How reality gets lost and all you are left with is YOUR interpretation, and emotions

Most of what I do in life is to feed my curiosity, that is, (luckily?) perfectly aligned with my mission: taking humans to the next evolutionary level of humanity: human being.

There is a lot to observe if you have the right questions, but observation is one thing, the right interpretation is another...

We learn in the Playground that what you see/observe/experience comes to you, at you as a tight package that like a hand, has a front of the hand, and the back of the hand. We call that in this work "occurrence". ((I could also use, instead of the front of the hand and the back of the hand, the example of Siamese twins, twins that have two separate brains, two separate set of eyes... The two will see the world differently. The occurrence will be made up of inseparable, and yet different views of the same thing...))

Give the same occurrence to a thousand people, and you"ll get a hundred interpretations... but what is happening, reality is always the same, only the interpretation, the words change depending on the observer. On their life experiences, on their "case", on the number of spiritual capacities they have (that will depend on how much of what is actually happening they can see...)

Here is an example: on the hour long Hit and Mix recording I have been listening and exercising to, Elvis Presley sings a popular song, It"s now or never...

I hate that song... because all I can hear is two things: the words and the pitch don"t fit Elvis... and that he is pressuring this young woman into having sex with him... So I identify myself with the woman, and hate Elvis.

Then later that same day I am singing O sole mio... and realize that the song Elvis is "forced" to sing is O sole mio, widely famous because of Luciano Pavarotti, an opera singer. Of course I have no concept what the words say: I don"t know Italian. But I love that song... ((here is the English translation of O sole mio
English Translation
What a wonderful thing a sunny day
The serene air after a thunderstorm
The fresh air, and a party is already going on…
What a wonderful thing a sunny day.

But another sun,
that’s brighter still
It’s my own sun
that’s in your face!
The sun, my own sun
It’s in your face!
It’s in your face!

When night comes and the sun has gone down,
I start feeling blue;
I’d stay below your window
When night comes and the sun has gone down.

But another sun,
that’s brighter still
It’s my own sun
that’s in your face!
The sun, my own sun
It’s in your face!
It’s in your face!

Just like occurrences... all songs have the stamp of the performer on them...
Here is O sole mio sang by Enrico Caruso
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u1QJwHWvgP8
with Andrea Bocelli
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v1IZHdr23XI
and the 3 tenors
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ERD4CbBDNI0

definitely worth a listening... if you know any music...
oh, here is Elvis Presley"s low-brow rendition
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mMNu6HSzE_g

OK, kill me for being politically incorrect... lol.))

But you add the bad translation that the "me-too" me focuses on... and I hate Elvis"s version of it... lol.

Once I get the connection, I get my interpretation, and I calm down. All is well in Sophie"s world...

Here is a second example: in a book I am reading, ((David Archer: Hit for Hire)) two different hitmen are pitted against each other, one with a military background, and one who is a psychopath and enjoys killing.

Both are there to eliminate the other, but one has a narrower cone of vision: fairness, "may the best man win" attitude, while the other has none of that... and this second one almost wins... taking advantage of the first"s limited cone of vision. ((Most books I read are about men with something lacking... emotion, fear, autistic men, to allow me to see more, learn more about the rest of the men who are run amok by their emotions.))

And there is also a third example, somewhat an extension of the second: As you know I use the computer solitaire game, Freecell to observe the nature of reality... Sounds hokey? Check your premises, please.

Every game I play consciously is to test something out.

Sometimes it is conscious, other times it is inspired... meaning NOT conscious.

As a person, I am a timid player. Hard to believe, because in my work I appear to be bold... but bold was decided, while my innate nature is timid.

So my innate Freecell playing is also timid... What is timid in Freecell? It is taking the hand that the Universe dealt, the playing ground...

What is bold in Freecell? It is shaking up the hand that the Universe dealt... by rearranging the cards boldly... with a really wide cone of vision.

The two states of being, timid and bold, give two completely different view in the "occurrence", the front of the hand didn"t change, but the back of the hand are as different as they can ever be.

You have fixed attitudes, and very little to say about it. Inside the occurrence your fixed attitude gives you, you can see mighty little of what I teach.

It is enough for me to see my Playground participants... each watched the same videos, each came to the same presentation, and each had a different occurrence... Most not at all in line with what I intended to teach.

The biggest difference in what they got has to do with the amount of foundation they "own"... the amount of foundation they have appropriated through organized learning, and reading.

Also there seems to be an unfair advantage to being bilingual... living in a culture that is not native to you.

Anyway... I hope the above stories explain sufficiently why I could make all my products available to all, and mighty few would get much benefit: until you master the front of the hand and the back of the hand distinction, and focus on the "reality", instead of your interpretation of it, you are going to stay the same... see the same, think the same, feel the same... and that is not what you wanted... is it?

By the way, I hope you"ll enjoy reading this article, watching the videos as much as I enjoyed writing it for you. :-)

Been there done that! the fixed mindset and how it prevents you from changing yourself and your life...

How the notes you take, the stories you tell, put blinders on you and prevent you from growing...

As a coach, I will send you back to the same book, the same video a number of times. My intention is that you watch it... But some students won"t watch it again, they go to their notes, and read them instead. In their mind they say: I have done that... I know! And they kill their chance to see how much they have grown, and their chance to allow their consciousness to see something different.

This is the same mechanism that your stories remain the same. You say the same thing at age 50 as what you said at age six. If the stories you tell remain the same, then be sure: you have remained the same.

http://evp-50116959de4b9-dd521b5ed563ee25508422182c681a30.s3.amazonaws.com/story-you-tell.mp4

Telling what happened the same way is the most important way fixed mindset manifests.

Fixed mindset violates the adage: you can"t step in the same river twice...

The well translated (from Greek) quote is "“No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it’s not the same river and he’s not the same man.”

If you think that the river is the same, or if you think you are the same, you have a fixed mindset. And even if you have changed, you won"t know... you will not allow what you consciously see become different.

What do I mean?

The seed level on which I base my coaching is that the basis of your existence is what you see. It gives you the second part of the "occurrence", what you perceive happens, and your actions will be in a perfect correlation, in a perfect dance with what you see: the occurrence.

So my job, as a "change agent", a coach, is to use what I have available to myself, as tools to change what you see, the occurrence.

The "thing" you look at can be life, events, other people, and yourself.

I am rarely able to change the reality part of occurrence (occurrence=reality+what you say about it), but more often than not, that has already happened, so I can only change the "what you say about it" part, that is, depending on the level of your fixed mindset, can change a little bit or a lot.

When occurrence thus changes, your further actions and what you say about life, yourself, can change.

That is the whole secret of growth, that is the whole secret of coaching, that is the whole secret of self-actualization.

I bring the new angle of looking, I bring the speaking.

Your job is to come around and look from the new angle, to allow YOUR speaking to change.

It sounds easy, but there are obstacles, sticky hinges...

Occurrence is like a door than swings on sticky hinges. The stickier the hinges the less willing the door will be to swing, and the more likely it will automatically return to its original position when you are not looking.

So what makes the hinges sticky?

We"ll look at it through the starting point measurements.

• 1. your vibration (1-1000): Your vibration is a combo number that tells me from what height and with what accuracy you look at reality. When this is a low number, your height and accuracy will be lacking, and you will listen to what I say as my opinion, my good idea, but you actually won"t be able to see it yourself.


• 2. your overall intelligence, emotional, intellectual, spiritual, body, relationship, etc.: This is also a combination number, that grades your aptitude to see reality in different areas of life and respond accurately. This number is a percentage, instead of the vibration number, which is a logarithmic number. Your overall intelligence shows a percentage: to what degree you can work with what you have, instead of comparing you to other people.
  
  If you don"t have much to work with, but you use what you have brilliantly, your overall intelligence can be a high number. But most people "sport" a really low number, meaning that they have a lot of room to grow.


• 3. the number of spiritual capacities you have: There are 160 spiritual capacities hardwired in your DNA. They are dormant, inactive, unusable in most people. They will turn on when you actually do things, regularly, that need them.
  
  Most people never do anything regularly that turns on capacities. This number is a very reliable indicator of a fixed mindset: you see yourself unchanged, and unchangeable: fixed, and you refuse to do things you are not already suited for.


• 4. your soul correction (your machine): There are soul corrections that are more fixed mindset than others https://www.yourvibration.com/sc


• 5. do you have attachments? Attachments can be so irritating, or so "leash-like" that you have no mind to spare for change. this is true to all attachment-like phenomena: placed on you by a malicious person, your soul fragments you denied, your base belief about yourself, or the "anchor to doom" around which you circle the drain. I talk about these somewhere else.


• 6. the level of your health (1-100): The higher your health number, the more energy you have above mere survival... so this number directly influences how fixed is your few: survival mode, scarcity mode is a fixed view of the world and yourself.


• 7. the level of your cell hydration (1-100): Same as the health number.


• 8. your relationship to feedback and instruction: Of course, if your attitude to input is that it"s judgment, right/wrong, an attack, you won"t allow feedback and instruction to move you and move the door... This is a very significant reason most people cannot and will not grow.


• 9. The level of discomfort you are willing to allow w/o trying to fix it. This is your TLB score... Growth, change are inherently scary. It is natural to be afraid. You will have a hard time allowing yourself to go with change and even if you change, this is the force that returns the door to the original position where life was comfortable and you didn"t have to feel discomfort.


• 10. The size of your vocabulary: the number of words you can use accurately: This is a filter that causes you to not hear, not see anything that you haven"t already seen and decided about. If this number doesn"t change during your coaching, I know that I am failing. It"s hard work to raise this number. Reading and pondering changes it. Pondering is connecting the dots of reality differently than before. Busy people don"t ponder. They chase the next thing to do: no pondering.


• 11. To what degree you think of yourself: This is the inverse humility number. If you have yourself in the center of the filter through with you look at events, things to do, reality, you can see that your view cannot change, because consciousness is fixed, anchored, and the view of life cannot change. This is the most important number that determines to what degree your door can open or not.


• 12. % of fixed mindset: This is a combo number, and in my experience isn"t an accurate representation of your willingness you change your mind.


• 13. Ambition: A higher ambition number indicates a higher willingness to make changes, and to actually invest energy into making things happen


• 14. Desire: A high desire number indicates a desire trap. As with any trap, this number shows in reverse how far you are willing to go from the fixed view of life to get what you want. A high desire number indicates blinders.


• 15. Degree of inauthenticity overall: Inauthenticity is the distance between your public self and your real self. The more you want to be seen as, the better, the more this acts as a barrier to growth, an barrier to change, a barrier to becoming. Without changing the environment, the people for whose sake you pretend, this number is quite fixed. Moving house, moving town, changing friends, changing jobs, may be necessary: very few people will be willing for that.


• 16. Level of integrity 1-100: This number is very strongly correlated with the inauthenticity number.


• 17. how enslaved are you to memes? (what percentage of your life is run by memes?) Memes act as the opposite of grease... the higher this number the more sticky, rusted hinges will behave.


• 18. do you have a bridge between your precious "I" and your actual I? What is your level of delusion... The higher this number the more you"ll protect the Precious "I", the fake self, and the less you"ll be willing to change.


• 19. To what degree you have access to your adult capacities. this is the inverse number that shows to what degree you"ve been willing to change the stories you tell.


• 20. How teachable/how coachable are you? The higher this number is the more you are willing to allow your consciousness to go where the coach is taking it.


• 21. The level of your awareness? if this number is low, you won"t notice that you are taken to places that are different. You will step into the same river every time.


• 23. the percentage of time you spend in the mind: This number is the inverse of the awareness number... you cannot be aware inside the mind.


• 24. the percentage of input that gets through to you. This number is a combination of your awareness number and your coachability number.


• 25. How inspired can you become? And what level are you now... This number shows your intrinsic/internal motivation. The energy you have available after all the having to, needing to, wanting to and should. The more the shoulds drive you, the less you are willing to change.

As you can see, it is quite predictable how effective coaching and guidance can be for you.

What is the bottom line?

The more tethered your consciousness is to where it"s at, the less you can change what you see and the less willing you"ll be to say something different about what you see.

The Playground program is entirely dedicated to altering "occurrence".

We cannot change what happened, but when seen as a separate action, we can change what we say about it.

How successful you"ll be in that program depends on your fixed mindset that keeps what you react to the same.

This is ultimately the most important indicator of your life satisfaction: to what degree you have control over your life.

The degree of flexibility you have about what you say about things.

Positive thinking is a bastardized version of this: it is not about positive or negative: you cannot reduce life to two colors and be happy and effective in life.

The more colors you have in your palette, the more ways you can see, interpret, explain, the more creativity you have available for yourself in seeing things that are real, the more power you have over your life.

At this point you probably have one, maybe two ways... The job is to have many.

Reality: collective hunch at best. This means: we don"t know what things mean.

Will Durant historian said: unless you are able to see 500 years before and 500 years after, you have no idea what it means that this happened or that happened.

I have a 70 year perspective on the happenings in my life. My interpretation of the events in my life have gone through hundreds of re-evaluation, although in the beginning, just like you, I had very rusted hinges on the door to change.

The swinging of the door, frequently, removes the rust. And you can become all you can be.

You hope you can become all you can be without changing your mind about things that you have a strong opinion.

Dream on... it is not possible.

Unless what you see changes, you cannot change, and your life cannot change.

The person who you are now cannot and will not do well, will not accomplish what you desire, no matter how real it looks in your imagination.

In fact, that imagination is what keeps you stuck...

Been there done that! the fixed mindset and how it prevents you from changing yourself and your life...

How the notes you take, the stories you tell, put blinders on you and prevent you from growing...

As a coach, I will send you back to the same book, the same video a number of times. My intention is that you watch it... But some students won"t watch it again, they go to their notes, and read them instead. In their mind they say: I have done that... I know! And they kill their chance to see how much they have grown, and their chance to allow their consciousness to see something different.

This is the same mechanism that your stories remain the same. You say the same thing at age 50 as what you said at age six. If the stories you tell remain the same, then be sure: you have remained the same.

http://evp-50116959de4b9-dd521b5ed563ee25508422182c681a30.s3.amazonaws.com/story-you-tell.mp4

Telling what happened the same way is the most important way fixed mindset manifests.

Fixed mindset violates the adage: you can"t step in the same river twice...

The well translated (from Greek) quote is "“No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it’s not the same river and he’s not the same man.”

If you think that the river is the same, or if you think you are the same, you have a fixed mindset. And even if you have changed, you won"t know... you will not allow what you consciously see become different.

What do I mean?

The seed level on which I base my coaching is that the basis of your existence is what you see. It gives you the second part of the "occurrence", what you perceive happens, and your actions will be in a perfect correlation, in a perfect dance with what you see: the occurrence.

So my job, as a "change agent", a coach, is to use what I have available to myself, as tools to change what you see, the occurrence.

The "thing" you look at can be life, events, other people, and yourself.

I am rarely able to change the reality part of occurrence (occurrence=reality+what you say about it), but more often than not, that has already happened, so I can only change the "what you say about it" part, that is, depending on the level of your fixed mindset, can change a little bit or a lot.

When occurrence thus changes, your further actions and what you say about life, yourself, can change.

That is the whole secret of growth, that is the whole secret of coaching, that is the whole secret of self-actualization.

I bring the new angle of looking, I bring the speaking.

Your job is to come around and look from the new angle, to allow YOUR speaking to change.

It sounds easy, but there are obstacles, sticky hinges...

Occurrence is like a door than swings on sticky hinges. The stickier the hinges the less willing the door will be to swing, and the more likely it will automatically return to its original position when you are not looking.

So what makes the hinges sticky?

We"ll look at it through the starting point measurements.

• 1. your vibration (1-1000): Your vibration is a combo number that tells me from what height and with what accuracy you look at reality. When this is a low number, your height and accuracy will be lacking, and you will listen to what I say as my opinion, my good idea, but you actually won"t be able to see it yourself.


• 2. your overall intelligence, emotional, intellectual, spiritual, body, relationship, etc.: This is also a combination number, that grades your aptitude to see reality in different areas of life and respond accurately. This number is a percentage, instead of the vibration number, which is a logarithmic number. Your overall intelligence shows a percentage: to what degree you can work with what you have, instead of comparing you to other people.
  
  If you don"t have much to work with, but you use what you have brilliantly, your overall intelligence can be a high number. But most people "sport" a really low number, meaning that they have a lot of room to grow.


• 3. the number of spiritual capacities you have: There are 160 spiritual capacities hardwired in your DNA. They are dormant, inactive, unusable in most people. They will turn on when you actually do things, regularly, that need them.
  
  Most people never do anything regularly that turns on capacities. This number is a very reliable indicator of a fixed mindset: you see yourself unchanged, and unchangeable: fixed, and you refuse to do things you are not already suited for.


• 4. your soul correction (your machine): There are soul corrections that are more fixed mindset than others https://www.yourvibration.com/sc


• 5. do you have attachments? Attachments can be so irritating, or so "leash-like" that you have no mind to spare for change. this is true to all attachment-like phenomena: placed on you by a malicious person, your soul fragments you denied, your base belief about yourself, or the "anchor to doom" around which you circle the drain. I talk about these somewhere else.


• 6. the level of your health (1-100): The higher your health number, the more energy you have above mere survival... so this number directly influences how fixed is your few: survival mode, scarcity mode is a fixed view of the world and yourself.


• 7. the level of your cell hydration (1-100): Same as the health number.


• 8. your relationship to feedback and instruction: Of course, if your attitude to input is that it"s judgment, right/wrong, an attack, you won"t allow feedback and instruction to move you and move the door... This is a very significant reason most people cannot and will not grow.


• 9. The level of discomfort you are willing to allow w/o trying to fix it. This is your TLB score... Growth, change are inherently scary. It is natural to be afraid. You will have a hard time allowing yourself to go with change and even if you change, this is the force that returns the door to the original position where life was comfortable and you didn"t have to feel discomfort.


• 10. The size of your vocabulary: the number of words you can use accurately: This is a filter that causes you to not hear, not see anything that you haven"t already seen and decided about. If this number doesn"t change during your coaching, I know that I am failing. It"s hard work to raise this number. Reading and pondering changes it. Pondering is connecting the dots of reality differently than before. Busy people don"t ponder. They chase the next thing to do: no pondering.


• 11. To what degree you think of yourself: This is the inverse humility number. If you have yourself in the center of the filter through with you look at events, things to do, reality, you can see that your view cannot change, because consciousness is fixed, anchored, and the view of life cannot change. This is the most important number that determines to what degree your door can open or not.


• 12. % of fixed mindset: This is a combo number, and in my experience isn"t an accurate representation of your willingness you change your mind.


• 13. Ambition: A higher ambition number indicates a higher willingness to make changes, and to actually invest energy into making things happen


• 14. Desire: A high desire number indicates a desire trap. As with any trap, this number shows in reverse how far you are willing to go from the fixed view of life to get what you want. A high desire number indicates blinders.


• 15. Degree of inauthenticity overall: Inauthenticity is the distance between your public self and your real self. The more you want to be seen as, the better, the more this acts as a barrier to growth, an barrier to change, a barrier to becoming. Without changing the environment, the people for whose sake you pretend, this number is quite fixed. Moving house, moving town, changing friends, changing jobs, may be necessary: very few people will be willing for that.


• 16. Level of integrity 1-100: This number is very strongly correlated with the inauthenticity number.


• 17. how enslaved are you to memes? (what percentage of your life is run by memes?) Memes act as the opposite of grease... the higher this number the more sticky, rusted hinges will behave.


• 18. do you have a bridge between your precious "I" and your actual I? What is your level of delusion... The higher this number the more you"ll protect the Precious "I", the fake self, and the less you"ll be willing to change.


• 19. To what degree you have access to your adult capacities. this is the inverse number that shows to what degree you"ve been willing to change the stories you tell.


• 20. How teachable/how coachable are you? The higher this number is the more you are willing to allow your consciousness to go where the coach is taking it.


• 21. The level of your awareness? if this number is low, you won"t notice that you are taken to places that are different. You will step into the same river every time.


• 23. the percentage of time you spend in the mind: This number is the inverse of the awareness number... you cannot be aware inside the mind.


• 24. the percentage of input that gets through to you. This number is a combination of your awareness number and your coachability number.


• 25. How inspired can you become? And what level are you now... This number shows your intrinsic/internal motivation. The energy you have available after all the having to, needing to, wanting to and should. The more the shoulds drive you, the less you are willing to change.

As you can see, it is quite predictable how effective coaching and guidance can be for you.

What is the bottom line?

The more tethered your consciousness is to where it"s at, the less you can change what you see and the less willing you"ll be to say something different about what you see.

The Playground program is entirely dedicated to altering "occurrence".

We cannot change what happened, but when seen as a separate action, we can change what we say about it.

How successful you"ll be in that program depends on your fixed mindset that keeps what you react to the same.

This is ultimately the most important indicator of your life satisfaction: to what degree you have control over your life.

The degree of flexibility you have about what you say about things.

Positive thinking is a bastardized version of this: it is not about positive or negative: you cannot reduce life to two colors and be happy and effective in life.

The more colors you have in your palette, the more ways you can see, interpret, explain, the more creativity you have available for yourself in seeing things that are real, the more power you have over your life.

At this point you probably have one, maybe two ways... The job is to have many.

Reality: collective hunch at best. This means: we don"t know what things mean.

Will Durant historian said: unless you are able to see 500 years before and 500 years after, you have no idea what it means that this happened or that happened.

I have a 70 year perspective on the happenings in my life. My interpretation of the events in my life have gone through hundreds of re-evaluation, although in the beginning, just like you, I had very rusted hinges on the door to change.

The swinging of the door, frequently, removes the rust. And you can become all you can be.

You hope you can become all you can be without changing your mind about things that you have a strong opinion.

Dream on... it is not possible.

Unless what you see changes, you cannot change, and your life cannot change.

The person who you are now cannot and will not do well, will not accomplish what you desire, no matter how real it looks in your imagination.

In fact, that imagination is what keeps you stuck...

What do you see with?

Brain Plasticity...

The brain that changes itself is a book I read in 2011... And today I watched the documentary... and let you also see it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bFCOm1P_cQQ

Why have I been thinking about brain plasticity/neuroplasticity?

Because I have been intrigued by the fact that in this recent illness I could clearly see the things that were happening inside my gut, and what was the next step to bring myself back to health.

Had I gone to a doctor, I would be dead.

Why? Because doctors, unless they cut you open, can"t see... they can only see what they understand, and they can only see with their eyes... most of them, at least. Internists, definitely.

I have realized that through many decades of self-training, I have corrected brain issues that I was born with, and compensated for many disabilities due to being born a very premature, very small baby in a hospital with no incubator, to a mother who didn"t want me.

I must have been really stupid... I didn"t feel stupid, by the way. But from the behavior of my mother and my siblings, the "official" opinion about me was that I was stupid.

Because I had the "spirit" really strong in me, I have overcome most of the challenges that nature and myself set in front of me.

And in the last twenty or so years, I started to see not with my eyes, but with my feelings/sensations.

Obviously seeing needed to be coupled with an accurate understanding... so I am an avid reader... on average I read ten books a month, when I have more time, twenty, while I run this business as well, write my articles, have coaching calls, etc.

Beating this weird poisoning in my gut took 8 zig-zag moves, and I am still not quite done (I am done 92%). But every move was a surprise to me: unorthodox, but effective.

“As novices, we don"t trust our judgment. Then we have some success, and begin to feel a little surer of ourselves. Finally, we get to the top of our game and succumb to the trap of thinking that there"s nothing we can"t master. As we get older and more experienced, we overestimate the accuracy of our judgments, especially when the task before us is difficult and when we"re involved with something of great personal importance… Most people are inclined to use moral terms to describe overconfidence — terms such as "arrogance" or "hubris." But psychologists tend to regard overconfidence as a state as much as a trait.”

- Malcolm Gladwell, "Cocksure," an essay in the July 27, 2009, New Yorker.

When we enter a conversation with curiosity, we allow ourselves to see things differently and to be surprised by what we discover.

One of the moves,to prevent the offending bacteria from adhering to my gut wall, I have been taking Mannose sugar... So I can flush out the bacteria.

When I was little, I got treated for apparent urinary infections with all kinds of medication that was designed to kill microorganisms... and those urinary infections returned with a frightening regularity.

Now, 60 years later I know they weren"t treated right: the offender, the cause of the discomfort was misdiagnosed. So treatment has caused countless of additional illnesses down the line, many was near-fatal.

All kinds of stuff can cause discomfort in your bladder and other parts of your peeing equipment. Among others the "mites" I have been observing, and have nearly 100% conquered over. I am nearly 100% sure that the urinary infection was not that... it was the mites.

What you see

We, humans... I am sure of that, cannot see how much we see, we cannot see how much of what we see is accurate, and most of the time we don"t know what we see.

How do I know? By observing.

On one hand there are you and others I am observing, and I can see that you have no idea what you are doing, because you have no idea what"s going on.

The cliche: Some people make things happen. Some people watch things happen. And then there are those who wonder, "What the hell just happened?"

At certain level of "expertise" or competence, you actually return to "I don"t know what I am seeing"...

You see, from the results, that you actually saw a lot, and saw it accurately.

The opposite is the 99%: they think they see a lot, they think they see it accurately, and they wake up with the shabby result that show that they neither saw much of reality, and even what they saw was not accurate... so the results are supposed to be poor, a shadow boxing incident.

I have been trying to get it through to you, that what decides what you"ll do is what you see. No what you remember. Not what you know. Not what you think. But what you see.

There is a correlation among those... but ultimately all the thinking won"t make you see differently than what you see... no matter how many affirmations you"ll repeat.

I made a vision board, a collage of some 20 pictures, some 10 years ago. It is on my refrigerator door.

I have not made any moves towards any of the small pictures on it. Any.

Because all seeing comes with a "silent" speaking, and together what you see and what you said will become what Landmark calls "Occurrence"... So technically your actions will come from Occurrence.

occurrence: what you see plus what you say about it.

All those "realities" depicted on the individual pictures, are in the domain of "not possible for me" or "not important to me"... and thus: no action.

You are the same way, with a difference: you either lie to yourself, or you are completely deaf and blind... neither see nor hear.

So you HABITUALLY talk about impossible futures, and what you want, and what you wish for... while your actions aren"t in sync with what you say...

Students of mine who train with EyeQ are going through a miraculous brain training. It is not for everyone. If you are happy being dull, boring, and bored, it is not for you.

It prepared my brain to wake up and correct itself when I had my second major traumatic brain injury in 1998. There are hardly any symptoms remaining...