How to get out of your mind to reality where life happens?

Or how to unite your two selves so you can stop hating yourself, punishing yourself, and be happy inside and out

I had an insight this morning. I saw that every health issue I have ever had came from some idea, some thought, some teaching, not from my body.

Until age nine I was skinny. Then at that age I heard that whole grain is better for you... and I got promptly fat.

I have been hovering around 122 pounds when I heard from a student of mine about intermittent fasting. So I decided to do that. I promptly packed on three pounds. Nothing else changed...

All good ideas come from some mind, not your self. Your self is a lot smarter than you allow it to be. There is a separation between your mind and your real self. This article is to remove that separation, so you can be happy in all areas of life, physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually.

I have set a rule for myself recently... and of course I violated it promptly... The rule is: if it sounds like a good idea: let it be a good idea. And stick with what is working. And if you must, test it... But make the experiment short and sweet.

Of course, if your mind doesn"t know about your body, can"t feel your feelings, then this method will not work very well for you. Because you"ll look in your mind... and the mind is a lying machine.

Let me sneak in a little bit of teaching... Physics... ugh... I"ll make it easy on you. It"s about vibration... The vibration you claim you want to raise.

When a singer holds a certain high tone long enough, glasses vibrate and then shatter. One could say they got into vibrational harmony... and vibrational harmony makes the glass, a rigid object with tight molecular bonds, cannot be flexible enough, so it disintegrates.

Bridges... bridges are sensitive to vibration, because bridges, with its arches, are like the string of a violin, have an innate vibrational point, that if matched, the amplitude of the vibration starts to grow, and eventually may collapse the bridge.

Stomping feet, tanks" rumbling...



I have held power tools that threatened to shake my brain loose from my skull.

That is vibration, and that is vibrational frequency.

And, of course, vibration is also music. All musical notes are a vibration, a vibrational frequency. Some delight, some jar you awake, some irritate.

So why on earth are we using this word to measure someone consciousness?

Other words around vibration: resonate, and harmony.

What do you resonate with?

You resonate with, you are able to get into vibrational harmony with something that is like you. Not on the surface, mind you, but on the inside.

I am an empath. Like any ability, feeling your feelings, feeling your emotions can be honed, and can be made a weapon, a diagnostic tool, a healing instrument... not just the raw ability.

It can be used for good, it can be used for bad. Much like a knife... you can cut food, or people"s throat...

In a world of appearances, in a world with humans who all have two selves, the real self and the delusional self, an empath will not be popular.

The Emperor Has No Clothes

Do you think the little boy who yelled: the king is naked, was popular? Everyone hated him. The king because he was naked, duped, and people laughed at him.

But all the courtiers, who followed suit, and shed their fancy clothes to fit in, to be in vibrational harmony with the stupid king, they were angry too.

And the tailors, who sold the scam were angry, because the money they got from the kings and the courtiers was real... and the fleecing of the rich ended... suddenly.

People, humans, have been duped and fleeced forever. Why do they let them be fleeced?

Because it is easier to comply, because it is easier to allow, than to be a man and stand up for what is your right.

I have heard rich and famous people say: I have never had an original thought, everything I know I heard from others.

I understand. Even the rich is sheep, in some respect. Like those courtiers. Like the naked king.

When you fancy yourself holy, holier than others, you don"t want a little innocent kid yell out that you are naked.

The analogy, the comparison between you and the king is both true and flawed.

The flaw is that the king could get dressed any time, his king-ness won"t be effected.

YOU, on the other hand, cannot be viewed the same, you need to work on yourself to bring the two selves closer... or you"ll be forever this torn, angry, lost soul... pretending on one hand, and suffering and fretting and worrying on the other.

My work was, for years,to find a way to bring up your real self to the level of your delusional self. DNA activation, spiritual activators, an incredible amount of work and spiritual energy went into it.

That was a long experiment, and I have to confess that the experiment failed.

I have found that humans, you, are not willing to do the work it takes, to bring your real self up. You are not even willing to get in touch with it... because you hate it. You want to be that "higher" self, that pretend self, I call your delusional self.

Failure or not, the work is still the same: bring the two selves together, so they can embrace, so they can get into vibrational harmony, if you like that expression, so you can be one, and get great things done.

You see, as long as they are pulling in two different directions, you"ll never amount to much, because your energy is not strong enough to pull both selves in on direction, and stay that way.

Every night the imbalance rebuilds, and you start over again.

• The delusional self wants to get all the goodies a high vibration person gets, fame, success, adulation, unearned, of course.


• The real self doesn"t care all about that cheap glory... the real self wants to be itself, wants to be free to pursue its curiosity, enjoy living, enjoy its body, enjoy the sun on its skin.

But in the shadow of the delusional self the real self gets no respect, no support, no energy.

It may even become like one of those dogs that lie down and whimpers, in Martin Seligman"s learned helplessness experiment.

You can choose learned helplessness and you also get mental slothfulness. These are in vibrational harmony with each other.

I have written quite a few articles on learned helplessness, because I really thought that we, humans, can be knocked awake. That if I put the label on us that is offensive... to me, then we will start exercising your growth muscles, and start growing.

And start to go from mental slothfulness to mental diligence... Countries where people read are happy or at least happier countries.

Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.

Any one of these three are out of alignment, there is no harmony, there is no happiness.

Actually, there is a better way to say the same: When your physical body, your emotional body, your mental body, and your spiritual body are in alignment, in vibrational harmony with each other, then you are happy.

And if you look within: are you happy? No, instead lots of smiling for the camera...

When two years ago I started to look wider, when I was "forced" to look wider, 360 degrees with the help of the 67 steps, I started to see that what I am doing is not working, not quite.

And I still don"t have a magical solution.

Why? Because mental slothfulness reigns the world. Because people are setting into easy and comfortable...

But growing isn"t easy and isn"t comfortable. It is actually occasionally painful. You have to go through many small deaths to become a butterfly.

There are all kinds of models of transformation, models of growth, models of becoming a human being.

I have tried most, and they really are disappointing.

Religion, yoga, spiritual practices, energy modalities are all duping practices.

Duping you into thinking that your delusional self is your real self and your real self is your poor step-sister. Or evil step sister... but that it isn"t you.

When I ask Source to assist me in measuring your vibration, and other measurements in your Starting Point Measurements, to your surprise, Source measures your real self. The real you. And only relates to your puffed up, delusional self, in measuring the relationship of the two: your inauthenticity.

Recently I have retooled... and I am finding this new model a lot more effective than the previous ones.

People, who do the work, are popping.

The new model eases the tension between the two selves.

It takes off the burden for the delusional self to have to protect itself. So the natural self can breathe, and have some elbow-room... for many this, in an of itself, is a lot like happiness.

You know the joke where in hell the guy is taken around to choose which chamber he want to spend eternity. He happens upon a room where people are sitting around. He says: this looks like a good room. But the devil mercifully informs him that the people there are on break. What they do, when they are not on break, is breaking their own balls... ((Here is another version of that same joke:

Three Doors

A man dies and goes to hell. Satan greets him, shows him three doors, and says, "You must spend the rest of eternity in one of the rooms behind these doors. Look in each one and decide which one you want."

The man opens the first door, and sees a bunch of people standing on their heads on a wooden floor, looking very uncomfortable. He opens the second door, and sees a bunch of people standing on their heads on a concrete floor, looking even more uncomfortable. Finally, he opens the third door, and sees a bunch of people standing around chatting and drinking coffee, up to their knees in shit.

"Hmmm," he says, "that looks bad, but it"s better than the other two. I"ll take the third door." Satan smiles and shows him in.

Ten minutes later Satan walks back into the room and says, "Alright, coffee break"s over, everyone back on your heads!"

Here are some more jokes...

• Boudreaux goes to hell


• Bill Gates in the afterlife


• Bill Clinton in Hell

))

The new model, mercifully puts you on coffee break... so you don"t have to suffer. And then...

And recently, really recently, I have glimpsed a method to build a bridge between the still separated two selves.

You see, now the delusional self can create vibrational harmony with the real self... by actually building legs under the delusional self.

It is work. But the delusional self won"t be so adamant against building it, because it is now building underneath, in the invisible, so it can save face.

Now someone can start reading, and practice increasing their awareness of what they are reading... their vocabulary, their attention. Widen their cone of vision... without ever having to confess to weakness in any of the arenas.

Work on the invisible.

I call that building legs underneath the delusional self.

Making it real, honest, instead of a flimsy front.

Benjamin Franklin never had to admit to being the opposite of those 13 virtues... he could build them in the invisible, and become a very successful man.

I actually don"t know any of these famous successful people... but I have a hunch that they must have done the same: built legs, built bridges under their considerable ambition.

You cannot be really successful if your two selves don"t connect, if your two selves don"t work together, can"t work together.

For example, anger... anger is a burst of energy. Sustained anger is NOT anger, it is poison. But bursts of anger is useful.

NO feeling is sustained that is natural. The natural feelings are like a pump... it goes up and it comes down. Even hunger, even lust... They never last longer than a minute or two.

If you experience any natural feeling longer than a minute or two... then the feeling comes from the words that go around and around in your head... to push your buttons. To steal you away from your natural self.

Your delusional self lives in a cave. Humans invented a word for that cave. They call it mind. And then they decorate it... because they wholly moved in there.

But life happens outside the cave, and not inside.

The model I teach, the model one needs to work with, needs to practice, gets you out of the mind, and to reality, where you can make things happen. And where the two selves can meet and work together. In synergy.

To make things happen in reality. Where Health, Wealth, Love and Fulfillment lives.

And no matter how old you are, how young you are, you can start living. In earnest.

How to get out of your mind to reality where life happens?

Or how to unite your two selves so you can stop hating yourself, punishing yourself, and be happy inside and out

I had an insight this morning. I saw that every health issue I have ever had came from some idea, some thought, some teaching, not from my body.

Until age nine I was skinny. Then at that age I heard that whole grain is better for you... and I got promptly fat.

I have been hovering around 122 pounds when I heard from a student of mine about intermittent fasting. So I decided to do that. I promptly packed on three pounds. Nothing else changed...

All good ideas come from some mind, not your self. Your self is a lot smarter than you allow it to be. There is a separation between your mind and your real self. This article is to remove that separation, so you can be happy in all areas of life, physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually.

I have set a rule for myself recently... and of course I violated it promptly... The rule is: if it sounds like a good idea: let it be a good idea. And stick with what is working. And if you must, test it... But make the experiment short and sweet.

Of course, if your mind doesn"t know about your body, can"t feel your feelings, then this method will not work very well for you. Because you"ll look in your mind... and the mind is a lying machine.

Let me sneak in a little bit of teaching... Physics... ugh... I"ll make it easy on you. It"s about vibration... The vibration you claim you want to raise.

When a singer holds a certain high tone long enough, glasses vibrate and then shatter. One could say they got into vibrational harmony... and vibrational harmony makes the glass, a rigid object with tight molecular bonds, cannot be flexible enough, so it disintegrates.

Bridges... bridges are sensitive to vibration, because bridges, with its arches, are like the string of a violin, have an innate vibrational point, that if matched, the amplitude of the vibration starts to grow, and eventually may collapse the bridge.

Stomping feet, tanks" rumbling...



I have held power tools that threatened to shake my brain loose from my skull.

That is vibration, and that is vibrational frequency.

And, of course, vibration is also music. All musical notes are a vibration, a vibrational frequency. Some delight, some jar you awake, some irritate.

So why on earth are we using this word to measure someone consciousness?

Other words around vibration: resonate, and harmony.

What do you resonate with?

You resonate with, you are able to get into vibrational harmony with something that is like you. Not on the surface, mind you, but on the inside.

I am an empath. Like any ability, feeling your feelings, feeling your emotions can be honed, and can be made a weapon, a diagnostic tool, a healing instrument... not just the raw ability.

It can be used for good, it can be used for bad. Much like a knife... you can cut food, or people"s throat...

In a world of appearances, in a world with humans who all have two selves, the real self and the delusional self, an empath will not be popular.

The Emperor Has No Clothes

Do you think the little boy who yelled: the king is naked, was popular? Everyone hated him. The king because he was naked, duped, and people laughed at him.

But all the courtiers, who followed suit, and shed their fancy clothes to fit in, to be in vibrational harmony with the stupid king, they were angry too.

And the tailors, who sold the scam were angry, because the money they got from the kings and the courtiers was real... and the fleecing of the rich ended... suddenly.

People, humans, have been duped and fleeced forever. Why do they let them be fleeced?

Because it is easier to comply, because it is easier to allow, than to be a man and stand up for what is your right.

I have heard rich and famous people say: I have never had an original thought, everything I know I heard from others.

I understand. Even the rich is sheep, in some respect. Like those courtiers. Like the naked king.

When you fancy yourself holy, holier than others, you don"t want a little innocent kid yell out that you are naked.

The analogy, the comparison between you and the king is both true and flawed.

The flaw is that the king could get dressed any time, his king-ness won"t be effected.

YOU, on the other hand, cannot be viewed the same, you need to work on yourself to bring the two selves closer... or you"ll be forever this torn, angry, lost soul... pretending on one hand, and suffering and fretting and worrying on the other.

My work was, for years,to find a way to bring up your real self to the level of your delusional self. DNA activation, spiritual activators, an incredible amount of work and spiritual energy went into it.

That was a long experiment, and I have to confess that the experiment failed.

I have found that humans, you, are not willing to do the work it takes, to bring your real self up. You are not even willing to get in touch with it... because you hate it. You want to be that "higher" self, that pretend self, I call your delusional self.

Failure or not, the work is still the same: bring the two selves together, so they can embrace, so they can get into vibrational harmony, if you like that expression, so you can be one, and get great things done.

You see, as long as they are pulling in two different directions, you"ll never amount to much, because your energy is not strong enough to pull both selves in on direction, and stay that way.

Every night the imbalance rebuilds, and you start over again.

• The delusional self wants to get all the goodies a high vibration person gets, fame, success, adulation, unearned, of course.


• The real self doesn"t care all about that cheap glory... the real self wants to be itself, wants to be free to pursue its curiosity, enjoy living, enjoy its body, enjoy the sun on its skin.

But in the shadow of the delusional self the real self gets no respect, no support, no energy.

It may even become like one of those dogs that lie down and whimpers, in Martin Seligman"s learned helplessness experiment.

You can choose learned helplessness and you also get mental slothfulness. These are in vibrational harmony with each other.

I have written quite a few articles on learned helplessness, because I really thought that we, humans, can be knocked awake. That if I put the label on us that is offensive... to me, then we will start exercising your growth muscles, and start growing.

And start to go from mental slothfulness to mental diligence... Countries where people read are happy or at least happier countries.

Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.

Any one of these three are out of alignment, there is no harmony, there is no happiness.

Actually, there is a better way to say the same: When your physical body, your emotional body, your mental body, and your spiritual body are in alignment, in vibrational harmony with each other, then you are happy.

And if you look within: are you happy? No, instead lots of smiling for the camera...

When two years ago I started to look wider, when I was "forced" to look wider, 360 degrees with the help of the 67 steps, I started to see that what I am doing is not working, not quite.

And I still don"t have a magical solution.

Why? Because mental slothfulness reigns the world. Because people are setting into easy and comfortable...

But growing isn"t easy and isn"t comfortable. It is actually occasionally painful. You have to go through many small deaths to become a butterfly.

There are all kinds of models of transformation, models of growth, models of becoming a human being.

I have tried most, and they really are disappointing.

Religion, yoga, spiritual practices, energy modalities are all duping practices.

Duping you into thinking that your delusional self is your real self and your real self is your poor step-sister. Or evil step sister... but that it isn"t you.

When I ask Source to assist me in measuring your vibration, and other measurements in your Starting Point Measurements, to your surprise, Source measures your real self. The real you. And only relates to your puffed up, delusional self, in measuring the relationship of the two: your inauthenticity.

Recently I have retooled... and I am finding this new model a lot more effective than the previous ones.

People, who do the work, are popping.

The new model eases the tension between the two selves.

It takes off the burden for the delusional self to have to protect itself. So the natural self can breathe, and have some elbow-room... for many this, in an of itself, is a lot like happiness.

You know the joke where in hell the guy is taken around to choose which chamber he want to spend eternity. He happens upon a room where people are sitting around. He says: this looks like a good room. But the devil mercifully informs him that the people there are on break. What they do, when they are not on break, is breaking their own balls... ((Here is another version of that same joke:

Three Doors

A man dies and goes to hell. Satan greets him, shows him three doors, and says, "You must spend the rest of eternity in one of the rooms behind these doors. Look in each one and decide which one you want."

The man opens the first door, and sees a bunch of people standing on their heads on a wooden floor, looking very uncomfortable. He opens the second door, and sees a bunch of people standing on their heads on a concrete floor, looking even more uncomfortable. Finally, he opens the third door, and sees a bunch of people standing around chatting and drinking coffee, up to their knees in shit.

"Hmmm," he says, "that looks bad, but it"s better than the other two. I"ll take the third door." Satan smiles and shows him in.

Ten minutes later Satan walks back into the room and says, "Alright, coffee break"s over, everyone back on your heads!"

Here are some more jokes...

• Boudreaux goes to hell


• Bill Gates in the afterlife


• Bill Clinton in Hell

))

The new model, mercifully puts you on coffee break... so you don"t have to suffer. And then...

And recently, really recently, I have glimpsed a method to build a bridge between the still separated two selves.

You see, now the delusional self can create vibrational harmony with the real self... by actually building legs under the delusional self.

It is work. But the delusional self won"t be so adamant against building it, because it is now building underneath, in the invisible, so it can save face.

Now someone can start reading, and practice increasing their awareness of what they are reading... their vocabulary, their attention. Widen their cone of vision... without ever having to confess to weakness in any of the arenas.

Work on the invisible.

I call that building legs underneath the delusional self.

Making it real, honest, instead of a flimsy front.

Benjamin Franklin never had to admit to being the opposite of those 13 virtues... he could build them in the invisible, and become a very successful man.

I actually don"t know any of these famous successful people... but I have a hunch that they must have done the same: built legs, built bridges under their considerable ambition.

You cannot be really successful if your two selves don"t connect, if your two selves don"t work together, can"t work together.

For example, anger... anger is a burst of energy. Sustained anger is NOT anger, it is poison. But bursts of anger is useful.

NO feeling is sustained that is natural. The natural feelings are like a pump... it goes up and it comes down. Even hunger, even lust... They never last longer than a minute or two.

If you experience any natural feeling longer than a minute or two... then the feeling comes from the words that go around and around in your head... to push your buttons. To steal you away from your natural self.

Your delusional self lives in a cave. Humans invented a word for that cave. They call it mind. And then they decorate it... because they wholly moved in there.

But life happens outside the cave, and not inside.

The model I teach, the model one needs to work with, needs to practice, gets you out of the mind, and to reality, where you can make things happen. And where the two selves can meet and work together. In synergy.

To make things happen in reality. Where Health, Wealth, Love and Fulfillment lives.

And no matter how old you are, how young you are, you can start living. In earnest.

How to get out of your mind to reality where life happens?

Or how to unite your two selves so you can stop hating yourself, punishing yourself, and be happy inside and out

I had an insight this morning. I saw that every health issue I have ever had came from some idea, some thought, some teaching, not from my body.

Until age nine I was skinny. Then at that age I heard that whole grain is better for you... and I got promptly fat.

I have been hovering around 122 pounds when I heard from a student of mine about intermittent fasting. So I decided to do that. I promptly packed on three pounds. Nothing else changed...

All good ideas come from some mind, not your self. Your self is a lot smarter than you allow it to be. There is a separation between your mind and your real self. This article is to remove that separation, so you can be happy in all areas of life, physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually.

I have set a rule for myself recently... and of course I violated it promptly... The rule is: if it sounds like a good idea: let it be a good idea. And stick with what is working. And if you must, test it... But make the experiment short and sweet.

Of course, if your mind doesn"t know about your body, can"t feel your feelings, then this method will not work very well for you. Because you"ll look in your mind... and the mind is a lying machine.

Let me sneak in a little bit of teaching... Physics... ugh... I"ll make it easy on you. It"s about vibration... The vibration you claim you want to raise.

When a singer holds a certain high tone long enough, glasses vibrate and then shatter. One could say they got into vibrational harmony... and vibrational harmony makes the glass, a rigid object with tight molecular bonds, cannot be flexible enough, so it disintegrates.

Bridges... bridges are sensitive to vibration, because bridges, with its arches, are like the string of a violin, have an innate vibrational point, that if matched, the amplitude of the vibration starts to grow, and eventually may collapse the bridge.

Stomping feet, tanks" rumbling...



I have held power tools that threatened to shake my brain loose from my skull.

That is vibration, and that is vibrational frequency.

And, of course, vibration is also music. All musical notes are a vibration, a vibrational frequency. Some delight, some jar you awake, some irritate.

So why on earth are we using this word to measure someone consciousness?

Other words around vibration: resonate, and harmony.

What do you resonate with?

You resonate with, you are able to get into vibrational harmony with something that is like you. Not on the surface, mind you, but on the inside.

I am an empath. Like any ability, feeling your feelings, feeling your emotions can be honed, and can be made a weapon, a diagnostic tool, a healing instrument... not just the raw ability.

It can be used for good, it can be used for bad. Much like a knife... you can cut food, or people"s throat...

In a world of appearances, in a world with humans who all have two selves, the real self and the delusional self, an empath will not be popular.

The Emperor Has No Clothes

Do you think the little boy who yelled: the king is naked, was popular? Everyone hated him. The king because he was naked, duped, and people laughed at him.

But all the courtiers, who followed suit, and shed their fancy clothes to fit in, to be in vibrational harmony with the stupid king, they were angry too.

And the tailors, who sold the scam were angry, because the money they got from the kings and the courtiers was real... and the fleecing of the rich ended... suddenly.

People, humans, have been duped and fleeced forever. Why do they let them be fleeced?

Because it is easier to comply, because it is easier to allow, than to be a man and stand up for what is your right.

I have heard rich and famous people say: I have never had an original thought, everything I know I heard from others.

I understand. Even the rich is sheep, in some respect. Like those courtiers. Like the naked king.

When you fancy yourself holy, holier than others, you don"t want a little innocent kid yell out that you are naked.

The analogy, the comparison between you and the king is both true and flawed.

The flaw is that the king could get dressed any time, his king-ness won"t be effected.

YOU, on the other hand, cannot be viewed the same, you need to work on yourself to bring the two selves closer... or you"ll be forever this torn, angry, lost soul... pretending on one hand, and suffering and fretting and worrying on the other.

My work was, for years,to find a way to bring up your real self to the level of your delusional self. DNA activation, spiritual activators, an incredible amount of work and spiritual energy went into it.

That was a long experiment, and I have to confess that the experiment failed.

I have found that humans, you, are not willing to do the work it takes, to bring your real self up. You are not even willing to get in touch with it... because you hate it. You want to be that "higher" self, that pretend self, I call your delusional self.

Failure or not, the work is still the same: bring the two selves together, so they can embrace, so they can get into vibrational harmony, if you like that expression, so you can be one, and get great things done.

You see, as long as they are pulling in two different directions, you"ll never amount to much, because your energy is not strong enough to pull both selves in on direction, and stay that way.

Every night the imbalance rebuilds, and you start over again.

• The delusional self wants to get all the goodies a high vibration person gets, fame, success, adulation, unearned, of course.


• The real self doesn"t care all about that cheap glory... the real self wants to be itself, wants to be free to pursue its curiosity, enjoy living, enjoy its body, enjoy the sun on its skin.

But in the shadow of the delusional self the real self gets no respect, no support, no energy.

It may even become like one of those dogs that lie down and whimpers, in Martin Seligman"s learned helplessness experiment.

You can choose learned helplessness and you also get mental slothfulness. These are in vibrational harmony with each other.

I have written quite a few articles on learned helplessness, because I really thought that we, humans, can be knocked awake. That if I put the label on us that is offensive... to me, then we will start exercising your growth muscles, and start growing.

And start to go from mental slothfulness to mental diligence... Countries where people read are happy or at least happier countries.

Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.

Any one of these three are out of alignment, there is no harmony, there is no happiness.

Actually, there is a better way to say the same: When your physical body, your emotional body, your mental body, and your spiritual body are in alignment, in vibrational harmony with each other, then you are happy.

And if you look within: are you happy? No, instead lots of smiling for the camera...

When two years ago I started to look wider, when I was "forced" to look wider, 360 degrees with the help of the 67 steps, I started to see that what I am doing is not working, not quite.

And I still don"t have a magical solution.

Why? Because mental slothfulness reigns the world. Because people are setting into easy and comfortable...

But growing isn"t easy and isn"t comfortable. It is actually occasionally painful. You have to go through many small deaths to become a butterfly.

There are all kinds of models of transformation, models of growth, models of becoming a human being.

I have tried most, and they really are disappointing.

Religion, yoga, spiritual practices, energy modalities are all duping practices.

Duping you into thinking that your delusional self is your real self and your real self is your poor step-sister. Or evil step sister... but that it isn"t you.

When I ask Source to assist me in measuring your vibration, and other measurements in your Starting Point Measurements, to your surprise, Source measures your real self. The real you. And only relates to your puffed up, delusional self, in measuring the relationship of the two: your inauthenticity.

Recently I have retooled... and I am finding this new model a lot more effective than the previous ones.

People, who do the work, are popping.

The new model eases the tension between the two selves.

It takes off the burden for the delusional self to have to protect itself. So the natural self can breathe, and have some elbow-room... for many this, in an of itself, is a lot like happiness.

You know the joke where in hell the guy is taken around to choose which chamber he want to spend eternity. He happens upon a room where people are sitting around. He says: this looks like a good room. But the devil mercifully informs him that the people there are on break. What they do, when they are not on break, is breaking their own balls... ((Here is another version of that same joke:

Three Doors

A man dies and goes to hell. Satan greets him, shows him three doors, and says, "You must spend the rest of eternity in one of the rooms behind these doors. Look in each one and decide which one you want."

The man opens the first door, and sees a bunch of people standing on their heads on a wooden floor, looking very uncomfortable. He opens the second door, and sees a bunch of people standing on their heads on a concrete floor, looking even more uncomfortable. Finally, he opens the third door, and sees a bunch of people standing around chatting and drinking coffee, up to their knees in shit.

"Hmmm," he says, "that looks bad, but it"s better than the other two. I"ll take the third door." Satan smiles and shows him in.

Ten minutes later Satan walks back into the room and says, "Alright, coffee break"s over, everyone back on your heads!"

Here are some more jokes...

• Boudreaux goes to hell


• Bill Gates in the afterlife


• Bill Clinton in Hell

))

The new model, mercifully puts you on coffee break... so you don"t have to suffer. And then...

And recently, really recently, I have glimpsed a method to build a bridge between the still separated two selves.

You see, now the delusional self can create vibrational harmony with the real self... by actually building legs under the delusional self.

It is work. But the delusional self won"t be so adamant against building it, because it is now building underneath, in the invisible, so it can save face.

Now someone can start reading, and practice increasing their awareness of what they are reading... their vocabulary, their attention. Widen their cone of vision... without ever having to confess to weakness in any of the arenas.

Work on the invisible.

I call that building legs underneath the delusional self.

Making it real, honest, instead of a flimsy front.

Benjamin Franklin never had to admit to being the opposite of those 13 virtues... he could build them in the invisible, and become a very successful man.

I actually don"t know any of these famous successful people... but I have a hunch that they must have done the same: built legs, built bridges under their considerable ambition.

You cannot be really successful if your two selves don"t connect, if your two selves don"t work together, can"t work together.

For example, anger... anger is a burst of energy. Sustained anger is NOT anger, it is poison. But bursts of anger is useful.

NO feeling is sustained that is natural. The natural feelings are like a pump... it goes up and it comes down. Even hunger, even lust... They never last longer than a minute or two.

If you experience any natural feeling longer than a minute or two... then the feeling comes from the words that go around and around in your head... to push your buttons. To steal you away from your natural self.

Your delusional self lives in a cave. Humans invented a word for that cave. They call it mind. And then they decorate it... because they wholly moved in there.

But life happens outside the cave, and not inside.

The model I teach, the model one needs to work with, needs to practice, gets you out of the mind, and to reality, where you can make things happen. And where the two selves can meet and work together. In synergy.

To make things happen in reality. Where Health, Wealth, Love and Fulfillment lives.

And no matter how old you are, how young you are, you can start living. In earnest.

How to get out of your mind to reality where life happens?

Or how to unite your two selves so you can stop hating yourself, punishing yourself, and be happy inside and out

I had an insight this morning. I saw that every health issue I have ever had came from some idea, some thought, some teaching, not from my body.

Until age nine I was skinny. Then at that age I heard that whole grain is better for you... and I got promptly fat.

I have been hovering around 122 pounds when I heard from a student of mine about intermittent fasting. So I decided to do that. I promptly packed on three pounds. Nothing else changed...

All good ideas come from some mind, not your self. Your self is a lot smarter than you allow it to be. There is a separation between your mind and your real self. This article is to remove that separation, so you can be happy in all areas of life, physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually.

I have set a rule for myself recently... and of course I violated it promptly... The rule is: if it sounds like a good idea: let it be a good idea. And stick with what is working. And if you must, test it... But make the experiment short and sweet.

Of course, if your mind doesn"t know about your body, can"t feel your feelings, then this method will not work very well for you. Because you"ll look in your mind... and the mind is a lying machine.

Let me sneak in a little bit of teaching... Physics... ugh... I"ll make it easy on you. It"s about vibration... The vibration you claim you want to raise.

When a singer holds a certain high tone long enough, glasses vibrate and then shatter. One could say they got into vibrational harmony... and vibrational harmony makes the glass, a rigid object with tight molecular bonds, cannot be flexible enough, so it disintegrates.

Bridges... bridges are sensitive to vibration, because bridges, with its arches, are like the string of a violin, have an innate vibrational point, that if matched, the amplitude of the vibration starts to grow, and eventually may collapse the bridge.

Stomping feet, tanks" rumbling...



I have held power tools that threatened to shake my brain loose from my skull.

That is vibration, and that is vibrational frequency.

And, of course, vibration is also music. All musical notes are a vibration, a vibrational frequency. Some delight, some jar you awake, some irritate.

So why on earth are we using this word to measure someone consciousness?

Other words around vibration: resonate, and harmony.

What do you resonate with?

You resonate with, you are able to get into vibrational harmony with something that is like you. Not on the surface, mind you, but on the inside.

I am an empath. Like any ability, feeling your feelings, feeling your emotions can be honed, and can be made a weapon, a diagnostic tool, a healing instrument... not just the raw ability.

It can be used for good, it can be used for bad. Much like a knife... you can cut food, or people"s throat...

In a world of appearances, in a world with humans who all have two selves, the real self and the delusional self, an empath will not be popular.

The Emperor Has No Clothes

Do you think the little boy who yelled: the king is naked, was popular? Everyone hated him. The king because he was naked, duped, and people laughed at him.

But all the courtiers, who followed suit, and shed their fancy clothes to fit in, to be in vibrational harmony with the stupid king, they were angry too.

And the tailors, who sold the scam were angry, because the money they got from the kings and the courtiers was real... and the fleecing of the rich ended... suddenly.

People, humans, have been duped and fleeced forever. Why do they let them be fleeced?

Because it is easier to comply, because it is easier to allow, than to be a man and stand up for what is your right.

I have heard rich and famous people say: I have never had an original thought, everything I know I heard from others.

I understand. Even the rich is sheep, in some respect. Like those courtiers. Like the naked king.

When you fancy yourself holy, holier than others, you don"t want a little innocent kid yell out that you are naked.

The analogy, the comparison between you and the king is both true and flawed.

The flaw is that the king could get dressed any time, his king-ness won"t be effected.

YOU, on the other hand, cannot be viewed the same, you need to work on yourself to bring the two selves closer... or you"ll be forever this torn, angry, lost soul... pretending on one hand, and suffering and fretting and worrying on the other.

My work was, for years,to find a way to bring up your real self to the level of your delusional self. DNA activation, spiritual activators, an incredible amount of work and spiritual energy went into it.

That was a long experiment, and I have to confess that the experiment failed.

I have found that humans, you, are not willing to do the work it takes, to bring your real self up. You are not even willing to get in touch with it... because you hate it. You want to be that "higher" self, that pretend self, I call your delusional self.

Failure or not, the work is still the same: bring the two selves together, so they can embrace, so they can get into vibrational harmony, if you like that expression, so you can be one, and get great things done.

You see, as long as they are pulling in two different directions, you"ll never amount to much, because your energy is not strong enough to pull both selves in on direction, and stay that way.

Every night the imbalance rebuilds, and you start over again.

• The delusional self wants to get all the goodies a high vibration person gets, fame, success, adulation, unearned, of course.


• The real self doesn"t care all about that cheap glory... the real self wants to be itself, wants to be free to pursue its curiosity, enjoy living, enjoy its body, enjoy the sun on its skin.

But in the shadow of the delusional self the real self gets no respect, no support, no energy.

It may even become like one of those dogs that lie down and whimpers, in Martin Seligman"s learned helplessness experiment.

You can choose learned helplessness and you also get mental slothfulness. These are in vibrational harmony with each other.

I have written quite a few articles on learned helplessness, because I really thought that we, humans, can be knocked awake. That if I put the label on us that is offensive... to me, then we will start exercising your growth muscles, and start growing.

And start to go from mental slothfulness to mental diligence... Countries where people read are happy or at least happier countries.

Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.

Any one of these three are out of alignment, there is no harmony, there is no happiness.

Actually, there is a better way to say the same: When your physical body, your emotional body, your mental body, and your spiritual body are in alignment, in vibrational harmony with each other, then you are happy.

And if you look within: are you happy? No, instead lots of smiling for the camera...

When two years ago I started to look wider, when I was "forced" to look wider, 360 degrees with the help of the 67 steps, I started to see that what I am doing is not working, not quite.

And I still don"t have a magical solution.

Why? Because mental slothfulness reigns the world. Because people are setting into easy and comfortable...

But growing isn"t easy and isn"t comfortable. It is actually occasionally painful. You have to go through many small deaths to become a butterfly.

There are all kinds of models of transformation, models of growth, models of becoming a human being.

I have tried most, and they really are disappointing.

Religion, yoga, spiritual practices, energy modalities are all duping practices.

Duping you into thinking that your delusional self is your real self and your real self is your poor step-sister. Or evil step sister... but that it isn"t you.

When I ask Source to assist me in measuring your vibration, and other measurements in your Starting Point Measurements, to your surprise, Source measures your real self. The real you. And only relates to your puffed up, delusional self, in measuring the relationship of the two: your inauthenticity.

Recently I have retooled... and I am finding this new model a lot more effective than the previous ones.

People, who do the work, are popping.

The new model eases the tension between the two selves.

It takes off the burden for the delusional self to have to protect itself. So the natural self can breathe, and have some elbow-room... for many this, in an of itself, is a lot like happiness.

You know the joke where in hell the guy is taken around to choose which chamber he want to spend eternity. He happens upon a room where people are sitting around. He says: this looks like a good room. But the devil mercifully informs him that the people there are on break. What they do, when they are not on break, is breaking their own balls... ((Here is another version of that same joke:

Three Doors

A man dies and goes to hell. Satan greets him, shows him three doors, and says, "You must spend the rest of eternity in one of the rooms behind these doors. Look in each one and decide which one you want."

The man opens the first door, and sees a bunch of people standing on their heads on a wooden floor, looking very uncomfortable. He opens the second door, and sees a bunch of people standing on their heads on a concrete floor, looking even more uncomfortable. Finally, he opens the third door, and sees a bunch of people standing around chatting and drinking coffee, up to their knees in shit.

"Hmmm," he says, "that looks bad, but it"s better than the other two. I"ll take the third door." Satan smiles and shows him in.

Ten minutes later Satan walks back into the room and says, "Alright, coffee break"s over, everyone back on your heads!"

Here are some more jokes...

• Boudreaux goes to hell


• Bill Gates in the afterlife


• Bill Clinton in Hell

))

The new model, mercifully puts you on coffee break... so you don"t have to suffer. And then...

And recently, really recently, I have glimpsed a method to build a bridge between the still separated two selves.

You see, now the delusional self can create vibrational harmony with the real self... by actually building legs under the delusional self.

It is work. But the delusional self won"t be so adamant against building it, because it is now building underneath, in the invisible, so it can save face.

Now someone can start reading, and practice increasing their awareness of what they are reading... their vocabulary, their attention. Widen their cone of vision... without ever having to confess to weakness in any of the arenas.

Work on the invisible.

I call that building legs underneath the delusional self.

Making it real, honest, instead of a flimsy front.

Benjamin Franklin never had to admit to being the opposite of those 13 virtues... he could build them in the invisible, and become a very successful man.

I actually don"t know any of these famous successful people... but I have a hunch that they must have done the same: built legs, built bridges under their considerable ambition.

You cannot be really successful if your two selves don"t connect, if your two selves don"t work together, can"t work together.

For example, anger... anger is a burst of energy. Sustained anger is NOT anger, it is poison. But bursts of anger is useful.

NO feeling is sustained that is natural. The natural feelings are like a pump... it goes up and it comes down. Even hunger, even lust... They never last longer than a minute or two.

If you experience any natural feeling longer than a minute or two... then the feeling comes from the words that go around and around in your head... to push your buttons. To steal you away from your natural self.

Your delusional self lives in a cave. Humans invented a word for that cave. They call it mind. And then they decorate it... because they wholly moved in there.

But life happens outside the cave, and not inside.

The model I teach, the model one needs to work with, needs to practice, gets you out of the mind, and to reality, where you can make things happen. And where the two selves can meet and work together. In synergy.

To make things happen in reality. Where Health, Wealth, Love and Fulfillment lives.

And no matter how old you are, how young you are, you can start living. In earnest.

Can I feel you when I look at you and hear you? An empath"s struggle... A bandwidth issue

If you observed me, you would say that I don"t do myself what I suggest that you do: expand my life, expand my cone of vision, expand my social whatever... But what you see and what is are vastly different. Most of what matters happens in the invisible.

I am going to explore this difference, this seeming or real gap in this article.

I mentioned in an article that the exercise class has introduces sideways motions of my body and as a result a pain that limited my movements for 20 years eased to such a degree that today I can lie on my back and both legs will be lying on the bed. Previously I could not do that. For 20 years. Why? What was wrong? I don"t know.

A student of mine, a massage therapist wrote back to share that she had been, instinctively, using techniques that allowed her to stay on her feet and be well...

In one of your recent articles you were talking about how side movements help with joints. It"s a very interesting observation.

For years I"ve struggled with back pain. I am tall 5"11" so if i fall it"s a long fall and i fell a few times in my 20"s.

Anyways I have noticed even when I massage for many hours a week my back is doing good. When I massage I am on my feet and my movements are always sideways so i rock back and worth sideways. After I read your article several days ago I became a little more conscious about how I massage and how I move.


I"ve added a few side moves to my ankles.

The other day I did a bad turn while massaging and my back went in to spasm. I couldn"t even get up. So I started doing some of the Trager movements "what is light, what is lighter...what is free what is freer"... with breathing. While increasing side movements.

The next day i went back to work and that same day I also planted 5 raspberry bushes, tilled a big garden space and sawed a huge limb off a tree on top of other things I I did.

I really believe now that unrestrictive, unforced side movements can really help our joints and muscles. I wonder maybe it can even release some of the trigger points. I"ll keep experimenting.

Trager... Milton Trager MD... the developer and teacher of a method...

I went to Youtube and watched a video of him sharing whatever he shared with words. I muscle tested, and his technique is 60% truth value, but his words are only 7% truth value.

Normally the numbers are exactly the opposite... but in the case of Milton Trager, he felt and did... and then tried to draped pretty, profound words on the top of the high truth.

Milton Trager felt. Felt what went on in the body, and what movements would restore the harmony there. He was an empath. There are lots of empaths in the world, by the way. And even more were a hundred, a thousand, two thousand years ago.

Milton Trager was tuned into the body... and was a wizard with it. The mind? Not so much...

If you learn the technique but don"t feel it, you mix the true and the untrue. In another video there are two "veteran" Trager practitioners, they also teach the technique... Their activities truth value is around 30%.

I have shared before how I learned to connect to Source.

I had a guy do house cleaning for me. One day I found a video of this woman teaching to connect to Source. I called the guy and put the headset on his head. And when I didn"t hear what she said, I felt, exactly, what she did... and I connected.


Later on I read, listened to what she was saying, and I saw that the words don"t connect anyone.

I muscle tested all the "teachers" of the Theta healing technique who were listed on Vianna Stibal"s website. None of them could connect. Why? Because translating something physical to words is very hard.

Milton Trager largely failed at it. Vianna Stibal completely failed at it.

Did I succeed? I failed mostly. So how does this failure happen?

Yesterday I had a strategy session. On the phone.

Then a little later a friend of mine asked me how I am connected when I am on the phone with someone, and when I am corresponding with someone.

And then it hit me: When I have information coming through sounds, or/and through the eyes, I feel less. There is not enough bandwidth.

But moreover: the voices, the 24/7 broadcast also interferes.

I notice it when I want to connect to the Days of Power energy on my own, or even to the Heaven on EArth (HOE).

When I teach, or do it for you, I can muster focusing and blocking out the interference, but when I am by myself, doing it for me... it is really hard... and mostly ineffective.

I have found that doing for someone else focuses my abilities...

But when I talk, whatever reaches them through the senses dilute what I say, and what they get, what reaches their brain is now maybe a minuscule percentage of what I transmitted... and the rest is from other sources: the broadcast, the visual, the noises in their house, the feelings of their body. They all are trying to enter.

When I want to get more, I close my eyes. I habitually block the broadcast... and yet, the voice of the person I am talking to contains enough distraction, that unless I ask them to stop talking, I can"t really feel them.

I am practicing separating the empathic, the feeling, and the "broadcast" type input as I am reading a well known person"s books... I am training myself.

Instead of having to muscle test every few minutes, I have been succeeding to experience the different channels much like a sound engineer hears them in the studio.

I now hear the pretense, the brilliant words and the person who is full of crap, doesn"t do what he says he does, and is writing for effect. Very interesting, apart from the intense disgust I feel. That part isn"t interesting. But is necessary.

My coaching program is not your usual "talking" type of program.

In traditional coaching the client talks to the coach once a week, and then either does anything or not after the call.

The next possible course correction will come seven days later.

Given the low level of comprehension of the average person, once a week course correction will not do much.

Let me remind you that the low level of comprehension is mostly due to the fact that tons of information reaches a person at any one moment: the feelings of the body, the sounds in the environment, the visual while they are on the phone, and most importantly the 24/7 broadcast.

I have worked for decades on sharpening my attention, blocking out competing information.

When you watch a cat, or maybe even a dog, you can see that it takes them some time to recognize someone coming towards them... What they need to do is separate the relevant from the irrelevant... just like you should... and it takes time.

Some people"s uptake is faster, or seems faster, but my hunch is: they have less irrelevant stuff to fight out of the way.

Interestingly, people who seem slower, eventually learn faster and deeper.

People who are seemingly faster never make any effort to even clarify what they got... and they jump the gun...

But my slow students develop muscles that allows them to hone into the relevant. I am not saying they are perfect, I am saying they are better at it.

I have some students who only find out they were misunderstanding what they heard, years later. I used to be in the middle... so I can relate to both extremes.

So, if you are confused by this article: that may be a good thing. Confusion is a higher state than imagined clarity, where most people live.

As you"ll untangled the loose ends of the yarn, you"ll exercise muscles you need to practice to become better.

Of course most of you won"t... You"ll say it"s my fault, and that is that. And you"ll be crystal clear about that...

There is no chance you can grow from that. There is no chance you"ll develop muscles from that.

You"ll remain as you are.

Can I feel you when I look at you and hear you? An empath"s struggle... A bandwidth issue

If you observed me, you would say that I don"t do myself what I suggest that you do: expand my life, expand my cone of vision, expand my social whatever... But what you see and what is are vastly different. Most of what matters happens in the invisible.

I am going to explore this difference, this seeming or real gap in this article.

I mentioned in an article that the exercise class has introduces sideways motions of my body and as a result a pain that limited my movements for 20 years eased to such a degree that today I can lie on my back and both legs will be lying on the bed. Previously I could not do that. For 20 years. Why? What was wrong? I don"t know.

A student of mine, a massage therapist wrote back to share that she had been, instinctively, using techniques that allowed her to stay on her feet and be well...

In one of your recent articles you were talking about how side movements help with joints. It"s a very interesting observation.

For years I"ve struggled with back pain. I am tall 5"11" so if i fall it"s a long fall and i fell a few times in my 20"s.

Anyways I have noticed even when I massage for many hours a week my back is doing good. When I massage I am on my feet and my movements are always sideways so i rock back and worth sideways. After I read your article several days ago I became a little more conscious about how I massage and how I move.


I"ve added a few side moves to my ankles.

The other day I did a bad turn while massaging and my back went in to spasm. I couldn"t even get up. So I started doing some of the Trager movements "what is light, what is lighter...what is free what is freer"... with breathing. While increasing side movements.

The next day i went back to work and that same day I also planted 5 raspberry bushes, tilled a big garden space and sawed a huge limb off a tree on top of other things I I did.

I really believe now that unrestrictive, unforced side movements can really help our joints and muscles. I wonder maybe it can even release some of the trigger points. I"ll keep experimenting.

Trager... Milton Trager MD... the developer and teacher of a method...

I went to Youtube and watched a video of him sharing whatever he shared with words. I muscle tested, and his technique is 60% truth value, but his words are only 7% truth value.

Normally the numbers are exactly the opposite... but in the case of Milton Trager, he felt and did... and then tried to draped pretty, profound words on the top of the high truth.

Milton Trager felt. Felt what went on in the body, and what movements would restore the harmony there. He was an empath. There are lots of empaths in the world, by the way. And even more were a hundred, a thousand, two thousand years ago.

Milton Trager was tuned into the body... and was a wizard with it. The mind? Not so much...

If you learn the technique but don"t feel it, you mix the true and the untrue. In another video there are two "veteran" Trager practitioners, they also teach the technique... Their activities truth value is around 30%.

I have shared before how I learned to connect to Source.

I had a guy do house cleaning for me. One day I found a video of this woman teaching to connect to Source. I called the guy and put the headset on his head. And when I didn"t hear what she said, I felt, exactly, what she did... and I connected.


Later on I read, listened to what she was saying, and I saw that the words don"t connect anyone.

I muscle tested all the "teachers" of the Theta healing technique who were listed on Vianna Stibal"s website. None of them could connect. Why? Because translating something physical to words is very hard.

Milton Trager largely failed at it. Vianna Stibal completely failed at it.

Did I succeed? I failed mostly. So how does this failure happen?

Yesterday I had a strategy session. On the phone.

Then a little later a friend of mine asked me how I am connected when I am on the phone with someone, and when I am corresponding with someone.

And then it hit me: When I have information coming through sounds, or/and through the eyes, I feel less. There is not enough bandwidth.

But moreover: the voices, the 24/7 broadcast also interferes.

I notice it when I want to connect to the Days of Power energy on my own, or even to the Heaven on EArth (HOE).

When I teach, or do it for you, I can muster focusing and blocking out the interference, but when I am by myself, doing it for me... it is really hard... and mostly ineffective.

I have found that doing for someone else focuses my abilities...

But when I talk, whatever reaches them through the senses dilute what I say, and what they get, what reaches their brain is now maybe a minuscule percentage of what I transmitted... and the rest is from other sources: the broadcast, the visual, the noises in their house, the feelings of their body. They all are trying to enter.

When I want to get more, I close my eyes. I habitually block the broadcast... and yet, the voice of the person I am talking to contains enough distraction, that unless I ask them to stop talking, I can"t really feel them.

I am practicing separating the empathic, the feeling, and the "broadcast" type input as I am reading a well known person"s books... I am training myself.

Instead of having to muscle test every few minutes, I have been succeeding to experience the different channels much like a sound engineer hears them in the studio.

I now hear the pretense, the brilliant words and the person who is full of crap, doesn"t do what he says he does, and is writing for effect. Very interesting, apart from the intense disgust I feel. That part isn"t interesting. But is necessary.

My coaching program is not your usual "talking" type of program.

In traditional coaching the client talks to the coach once a week, and then either does anything or not after the call.

The next possible course correction will come seven days later.

Given the low level of comprehension of the average person, once a week course correction will not do much.

Let me remind you that the low level of comprehension is mostly due to the fact that tons of information reaches a person at any one moment: the feelings of the body, the sounds in the environment, the visual while they are on the phone, and most importantly the 24/7 broadcast.

I have worked for decades on sharpening my attention, blocking out competing information.

When you watch a cat, or maybe even a dog, you can see that it takes them some time to recognize someone coming towards them... What they need to do is separate the relevant from the irrelevant... just like you should... and it takes time.

Some people"s uptake is faster, or seems faster, but my hunch is: they have less irrelevant stuff to fight out of the way.

Interestingly, people who seem slower, eventually learn faster and deeper.

People who are seemingly faster never make any effort to even clarify what they got... and they jump the gun...

But my slow students develop muscles that allows them to hone into the relevant. I am not saying they are perfect, I am saying they are better at it.

I have some students who only find out they were misunderstanding what they heard, years later. I used to be in the middle... so I can relate to both extremes.

So, if you are confused by this article: that may be a good thing. Confusion is a higher state than imagined clarity, where most people live.

As you"ll untangled the loose ends of the yarn, you"ll exercise muscles you need to practice to become better.

Of course most of you won"t... You"ll say it"s my fault, and that is that. And you"ll be crystal clear about that...

There is no chance you can grow from that. There is no chance you"ll develop muscles from that.

You"ll remain as you are.

My own unstuck myself technique I use as many times as I am stuck, or see a client stuck

...Whether for myself, or for a client, whether in health, wealth, relationships, or spirituality...

The method has been asking a different question.

A different question unstucks your fixed view of the world, the fixed view that gives you what you are struggling with.

If you consider that everything you have now, is the result of what you know/what you see, then if you want to make any change, big or small, you have to turn your eyes away from what you know, and look around.

This is, by the way, why walking is so useful for high achievers: when you go outside your eyes naturally look at more than just what your mind is focusing on... and you have a chance to unstuck your view.


People, even myself, have been saying: the answer is not within... and yet, we, I, find myself looking into what I already know, instead of doing something that makes me look where I haven"t looked, or not recently.

This is what happened today.

My machine, your machine, the machine likes you to stay stuck... And to deal with life exactly the same way, whether the circumstance is the same or not.

So I have been kind of stuck... and I knew it.

So this morning I started to ask the question: if I didn"t know what I know, what would I see?

Facebook has been nagging me to place an ad to promote one of my pages, but I have been brushing it aside.

So when I decided to look at life with fresh eyes, I said: $3 a day? No biggie... And placed a promotion ad. That took me to an are of my computer I had not seen in six years. And a bunch of videos I had no ideas what they were from a long long time ago.

So I double clicked on one, and it took me to one of the most successful internet marketer"s video... And I started to listen to it. And it started to move me out of my fixed position.

I feel I will have to listen to the advice of the video again... I was still listening from "I already know this"... but I have a feeling that what I know to do is not what I have been doing... ugh. Don"t you hate that when you find that out?

I don"t think I am alone with this... But I hardly know anyone who realizes this and consciously and intentionally attempts to look where they aren"t doing what they know to do. Who cause themselves to get unstuck.

Pay attention that I said "consciously and intentionally"

I have people come to my site and read my posts. I have people come to my webinars. There is no "consciously and intentionally" there...

What causes anyone to become conscious and intentional is the question. The question that disrupt the status quo, the question that causes a "state change".

Most of us, most of the time, are in "business as usual" coasting mode.

But even if you are on the right track, when the train comes, you"ll be crushed.

And it seems that the train is coming with some regularity.

So learning how to unstuck yourself is learning a life skill...

Obviously, if you are so unaware, if you are so deep in the bull"s ear that you don"t notice that the train is coming, no life skill will help...

This is why Tai says that the number one skill that predicts whether you"ll be alive or dead, rich or poor, happy or unhappy, is awareness. Coming out of the bull"s ear, of Plato"s Cave, or your mind with some regularity, and voluntarily.

If you only come out when someone forces you, then you lack another crucial capacity that may even be more important than awareness, and that is initiative.

The opposite of initiative is maybe the "homework mentality"... where you do as little as you can, and only what you must.

I can promise you: you"ll be dead meat, if you aren"t already.

When I disrupted my "I already know and what I know isn"t working", I actually moved myself towards taking the initiative.

Although I had no idea what I should do, doing anything that moves me out of my comfort zone, will take me to some place where what I see is different than what I can see from my comfort zone. And if one move wasn"t enough, make another move. At some point you"ll be able to see a direction, a move, a future... and then you"ll be unstuck.

The traditional way to illustrate stuck is putting them into a well.

What makes it a good way to illustrate it is that in a well you can only see what is IN the well.

But if you can do something that moves you a little higher in the well, after a certain numbers of moving up, eventually your eye level will be above the top of the well, and you"ll be able to see where the heck you want to go. Not until then...

Imagining a direction is actually harmful: it puts you into the desire trap.

What is a desire trap? A desire trap is a visualization. In visualization what you see is so real for the mind that it will give you the good feelings as if the picture were real.

And that puts a definite damper on your ambition: why work towards something if I can just close my eyes and have it, here and now.

But, of course, your private heaven won"t translate into real heaven, and your family won"t be able to partake in it.

So you are now doubly screwed: you have no ambition because it is used up by the desire trap, and you don"t have anything.

So, if you love yourself, even just a little bit, don"t go there.

Instead just do the next little thing, even if it is totally and wholly unrelated to what you want in life.

Ask the question: if I didn"t know what I know, what question would I ask? Where can I look for questions that change my vantage point?

And do what the new vantage point suggests. Watch a video, listen to an audio, ask for a coaching session, do something constructive.

And do this zigzagging until you get out of your well.

I am still up to my neck in the well, but I already see a direction.

Why? Because I do this frequently... because I notice when I am stuck. But you are not me, so you are either better or worse off... but regardless, the technique works.

By the way, the book Ask and you"ll succeed, works on these exact principles. It has 999 questions...

Warning: it is not enough to just read the questions: you need to look for an answer... depending on how stuck you are, this may take a few questions and lookings... Don"t give up.

The three umpires... which one are you most like?

Last night, before I got to bed, I wanted to "talk to" Source.

OK, I actually don"t know what Source is. But over the past 10 or so years I have learned that Source either doesn"t know something, and will let me know, or what source says yes to is actually true.

The conversation was about money, about my business, about the numbers that seem to tell me that nobody loves me any more...

Now, I have been learning how to ask questions... so I asked if my business is in trouble... No, was the surprising answer. Did I do something wrong? No, was the answer. Do I need to worry? No, was the answer. Do I need to do anything? No, was the answer. Whatever is going on is not me.

OK... hm... interesting.

Can I consider this sudden lull in business a good thing? Yes. If I refresh my business, put more energy into it... is that a good thing? Yes.

Now, why am I sharing this?

Because I want to share with you that we don"t see past our noses.

Imagine driving in a thick fog, or if you are in my area, in a whiteout...

If you imagine things, you are reactive, if you drive faster than you could walk, your chances of making a mistake are 100%. You are as good as blind.

And sometimes, in life, it is like that. Or maybe always?

But we never find out, unless we become experimenting machines. Poking reality, so we can get more information than just lamely sit there, hoping.

Poking is not what you normally do, do you? You tell yourself, or more precisely, the voices tell you that you are in trouble, or that you know what"s going on, and then you react.

But you don"t know. You can"t know.

• I was sure that suddenly I was in trouble. That maybe there is gossip about me on the internet.


• One of my students" water wasn"t charging. He KNEW that it was his headphones, and to prove it, he switched to another one.

What he didn"t consider is this: the solar storm was interfering with the water, with the charging...

You always behave as if you were smarter than anybody else.

I recommend that when you feel smarter, you rein in your horses, slow down, and say: it ain"t necessarily so.

The voices will always tell you that you are smarter... Smarter than anyone. Because only you can know.

And every time you act on what the voices tell you, you are indeed stupid. Because what you act from: I know. or I know better.

Humility is being willing to not know. Humility is being willing to look. To wait. To ponder.

But the voices have no patience for that... The voices will keep you a "smart asshole", pardon my French...

When you are listening to the voices, you are ALWAYS reactive. And you are always taking wrong actions, ineffective actions, actions that take you further from the straight and narrow that leads to the good life, to health, wealth, love and fulfillment. Always.

In big things and in small things.

Given the limited perspective of the human mind... we cannot know everything; in fact we know very little. And even what we know we know from the voices and the memes... and what we know is wrong.

What we call common sense is from the voices. What we call intuitive is also from the voices.

When I learned Aikido, I could see that what is intuitive is going to get me killed. I wanted to push when what would work is pulling.

When I want to convince someone to do something, the strategy of pushing is intuitive... but what works is pulling.

And when something looks dangerous, the intuitive is to react sharply... whereas the strategy that works is to look deeper, and see.

And in my case: Talk to Source... lol.

And maybe ask: is there anything I don"t know? Could it be that I am suddenly a zombie chasing mirages?

Or say: It ain"t necessarily so.

The three umpires story is one of my favorites:

A reporter is interviewing umpires (the judges in baseball for you non-Americans).

How do you call ball or strike? He asks.

He has three umpires in the studio, a rookie, who is still green, a journeyman who has some years under his belt. And a seasoned umpire, who has been doing this for decades.

• The rookie answers: I call it the way it is


• The journeyman answers: I call it the way I see it


• The seasoned umpire answers: It ain"t nothing till I call it.

And thus is life. When you react or respond: you really call it... and then have to bear the consequences. But consider that you are a rookie umpire in the game of life... all that "I call the way it is" arrogance has rendered you an ineffective "umpire"... and you spend an awful lot of time picking up the pieces instead of moving your life towards the good life.

I can see it from the sidelines. Not the correct actions, mind you, but your mistakes. And I see that they all come from your arrogance and the voices.

Humility is being willing to suspend all you know, so you can look, so you can listen, so you can learn.

Lack of humility will kill your life. Every time.

Capacities, possibilities, new constructive attitudes... How do you create them so you can have what you want?

Capacities, possibilities, new constructive attitudes...

• What these share is that they are words first and foremost.


• The second thing: saying the words will not make you that...
  And unfortunately, it turned out that turning on the capacities in the DNA won"t create permanent changes... unless.

So what is the technology of inventing and making these capacities, possibilities and attitudes real?

This is what this article is about. It"s about you learning how to have what you want.

Let"s first talk about what people want... What you want.

In thousands of conversations, personally, on the phone, in emails, I have come to see that people want to have.

• There is being... The being allows for doing...


• There is doing... and the doing allows for, creates the having


• There is having... these are your results... the stuff, the relationships, the body, and even how you feel about all of that... Then you say: I want to feel loved... that is a having as well, even if it sounds like a being verb.

Which means that unless you have the being that allows for the doing, you won"t have the having part. EVER.

I hope that will convince you to actually listen with interest so you can see what you have been missing, and what you can do about it. ((We don"t know of many people who documented how they became who they became. Benjamin Franklin is an exception. We learn from Ben Franklin that what made him THE Ben Franklin, in spite of his low birth, and lack of formal education, is his practice of growing his virtues.

Virtues are the things we are talking about, the attitudes, the being, the possibilities.

He also saw that anything that is not measured, cannot grow. So he measured his virtues every day. He cycled through the 13 virtues he set out to learn, one a week.

I did it differently, I probably would be further ahead, had I tried his way.))

The first stage is being. Without being the kind of person who can, who will do, you will never have.

The being is the sticky issue... and capacities, possibilities, and attitudes are all beings in another word... So they are the sticky issues, the issues no one is really addressing effectively.

Two reasons for that... maybe more... we shall see...

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  The first reason beingness/attitude remains unattainable to you  is language.

  
  

Being this or being that is easy to say. The word just falls out of your mouth... Being happy, being talented, being a winner... but saying so doesn"t make it so.

Talking about flying isn"t... is how I express this discrepancy between talking and being.

I learned about being in Landmark Education, and its predecessors, whatever they were, 33 years ago.

I was a foreigner. I was doing my courses in a foreign language. I didn"t have the natives" arrogance thinking that I know what the words really mean.

I had beginner"s mind without having to pretend that I don"t know. I didn"t know.

And it seems that having the beginner"s mind attitude, the "I want to know" attitude that I brought with myself from that foreign culture, I started to investigate in earnest.

I didn"t go to the dictionary. Dictionary is just more words that I didn"t know, that you treat as if you already knew it.

I went to looking, feeling, observing, testing, over and over, wider and wider.

The first being word I worked with was "generosity".

I suspected that the way people mean the word is not accurate, that it doesn"t mean that. The way people mostly used the word "generous" or "generosity" is to mean giving.

But giving is easy. No generosity in that. Giving what is yours... that is a little bit more... it demands of you to give something up... and let them have more than you. And that lead to even more unearthing: allowing the other to be whatever they were, allowing them to be smart, or a leader, or maybe even allow them to suffer when they suffer.

Not trying to fix them so they have to change.

And then the last piece I could see: allow them to shine. Allow them to outshine you. Allow them to be more than you.

On some level, if it doesn"t hurt, it"s not generosity. Not what you expected is it?

Being, attitude, are the seed level of anything that you can want.

In my courses, in my energy work, in my coaching, I specialize in being/attitude.

But because talking about flying, thinking about flying isn"t... in order for you to benefit from anything I teach, you need to learn to generate being... generate attitude... generate capacities... DNA capacities.

If you ever wondered why I have so many capacities working for me, DNA capacities, this is my secret.

I did it myself.

For a few years I fancied myself able to turn on capacities for you, only to land on earth, land in reality, where you cannot keep a capacity "on" that you didn"t generate yourself.

The path to having capacities is the same path as having being available to you.

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  The second reason: world view

  
  

To date I haven"t found anyone who even considered doing the work of distinguishing the capacity they paid me to turn on.

Why? Because of memes...

Memes are those pesky statements that sound like the truth but aren"t.

• Whatever you can imagine, you can have it... A whole industry of vision maps, mind movies is built on this meme... built on this lie.

There are a lot more that came from the "meme-pool".

• Here is an innocent sounding meme: All answers are within... it is another lie that makes you look for your lost keys where they aren"t... (the joke about the drunk who is looking for his car keys under the street light...)


• Here is another one: if you understand it, you can do it... or something like it.

Many lies come from sales pitches...

If you could be generous enough, please comment on this post, so we can create a collection of memes that fool you into a delusional reality where you can get what you want by wanting it. Please? Thank you.

The truth about reality is that you have to work for everything you want.

Sometimes it looks like you don"t... but it is a mirage.

Example: if you plant a seed in unprepared soil, you will have no plant. Why? Preparing the soil to hold moisture, preparing the soil to have nutrients for the emerging plant is work that you have done ahead of time.

I have many skills that I built in my 70 years. When I do something, you cannot see all the work that went into preparing the soil for that new thing to be nurtured. You look and you fancy yourself being able to do it as well, because you saw me doing it.

And you"ll be wrong. Dead wrong. You even missed 90% or more of what is visible, because you don"t have the prepared soil, you don"t have the practical knowledge that you need to even see exactly what I did.

And that is what"s happening when you observe high achievers... you cannot see the work they did, or even the effects of the work they did for tens of years.

OK, on another note... seeing clearly what would make your life work, what would make your dreams come true is not enough.

I am reading this dude"s books... I have been, he wrote several books.

His vibration is 170. ((Here are his starting point measurements:

1. your vibration (1-1000): 170
2. your overall intelligence, emotional, intellectual, spiritual, body, relationship, etc.: 100 (pay attention to this number... you cannot go higher!)
3. the number of spiritual capacities you have: 10 (pay attention to this number, his audience has 1)
4. your soul correction (your machine): "Removing Hatred" https://www.yourvibration.com/sc
5. do you have attachments? no
6. the level of your health (1-100): 10%
7. the level of your cell hydration (1-100): 10%
8. your relationship to feedback and instruction: whimpering
9. The level of discomfort you are willing to allow w/o trying to fix it. This is your TLB score... 1
10. The size of your vocabulary: the number of words you can use accurately: 3500 (pay attention to this number! his average customer has this at 200)
11. To what degree you think of yourself: 99%
12. # of fixed mindset: 10%
13. Ambition: 80% (this number tells you how much of what he wants he is willing to work for. The average number in the world for ambition is 4%, and of his audience: 3% meaning: not willing to work for what they want.)
14. Desire: 10%
15. Degree of inauthenticity overall: 99%
16. Level of integrity 1-100: 80% (compare it with your... the average is 3%)
17. how enslaved are you to memes? (what percentage of your life is run by memes?) 40%
18. do you have a bridge between your precious "I" and your actual I? What is your level of delusion 7%
19. To what degree you have access to your adult capacities 7%
20. How teachable/how coachable are you? 7%
))

This dude is very wizard-like in certain areas of life, like money, like making friends.

He writes about stuff that feels very close to the truth... but talking about stuff and being like it is so are two different things.

His being and his writing are not in sync, not in harmony. His inauthenticity number shows it.

So even when you know a lot about the attitude that would make or break your desires, you can see, that knowing won"t be enough.

You need to build legs under that being... with doing.

This step is the most missing piece of the puzzle.

Even Landmark Education doesn"t attend to it.

Why? because it"s a lot of work, and because, maybe, it is not in their best interest.

I am going to talk about Landmark Education technology that is flawed. If you don"t want to hear it, or if it doesn"t make sense to you, skip over it...

OK, Landmark teaches you to invent the attitude, the being, the capacity. They call these "possibility". So they teach you to invent a possibility for yourself and your life.

They teach you the what. And a little bit about the how: make sure this new possibility is not fixing what is... or it is not a possibility. Otherwise they leave you alone, to your own devices, to invent.

OK, so you invented something that sounds like a possibility.

Then, Landmark says: to make it real in your life, all you need to do is to talk to enough people and make them believe that you are that.

Remember: a possibility (the Landmark term) is a way of being. They say: if you convince enough people that you are that way, then you have it.

Now, between you and me, depending on your understanding of what convincing people (they use the word "enroll") that you are that, then you may be that...

But... and a big but at that: how do you do that?

You don"t know, and I promise you, "they" don"t know.

Why, because the work you need to know is a lot more complex. And takes a lot more time than convincing people that you are that...

Just look back at my inquiry and my work on generosity. Unless you know all facets of a being, you cannot truly be it.

I discovered yesterday that I was the kind of coach who wanted you to remain "under" me... How did I do that? I had one of my students surpass me, and I felt those pesky marker feelings of: Oh my god, I am being left behind!

I quickly identified it as lack of generosity, and promptly corrected it. We are talking about 30 odd years when this never came up, so I didn"t even know it was lurking there in the shadows!

You are always "to a degree" are you a possibility, have a certain attitude. With this correction I have raised that degree to 90%. Still not 100%.

Do I have any idea where that missing 10% will come from? Yes and no... you don"t know what you don"t know... Some of that 10% is me being OK with how you are, however flawed that is... I am still not good at that... :-(

You grab a little corner of that attitude, that possibility, like the end of the thread in a ball of yarn, and snip it off... then find another little piece to snip off.

Eventually life will be able to come through that now cushy ball of yarn, and you can start having what you want.

There are 160 spiritual capacities built into your DNA. You can pick any of them to turn on.

The FAKE IT Method... make your actions consistent with what you are learning to be, that is what we, what I call faking.

An ex student of mine wrote to me about the capacity of being enough.

Let me spend a little time with that capacity, with that possibility, with that attitude. It is all three...

Ask some questions: what would someone do if they were enough? If they were a match to what they want in life? Or something specific: if they wanted to get off welfare, for example.

And start looking at people who seem to be enough. Do not look for the answers in your mind. There is no answer there.

You may see, that they are doing what they set out to do... You may hear them fretting, but the fretting won"t stop them. They do it and do it and do it, until it is done. They definitely not go to hoping and wishing.

Someone who is enough actually sees that it is up to them to produce what they set out to produce. That mother, god, or government won"t be coming. It is up to them. And because they are enough, they do it.

Can you do it even if you are not yet enough? Yes. This is the meaning of the meme: fake it till you make it.

It is not putting on appearances, it is actually doing work you can"t do well yet. But you are doing it... and it will become enough eventually. So you made it through that hurdle.

And in the process who you are for yourself changed to "enough".

The faker died, just like the caterpillar dies, and the enough is born and taking flight.

Looks like a miracle, and it is a miracle... a miracle you created.

That may be all you needed to have what you want, in every area of your life. That relationship to yourself, where you are enough. A match for what you want.

PS: If you pay attention, everybody teaches you what to do. They may go a little bit into the how, but not enough.

Here is something that you"ll probably hate, but somebody has to say it: teachers can only teach the how of what they consciously did themselves. If you do things, if you were born that way, if you were unconscious as you learned to be that way, you cannot teach it.

This is why you can"t see how articles. This is why you see advice: just meditate, love is all there is, blah blah blah.

The vibration number is accurate. It tells you how many capacities, how many beings you can authentically bring to your own life. And to what degree you have those capacities in working order.

The Dude: vibration: 170... ! inauthenticity: 99%. Tai Lopez: vibration: 170. Inauthenticity: 90%.

Both are somewhat low...

I am still able and willing to learn from this guys. Why? They have the insight. Insights are words. I am able to benefit from those words. Why? Because MY inauthenticity is 10%...

Become that person who can learn from everyone! Be Abraham Lincoln! A discerning machine! A learning machine!

Their books, programs save me a lot of work of scouring the world for new discoveries of missing pieces of the puzzle. And I am diligently studying what these guys put out.

But, I would laugh if it were really funny, THEY cannot benefit from the wisdom that comes out of their mouths... because they don"t live, they don"t "be" what they teach.

They could, by the way.

But why don"t they?

Because in order to sell stuff to you, they have to give you only what is largely useless... and because that is STINGY, because that is DISHONEST, because that is INAUTHENTIC, because that is being in league with EVIL (desire for the self alone), they can"t... or they will become schizophrenic... or poor like me... lol. Now, that is funny, imagining those two guys being poor like me. hahahaha