Should you become a client? Would I even accept you as a client?

For decades one of my sore spots was that people refused to serve me, even though I paid them.

I remember saying to myself: my money is not good enough for you? and wept.

I had no idea how I "accomplished" that... in 20/20 hindsight it is still a little spotty.

What wasn"t clear to me, never even occurred to me, how my attitude effected the service provider. My "To what degree you think of yourself:" starting point measure was, at the time, 70%. From my behavior I would have guessed it was higher.

Mainly I overrode what they said. I argued, I knew better, I acted with contempt...

What I didn"t know then is that being a service provider needs to be a win, or no service.

A customer who is not happy is a drag on an provider, and not worth the little (or even a lot of) money they pay.

I was that kind of customer...


By 1987 I started to see more of the invisible dynamic that was running my life, that kept me an angry victim, that made me feel entitled, etc.

With that my vibration rose, even without getting fully conscious and aware of how I used to be, my attitude changed, and life got better for me. Because no man is an island, and I did need help.

One of the most important criteria, it seems, is whether the provider is allowed to make a difference or not.

One of my measurements in the Starting Point Measurements [note]1. your vibration (1-1000):
2. your overall intelligence, emotional, intellectual, spiritual, body, relationship, etc.:
3. the number of spiritual capacities you have:
4. your soul correction (your machine): https://www.yourvibration.com/sc
5. do you have attachments?
6. the level of your health (1-100):
7. the level of your cell hydration (1-100):
8. your relationship to feedback and instruction:
9. The level of discomfort you are willing to allow w/o trying to fix it. This is your TLB score...
10. The size of your vocabulary: the number of words you can use accurately:
11. To what degree you think of yourself:
12. # of fixed mindset:
13. Ambition:
14. Desire:
15. Degree of inauthenticity overall:
16. Level of integrity 1-100:
17. how enslaved are you to memes? (what percentage of your life is run by memes?)
18. do you have a bridge between your precious "I" and your actual I? your level of delusion
19. Recommendations:

[/note] is your response, your attitude regarding feedback and instruction. I used to answer that with the category from a book I read: "smart, foolish, evil" but I abandoned that categorization: I didn"t like what I was getting.

I became more interested in what someone does when they don"t like the instruction or the feedback. A lot of people, after the initial emotional state, come back and do what they are asked to do...

If I can tell them: read this book and without justification, without explanation, they go and read it. They may feel reluctant, resistant, angry, but because I asked them they say: OK and do it.

In 1987, green and still with a huge attitude, I signed up a year long training program: Team, Management, Leadership. Why? I didn"t have any reason, I just liked to get trained.

Four of the five weekends of the of the course were in California. I remember sitting at the airports by myself: I was a lone ranger... unaware that my loneliness was a result of my own attitude... [note]That became conscious for me only some 20 years later, when I created a collage to deal with this seeming reality: I am alone. I wrote about it, I think, in another post. The top picture. (the bear on one side, on the top of a tree, and the multitude of penguins, and people, on the other side) is the collage that allowed me to see. And for the first time I managed to take responsibility for my reality. I am alone by choice. Duh.[/note]

One of the assignments from the program was to read the Science Fiction by Colin Wilson: The Mind Parasite.

I bought the book, it was maybe five bucks. And it took me a whole year to read it. I could get through 2-3 pages, and that was that. It was the hardest book I had read thus far. 10-15 new words on every page... It took me 20-30 minutes to get through 2-3 pages. But at some point efforting was replaced by genuine wonder. It was still work, but now it was discovery.

I found out that not many of the people in the program read it. But it counted for 4-5 years of instruction: learning something from fiction, from immersing in fiction, is incredibly effective.

Roy Williams says in today"s Monday Morning Memo, quoting

"Fiction is usually seen as escapist entertainment…But it"s hard to reconcile the escapist theory of fiction with the deep patterns we find in the art of storytelling… Our various fictional worlds are– on the whole– horrorscapes. Fiction may temporarily free us from our troubles, but it does so by ensnaring us in new sets of troubles– in imaginary worlds of struggle and stress and mortal woe… Fiction also seems to be more effective at changing beliefs than nonfiction, which is designed to persuade through argument and evidence. Studies show that when we read nonfiction, we read with our shields up. We are critical and skeptical. But when we are absorbed in a story, we drop our intellectual guard."
– Jonathan Gottschall

Today"s whole memo is to illustrate this idea... that story is real, immersive, and instructive.

I have learned a lot more from fiction than from training, from non-fiction, from coaching. And the cost of it was, of course, a lot lower.

On the other hand, I probably would not have learned that much from novels and maybe even movies had I not also learned distinctions from the more expensive, brainy activities of the other.

I have The Mind Parasites in the members area, and according to my statistics, my people haven"t been reading it.

Back in 1987, my accurate vocabulary measure in English was 700. Today it is 3500... With an accurate 700 vocabulary it was a difficult read. It is harder to read than most non-fiction, but because of the story, it is a lot more effective.

I am going to make a new rule: I won"t take on any new client who doesn"t, at least, attempt to read the book.

You don"t have to be a genius to become a client... if you don"t do what I ask you to do... I probably can"t help you.

Without creativity you are an also ran... Why can"t you bring creativity to life?

This is an article and this is a tip...

The program that releases creativity is the Playground

Without creativity you are an also ran... Why can"t you bring creativity to life?

This is an article and this is a tip...

The program that releases creativity is the Playground

Been there done that! the fixed mindset and how it prevents you from changing yourself and your life...

How the notes you take, the stories you tell, put blinders on you and prevent you from growing...

As a coach, I will send you back to the same book, the same video a number of times. My intention is that you watch it... But some students won"t watch it again, they go to their notes, and read them instead. In their mind they say: I have done that... I know! And they kill their chance to see how much they have grown, and their chance to allow their consciousness to see something different.

This is the same mechanism that your stories remain the same. You say the same thing at age 50 as what you said at age six. If the stories you tell remain the same, then be sure: you have remained the same.

http://evp-50116959de4b9-dd521b5ed563ee25508422182c681a30.s3.amazonaws.com/story-you-tell.mp4

Telling what happened the same way is the most important way fixed mindset manifests.

Fixed mindset violates the adage: you can"t step in the same river twice...

The well translated (from Greek) quote is "“No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it’s not the same river and he’s not the same man.”

If you think that the river is the same, or if you think you are the same, you have a fixed mindset. And even if you have changed, you won"t know... you will not allow what you consciously see become different.

What do I mean?

The seed level on which I base my coaching is that the basis of your existence is what you see. It gives you the second part of the "occurrence", what you perceive happens, and your actions will be in a perfect correlation, in a perfect dance with what you see: the occurrence.

So my job, as a "change agent", a coach, is to use what I have available to myself, as tools to change what you see, the occurrence.

The "thing" you look at can be life, events, other people, and yourself.

I am rarely able to change the reality part of occurrence (occurrence=reality+what you say about it), but more often than not, that has already happened, so I can only change the "what you say about it" part, that is, depending on the level of your fixed mindset, can change a little bit or a lot.

When occurrence thus changes, your further actions and what you say about life, yourself, can change.

That is the whole secret of growth, that is the whole secret of coaching, that is the whole secret of self-actualization.

I bring the new angle of looking, I bring the speaking.

Your job is to come around and look from the new angle, to allow YOUR speaking to change.

It sounds easy, but there are obstacles, sticky hinges...

Occurrence is like a door than swings on sticky hinges. The stickier the hinges the less willing the door will be to swing, and the more likely it will automatically return to its original position when you are not looking.

So what makes the hinges sticky?

We"ll look at it through the starting point measurements.

• 1. your vibration (1-1000): Your vibration is a combo number that tells me from what height and with what accuracy you look at reality. When this is a low number, your height and accuracy will be lacking, and you will listen to what I say as my opinion, my good idea, but you actually won"t be able to see it yourself.


• 2. your overall intelligence, emotional, intellectual, spiritual, body, relationship, etc.: This is also a combination number, that grades your aptitude to see reality in different areas of life and respond accurately. This number is a percentage, instead of the vibration number, which is a logarithmic number. Your overall intelligence shows a percentage: to what degree you can work with what you have, instead of comparing you to other people.
  
  If you don"t have much to work with, but you use what you have brilliantly, your overall intelligence can be a high number. But most people "sport" a really low number, meaning that they have a lot of room to grow.


• 3. the number of spiritual capacities you have: There are 160 spiritual capacities hardwired in your DNA. They are dormant, inactive, unusable in most people. They will turn on when you actually do things, regularly, that need them.
  
  Most people never do anything regularly that turns on capacities. This number is a very reliable indicator of a fixed mindset: you see yourself unchanged, and unchangeable: fixed, and you refuse to do things you are not already suited for.


• 4. your soul correction (your machine): There are soul corrections that are more fixed mindset than others https://www.yourvibration.com/sc


• 5. do you have attachments? Attachments can be so irritating, or so "leash-like" that you have no mind to spare for change. this is true to all attachment-like phenomena: placed on you by a malicious person, your soul fragments you denied, your base belief about yourself, or the "anchor to doom" around which you circle the drain. I talk about these somewhere else.


• 6. the level of your health (1-100): The higher your health number, the more energy you have above mere survival... so this number directly influences how fixed is your few: survival mode, scarcity mode is a fixed view of the world and yourself.


• 7. the level of your cell hydration (1-100): Same as the health number.


• 8. your relationship to feedback and instruction: Of course, if your attitude to input is that it"s judgment, right/wrong, an attack, you won"t allow feedback and instruction to move you and move the door... This is a very significant reason most people cannot and will not grow.


• 9. The level of discomfort you are willing to allow w/o trying to fix it. This is your TLB score... Growth, change are inherently scary. It is natural to be afraid. You will have a hard time allowing yourself to go with change and even if you change, this is the force that returns the door to the original position where life was comfortable and you didn"t have to feel discomfort.


• 10. The size of your vocabulary: the number of words you can use accurately: This is a filter that causes you to not hear, not see anything that you haven"t already seen and decided about. If this number doesn"t change during your coaching, I know that I am failing. It"s hard work to raise this number. Reading and pondering changes it. Pondering is connecting the dots of reality differently than before. Busy people don"t ponder. They chase the next thing to do: no pondering.


• 11. To what degree you think of yourself: This is the inverse humility number. If you have yourself in the center of the filter through with you look at events, things to do, reality, you can see that your view cannot change, because consciousness is fixed, anchored, and the view of life cannot change. This is the most important number that determines to what degree your door can open or not.


• 12. % of fixed mindset: This is a combo number, and in my experience isn"t an accurate representation of your willingness you change your mind.


• 13. Ambition: A higher ambition number indicates a higher willingness to make changes, and to actually invest energy into making things happen


• 14. Desire: A high desire number indicates a desire trap. As with any trap, this number shows in reverse how far you are willing to go from the fixed view of life to get what you want. A high desire number indicates blinders.


• 15. Degree of inauthenticity overall: Inauthenticity is the distance between your public self and your real self. The more you want to be seen as, the better, the more this acts as a barrier to growth, an barrier to change, a barrier to becoming. Without changing the environment, the people for whose sake you pretend, this number is quite fixed. Moving house, moving town, changing friends, changing jobs, may be necessary: very few people will be willing for that.


• 16. Level of integrity 1-100: This number is very strongly correlated with the inauthenticity number.


• 17. how enslaved are you to memes? (what percentage of your life is run by memes?) Memes act as the opposite of grease... the higher this number the more sticky, rusted hinges will behave.


• 18. do you have a bridge between your precious "I" and your actual I? What is your level of delusion... The higher this number the more you"ll protect the Precious "I", the fake self, and the less you"ll be willing to change.


• 19. To what degree you have access to your adult capacities. this is the inverse number that shows to what degree you"ve been willing to change the stories you tell.


• 20. How teachable/how coachable are you? The higher this number is the more you are willing to allow your consciousness to go where the coach is taking it.


• 21. The level of your awareness? if this number is low, you won"t notice that you are taken to places that are different. You will step into the same river every time.


• 23. the percentage of time you spend in the mind: This number is the inverse of the awareness number... you cannot be aware inside the mind.


• 24. the percentage of input that gets through to you. This number is a combination of your awareness number and your coachability number.


• 25. How inspired can you become? And what level are you now... This number shows your intrinsic/internal motivation. The energy you have available after all the having to, needing to, wanting to and should. The more the shoulds drive you, the less you are willing to change.

As you can see, it is quite predictable how effective coaching and guidance can be for you.

What is the bottom line?

The more tethered your consciousness is to where it"s at, the less you can change what you see and the less willing you"ll be to say something different about what you see.

The Playground program is entirely dedicated to altering "occurrence".

We cannot change what happened, but when seen as a separate action, we can change what we say about it.

How successful you"ll be in that program depends on your fixed mindset that keeps what you react to the same.

This is ultimately the most important indicator of your life satisfaction: to what degree you have control over your life.

The degree of flexibility you have about what you say about things.

Positive thinking is a bastardized version of this: it is not about positive or negative: you cannot reduce life to two colors and be happy and effective in life.

The more colors you have in your palette, the more ways you can see, interpret, explain, the more creativity you have available for yourself in seeing things that are real, the more power you have over your life.

At this point you probably have one, maybe two ways... The job is to have many.

Reality: collective hunch at best. This means: we don"t know what things mean.

Will Durant historian said: unless you are able to see 500 years before and 500 years after, you have no idea what it means that this happened or that happened.

I have a 70 year perspective on the happenings in my life. My interpretation of the events in my life have gone through hundreds of re-evaluation, although in the beginning, just like you, I had very rusted hinges on the door to change.

The swinging of the door, frequently, removes the rust. And you can become all you can be.

You hope you can become all you can be without changing your mind about things that you have a strong opinion.

Dream on... it is not possible.

Unless what you see changes, you cannot change, and your life cannot change.

The person who you are now cannot and will not do well, will not accomplish what you desire, no matter how real it looks in your imagination.

In fact, that imagination is what keeps you stuck...

Been there done that! the fixed mindset and how it prevents you from changing yourself and your life...

How the notes you take, the stories you tell, put blinders on you and prevent you from growing...

As a coach, I will send you back to the same book, the same video a number of times. My intention is that you watch it... But some students won"t watch it again, they go to their notes, and read them instead. In their mind they say: I have done that... I know! And they kill their chance to see how much they have grown, and their chance to allow their consciousness to see something different.

This is the same mechanism that your stories remain the same. You say the same thing at age 50 as what you said at age six. If the stories you tell remain the same, then be sure: you have remained the same.

http://evp-50116959de4b9-dd521b5ed563ee25508422182c681a30.s3.amazonaws.com/story-you-tell.mp4

Telling what happened the same way is the most important way fixed mindset manifests.

Fixed mindset violates the adage: you can"t step in the same river twice...

The well translated (from Greek) quote is "“No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it’s not the same river and he’s not the same man.”

If you think that the river is the same, or if you think you are the same, you have a fixed mindset. And even if you have changed, you won"t know... you will not allow what you consciously see become different.

What do I mean?

The seed level on which I base my coaching is that the basis of your existence is what you see. It gives you the second part of the "occurrence", what you perceive happens, and your actions will be in a perfect correlation, in a perfect dance with what you see: the occurrence.

So my job, as a "change agent", a coach, is to use what I have available to myself, as tools to change what you see, the occurrence.

The "thing" you look at can be life, events, other people, and yourself.

I am rarely able to change the reality part of occurrence (occurrence=reality+what you say about it), but more often than not, that has already happened, so I can only change the "what you say about it" part, that is, depending on the level of your fixed mindset, can change a little bit or a lot.

When occurrence thus changes, your further actions and what you say about life, yourself, can change.

That is the whole secret of growth, that is the whole secret of coaching, that is the whole secret of self-actualization.

I bring the new angle of looking, I bring the speaking.

Your job is to come around and look from the new angle, to allow YOUR speaking to change.

It sounds easy, but there are obstacles, sticky hinges...

Occurrence is like a door than swings on sticky hinges. The stickier the hinges the less willing the door will be to swing, and the more likely it will automatically return to its original position when you are not looking.

So what makes the hinges sticky?

We"ll look at it through the starting point measurements.

• 1. your vibration (1-1000): Your vibration is a combo number that tells me from what height and with what accuracy you look at reality. When this is a low number, your height and accuracy will be lacking, and you will listen to what I say as my opinion, my good idea, but you actually won"t be able to see it yourself.


• 2. your overall intelligence, emotional, intellectual, spiritual, body, relationship, etc.: This is also a combination number, that grades your aptitude to see reality in different areas of life and respond accurately. This number is a percentage, instead of the vibration number, which is a logarithmic number. Your overall intelligence shows a percentage: to what degree you can work with what you have, instead of comparing you to other people.
  
  If you don"t have much to work with, but you use what you have brilliantly, your overall intelligence can be a high number. But most people "sport" a really low number, meaning that they have a lot of room to grow.


• 3. the number of spiritual capacities you have: There are 160 spiritual capacities hardwired in your DNA. They are dormant, inactive, unusable in most people. They will turn on when you actually do things, regularly, that need them.
  
  Most people never do anything regularly that turns on capacities. This number is a very reliable indicator of a fixed mindset: you see yourself unchanged, and unchangeable: fixed, and you refuse to do things you are not already suited for.


• 4. your soul correction (your machine): There are soul corrections that are more fixed mindset than others https://www.yourvibration.com/sc


• 5. do you have attachments? Attachments can be so irritating, or so "leash-like" that you have no mind to spare for change. this is true to all attachment-like phenomena: placed on you by a malicious person, your soul fragments you denied, your base belief about yourself, or the "anchor to doom" around which you circle the drain. I talk about these somewhere else.


• 6. the level of your health (1-100): The higher your health number, the more energy you have above mere survival... so this number directly influences how fixed is your few: survival mode, scarcity mode is a fixed view of the world and yourself.


• 7. the level of your cell hydration (1-100): Same as the health number.


• 8. your relationship to feedback and instruction: Of course, if your attitude to input is that it"s judgment, right/wrong, an attack, you won"t allow feedback and instruction to move you and move the door... This is a very significant reason most people cannot and will not grow.


• 9. The level of discomfort you are willing to allow w/o trying to fix it. This is your TLB score... Growth, change are inherently scary. It is natural to be afraid. You will have a hard time allowing yourself to go with change and even if you change, this is the force that returns the door to the original position where life was comfortable and you didn"t have to feel discomfort.


• 10. The size of your vocabulary: the number of words you can use accurately: This is a filter that causes you to not hear, not see anything that you haven"t already seen and decided about. If this number doesn"t change during your coaching, I know that I am failing. It"s hard work to raise this number. Reading and pondering changes it. Pondering is connecting the dots of reality differently than before. Busy people don"t ponder. They chase the next thing to do: no pondering.


• 11. To what degree you think of yourself: This is the inverse humility number. If you have yourself in the center of the filter through with you look at events, things to do, reality, you can see that your view cannot change, because consciousness is fixed, anchored, and the view of life cannot change. This is the most important number that determines to what degree your door can open or not.


• 12. % of fixed mindset: This is a combo number, and in my experience isn"t an accurate representation of your willingness you change your mind.


• 13. Ambition: A higher ambition number indicates a higher willingness to make changes, and to actually invest energy into making things happen


• 14. Desire: A high desire number indicates a desire trap. As with any trap, this number shows in reverse how far you are willing to go from the fixed view of life to get what you want. A high desire number indicates blinders.


• 15. Degree of inauthenticity overall: Inauthenticity is the distance between your public self and your real self. The more you want to be seen as, the better, the more this acts as a barrier to growth, an barrier to change, a barrier to becoming. Without changing the environment, the people for whose sake you pretend, this number is quite fixed. Moving house, moving town, changing friends, changing jobs, may be necessary: very few people will be willing for that.


• 16. Level of integrity 1-100: This number is very strongly correlated with the inauthenticity number.


• 17. how enslaved are you to memes? (what percentage of your life is run by memes?) Memes act as the opposite of grease... the higher this number the more sticky, rusted hinges will behave.


• 18. do you have a bridge between your precious "I" and your actual I? What is your level of delusion... The higher this number the more you"ll protect the Precious "I", the fake self, and the less you"ll be willing to change.


• 19. To what degree you have access to your adult capacities. this is the inverse number that shows to what degree you"ve been willing to change the stories you tell.


• 20. How teachable/how coachable are you? The higher this number is the more you are willing to allow your consciousness to go where the coach is taking it.


• 21. The level of your awareness? if this number is low, you won"t notice that you are taken to places that are different. You will step into the same river every time.


• 23. the percentage of time you spend in the mind: This number is the inverse of the awareness number... you cannot be aware inside the mind.


• 24. the percentage of input that gets through to you. This number is a combination of your awareness number and your coachability number.


• 25. How inspired can you become? And what level are you now... This number shows your intrinsic/internal motivation. The energy you have available after all the having to, needing to, wanting to and should. The more the shoulds drive you, the less you are willing to change.

As you can see, it is quite predictable how effective coaching and guidance can be for you.

What is the bottom line?

The more tethered your consciousness is to where it"s at, the less you can change what you see and the less willing you"ll be to say something different about what you see.

The Playground program is entirely dedicated to altering "occurrence".

We cannot change what happened, but when seen as a separate action, we can change what we say about it.

How successful you"ll be in that program depends on your fixed mindset that keeps what you react to the same.

This is ultimately the most important indicator of your life satisfaction: to what degree you have control over your life.

The degree of flexibility you have about what you say about things.

Positive thinking is a bastardized version of this: it is not about positive or negative: you cannot reduce life to two colors and be happy and effective in life.

The more colors you have in your palette, the more ways you can see, interpret, explain, the more creativity you have available for yourself in seeing things that are real, the more power you have over your life.

At this point you probably have one, maybe two ways... The job is to have many.

Reality: collective hunch at best. This means: we don"t know what things mean.

Will Durant historian said: unless you are able to see 500 years before and 500 years after, you have no idea what it means that this happened or that happened.

I have a 70 year perspective on the happenings in my life. My interpretation of the events in my life have gone through hundreds of re-evaluation, although in the beginning, just like you, I had very rusted hinges on the door to change.

The swinging of the door, frequently, removes the rust. And you can become all you can be.

You hope you can become all you can be without changing your mind about things that you have a strong opinion.

Dream on... it is not possible.

Unless what you see changes, you cannot change, and your life cannot change.

The person who you are now cannot and will not do well, will not accomplish what you desire, no matter how real it looks in your imagination.

In fact, that imagination is what keeps you stuck...

I don"t want to be judged! you cry

Why would you think that someone will judge you? Simple... you have already judged yourself.

But why would you? Not everyone judge themselves. I, for example, don"t... or not often at all. I often assess myself, my behavior, my looks, my stuff... but assessment does not carry condemnation in it, and it doesn"t carry praise in it either.

What is the difference between judgment and assessment ((assessment: the evaluation or estimation of the nature, quality, or ability of someone or something. My starting point measurements are assessments, even if you take them as judgments. You add the judgment to my assessment!)) ?

The main difference is fixed mindset.

In judgment, the judging person lives as if there were a fixed good or bad, smart or stupid, right or wrong. And then they act as if they were assigned the job of judging...

So a high fixed mindset plus arrogance, superiority, plus high desire/low ambition numbers.

I have found that people with this combination are unable, unwilling, or resistant to do the work of the Playground.

The Playground is a very simple distinction: separating reality with what you say about it. Your opinion, your narrative, your story, your judgment. Being able to see that reality is reality, and what you say is what you say. No inherent connection between the two.

The moment you get it about any piece of reality, you have a chance to be free.

If you continue collapsing the two independent parts: what happened?/what is so? and your judgment about it, you"ll remain miserable.

This principle is expressed in Henry Ford"s statement: If you say you can, or if you say you can"t, you are right.

Both can and can"t are commentary, but what you see will be modified by your commentary, and that will hide the reality: that you either will or won"t.

   I watched Lincoln, the movie over the weekend, and it was quite obvious that this inability or unwillingness to see reality and your opinion, your reaction to it as separate and non-connected is largely missing for people: and it is the secret of human misery. Utter misery.

Every step that has taken me closer to become a happy person has been the result of gaining this clarity, little by little, this ability to separate and uncollapse reality and the interpretation of it. The "what it means"...

It is simple, but it is not easy.

On the way to happiness you"ll have to say good bye to your favorite complaints, your favorite woes... and admit that it was all made up.

Whether you made it up yourself, or took it, uncritically from others is immaterial.

If I asked you if you sat down on a quiet Sunday afternoon to meditate what would be the fastest and surest way to live a life of quiet desperation, to always be on the verge of utter unhappiness... you would say: no I didn"t do it.

And yet you maintain the behavior, the collapsing reality with the story...

The third Playground is scheduled to start in a few days, this coming Saturday, but I won"t start it if there are not enough participants.

It seems that freedom, happiness, grace and ease is not enough for most people to strive for... they want magic, and angels, and superhuman... and anything that will actually make you happy is not big enough for you. Hm.

By the way: Certain soul corrections are resistant to this separation... ((And here is a list of all the soul-correction numbers and their titles. I marked with one, two or three x"s the soul corrections that are especially resistant to transformation... a different way of seeing the world, namely uncollapsing what happened and what you said about it. And then some soul corrections refuse to see things any differently:

marked x: resistant
marked xx: unwilling
marked xxx: unable

1 — Time Travel
2 — Recapturing The Sparks
3 — Miracle Making
4 — Eliminating Negative Thoughts
5 — Healing
6 — Dream State
7 — DNA Of The Soul
8 — De-fusing Negative Energy And Stress
9 — Angelic Influences
10 — Looks Can Kill
--x11 — Banishing The Remnants Of Evil
12 — Unconditional Love
13 — Heaven-On-Earth
14 — Farewell To Arms
15 — Long Range Vision
16 — Dumping Depression
17 — Great Escape
18 — Fertility
19 — Dialing God
20 — Victory Over Addictions
21 — Eradicate Plague
--x22 — Stop Fatal Attraction
--xx23 — Sharing The Flame
24 — Jealousy
25 — Speak Your Mind
26 — Order From Chaos
--x27 — Silent Partner
28 — Soul Mate
--x29 — Removing Hatred
30 — Building Bridges
--xxx31 — Finish What You Start
32 — Memories
33 — Revealing The Dark Side
34 — Forget Thyself
35 — Sexual Energy
36 — Fearless
37 — The Big Picture
--xxx38 — Circuitry
39 — Diamond In The Rough
40 — Speaking The Right Words
--xxx41 — Self-Esteem
43 — Defying Gravity
44 — Sweetening Judgment
45 — The Power Of Prosperity
46 — Absolute Certainty
47 — Global Transformation
48 — Unity
49 — Happiness
50 — Enough Is Never Enough
51 — No Guilt
52 — Passion
53 — No Agenda
54 — The Death Of Death
55 — Thought Into Action
56 — Dispelling Anger
57 — Listening To Your Soul
58 — Letting Go
59 — Umbilical Cord
60 — Freedom
61 — Water
62 — Parent, Teacher, Not Preacher
63 — Appreciation
64 — Casting Yourself In A Favorable Light
65 — Fear Of God
66 — Accountability
67 — Great Expectations
68 — Contacting Departed Souls
69 — Lost And Found
70 — Recognizing Design Beneath Disorder
71 — Prophecy And Parallel Universes
72 — Spiritual Cleansing

of course the 72 names of god are a three Hebrew phrase each, and have no meaning... or not really. they are power combinations... But here is another interpretation of those three letter combinations:

01 --Return to creation - time travel "back to the future"
02 --Return to embryonic state - recapture sparks of soul
03 --Miracle making
04 --Removal of negative thoughts
05 --Healing
06 --Build vessel to achieve a truthful & dream state
07 --Bring order into your life by connecting to your soul
08 --Remove negative energy - from yourself or others
09 --Accessing angelic network to bring order
10 --Protection from evil eye & bad dreams helps rebirthing process
11 --Banishing the remnants of evil and inflated ego
12 --Transform hatred through unconditional love
13 --Personal transformation to achieve inner messiah
14 --Achieving a peaceful solution to avert conflict
15 --Seeing the consequences of impulsive behavior
16 --Removing depression after a personal setback
17 --Removing ego
18 --Build your vessel & spiritual DNA of fertility
19 --Remove static/ego so prayers are answered
20 --Strengthen spirituality for victory over addictions
21 --Strength to go the extra mile & eliminate sickness
22 --Priestly blessing for wellness & removing negativity
23 --Priestly blessing to share the light force
24 --Remove slavery to physical matter and jealousy
25 --Courage to speak your mind/tell the truth
26 --Bring order out of chaos through completion
27 --Become partner with light to create abundance
28 --Breaking judgment
29 --Cleansing hatred from your heart
30 --Reducing ego builds a bridge to upper worlds
31 --Finish what you start/overcome obstacles
32 --Breaking cycle of repetitious mistakes
33 --Reveal your dark side removes self centered nature
34 --Letting go of stubborn ego
35 --Connect to spirituality ignites sexual energy
36 --Conquer your fears / incapacitate panic attack
37 --Grasping the big picture behind our obstacles
38 --Circuitry of receiving for sake of sharing
39 --Transform life"s hardships into blessings
40 --Power of correct words to transform reality
41 --Priestly blessing for wellness & spirituality wholeness
42 --Connecting to spiritual secrets
43 --Elevation of spiritual over physical controls destiny
44 --Remove and sweeten the judgments against us
45 --Control ego to summons the forces of prosperity
46 --Absolute certainty in the light force of God
47 --Global transformation begins in your own heart
48 --Unity through sensitivity and tolerance
49 --Ask what your soul needs not what your ego wants
50 --Break judgments to awaken spiritual growth
51 --Power of repentance to repair past sins
52 --Correct consciousness in prayer
53 --Power of Archangel Michael & loving kindness
54 --Immortality to cancel death
55 --Commitment to achieve your goals
56 --Eliminate "idol worship" of anger, ego, money
57 --Remove limitations to cross your personal Red Sea
58 --Drawing down the light to do battle for us
59 --Divine umbilical cord to remove spiritual darkness
60 --Delivery from emotional bondage/negative patterns
61 --Physical & spiritual healing through energy of water
62 --Live your truth by example, be teacher not preacher
63 --Create appreciation, humility, and gratitude
64 --Project positive aspects of yourself to others
65 --Knowing consequence of bad behavior/fear of God
66 --Eliminate self pity, victim"s mentality, and revenge
67 --Overcome disappointment from expectations
68 --Making contact to help elevate a departed soul
69 --Wisdom - to find & not lose sight of direction
70 --Remove blockages for financial success
71 --Prophecy and intuition to transform consciousness
72 --Spiritual cleansing improves negotiations

What is your soul correction?



))

If you have a soul correction that is marked with x, xx, or xxx on the list below, you"ll have a harder time to cause your transformation, because you feel like your life depends on remaining the same...

Look in your heart and see if you are willing to let go of your skin so you can live a life with a whole lot more happiness, fulfillment and a whole less of misery, complaints, and excuses why you are not all you can be.

And if you are, then register in the Playground. It is very inexpensive, it is once a month, and can produce the kinds of results ten thousand dollar courses can"t: because it concentrates all the energy and all the power on a sticky point, that when it lets go, the sun comes out.

I have seen it time and time again. It is like a miracle, a rebirth, a new lease on life.

If you"d like to do it, but the Saturday afternoon time is not good for you, please let me know. I am flexible.

OK. And here are a few useful quotes for you:

You"re not clever. You don"t know what you want. You have no proper fierceness.

John Steinbeck writes about the importance of individuality and creativity. "And this I believe: that the free, exploring mind of the individual human is the most valuable thing in the world...And this I must against any idea, religion, or government which limits or destroys the individual...If the glory can be killed, we are lost.

"...a man"s importance in the world can be measured by the quality and numbers his glories. It is a lonely thing but it relates us to the world. It is mother of all creativeness, and it sets each man separate from all other man". this means that the greatness of a man depends on his deeds during his life, which is a sad fact. But these glories or deeds is what gives people individuality and creativeness. Those two traits ultimately makes humans human. It"s why we"re so special.

I don"t want to be judged! you cry

Why would you think that someone will judge you? Simple... you have already judged yourself.

But why would you? Not everyone judge themselves. I, for example, don"t... or not often at all. I often assess myself, my behavior, my looks, my stuff... but assessment does not carry condemnation in it, and it doesn"t carry praise in it either.

What is the difference between judgment and assessment ((assessment: the evaluation or estimation of the nature, quality, or ability of someone or something. My starting point measurements are assessments, even if you take them as judgments. You add the judgment to my assessment!)) ?

The main difference is fixed mindset.

In judgment, the judging person lives as if there were a fixed good or bad, smart or stupid, right or wrong. And then they act as if they were assigned the job of judging...

So a high fixed mindset plus arrogance, superiority, plus high desire/low ambition numbers.

I have found that people with this combination are unable, unwilling, or resistant to do the work of the Playground.

The Playground is a very simple distinction: separating reality with what you say about it. Your opinion, your narrative, your story, your judgment. Being able to see that reality is reality, and what you say is what you say. No inherent connection between the two.

The moment you get it about any piece of reality, you have a chance to be free.

If you continue collapsing the two independent parts: what happened?/what is so? and your judgment about it, you"ll remain miserable.

This principle is expressed in Henry Ford"s statement: If you say you can, or if you say you can"t, you are right.

Both can and can"t are commentary, but what you see will be modified by your commentary, and that will hide the reality: that you either will or won"t.

   I watched Lincoln, the movie over the weekend, and it was quite obvious that this inability or unwillingness to see reality and your opinion, your reaction to it as separate and non-connected is largely missing for people: and it is the secret of human misery. Utter misery.

Every step that has taken me closer to become a happy person has been the result of gaining this clarity, little by little, this ability to separate and uncollapse reality and the interpretation of it. The "what it means"...

It is simple, but it is not easy.

On the way to happiness you"ll have to say good bye to your favorite complaints, your favorite woes... and admit that it was all made up.

Whether you made it up yourself, or took it, uncritically from others is immaterial.

If I asked you if you sat down on a quiet Sunday afternoon to meditate what would be the fastest and surest way to live a life of quiet desperation, to always be on the verge of utter unhappiness... you would say: no I didn"t do it.

And yet you maintain the behavior, the collapsing reality with the story...

The third Playground is scheduled to start in a few days, this coming Saturday, but I won"t start it if there are not enough participants.

It seems that freedom, happiness, grace and ease is not enough for most people to strive for... they want magic, and angels, and superhuman... and anything that will actually make you happy is not big enough for you. Hm.

By the way: Certain soul corrections are resistant to this separation... ((And here is a list of all the soul-correction numbers and their titles. I marked with one, two or three x"s the soul corrections that are especially resistant to transformation... a different way of seeing the world, namely uncollapsing what happened and what you said about it. And then some soul corrections refuse to see things any differently:

marked x: resistant
marked xx: unwilling
marked xxx: unable

1 — Time Travel
2 — Recapturing The Sparks
3 — Miracle Making
4 — Eliminating Negative Thoughts
5 — Healing
6 — Dream State
7 — DNA Of The Soul
8 — De-fusing Negative Energy And Stress
9 — Angelic Influences
10 — Looks Can Kill
--x11 — Banishing The Remnants Of Evil
12 — Unconditional Love
13 — Heaven-On-Earth
14 — Farewell To Arms
15 — Long Range Vision
16 — Dumping Depression
17 — Great Escape
18 — Fertility
19 — Dialing God
20 — Victory Over Addictions
21 — Eradicate Plague
--x22 — Stop Fatal Attraction
--xx23 — Sharing The Flame
24 — Jealousy
25 — Speak Your Mind
26 — Order From Chaos
--x27 — Silent Partner
28 — Soul Mate
--x29 — Removing Hatred
30 — Building Bridges
--xxx31 — Finish What You Start
32 — Memories
33 — Revealing The Dark Side
34 — Forget Thyself
35 — Sexual Energy
36 — Fearless
37 — The Big Picture
--xxx38 — Circuitry
39 — Diamond In The Rough
40 — Speaking The Right Words
--xxx41 — Self-Esteem
43 — Defying Gravity
44 — Sweetening Judgment
45 — The Power Of Prosperity
46 — Absolute Certainty
47 — Global Transformation
48 — Unity
49 — Happiness
50 — Enough Is Never Enough
51 — No Guilt
52 — Passion
53 — No Agenda
54 — The Death Of Death
55 — Thought Into Action
56 — Dispelling Anger
57 — Listening To Your Soul
58 — Letting Go
59 — Umbilical Cord
60 — Freedom
61 — Water
62 — Parent, Teacher, Not Preacher
63 — Appreciation
64 — Casting Yourself In A Favorable Light
65 — Fear Of God
66 — Accountability
67 — Great Expectations
68 — Contacting Departed Souls
69 — Lost And Found
70 — Recognizing Design Beneath Disorder
71 — Prophecy And Parallel Universes
72 — Spiritual Cleansing

of course the 72 names of god are a three Hebrew phrase each, and have no meaning... or not really. they are power combinations... But here is another interpretation of those three letter combinations:

01 --Return to creation - time travel "back to the future"
02 --Return to embryonic state - recapture sparks of soul
03 --Miracle making
04 --Removal of negative thoughts
05 --Healing
06 --Build vessel to achieve a truthful & dream state
07 --Bring order into your life by connecting to your soul
08 --Remove negative energy - from yourself or others
09 --Accessing angelic network to bring order
10 --Protection from evil eye & bad dreams helps rebirthing process
11 --Banishing the remnants of evil and inflated ego
12 --Transform hatred through unconditional love
13 --Personal transformation to achieve inner messiah
14 --Achieving a peaceful solution to avert conflict
15 --Seeing the consequences of impulsive behavior
16 --Removing depression after a personal setback
17 --Removing ego
18 --Build your vessel & spiritual DNA of fertility
19 --Remove static/ego so prayers are answered
20 --Strengthen spirituality for victory over addictions
21 --Strength to go the extra mile & eliminate sickness
22 --Priestly blessing for wellness & removing negativity
23 --Priestly blessing to share the light force
24 --Remove slavery to physical matter and jealousy
25 --Courage to speak your mind/tell the truth
26 --Bring order out of chaos through completion
27 --Become partner with light to create abundance
28 --Breaking judgment
29 --Cleansing hatred from your heart
30 --Reducing ego builds a bridge to upper worlds
31 --Finish what you start/overcome obstacles
32 --Breaking cycle of repetitious mistakes
33 --Reveal your dark side removes self centered nature
34 --Letting go of stubborn ego
35 --Connect to spirituality ignites sexual energy
36 --Conquer your fears / incapacitate panic attack
37 --Grasping the big picture behind our obstacles
38 --Circuitry of receiving for sake of sharing
39 --Transform life"s hardships into blessings
40 --Power of correct words to transform reality
41 --Priestly blessing for wellness & spirituality wholeness
42 --Connecting to spiritual secrets
43 --Elevation of spiritual over physical controls destiny
44 --Remove and sweeten the judgments against us
45 --Control ego to summons the forces of prosperity
46 --Absolute certainty in the light force of God
47 --Global transformation begins in your own heart
48 --Unity through sensitivity and tolerance
49 --Ask what your soul needs not what your ego wants
50 --Break judgments to awaken spiritual growth
51 --Power of repentance to repair past sins
52 --Correct consciousness in prayer
53 --Power of Archangel Michael & loving kindness
54 --Immortality to cancel death
55 --Commitment to achieve your goals
56 --Eliminate "idol worship" of anger, ego, money
57 --Remove limitations to cross your personal Red Sea
58 --Drawing down the light to do battle for us
59 --Divine umbilical cord to remove spiritual darkness
60 --Delivery from emotional bondage/negative patterns
61 --Physical & spiritual healing through energy of water
62 --Live your truth by example, be teacher not preacher
63 --Create appreciation, humility, and gratitude
64 --Project positive aspects of yourself to others
65 --Knowing consequence of bad behavior/fear of God
66 --Eliminate self pity, victim"s mentality, and revenge
67 --Overcome disappointment from expectations
68 --Making contact to help elevate a departed soul
69 --Wisdom - to find & not lose sight of direction
70 --Remove blockages for financial success
71 --Prophecy and intuition to transform consciousness
72 --Spiritual cleansing improves negotiations

What is your soul correction?



))

If you have a soul correction that is marked with x, xx, or xxx on the list below, you"ll have a harder time to cause your transformation, because you feel like your life depends on remaining the same...

Look in your heart and see if you are willing to let go of your skin so you can live a life with a whole lot more happiness, fulfillment and a whole less of misery, complaints, and excuses why you are not all you can be.

And if you are, then register in the Playground. It is very inexpensive, it is once a month, and can produce the kinds of results ten thousand dollar courses can"t: because it concentrates all the energy and all the power on a sticky point, that when it lets go, the sun comes out.

I have seen it time and time again. It is like a miracle, a rebirth, a new lease on life.

If you"d like to do it, but the Saturday afternoon time is not good for you, please let me know. I am flexible.

OK. And here are a few useful quotes for you:

You"re not clever. You don"t know what you want. You have no proper fierceness.

John Steinbeck writes about the importance of individuality and creativity. "And this I believe: that the free, exploring mind of the individual human is the most valuable thing in the world...And this I must against any idea, religion, or government which limits or destroys the individual...If the glory can be killed, we are lost.

"...a man"s importance in the world can be measured by the quality and numbers his glories. It is a lonely thing but it relates us to the world. It is mother of all creativeness, and it sets each man separate from all other man". this means that the greatness of a man depends on his deeds during his life, which is a sad fact. But these glories or deeds is what gives people individuality and creativeness. Those two traits ultimately makes humans human. It"s why we"re so special.

If adaptability is the most fundamental predictor of whether you thrive or survive...

...then your most important concern should be: how can I can more adaptable ((adaptable: able to adjust to new conditions.)) ... right?

In you our relationship to life so you can her more chance for a happy life

Darwin said that the species that is the most adaptable will survive.

One can also say that it is true not just for a species but also for individuals.

Adaptable doesn"t mean meek, doesn"t mean able to subsist in suboptimal circumstances, it actually means being able to thrive no matter what"s going on. Adapt and initiate.

Absorb, assess accurately, see what"s going on, and take advantage of what is possible.

How adaptable are you? How much initiative do you have?

People, I am generalizing here, who need a job, who need someone to tell them what path to take, what homework to do, how to do things are not very adaptable, have no or not much initiative, so left to their own devices they are never much in control of their lives, their actions, no matter how much they hate to be told what to do.

For tens of thousands of years, humanity got divided to people who called the shots, who caused things, and to people who survived.

And for tens of thousands of years your survival inside a species that thrived wasn"t much threatened. In fact you were bred specifically to be a follower, a person with no initiative, with no real curiosity, with no tenacity, with no purpose in life.

But something is going on that you didn"t expect: in this new millennium there is not much need for followers, and there is a huge need for people who are cause, and not effect.

Thousands of years of breeding is now proving to be the reason you"ll go extinct. Not the species necessarily, but you, the individual.

Machines, robots, AI can take your place, and you can"t make a living.

So what can you do?

How to become more adaptable, is the question you should ask. It is a valid question if you are not adaptable at all, and if you are already very adaptable: you can always become more adaptable.

The first issue to consider: why to become more adaptable, and to what? You get this question wrong, and all your work is for naught.

The biggest issue that you need to grow to be able to handle is complexity.

You want simple answers, you want clarity, you want to know one thing to do and all will be well. But this is not how it is. It never was, but no one quite knew it. Now people are more sophisticated.

I remember when being called sophisticated was much like a racial slur... It meant to sting.

This was about 50 years ago. Today, unless you can handle more sophistication, you are fish out of water.

This is especially true in the area of health. The market is full of non-food, food-looking stuff that is attacking your health. The water you drink reduces your health one gulp at a time. Your supplements create an imbalance that makes you less off every capsule you swallow.

And when you get sick, which is really a when, not an if, you get treated by doctors who have never been trained in the complexity of the body you inhabit, and they will treat you as if you were a two-bit machine: with a hammer.

50% of cancer diagnosis is false positive.

All nutritional articles talk about the importance of one thing or another, and never consider the big picture. The balance, the body"s complexity.

All diets are designed as a one size fits all.

Simple rules, minuscule results.

In my health consulting practice I do not consult from the mind, from what I know. The truth value of my recommendations are 70%, 80% the second (follow up) session, and it seems, to you, used to simple rules, that the first session must have been wrong, but that is not the case.

The first session and its resulting list of supplements and food list will take you to a place, where base insufficiencies can be corrected, imbalances, big mistakes. The second and all subsequent session, the lists zig-zag towards complete health.

Zig-zag is the nature of any "solution" in the universe, even though in geometry we learned that the straightest line is the shortest distance between two points. In geometry.

But even in flying, probably the simplest tasks today, the plane constantly adjusts its direction to the straight line.

That is what we call zig-zagging.

Unless you see the world rightly, your black and white view of the world, your rules, your rigidity will bite you in the a**.

The only thing that is permanent in the universe is change. Ongoing, constant.

Everywhere, in every area of life, business, markets, politics, health, relationships, knowledge.

The strongest predictor of this is your sticky issue that makes you unwilling or unable to be adaptable is your "fixed mindset" number.

It needs to be under 10% if you are flexible and adaptable in this regard: you haven"t reduced reality to wring and wrong, or black and white, or other simple rules.

If you want to know if this is your issue, I"ll measure just this one measurements... You can upgrade inside the shopping cart to the full Starting Point Measurements.



So what can you do to get unstuck from the black/wide rule based view of life?

Here are four ways that FastCompany recommends you handle it.

Start with one method, get good ad it, and then add the rest one by one. Don"t get overwhelmed. Your tendency to slip back to rule-based living is bigger if your Fixed mindset share score is bigger.

1. Ask Different Questions

The questions you usually ask will get you the sort of answers you usually get, which is not so helpful when you need new ideas. For a twist, try asking a new question.

Most of us naturally ask questions that narrow and push to a solution. In complexity, being open to different possibilities is key. In a situation with lots of moving parts, narrowing is too likely to leave you attached to a solution that used to be reasonable but isn"t anymore.

Push yourself to ask questions like: "What is most surprising in this situation?" "What is at the edges of what seems possible today?" "What data am I ignoring because I don"t happen to like what they tell me?"

Different questions open you up to new possibilities and create a more flexible, agile mind-set.

2. Accept Multiple Perspectives

We often think we have taken a wide variety of perspectives into consideration when really we have mostly just asked the people whose ideas we already knew about. Our natural habits are to crave alignment and to work to convince those whose opinions really differ (or ignore them).

When you"re dealing with a complex situation, each person"s perspective is too small–and a group that"s aligned with a single perspective is collectively missing important pieces. We need to get out of our own way.

You can do this by seeking out perspectives that are different and–here"s the key–not trying to convince anyone (especially ourselves) that we"re right.

A productive week often hinges on how you get out of the gate. Here"s our guide to a proactive, well-paced start.

You can tell you"re not taking someone"s perspective into consideration if you think of him as a moron or not getting it; this means there"s no way to learn from what his perspective might teach you.

Try holding back on forming an opinion and instead actively listen to the person you have written off as a lost cause, the group of people at work who seem so different from you that you don"t even know their names, or even the one who has seemed close to you but now seems to have a bee in her bonnet about something. Keep asking yourself, "In what ways could I be wrong or missing something?"

3. Consider The Bigger Picture

Our inclination is to pull things apart and solve the little bits one at a time. In complexity, the system is moving too fast and has too many interrelated parts for us to use this more comfortable approach with success for long.

Instead, when things are really moving fast, it"s time to look at the interactions. It"s like watching a game of ice hockey: If you follow the puck with your eyes, you"ll be lost. If you zoom out and look at the patterns of the players on the ice, you"ll see the game.

When you find yourself being drawn to the minutiae, see if you can find the patterns. When you feel yourself bouncing back and forth between two details, instead of thinking of them as opposites, see what balance you can strike between the two sides.

4. Experiment And Learn

When it"s time to act, complexity calls for a series of safe-to-fail experiments–little bets that we can use to nudge the system in the desired direction. Instead of picking a final destination and trying to close the gaps, try finding places for experimentation and learning.

For example, if you decide there"s something not quite right about your culture, avoid the typical solution of measuring the culture and then rolling out a culture change program. Instead, look for unexpected places where the culture is trending in a better direction and design little experiments to see if you can encourage some of those trends elsewhere. The experiments should be small, inexpensive, and most importantly they should be things you can learn from.

Thriving in complexity requires a whole new way of looking at the world and acting within it. But as you shift your mind-set, amazing thing happens. You don"t just get better at dealing with complex situations, you actually get to enjoy the complexities and use them to your advantage. And in a world that gets more complex all the time, that"s a massive benefit.

If you look at the four pointers: your job is to begin matching your view of reality, your map of reality to reality itself.

Reality is complex, and cannot be navigated successfully with simplistic map of reality.

It"s one of the reasons your vibration number reflect the match between your map and reality. The higher your vibration the better your map matches reality. The higher the match the better your actions will be, the closer your results will be to what you want your results to be, in every area of life, health, wealth, love and happiness.

By the way, the real linchpin capacity that not having it keeps you at low vibration, low adaptability, low knowledge, low retention of what you read or hear, is your narrow cone of vision.

I am now working with another of my students on a methodology I used to force my eyes to see the bigger picture. Of course being able to see something doesn"t mean you"ll look. Unfortunately.

So activating the capacity is one step, developing the habit of using it is another step.

I am still working on the second... Every fiber of my being protests... but it is getting easier with practice. And my increased accuracy in my results is cheering me on... Go Sophie, go... My support structure from within. Lol.

Success breeds success... while failure breeds failure.

I choose success.

Just please remember: One"s destination is never a place but rather a new way of looking at things.

So if you"ve been having a difficulty setting a direction, an organizing principle for you life... set that, please. A new way of looking at things... that is the best, THE BEST organizing principle I have ever encountered. Brilliant.

And, ultimately, without that you"ll never really become adaptable... because your actions come from what you see. And without looking differently at things, you won"t see things differently.

Got it?