The Juice Exercise: what gives you "juice" in life?

I have been coaching people for many years now. The goal was always to take people on a journey to become their best Self.

Now, the task is easier when someone knows who they are. When someone has a Self.

Most people don"t. They have a persona for each group they interact with, the family persona, the student persona, the friend, the gossiper, the entertainer, the this and the that.

Those personas (roles you play) are not you. They were created by a perceived demand in the circumstances, a perceived demand in the environment.

They leave you empty, they leave you being jerked by the shoulds, and have to"s and the wants... like a puppet on a string.

You sense that you have no control, you sense that you are not you... a vague sense.

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The energies, energy remedies are like a cane... the cane helps you go where you are going.

The energies, energy remedies are like a cane... the cane helps you go where you are going.

If you are going to a good place... wonderful.
If you are going to a bad place... the cane helped you to get there.

Energy remedies, energy healing, spiritual capacities are support. Supporting you to go where you want to go.

If, in spite of all the energetic support you have received from me, you are still in a bad place, you should look at where you are going.

You cannot blame the cane. You cannot blame it for not taking you where you"d like to be.
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How do you decide if you have value or not?

How do you decide if you have value or not?
This article"s purpose is to widen your understanding of value... so you can start valuing yourself, at last.
The current state of this area: deciding on your value is abysmal... and keeps you anxious, worried, and not happy.

You always think that your understanding is the correct understanding of reality.

You think you understand what people say, what people mean.

You never consider that your understanding is based on your small picture of reality... and you never think to grow your picture of reality, or to ask something new.

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When something isn"t working consider that it"s because there is something that you don"t know.

When something isn"t working consider that it"s because there is something that you don"t know.

Whether the something that isn"t working is money, love, health, business, school... the answer is always "there is something you don"t know."

The brilliance of this statement that turned a broke loser, a serial nebbich, Harv Eker into a multimillionaire T. Harv Eker. The brilliance is that because you don"t know what it is that you don"t know... you need to open yourself up to looking. At everything. And a lot... Expose yourself to seeing stuff. He did it, and he is now rich. This one sentence, this one statement, this one habit.

This isn"t what he teaches, because this statement gives you all the power, and you don"t buy stuff when you have the power... He is so rich because no one understand this statement... But why?

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The importance of knowing what you want

Knowing what you want to achieve, is one thing that is missing in you. Another name for that is called "mental representation" of what you want to achieve.

Mental representation is a detailed picture, so detailed and so tangible, that you can pinpoint where reality is deviating from it... and how.

Mental representation is a spiritual capacity that sits squarely on a lot of other spiritual capacities, so obviously it is not part of the first seven most people have, not even part of the first 13, many professionals have, not even part of the first 20, that doctors have. And, believe it or not, it is not even part of the first 30, that most millionaires, billionaires have.

Bill Gates doesn"t have it. Warren Buffet has it.
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Life is a lot like traveling by train...

Life is like being in a train: you can look out on the left side, the right side, the back, the front... but it won"t change that you are on a train that will arrive to its destination, no matter where you look.

Most of us live this way most of the time.

We do our jobs, we do our relationships, we do our projects, we do our lives this way.

Fulfilling? No. Enjoyable? It depends...

Ultimately we are plagued by a nagging sense that we are out of control, that no matter what we do won"t change anything. Some of us feel doomed. Some of us fight it tooth and nail... with bloody broken teeth and broken nails to prove it.
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You don"t know what you don"t know and You don"t even know there is something to know

First off: knowledge is grossly overrated.

Why? Because knowledge without application, without skills is useless. It won"t make you money, it won"t make you slim, good company, or a better driver.

We all grew up with the kind of education that emphasizes knowing, and we are all worse off for it.

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Don"t Let What You Can"t Do Stop You From Doing What You Can

Another old article revived... Oldie but goodie.

I woke up this morning with despair in my heart. No reason, just the mood. I stepped on the scale, and I put on half a pound yesterday. It was raining cats and dogs, but the temperature will be normal later today.

Must be Dark Side transmission...

I read some emails, answered them, but didn"t feel like working.

I took some Heaven on Earth Remedy.

I watched some videos. One had a comment under it: "Don"t Let What You Can"t Do Stop You From Doing What You Can"

I took some more Heaven on Earth.

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Does having more capacities turned on raise your vibration too?

Superiority... The word comes up a lot in my coaching. Mostly in the context of your soul correction.

But in reality, some things are superior to other things... because all exists on many scales.

On the DNA capacities "scale" someone with 30 capacities is superior to someone who has 29, 20, 10, 7.

I haven"t found anyone with less than seven capacities, though I am sure there are.

So superior is not the issue. Acting superior is the issue.

It attacks people"s egos, the part of a human that makes sure the person survives. And as in any competition, it can get ugly. ((Ugly really appeals to the lowest common denominator. They are attracted to the low vibration, low capacity, brawn person... that is the problem in democracy: people who are low vibration, self-serving are elected by the low vibration, self-serving crowds. The same people who were so vocal answering my email with their imminent wisdom knowing what capacities mean, and such.))

People tend to cultivate the capacities that they consider an unfair advantage in the competition for survival.



In politics, it is mostly lying convincingly, trashing the other, promising, and such. In many areas that is physical strength.

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Why can"t you change? What is holding you back?

In spite of The sight, and other capacities newly available to you, you don"t seem to be able to change...

You have been unsuccessful getting their guidance, getting your information from outside of the mind.

This manifests, among others, in the inability to muscle test correctly.

The question is why?

The phenomenon, what actually seems to happen is this: you understand where to look, how to look, and you nod rapidly. You bring great examples to show how you just succeeded in using the new capacity... but I can smell the mischief... you are trying to throw me off my tracking.

Now, I say "you" but who is this "you"? What aspect of a person am I talking about?

In this case, the dominant aspect, the ego.

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#ActivatingAbilities, #TheNatureOfReality

The Dark Side suggestion that love heals the world

There are many approaches to fix a problem, but all fixes are more harmful than the original problem.

Why? Because fix come from the same level of consciousness as the problem... and ultimately that kind of solution: a fix, is the root of the next problem. Like marriage: a fix for loneliness, and the start of more and bigger problems... yet it doesn"t stop loneliness... (Marriage is two people combining efforts to solve problems that would not exist without the marriage...)

Instead of dealing with what frightens you today, what you want to get rid of so you can live your puny little life, let"s go back to a time and situation where you weren"t even born, and it probably didn"t effect you much.

Hitler.

You look at it and you can"t imagine why I would bring it up... that signals a lack of ability to see under the hood...

The time we"ll go back to examine is the rise of the Third Reich... Hitler"s Nazi Germany.

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Getting really smart is scary

One thing the book Flowers for Algernon did not prepare me for is how scary it is to get too smart too quickly.



I have been experimenting with different capacities... what they do, what behavior, what insight they possible.

One of these capacities increased my capacity (it had been turned on, but not fully utilized by me) to see many steps ahead and act accordingly.

And for the first time since I started this work, I got scared.

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#ActivatingAbilities

How and why what we do here is the perfect antidote to what ISIS is trying to do?

How and why what we do here is the perfect antidote to what ISIS is trying to do? ((Whether it was David who was the underdog, or Goliath... the picture of using wits against blind stupid force is depicted well in that story... and besides that, when I looked how to illustrate this article, David and Goliath popped up... and I trust my guidance.

I will put the book by Malcolm Gladwell, in pdf format, in the subscribers area.))

I"ve read half of an online article on ISIS, a really long article. Being dyslexic, I could not read it online... I have copied it and republished it for you.

Anyway, my sense of ISIS, having read the article, is that they believe in perfection, they believe their prophet, they believe in the righteousness of their path.

And this is what they are doing: it seems that the prophet predicted the Apocalypse... what else is new. But this one is with a twist: this one you"ll cause... it is your job as a good follower. Cause it.

The strategy is to cause mayhem and havoc. The weaklings, not fortified by the prophet and the only god, will annihilate themselves.

And, if you look, it is happening. What is going on now is testing.

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How to activate your relationship with your consciousness so you can be guided

Most things that happen inside you, inside Team-YOU, (Team You: body: feelings/emotions, mind, soul, ego, subconscious, history/ancestry, cells/DNA, self/identity, Self, consciousness)) are below your conscious awareness.

Most of the abilities, most of the DNA capacities I activate, need you to get aware of the happenings inside you, or you"ll lose out.

What do I mean "lose out"?

When you pay $25 for the activation of a capacity, an ability becomes available to you. If you don"t use it, you lose the $25. But what more you lose depends on the game you play in life.

Some people don"t play a big game, and for you the loss is negligible.
Some people play bigger game, and for you the loss is thousands, hundreds of thousands of dollars.
And for some of you, it"s millions of dollars, plus happiness, fulfillment, satisfaction, your legacy... you get the picture.

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#Activation

How do you learn to tell low vibration from high vibration? Truth from falsehood?

"It"s easier to evaluate your results through drunken delusion than to gaze soberly in the mirror and face the truth."

When something isn"t working in your life, your relationships, your health, your finances, there is something you don"t know.

The most frequent error people make is assume that what they know, how they know it, is going to make a difference.

The truth, the missing knowledge, unfortunately lies in the gray area of what you don"t know that you don"t know.

Unless something gets teased out, plucked out from that vast grey area, life will never change.

That vast gray area, unfortunately also contains the truth about most of the lies you learned from gurus, from books, from religion, from your peers and from your parent.

Or even from science.

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The capacity of the sight... that gives people like Warren Buffet the edge

Warning: as always, the most important things are explained in the footer part of the post! Don"t miss them!

Some weeks are like this: I do something, see something, write about something important, and on Monday Roy Williams" Monday Morning Memo echoes it.

This is the case this week... You know when you manage to do something whose time has come? Gratifying, rewarding, like the Universe nods in your direction. ((Roy Williams has the capacity of the sight open. But just like me, he doesn"t know it"s a capacity, he doesn"t know it"s DNA, he thinks everyone has it... And most of what he writes delights the people with sight, and eludes the people with the capacity of the sight still closed.))

His article about the Elbs, the Exponential Little Bits of change will make no difference for you or your actions unless you have your DNA capacity of seeing the consequences of your actions opened... or open. You know that something makes no difference when you nod and keep on reading... or when you don"t even nod... lol. ((test your sight on the quotes here: you won"t even comprehend. It is tree of knowledge for you, because without the capacity to see the consequences of your actions, nothing a man with the sight can say that makes sense to you... because you don"t see it.))

He talks about England... and I measured: only 7% of England"s inhabitants have the capacity of sight open...

I have a theory why the percentage is highest in the United States.

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Your invisible heroes... a guidance from fiction: books, movies, plays

I read today"s Monday Morning Memo, as usual, and it made me look. (())

Who are my favorite fictional characters?

At first I looked at the ones that weren"t supposed to survive, weren"t supposed to succeed, because they paralleled my own life experience.

But their influence on the multitudes was minimal, because they were about themselves, or maybe about one other person... and I saw that I have grown beyond that path. I have grown beyond the little Chinese boy"s character, my favorite as a child. I have grown beyond the deaf and blind yet dutiful character of Helen Keller, another favorite character of mine from childhood. I have even grown beyond "Socrates", the orphan boy that became the Peaceful warrior in Dan Millman"s books. The little girl in the movie "King of Masks" or BianLian. that you can watch in the subscribers" area of my site.

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You are out of step with yourself. You are split. You are schizophrenic.

On today"s Talk-to-me call I had an insight: I saw something I had never seen:

You are out of step with yourself.

The you that interfaces with the world is either ahead of or behind the you that you really are. The you that tries to look good, keep up with the appearances is always trying to fix the you that you really are.

No acceptance, no tolerance, no music, no harmony, no peace.

Let me set this straight: the you that you really are doesn"t need to change. That is who you are. On the other hand the you that you show to the world is off... mistaken, messed up...

So, simply put, the messed up one is trying to fix the one who is OK.

No wonder you are so desperate to find some peace.

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Doctor Who... how the doctor lost sight that he is the doctor only once.

Why I love all the Doctors
I love Doctor Who... My favorite thing about the doctor is that he never forgets, never loses sight of the big picture... almost never.

In one of the episodes he does... and it is the episode I go back, and watch it again. To watch the transformation back and forth from doctor to stupid earthbound human back to doctor.

The Doctor is the best illustration I have for living out of the Observer, the Watcher... the part of you that doesn"t get entangled... that doesn"t lose sight of what you are about, what it is about. Brilliant.
1: Because he’s adorable when embarrassed, he’s always learning and growing, and he’s still very much a Time Lord.  Because he’s got precisely the reverse of Matt Smith going on: he’s young by the standards of his own species but old by ours, and it creates the most fascinating dynamic.

2: Because he’s kind, considerate, demonstrative, loving, whimsical, playful and childish, but you do not want to cross him.  Because he believes in the potential for goodness in everyone, even the Daleks, but doesn’t let that blind him to the dangers of the universe.  Because he likes music and funny hats and coats and bow ties.  Because he’s still such a boy, but he’s growing older, too.  Because his departure story is heartrending, and marks a major turning point in who the Doctor is.

 

3: Because Venusian aikido and reversed polarities.  Because of every single thing about his relationships with the Brig, Jo, Liz and Sarah, not to mention Benton and Yates and the Master and Bessie.  Because he’s a man out of his element but stronger than ever.  Because he’s a consummate gentleman.  Because he will kick your ass in velvet and lace.  Because now he’s learned something about loss and pain, and yet it’s taught him that where there’s life, there is always, always hope.

 

4: Because he doesn’t take one single thing seriously–except when it really matters.  Because he’s not afraid to lead revolutions, change history, or even kill, but he appreciates the gravity of those decisions.  Because he’s an eccentric bohemian in a twenty-foot scarf with hair as wild as he is.  Because he’s smarter than the universe, and there has never been a Doctor so impossible to defeat.  Because his major companions are absolutely incredible women, any of whom could easily carry off a show of their own, as they have to be to stand up next to him.  Because there’s no sense in being grown-up if you can’t be childish sometimes.  Because he is an unstoppable individualist and proud of it.  Because the universe is his oyster, and he always manages to find the pearl in it.  Because he’s mad as all the hatters and hares in the seven systems.  Because he’s always laughing, and always will.  Because he’ll insult you to your face if you deserve it.  Because it’s never not the right time for a jelly baby.  And because Tom Baker is the Doctor, and has always said so himself.

 

5: Because cricket, tea, cele
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What is your self-image? Are self-image questions, personality profiles, Kolbe test give you a correct answer?

There is a fundamental built-in error in tests that involve answering questions about ourselves.

I have found that personality tests that rely on your knowing yourself and to predict what you would do in certain situations, are profoundly flawed. ((Some tests I have an experience with: Kolbe test
Hartman value profile
other personality tests your coaches create. ))

I say this after working with thousands of people, one-on-one, observing them, feeling them (I am an empath) and comparing who and how they are compared to what they say about themselves.

The gap is significant between the two.

You believe yourself different, and you fill out your questionnaire. But your actions will still be consistent with who you really are, how you really behave, your real attitude, your real self, and you"ll be way off in your test results... ((And your coach will be way off... if they even look at it your profile at all))

You"ll be like the mad hero, Don Quixote, who lived in a world of his own design, unaware that he was out of sync, and that his actions were mad in the real world. ((Today"s equivalent is the religious person, or the Law of Attraction person, the conspiracy theorist person etc... duped, mistaken, fighting windmills))

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