Showing posts with label concern. Show all posts
Showing posts with label concern. Show all posts

Saturday, March 2, 2019

Capacities, distinctions, intelligence, and success in life: strong correlation.

Let"s start with debunking the current world view, that intelligence is inborn. We are all born tabula raza... a blank slate.

Your intelligence depends on the number of large chunks, neural connections permanently formed in your brain firing together automatically. Those chunks are created in learning.

Reality has two parts: the visible reality, the part that can be perceived by anyone, and the invisible reality that is governed by the invisible dynamics... that you actually need to learn to see.

The invisible reality is an iceberg: the visible part provides clues for the invisible part: that there is something invisible yet real. Depending on how you look at the visible part, through what vantage point, you are going to see different aspects of the invisible. One of the ways, one of the vantage points to look through is the learning to learn course. ((In this article I am illustrating my own method of how to learn something using the "zone of proximal development" by connecting the new material to already strong distinctions. The zone of proximal development is the area where you already have scaffolding, furring strips for the new distinction to attach itself. Most people have very few and very sparsely... and the illusion of knowledge prevents them from actually creating those islands of knowledge... ))

The principle of intelligence is: the more problem solving chunks your brain has, i.e. the more neural connections you have, or speaking in transformational technology terms: the more distinctions you have, the more difficult problems you can solve.

Life is full of difficult problems that you can either solve or you suffer. The most pain comes from other people.


When I measure how many spiritual capacities you have active in your DNA, the correlation between the number of spiritual capacities, the number of distinctions, and success in life is obvious, although the why isn"t quite obvious... yet.

What qualifies a "spiritual" teacher to teach, is that they are one step ahead of their students, one lesson...

At least that is what I thought until this morning.

But...

So... I just finished the Learning How to Learn Course. I learned a lot. I also learned that as a How-to course, it teaches you ABOUT how to learn, but learning to learn is a whole different animal... unless you can turn the how-to into actual learning, learning will not take place.

But the tools and techniques in the course are useful, so someone, maybe me, can actually teach you to learn.

Gradually. Hopefully. Finally, for most of you.

So I have decided to set myself out on a path to learn to teach, to teach myself to teach: teach at least some people to learn. To create distinctions, neural islands of neurons that fire together, automatically. ((The book on Brain Plasticity: The Brain That Changes Itself: Stories of Personal Triumph from the Frontiers of Brain Science by Norman Doidge MD. I read that book. It talks about learning that is not intellectual, therefore even YOU will get that knowing about it, practicing it a little, won"t create the neural automatic island of connection: it talks about blind people learning to see through a patch on their body, a paralyzed stroke induces arm or hand learn to do the movements it needs to learn, etc.

That book really pokes a hole into the worldwide myth that reading a book, watching a video, taking a course will create working knowledge in your brain. If for no other reason, read it if you can. I only have the printed version, so I can"t gift you with the book, sorry.))

In this context, my learning effectiveness: I will measure my success in the active distinctions that work within you... automatically. In the context of the Playground course, whether you can see, automatically, if something is real or not, without having to look at the pdf... Or whether you look "what is the complaint?" without thinking when you are not happy...

A distinction is a group of neurons, in the brain, that gets some work done, without you needing to be conscious of it.


Chewing, swallowing, throwing a ball, are simple distinctions that you can, as an adult, take for granted. No conscious thought required. But when you learned it, it had to be first conscious, and then, through practice, unconscious.

Depending on how many neurons it takes to perform a task, the distinctions are simple or complex.

Distinctions are the key elements to intelligence, intelligent behavior.


Here are a few examples pointing to missing distinctions, and the resulting lack of intelligent behavior:


  • 1. This civil engineer...


    ...was visiting an environmental cleanup site. The stuff to clean up was very dry, and the wind blew.


Engineer or no engineer, our guy didn"t think of putting a handkerchief or a filter over his mouth and nose... so he breathed in the stuff that was deemed an environmental hazard. Now he is coughing, and he is worried.

He has distinctions about some stuff, but not about others, like if it is bad on the ground, it will be definitely bad in his lungs...

Intelligent behavior is impossible when chunks of knowledge is missing or is overpowered by some other concerns... Like wanting to look like a hero, fearless... because the concern would call a dude with filter over his nose and mouth a sissy...

Diagnosis: distinction is either weak, or the concern is too strong... Causing lack of intelligent behavior.

The next thing to do, for this person, is to deal with both issues, missing distinction AND the concern.


  • 2. This university student


    has been in my courses, reading my articles for nearly six years, without ever making a lasting impact on his life.


He comes up with new ideas about why that is, at least once a week. They all sound brilliant. Astounding. Yet, his results in life, in any area, are between zero and none.

Looking at his behavior through the distinction of the how to learn course, I suddenly saw something.

One thing has been bothering me about him for a few months now: even though he knows how to energize his water, even though he knows how important that is, his cell hydration, habitually, drops to scarcity level.

He doesn"t take care of it. He doesn"t drink the coherent water that would keep his cell hydration number above 30%, or maybe he simply stops making it? I haven"t asked. But it is obvious: cell hydration isn"t a distinction for him, it is not automatic for him to make and drink the coherent water... no chunks, he has information but no knowledge. ((In the past six years this student got a disproportionate amount of attention from me... and has managed to turn all that teaching, all that guidance into a big fat zero. His brilliance helped him dupe me... but didn"t help him to create a life worth living for him.

https://youtu.be/DJTt5I8K4Rk?t=30

Somewhere in my reading, actually many places, animals use deceit to lure a predator away from their young. This student uses deceit to lure me away from that fact that he won"t learn.))

As I said above, a distinction fully operational in your brain will work without your conscious thought... So until a distinction, in his case, making and drinking his energized water so his physical self is well enough to support what he is doing, we can safely say that he has probably no useful distinctions in his brain, no chunks, no useful learning has taken place, that would make him act intelligently in life.

He has the brain of a newborn. He may have rules from religion, from his parents, from himself, but they don"t form distinctions, they don"t physically manifest in his brain.

So what prevents him from forming those distinctions? If you think that the two cases are similar, you are right.

What prevents him from forming those distinctions is a concern.


This university student throws everything in the wind, so he can get his concern met: that he is viewed and that he feels brilliant.

That concern, even though it looks innocent, is the altar he sacrifices his whole life on... especially when it comes to learning.

All learning makes you feel stupid, slow, unequal to the task. Intolerable if you have a standard that you have to be brilliant all the time.

Result: he never actually learned anything to the level that permanent brain structures, neural changes would happen in his brain. He is a man without any intelligence.


  • 3. A third student, also an engineer,


    was showing no promising signs that she can be taught anything.


But in my little research into teaching has accidentally taken me to proximal whatever it was... that says that if you can teach what is very close to what the student knows, then it is possible to teach someone. While if you try to teach new things without leaning, building on existing knowledge, you"ll fail.

This student"s access to any and all knowledge is his deep and profound knowledge of horses. The care and training of horses, including turning a horse from disobedient or neurotic into a happy, productive horse.

Amazing, if you ask me.

She even recalls that all her engineering studies were built on this island of knowledge... the horses.

Our job, hers and mine, is to build all new knowledge onto and adjacent to the existing knowledge, so she/you can start living a life larger than what her/your current distinctions allow for.


Your distinctions or the lack of them, stake out the area of life where you can be effective, intelligent, productive, and ultimately happy.

Learning and establishing new distinctions with this knowledge of proximity makes learning fast(er) and possible.

Teaching someone with no distinctions is quite a different bag of tricks... and I don"t know how to do it yet. Until one half-baked distinction becomes permanent, i.e. self-running, there is no hope to ever reach intelligence.

Every polymath, every productive person started out with one distinction that they deepened until it become a solid foundation for all knowledge to be built upon.

That, the first chunk, is the challenge.


In my case, my life turned around, and it is still turning, around a piece of knowledge, a distinction verbalized by Hillel 2500 years ago: "If I am not for me, who is for me? If not now... when? If I am only for myself... who am I?"

It is becoming clear to me that I have a concern to occupy as little of the earth as I can... a kind of "martyr concern" that has been making me not use, not take advantage all that life has to offer. My identity is vested in being the person who can make something from nothing, like the dude in the fairy tale "Stone soup". ((

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pphUfE0ERt0

))

I am slowly learning to counter the concern, and at least some of the time take actions that take care of me. Slowly, but surely. It is a daily struggle.

Until you can conquer your concern, much of the time, you are like a one-legged man in an ass kicking contest... not very good.

The above student examples, the engineer who wants to look strong and fearless, the other guy brilliant, and me: able to live on nothing... are all in for a long road to hoe.

I don"t know the concern of the horse person... It is not that easy to get clarity about THE concern...

But everyone has one main concern that they dance around all their lives... a concern is like having your foot nailed to the floorboards, so you can move ONLY around it...

Your favorite fairy tale may be a clue. Or your favorite hero "script", mine is "the hero who succeeds in the face of incredible odds": disease, racial discrimination, poverty, imprisonment, etc.

I would laugh if it were funny... it is tragic...

PS: As I am editing this article, I am rejoiced to remember that our "brilliant" student may have some area where he has distinctions... and that is pattern recognition. And now that I see it, I can test it if it is really so, and can start help him build a whole body of distinctions on that one distinction, that one island.

As far fetched it sounds, every single half-learned distinction he has can be connected to that one... one by one... not automatically the way he would hope.

His success will depend on his willingness to not be brilliant all the time, in fact to feel stupid and continue learning... Which is a TLB size issue... To what degree he is willing to not be a Twitchy Little Bastard.

Wednesday, June 15, 2016

Why getting well is so difficult for us, people without a Self


There is never a better time to experience what you experience, than right when you experience it.

This morning I was hit with a strong feeling of despair, loneliness.

I didn"t have time to hang out with it, I was in the middle of something. I wanted to shoo it away, and I also wanted to indulge in it.

But then I decided to just feel it, acknowledge it, and let it go. I paid attention to what it said... nodded, wept a little, and let it go.

Is this familiar to you? I didn"t think so. You don"t know who you are, and you don"t want to find out.
There are many reasons you don"t know yourself.
One of these reasons is that you resist your emotions.
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Monday, June 13, 2016

Are you healthy enough to have meaning to your life? Purpose?




Meaning: Following THAT Star. The alternative is Meaningless
This is my quest: to follow that star, no matter how hopeless, no matter how far.



Humans are strange animals: they need meaning to make their lives to feel more than just existing. They need purpose to give a backbone, to give direction, to transform a life of prose to poetry.

But life is, in itself, empty and meaningless... so how do you find the meaning, how do you find the purpose?

I was 38 years old when meaning first entered my life. It was dramatic, and it was life altering.

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Sunday, June 12, 2016

Religion, smart Jews, and being a good person... what do spiritual capacities have to do with it?


This article is politically incorrect, and somewhat philosophical...

Not up for it? Spare yourself frustration, and don"t read it.

OK... now that only the eleven or so readers that are up for it remain reading, I can be blunt, and use some six letter words... lol.

Of course, this is, at least partially tongue in cheek...

OK, I am going to, first talk about a new insight I have on religion, then about Jews, capacities, genetically smarter... and other politically incorrect subjects that are keeping me busy pondering today.
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Sunday, May 29, 2016


Yesterday I sent out a request to my subscribers asking for

a health question that you have answered to yourself and you live that way
one or more actual health questions that concern you, with regards to your health or your loved ones" health
Please let me know if you go to the doctor regularly... it will let me know something about you, that I"d like to know.

It is a holiday weekend and I got surprisingly quite a few answers to my request.

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Thursday, May 5, 2016

Don"t Let What You Can"t Do Stop You From Doing What You Can


Another old article revived... Oldie but goodie.

I woke up this morning with despair in my heart. No reason, just the mood. I stepped on the scale, and I put on half a pound yesterday. It was raining cats and dogs, but the temperature will be normal later today.

Must be Dark Side transmission...

I read some emails, answered them, but didn"t feel like working.

I took some Heaven on Earth Remedy.

I watched some videos. One had a comment under it: "Don"t Let What You Can"t Do Stop You From Doing What You Can"

I took some more Heaven on Earth.

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Saturday, April 30, 2016

How can you tell what is your level of consciousness, what is your vibrational frequency?


The only reliable way I know is to tell someone"s vibration accurately is to muscle test while truly connected to Source, by a person whose vibration is past ego... on or above the level of unconditional love.

About that doesn"t mean you can"t have pointers...So you can get a ballpark estimate of where you are or where another person is...


Stages of consciousness... metaphor

.buried
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.in the basement
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.street level
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.street level but inside a house
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Monday, November 16, 2015

All my life I tried to not sound arrogant. The more I tried the more people thought that I was arrogant.


All my life I tried to not sound arrogant. The more I tried the more people thought that I was arrogant.

Why is this?

I could not answer this question until this afternoon.

I have been walking up and down the hill. I get into conversations, and I have noticed that people are not hiding from me any more. Actually they seem to enjoy talking to me.

Today I talked to an 80 year old man who I thought was shallow... He actually shared his depth with me, and I appreciated and acknowledge that.

He said how refreshing that was to be acknowledged for his depth instead of his brilliance, meaning his PhD and college professor status. ((I live on a street with many University professors, because Syracuse University is less than a mile from here... I could even share with this guy my theory about why all their wives are dying of cancer... I mean the wives of the professors... And maybe that is what started his self-reflection. I told in myself: "if you can"t take this... I have nothing else to give you... lol."))

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#ActivatingAbilities

Friday, October 30, 2015

No concerns... the technology to become free from concerns


It"s 2 pm, and by this time, on a normal day, I have written three articles. But until about 10 minutes ago, I had nothing to say today.

Was I worried? Was I concerned?

I wasn"t. How come?

When you observe yourself, you can see that you are concerned with one thing or another all the time.

You should be this or that. You have to this, you need to that... and you definitely should whatever.

I have severed that connection between myself and "obligations" or concerns years ago when I finally got for myself the Unconditional Love Activator, and "not concerned" was born, a drastic change from who I used to be, always in a knot about stuff that should be.

Now, there is an aspect of this concern, and that is what I really want to write about, and how to set yourself free, able to roam the wide world, instead of being locked into a narrow ditch pattern of life.

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Tuesday, October 6, 2015

An easy way to get to the big picture that can make your life worth living, regardless of the circumstances


Gurus teach this... but obviously even they don"t quite get it... The order of things is this: Being creates the doing and the doing creates the having... If this didn"t make any sense, you are not alone... billions are in the same place... WTF does that mean?!

be - do - have

But getting it would make all the difference for you: suddenly finding constructive actions, actions that actually lead to what you want... And between you and me, that is not a small thing. I get lots of requests to muscle test for people if the actions they decided leads to self-growth, a better future, or not.

So, it is obviously not easy to see.

As anything that is alive, your first and main concern is you. What you have, how you feel, how safe you are, how happy you are.

Most people get stuck here: it is a "level of consciousness" thing... that is the level of consciousness where most people live. Really, 99.99% of humanity.

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#AccessYourPower

Saturday, October 3, 2015

One principle of becoming a Human Being, that if you miss this, you"ll never raise your vibration


What is the difference between a worker and a manager?
What is the difference between the leader and a manager?
What is the difference between leading your life and managing your life?
What is the difference between working in your business and working ON your business?

The answer to all of these question is: the position from where the actions come.

By position I actually MEAN an almost physical position: where are you looking FROM when you make your decisions about what to do.

A lot of my students are stuck in a situation an earlier decision got them into. A bad marriage, bad health, bed relationship, bad job.

There are surprisingly few principles for a human being, which is the next evolutionary level after human. Applying the same principles, honoring them, will also take you to the new evolutionary level.

One of the principles is to make decisions from the whole.
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Friday, September 11, 2015

Authenticity... your power belongs to you


Authenticity examined through movies...

When I watch TV series on Netflix or Amazon, I am working... wouldn"t you like to get a job like that? lol.

When I was in high school, I joined every group, every course, went to every seminar that spoke about movie making, the art.

When I had my high school final exams, I got lucky and I pulled question #40 on movie making... I so fascinated the three teachers that were the "jury" that I upset the exam schedule...

The trick (what I didn"t know} was that I watched the movies on all levels, auditory, visual, and kinesthetic. I felt the feelings of the characters, while I saw them and while I heard them.

360 degree experience.

My experience is that I can go to the movies with anyone, and come out and find out that we saw two different movies... Very weird.

Anyway... One of the phenomenon I can see, hear and feel, that most people can"t, is authenticity.

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#AccessYourPower

Thursday, August 13, 2015

Often things you want look and feel impossible


I wrote this article two years ago about impossible and impossible dreams. I am republishing it because it is a topic I"d like you to see as a series.

Often things you want look impossible.

How do I know it? Because, for me, it is an hourly experience. Why? Because I start so many projects, use so many different methods, software, etc. that require all different skill-sets, most of it is impossible... or so it looks.

I believe that if I can imagine doing it, I can learn how to do it. But learning is hard, and some types of learning are not linear: you beat your head against the wall for a long time, before you see the light.

Most of the things I need to learn are like that.

In addition to things being hard, I also like to go for impossible projects, like transforming humanity, and such.

I know it"s impossible. I know it"s not up to me. I know and yet... I want to give my life to something that is bigger than my life. After all your life is only as big as your projects are.

Let me repeat that:

Your life is only as big as your projects are.

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#contextisdecisive, #Depression, #Raiseyourvibration, #UnconditionalLoveActivator

Thursday, August 6, 2015

Respect: look again... but this time differently




In the movie, Stranger Than Fiction, ((Stranger than Fiction (2006 film) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Stranger than Fiction is a 2006 American comedy-drama-fantasy film directed by Marc Forster, written by Zach Helm, and starring Will Ferrell, Maggie Gyllenhaal ...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WDwTQ57YyzI

)) our hero is doing what he is doing, unconsciously.

When Harold Crick, the hero of the movie, starts hearing the narrating voice in his head, what the voice says takes him out of his unconsciousness, his usual way of doing things, going through life like a drone, and this changes his life.

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#Raiseyourlevelofconsciousness, #Raiseyourvibration, #Reclaim

Sunday, July 5, 2015

I wrote to a client: Grow Some Balls!


It"s Sunday, and as usual, I had a profound conversation with my friend. We missed one Sunday in this past eight years, I think.

I had more insights than in a normal month... and here are a few:

1. We are bred to become soft.


The question you"d ask if you wanted to know if they succeeded with you is this: Can you take it? Can you take hard, long, exhausting, painful, cruel, murderous.

If the answer is no, or "yes, but I don"t want to" then they succeeded.

When things don"t go your way, when things are not fast enough for your taste, when someone is not kind and encouraging, when something doesn"t taste, sound, feel good the first time, when something takes consistency and consistent effort to reach... then you"ll quit.

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#CreateYourNewSelf, #DNAactivation, #ExpandingHumanBeing, #Raiseyourvibration

Monday, June 8, 2015

Want higher vibration? Here is what to expect...


The names "vibration" or vibrational frequency are a total misnomer.

Vibration is an indicator of your relationship to life, to other people and to yourself. It"s an indicator of where you are looking from, it"s an indicator of what you see. Feelings, energy, success are a fallout from those.

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#attachments, #Raiseyourvibration

Monday, April 6, 2015

Psychic and Spiritual Exploitation by Fake Gurus


This is a tremendous Osho talk... timeless, and distinguishes what gets you hooked on false gurus, what they use to hook you... Pay attention: it is not easy to get that you are the cause, they are just opportunistic: you give them the opportunity to exploit you.

Once you become clear, once you
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Monday, August 25, 2014

NEW: What do you need to do to raise your vibration?

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Mary asks: what do I need to do to raise my vibration?

To be able to answer that question, we need to agree on what the vibrational number indicates.
What does the vibrational number indicate?
Unfortunately, unlike a speedometer that only measures one thing: speed, unlike a thermometer, that only measures one thing, temperature, the vibrational scale measures a lot more.

And the Anna Karenina principle starts kicking in: Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way. Or the way Aristotle expressed it: For men are good in but one way, but bad in many.

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