Showing posts with label culture. Show all posts
Showing posts with label culture. Show all posts

Monday, June 20, 2016

Updated: Hungry? Eager? How resisting "hunger" can raise your vibration.



Hunger is a poor advisor
It is said by many people, that you shouldn"t go grocery shopping when you are hungry.

Why? Because when you are hungry, the context of your being becomes to satisfy that hunger. Everything seems to be the answer to the question: this is the best way to eliminate hunger, to satisfy hunger.

So you end up spending money on stuff that is not good for you, that you should not have bought, maybe ever, in the first place.
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Friday, May 27, 2016

Attachments are like snakes you have hanging from you


I am trying to organize the information I provide people when they ask for their vibration, or whether they have attachments or not.

On a lark I measured if the student in the previous article had attachments. She felt so imprisoned... there must be a reason.

To my surprise she has 10 attachments.

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Wednesday, May 25, 2016

Against self criticism and the 4-day weekend


One of the rarest and most functional capacities is the capacity to allow... without resistance.

Resistance uses a lot of energy, mostly the energy that you need to become successful, to do the right thing, to be well, and to treat people, including yourself, right.

Resistance is normal, but harmful. Just like self-criticism: normal but harmful, with no upside.

Upside is the benefit you gain from a harmful or painful action or experience.

Neither resistance, nor self-criticism, self-judgment have any upside, only downside.

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Friday, May 13, 2016

How dead are you? If your life is not a roller coaster, then you are not alive.


What you are, instead alive, is a walking dead, resigned, and settled for the little that, it seems, life has to offer. To you. You see others, seemingly happy, seemingly alive, and you feel regret, shame, and envy.

Your heart, where rain forests and colorful birds, and life used to live, is devastated. The lush rain forests gone, the birds gone, life: gone.

Your ups and downs are tiny, not like a roller coaster. They are about money, or noise, or that you are fat, or skinny, or that you are aging. Irrelevant circumstances.

Maybe it is about someone being sick, maybe dying... but that is also a circumstance. Storm in a teacup.

Your pain is the pain of not having lived.

But...

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Sunday, November 29, 2015

What is appreciation? Is it limited to what you like?


What do I like about leading webinars?

Unlike other people, I don"t speak from what I know, I don"t speak from my mind.

Why this is something to like? Because every time I speak I surprise myself. I listen to what I am saying, and I am amazed, and often confronted.

Today the concept of appreciation was discussed: that "culture" makes you believe that appreciation is talking about things you like... but it is a lie.

Just like in mathematics every number has a value, zero, five, minus 15.

Appreciation is simply giving something a matching value.

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Saturday, November 14, 2015

DNA capacity: Flexibility


Sometimes people get an idea of activating a capacity that is so alien to their culture, it takes a good 5-10 minutes for the history channel, the ancestors backwards, to build.

It is so unfamiliar that ego doesn"t even know to protest. It is like a way of being that is totally unfamiliar... you can"t see other than special people, like kung fu fighters, or shaolin monks to demonstrate.

Flexibility is the capacity to be able to keep your balance even though the world is pushing you hither and tether...

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#ActivatingAbilities

Friday, October 9, 2015

One size does not fit all... or How do you know what spiritual practices to cultivate to get the most results?


Some people want me to give them answers, give them a spiritual practice for growth, to raise their vibration, without allowing me to know anything much about them.

I am an empath, but that doesn"t mean I know your date of birth, or I know your education, your job, your aspirations, your ethnicity...

These are important, because one size doesn"t fit all.

The reason you get more from me than from buying a course, because I give you answers that are a perfect fit to who you are.

But of course the "egalitarian" culture of today... that we are all the same, needing the same food, the same way to exercise, the same thoughts, if you believe it, will mess with your mind.

We may have the same rights... but we are not the same.

We each have the right to demand respect, to ourselves, to our culture, to our beliefs. We have the right to receive respect... but it is not up to rights to actually get them.

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#SoulCorrection, #SpiritualPractice

True or false: "You have to believe that you can succeed to succeed"?


The teaching that you have to believe that you can succeed is utter b.s.

This teaching has been the secret to more failures than anything else I can find.


You see, you cannot force yourself to believe anything that you don"t believe.


In addition to that, your actions do NOT come from your beliefs, do not even come from your thoughts, they come from a place much deeper than that.

For example, I am your perfect pessimist: I never believe I can do it. I never believe that I will succeed.

But... I am not waiting for my beliefs to change, I do what I need to do, whether I believe I will succeed, or even that I am doing the right thing.




Now, why is this stupid lie taught? Because it makes you sheep... Or conversely, it makes you overconfident.

By the way, all Dark Side suggestions, or emotions are designed to make you sheep.

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Thursday, October 1, 2015

When you are looking for and find things to be unhappy about... always angry...


I have a student who seems to be looking for reasons to be unhappy, angry, frustrated. And not surprisingly she finds something. Always.

She is working on her health and well-being, and part of that is to document every breakfast, lunch and dinner time what she eats, what she drinks, what she does, what she feels like, and whether she had a bowel movement or not. These are all indicators of her well-being and progress.

This morning I realized something: her diary says: bowel movement: small. She doesn"t say: bowel movement: yes (or no, whatever is the case.) No she says: small.

This realization lead me to look back and see that she wants to find something she can be unhappy about.

Now, this is actually very familiar to me. Bear with me, a lot of you have this, and if you can see it, you can do something about it.

I"ll share my story later, let me first distinguish the mechanism:

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Friday, September 25, 2015

If a tree falls in the forest: does it make a sound?



One of the horrible things I experience, often, is that people never ask: "why should I care?"

Why that is horrible? Why that is disappointing?

Because that question would show that the pilot light of intelligence is not completely extinguished in you. You have never asked that question? Now you know what it means.

Back in 1977, shortly after I won my first architectural competition, and therefore was wealthier than most people I knew, I fell ill: my sinuses put me to bed with high-high fever. I could not sleep 24/7, so I turned to a book, Aldous Huxley"s Brave New World ((Some quotes:
Experience is not what happens to a man; it is what a man does with what happens to him.

An intellectual is a person who has discovered something more interesting than sex.

Maybe this world is another planet"s hell.


)). At some point I had a revelation: The society I lived in, the ideology I believed in, was beautiful, except that it worked for no one, no person living in it. It stifled the human spirit, stunted the growth of its people: did not allow for the evolution of humanity.

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Saturday, August 29, 2015

How come humanity hasn"t evolved the past 50 thousand years?


How come that humanity hasn"t evolved the past 50 thousand years? What is, what has been preventing it from naturally evolving, from going to the next stage of evolution where freedom, joy, is normal like breathing.

My personal vote goes for the lazy mind. The mind phenomenon that supposes that everything is already known, and all you have to do is find the person who knows the answer.

That you don"t need to think, research, compare, look at the big picture, all you have to do is accept the "truth" from whoever is offering it.

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#AccessYourPower

Wednesday, July 29, 2015

What does your laughter mean? What does your laughter do?


There are two kinds of laughter. Depending on what predominates, you are a happy person or an unhappy person. You have peace or you have turbulence.


The two kinds of laughs are

derisive laugh ((de·ri·sive (di-ri"siv, -ziv, -ris"iv, -riz"-)
adj.
Mocking; jeering.
de·ri"sive·ly adv.
de·ri"sive·ness n.))

benevolent laugh: the laughter of recognition






It all depends on who pays the price.

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What does your laughter mean? What does your laughter do?


There are two kinds of laughter. Depending on what predominates, you are a happy person or an unhappy person. You have peace or you have turbulence.


The two kinds of laughs are

derisive laugh ((de·ri·sive (di-ri"siv, -ziv, -ris"iv, -riz"-)
adj.
Mocking; jeering.
de·ri"sive·ly adv.
de·ri"sive·ness n.))

benevolent laugh: the laughter of recognition






It all depends on who pays the price.

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Sunday, June 28, 2015

Positive belief myths


It is in the unsaid, it is the obvious that doesn"t need to be said, that dominant beliefs that keep us poor, miserable and sick are beliefs that are negative, about ourselves, or about money.

In my work with people, especially pulling the "therefore" of the dominant belief, and pulling the anchor to their doom, I find that about 50% of people have a dominant belief that is a "positive" belief.

Men have it more than women, by my experience.

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#attachments, #Raiseyourvibration

Wednesday, June 24, 2015

Dark mood… what caused it and how I got out of it?


Today I descended into the kind of dark mood I used to live in all the time.

It"s been long coming. Even someone with my abilities, can be worn thin... and this is what"s been happening. I can only imagine what it must be like for you to be so near to where I am now, all the time.

Irritant after irritant, I won"t go into detail about all of them, but will mention a few.


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Friday, June 12, 2015

Soul Correction Actions: Part 2: Fear


The "Therefore" is: I am afraid, I feel fear, therefore I should run, hide, resist, do nothing.

Fear is universal, and we all feel afraid some of the time, and a lot of us most of the time.

I never considered fear as a "thing" until I was in a seminar, back in 1988? called Creativity: Living at Risk.

The leader of the 10-session Landmark Seminar was hollering: Move towards the fear, call it excitement.

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Friday, May 15, 2015

Why was the little girl acting out?


Disappointment is when you get something you didn"t expect.

I expected the readers to be here to get something, and not to give. And they didn"t disappoint.
I expected people to not see beyond their noses and they didn"t... but still, kudos to the ten brave souls that forced themselves to think something.

It was hard, wasn"t it? Now I am talking to those ten.

What would happen if you did this every day? You"ll start to build some serious muscle in problem solving, and by the time you actually need those muscles, you would have them.

I promised, you delivered, so I must tell you what happened next in that story.

You know that I blasted the little girl... and I did. I was like you: stopped on the surface.

But then: I didn"t sleep well. I woke up with a question:

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Sunday, May 10, 2015

Seeing what you cannot see


Why slowing down is a good move, a good strategy, but not a solution by itself?

One of the biggest missing is seeing the big picture. It"s across the board, and across all levels of intelligence.

Seeing the big picture is a practice, not a capacity.

You cannot see the big picture, until you stop, step back, and look.

Now, here, at the looking level, your vibration, your intelligence, your experience, your knowledge level is very important: you can"t catch what you don"t see, and you can"t see what you haven"t seen before.

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Monday, May 4, 2015

What is your approach to spirituality? Feminine and Masculine?


This article is not for everyone. If you haven"t been a seeker, this is not for you. This article is quotes from an email conversation with a client who can"t create a powerful blockage to energetic, malicious, attachments and spells...

What is your approach to spirituality? Feminine and Masculine?

Feminine is: waiting for it to come to you, passive.

Spirituality, access to the beyond, your relationship to life needs to be feminine... an agressive male approach will take you away from what you are trying to accomplish.

This whole topic came up because a student of mine needs to frequently cloak herself. She also wants to bubble.

Cloaking is very easy, and enough for temporary protection against attachments, but she wants to bubble herself too. Why? I didn"t ask.

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Sunday, May 3, 2015

Penetrating the mysteries of existence


There are two kinds of thinkings... or really maybe three.


You grab onto something about what you hear or see, attach it to what you already think you know... and then either go deeper, or not, but definitely not go wider. Most people "think" this way.

This is really the third way: no thinking... lol

This is what I want to talk about in this article... holographic thinking. This is an uncommon way of penetrating the mysteries of existence...




Let"s define what we are talking about.

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