Limiting beliefs... what should you do about them?

Limiting beliefs... can you zap them like Christie Marie Sheldon pretends to do? Does listening to some guru, watching some Mind Valley video help you chuck them, change them, or eliminate them?
The answer is no. You can"t eliminate limiting beliefs, and they can"t eliminate limiting beliefs either.
Limiting beliefs will not go anywhere. You have to find another way to win: stop listening to them.

I have limiting beliefs, but you would not know from my actions. I don"t consider my mind chatter significant. I only listen to advisors that I hired... I never hired my mind chatter.
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Attachments are like snakes you have hanging from you

I am trying to organize the information I provide people when they ask for their vibration, or whether they have attachments or not.

On a lark I measured if the student in the previous article had attachments. She felt so imprisoned... there must be a reason.

To my surprise she has 10 attachments.

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Osho: The art of walking the tightrope

In this series of Osho talks he examines stories from different ancient cultures. This is an excellent companion to what I teach. Enjoy!



ONCE, WHEN THE HASIDIM WERE SEATED TOGETHER
IN ALL BROTHERLINESS,
PIPE IN HAND, RABBI ISRAEL JOINED THEM.
BECAUSE HE WAS SO FRIENDLY THEY ASKED HIM,
"TELL US, DEAR RABBI, HOW SHOULD WE SERVE GOD?"



HE WAS SURPRISED AT THE QUESTION,
AND REPLIED, "HOW SHOULD I KNOW?"

BUT THEN HE WENT ON TO TELL THEM THIS STORY..
THERE WERE TWO FRIENDS OF THE KING,
AND BOTH WERE PROVED GUILTY OF A CRIME.

SINCE HE LOVED THEM THE KING WANTED TO SHOW THEM MERCY,
BUT HE COULD NOT ACQUIT THEM BECAUSE EVEN A KING"S WORD
CANNOT PREVAIL OVER THE LAW.

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If you can"t move from A to B... The Too Direct Approach To Anything

I just finished watching a long (2 and a half hour long!) webinar, and one of the phrases that I want to borrow from there, is this: it"s not you, it"s your approach that makes you get less out of life than you could.

One of these approaches I see often that rob you of success is: The Too Direct Approach To Things

One of the mistakes, one of the false beliefs, one of the erroneous ideas your paradigm gives you is to attempt to get from point A to point B through the straight, direct route.

But... No Problem Can Be Solved From The Same Level Of Consciousness That Created It ((What does No Problem Can Be Solved From The Same Level Of Consciousness That Created It mean... It means that the thinking, the vibration, the consciousness, the attitude that cause the problem in the first place cannot find a solution that is not the next, bigger problem. In a way of a metaphor: if you create i.e. see a problem on the pedestrian level, you cannot solve it on the same level, because you will only see from that level what you saw before. You need to elevate yourself at least to the second floor level of consciousness, so you can see more, more of the picture, not just what you saw before. In my programs, with my activators, many people can move to a higher level of observation, so their problems disappear as a problem, or they can find a solution that will not bite them in the rear end.))

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The distinction between behavior and capacity... doing and being

A new student of mine writes:

I think self trust is a big challenge for me, and building self trust is necessary as a foundation before I can trust others and build authentic relationships. I gain self trust by genuinely provide value and service to others. There is no short cut in gaining self trust and trust from others, and I need to build my skills and deliver my value solidly step by step, like building from the ground up to a skyscraper.

In my current choice in career path between the two opportunities, the important thing to consider is not what job it is, but rather which job allows me to use my skills to provide value to others in a solid way. I want to start afresh on a solid ground by being genuine in what I can contribute, and no more pretending that I like it or I am capable of doing the job while I don’t know what exactly I am doing.


I muscle test if he has the capacity for self-trust active, and the answer is "no".

His entire speech is a true reflection of our culture that ignores capacities.

Why? Because we live in a society that denies DNA differences between people, let they"d call you racist... but accepts and validates fight, killing, war, between religious beliefs, between different political parties... what a world we live in.

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#DNAactivation, #Raiseyourvibration

More on stupid/smart

Every success proves nothing. It can be luck, it can be accident, it can be smarts... you can"t be sure.

I am an architect by trade... and all my life as an architect I was wondering if I was talented. I could never say for certain. I could win contests, I could win awards, talent is not proven by them.

Finally I gave it up and sighed a sigh of freedom and relief.

You are the same way about being smart... or whatever is your issue. (Some people have an issue with being liked, loved, valued, respected, etc. But I think everyone has some issue with smarts. I could be wrong...)

My recommendation is that you consider the Forrest Gump saying: Stupid is as the stupid does... i.e. the only stupid thing you can do is not judge accurately what you need to see to make a good decision.

If you rush, or already know... the action is stupid, and that"s that.

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#Raiseyourvibration

Who are you? How do you define yourself?

I just read an article on the Monday Morning Memo and I cringed. It hit me what bs is being propagated as wisdom.

As you have seen, if you have been with me for more than a week, you would know that I knock the idea of beliefs being important to your success in life. And after reading Roy Williams article, I am also going to start to knock the idea that the why is what"s important.
What am I talking about? What is the why, and why should it matter to you?
Here is what is being taught in the entrepreneur field today: If your why is big enough, you"ll do what you need to do, to succeed. ((Entrepreneurs, strictly speaking, are problem solvers for others. But you need to be a problem solver in your own life... don"t you? Health, money, family... full of problems to solve. Big and small... So what applies to entrepreneurs also applies to you. So keep reading...))

"They" encourage you to design your business, your communications from your why. Why are you doing what you are doing? What do you want to get out of it? Money? Fame? Love? Power?

Who gives a flying f...ck? Other than you, of course?

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#Raiseyourvibration

One size does not fit all... or How do you know what spiritual practices to cultivate to get the most results?

Some people want me to give them answers, give them a spiritual practice for growth, to raise their vibration, without allowing me to know anything much about them.

I am an empath, but that doesn"t mean I know your date of birth, or I know your education, your job, your aspirations, your ethnicity...

These are important, because one size doesn"t fit all.

The reason you get more from me than from buying a course, because I give you answers that are a perfect fit to who you are.

But of course the "egalitarian" culture of today... that we are all the same, needing the same food, the same way to exercise, the same thoughts, if you believe it, will mess with your mind.

We may have the same rights... but we are not the same.

We each have the right to demand respect, to ourselves, to our culture, to our beliefs. We have the right to receive respect... but it is not up to rights to actually get them.

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#SoulCorrection, #SpiritualPractice

True or false: "You have to believe that you can succeed to succeed"?

The teaching that you have to believe that you can succeed is utter b.s.

This teaching has been the secret to more failures than anything else I can find.


You see, you cannot force yourself to believe anything that you don"t believe.


In addition to that, your actions do NOT come from your beliefs, do not even come from your thoughts, they come from a place much deeper than that.

For example, I am your perfect pessimist: I never believe I can do it. I never believe that I will succeed.

But... I am not waiting for my beliefs to change, I do what I need to do, whether I believe I will succeed, or even that I am doing the right thing.




Now, why is this stupid lie taught? Because it makes you sheep... Or conversely, it makes you overconfident.

By the way, all Dark Side suggestions, or emotions are designed to make you sheep.

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#Raiseyourvibration

Spiritual Practice: Angry? Frustrated? Anxious? Ask: Does this benefit me?

You get angry, you get frustrated, you get anxious, you get jealous... you name it, the emotions pop up and you have nothing to do about them.

But... and this is a BIG but: A normal emotion comes and goes, like clouds on a windy day. Com and go... sunny, cloudy, sunny, cloudy.

Emotions and feelings are energies, and energy"s nature is to move. If they don"t, you have the static electricity thing going: and because energy MUST move, it will explode... like lightening.

You just have to hold onto the emotion by resisting it.

After all most emotions don"t feel good. I even dare say: held-onto emotions don"t feel good... even if it is happiness you are holding onto.

It"s like laughter: it is great. It is a great release. It is invigorating.

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Are your actions effective? Constructive? And if not, why?

This may be the most important article for you to read... Don"t complain that I didn"t warn you!

One of the things mainstream (all the gurus) get wrong is this: they consider you a constant in opportunities. Constant as in fixed... As if you were the same when you are afraid, and when you are confident...

You are not constant until you are on the vibrational level of above 900. How do I know? Because I can see the difference in me and in my ability to act constructively, even though I am above 900.

Let me explain: The YOU, the watcher, the Observer, the maker of decisions is not constant.

Even mainstream can see that, but they don"t know what changes when you go from putz, ineffective, flailing limp dick to someone who can take effective actions.

They think it has something to do with your beliefs. That if you implant a belief in you then you will see what to do, and you"ll know how to go about effective actions, including the seeing, the words, the strategy.

Or they may suggest that you have a blockage, and once it is removed, you"ll be an unstoppable champion.

Bull crap.

Beliefs have nothing to do with it. Blockages have little to do with it.

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#AccessYourPower, #Raiseyourvibration

Can you change by changing what you say? Why aren"t your affirmations make money appear for you?

Back in 1987 I took a course about money. I had been poor, just a tad poorer than most of my life.

I remember working in New York City as an architect for hire, freezing my ears off... the weather always felt worse in the wind-tunnels of the New York City streets.

My two big investments were ear muffs and boots. It was more important than food: you can be hungry and alive... these were mostly my two choices: full or alive.

I took the train to the City from New Jersey, and spent all my time daydreaming about stuff... stuff I wanted, stuff I needed, stuff I had to have... as in "I have to have that!"

Then I did this course. The main message of the course was that you can change your relationship to money by simply speaking some magic words.

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#Abundance

The cost of believing in the power of your mind

You are the peak of evolution... and you have a brilliant tool: your thinking brain (()). When you only use it to do mind-functions, remembering and recalling, you use only 1-3% of that power... and you are a slave. Unless you have the courage to learn to use your brain correctly... you remain a slave.

A famous physics professor, one day, was shaking his head.

"I can"t teach them physics the way I teach physics" he complained.

I interview students for my graduate program, and they are all, almost all, unable to think for themselves.

When they show up for the interview, I ask them: Why are you wearing the suit jacket you are wearing?

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#AccessYourPower

Your Dominant belief...

If I am better off than you, I have one thing that I can acknowledge, that you don"t seem to have: I don"t see that what I believe, my beliefs, have anything to do with what I do.

You do... You live in a world that preaches you to believe, and if and when you do, you can have anything you want, that you believe you can have. That is the floor of your world, and it is a false floor.

I don"t believe that, and I have proven a hundred times that what I believe or don"t believe is irrelevant.

So while you are trying to change your beliefs, while you follow any guru who promises to change your beliefs, and get even deeper entranched in that world view where your beliefs matter, I just do what I do, regardless of what I believe or what I don"t.

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#AccessYourPower

Are you hoping for second chances? Life after death, heaven, reincarnation?

One size fits all... What is good for one will be good for you too?
Yesterday a reader asked what is the series I watched all day on my birthday.

The question indicates and unmasks a cultural phenomenon: thinking that what is good for one will be good for you... Nothing is further from the truth, and nothing is as debilitating and enslaving than thinking that.

I saw two movies a few years ago, both have a protagonist who dies but doesn"t know he died.

We see the world through is eyes... When it comes to the idea of life after death, the question is: what does this idea do to you and your life?

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#MuscleTesting

Is it belief that is holding you back? Is self-image a belief?

Life is a between you and you deal

The only thing that effects your quality of life is your own experience of yourself. Not your opinion of yourself. your EXPERIENCE of yourself.

Others" reaction to you or your actions merely brings that area into focus... your experience of yourself was already there.

Admonishment and your experience of yourself. Praise and your experience of yourself

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Self-improvement, self-development is a lot like the illegal drug trade

Self-improvement, self-development is a lot like the illegal drug trade. It"s not regulated. A few "cartels" dominate the market. What they sell is mostly addictive, pleasure promising, but on the long term destroys the user"s life.

Then there are the drug pushers, the evangelists that seems to know what"s right and what"s wrong, and how a teacher should or should not be.

The programs and the tools are ineffective... you"ll find out why later in this article.

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Transformation: Making the impossible possible

We all live in a paradigm. It is our model of reality. Our paradigm is bordered and separated from higher paradigms by all the things that we know. Not what we believe, but what we know. Beliefs are content in a paradigm, but don"t define it. The paradigm defines the content, the paradigm defines the beliefs.

While I am not sure that there are parallel universes, there are definitely higher paradigms that we can visit and find out where we are erring in our own paradigm.

But most of us while we visit, we have a Transformative ((able to transform)) or transformational experience: a glimpse at a paradigm where what is impossible at the moment, is possible. It may be followed, maybe not. May just be an insight, but not an enlargement of the current paradigm, it won"t last, it won"t take, it is like a seed dropped on the sidewalk: it won"t become transformation.

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World View: are you trying to build a life on a foundation for misery?

If you wanted to live your life in a particular way, you would want to choose a world view that would create the perfect foundation for that type of life, the life of your choosing.

World view is a particular interpretation of life, creation, power, choice, freedom. Of other people, of nature. Of what is important and what isn"t. Depending on the world view, only certain actions and certain things can be present. It"s like a stage in a play: you can"t put there stuff that doesn"t belong.
Religion is a world view.

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The "you can do anything" myth... or what is the source of your anxiety

The anxiety attacks you experience
There are two types of anxiety attacks, as far as I can see:

Dark Side attack. It is an energy that is broadcasted from up North. It is "in the air" and it only waits for you to notice.Then your reaction to it makes it more real, and also last longer than the energy duration would make it justifiable.I have written about this a lot.
Your unrealistic expectations of yourself

If I wanted to design a system for unhappiness

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