Showing posts with label capacities. Show all posts
Showing posts with label capacities. Show all posts

Saturday, March 2, 2019

Capacities, distinctions, intelligence, and success in life: strong correlation.

Let"s start with debunking the current world view, that intelligence is inborn. We are all born tabula raza... a blank slate.

Your intelligence depends on the number of large chunks, neural connections permanently formed in your brain firing together automatically. Those chunks are created in learning.

Reality has two parts: the visible reality, the part that can be perceived by anyone, and the invisible reality that is governed by the invisible dynamics... that you actually need to learn to see.

The invisible reality is an iceberg: the visible part provides clues for the invisible part: that there is something invisible yet real. Depending on how you look at the visible part, through what vantage point, you are going to see different aspects of the invisible. One of the ways, one of the vantage points to look through is the learning to learn course. ((In this article I am illustrating my own method of how to learn something using the "zone of proximal development" by connecting the new material to already strong distinctions. The zone of proximal development is the area where you already have scaffolding, furring strips for the new distinction to attach itself. Most people have very few and very sparsely... and the illusion of knowledge prevents them from actually creating those islands of knowledge... ))

The principle of intelligence is: the more problem solving chunks your brain has, i.e. the more neural connections you have, or speaking in transformational technology terms: the more distinctions you have, the more difficult problems you can solve.

Life is full of difficult problems that you can either solve or you suffer. The most pain comes from other people.


When I measure how many spiritual capacities you have active in your DNA, the correlation between the number of spiritual capacities, the number of distinctions, and success in life is obvious, although the why isn"t quite obvious... yet.

What qualifies a "spiritual" teacher to teach, is that they are one step ahead of their students, one lesson...

At least that is what I thought until this morning.

But...

So... I just finished the Learning How to Learn Course. I learned a lot. I also learned that as a How-to course, it teaches you ABOUT how to learn, but learning to learn is a whole different animal... unless you can turn the how-to into actual learning, learning will not take place.

But the tools and techniques in the course are useful, so someone, maybe me, can actually teach you to learn.

Gradually. Hopefully. Finally, for most of you.

So I have decided to set myself out on a path to learn to teach, to teach myself to teach: teach at least some people to learn. To create distinctions, neural islands of neurons that fire together, automatically. ((The book on Brain Plasticity: The Brain That Changes Itself: Stories of Personal Triumph from the Frontiers of Brain Science by Norman Doidge MD. I read that book. It talks about learning that is not intellectual, therefore even YOU will get that knowing about it, practicing it a little, won"t create the neural automatic island of connection: it talks about blind people learning to see through a patch on their body, a paralyzed stroke induces arm or hand learn to do the movements it needs to learn, etc.

That book really pokes a hole into the worldwide myth that reading a book, watching a video, taking a course will create working knowledge in your brain. If for no other reason, read it if you can. I only have the printed version, so I can"t gift you with the book, sorry.))

In this context, my learning effectiveness: I will measure my success in the active distinctions that work within you... automatically. In the context of the Playground course, whether you can see, automatically, if something is real or not, without having to look at the pdf... Or whether you look "what is the complaint?" without thinking when you are not happy...

A distinction is a group of neurons, in the brain, that gets some work done, without you needing to be conscious of it.


Chewing, swallowing, throwing a ball, are simple distinctions that you can, as an adult, take for granted. No conscious thought required. But when you learned it, it had to be first conscious, and then, through practice, unconscious.

Depending on how many neurons it takes to perform a task, the distinctions are simple or complex.

Distinctions are the key elements to intelligence, intelligent behavior.


Here are a few examples pointing to missing distinctions, and the resulting lack of intelligent behavior:


  • 1. This civil engineer...


    ...was visiting an environmental cleanup site. The stuff to clean up was very dry, and the wind blew.


Engineer or no engineer, our guy didn"t think of putting a handkerchief or a filter over his mouth and nose... so he breathed in the stuff that was deemed an environmental hazard. Now he is coughing, and he is worried.

He has distinctions about some stuff, but not about others, like if it is bad on the ground, it will be definitely bad in his lungs...

Intelligent behavior is impossible when chunks of knowledge is missing or is overpowered by some other concerns... Like wanting to look like a hero, fearless... because the concern would call a dude with filter over his nose and mouth a sissy...

Diagnosis: distinction is either weak, or the concern is too strong... Causing lack of intelligent behavior.

The next thing to do, for this person, is to deal with both issues, missing distinction AND the concern.


  • 2. This university student


    has been in my courses, reading my articles for nearly six years, without ever making a lasting impact on his life.


He comes up with new ideas about why that is, at least once a week. They all sound brilliant. Astounding. Yet, his results in life, in any area, are between zero and none.

Looking at his behavior through the distinction of the how to learn course, I suddenly saw something.

One thing has been bothering me about him for a few months now: even though he knows how to energize his water, even though he knows how important that is, his cell hydration, habitually, drops to scarcity level.

He doesn"t take care of it. He doesn"t drink the coherent water that would keep his cell hydration number above 30%, or maybe he simply stops making it? I haven"t asked. But it is obvious: cell hydration isn"t a distinction for him, it is not automatic for him to make and drink the coherent water... no chunks, he has information but no knowledge. ((In the past six years this student got a disproportionate amount of attention from me... and has managed to turn all that teaching, all that guidance into a big fat zero. His brilliance helped him dupe me... but didn"t help him to create a life worth living for him.

https://youtu.be/DJTt5I8K4Rk?t=30

Somewhere in my reading, actually many places, animals use deceit to lure a predator away from their young. This student uses deceit to lure me away from that fact that he won"t learn.))

As I said above, a distinction fully operational in your brain will work without your conscious thought... So until a distinction, in his case, making and drinking his energized water so his physical self is well enough to support what he is doing, we can safely say that he has probably no useful distinctions in his brain, no chunks, no useful learning has taken place, that would make him act intelligently in life.

He has the brain of a newborn. He may have rules from religion, from his parents, from himself, but they don"t form distinctions, they don"t physically manifest in his brain.

So what prevents him from forming those distinctions? If you think that the two cases are similar, you are right.

What prevents him from forming those distinctions is a concern.


This university student throws everything in the wind, so he can get his concern met: that he is viewed and that he feels brilliant.

That concern, even though it looks innocent, is the altar he sacrifices his whole life on... especially when it comes to learning.

All learning makes you feel stupid, slow, unequal to the task. Intolerable if you have a standard that you have to be brilliant all the time.

Result: he never actually learned anything to the level that permanent brain structures, neural changes would happen in his brain. He is a man without any intelligence.


  • 3. A third student, also an engineer,


    was showing no promising signs that she can be taught anything.


But in my little research into teaching has accidentally taken me to proximal whatever it was... that says that if you can teach what is very close to what the student knows, then it is possible to teach someone. While if you try to teach new things without leaning, building on existing knowledge, you"ll fail.

This student"s access to any and all knowledge is his deep and profound knowledge of horses. The care and training of horses, including turning a horse from disobedient or neurotic into a happy, productive horse.

Amazing, if you ask me.

She even recalls that all her engineering studies were built on this island of knowledge... the horses.

Our job, hers and mine, is to build all new knowledge onto and adjacent to the existing knowledge, so she/you can start living a life larger than what her/your current distinctions allow for.


Your distinctions or the lack of them, stake out the area of life where you can be effective, intelligent, productive, and ultimately happy.

Learning and establishing new distinctions with this knowledge of proximity makes learning fast(er) and possible.

Teaching someone with no distinctions is quite a different bag of tricks... and I don"t know how to do it yet. Until one half-baked distinction becomes permanent, i.e. self-running, there is no hope to ever reach intelligence.

Every polymath, every productive person started out with one distinction that they deepened until it become a solid foundation for all knowledge to be built upon.

That, the first chunk, is the challenge.


In my case, my life turned around, and it is still turning, around a piece of knowledge, a distinction verbalized by Hillel 2500 years ago: "If I am not for me, who is for me? If not now... when? If I am only for myself... who am I?"

It is becoming clear to me that I have a concern to occupy as little of the earth as I can... a kind of "martyr concern" that has been making me not use, not take advantage all that life has to offer. My identity is vested in being the person who can make something from nothing, like the dude in the fairy tale "Stone soup". ((

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pphUfE0ERt0

))

I am slowly learning to counter the concern, and at least some of the time take actions that take care of me. Slowly, but surely. It is a daily struggle.

Until you can conquer your concern, much of the time, you are like a one-legged man in an ass kicking contest... not very good.

The above student examples, the engineer who wants to look strong and fearless, the other guy brilliant, and me: able to live on nothing... are all in for a long road to hoe.

I don"t know the concern of the horse person... It is not that easy to get clarity about THE concern...

But everyone has one main concern that they dance around all their lives... a concern is like having your foot nailed to the floorboards, so you can move ONLY around it...

Your favorite fairy tale may be a clue. Or your favorite hero "script", mine is "the hero who succeeds in the face of incredible odds": disease, racial discrimination, poverty, imprisonment, etc.

I would laugh if it were funny... it is tragic...

PS: As I am editing this article, I am rejoiced to remember that our "brilliant" student may have some area where he has distinctions... and that is pattern recognition. And now that I see it, I can test it if it is really so, and can start help him build a whole body of distinctions on that one distinction, that one island.

As far fetched it sounds, every single half-learned distinction he has can be connected to that one... one by one... not automatically the way he would hope.

His success will depend on his willingness to not be brilliant all the time, in fact to feel stupid and continue learning... Which is a TLB size issue... To what degree he is willing to not be a Twitchy Little Bastard.

Wednesday, August 8, 2018

What does skill-building do to you, beyond building skills?

I realized today that I am still at the beginning phases of my "entrepreneurial" journey... meaning: I am not a seasoned entrepreneur.

Why that would be, you ask?

Today I had an insight. Everyone talks about knowing, maybe even knowing how to do something, but hardly anyone talks about building skills, the building blocks of a successful life.

There is a what to do... and then there is a how to do it... and they all look magical and at least foggy for most people...

There are so many how"s that I can promise you it takes years of diligent doing projects one after the other, with help, before you"ll get any good at it.

Here is an embarrassing example: I have been making my own capsules of supplements... I buy empty capsules and fill them with whatever I want to take.

Last year in December I bought a 100 capsule capsule-filler "machine"... and until yesterday I made thousands of capsules with it, many of them destroyed.

I never suspected that I am at fault: it is a stupid machine, I thought... But yesterday I had an insight, and suddenly it was fast, effortless, and all the capsules came out perfect.

Eight months process till a certain level of mastery.

And that is what I am talking about: a skill takes a long time to perfect, to make you unconsciously competent, especially if you don"t have someone to catch your mistakes... like I didn"t.

For years now I"ve attempted to help people choose the best field to invest their energies in, a field where their skills would make them shine... but every time I get hopeful, I find out that people have NO SKILLS.

Unbelievable... for me. Because I have so many... but then again, I am, nowadays, finding myself reluctant to develop new skills... I guess they have gotten to me and corrupted me, without me even noticing me.

Who are they?

Every generation, for the past 200 or so years, grows up with less and less encouragement from the previous one, to build skills. In fact there are hardly any people out there who could help you to build skills... because they themselves don"t have it.

It seems that today only the autodidact can shine... Autodidacticism (also autodidactism) or self-education (also self-learning and self-teaching) is education without the guidance of masters (such as teachers and professors) or institutions (such as schools).

They are rare, because it is itself a skill, as is knowing how to practice, how to know when you know enough, and when it"s time to challenge yourself.

Today everyone wants to be a writer... because everyone had to learn to write in school. But writing well, constructing characters, storyline, having a way with words needs to learned, they are all skills.

And the "market" is full of dilettante writing, copycats, written by hopefuls that think they will make a living with writing.

Same with driving: everyone can be an Uber driver...

But the world is so hungry for skills and there is so little supply... No one is willing to invest in something that doesn"t pay off immediately.

I see many people who have been in a semi-professional job for decades, and their skill level has never really increased...

To take anything to mastery, and that is the goal, takes conscious practice.

How you do anything is how you do everything... meaning: your attitude to one skill is the same as your attitude to other skills.

Unless you have a goal to increase your skill level 1% a day, 1% a week... you are never going to get to mastery... and mastery is where it"s at.

Mastery in the depth, the width, the precision, the elegance, the speed of the skill.

I do have a couple of people who work on a skill or two, report back daily. I have yet to see anyone really challenging themselves, getting better at it.

I have a new deal with one of my interns: I"ll teach her to process audio files for podcast, submit them into some places to promote them... I will work with this intern to see what it would take to take someone to mastery... not as a should, but as a game. A game worth playing.

So, to return to the question in the title of this article, what else does skill building does, other than build skills?


The short answer is: it activates capacities in your DNA... and make them available every step of the way, to build a life you love and to help you live it powerfully.

Yeah... regardless the actual skill you build, just generic skill-building does that.

One tenth of one percent is willing to invest in building a skill... any skill.

Their sight is set on the prize, and it doesn"t look like skill-building is the fastest and shortest route between how it is now, and how it "should" be... So they resort to dreaming, retreat to their desire trap, and... drumroll please: do nothing to become more, better or different.

To get what you want in life you need to earn what you want.

But in the dream, in the visualization, in the desire trap, you already have it... you imagined it and it is as good as done... except that it"s not real.

Real things require you to invest yourself, invest effort, invest time, invest money, invest your attention... Bummer, eh?

Wednesday, March 28, 2018

Capacities, possibilities, new constructive attitudes... How do you create them so you can have what you want?

Capacities, possibilities, new constructive attitudes...
  • What these share is that they are words first and foremost.

  • The second thing: saying the words will not make you that...
    And unfortunately, it turned out that turning on the capacities in the DNA won"t create permanent changes... unless.

So what is the technology of inventing and making these capacities, possibilities and attitudes real?


This is what this article is about. It"s about you learning how to have what you want.

Let"s first talk about what people want... What you want.

In thousands of conversations, personally, on the phone, in emails, I have come to see that people want to have.
  • There is being... The being allows for doing...

  • There is doing... and the doing allows for, creates the having

  • There is having... these are your results... the stuff, the relationships, the body, and even how you feel about all of that... Then you say: I want to feel loved... that is a having as well, even if it sounds like a being verb.


Which means that unless you have the being that allows for the doing, you won"t have the having part. EVER.

I hope that will convince you to actually listen with interest so you can see what you have been missing, and what you can do about it. ((We don"t know of many people who documented how they became who they became. Benjamin Franklin is an exception. We learn from Ben Franklin that what made him THE Ben Franklin, in spite of his low birth, and lack of formal education, is his practice of growing his virtues.

Virtues are the things we are talking about, the attitudes, the being, the possibilities.

He also saw that anything that is not measured, cannot grow. So he measured his virtues every day. He cycled through the 13 virtues he set out to learn, one a week.

I did it differently, I probably would be further ahead, had I tried his way.))

The first stage is being. Without being the kind of person who can, who will do, you will never have.


The being is the sticky issue... and capacities, possibilities, and attitudes are all beings in another word... So they are the sticky issues, the issues no one is really addressing effectively.

Two reasons for that... maybe more... we shall see...

  • The first reason beingness/attitude remains unattainable to you  is language.



Being this or being that is easy to say. The word just falls out of your mouth... Being happy, being talented, being a winner... but saying so doesn"t make it so.

Talking about flying isn"t... is how I express this discrepancy between talking and being.

I learned about being in Landmark Education, and its predecessors, whatever they were, 33 years ago.

I was a foreigner. I was doing my courses in a foreign language. I didn"t have the natives" arrogance thinking that I know what the words really mean.

I had beginner"s mind without having to pretend that I don"t know. I didn"t know.

And it seems that having the beginner"s mind attitude, the "I want to know" attitude that I brought with myself from that foreign culture, I started to investigate in earnest.

I didn"t go to the dictionary. Dictionary is just more words that I didn"t know, that you treat as if you already knew it.

I went to looking, feeling, observing, testing, over and over, wider and wider.
The first being word I worked with was "generosity".

I suspected that the way people mean the word is not accurate, that it doesn"t mean that. The way people mostly used the word "generous" or "generosity" is to mean giving.

But giving is easy. No generosity in that. Giving what is yours... that is a little bit more... it demands of you to give something up... and let them have more than you. And that lead to even more unearthing: allowing the other to be whatever they were, allowing them to be smart, or a leader, or maybe even allow them to suffer when they suffer.

Not trying to fix them so they have to change.

And then the last piece I could see: allow them to shine. Allow them to outshine you. Allow them to be more than you.

On some level, if it doesn"t hurt, it"s not generosity. Not what you expected is it?


Being, attitude, are the seed level of anything that you can want.

In my courses, in my energy work, in my coaching, I specialize in being/attitude.

But because talking about flying, thinking about flying isn"t... in order for you to benefit from anything I teach, you need to learn to generate being... generate attitude... generate capacities... DNA capacities.

If you ever wondered why I have so many capacities working for me, DNA capacities, this is my secret.

I did it myself.

For a few years I fancied myself able to turn on capacities for you, only to land on earth, land in reality, where you cannot keep a capacity "on" that you didn"t generate yourself.

The path to having capacities is the same path as having being available to you.

  • The second reason: world view



To date I haven"t found anyone who even considered doing the work of distinguishing the capacity they paid me to turn on.

Why? Because of memes...
Memes are those pesky statements that sound like the truth but aren"t.

  • Whatever you can imagine, you can have it... A whole industry of vision maps, mind movies is built on this meme... built on this lie.


There are a lot more that came from the "meme-pool".
  • Here is an innocent sounding meme: All answers are within... it is another lie that makes you look for your lost keys where they aren"t... (the joke about the drunk who is looking for his car keys under the street light...)

  • Here is another one: if you understand it, you can do it... or something like it.


Many lies come from sales pitches...
If you could be generous enough, please comment on this post, so we can create a collection of memes that fool you into a delusional reality where you can get what you want by wanting it. Please? Thank you.

The truth about reality is that you have to work for everything you want.


Sometimes it looks like you don"t... but it is a mirage.

Example: if you plant a seed in unprepared soil, you will have no plant. Why? Preparing the soil to hold moisture, preparing the soil to have nutrients for the emerging plant is work that you have done ahead of time.

I have many skills that I built in my 70 years. When I do something, you cannot see all the work that went into preparing the soil for that new thing to be nurtured. You look and you fancy yourself being able to do it as well, because you saw me doing it.

And you"ll be wrong. Dead wrong. You even missed 90% or more of what is visible, because you don"t have the prepared soil, you don"t have the practical knowledge that you need to even see exactly what I did.

And that is what"s happening when you observe high achievers... you cannot see the work they did, or even the effects of the work they did for tens of years.

OK, on another note... seeing clearly what would make your life work, what would make your dreams come true is not enough.


I am reading this dude"s books... I have been, he wrote several books.

His vibration is 170. ((Here are his starting point measurements:

1. your vibration (1-1000): 170
2. your overall intelligence, emotional, intellectual, spiritual, body, relationship, etc.: 100 (pay attention to this number... you cannot go higher!)
3. the number of spiritual capacities you have: 10 (pay attention to this number, his audience has 1)
4. your soul correction (your machine): "Removing Hatred" https://www.yourvibration.com/sc
5. do you have attachments? no
6. the level of your health (1-100): 10%
7. the level of your cell hydration (1-100): 10%
8. your relationship to feedback and instruction: whimpering
9. The level of discomfort you are willing to allow w/o trying to fix it. This is your TLB score... 1
10. The size of your vocabulary: the number of words you can use accurately: 3500 (pay attention to this number! his average customer has this at 200)
11. To what degree you think of yourself: 99%
12. # of fixed mindset: 10%
13. Ambition: 80% (this number tells you how much of what he wants he is willing to work for. The average number in the world for ambition is 4%, and of his audience: 3% meaning: not willing to work for what they want.)
14. Desire: 10%
15. Degree of inauthenticity overall: 99%
16. Level of integrity 1-100: 80% (compare it with your... the average is 3%)
17. how enslaved are you to memes? (what percentage of your life is run by memes?) 40%
18. do you have a bridge between your precious "I" and your actual I? What is your level of delusion 7%
19. To what degree you have access to your adult capacities 7%
20. How teachable/how coachable are you? 7%
))

This dude is very wizard-like in certain areas of life, like money, like making friends.

He writes about stuff that feels very close to the truth... but talking about stuff and being like it is so are two different things.

His being and his writing are not in sync, not in harmony. His inauthenticity number shows it.

So even when you know a lot about the attitude that would make or break your desires, you can see, that knowing won"t be enough.

You need to build legs under that being... with doing.


This step is the most missing piece of the puzzle.


Even Landmark Education doesn"t attend to it.

Why? because it"s a lot of work, and because, maybe, it is not in their best interest.

I am going to talk about Landmark Education technology that is flawed. If you don"t want to hear it, or if it doesn"t make sense to you, skip over it...


OK, Landmark teaches you to invent the attitude, the being, the capacity. They call these "possibility". So they teach you to invent a possibility for yourself and your life.


They teach you the what. And a little bit about the how: make sure this new possibility is not fixing what is... or it is not a possibility. Otherwise they leave you alone, to your own devices, to invent.


OK, so you invented something that sounds like a possibility.

Then, Landmark says: to make it real in your life, all you need to do is to talk to enough people and make them believe that you are that.


Remember: a possibility (the Landmark term) is a way of being. They say: if you convince enough people that you are that way, then you have it.


Now, between you and me, depending on your understanding of what convincing people (they use the word "enroll") that you are that, then you may be that...



But... and a big but at that: how do you do that?


You don"t know, and I promise you, "they" don"t know.


Why, because the work you need to know is a lot more complex. And takes a lot more time than convincing people that you are that...



Just look back at my inquiry and my work on generosity. Unless you know all facets of a being, you cannot truly be it.


I discovered yesterday that I was the kind of coach who wanted you to remain "under" me... How did I do that? I had one of my students surpass me, and I felt those pesky marker feelings of: Oh my god, I am being left behind!

I quickly identified it as lack of generosity, and promptly corrected it. We are talking about 30 odd years when this never came up, so I didn"t even know it was lurking there in the shadows!

You are always "to a degree" are you a possibility, have a certain attitude. With this correction I have raised that degree to 90%. Still not 100%.

Do I have any idea where that missing 10% will come from? Yes and no... you don"t know what you don"t know... Some of that 10% is me being OK with how you are, however flawed that is... I am still not good at that... :-(

You grab a little corner of that attitude, that possibility, like the end of the thread in a ball of yarn, and snip it off... then find another little piece to snip off.

Eventually life will be able to come through that now cushy ball of yarn, and you can start having what you want.

There are 160 spiritual capacities built into your DNA. You can pick any of them to turn on.

The FAKE IT Method... make your actions consistent with what you are learning to be, that is what we, what I call faking.


An ex student of mine wrote to me about the capacity of being enough.

Let me spend a little time with that capacity, with that possibility, with that attitude. It is all three...

Ask some questions: what would someone do if they were enough? If they were a match to what they want in life? Or something specific: if they wanted to get off welfare, for example.

And start looking at people who seem to be enough. Do not look for the answers in your mind. There is no answer there.
You may see, that they are doing what they set out to do... You may hear them fretting, but the fretting won"t stop them. They do it and do it and do it, until it is done. They definitely not go to hoping and wishing.

Someone who is enough actually sees that it is up to them to produce what they set out to produce. That mother, god, or government won"t be coming. It is up to them. And because they are enough, they do it.

Can you do it even if you are not yet enough? Yes. This is the meaning of the meme: fake it till you make it.

It is not putting on appearances, it is actually doing work you can"t do well yet. But you are doing it... and it will become enough eventually. So you made it through that hurdle.

And in the process who you are for yourself changed to "enough".


The faker died, just like the caterpillar dies, and the enough is born and taking flight.

Looks like a miracle, and it is a miracle... a miracle you created.

That may be all you needed to have what you want, in every area of your life. That relationship to yourself, where you are enough. A match for what you want.

PS: If you pay attention, everybody teaches you what to do. They may go a little bit into the how, but not enough.


Here is something that you"ll probably hate, but somebody has to say it: teachers can only teach the how of what they consciously did themselves. If you do things, if you were born that way, if you were unconscious as you learned to be that way, you cannot teach it.

This is why you can"t see how articles. This is why you see advice: just meditate, love is all there is, blah blah blah.

The vibration number is accurate. It tells you how many capacities, how many beings you can authentically bring to your own life. And to what degree you have those capacities in working order.

The Dude: vibration: 170... ! inauthenticity: 99%. Tai Lopez: vibration: 170. Inauthenticity: 90%.

Both are somewhat low...

I am still able and willing to learn from this guys. Why? They have the insight. Insights are words. I am able to benefit from those words. Why? Because MY inauthenticity is 10%...

Become that person who can learn from everyone! Be Abraham Lincoln! A discerning machine! A learning machine!


Their books, programs save me a lot of work of scouring the world for new discoveries of missing pieces of the puzzle. And I am diligently studying what these guys put out.

But, I would laugh if it were really funny, THEY cannot benefit from the wisdom that comes out of their mouths... because they don"t live, they don"t "be" what they teach.

They could, by the way.

But why don"t they?

Because in order to sell stuff to you, they have to give you only what is largely useless... and because that is STINGY, because that is DISHONEST, because that is INAUTHENTIC, because that is being in league with EVIL (desire for the self alone), they can"t... or they will become schizophrenic... or poor like me... lol. Now, that is funny, imagining those two guys being poor like me. hahahaha

Sunday, July 10, 2016

How to measure vibration? How to measure consciousness? how to measure your vibrational frequency


It is good to know where you are at. With all the pretending, with all the charts, you probably overestimate or underestimate your vibration, your "vibrational frequency".

To measure another person"s vibration, your vibration needs to be above 200... and even there, you need to be connected to Source, be outside of your ego, to do that... to muscle test the other person"s vibration. My vibration is above 900, I am completely outside of my ego, so I trust my measurements.

People"s lives, emotional state, achievements, relationship prove that my measurements are accurate.

I can measure your vibration for a donation of $5 or more. I will email you the number, and my experience of you while I was measuring your vibration. If it is obvious to me, I will also email you my recommendation of a product of mine that will either ease your current discomfort, or will start the process of raising your vibration.

If someone has measured your vibration already... then you want a second opinion. If this is you, email me the person"s name or email address... I"ll also measure THEIR vibration for you to see how accurate they could be in measuring yours.
What is vibration? What are we measuring? What is the process?
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Friday, July 8, 2016

One path to Self you may want to take


One of the capacities you want to cultivate is the capacity of being in awe. Awestruck, awe-inspired.

Why? Because unless you can be moved on the inside, you are dead and I can"t help you... nobody can.

Unless you can attain to a certain level of awe, you are not going to be able to have a purpose to your life, or love, or rise above the pedestrian existence of the current humanity.

And no, I am not going to turn it on for you, please don"t ask.

This is a project you need to invent for yourself, and try to get in the state of awe. Inspiring stories, inspiring books, inspiring people, inspiring movies.

Awe is being present to the beyond... the beyond of the level where you are, the beyond of the knowable universe... from where all power comes.

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Wednesday, June 29, 2016

It takes tweaking to get things right... including your diet


I find that most people want to be mindless... Get a solution and never look again, never think again.

Tai calls this: an experiment run too long.

But for most people experiments are non-existent. They want to live their lives as puppies or kitties... not as humans.

Why is that? you ask... whether you are one of "most people" or one of the few who are individuals.

To answer that why question,

You may look at how you were brought up.
You may look at how you were educated to be sheep.
You may look at that as character defect.
You may blame this or that...

The truth is simpler and more sinister than any of those you have already thought of.

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Monday, June 20, 2016

The energies, energy remedies are like a cane... the cane helps you go where you are going.


The energies, energy remedies are like a cane... the cane helps you go where you are going.

If you are going to a good place... wonderful.
If you are going to a bad place... the cane helped you to get there.

Energy remedies, energy healing, spiritual capacities are support. Supporting you to go where you want to go.

If, in spite of all the energetic support you have received from me, you are still in a bad place, you should look at where you are going.

You cannot blame the cane. You cannot blame it for not taking you where you"d like to be.
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Thursday, June 16, 2016

What you value and in what order... why you are off... and why you are unhappy, unfulfilled, living a meaningless life


A lot of why"s are answered here... why you can"t get well, why you are not happy, etc.

People are the highest value in the universe. Why? Because they are able to be all levels of values, the thinking mind (systemic), the extrinsic (create tools, cook food, provide pleasure), and the intrinsic.

You live, predominantly on one level, and value what is on that level most.

Depending on how closely your valuation matches the valuation that is "godly", or the Original Design, you fulfill the purpose of being human.
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Tuesday, June 14, 2016

Can you raise your IQ by getting healthy?


Lots of people are searching the internet for ways to get smarter.

All the programs, and all the supplements that are out there are symptomatic treatment... and not worth a lot.

As I am going through my own program, and I am a totally aware person, and can muscle test and get answers right away... I am a testing laboratory.

I have been noticing brain or cognitive function symptoms the past two days: as if I were disoriented... it feels now every day that it"s Sunday... lol.

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Monday, June 13, 2016

Are you healthy enough to have meaning to your life? Purpose?




Meaning: Following THAT Star. The alternative is Meaningless
This is my quest: to follow that star, no matter how hopeless, no matter how far.



Humans are strange animals: they need meaning to make their lives to feel more than just existing. They need purpose to give a backbone, to give direction, to transform a life of prose to poetry.

But life is, in itself, empty and meaningless... so how do you find the meaning, how do you find the purpose?

I was 38 years old when meaning first entered my life. It was dramatic, and it was life altering.

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Sunday, June 12, 2016

Religion, smart Jews, and being a good person... what do spiritual capacities have to do with it?


This article is politically incorrect, and somewhat philosophical...

Not up for it? Spare yourself frustration, and don"t read it.

OK... now that only the eleven or so readers that are up for it remain reading, I can be blunt, and use some six letter words... lol.

Of course, this is, at least partially tongue in cheek...

OK, I am going to, first talk about a new insight I have on religion, then about Jews, capacities, genetically smarter... and other politically incorrect subjects that are keeping me busy pondering today.
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Saturday, June 11, 2016

Being judgmental is a result of your health number being low




One of my ex-students got offended when I suggested that she does her homework instead of having excuses. She left and she stopped visiting my site... I felt the "F... you" from her... When I asked yesterday if she was angry, she said... "No, I just need to grow thicker skin..." Her health number is 7%.
One of my students took two years to finally get a job, because in her last job she felt judged... for being different. She is Chinese in a predominantly White country. Once I adjusted her diet... she is flying. She went from 10% to 50% in her health number.
Another student is judgmental and doesn"t listen. She lives in systemic... even in the areas of food, marriage, children, smart... not a single step outside of it. Her health number is 7%.

If you are well, you can be in any state at any time

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Friday, June 10, 2016

How do you use the three levels of value in your "real" life to fall in love with yourself?


How do you use the three levels of value in your "real" life to fall in love with yourself?

The article asking: where do you look to define your value got a lot of "hits" and comments.

Reading the answers I saw that some fundamental distinctions are missing, in spite of the fact that I have written about all of those before, on this blog.

So after reading the article about the three levels of value, you probably start to see a little bit the difference how the different levels of value change what assessment you make, how your appraisal, evaluation, estimation, measurement, judgment will be, looking from that level.

So let"s look a little deeper and see with examples how that looks.

Where you are speaking from is as important as what kind of value you are judging.
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Thursday, June 9, 2016

Why should you believe me? Why should you learn from me?


I have been a spiritual, raise-your-vibration teacher for a while... and when someone asked what qualified me to teach, I could say that the fact that I did it myself, and went from a vibration of 185 to 930, consciously and with my eyes open.

Now, having done that is fine and dandy... but can I teach it? Good question.

But let"s look at another area: health.

At some point I got really clear that unless you have energy to do the work, unless you have coherence to do the work, unless you are well enough... I can"t help you much.

But I had a problem, an integrity issue: I myself wasn"t well enough to prove to you that I know what I am talking about when it comes to becoming healthy.
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Wednesday, June 8, 2016

How to get things done, even if you don"t quite know what you need to do?


This used to happen to me all the time: I"d get an email with a link. I"d go to the page, I"d love the results the guy is having, I"d want it. I"d buy it... then... I can"t use it. Even the tutorial videos don"t help: I lost my "vision."

How come we buy things. While we watch the sales video, we feel clear about our need to have this, we feel clear about how it"s going to fit into what we are already doing, we feel clear about what to do.

Then the magic moment comes: we are sitting in front of the product, and we have no idea about any of that.

I hear that only one to two percent of buyers, on average, use the products they bought. Whether it is a software, a marketing method, a workout regimen, the Water Energizer®, a meditation program, a spiritual practice... whatever it is, the results are the same.

What happened? They nodded.
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Sunday, June 5, 2016

The magic wand of instant change... aka manifestation


Context is one of those words that unless you have enough capacities, especially the big picture capacity, is impossible to explain... at least it"s been impossible for me to explain to you.

And yet, if you want to improve the quality of your life, the magic wand to do that is context.

You change the context and everything changes with it.

Your default context is, the context that is invisible to you, but obvious to everyone around you is not pretty. That is where you live... in that context.

But, you see, context is not something that if you understand then it becomes available to you...

In fact it is much like playing the violin: you can understand playing the violin... but that will not make you play the violin.

You need to DISTINGUISH for yourself, playing the violin, through playing the violin.

Maddening, isn"t it?

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Saturday, June 4, 2016

Just because someone"s vibration is low today...


...it doesn"t mean that they are a bad person. Or that vibration, that future is set in stone...

Your vibration is an accurate snapshot of where you are on the vibrational scale today.

Your guru, your spouse, your boss... or yourself could jump to a whole new level of vibration even without any spiritual input... if their health number went up higher.

A friend and client wrote to me today:

I wanted to share with you something interesting that is going on. anyway, you know how dead I have been, and I feel more alive every day, but I haven"t been attracted to a man in over 5 years...

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Friday, June 3, 2016

Get well first. I can"t take people to spiritual growth unless they are well


Source says: You can"t take people to spiritual growth, people who are not well... This is the signal I have been waiting for.

To be able to do Source"s work, I have surrendered to giving you what you want.

You want to grow? Then you want to be well? Not my favorite topic, not as high minded as I hoped I will work... but Source says: I can"t take people to spiritual growth, people who are not well.

Maslow has said it, and it should be self evident: unless your basics are covered, money, health, you won"t have any interest and any energy to give to spiritual growth.

So I have surrendered... OK. I"ll get you well. If that is what I need to do so I can take you to the level of human being... which requires serious spiritual growth, new capacities, new way of being.

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Thursday, June 2, 2016

Call me blunt, call me judgmental... I don"t care.


I am going to share, in this article, some of the judgmental sounding questions I ask when I try to get a full picture about someone who is asking for help.

As you probably don"t know, judgment comes from ego, from comparison. I am smart and you are stupid... that is judgment.

You are stupid isn"t judgment unless you feel something in your chest or throat as you say it. Unless it means something about you.

I feel nothing, or maybe sadness, when I ask these assessment question... that help me make sense out of the convoluted picture each person is.

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Monday, May 30, 2016

What is health?


A German who escaped just before all the Jews were hoarded into concentration camps in Germany, came to the United States.

His name was Robert Hartman.

His experience with evil uniquely qualified him to set out to deal with the age long question: what is evil, what is good?

He took on himself to define good... the strait and narrow. Many philosophers failed in that: after all the strait and narrow is delineated by the land that encloses it, not by itself...

But he succeeded.

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