Showing posts with label being right. Show all posts
Showing posts with label being right. Show all posts

Wednesday, January 30, 2019

The magic of synergy: Bach Profile and Mustard Seed... together

I got an email from a student who was watching my Mustard Seed video and also bought his Bach Profile.

Both are vehicles for deep insight, but together they are unbeatable, because how you go about deciding what is your higher power that you are going to honor, as in the 12 step programs, will come completely consistent with your Bach Profile.

People want things simple... but they want them simpler than they should be. So they believe god did it all... and it is still the same god that does it. And, of course, that makes them ineffective in life, and do or not do things. ((The current humanity"s approach to everything is the opposite of synergistic. Looking at a narrow interest, through a narrow cone of vision, ignoring everything else.

  • Medicine, traditional and alternative... totally non-synergistic, even if they falsely call themselves wholistic...

  • Science

  • Education

  • Food


Even when someone offers you something synergistic, like a system, you"ll pick and choose what you like, and ignore the rest.

The result: no results, no health, no wealth, no peace of mind.

Being able to see the big picture means: seeing, on the same screen, the seemingly unconnected things... At the present time, the average cone of vision, in percentage of the whole picture, is 3% for all of humanity, 6% for my clients.

As long as you have such narrow cone of vision, you need to be willing to move your eyes rapidly from one screen to the next... or you will still have no chance for synergy.

I think this is what is going on in the current Playground: people get stuck in a little corner of the universe, completely ignoring the rest as non-existent.))

Let"s take the Mustard Seed principle: that you need "faith" the size of a mustard seed to be able to receive the benevolence of the Universe, of god, the benefit of your work, the good health you need to live a good life, the love of a child... etc.

Without that "faith" you won"t get all that.

Worse than that:

  • without that you won"t get the benefits of my teaching.

  • You won"t get the benefits of the Source Energies...

  • Without that you won"t eat and drink the way your body needs you to do it.

  • Without that you"ll listen to the mind, to rules made by the mind,

  • without that you are like a driftwood pushed around on the river.


Depending on your Bach Profile that shows the main ways you express, in your life, desire to receive for the self alone, you are having a hard time finding that "faith"... I still don"t have a better name for it, although...

If I had to tell you what it feels like, to me, I can.


I arrive to a place where my base nature, discouraged and quits, seems to be the way to go, I have been teetering. It takes only a second to not jump the gun... but stay there still as I can be.

I am there about ten times a day... used to be a lot more. Discouraged and quits. Quits even looking.

You, in the same situation probably say,

  • Meh, it"s not worth it. or

  • Meh, I can"t do it. or

  • Meh, f... it. Or

  • Meh I will never amount to anything.

  • Meh, the world is against me.

  • Meh, I am too stupid.


I say: this isn"t working out. And that used to be enough for me to quit.


But ever since I have internalized my "higher power", and it took me decades, because I had no teacher, no mentor, no coach to help me with that, ever since it has become "second nature" for me to wait, I have stopped quitting every time. I still do, but only a small fragment of the time... not all the time. Less than 10% of the time... and then, most of the time, I still recover, after a little or a lot of suffering.

When I am looking, the secret is to keep my eyes open, keep my insides open, be willing to be surprised.


I used to hate surprises: it proved to me that I wasn"t superior. It was difficult giving that up.

You see, what is your way is what we call "payoffs" that keep you being the same.

I called the shot: it is not working, or not working out, and I quit.

Pretty much the pattern to create a life that is not worth writing home about.

Your payoff is a stuck way that you keep yourself the same...


The most frequent payoff is being right. Being right about people mistreating you. Being right about being better/worse than them. But mostly about stuff that happened decades ago, but are still festering.

Most people don"t want to know themselves, by the way. Why? Because they don"t want to change.

Why wouldn"t someone, who is miserable, want to change? Boggles the mind.

But it is still the payoffs that hold the "purse string" or the puppet string: The payoffs that keep on giving short term glee, long term suffering.

The saying: you can either be right or happy... you can either be right or rich... is from this payoff dynamic.


Every time the payoff runs the show, you cannot be happy, and you cannot be rich... or thin... or healthy... or successful... or write your thesis... or go to bed at a decent time... or be kind to people and have peace and harmony around you.

Everyone focuses on the costs... complain about it... try to fix it... blame others for it...

But the cause of the costs is in the payoffs.


As long as being right is more important to you than what you want, you"ll be wretched...

And being right is just one of the 11 possible payoffs.

Helen Keller was wrong suggesting that you should keep your face to the light... wrong advice, a straight way to hell.

Keep your attention on the payoff... catch it before it wreaks havoc, and you"ll be on the strait and narrow to heaven.

Having chosen a higher power is mighty useful in that process.

Some feedback from other buyers of the Bach profile tell me that you may not be able to see where your linchpin evil inclination lies... That may be good news... It tells me that you have been looking at the wrong place, and that"s why things are not working so well for you...

Mastering your inner dynamic, even if it takes time and work, is the only work worth doing... because the results are heaven on earth... truly.

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Buy your Bach Profile

So what is the synergistic process between the Bach Profile and the Mustard Seed?


More often than not, your linchpin "emotion", your Bach Profile issue is blocking the way to your Mustard Seed.

And right after that, your lack of faith blocks your view of your linchpin issue.

Synergy means that the sum total of each elements is more than the mathematical sum... ((synergy: the interaction or cooperation of two or more organizations, substances, or other agents to produce a combined effect greater than the sum of their separate effects. The opposite of synergy is fragmentation, disconnected... narrow cone of vision.)) so in this case one mustard seed plus one Bach linchpin issue will result in an almost infinite increase.

Here is an example: one of my students and I share a big issue: we have an issue with trust... Because of this trust issue, our dominant behavior is to frantically avoid the domination of anything and anyone.


Going deep and finding a higher power that can"t dominate but can guide is the first element of a path towards a life that can work... because avoiding domination renders you predictably a non-achiever.

And then, armed with that higher power (faith?) you can start mitigating your resistance to be told what to do... and at least some of the time you"ll do what you were suggested that you do.

I help people deal with their core issues, mostly in private coaching, because there is just isn"t enough time to do it on group calls.


If you think you are ready to deal with the core issues, ask me if I am available to coach you. Private coaching isn"t inexpensive... and it isn"t just one session: it is a process.

Wednesday, May 25, 2016

What is the vibration of being right?


One of the most desired possibilities, one of the most desired life anyone can have is a life where you are free to be yourself, warts and all.

It is human nature to be self-critical, it is because of our ambivalent nature of feeling everything and the opposite.

There is no one on the planet who is all good. It is not possible. It is a physical impossibility. It"s unnatural.

You have to be good and you have to be bad, and you have to have high thoughts and you have to have low thoughts. Actions: you have a choice about. But feelings, thoughts... no choice.

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Tuesday, May 24, 2016

What else... Where else... A spiritual practice


One of my "favorite" practices is this:

I find out that I misunderstood something. It cost me... It always does.

I ask the question: I wonder what else I misunderstand? I wonder what else I misread? I wonder where else I am sure I understand and I don"t.

Or I make a mistake... Where else do I make a mistake like this? Or this same mistake...

Because how you do anything is how you do everything!

I sent out an email last night asking for people who haven"t raised their hand to work with me yet, to raise their hands if they are potentials to work with me.

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Friday, May 6, 2016

Your soul correction and commitment: What is the connection?


As I have said before, soul correction is a set of character defects, specific to your soul correction, that you need to overcome in a lifetime.

Track record through written history shows, that unless someone has guidance, expert guidance, they will not overcome the character defects: it is as if the character defect protects itself.

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Saturday, November 28, 2015

Want to become a nice person? Here is a clue that you aren"t



Every soul correction is about correcting the desire to receive (Light) for the self alone.
If you were born, you have a soul correction.

There is no jumping into "desire for the sake of sharing", which selfless, charitable, do gooders try to do.

Being charitable, giving, do-gooding, selfless is NOT desire for the sake of sharing, it is just more "desire to receive for the self alone."

Bummer, eh?

As I am sitting here pondering one of my favorite students" Reclaim share where she is proudly telling me that her husband walked in during the webinar, evidently hungry, she could courageously ignore him and not be interrupted.

My, my...

You may not hear anything: I hear "nasty piece of work", or simply: "desire to receive for the self alone."

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Fresh Insights on the DNA capacities activation


As I often do, this morning I revisited a movie I saw a few years ago, The Constant Gardener.

In that movie, a British activist and a Kenyan doctor work to expose the pharmaceutical companies that experiment with new drugs on Kenyan people, who die from the experimental drugs. The activist and the doctor get gunned down by Kenyan hired thugs.

No big deal, so why am I weeping every time I think of it?

So this morning I looked at it.

This is what I saw:

It"s a purely cultural rule to see value in life. Without that rule, human greed would completely destroy everyone who interferes with their greed...

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Saturday, October 17, 2015

The lesson of Doctor Who for those who want to raise their vibration


I published an article on Doctor Who a week or so ago: I did not write that article, no matter what you thought when you read it.

That article was written before the current Doctor came to the scene.

The Doctor, 1000 years old, periodically dies and regenerates into a whole different look and personality "new" Doctor.

It is jarring for everyone involved, especially to the previous companions of The Doctor. The doctor looks dramatically different, and is a dramatically different personality.

As I can tell, one aspect of The Doctor needed to be made obvious: his vulnerability.

There is a great video compilation at the end of this article... worth watching, even if you have never seen the show.

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#Raiseyourvibration

Tuesday, October 13, 2015

How to take an active role in raising your vibration: the process


Let me repeat the process that will begin your active role in raising your vibration, that will begin your process of becoming a Human Being.

If you are offended that I say that you are not a human being, please give it up. Beingness is not available fully on the level humanity is existing, and if you live in the United States, you are even less likely to be on the level than people who live in countries where pretentious living is not the norm.

With that said, let"s see, again, what is the process. What is triggering this article, is the response I am getting to the article: no understanding, none whatsoever.

Now, the process is simple. It is not easy, but at least it is simple.


Step 1: What do you want to accomplish?

You look at yourself, you look at your life, and you see where you are, you see what you have, and you decide what you want to have. Some result...

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#SpiritualPractice

Sunday, October 11, 2015

what does spirituality have to do with the quality of your life? Part 1


My method of growing myself, my method of growing what can be known for humans, is running conquering-new-territories campaigns into the unknown. ((I am using military language here, given that I have been reading Genghis Khan stuff for months...))

It is about leading scouting and conquering military campaigns into the unknown and unknowable, and I do it on my Sunday morning calls... the one I have been having for 8 years now. Every Sunday.

Some calls are huge campaigns, today"s was like that, and most calls are maintenance, cleaning up, clarifying... All needed for a coherent view.

In today"s call, the conversation was about the question: what does spirituality have to do with the quality of your life??

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Saturday, October 3, 2015

One principle of becoming a Human Being, that if you miss this, you"ll never raise your vibration


What is the difference between a worker and a manager?
What is the difference between the leader and a manager?
What is the difference between leading your life and managing your life?
What is the difference between working in your business and working ON your business?

The answer to all of these question is: the position from where the actions come.

By position I actually MEAN an almost physical position: where are you looking FROM when you make your decisions about what to do.

A lot of my students are stuck in a situation an earlier decision got them into. A bad marriage, bad health, bed relationship, bad job.

There are surprisingly few principles for a human being, which is the next evolutionary level after human. Applying the same principles, honoring them, will also take you to the new evolutionary level.

One of the principles is to make decisions from the whole.
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Thursday, July 30, 2015

Winners don"t fight what is: they use it. The ones that fight are broken.


To all the people that had their anchor-to-doom attachment pulled, I recommended that they start using the Unconditional Love Activator. Why?

Because the capacity of allowing need to be first practiced between you and you. Between you and your actions. Between you and your feelings, thoughts, and urges.
Without first allowing what is, you will ALWAYS be ineffective, bruised, and beaten.
I have learned this the hard way. I am a very forceful person by nature, and that is a horrible thing for a coach. Forcefulness create resistance in the other person, and instead of smooth transition to desirable actions, I trigger fighting, belligerence, and ultimately failure.

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#AccessYourPower, #attachments, #Raiseyourvibration

Wednesday, July 22, 2015

What did Genghis Khan, the greatest conqueror in history do to raise his people"s IQ?


I have been reading about the Mongols, the nomadic people that occupied lands and people in the 13th century, from the Pacific Ocean to the Mediterranean Sea, in the 13th Century under Genghis Khan.

99% of those Mongols didn"t read, didn"t write. Their average IQ (my measurement) was the same as college educated people"s today. Their available IQ was 90%, as opposed to today"s college educated people, whose available IQ is less than 80%. Which means, those Mongols were more intelligent than you. Ugh, that hurts.

What is the secret difference between them and you, that they were able to conquer and you are not? And what could you borrow from them, even though you are not a steppe warrior?

Here are my insights that I hope will be useful for you today:

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#DNAactivation, #ExpandingHumanBeing, #Raiseyourvibration

Monday, July 6, 2015

If you keep forgetting what you are up to... or if you keep procrastinating


The fear of losing sight of what you want...

You know what you want. And you want to march to it now. But of course the world doesn"t work that way, you need to sleep, eat, go to the bathroom, job, family...

Then opportunities knock. For some, opportunities for fun and companionship. For others, adventure, business, learning.

They say: don"t take your eyes off the ball... That turns out to be another myth that takes away your power to reach your goal, to get what you want.

Nothing can be reached by a straight line, except the refrigerator, the TV and your bed. Oh, and facebook and youtube... Even my site...

So how does this really work?

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#AccessYourPower, #newcapacities, #Raiseyourvibration, #Zapamyth

Thursday, June 11, 2015

When you realize that YOU are wasting your life... Updated


How do YOU waste your life? How do YOU leak?
A student of mine watched a movie last night. In the movie she heard the following dialogue:

"Thank you for saving my life" "Don’t waste it."

She cried. Later her husband was picking a fight with her. She stepped back ((she"d learned how to in the Second Phase Activators course)) and didn"t react.

An hour later the husband came downstairs. She offered him tea. He apologized for his behavior.
Why am I sharing this with you? Because one way or another we are all wasting our life, or most of it.

The most useful question I have found to snap me out of this wasteful way of being is:
What is using my perfectly good life right now?

Here are some examples. All are life-wasters that you can eliminate by bringing consciousness to life... stopping for a moment, and choose.... Helping you with that are, of course, the the activators.


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Saturday, April 25, 2015

What is all-of-it like? benevolent and disinterested? angry and frustrated?


I had the most peculiar experience today that forever changed my relationship to Source.

I have been muscle testing everything, and the results have been erratic, and even my name came out as no: Is my name Sophie? No.

That phenomenon is called "turned" when what means "no" become what normally means "yes".

There is a way to turn oneself back... so no worries.

This "turning" has been becoming more and more frequent, so today I asked the question...

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#attachments, #mites, #MuscleTesting, #Raiseyourvibration

Tuesday, April 21, 2015

Muscle testing course... with an audio that instantly connects you


Why you need muscle testing
One of the most useful things when you are working with the invisible, is the tool of accurate muscle testing.

The first problem with muscle testing is that it"s not accurate unless you manage to connect to Source (i.e. be outside of your mind and outside of your ego, interest, vanity, looking good, and being right) while you are doing it.It"s not easy, and therefore you should not trust your muscle testing, unless you can connect to Source.Unfortunately, only a few of the people I have taught have actually been able to stay connected and muscle test... They can do one or the other, but not together.

So, this morning, I asked Source if there was a way, like a tone, that would instantly disrupt the horizontal... i.e. the ego, etc. and put you into connection, whether you want to or not, though I guess you want to.

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Friday, February 7, 2014

NEW: Don"t look backwards unless you want to go that way - Ralph Waldo Emerson

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Summary: This is a complement piece to the previous article about letting go.

This article goes more below the surface, more below the obvious... so you cannot keep it on the level of the society approved level of inane...

Is the quote in the title a true guidance statement, or is it one of those "sounds good" mind-numbing nothings perfectly suitable for the Facebook pretentious crowd?

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