Postponement: are you guilty of it?

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When I think about procrastination, I limit my thinking of stuff that I don"t do that has to be done, should be done.

Today I saw another category of stuff, that I didn"t know it was procrastination, because that is the below the water level of stuff I don"t do: postponement.

I am playing the Avatar Audio in the background, now 24/7. To my surprise, the water level seems to go down and more of the hidden stuff emerges.

You can"t catch what you don"t see... and I am seeing stuff I have never seen before, or if I have, just glimpses, you know the kind that you even wonder if you saw anything at all, or if it was a dream.

I am planning to move in a few months, and this is a great opportunity (albeit unpleasant!) to look at the stuff that has been neglected, postponed, not dealt with, swept under the rug, treated as if it didn"t matter or didn"t exist.

It is very un-guru-like, very not Avatar-like to have heaps of stuff swept under the rug, but truth is truth, and that is what I am starting to see.

When I moved to this country, I lived in a room in a rooming house. Then I moved to a one-room efficiency, then into a two room, then an office, then a 3-story house, then again into a 1-bedroom and rented a huge storage space, and now I live in a four-bedroom with the same huge storage space I pay for every month.

For what I am paying rent and utilities now I could rent four or five of those efficiency apartments.

Why do I need so much space? To store all the stuff I don"t want to deal with. Yup, I don"t want to deal with. Instead I just store it, and walk by.

Stuff. Some as old as 27 year old, un-needed, useless, outdated, but takes time and effort and thought to deal with it.

One of the stuff I have been dragging with myself is a website that makes less money now than the cost of the hosting: it is time to deal with it. This was the straw that broke the camel"s back, or the whack that ended the 100-year long hiding of Aang, in "Avatar, The Last Airbender".

Yes, even Avatars postpone... it seems that stuff that is current, stuff that is in front of you is easier to deal with, and the benefits are bigger.

I can"t report about results, yet, but I promise I will. My hunch is that my health will improve, in spite of the physical effort needed to unearth, and get rid of stuff. My space, my "aura" will be cleaner, more harmonious, more in line with what I am up to today, than filled with all that clutter that is not me, not in harmony with me, and I wish I didn"t have.

Another postponement I have seen with students, is postponing dreams, postponing action that would start a process of finding and living your authentic self.

While my postponement is mostly avoidance in favor of what I really want to do, their avoidance is in favor of daily stuff that is not satisfying.

But in essence, both types of postponement, both types of avoidance is fear-based, and a misunderstanding of life. Avoiding what is so in favor of an unreality.

This insisting on unreality, and that it should be real, that it ought to be real, is the basis of the widespread anguish I experience on the calls.

You cannot be happy, fulfilled, and fully in action about anything, unless you remove from your life all aspects of unreality, and start to deal with what is, however ugly it is, and whatever it takes.

For me, it will take work, choosing, and some unpleasant communication. Maybe even hardship for a while. But in the end I will be a happier person, one of the few that lives on this planet. Why so few? Because living in unreality seems to be the standard parents, schools, churches and government enforce, promote, and endorse.

It takes a rebel, it takes immense desire to live an authentic life to break out of the "how everyone does it" way of living live, don"t have any misconceptions about it.

I am just looking at it, I haven"t even started, and the hairs stand up on my arm, and suddenly I want to get busy with something else.

Except I can see the immense toll it has taken on me to live this way, like everybody else.

I"ll keep you posted. I just want you to know that I would have NEVER gotten to this point of courage without using the Harmonize Your Vibration audio, and the other versions as well: try the Harmonize audio for 10 days for free, you"ll be very happy you did.

Postponement: are you guilty of it?

Vibrational Reviews: more famous and not so famous people

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Iyanla vanzant. Personal vibration: 140

John of god - Joao de Deus, Medium. Personal vibration: 200

Joshua Bloom - Quantum Healing. Personal vibration: 230

David (220) & Kristin Morelli (200) Everything is Energy

Richard Gordon - Quantum Touch a year ago in January: Richard Gordon (Quantum Touch) Personal Vibration: 240
Quantum Touch: 300, today: Richard Gordon personal vibration: 230 method: 260 (about 9%)

Intenders of the Highest Good - The Vision Alignment Project. Tony Borrough: 200

The Tapping Solution - Nick (170) & Jessica Ortner (220), Dawson Church

Marci Shimoff personal vibration: 170

Darryl Anka channeling "Bashar" Darryl personal vibration: 130. Truth value of "messages" 150 (about 3%)
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EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) Tapping by Founder, Gary Craig. Personal vibration: 210. Technique working: 30% of the time
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Judy Satori (The Ascended Master El Morya speaks through Judy Satori. El Morya is the chohan of the first Ray, the spiritual ray of Divine Power and Will.) Judy Satori personal vibration: 210. Truth value of channels: 210 (About 8%)
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Sabrina Reber Raise your vibration: personal vibration: 200
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"The Gateway Experience" (truth value: 190) by Robert Monroe (personal vibration: 190),
(http://www.monroeinstitute.org/about/the-monroe-institute)
"The Lily and Beyond" (http://www.lilyandbeyond.org), works: no, vibration: 200

"the Work" of Byron Katie (personal vibration: 170)

the author and teacher Caroline Myss (personal vibration: 220, truth value of teachings: 220 about 9%))
(www.myss.com) ?

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Duality: is that the trouble with the Universe, or the nature of the Universe?

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I have been attracting new people, a new breed of people, people that have been on the spiritual path. They litter their emails and their speakings with generalities and rules that they learned from their teachers and gurus, one-ness, duality, acceptance, etc.

The teaching that I want to talk about in this article is the concept that duality is wrong, and we are all one.

I never understood the concept of one-ness, but because it is showing up in my space, I took the time to do some serious thinking.

This is a report on my results, so far.

I don"t know who started this unscientific b.s., but they had no idea about the world, it reeks of religion and it does what all religion do: it forces something unnatural on humans, so they get cut off from their intelligence, they get cut of from their instincts, and they walk around carefully treading to avoid stepping on tabus.

The nature of the Universe is duality. It shows up in every dimension, in the micro, in the macro, on the level of planets, solar systems, every which way you slice it, the nature of the Universe is duality.

If you took the time to watch the Black Whole movie, you can see that the donut is an energetic phenomenon that is build of the black hole which is the negative side of duality and the energy flow, like a fountain, which is the positive side of duality.

Each atom, each molecule, all of the material world is based on duality: attracting and repelling, polarity, which is another word for duality. I refuse to read up on this: I promise that all the reading takes your power away from thinking on your own.

Just like black holes match the number of "white" fountains (I know it is not called that, I will call it that, fountain, for the purposes of this article, it communicates.), goodness and badness, Light and Dark need to be in balance.

When systems are left alone, all systems are in balance. Unfortunately, the Mind of humanity is like a cancer: forces ideas on life, causing out of balance, by preaching that goodness is the rule, that we are one, blah blah blah.

All religions were invented by the same group of people: people that want to take over the planet by reducing other humans to sheep. Why? I am not sure. I am not sure what pleasure is in that, but they have been doing it at least four thousand years, and their dominion over the Earth and its population is almost complete. In certain countries their job is finished.

They intend to eliminate individuality, achievement, real thinking, pride, nations, cultures: and you are buying into it, because you are not able to think: you are only having thoughts. (The few of you (one in 10,000) to whom this doesn"t apply, you know who you are, and you are not offended. If you are offended, it"s because the truth hurts. I know. I feel for you. I want to wake you up!)

Somehow you learned that you should not this and should not that, among others, you should not make a mistake, you should be perfect, do everything perfect.

You should look perfect, and you demand of everyone to be perfect. You demand of yourself not to have a negative thought, not to have a bad feeling.

How realistic are you? How much room do you have to live, to love, to dance, to play? None, right? Or not much.

Most people I talk to love crying watching movies, hate having any reason to cry in their real lives... Are you insane? Experiencing life by proxy?

My job is to restore balance. The handful of people that constitute the core of the Dark Side are energy masters. Compared to them I am a kindergartener. And you are on their side...

You are like cancer.

The energetic issue with cancer is that it"s a black hole: it doesn"t give out energy, it just consumes it to grow itself. It is an aberration that is the perfect sign of our own imbalance.

Each cell is designed to grow along certain lines. Each cell is designed to consume and release energy. Each cell is designed to grow in a co-creative, co-dependent mode, without ever growing at the expense of another cell. But growing it must.

All life wants more life. Life is growth.

Each individual also designed the same way: consume and give out energy, equally, and growing.

Hoarding anything is inconsistent with the design of the Universe. Giving away what you need is inconsistent with the Universe. Sacrificing yourself, your goals, your life, your dreams, your happiness, for another is inconsistent with the Universe.

Being a looter or a moocher, a hoarder or a self-sacrificer puts the Universe out of balance.

Only when an individual lives and acts consistent with the Original Design, the Design of Balance, they are part of the solution. But culture, religion, society designed by the looters, maintained by the looters, family, invented by the looters, marriage, invented by the looters, insist that you sacrifice yourself for your family, for you community, for your country, for the looters.

In Ayn Rand"s novel, Atlas Shrugged, Atlas throws off the planet off his shoulders. The near future Ayn Rand wrote about is about here... now. And you are part of it.

I have only one hope for the planet: the Avatar Audios. Their energy is exactly the shape of the beam/black hole configuration, and they seem to do the work of harmonizing human beings to their vibration, which is harmony, which is duality, which is balance. Halleluiah.

Duality: is that the trouble with the Universe, or the nature of the Universe?

Vibrational Reviews

Lola Jones (DivineOpenings). Personal vibration: 200; truth value of teachings: 200

Dr. Kimberly McGeorge, ND, CNH - Access Consciousness ...personal vibration: 170

Brent Phillips THETA healing using the muscles and mind. personal vibration: 180

Byron Kathleen Mitchell, better known as Byron Katie, is an American speaker and author who teaches a method of self-inquiry known as "The Work of Byron Katie" or simply as "The Work". Personal vibration: 180

David Berceli Trauma Releasing Exercises: Personal vibration: 200 Method works? 80% of the time

Enoch Tan of MindReality.com Personal vibration: 500. Truth value of teachings: 300

adam mcleod dreamhealer. Personal vibration: 210. Truth value of what he does (healing?) 200

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Meditation: What is it and why is it useful?

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I wrote this article a year and a half ago. I never published it, but I will, now. Why? Because I have a lot more insight about meditation I can share, and because I offered a famous marketer to teach him meditation, and he hasn"t even bothered to answer my email.

I write many of my articles as a way to poke the Universe for answers, as a way to force my intelligence into gear.

What is meditation and what is the role of meditation?

Quoting from Wikipedia: Meditation is a practice in which an individual trains the mind or induces a mode of consciousness, either to realize some benefit or as an end in itself

I will examine this question as a non-meditator who has tried to meditate and failed.

I am not against meditation. Meditation as a tool, to allow all knowledge to reach you, past the noise of all there is, distinguished as knowledge beyond your own, is invaluable.

I have been quasi meditating the past day or so... the questions I am meditating over are

1. whether God is a sentient being
2. whether the "law" of attraction, the law that says that you can earn something coming to you

Ultimately I want answers that are either included in the chorus of many voices that speak thousands of truths that contradict one another, or truth that hasn"t been revealed because there was no one to hear the answer (or ask the question).

Why would be people asking questions and not hear the answer?

Because their own mind and ego combined prevents them from hearing it.

What happens? The question is asked by the conscious mind. The other than conscious mind goes out for an answer (the reticular activator effect, the heat seeking missile of psycho-cybernetics!) and comes back with answers... the mind/ego jumps into conclusion and stops looking.

What do scientists do? They have a question, in essence a hypothesis and then they go out to get a yes or no answer. But you see, the answer is never a straight yes or a straight no.

Look at MY questions? The questions are leading to a yes or no answer, but the answer is probably neither. The questions came from the limited perspective of the human mind, and that is only a 1-10% of all of it... limited.

But aren"t those questions fundamental questions? Oh yes, and they are given by our current level of awareness. What is there is sentience and there is Sentience? What if our anthropomorphic perception misleads us? What if, coming from our need to get an answer gets us the wrong answer? It has, and for as long as we have been asking questions, from the beginning of the human species!

How many of you would have thought that we have inactive circuits in our DNA? How many have thought that we need to ask for these to be activated? That simply boggles the mind! It does not come from the same place my original question came: How do you get human to erase past pain and fear and wrong beliefs, permanently, so they can live a free or freer life?

That was the original question, and I was looking for a methodology of erasure and implanting... quite a different phenomenon from what turned out to be the situation.

What lead me to the current "solution" was being willing to be guided by something not earthly, nonsensical, in a way.

The guidance came through movies. First I was taught how I was going to be guided, through the TV series of "Medium." Then I was taught, little piece by little piece, what I could do, what darkness was, what lied in the way, what I needed to do.

I consider that a long meditation is going on, going into the 10th month... no breaks, no returning to "normal" consciousness.

And the amount of time I spent cross legged and closed eyed will probably amount to a few hours total. Looking like I am in deep meditation. I walked, worked, loved in deep meditation instead, Connected to my question, no matter how many answers came, like I am still now.

Meditation: What is it and why is it useful?

More on instant healing and instant transformation, The Avatar, and frogs that want to become princes

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When you look deep into yourself, you will find that at heart you are still an infant crying for the bottle. Friedrich Nietzsche _1 called it "infantile will to power", magical thinking that gives you the role of wanting, wishing, crying for, and gives the role to everyone around you to respond and give you what you want.

The Universe is based on the principle that no one has the right to sacrifice their need, their life, for the need or the life of another. Sacrifice is the kind of "deal" where one gets everything and the other gets nothing. No Universe, no planet, no country, no community, no family can be healthy if even just one person is willing to sacrifice themselves for another.

This is the main reason the Planet is out of balance, because the governing thought, the though of religion, new age, etc. promoted self-sacrifice pretending that good is that.

For the self-sacrificial cycle to come to be, there needs to be a value that is higher than human being, and that is NEED. Need cried, promoted as right to take from another, to suck away from another, is the fundamental motive power of a society of moochers and looters.

Moochers need self-sacrificing crowds, and looters need you to base your value on non-value, they need you to feel guilty, ashamed for who you are, what you accomplished, what"s great about you, what you have.

In order for you to feel guilty, the looters will create laws that are impossible to keep, like the tax law, like the maximum speed traffic law, and then they proceed to enforce it selectively.

When a whole society is looking over their shoulder because they are forced to break the laws and they don"t know when they are going to be apprehended, they are so out of balance, they already feel guilty all the time, they can be easily dominated, and coerced to give up more and more rights to the looters.

The biggest danger, the biggest threat to the looters is the man who has clear conscience. But to have clear conscience, one needs to know the real values, one needs to be able to think. Except that all of education is designed to kill real thinking, to kill real values as guiding lights.

The infant crying for the bottle has only one weapon: crying. His need. His desire. His wish. If he grows up in the environment of looters and moochers, he will, at some point, choose to be one or the other. His choice to become a man of conscience and inner strength is a fragment of one percent. If he were brought up with wolves, he would have more chance to become a MAN than in society.

Now, enter my activators, transformational programs. You have a desire to be loved. You have a desire to own stuff. You have a desire to enjoy life.

Do you think that there can be any magical energy, magical waving of the magic wand that can turn you into a prince, if all you know how to be is a frog?

If there were a way to change your appearance, by magic, who you would be still being is a frog, with all the desires, all the habits, all the values of a frog.

In my year-long program (closed for new registration) I am able to watch, I am able to track the real changes people need to go through to rebuild themselves to become MAN.

I was thinking about this, and was pondering how to make this more real for you.

There is a movie, Avatar, the poster shows blue men. It is about a planet that is inhabited by those blue men, and Americans wanting the resources of that planet. The Americans develop a process in which they wire men to animate bodies they manufacture that look like blue men. They call these manufactured bodies avatars, they are a stand-in for you, just like the little pictures you pick on online forums... they speak for you, they cover up who you are, but you animate them. Got it?

The main character of the movie is an injured marine, who lost the use of his legs. He is commanding and animating his blue men to become the best of blue men. It takes him months to take his avatar from clumsy, uncoordinated, undisciplined puppet, avatar, to a masterful warrior with a heart of a blue man.

That is exactly the process you will have to go through to become the kind of person who would have the feelings, the stuff, the abilities you desire. A process, not a wish, not magic, not a blue pill.

Our marine is lucky: his "trainer" is the best female warrior of the blue men, so he gets emotional support in his ambition to become the best: he wants her to like him and respect him. Don"t discount that: if you could have support like that, a big "why" in the "why bother" you would be advancing a lot faster than others.

I have a student who is in divorce proceedings. He is moving faster than my other students, because his desire to spend time with his child is so great, it makes him grow like a weed. By the way he is succeeding beyond his wildest dreams, the wife has completely recognized that he is a new man, and now seeks to accommodate his desire to spend time with the child. This would not have happened had he not changed to a person who is closer to man than to the moocher that used to cry for the bottle... I am simplifying, but it"s easier to prove a point this way. You don"t need to know the whole story.

The less real need you have to change, the less energy and support you have to change.

If you think you can survive staying the way you are, you probably will, no matter what anyone does to you. You will remain the frog in princes" clothing, but frog nevertheless.

My Avatar-State programs provide the support you can"t expect from "life" or your friends. The energy of those audios stimulate the "man" energies, from the inside, and start to create an inside why instead of hoping for an outside why.

I have no outside reason to do what I do, assuming the role of The Avatar, to restore balance on the planet. I could probably make much more money with other things I know how to do. I could have a lot more friends, etc.

I am not doing it because you need it, I don"t recognize your need as anything valid to make me do anything. I am doing it for inner reasons: this is me, and this is MY JOB.

The Avatar-State programs even worked on me: I have become much stronger in my inner why, and much more resourceful in the methods I bring the fulfillment of my purpose into being.

If you get just one percent of what I got, you"ll be all princes and princesses. And feel and act like ones, not like frogs.

Footnotes. Many of the most important things are said here! Please Read... Thank you.

1. Friedrich Nietzsche (1844–1900) was a German philosopher of the late 19th century [ ↩ ]

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Does thinking about something bring that thing about? Or what mistake the Law of Attraction people make that makes what they do fraud?

The simple answer to the question: "Does thinking about something bring that thing about?" is no it doesn"t. But it is not for the reason you think. It is because thinking about does not connect you to what you are thinking about.

Attention does. _1

They say in business: whatever you give your attention to, whatever you measure _2 will grow.

What is attention? Where does it come from? What is the nature of attention?

Attention is one distinct aspect of a human being. It is not mind, it is not eyes, it is not intention, not visualization, not thinking about, not even thinking. The starting point of attention, emphatically located, is in the backside of the eyes, or thereabout. _3

Attention is much like a search light, a narrow beam search light. It has a direction, but, unlike search light, it has power. It is able to move your Self to what it directs itself to. This is my interpretation, not necessarily the Truth, but darn close to it. The Self can move with the attention into the object of the attention, like an energy. _4

You can"t be casual and move your attention. You can"t be thinking about stuff and move your attention at the same time. You can"t worry and move your attention to anything other than your worry. You need to be clear to move your attention.

When you actually move your attention you will notice that you put power behind it.

Multi-tasking reduces your effectiveness and intelligence because you are trying to move the narrow-beam attention from one thing to another and back, oscillating between two or three things.

Because attention is quite physical in that it takes energy to move it, it takes energy for the Self to settle in the new location, oscillation between two or more destinations is against the nature of, against the design of attention.

Hurry also works against attention; on one hand hurry takes away your power that you would give to attention and it puts that same power into the thought-form: we need to hurry... aka "there is something wrong here" or "somewhere else is better than here."

Anything you try to do hurriedly will come out shabby. When I have a deadline, I have practiced this, I calm my mind down that would want to tell me to hurry, and force myself to put all my attention on the one thing I am doing, until it"s done. To the degree that the thought: hurry, is still active, to that same degree the action will be ineffective and mistakes will happen.

Most people will not know what it means: put power behind an action. Most people only do one thing with power: they resist. Their whole life is a big "no."

I have a student who alternates between "no" and going limp. If she could put the power she puts behind "no", on something that"s a yes, she would be winning in life. She hasn"t gotten the concept, yet.

Sidenote: you don"t need to put emotion into the attention, actually that may backfire!

In my drill calls (presently we are taking a break from that right now), the most important thing I teach people is how to use their attention, tightly control it like you would want to control a sword, or the steering wheel of a vehicle you are driving.

Does attention really cause its object to grow?

There have been experiments with plants. Plants are good: placebo effect is rare with plants.

You decide to pay attention to a particular plant you have access to. You determinedly don"t change your actions, just the amount of attention you give to the plant.

Time and time again, in every experiment, the results are staggering. _5

If it is true with plants and crops, then it is true.

It is also true in business. The numbers you check frequently start to grow _6 .

I have done an experiment recently: I set out to increase my numbers in one of my businesses without increasing my resources, without spending more money on advertising, without doing anything other than keep my fingers on the pulse of the business.

I now check my ads on a daily basis, I think of the people that read it, I look at other advertsisers" ads. I have seen what makes my service special, and have committed to be more like that.

My numbers have grown crazy. I am afraid to jinx myself, so I won"t tell you how much, but one thing is clear: it"s been my fault that that particular business suffered and almost died in the months where I took it for granted, when I expected it to just give and give and give, without me giving it any energy.

What is the truth about this whole attention thing?

All my examples came from instances where the only real thing that was missing was attention in a business/job, the crops, and maybe this is true for relationships as well, instances where the resources were already established.

Just like Christie Marie Sheldon"s abundance course only worked for people that had resources with a lot more potential revenues than what they were already producing, if you have no resources you first need to create some: use the attention to create resources instead of growing your numbers. _7

The same thing is not true for my Avatar State audios: if you have resources, they activate them. If you don"t, they activate your intention and power to create resources. This is the element that is most missing from all available programs.

The Avatar State audios rebuild you from the ground up. They leave no aspect of you out.

All aspects of a human being are mandatory for a thriving person: body, mind, constructive thinking, ego, Self, soul, subconscious, attention, intention, will, observer/witness are all needed: they have a function that other aspects can"t or won"t take over.

Your current thinking, your Tree of Knowledge mind holds some of those aspects as desirable and others as undesirable. This puts you out of balance, puts you on the path to inner tension, and ineffectiveness.

The Avatar State audios restore the balance of your being, so you can live like a human, like a Man, not as a puppet serving your masters. Thinking about is for puppets.

Footnotes. Many of the most important things are said here! Please Read... Thank you.

1. Thinking about doesn"t use your attention, only your mind. Your mind has NOTHING to do with your attention, unless you identify yourself with your mind. If you do, you will think that you are your thought, NOT what you direct your thought at, and that is just as weak as not having any attention. [ ↩ ]
2. measuring needs your undivided attention and thorough understanding of what you measure [ ↩ ]
3. In experiments, if you are able to feel anything, you can actually feel a slight dimple in the back of the yes when you consciously and powerfully put your attention to something! [ ↩ ]
4. The Self is one of those donut energy structures the Black Whole movie is talking about. Our Self, unfortunately, is fragmented. In my Activate Divinity Course I assist people in finding the lost and denied fragments so they can restore the Original Divine Self. But just like with an amputee, they have pain in their non-existent limb, you can have pain in your non-present Self, emotional pain. And the attention always tries to move the whole Self, whether it is present of not. [ ↩ ]
5. In my opinion, this is the reason why Mr. T. has produced results with crops: his results with crops are his claim to fame as a powerful energy practitioner. When crops are given energy, the owner suddenly starts to turn his attention and watch and observe that same growing field with the crops. The results of growth come from that attention, not from the original energy infusion. This may not be true when you get an energy infusion to your body from the same person. A field of crops is homogenous, and you know what you are paying attention to. The human body and the mind is a complex system, and unless you have the power to pay attention to one thing only, and not the whole, your results will be nothing, or near nothing. [ ↩ ]
6. unless you are not connecting to the source of those numbers. You can"t assign to an assistent to check the numbers: they don"t connect to the numbers, they have nothing to do with them. You, the owner do. A sales person does, but differently from you [ ↩ ]
7. By the way, most courses produce results by directing your attention. This is true for Christie Marie Sheldon, for T. Harv Eker, for Anthony Robbins... and to some degree some of the results my students experience are due to their increased attention. In addition to this type of results, a course or a coaching/energy session could produce quantum results if it actually adds something or changes something in the participants. My experience has been that actually causing real additions or changes is rare and it is always energetic. None of the above teachers, Christie Marie Sheldon, T. Harv Eker, or Anthony Robbins wield energies, regardless of what they say. Their results are the predictable 1%, the 1% of all participants that have resources and the tools to work on them. [ ↩ ]

Does thinking about something bring that thing about? Or what mistake the Law of Attraction people make that makes what they do fraud?