When the guru is wrong...

Today I learned a lesson so cruelly cutting, my stomach hurt from it.

Now, being on the other side of it, it has opened my eyes to so many things, I am surprised.

I found out that some of my carefully crafted assumptions based in decades of education might be wrong.

I have been fighting it for more than a week now... and finally, today, I had to face the piper.

The polar pitcher, the equipment I use for energizing water, has changed: the pitcher you get on Amazon today are slightly smaller than what I own and have based my water energizing system on.

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Only people who are willing to go to hell and back can have real compassion and be happy.

It"s been a weird couple of days.

Every time I stop doing something my mind goes to evil acts I have seen in movies or read about in books.

It started with the Marco Polo series on Netflix. I realized that I can"t watch betrayal... something about betrayal is too difficult for me to be with.

I wondered if it was that I saw myself in either the traitor or the betrayed, but I don"t think it"s that.

But it dislodged a veritable mound of buried memories of acts in books and other movies.

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You live in a world of your own design... You don"t like the design?

You live in a world of your own design

But how do you build a world of your own design?

Everyone hopes that this sentence "you live in a world of your own design" means that you can change your life.

But the sentence means: you have the world that you have designed. You built it. brick by brick. Anxiety by anxiety. By self-limitation or self-indulgence. By lack of self-worth, self-esteem, lack of any knowledge, lack of any values... or by delusion... yeah, YOU built it. Not ever considering the consequences of your actions.

You built it to be a tiny cage: secure enough so you can feel safer, that you can feel not too much for you to deal with it, tight enough to feel trapped.

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What"s the truth about you? Your health

Trace minerals... what do you need to know


I have been doing these 90 essential nutrient evaluations for about a month now.

Yesterday I had some time and tested a few people I know, clients, readers, friends, and emailed them my findings... at least the numbers.

I sent an email to one of my clients, and she wrote back arguing. I had a typo in the email... by mistake I wrote that she had 90 of the 90 essentials missing... obvious typo.

But yet, there is a question that she didn"t ask, and I want to ask it for her, so you can learn something.

Trace minerals are needed in higher quantities when you are under stress.

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Can you heal yourself? Holographic universe or intelligent universe?

My habit is to read one or two non-fiction books, cover to cover, the old fashioned way, and then about 600 pages worth of fiction.

My choice of fiction is historical novels, mostly. I like the short and sweet novellas 60-120 page long pieces, from the Foreworld Saga, that for me started with the book Mongoliad.

These books are perfect for me. They are fantastical. They always have heroes, and incredible odds, and the characters are larger than life.

Just like I used the Medium series to learn how to hold guidance, I am using these books to show me how guidance can be even more difficult to see ahead of time, and why it is so important to surrender one"s immediate agenda to guidance.
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How words really effect you? And how positive thinkers are stupid

If you had a childhood trauma... what is the best way to deal with it now, so you can grow?

Some of you were abused as a child.

Now, strictly speaking, there is no such thing as abuse in reality. Abuse is a particular interpretation of something that happened. If I asked a visiting Martian what happened, he would say things like one person hit the other, or one person yelled at another, or one person tied up another, pushed them down, maybe even put one part of their anatomy into the other... but not abuse.

Abuse never happened... or it happened only if you said so... for you. In your mouth. In your interpretation.

Some things don"t exist outside of language... they don"t exist in reality. Abuse is just one of these. One other "thing" that doesn"t exist in reality is lack... In reality only things that are there exist.

New age gurus talk about the importance of the words you use. Of course, either because you are dumb or they are dumb, this gets generalized.

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One method to force your new capacities work for you

It seems that one method of making the newly activated capacities real has been found.

As you know, having activated DNA capacities is nice, but unless you need it, they won"t do anything. They will be like lights that are on in streets that no one passes.

The methods I am looking for are methods that make you go into those streets, so you use the light and find ways to be different, do different, have different results, different reactions, different feelings.

The issue with comfortable and somewhat successful people (you) has been is that ego won"t allow you to take risks unless you trick it. I mean: trick the ego. Sweet-talk is great, but won"t help much in this case, I have tried.

So, the method I have zeroed in with the client who inherited his father"s company is this:

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Life, looked through the filter of games... Is life a game?

In the game of life, when you are losing, or not winning, the two things that can be missing are moves and DNA capacities.

The game goes the way the game goes, but you can play well and with a full deck, or not. Life deals a hand that you can play to win, and you can play to lose...

Each game in life has moves. Winning moves, and losing moves. You can have all the winning moves if you can"t see the consequences of your actions, you won"t win. And even if you see the consequences of your actions (capacity), if you don"t have moves, you still lose.

You have to have the capacities and you have to have the moves to win. Both are part of the invisible.

Life can be treated as a game, and everything in life can be treated as a game... A game you can win, or a game that you can lose.

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What are the symptoms of an activated DNA capacity? Like The Sight, aka the Third Sight.

How will you know if the DNA capacity of seeing the consequences of your actions, aka The Sight is working for you or not?

I just realized, this very minutes, that the language of the effect of the capacity used is misleading.

When I say: Let"s look: you look with your eyes, even if I tell you to look with your Self... your Consciousness.

When I say: see the consequences of your actions: you"ll try to see something with your eyes, right?

But here is the problem: they eyes are an outward organ, only able to relate to the physical reality, and even in that, only to stuff that can be seen.

Then there is the "inner eye" the mind"s eye, that is creating pictures from what the mind stores... so it is rehashed.

So the eye is unable to penetrate the invisible, unable to penetrate the beyond, unable to penetrate the unknown.

But the answer to that question: what are the consequences of my action MUST come from the beyond, or it is just rehashed garbage...

This week I saw that the mind is a Garbage Collector... treating its garbage like treasure, treating its garbage like it is all there is...

So, I should have used the word: the capacity of sensing the consequences of your actions, or maybe: knowing the consequences of your actions.

With that said, if you are one of the many who asked me to activate that capacity for you, you have a job to do: You need to start to look for answers with your sensing them...

Not the mind, not the eyes, but something, a part of you, that is sensing.

Of course, that is the Consciousness, but if I say that, you"ll be flummoxed, ((bewildered or perplexed.)) because you have no idea what that means.

And yet, we all have it. We are just out of touch.

So the battle cry: Let"s look, wasn"t a cry to looking all around you, looking in your mind trying to remember... it was actually a cry to connect to your Consciousness, that is in touch with all-consciousness, that is All-knowing, as far as things that have ever been known.

But it is definitely beyond the 1% that you have been trying to connect to.

Unfortunately to you, the knowledge of the 1% is mostly garbage...

And your life accurately reflects that.

So it"s time to find your sensing part, it is time to find your consciousness... so you can stop repeating garbage, repeating the story of your life, and start creating something new.

Isn"t it time?

Stuff that comes from Consciousness is never wrong. Stuff that comes from the mind, the 1% is wrong most of the time.

This is, by the way, what meditation is for: to get in touch with your consciousness, so it can guide you.

It"s a pity that people use it to get rid of thoughts... your thoughts can rage AND you can be in touch with consciousness! It is, as with the good and bad wolf: which one are you going to feed? Which one are you going to listen to?

Mind is verbal. Consciousness is non-verbal. Hear words? it"s mind. That should be your guide.

See pictures? It"s
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Your soul correction points to missing DNA capacities...

...or behaviors that ignore capacities, or both.

My soul correction is Forget Thyself... arrogance, and already knowing it all... so the biggest missing capacities for this soul correction are the sight, seeing the consequences of your actions.

The second capacity is consistency: actually remembering that there is a sight, and one must look before one can see... very hard for me to learn and be consistent.

Now, what is the usefulness of a "diagnosis" like that?

If you don"t have the capacity active, you can ask me to activate it.
If you don"t have the behavior, then you can ask me to guide you until you refine the behavior and it becomes second nature.

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Can your sight be helpful if you don"t look?

The willingness to look is a behavior, it"s an attitude, and therefore cannot be activated.

If you act without looking, or if you act from what is stored in your mind, then the activator of the capacity to see the consequences of your actions won"t make any difference.

There is a prerequisite to seeing: and that is looking.

And most of you do not have the habit to look...

One of the arrogant behaviors is to not look. I do it, you do it.

Is that a stupid behavior? Yeah, it is. And stupid as the stupid does... that is why I am stupid, and you are stupid too.

Whenever I remember that I am stupid, it is a reminder to look... and then the capacity of seeing the consequences of my action kicks in... and voila, I make a smart decision from what I see.

So you see, stupid is not a capacity or the lack of it, stupid is behavior.
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After the DNA capacity activated: what is it like?

Some unexpected fallouts and insights from activating the newly discovered DNA capacity to all those people...

Suddenly this client thinks, for the first time, to ask how to speak to her mother in law who goes to her house, picks up her ironing and cleans her house...

Here is the whole conversation... this is an issue that SHOULD come up for everyone, because the idea of being interested in how a communication lands is one of those things, being able to see the consequences of your action. Communication is action!

So here is the email conversation where I teach her how to 1. be appreciative 2. be kind 3. be effective without forcing, without blaming, without making the other person defensive, and yet have a good chance to have the result you want... eventually.

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Tuesday, November 3, 2015, 1:23:16 PM, she wrote:


Okay I am taking the courage to e mail what came up today. Perhaps it is as a result of the activation.

I came home to find my mother in law had been in our house and had taken it upon herself to take my ironing with her and do cleaning in the house.

While some would like this it is different for me.

I find it an intrusion of my space and boundaries. Of course I am mad and want to tell her to stop but fear the consequences. The ego comes up saying leave it alone your only making a big deal out of nothing.

Is this coming up for me to move through the fear of saying what I want to say?

I really would appreciate your insight.

Many thanks

[client]


On Tuesday, November 3, 2015, Sophie wrote:
it IS coming up because of the activator.

but you are still stuck with the binary option... yell at her/say nothing.

I had something like this happen to me this morning, and I saw that there is a third option: gently suggesting. so I did. it wasn"t as smooth as I thought it was going to be, but it wasn"t hurtful either.

consider that your mother in law is best for you if she isn"t offended...

My issue was with my chiropractor, and instead of telling him how bad the last session was, I suggested this: Maybe we could try this...

So what can you tell your mother in law with a maybe? Maybe next time she could ask if it"s ok? Maybe she could help with something you do need help with?

The question is: are you willing to be generous of heart?

Thank you,
Sophie

Tuesday, November 3, 2015, 2:10:03 PM, she wrote:


Okay well what I really want to say is that I will ask for help if I need it but I don"t want her coming into my space unless I ask her to. It is a privacy thing and I want my own space and for her to repect that . I feel this really important for me.

It is how to say it without offending is the issue but that it won"t keep happening.

When you say are you willing to be generous of heart is do you mean that with her in this issue?

Thanks

[client]

On Tuesday, November 3, 2015, Sophie wrote:
yes. You see, it is easy to hurt someone. It
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Notes from my experience with activating the DNA capacity of seeing the consequences of your actions

The new capacity, the capacity to see the consequences of your actions, clearly, like a diagram is an unconscious capacity. Unconscious meaning: you don"t necessarily notice any difference, especially if


your ego keeps shouting: it"s hopeless...
the subconscious will keep on feeding you the same nonsense it"s been feeding you to get you where you are...
greed, urges, jumping, impulsiveness will have you jump without looking. The fact that you can see doesn"t guarantee that you"ll look.


All activation was successful... I am writing in the process, and I almost never write: the energy went through... I take it for granted that you understand. I found out some people don"t... :-(
Ego noise
here is a person who will have a hard time acting with what he sees, because of all the noise the ego makes:

this is what I wrote down while I was doing the activation
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How to make your new DNA activated capacity actually work for you

Unconscious Incompetence: the missing item
Like knowledge, capacities are either conscious or not.

When a knowledge, a skill, a capacity is conscious, you know to reach for it when it would be useful. It is like you know you have a Phillips screwdriver... and you reach for it.

But if you have never had a Phillips screwdriver, as far as you are concerned, you have to substitute other methods to screw in a screw, imperfect tools for an imperfect result, or give it up and find another screw. Makes sense so far?

To know to reach for it is not automatic, because you didn"t know you had it.

When I activate a formerly dark DNA capacity, when I switch it on, you don"t know you have it. You even paid for it, but you don"t know what"s missing, you only see that life is not quite working in a certain arena, just like the natives saw the ripples in the water, but could not see the ships... seeing ship with sails was a missing capacity for them.

A missing capacity is like the missing item, in the missing item exercise I have written about and have coached hundreds with it.
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