I am starting to change my mind about Jordan Peterson. Here is a 60% truth value video

Yesterday I found a quote that shook me to my core... So I want to start with that. You could say: that quote accurately expresses my attitude about life... and I am moved by that ((Sandy Koufax was Jewish, and his attitude was what made Jews survive all those thousands of years of exile, all the persecution, and come out, when they did, on top... ))

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dJyz6iK8VXE

It is 60% truth value, not because 40% of it is not true, but because it doesn"t quite distinguish the path, doesn"t look at the invisible dynamics of life it a way, that people can catch themselves as they make themselves miserable...

It is never circumstances, nor other people that make you miserable, it is your inability: lack of distinctions, to see exactly what creates your attitude and behavior.

You can"t catch what you can"t see! And lack of distinction is the cause of it.

Distinction is the ability to tell two things apart, even if and when they are very similar.

Until you can... and to the degree that you can"t... everything is the same for you as everything else... you are a bumbling idiot when it comes to life.Example: You have a feeling. You know four names for a bad feeling... so you use the words your know. But the feeling is not that... so you cannot see where it"s coming from, you are not going to be able to catch the color of evil inclination... and you"ll remain the same: self-hating, miserable.

Jordan Peterson"s accurate vocabulary is 1000 words... higher than most, but not enough to help you much... My vocabulary is 5000. The vocabulary number is about the words of behavior, attitude, emotions, values... the words that allow you to navigate your own psyche, navigate the world of people, to accurately assess what is in front of you, values, etc.

But his meager vocabulary is still 3-5 times larger than yours. In the current Playgrounds I have three students with as high a vocabulary as his... three with 5 times smaller, and two with three times smaller.

If you ever want to feel like you are a match to life, equal to life, enough for life, you MUST increase your vocabulary of feelings/emotions/attitudes.

If you don"t, there is nothing that anyone can do for you! I am shouting, I know, and you are cringing, I know...

So get off your ass, and do something for yourself! The cringing shows you that your TLB is 1... you are soft and a sissy.

There is no good life for a sissy... you need to get that. Life takes work, and work is hard. Life takes learning, and learning is hard. Life takes seeing... and I promise you, once you start seeing, it is both a blessing and a curse. You"ll rejoice in the richness... and you"ll grieve the ugly... But all in all, unless you can see, you are not living...

If you are a parent, create a project with your child or children to hunt for words that express a state of being, an attitude, a feeling.

I am working on the positive feelings, attitudes, right now. I learned "jaunty" and wrote an article about it. Yesterday I learned "jovial". I could get more diligent, but I don"t want to do it with a homework attitude: the attitude that works best for me is discovery, a sense of wonder, delighting in the added color on the fabric of life, each new word provides.

• This is why I have been reading, exclusively, fiction for the past many months.


• 10-30 books by each author I carefully choose for their writing ability.


• Each author has a limited vocabulary that adds a few hundred to mine.

Even Jordan Peterson has added a word or two to my already large vocabulary, thank you very much Professor Peterson. I think I needed it.

His words add another dimension to my vocabulary, a dimension where I have been weak in: inspiration, talking to your intrinsic sense of greatness, and possibility.

I have still a lot to go...

You won"t learn new words unless you set it out as a task. It isn"t like it will infect you, or enter you by osmosis... that is not the nature of reality... or not quite. If you COULD read or listen in Theta brain wave mode, the mode of learning, then you would, but I personally don"t know anyone older than six years old, who is listening in theta mode...

In theta mode you don"t mount a filter to protect your special "I", you don"t mount a filter to protect yourself from finding out that what you know is actually not true... in Theta mode you are like a sponge.

And so were your children. And the soaked up your level of humanity... and you are surprised that they are not better people, that they don"t measure up to your high standards... which you yourself don"t consider a standard for yourself.

Ugh... ugly.

So, regardless where you are... create some circumstances inside a commitment to grow as a human... and please know, that without a larger vocabulary, you cannot grow.

Your vocabulary limits you to a certain level of being... and unless and until you grow your vocabulary, you are stuck there, and there is nothing you, me, or your favorite magician can do to unstuck you...

Voodoo won"t do it for you. Mind movies won"t do it for you. Energy clearing won"t do it for you.

Only actually learning new words will do for you.

It"s OK to start with good, nice feeling words, but given the principle of strait and narrow, learning bad feeling words will be a lot more effective.

Why? Because if something has a name, then you name it and you claim it, and own it. When you can own it, it allows you to be whatever you choose to be... instantly.

While if you start with the positive, nice, better feeling words, you will... most likely, pretend to be that... and pretense is lying... pretense won"t allow you to face the truth, pretense is all to blow smoke up other people"s ass... so they like you...

And then you can"t grow.

So start with the bad feelings. Don"t stop until you get at least 300...

Each word will give you more power... Sounds counter intuitive? What humans call intuitive is not... instead it is indoctrination to slavery. So move towards the counter intuitive: at then end is what you have always wanted: becoming a person. Yeah, a person. And individual.

One in a million.

PS: everyone wants a high or at least higher vibration. But whatever the people on the internet say about vibration is wholly b.s.

They don"t know... and they sound like they do...

But if you examined their vocabulary number: it is low.

• David Hawkins, vocabulary: 1000.


• Christie Marie Sheldon, vocabulary: 300.


• Abraham/Hicks: vocabulary: 400.


• Vishen Lakhiani: vocabulary: 700,


• Karen Berg of the Kabbalah Centre: 300,


• Michael Berg: 500,


• Jack Canfield: vocabulary: 500.


• Tai Lopez: vocabulary 700.

Tai Lopez teaches an interesting principle, the "law" of 10%. It says that you can learn 10% of another"s knowledge, or whatever they are teaching.

So if you want to grow fast, pick someone whose 10% is a significant growth for you, not someone who is just slightly and comfortably above your level... which most people do.

And especially in this fundamental capacity, being able to distinguish and name feelings, attitudes, emotions, values accurately, don"t pick someone who can 10X your vocabulary... or you are wasting your life with easy.

This doesn"t mean: don"t listen to anything they say: just don"t learn vocabulary from them...

Jordan Peterson has a bigger "bad attitudes" vocabulary than most, and maybe bigger "inspiration" vocabulary than me...

I know all the bad words, but didn"t know the inspiration words... so he can teach me something... but his real value for me is that he casts his net wider than me, including politics, and such, I have no clue about...

But if I want to learn inspiring words, I am better off studying the famous orators... and I even own a book, big, heavy, lasts a lifetime.

When I learn a new word, I spend at least a few days to make it instinctual... to be able to recognize it even if there is a smokescreen... So I learn, really learn, only one new word every few days.

Some words, like generosity, authenticity, integrity, loyalty... and such took me years each... I started this learning new words around my 40th birthday.

Once you go over the hump... the words come fast and furious, and your growth comes with it.

So if anyone asked me, nowadays, what is the most important activity you can take on to raise your vibration, I would say, without hesitation: increase your negative feelings/attitudes vocabulary. It works like magic.

What should be your first words you learn: just go to the Bach Energies page

I just checked, and I am sure I have an even better page, where the negative energy of the feeling is expressed better...

I will be looking for that list, and come back here and post it... Just check back again later.

In the meantime, read these two articles:

https://www.yourvibration.com/38204/work-raise-vibration/

https://www.yourvibration.com/41786/invisible-components-success/

Capacities, possibilities, new constructive attitudes... How do you create them so you can have what you want?

Capacities, possibilities, new constructive attitudes...

• What these share is that they are words first and foremost.


• The second thing: saying the words will not make you that...
  And unfortunately, it turned out that turning on the capacities in the DNA won"t create permanent changes... unless.

So what is the technology of inventing and making these capacities, possibilities and attitudes real?

This is what this article is about. It"s about you learning how to have what you want.

Let"s first talk about what people want... What you want.

In thousands of conversations, personally, on the phone, in emails, I have come to see that people want to have.

• There is being... The being allows for doing...


• There is doing... and the doing allows for, creates the having


• There is having... these are your results... the stuff, the relationships, the body, and even how you feel about all of that... Then you say: I want to feel loved... that is a having as well, even if it sounds like a being verb.

Which means that unless you have the being that allows for the doing, you won"t have the having part. EVER.

I hope that will convince you to actually listen with interest so you can see what you have been missing, and what you can do about it. ((We don"t know of many people who documented how they became who they became. Benjamin Franklin is an exception. We learn from Ben Franklin that what made him THE Ben Franklin, in spite of his low birth, and lack of formal education, is his practice of growing his virtues.

Virtues are the things we are talking about, the attitudes, the being, the possibilities.

He also saw that anything that is not measured, cannot grow. So he measured his virtues every day. He cycled through the 13 virtues he set out to learn, one a week.

I did it differently, I probably would be further ahead, had I tried his way.))

The first stage is being. Without being the kind of person who can, who will do, you will never have.

The being is the sticky issue... and capacities, possibilities, and attitudes are all beings in another word... So they are the sticky issues, the issues no one is really addressing effectively.

Two reasons for that... maybe more... we shall see...

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  The first reason beingness/attitude remains unattainable to you  is language.

  
  

Being this or being that is easy to say. The word just falls out of your mouth... Being happy, being talented, being a winner... but saying so doesn"t make it so.

Talking about flying isn"t... is how I express this discrepancy between talking and being.

I learned about being in Landmark Education, and its predecessors, whatever they were, 33 years ago.

I was a foreigner. I was doing my courses in a foreign language. I didn"t have the natives" arrogance thinking that I know what the words really mean.

I had beginner"s mind without having to pretend that I don"t know. I didn"t know.

And it seems that having the beginner"s mind attitude, the "I want to know" attitude that I brought with myself from that foreign culture, I started to investigate in earnest.

I didn"t go to the dictionary. Dictionary is just more words that I didn"t know, that you treat as if you already knew it.

I went to looking, feeling, observing, testing, over and over, wider and wider.

The first being word I worked with was "generosity".

I suspected that the way people mean the word is not accurate, that it doesn"t mean that. The way people mostly used the word "generous" or "generosity" is to mean giving.

But giving is easy. No generosity in that. Giving what is yours... that is a little bit more... it demands of you to give something up... and let them have more than you. And that lead to even more unearthing: allowing the other to be whatever they were, allowing them to be smart, or a leader, or maybe even allow them to suffer when they suffer.

Not trying to fix them so they have to change.

And then the last piece I could see: allow them to shine. Allow them to outshine you. Allow them to be more than you.

On some level, if it doesn"t hurt, it"s not generosity. Not what you expected is it?

Being, attitude, are the seed level of anything that you can want.

In my courses, in my energy work, in my coaching, I specialize in being/attitude.

But because talking about flying, thinking about flying isn"t... in order for you to benefit from anything I teach, you need to learn to generate being... generate attitude... generate capacities... DNA capacities.

If you ever wondered why I have so many capacities working for me, DNA capacities, this is my secret.

I did it myself.

For a few years I fancied myself able to turn on capacities for you, only to land on earth, land in reality, where you cannot keep a capacity "on" that you didn"t generate yourself.

The path to having capacities is the same path as having being available to you.

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  The second reason: world view

  
  

To date I haven"t found anyone who even considered doing the work of distinguishing the capacity they paid me to turn on.

Why? Because of memes...

Memes are those pesky statements that sound like the truth but aren"t.

• Whatever you can imagine, you can have it... A whole industry of vision maps, mind movies is built on this meme... built on this lie.

There are a lot more that came from the "meme-pool".

• Here is an innocent sounding meme: All answers are within... it is another lie that makes you look for your lost keys where they aren"t... (the joke about the drunk who is looking for his car keys under the street light...)


• Here is another one: if you understand it, you can do it... or something like it.

Many lies come from sales pitches...

If you could be generous enough, please comment on this post, so we can create a collection of memes that fool you into a delusional reality where you can get what you want by wanting it. Please? Thank you.

The truth about reality is that you have to work for everything you want.

Sometimes it looks like you don"t... but it is a mirage.

Example: if you plant a seed in unprepared soil, you will have no plant. Why? Preparing the soil to hold moisture, preparing the soil to have nutrients for the emerging plant is work that you have done ahead of time.

I have many skills that I built in my 70 years. When I do something, you cannot see all the work that went into preparing the soil for that new thing to be nurtured. You look and you fancy yourself being able to do it as well, because you saw me doing it.

And you"ll be wrong. Dead wrong. You even missed 90% or more of what is visible, because you don"t have the prepared soil, you don"t have the practical knowledge that you need to even see exactly what I did.

And that is what"s happening when you observe high achievers... you cannot see the work they did, or even the effects of the work they did for tens of years.

OK, on another note... seeing clearly what would make your life work, what would make your dreams come true is not enough.

I am reading this dude"s books... I have been, he wrote several books.

His vibration is 170. ((Here are his starting point measurements:

1. your vibration (1-1000): 170
2. your overall intelligence, emotional, intellectual, spiritual, body, relationship, etc.: 100 (pay attention to this number... you cannot go higher!)
3. the number of spiritual capacities you have: 10 (pay attention to this number, his audience has 1)
4. your soul correction (your machine): "Removing Hatred" https://www.yourvibration.com/sc
5. do you have attachments? no
6. the level of your health (1-100): 10%
7. the level of your cell hydration (1-100): 10%
8. your relationship to feedback and instruction: whimpering
9. The level of discomfort you are willing to allow w/o trying to fix it. This is your TLB score... 1
10. The size of your vocabulary: the number of words you can use accurately: 3500 (pay attention to this number! his average customer has this at 200)
11. To what degree you think of yourself: 99%
12. # of fixed mindset: 10%
13. Ambition: 80% (this number tells you how much of what he wants he is willing to work for. The average number in the world for ambition is 4%, and of his audience: 3% meaning: not willing to work for what they want.)
14. Desire: 10%
15. Degree of inauthenticity overall: 99%
16. Level of integrity 1-100: 80% (compare it with your... the average is 3%)
17. how enslaved are you to memes? (what percentage of your life is run by memes?) 40%
18. do you have a bridge between your precious "I" and your actual I? What is your level of delusion 7%
19. To what degree you have access to your adult capacities 7%
20. How teachable/how coachable are you? 7%
))

This dude is very wizard-like in certain areas of life, like money, like making friends.

He writes about stuff that feels very close to the truth... but talking about stuff and being like it is so are two different things.

His being and his writing are not in sync, not in harmony. His inauthenticity number shows it.

So even when you know a lot about the attitude that would make or break your desires, you can see, that knowing won"t be enough.

You need to build legs under that being... with doing.

This step is the most missing piece of the puzzle.

Even Landmark Education doesn"t attend to it.

Why? because it"s a lot of work, and because, maybe, it is not in their best interest.

I am going to talk about Landmark Education technology that is flawed. If you don"t want to hear it, or if it doesn"t make sense to you, skip over it...

OK, Landmark teaches you to invent the attitude, the being, the capacity. They call these "possibility". So they teach you to invent a possibility for yourself and your life.

They teach you the what. And a little bit about the how: make sure this new possibility is not fixing what is... or it is not a possibility. Otherwise they leave you alone, to your own devices, to invent.

OK, so you invented something that sounds like a possibility.

Then, Landmark says: to make it real in your life, all you need to do is to talk to enough people and make them believe that you are that.

Remember: a possibility (the Landmark term) is a way of being. They say: if you convince enough people that you are that way, then you have it.

Now, between you and me, depending on your understanding of what convincing people (they use the word "enroll") that you are that, then you may be that...

But... and a big but at that: how do you do that?

You don"t know, and I promise you, "they" don"t know.

Why, because the work you need to know is a lot more complex. And takes a lot more time than convincing people that you are that...

Just look back at my inquiry and my work on generosity. Unless you know all facets of a being, you cannot truly be it.

I discovered yesterday that I was the kind of coach who wanted you to remain "under" me... How did I do that? I had one of my students surpass me, and I felt those pesky marker feelings of: Oh my god, I am being left behind!

I quickly identified it as lack of generosity, and promptly corrected it. We are talking about 30 odd years when this never came up, so I didn"t even know it was lurking there in the shadows!

You are always "to a degree" are you a possibility, have a certain attitude. With this correction I have raised that degree to 90%. Still not 100%.

Do I have any idea where that missing 10% will come from? Yes and no... you don"t know what you don"t know... Some of that 10% is me being OK with how you are, however flawed that is... I am still not good at that... :-(

You grab a little corner of that attitude, that possibility, like the end of the thread in a ball of yarn, and snip it off... then find another little piece to snip off.

Eventually life will be able to come through that now cushy ball of yarn, and you can start having what you want.

There are 160 spiritual capacities built into your DNA. You can pick any of them to turn on.

The FAKE IT Method... make your actions consistent with what you are learning to be, that is what we, what I call faking.

An ex student of mine wrote to me about the capacity of being enough.

Let me spend a little time with that capacity, with that possibility, with that attitude. It is all three...

Ask some questions: what would someone do if they were enough? If they were a match to what they want in life? Or something specific: if they wanted to get off welfare, for example.

And start looking at people who seem to be enough. Do not look for the answers in your mind. There is no answer there.

You may see, that they are doing what they set out to do... You may hear them fretting, but the fretting won"t stop them. They do it and do it and do it, until it is done. They definitely not go to hoping and wishing.

Someone who is enough actually sees that it is up to them to produce what they set out to produce. That mother, god, or government won"t be coming. It is up to them. And because they are enough, they do it.

Can you do it even if you are not yet enough? Yes. This is the meaning of the meme: fake it till you make it.

It is not putting on appearances, it is actually doing work you can"t do well yet. But you are doing it... and it will become enough eventually. So you made it through that hurdle.

And in the process who you are for yourself changed to "enough".

The faker died, just like the caterpillar dies, and the enough is born and taking flight.

Looks like a miracle, and it is a miracle... a miracle you created.

That may be all you needed to have what you want, in every area of your life. That relationship to yourself, where you are enough. A match for what you want.

PS: If you pay attention, everybody teaches you what to do. They may go a little bit into the how, but not enough.

Here is something that you"ll probably hate, but somebody has to say it: teachers can only teach the how of what they consciously did themselves. If you do things, if you were born that way, if you were unconscious as you learned to be that way, you cannot teach it.

This is why you can"t see how articles. This is why you see advice: just meditate, love is all there is, blah blah blah.

The vibration number is accurate. It tells you how many capacities, how many beings you can authentically bring to your own life. And to what degree you have those capacities in working order.

The Dude: vibration: 170... ! inauthenticity: 99%. Tai Lopez: vibration: 170. Inauthenticity: 90%.

Both are somewhat low...

I am still able and willing to learn from this guys. Why? They have the insight. Insights are words. I am able to benefit from those words. Why? Because MY inauthenticity is 10%...

Become that person who can learn from everyone! Be Abraham Lincoln! A discerning machine! A learning machine!

Their books, programs save me a lot of work of scouring the world for new discoveries of missing pieces of the puzzle. And I am diligently studying what these guys put out.

But, I would laugh if it were really funny, THEY cannot benefit from the wisdom that comes out of their mouths... because they don"t live, they don"t "be" what they teach.

They could, by the way.

But why don"t they?

Because in order to sell stuff to you, they have to give you only what is largely useless... and because that is STINGY, because that is DISHONEST, because that is INAUTHENTIC, because that is being in league with EVIL (desire for the self alone), they can"t... or they will become schizophrenic... or poor like me... lol. Now, that is funny, imagining those two guys being poor like me. hahahaha

The only spiritual practice that raises your vibration, and can take you all the way

If you live a fragmented life... your life is full of wanting to, having to, needing to and should.

The common thread that can unify your life, the different areas, is who you are.

But if you don"t know who you are, then you consider yourself the different roles you play in different circumstances, with different people... and there is no YOU to unify your life.

Life is horrible for a person like that. Disease settles in the space between what is real and what is pretended. The inner tension uses up all the energy that could be used for life, for the immune system to kill the nasties, invaders, viruses, cancer cells, toxins.

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The energies, energy remedies are like a cane... the cane helps you go where you are going.

The energies, energy remedies are like a cane... the cane helps you go where you are going.

If you are going to a good place... wonderful.
If you are going to a bad place... the cane helped you to get there.

Energy remedies, energy healing, spiritual capacities are support. Supporting you to go where you want to go.

If, in spite of all the energetic support you have received from me, you are still in a bad place, you should look at where you are going.

You cannot blame the cane. You cannot blame it for not taking you where you"d like to be.
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Against self criticism and the 4-day weekend

One of the rarest and most functional capacities is the capacity to allow... without resistance.

Resistance uses a lot of energy, mostly the energy that you need to become successful, to do the right thing, to be well, and to treat people, including yourself, right.

Resistance is normal, but harmful. Just like self-criticism: normal but harmful, with no upside.

Upside is the benefit you gain from a harmful or painful action or experience.

Neither resistance, nor self-criticism, self-judgment have any upside, only downside.

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What determines how you and your life turn out?

What is the mechanism of the machine that you are, that is used to define your actions, your moods, your attitude?

As I said in a few previous articles, your actions, your thoughts, your moods, your attitudes will be correlated with what you see.

The two sides:

what you see, or the way the world occurs to you

your actions, your thoughts, your moods, your attitudes: your world




the two sides are like the front of the hand and the back of the hand, connected, inseparable, but yet distinct.
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The natural law that prevents you from growing

What is the natural law that prevents you from having human being capacities while preserving the seed of right and wrong.

Just like the seed needs to die, before the plant can grow, a new version of humanity depends on the seed dying.

The seed level characteristics of the new version of humanity that prevent evolution are all behaviors, attitudes that are based in scarcity.

How do you recognize scarcity?

There are many, all fear based, but one behavior I just recently discovered, that in fact the behavior comes from a scarcity way of being.

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How could you become ready to grow?

I am using Rob Brezsny"s words here... maybe his English communicates better than mine:
ANTI-INSTRUCTIONS

Exaggerate your flaws till they turn into virtues Pretend your wounds are exotic tattoos Refuse the gifts that infringe on your freedom Shun sacred places that fill you with boredom Keep in mind it"s bad luck to be superstitious The official story"s always fictitious Pump up your karma with idiot laughter The promised land"s here, not in some hereafter

We are searching for the answers so we can destroy them and dream up better questions

Here are two attitudes that will be useful, invaluable, and mandatory if you want to grow through my programs

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The poisonous tree that you are... and what you can do about it...

“Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood. Now is the time to understand more, so that we may fear less.” —Marie Curie, Our Precarious Habitat

The "What"s The Truth About You" workshop series is kicking off this afternoon.

As usual I haven"t done any preparation: I never do. I like my life, my teaching fluid. Freezing it would be to ignore guidance, stop growing, and start becoming a sculpture on a pedestal.

I slept well last night. I had a ton of guiding dreams. All about what I am trying to do in the workshop this afternoon: take you over the threshold between human and human being.

Being human means being a poisonous tree.

You weren"t born that, you became that. You are poisonous in predictable ways, along predictable lines, predicted by your soul correction.

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Learning lessons the hard way... or the easy way... Part 2

The brilliance in the movie, "It"s a wonderful life" is that the angel creates a thought experiment what the world would be like if our hero hadn"t been born.

Thought experiments are uniquely human: animals don"t do thought experiments.

The minimum intelligence required to create a thought experiment is 70... and I am not talking about IQ measured intelligence, I am talking about overall intelligence.

The average intelligence in the world is 50... But all my site"s visitors qualify.

So let"s look at that movie and see what is a thought experiment:

If X were different, in the movie take out the main character... and then look at different elements that you know how they are... the marriage, the loan bank, etc. The amount of happiness, the amount of difference.

Now let"s look at different examples of thought experiments, all in the area of my work of becoming someone who loves life, and lives it successfully.

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Can you tell what size is your cone of vision? Look to what degree your live is fragmented...

Your vibration, your creativity, your truth value all depends on your cone of vision... But until you see that you have a narrow cone of vision, that you look at things with narrow cone of vision, or a narrow filter, you won"t want to make it wider.

Wide cone of vision means inclusive... narrow cone of vision is exclusive... exclusive of areas that you KNOW don"t matter, don"t belong, or you don"t like them. Exclusive because you KNOW the answer...

The most exciting insights first show up in the corner of your eyes... Which means they are literally outside of your cone of vision.

One way I see this is how attached you are to one area of life, or one way to do it, or one problem you have.

For some: it is their soul correction. They scratch the wound until it bleeds, and neither the soul correction issue moves, nor their lives move... it is a strategy.

Strait and narrow is transferred on land. It may be narrow, but it is not the strait. Strait means a narrow path of water between land masses.

If you are on a ship, talking about the land is irrelevant, won"t allow you to pass.

For others it is laziness.

But for most, it"s the soul correction...

Soul correction is one way the "Universe" is telling us that there is some design... otherwise soul correction categories would not exist. Or horoscope signs.

And most soul corrections narrow your cone of vision to not see all of what can be seen. Not even look.

I am a "Forget Thyself" soul correction. I need people to condescend upon, feel superior to.
I avoid people in position of authority. And I have been avoiding my older brother. I have dug up some information that could be useful for her wife"s health, but decided that he"ll knock me for it... so I didn"t do it.

This week I called him, and he was gracious, maybe even grateful. I wasn"t superior. Instead I looked wider, and was helpful, loving, sharing? Without the big ego.

Summon different ways of being... wider cone of vision...

Because it really not physical seeing as much as spiritual seeing.

In the sentence: how you do anything is how you do everything is true, because of your narrow cone of vision with regards to approach, attitude, being.

Giving lip service to higher states of being is not being that way. Talking about flying isn"t...

You know your dominant being: cheerful, gloomy, withholding, belligerent, self-aggrandizing, slimy, slippery, avoiding, domineering, judgmental, fearful, suppressed, tentative, deceitful, delusional, arrogant...

I am actually looking at actual people in that list above.

You know who you are.

Sometimes I give exercises to expand your repertory of ways to be.

Like most actors, you play life the same way, no matter what the movie.

And then are a few actors, very few, Meryl Streep, for example, who can change the how.

You are not locked in... just there is more pull to be one way. Boring, predictable, lifeless.

And what you see while you are that
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Current science"s view on DNA and what I say is the truth

Science talks about genetic lottery... haves and have nots, lucky and unlucky.

The truth is both simpler and more complicated.

Human DNA has capacities encoded, but they are either turned on or not. And even capacities that are turned of, may be used, or not used.

The kids in studies who are good at reading but not good at math are dealing not with a reading gene and a math gene missing, instead they deal with something less simplistic than that.

There is no reading gene and there is no math gene. On the other hand, there are 160 genes that lie underneath all the clever feats a child or adult can perform to scientists" amazement. Sarcasm intended.

So, let"s take an example: you got a kid who is good at reading... but isn"t good at math. I say, that the capacity that is definitely missing is humility: the capacity to say: I am incompetent, I don"t know anything: teach me.

Why? Isn"t saying "I am incompetent" going to keep me stunted? No, the opposite is true. What keeps you stunted is what you have decided is true about you and about the world.

When your earlier decision was: I am not good at math... you"ll not even try. You already know that you won"t be able to get it.

Are there other capacities that are missing? Probably another up to eight capacities... duh...

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Really want to raise your vibration? Let"s look at your actions, not your words...

If I hear you right, what you want is attitudes and behaviors that produce result. Money, happiness, power, peace, fulfillment... love... What you need is capacities... Read on...

This week I have worked on people who have sent me a long list of teachers, coaches, products they ave bought and perused, and yet, their vibration was below the tolerable level, and when I checked them for missing capacities, they had a ton... Like the guy in the previous article... 80 missing capacities.

By the way, I have six missing capacities myself... so even above 900 vibration you have some capacities missing.

Some capacities are linchpin capacities: meaning that unless you activate that one capacity, all the other capacities are useless... can"t work. The linchpin holds together a dysfunctional construct... keeping you unsuccessful, unhappy, ineffective. I have students like that.

It is quite stunning to look at people I know, that I have been working with sometimes for years now, and suddenly see freedom open up.

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Read this article if you plan to remain one of my clients or students

A spiritual practice like no other... are you doing it?
What makes the "Stranger than Fiction" type of narration work like gangbusters to get you out of your head?

To my surprise not many people take advantage of the opportunity to watch a good movie and steal a habit that can be called a spiritual practice that can take you from a victim of your mind, to as near a human being as you can get in a few months" time.

The movie, Stranger than Fiction is a really good movie, but the bestest part of it is that the style of speaking that the hero, Farrell dude hears, is the exact type of inner speaking that you hear when you speak from the Witness"s position, which is heaven on earth, if you ask me.

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Spiritual practice: Recognizing yourself in another, considering the other a mirror

This is probably the most politically incorrect post I have ever written... I could not find a picture to illustrate it on the whole world wide web.

Why is it politically incorrect? Because the current Dark Side suggestion is that you are perfect the way you are, and your job is to forgive yourself any faults, if you even have any, and keep looking to the outside where other people are worse than you.... Dark Side suggestions are designed to keep you miserable and powerless till you die... ((I teach you to be powerful, not to fancy yourself powerful, while you are lying to yourself. It was very clear in yesterday"s talk to me session... watch the replay))

But the picture and quote I found is true, even if no one understands it. Oh well...

The other day I watched this British comedian mock Robert Pattinson"s acting. I don"t know the actor he was talking about, but I recognized myself having, somewhat the same relationship with some gurus that, in my view, don"t deserve the adulation and the millions of dollars they make, while I "should".

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An easy way to get to the big picture that can make your life worth living, regardless of the circumstances

Gurus teach this... but obviously even they don"t quite get it... The order of things is this: Being creates the doing and the doing creates the having... If this didn"t make any sense, you are not alone... billions are in the same place... WTF does that mean?!

be - do - have

But getting it would make all the difference for you: suddenly finding constructive actions, actions that actually lead to what you want... And between you and me, that is not a small thing. I get lots of requests to muscle test for people if the actions they decided leads to self-growth, a better future, or not.

So, it is obviously not easy to see.

As anything that is alive, your first and main concern is you. What you have, how you feel, how safe you are, how happy you are.

Most people get stuck here: it is a "level of consciousness" thing... that is the level of consciousness where most people live. Really, 99.99% of humanity.

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7 steps to create ease and grace about making money?

What does it take to have, make, save, invest, and spend money in a way that you end up enjoying it, benefiting from it, being enriched by money?

Before we can talk about money, we need to define what we mean by abundance... Abundance is a being that says: All is well with the world. Abundance is also an experience.

I don"t know anyone who lives in abundance, although all of us have experienced abundance for moments, minutes, hours... sometimes even days. Don"t kid yourself, rich people don"t live in abundance... every person I have ever checked, had some version of anxiety in them.

And yet... abundance is our birthright... we are hardwired for abundance. But because...

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Are you hoping for second chances? Life after death, heaven, reincarnation?

One size fits all... What is good for one will be good for you too?
Yesterday a reader asked what is the series I watched all day on my birthday.

The question indicates and unmasks a cultural phenomenon: thinking that what is good for one will be good for you... Nothing is further from the truth, and nothing is as debilitating and enslaving than thinking that.

I saw two movies a few years ago, both have a protagonist who dies but doesn"t know he died.

We see the world through is eyes... When it comes to the idea of life after death, the question is: what does this idea do to you and your life?

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Updated: Are you at cause or are you at effect?

Can context be cause?Note: I wrote this article three years ago, but it is as timely as ever... It moved me then, and it moves me today... Enjoy!

This question doesn"t sound like it could make much sense, does it? But when you find out what it means, you"ll be thrilled to know that it is the panacea, the cure for most of what ails us.
By the way, Nature"s fundamental law is: Like causes cause like effects. If something you consider "cause" doesn"t work reliably, it is not a cause, it"s an effect. Like prayer, like certain remedies, like the "Law" of attraction, like thinking positively, like placebo...
The Second Phase Activators Course just finished on Sunday, and I am working on the next course. Making decisions, creating some new stuff. And a big change: I will not allow everyone to sign up, just because they want to be in it.

There are some current students who, because of their attitude, lag behind. This creates tension in the group: I spend more time trying to unstuck the unwilling or lazy ones than actually teaching stuff. (The main unwilling attitudes "it"s good enough for me the way it is," "why rock the boat," or belligerence or even hostility/resistance are the attitudes I have been experiencing and won"t tolerate in my next courses.

These people also don"t have a big enough desire to change or even to experiment, and change and experimenting are mandatory if you want to create a shift in your life to the better.)

I also needed to create changes in MY attitude to be able to believe that I can pick and choose who I want to teach. That is a long shot from where I started: accepting anyone who was willing.

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Self-improvement, self-development is a lot like the illegal drug trade

Self-improvement, self-development is a lot like the illegal drug trade. It"s not regulated. A few "cartels" dominate the market. What they sell is mostly addictive, pleasure promising, but on the long term destroys the user"s life.

Then there are the drug pushers, the evangelists that seems to know what"s right and what"s wrong, and how a teacher should or should not be.

The programs and the tools are ineffective... you"ll find out why later in this article.

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