And where the two selves can meet and work together. In synergy.

To make things happen in reality. Where Health, Wealth, Love and Fulfillment lives.

And no matter how old you are, how young you are, you can start living. In earnest.

Full self realization: what does it mean and how to be the one in 100 thousand who does it?

Full self-realization is hard... Even half is hard... even being on the path is hard. Partially because we don"t know how to do it. And partially because you prefer to be comfortable...

This article maps it all out... so you can choose. Choose to go for it or not... And, please don"t expect stuff you have read, hear, everywhere... If it worked, a lot more people would be fully self-realized.

What prevents you from full self-realization ((fulfillment of one"s own potential... become all you can become)) and what could be your pivoting point?

Self-realization is rare. You"ll be surprised why... read on...

We don"t even agree about what it is... do we?

But I had an insight this past week: self-realization is when the two selves meet and start to work as a team, synergistically.

And that is rare.

The biggest trouble is that you cannot do it, the two selves cannot grow towards each other without expert guidance, mentors, for example.

If you look at the pictures of these caves where the icicle type of formation, and the column formation want to meet... Of course I am looking at it through my own human eyes, and yet they are a good illustration of what is happening.

You grow the self upwards, and you grow the delusional self downward, and hope that the two will meet while you are still alive.

As long as they are separate, they will still pull in different directions. The delusional self... the "precious I" will pull for self-protection, self-aggrandization, getting without work, entitlement, and separation.

The real self likes to work, likes to earn, likes to grow, likes to learn.

You see that the two meeting is almost impossible. And yet, some people manage...

Let"s examine what holds the two apart, what is the force that works against self-realization, and what does a mentor, a coach need to do to neutralize those forces.

Now, before I continue, just please know, that I can see 40% of the full picture... but what I see I see it... and that is good.

OK, what is the biggest enemy?

Margoczi talks about 8. FEELING TRAPS: 8.1 The desire trap, 8.2 The tension trap, 8.3 The fear trap, 8.4 The game trap, 8.5 The pain trap

Whether these five cover all the possible traps or not, I don"t know. Truth be told, I have gotten stuck on the desire trap... but now that I see that they prevent you becoming one with yourself, I am going to re-study them.

So in this article I will only talk about the desire trap, because that is what I already see well enough.

Here is what is a desire trap in a nutshell: you use your mind and its picture creating ability to imagine a future. They you decorate, embellish that future. They you experience the joy, the pleasure, the exhilaration that that future causes you... NOW. And then you don"t have to do anything other than close your eyes and you can have it. Not the reality of it, but the real feeling of it.

Reality is trickier: you actually have to do things with your hands, with your legs, with your brain. Imagining, in reality, will not make anything happen.

But because the delusional self already have the result it wants, it has no energy, no tension, no pain... so it won"t invest into bringing the illusion into reality... It got stuck there. In the mind where the desire is already fulfilled.

The two measures that spell out whether you are in a desire trap or not are the desire number and the ambition number.

The desire number is the delusional self"s and the ambition number belongs to the real self. The real self that knows that only work will produce value for themselves, and is aching to do the work as well.

So, this was the amount of knowledge I had a week ago.

And then, in a conversation, I started to see something that expanded what I can see to 40%: you, everyone, is equipped with the rudimentary ability to fulfill their destiny.

But for most people it remains rudimentary, because it needs to be cultivated.

For example Arnold Schwarzenegger: he had the muscle and bone structure to become Mr. whatever a body builder can become. He had the ability to derive pleasure from going beyond the pain point.

But had he listened to some commercial that said he should be an actor, or a politician, because that is the real accomplishment, and that is where the money is, he would have, likely, moved all his energy there, and never become Mr. Universe...

But he was lucky, someone told him that he could invest that energy into body building, and he listened.

I have a client who likes to look at things upside down. Walk backwards.

Building on that "liking" he will be able to build a life that is fully self-realizing.

My job is to find what is unusual about you.

I used to tell people: whatever is wrong with you is your strength... but of course you need to treat it that way.

My job is difficult: I need to tease out of you what is weird, unusual, counter-intuitive about you, and then help you to build a life on it so your two selves start working together, in synergy.

The "rule" teachers say you should live by is to build on your strengths. But I have seen enough people not seeing themselves, not knowing themselves, to see that you need someone else to look at you long enough so they can start to see what is your strength.

MY strength, believe it or not, has been dyslexia.

Without dyslexia I would have never become who I am today.
Some clients are slow... that is their saving grace.

It takes considerable work for me to dig out what will be your pivot, your turning point.

It has to be bad... counter intuitive, eh?

NEW: The courage to be yourself, your real self, your true self, the real you

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I had an insight yesterday that was completely driven home today by my guidance system. You see, often we see something, and then it"s gone, without it imparting the important learning in what we saw. It is such a frequent happening, that we don"t even pay attention to it any more... we consider it normal that the insights disappear as fast as they appeared.

We see the learning from them only from the corner of our eyes, and who can control that... not many of us.

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NEW: What is the Self? Part 3: What happens when you find your self? Or after...

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What is the self? This question comes up again and again. Is it the same as the ego? Is it the same as soul? Is it this, is it that?

I have been asking this question as well. We didn"t come to this world to know self, and definitely weren"t allowed to get to know self.

The moment, in the cradle, you discovered that when you smiled adults got excited and gave you more attention, your corruption, the corruption of the untarnished, unspoiled self began.

The personality that you now honor as your self is on the circumference of your being. The circumference is rich in adjectives, adverbs, and poor in being.

You say I am this, and I am that, and I have to maintain this and that... or sometimes you say "being this" or "being that."

The moment there is a word after the word "being" we are moving away from Self.

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NEW: What is the Self? Part 3: What happens when you find your self? Or after...

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What is the self? This question comes up again and again. Is it the same as the ego? Is it the same as soul? Is it this, is it that?

I have been asking this question as well. We didn"t come to this world to know self, and definitely weren"t allowed to get to know self.

The moment, in the cradle, you discovered that when you smiled adults got excited and gave you more attention, your corruption, the corruption of the untarnished, unspoiled self began.

The personality that you now honor as your self is on the circumference of your being. The circumference is rich in adjectives, adverbs, and poor in being.

You say I am this, and I am that, and I have to maintain this and that... or sometimes you say "being this" or "being that."

The moment there is a word after the word "being" we are moving away from Self.

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