Tikkun or fixing... happiness or misery... the invisible dynamic

Tikkun is a Hebrew word, means correction.

I am yet to hear a Westerner, or an Easterner use the word: correction. The world, nowadays, is into "fixing". ((In your vocabulary, each word should mean what it actually mean... If you use words that are close, but mean something different, you can see that in your Starting Point Measurements, in the vocabulary measure... your number will be low... signifying that for you everything is the same as everything else, except that not always... a low ability to differentiate between things. You"ll misinterpret what you hear/read, you"ll misunderstand things, follow things poorly, you"ll have a lot of pain and little happiness.))

Fixing is an ugly world, immediately signaling what the speaker sees, that there is something wrong and it urgently needs to be fixed, because it is wrong that it is. Reactive.

But when emotions run high, the cone of vision narrows, your intelligence plummets, and stupid as the stupid does, your fixing creates new problems, that are the next thing to fix.

Compare that with the approach of correction... course correction... returning to the path of true north.

The history of humanity can be told through the history of fixes that turned out to be no fixes at all, or created bigger problems than what they meant to fix.

One good and repeating example for this behavior is the history of toppling leaders, regimes, systems.

People who are the leaders, the instigators, the campaigners of the "fix" cannot and won"t even look how to create a new and better ess, evolutionary stable strategy... they are only interested in the fixing what they deem as wrong.

And the winners of such changes have not concept, no idea, no experience, no real interest in moving countries towards true north... only in winging it and winging it.

Like Trump, like thousands of puppets before him.

So, if you are a campaigner, if you are a hater, if you get fired up by hating war, abuse, slavery, animal cruelty, and a billion of other causes, your best action is to turn around, and look at what would true north be... and how YOU can bring it about.

One of the best advice I got from Thoreau

Never look back unless you are planning to go that way.

Looking back includes:

• Don"t look at what you see as wrong... unless you want your life to be about it, unless you want it to occupy your whole world.


• This includes what happened to you or to your people.


• This even includes what"s happening now... you may be a woman, a second class citizen. Or Black or a Kurd, or a Moslem.

I am Jewish. My parents" families were wiped out in the Holocaust. I grew up without relatives.

• My mother didn"t give up hating. She was an unhappy person till her last breath.


• My father chose the Thoreau saying and he climbed near the top of his chosen profession. He chose to adjust his steps to true north. He was a happy person to his last breath.

But the true Jewish way has always been: keep on moving yourself towards true north. Educate yourself. Do what only you can do and do it to the best of your abilities.

In the Jewish tradition, the concept of tikkun Olam, or “repairing the world” is very simple. Any activity that leads to a more harmonious state is valid and valuable. The Chabad organization website, which illuminates Jewish mysticism, explains, “All human activities are opportunities to fulfill this mission, and every human being can be involved in Tikkun Olam, child or adult, student or entrepreneur, industrialist or artist, caregiver or salesperson, political activist or environmentalist, or just another one of us struggling to keep afloat.”

Each act of repair fine-tunes the instrument that is the universe, and you don’t have to be religious or artistic or political to participate. You just have to be a human. As Chabad puts it, “With each [fix], we are creating meaning out of confusion, harmony from noise, revealing the unique part each creation plays in a universal symphony.”

Or how the Japanese celebrity novelist says:

Japanese novelist Haruki Murakami said Saturday writing good stories is the best he can do for victims of terrorist attacks and natural disasters such as the 2011 Great East Japan Earthquake and tsunami.

“I was wondering what could I do for the people who have suffered. But I thought, ‘What I can do is to write good fiction,’ ” he said during an event in New York, referring to a number of tragedies, including the Sept. 11, 2001, terrorist attacks in the United States and the disaster that devastated parts of Japan’s Tohoku region.

Murakami, 69, said that after the 1995 earthquake that destroyed much of his hometown of Kobe, he “just wanted to write something” and penned a collection of short stories.

or you can heed Albert Einstein"s advice,

where you simply honor nature and flow with it... instead of trying to get quick answers, or force nature to go your way.

“Nature hides her secrets because of her essential loftiness, but not by means of ruse,” the physicist Albert Einstein said. What he meant is that elusiveness is a truth. Nature speaks a coded language. And you can too.

People read about their soul correction on my site, and immediately translate the word "correction" to fixing. And say to themselves:

Oh, this is what"s wrong with me! And write to me with the question: how do I fix it?

The number in your Starting Point Measurements, that most correlates to this fixing-it attitude and narrow cone of vision is the "about you" number, measure #8 To what degree you think of yourself.

When you look at something from that fixed point: it has something to do with me, you reduce the world and your cone of vision with that move. Your eyes and your feelings are consistent with that limited view of reality.

The truth is that nearly nothing is about you... things happen and the "perpetrators" didn"t even consider that you exist.

So, in my programs we do what"s necessary to reduce that "about you" number and widen your cone of vision.

How? It"s a lot of work, and the number of tools we use are many.

One of them is the Idea Machine. The ideas should be about a topic, or another person"s issues.

If you do the Idea Machine about your own issues, questions, you are still in that limiting fixed view of the world, and your about you number may even grow... so beware.

And you may have noticed: your level of stinginess and the "about you" number are also a team...

Conspiring against your happiness.

Tikkun or fixing... happiness or misery... the invisible dynamic

Tikkun is a Hebrew word, means correction.

I am yet to hear a Westerner, or an Easterner use the word: correction. The world, nowadays, is into "fixing". ((In your vocabulary, each word should mean what it actually mean... If you use words that are close, but mean something different, you can see that in your Starting Point Measurements, in the vocabulary measure... your number will be low... signifying that for you everything is the same as everything else, except that not always... a low ability to differentiate between things. You"ll misinterpret what you hear/read, you"ll misunderstand things, follow things poorly, you"ll have a lot of pain and little happiness.))

Fixing is an ugly world, immediately signaling what the speaker sees, that there is something wrong and it urgently needs to be fixed, because it is wrong that it is. Reactive.

But when emotions run high, the cone of vision narrows, your intelligence plummets, and stupid as the stupid does, your fixing creates new problems, that are the next thing to fix.

Compare that with the approach of correction... course correction... returning to the path of true north.

The history of humanity can be told through the history of fixes that turned out to be no fixes at all, or created bigger problems than what they meant to fix.

One good and repeating example for this behavior is the history of toppling leaders, regimes, systems.

People who are the leaders, the instigators, the campaigners of the "fix" cannot and won"t even look how to create a new and better ess, evolutionary stable strategy... they are only interested in the fixing what they deem as wrong.

And the winners of such changes have not concept, no idea, no experience, no real interest in moving countries towards true north... only in winging it and winging it.

Like Trump, like thousands of puppets before him.

So, if you are a campaigner, if you are a hater, if you get fired up by hating war, abuse, slavery, animal cruelty, and a billion of other causes, your best action is to turn around, and look at what would true north be... and how YOU can bring it about.

One of the best advice I got from Thoreau

Never look back unless you are planning to go that way.

Looking back includes:

• Don"t look at what you see as wrong... unless you want your life to be about it, unless you want it to occupy your whole world.


• This includes what happened to you or to your people.


• This even includes what"s happening now... you may be a woman, a second class citizen. Or Black or a Kurd, or a Moslem.

I am Jewish. My parents" families were wiped out in the Holocaust. I grew up without relatives.

• My mother didn"t give up hating. She was an unhappy person till her last breath.


• My father chose the Thoreau saying and he climbed near the top of his chosen profession. He chose to adjust his steps to true north. He was a happy person to his last breath.

But the true Jewish way has always been: keep on moving yourself towards true north. Educate yourself. Do what only you can do and do it to the best of your abilities.

In the Jewish tradition, the concept of tikkun Olam, or “repairing the world” is very simple. Any activity that leads to a more harmonious state is valid and valuable. The Chabad organization website, which illuminates Jewish mysticism, explains, “All human activities are opportunities to fulfill this mission, and every human being can be involved in Tikkun Olam, child or adult, student or entrepreneur, industrialist or artist, caregiver or salesperson, political activist or environmentalist, or just another one of us struggling to keep afloat.”

Each act of repair fine-tunes the instrument that is the universe, and you don’t have to be religious or artistic or political to participate. You just have to be a human. As Chabad puts it, “With each [fix], we are creating meaning out of confusion, harmony from noise, revealing the unique part each creation plays in a universal symphony.”

Or how the Japanese celebrity novelist says:

Japanese novelist Haruki Murakami said Saturday writing good stories is the best he can do for victims of terrorist attacks and natural disasters such as the 2011 Great East Japan Earthquake and tsunami.

“I was wondering what could I do for the people who have suffered. But I thought, ‘What I can do is to write good fiction,’ ” he said during an event in New York, referring to a number of tragedies, including the Sept. 11, 2001, terrorist attacks in the United States and the disaster that devastated parts of Japan’s Tohoku region.

Murakami, 69, said that after the 1995 earthquake that destroyed much of his hometown of Kobe, he “just wanted to write something” and penned a collection of short stories.

or you can heed Albert Einstein"s advice,

where you simply honor nature and flow with it... instead of trying to get quick answers, or force nature to go your way.

“Nature hides her secrets because of her essential loftiness, but not by means of ruse,” the physicist Albert Einstein said. What he meant is that elusiveness is a truth. Nature speaks a coded language. And you can too.

People read about their soul correction on my site, and immediately translate the word "correction" to fixing. And say to themselves:

Oh, this is what"s wrong with me! And write to me with the question: how do I fix it?

The number in your Starting Point Measurements, that most correlates to this fixing-it attitude and narrow cone of vision is the "about you" number, measure #8 To what degree you think of yourself.

When you look at something from that fixed point: it has something to do with me, you reduce the world and your cone of vision with that move. Your eyes and your feelings are consistent with that limited view of reality.

The truth is that nearly nothing is about you... things happen and the "perpetrators" didn"t even consider that you exist.

So, in my programs we do what"s necessary to reduce that "about you" number and widen your cone of vision.

How? It"s a lot of work, and the number of tools we use are many.

One of them is the Idea Machine. The ideas should be about a topic, or another person"s issues.

If you do the Idea Machine about your own issues, questions, you are still in that limiting fixed view of the world, and your about you number may even grow... so beware.

And you may have noticed: your level of stinginess and the "about you" number are also a team...

Conspiring against your happiness.

Can you achieve perfection? Can you always do the right thing? Is there such a thing as perfect integrity? Can you have 100% truth value?

As you may know, I live by principles, here is one of the principles... more to come in this article:

It is hard to be silently brilliant: lots of thoughts occur when you open your mouth.

But not all thoughts that occur are brilliant... not in a person who isn"t opening his mouth... ((in the cave of your mind everything feels like a brilliant idea. Or looking at it another way: I had two boy friends who were alcoholics. They both fancied themselves profound and brilliant when they were drunk... lol.)) or who are saying the same things over and over again.

Things not worth thinking are also things not worth saying but you don"t know that until you hear the echo. ((This also includes writing that is published... Unfortunately thousands upon thousands of author wannabes, second handers publish crap, but that is another issue entirely. Just like my old van-mates talk and talk and talk about things not worth saying, these wannabes do that in writing...))

What happens when you speak?

Humans didn"t quite become humans until they had something to say. But speaking doesn"t make someone human: having something worth to say does.

70% of humanity, more than five billions people have nothing worth to say.

This could not have been the proportion always... but this is it now.

There are two kinds of people: people who have something to say, and people who have to say something.

I am not ranting... I have no problem with people talking and talking and talking. I am, maybe, having a problem you not seeing the difference. You not being able to tell whether you have something to say, or you have to say something.

Many people may have something to say, maybe not much, but they choose to just talk... because if you don"t talk people look at you funny.

Everyone can hear that you have nothing to say, you know you have nothing to say, but you keep talking.

The quality of your speaking reflects the quality of your insides... your coherence, your knowledge or the lack of it, your humility or lack of it, your vocabulary, your clarity, your vibration.

But saying something worth saying is a tremendous risk... you can become vulnerable... you might be mistaken... so you choose to not say it, you choose to lie, you choose to just make noise.

The further your two selves, the public self and the real self are from each other, the more inauthentic you are, the more you have to hide, and the less things you can say that are worth saying.

The less you have to pretend, the closer the two selves are, the more integrity you have.

The most important part of integrity is about the selves. The invisible part... the part that your speaking gives away.

The further away the two selves are, the less integrity you have, the unhappier you are. Because your two selves cannot love each other... and you cannot love your life.

You also know another main principle of my life:

when something isn"t working in your life (big or small) there is something you don"t know.

Goes hand in hand with another saying:

without integrity nothing works.

So when something doesn"t work in my life, in my health, in my money, in my mood, in my fulfillment, the first place I look is my integrity.

Here is the integrity statement... swiped from Landmark Education, I found it on the web and edited it.

• Level one: Integrity is Nothing hidden, being truthful and honest, doing complete work, working from an empowering context, and doing very well what you do; doing it as it was meant to be done or better, and without cutting corners.


• Level two: Integrity is being true to your values, standards and ideals.


• Level three: Integrity is HONORING your WORD as your Self

And when anything is not working, or not working well, you have a self-examination to start with: where is my integrity "out".

• Most people are habitual liars... for them this is easy: they lied.


• Many people make the mistake of doing things from a context that is not empowering... dutiful, homework attitude, more interested in the result than in the process, want it to come out perfect from the get-go. All integrity issues.


• Many people, especially the chronically judgmental ones aren"t true to their professed values and standards


• And almost no one is honoring their word as their Self.

When you have a public self different from your private self, you cannot be "in" integrity... you are always out of integrity. And life cannot work for you...

In my experience this is the work one needs to do to get from wherever you are to human being level.

It"s hard to believe, but your fundamental need to fulfill your own expectations of yourself are in line with that integrity statement.

And even if you fulfill others" expectations of you, unless you fulfill your own expectations of yourself, you"ll be always miserable... deadened... at best: blah.

The world, others, expect you to make life good for them. All the moral, ethical, legal rules and regulations are about you fulfilling others" expectations of you.

In fact, others do not want you to do, feel, be anything that interferes with that.

If Moses, Jesus, Muhammad, or the Buddha were alive today, they would be in prison... or killed, or hunted. Because their integrity would interfere with what the "people" and the governments want people to be: sheep. Consumption. Wars. Hate. Taking sides.

Your personal integrity takes courage.

I was lucky as a child: my mother didn"t want me, and therefore didn"t pay much attention to me, except to punish me: she simply beat me. No words.

I wasn"t given words to tell me what is good and what is bad... So I made my own decisions about what gets me beaten... Some are so bad and so deep, I haven"t been able to uproot them.

Here are the rules I feel my mother wanted me to live by:

• Taking care of yourself is bad


• Asking for anything for yourself is bad


• Asking questions is bad


• Being alive is bad

• She never noticed that I was a high achiever... so I was safe doing that.


• She didn"t beat me for reading... so I was safe doing that.


• She didn"t know I did a lot of thinking and pondering... so she didn"t beat me for that.


• I was beaten around food a lot... so I am uncertain and waffling about food.


• I was berated about sexuality... so I became confused.


• And I was always beaten when I asked for money.

And I could bring a ton more examples of the messy inside I have.

Finding the Self, knowing what I like, what I want, who I am was near impossible inside that mess.

You don"t have to be beaten to have a messy inside, conflicting ideals, ambivalence.

When two interests conflict, confusion results.

I have used the "it"s hard to be silently brilliant" principle of mine to get some clarity and certainty about who I am, what I like and what I want.

I used the "without integrity nothing works" to hunt for areas where I haven"t chosen myself

I used "when something isn"t working, there is something you don"t know" to know when I need to start hunting for what i don"t know. And then tell the truth about it.

As you may know, humanity, 50% of humanity is infected with a microscopic (tiny) mite.

I have been conscious of that for a few years now, and have decided to fight it, for humanity and definitely for myself.

It"s cost me a lot of money, a lot of sleepless nights.

I have tested 30 different chemicals in these few years.

In the past few months it looked as if I was starting to win the war...

While I was sick last month (food poisoning) I ran out of the remedy I was testing and what seemed to produce a miraculous decimation of the mite population.

I decided to watch what happens...

And despite of not taking that remedy, the numbers were still going down... WTF?!

Turns out that after I watched a youtube video some 2-3 months ago... unrelated to the mite infestation, I started take a mineral the video recommended, an essential mineral that in all my muscle tests NEVER tested deficient. But the video said that it is suppressed by fashionable vitamins and minerals, so I HAD TO test it for myself by taking it.

My lifeless hair turned curly and springy again. Much of the gray turned back into black.

And the mites: it seems that they are dropping dead...

I am mortified that I have been wrong, that I have assumed one thing to be true that wasn"t. I ALMOST sold my idea to many people... and it would have been selling a lie.

Each person has a "preferred" way to pay the piper.

• Some pay with their finances


• Some pay with their health/weight


• Some pay with their relationships


• Some pay with their depression and unhappiness

Most pay with all of the above.

I get sick. I spill my drink over my computer keyboard. I forget to record important calls. I am afraid to market my best products and lose money. And my little brother doesn"t want to talk to me...

So yeah, I am paying through my nose. These are just the past month"s payments...

Life works not through doing the right steps... but through correcting, diligently, persistently the wrong steps.

That is the nature of Life... that is the nature of integrity as well.

There is no such thing as perfection... so don"t be afraid to make mistakes. Make them, observe the results and then correct correct and correct again.

That is life.

I remember reading the book Choose: life or death, and the scientist, Carey Reams of RBTI ((The Reams Biological Theory of Ionization, 30% truth value: very high. A normal book or theory has a truth value between 1% and 10%)) fame, says: you never achieve the perfect health numbers... until you are dead.

In my eating regimen coaching: the regimen, the food-list changes at least twice a year, sometimes more often.




That is how life works. Correction, correction, correction.

So don"t be stupid and don"t live in an imaginary ideal of perfection. Learn to course correct. It"s a skill. And the only way.

Updated: Soul Correction: Finish What You Start

Soul Correction: Finish What You Start

Update 7/10/2016:

The archetype is the flatterer scam artist. If you are their victim: They will hook you with their compliments, flattery, while suck you dry, take you for your last dime, without ever caring about you, and without ever delivering on what they said they would do.

If you are the person with this soul correction: You find yourself with projects half started, never finished. You find yourself getting enough satisfaction out of buying a self-improvement program, but you don"t actually listen to it or use it.

Your self-image is "insignificant." Maybe even weak, inconsequential, not important. Or you suffer from delusions of grandeur: you are or should be the best the best looking, the smartest, a hero... except that you are literally unwilling to do the work to make it happen... What"s in the way is that pesky "should already" be that. Or "it should be easy for me, even if it is hard for others"

You instinctively know who is a sucker, and you latch onto them. I must be a sucker: you are attracted to me... Why? How? I am sensitive to your flattery... that is MY weakness, and you know it.

It"s all a game.

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What you value and in what order... why you are off... and why you are unhappy, unfulfilled, living a meaningless life

A lot of why"s are answered here... why you can"t get well, why you are not happy, etc.

People are the highest value in the universe. Why? Because they are able to be all levels of values, the thinking mind (systemic), the extrinsic (create tools, cook food, provide pleasure), and the intrinsic.

You live, predominantly on one level, and value what is on that level most.

Depending on how closely your valuation matches the valuation that is "godly", or the Original Design, you fulfill the purpose of being human.
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Just because someone"s vibration is low today...

...it doesn"t mean that they are a bad person. Or that vibration, that future is set in stone...

Your vibration is an accurate snapshot of where you are on the vibrational scale today.

Your guru, your spouse, your boss... or yourself could jump to a whole new level of vibration even without any spiritual input... if their health number went up higher.

A friend and client wrote to me today:

I wanted to share with you something interesting that is going on. anyway, you know how dead I have been, and I feel more alive every day, but I haven"t been attracted to a man in over 5 years...

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Call me blunt, call me judgmental... I don"t care.

I am going to share, in this article, some of the judgmental sounding questions I ask when I try to get a full picture about someone who is asking for help.

As you probably don"t know, judgment comes from ego, from comparison. I am smart and you are stupid... that is judgment.

You are stupid isn"t judgment unless you feel something in your chest or throat as you say it. Unless it means something about you.

I feel nothing, or maybe sadness, when I ask these assessment question... that help me make sense out of the convoluted picture each person is.

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Why is rape so traumatic, while sex is so commonplace?

Why is rape so traumatic, while sex is so commonplace?
Why is slave labor so traumatic, while working is so natural to us.

If you have ever been pinned down, not able to free yourself...
If you have ever been forced to do something you didn"t want to do... anything...

...your trust of life, your trust in people, your confidence has dealt a big blow.

Recovering is not guaranteed, and the wound can be torn open again quite easily.

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You live in a world of your own design

You live in a world of your own design. And you create the world with your beingness.

We think that beingness is all good... But beingness is neutral. It doesn"t take sides. There is a beingness for everything, including greed, jealousy, and puniness... if that"s a word.

But whatever that beingess is, when you realize it, when you pinpoint it, you"ll immediately see that it actually created your current reality, and if you don"t do something about it... it will create the rest of your life that same...

But as a human you have access to creating any kind of beingness... you have difficulty in holding onto it. But yet, you can start. Any time, any day, any age. And increase your capacity to hold onto the beingness, honor it as yourself.

One of the beingnesses we are really familiar with is BEING judgmental. Or the flip side of it (they always go together, like the two sides of the coin!) BEING judged.

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Learning lessons the hard way... or the easy way... Part 2

The brilliance in the movie, "It"s a wonderful life" is that the angel creates a thought experiment what the world would be like if our hero hadn"t been born.

Thought experiments are uniquely human: animals don"t do thought experiments.

The minimum intelligence required to create a thought experiment is 70... and I am not talking about IQ measured intelligence, I am talking about overall intelligence.

The average intelligence in the world is 50... But all my site"s visitors qualify.

So let"s look at that movie and see what is a thought experiment:

If X were different, in the movie take out the main character... and then look at different elements that you know how they are... the marriage, the loan bank, etc. The amount of happiness, the amount of difference.

Now let"s look at different examples of thought experiments, all in the area of my work of becoming someone who loves life, and lives it successfully.

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Updated: A Time To Give Thanks. But To Who? For What? Mundane Or Significant? Habit And Duty Or Privilege?

I wrote this article five years ago. Sometimes the way to get ahead is to go back five years and start from there.

Recently the readership of this blog has changed, not to my liking. I"d like to return to how it was five years ago, when people with sincere desire to change visited, and asked for help.

OK, here is the old article... hopefully all typos are corrected.



Thanksgiving: a time to give thanks. But to who? For What? Mundane or Significant? Habit and Duty or Privilege?

In searching what I am really thankful for, I went through all the things I could be thankful for.

The air I breathe? the fact that I woke up this morning? the sunshine on this winter day on my window... hey it"s so strong I had to lower the blinds! lol

Or the roasted beet salad with goat cheese (yumm) I am making as part of Thanksgiving dinner?

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Can you tell what size is your cone of vision? Look to what degree your live is fragmented...

Your vibration, your creativity, your truth value all depends on your cone of vision... But until you see that you have a narrow cone of vision, that you look at things with narrow cone of vision, or a narrow filter, you won"t want to make it wider.

Wide cone of vision means inclusive... narrow cone of vision is exclusive... exclusive of areas that you KNOW don"t matter, don"t belong, or you don"t like them. Exclusive because you KNOW the answer...

The most exciting insights first show up in the corner of your eyes... Which means they are literally outside of your cone of vision.

One way I see this is how attached you are to one area of life, or one way to do it, or one problem you have.

For some: it is their soul correction. They scratch the wound until it bleeds, and neither the soul correction issue moves, nor their lives move... it is a strategy.

Strait and narrow is transferred on land. It may be narrow, but it is not the strait. Strait means a narrow path of water between land masses.

If you are on a ship, talking about the land is irrelevant, won"t allow you to pass.

For others it is laziness.

But for most, it"s the soul correction...

Soul correction is one way the "Universe" is telling us that there is some design... otherwise soul correction categories would not exist. Or horoscope signs.

And most soul corrections narrow your cone of vision to not see all of what can be seen. Not even look.

I am a "Forget Thyself" soul correction. I need people to condescend upon, feel superior to.
I avoid people in position of authority. And I have been avoiding my older brother. I have dug up some information that could be useful for her wife"s health, but decided that he"ll knock me for it... so I didn"t do it.

This week I called him, and he was gracious, maybe even grateful. I wasn"t superior. Instead I looked wider, and was helpful, loving, sharing? Without the big ego.

Summon different ways of being... wider cone of vision...

Because it really not physical seeing as much as spiritual seeing.

In the sentence: how you do anything is how you do everything is true, because of your narrow cone of vision with regards to approach, attitude, being.

Giving lip service to higher states of being is not being that way. Talking about flying isn"t...

You know your dominant being: cheerful, gloomy, withholding, belligerent, self-aggrandizing, slimy, slippery, avoiding, domineering, judgmental, fearful, suppressed, tentative, deceitful, delusional, arrogant...

I am actually looking at actual people in that list above.

You know who you are.

Sometimes I give exercises to expand your repertory of ways to be.

Like most actors, you play life the same way, no matter what the movie.

And then are a few actors, very few, Meryl Streep, for example, who can change the how.

You are not locked in... just there is more pull to be one way. Boring, predictable, lifeless.

And what you see while you are that
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Making choices: are you a rank amateur?

This may be the most important article you read this year, this decade... because this article may inspire you to become a professional at living, instead of remaining a rank amateur... aka bumbling idiot.
Risk Management
You have two options. You need to choose. You need to choose the option that has the lower cost to your reproductive success if it turns out to be wrong.

Now, I suspect, that almost none of us think about cost in terms of reproductive success, but according to evolutionary psychology, you are a mere vehicle to your genes, your genes are only interested in making copies of themselves, i.e. reproduce, and make your particular genes more dominant in the gene pool.

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Want to become a nice person? Here is a clue that you aren"t

Every soul correction is about correcting the desire to receive (Light) for the self alone.
If you were born, you have a soul correction.

There is no jumping into "desire for the sake of sharing", which selfless, charitable, do gooders try to do.

Being charitable, giving, do-gooding, selfless is NOT desire for the sake of sharing, it is just more "desire to receive for the self alone."

Bummer, eh?

As I am sitting here pondering one of my favorite students" Reclaim share where she is proudly telling me that her husband walked in during the webinar, evidently hungry, she could courageously ignore him and not be interrupted.

My, my...

You may not hear anything: I hear "nasty piece of work", or simply: "desire to receive for the self alone."

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Is responsibility a capacity? A case study

Message to my friend: please don"t be offended. This was too good a story, too educational, to pass by. I didn"t mean to offend you, or invalidate your effort.

Is responsibility a capacity? If it isn"t, it should be... but it isn"t.

Responsibility, the behavior, has lots of other capacities that need to be lit up for it to work.

I am observing an unfolding dramatic story: a storm in a teacup.

I don"t have a car. I have a woman, who has become a friend eventually, drive me on Tuesdays to do my errands, chiropractor, grocery shopping.

She has family in California, and will spend Thanksgiving with them. Next Tuesday she won"t be around.

I need to find another way to get fresh cream for my tea...

She decides that she can help.

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Covering your facebook avatar with the tricolor French flag: what does it mean about you?

Covering your facebook avatar with the tricolor French flag: what does it mean about you?

Pretense? Courage?

Posting high-sounding sound bites on Facebook, like Marianne Williamson did:
David didn"t defeat Goliath by normal means; he defeated him by hitting him in the Third Eye. Goliath has one Achilles" heel, and that is that he has no conscience. The only thing more powerful than hate gone viral is love gone viral, and that is what we must make happen now. T

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One method to force your new capacities work for you

It seems that one method of making the newly activated capacities real has been found.

As you know, having activated DNA capacities is nice, but unless you need it, they won"t do anything. They will be like lights that are on in streets that no one passes.

The methods I am looking for are methods that make you go into those streets, so you use the light and find ways to be different, do different, have different results, different reactions, different feelings.

The issue with comfortable and somewhat successful people (you) has been is that ego won"t allow you to take risks unless you trick it. I mean: trick the ego. Sweet-talk is great, but won"t help much in this case, I have tried.

So, the method I have zeroed in with the client who inherited his father"s company is this:

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More on activating consciousness to guide you: what are the abilities you use for that?

It is human nature to want to be smart. The feeling is: the smarter you are the better life will be.

But being smart from the mind isn"t very smart, except to the people who put the stuff in your mind.

In my readings about different cultures, the Chinese culture is a good example of that kind of smart. For hundreds and hundreds of years, the Chinese has been encouraged to repeat, not think.

For two years I had three Chinese students live next door: no thinking, no emotions, was my experience. If any emotions were felt by me, it was the emotions of visitors and guests... never the occupants.

Problem-solving

The evolution of the species requires people to be problem solvers.

There are two kinds of problem-solvers

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Life, looked through the filter of games... Is life a game?

In the game of life, when you are losing, or not winning, the two things that can be missing are moves and DNA capacities.

The game goes the way the game goes, but you can play well and with a full deck, or not. Life deals a hand that you can play to win, and you can play to lose...

Each game in life has moves. Winning moves, and losing moves. You can have all the winning moves if you can"t see the consequences of your actions, you won"t win. And even if you see the consequences of your actions (capacity), if you don"t have moves, you still lose.

You have to have the capacities and you have to have the moves to win. Both are part of the invisible.

Life can be treated as a game, and everything in life can be treated as a game... A game you can win, or a game that you can lose.

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A new way to look at the Big Picture... dramatic

It seems that our memories get stored, depending on where the memory is coming from.

Memories through the mind are stored in the brain. Memories through consciousness... unconscious to you, for the most part, are stored in the zero point field.

Even though you have seen a lot, even though you have learned a lot, even though you know a lot, as long as you attempt to retrieve the knowledge with the mind, you"ll come up empty.

When I learned PhotoReading, the whole essence of the technique was to allow consciousness to do both the seeing and the retrieving.

Some people, the moment they left the course, returned to mind reading, and lost the advantage... and the course was expensive.

You need to have your sight, the third eye capacity activated to use the memories in the zero point field, and actually have access to wisdom. The memories stored there are not only your memories, it is all memories by all humans in all ages.

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