Showing posts with label architect. Show all posts
Showing posts with label architect. Show all posts

Friday, July 8, 2016

One path to Self you may want to take


One of the capacities you want to cultivate is the capacity of being in awe. Awestruck, awe-inspired.

Why? Because unless you can be moved on the inside, you are dead and I can"t help you... nobody can.

Unless you can attain to a certain level of awe, you are not going to be able to have a purpose to your life, or love, or rise above the pedestrian existence of the current humanity.

And no, I am not going to turn it on for you, please don"t ask.

This is a project you need to invent for yourself, and try to get in the state of awe. Inspiring stories, inspiring books, inspiring people, inspiring movies.

Awe is being present to the beyond... the beyond of the level where you are, the beyond of the knowable universe... from where all power comes.

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Wednesday, June 8, 2016

How to get things done, even if you don"t quite know what you need to do?


This used to happen to me all the time: I"d get an email with a link. I"d go to the page, I"d love the results the guy is having, I"d want it. I"d buy it... then... I can"t use it. Even the tutorial videos don"t help: I lost my "vision."

How come we buy things. While we watch the sales video, we feel clear about our need to have this, we feel clear about how it"s going to fit into what we are already doing, we feel clear about what to do.

Then the magic moment comes: we are sitting in front of the product, and we have no idea about any of that.

I hear that only one to two percent of buyers, on average, use the products they bought. Whether it is a software, a marketing method, a workout regimen, the Water Energizer®, a meditation program, a spiritual practice... whatever it is, the results are the same.

What happened? They nodded.
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Saturday, May 28, 2016

That which does not kill us, makes us stronger


A few years ago I lost my sense of smell.

Then I changed my diet and the sense of smell came back.

Surprisingly I often smell things that didn"t seem to be there... Bringing up memories of the times I smelled the same... good smell, bad smell, neutral smell.

It"s hot here, unseasonably hot, and to accommodate it I am taking cold showers and I am eating differently.
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Monday, May 23, 2016

The importance of knowing what you want


Knowing what you want to achieve, is one thing that is missing in you. Another name for that is called "mental representation" of what you want to achieve.

Mental representation is a detailed picture, so detailed and so tangible, that you can pinpoint where reality is deviating from it... and how.

Mental representation is a spiritual capacity that sits squarely on a lot of other spiritual capacities, so obviously it is not part of the first seven most people have, not even part of the first 13, many professionals have, not even part of the first 20, that doctors have. And, believe it or not, it is not even part of the first 30, that most millionaires, billionaires have.

Bill Gates doesn"t have it. Warren Buffet has it.
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Tuesday, May 3, 2016

Knowledge, Strategy, Execution, is that enough for success?


I lead a workshop on Sunday. I had knowledge, I had strategy. I executed it. It was sloppy. What was missing?

I didn"t know. But "god" works in mysterious ways, the book I am reading has an answer that shows me what has been missing for me on Sunday and all my life.

The book, Peak, the new science of expertise, calls it Mental Representation.

Mental Representation is being able to see the finished product in your mind"s eye, and also see the process getting there, so you can anticipate missteps, and can correct, given that you know how it is, how it looks when it is perfect.

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Monday, April 25, 2016

Republished: No One Is A Prophet In Their Own Land, Passover And Easter: What Is This All About?


Passover and Easter around, you"ll spend time with family. You"ll see examples of "No One Is A Prophet In Their Own Land."

You"ll be on both sides... by the way. But if you are one of my students, you will feel that you have something to teach your family: and no one will be interested. Get prepared!

In fact they will try to discourage you from continuing to pursue what you pursue when you spend time with me or my writing.

I"ve been teaching the Original Design for five years.

None of the original participants, that were my friends, are around, except one... barely.

I have been going through hell trying to get why that is, and what it is that I need to see.

It is true that no one is a prophet in their own land.
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Republished: Are you running on empty?


Are you running on empty?

Yesterday, on the Muscle Testing Workshop one of the students said something, and I started to laugh uncontrollably. I laughed for minutes, it seemed, and could not stop for a long time. I wept more from laughing than most people cry from sadness, lol.

I have been observing myself the past two weeks or so, and my joy of life, my satisfaction level, my experience of being alive has been going down steadily with every passing day. Yesterday I got close to breaking point.

I was exhausted. So I thought that I needed rest. But when I muscle tested myself I was not tired. I was running on empty.

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Thursday, November 19, 2015

An Atlantic article: What does ISIS really want?



What ISIS Really Wants
from the Atlantic

The Islamic State is no mere collection of psychopaths. It is a religious group with carefully considered beliefs, among them that it is a key agent of the coming apocalypse. Here"s what that means for its strategy—and for how to stop it.

What is the Islamic State?


Where did it come from, and what are its intentions? The simplicity of these questions can be deceiving, and few Western leaders seem to know the answers. In December, The New York Times published confidential comments by Major General Michael K. Nagata, the Special Operations commander for the United States in the Middle East, admitting that he had hardly begun figuring out the Islamic State"s appeal. "We have not defeated the idea," he said. "We do not even understand the idea." In the past year, President Obama has referred to the Islamic State, variously, as "not Islamic" and as al-Qaeda"s "jayvee team," statements that reflected confusion about the group, and may have contributed to significant strategic errors.


What to Do About ISIS?

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#Greatstuff

Wednesday, November 18, 2015

As promised: what is vibration? What does the vibration number measure?


I promised in my email... and here it is: my current understanding of the vibrational number

Dr. David Hawkins, whose vibrational or consciousness table I have been using to explain what the numbers I give you when I measure your vibration, thought that your emotional state correlates closely and well with your level of consciousness.

Instead of arguing that... what is there to argue?

You feel the way you feel.

On the other hand, if you look at those emotional states, it could be said that they hide, hide well, beingness states.

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#ActivatingAbilities, #ExpandingHumanBeing

Saturday, November 14, 2015

Notes from today"s DNA capacity activation webinar... and more. Lots of insights to share


Every time I do something new, I hate it and learn something new.

We had the webinar where I activated self-trust and humility for people who were on the call... subscribers to my mailing list only.

They were also students and customers... no surprises here.

There have been a few surprises, that I"d like to share:


one needs trust in others to allow me to "do them" on a public call...

depending on the level of trust, a person can get a capacity activated even if it is not directed specifically at them

people with the least amount of trust are the most fickle: they try anything and then get all messed up: full of attachments from their escapades.

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#Raiseyourvibration

Tuesday, November 3, 2015

How to make your new DNA activated capacity actually work for you



Unconscious Incompetence: the missing item
Like knowledge, capacities are either conscious or not.

When a knowledge, a skill, a capacity is conscious, you know to reach for it when it would be useful. It is like you know you have a Phillips screwdriver... and you reach for it.

But if you have never had a Phillips screwdriver, as far as you are concerned, you have to substitute other methods to screw in a screw, imperfect tools for an imperfect result, or give it up and find another screw. Makes sense so far?

To know to reach for it is not automatic, because you didn"t know you had it.

When I activate a formerly dark DNA capacity, when I switch it on, you don"t know you have it. You even paid for it, but you don"t know what"s missing, you only see that life is not quite working in a certain arena, just like the natives saw the ripples in the water, but could not see the ships... seeing ship with sails was a missing capacity for them.

A missing capacity is like the missing item, in the missing item exercise I have written about and have coached hundreds with it.
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#DNAactivation

Sunday, November 1, 2015

Take back your life... Take back your power... The value of proving that you can


About two years or so after I graduated from architecture school, I was assigned to manage a project. A big one. A university in Oran, Algeria.

I wasn"t assigned because I was so good. Looking back I was green. I didn"t have the vision. I didn"t have the big picture. I didn"t have even the small picture.

Then a new person came to manage the department, and he sent me back to be a draftsperson to prove myself from the ground up.

As any self-respecting arrogant person would, I said that I didn"t have to prove anything... and I quit.

It was arguably the worst thing I could do for my career as an architect, and it created irreparable damage inwardly too... I damaged the trust between me and me, I damaged the trust between the ego and me. I now had quitting as an option... and it set me on a path of floating unhappy leaf... damaged goods, for a few years.

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Friday, October 30, 2015

No concerns... the technology to become free from concerns


It"s 2 pm, and by this time, on a normal day, I have written three articles. But until about 10 minutes ago, I had nothing to say today.

Was I worried? Was I concerned?

I wasn"t. How come?

When you observe yourself, you can see that you are concerned with one thing or another all the time.

You should be this or that. You have to this, you need to that... and you definitely should whatever.

I have severed that connection between myself and "obligations" or concerns years ago when I finally got for myself the Unconditional Love Activator, and "not concerned" was born, a drastic change from who I used to be, always in a knot about stuff that should be.

Now, there is an aspect of this concern, and that is what I really want to write about, and how to set yourself free, able to roam the wide world, instead of being locked into a narrow ditch pattern of life.

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Sunday, October 18, 2015

More on stupid/smart


Every success proves nothing. It can be luck, it can be accident, it can be smarts... you can"t be sure.

I am an architect by trade... and all my life as an architect I was wondering if I was talented. I could never say for certain. I could win contests, I could win awards, talent is not proven by them.

Finally I gave it up and sighed a sigh of freedom and relief.

You are the same way about being smart... or whatever is your issue. (Some people have an issue with being liked, loved, valued, respected, etc. But I think everyone has some issue with smarts. I could be wrong...)

My recommendation is that you consider the Forrest Gump saying: Stupid is as the stupid does... i.e. the only stupid thing you can do is not judge accurately what you need to see to make a good decision.

If you rush, or already know... the action is stupid, and that"s that.

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Saturday, October 3, 2015

One principle of becoming a Human Being, that if you miss this, you"ll never raise your vibration


What is the difference between a worker and a manager?
What is the difference between the leader and a manager?
What is the difference between leading your life and managing your life?
What is the difference between working in your business and working ON your business?

The answer to all of these question is: the position from where the actions come.

By position I actually MEAN an almost physical position: where are you looking FROM when you make your decisions about what to do.

A lot of my students are stuck in a situation an earlier decision got them into. A bad marriage, bad health, bed relationship, bad job.

There are surprisingly few principles for a human being, which is the next evolutionary level after human. Applying the same principles, honoring them, will also take you to the new evolutionary level.

One of the principles is to make decisions from the whole.
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Tuesday, September 15, 2015

Money... grow it... Part 2... Inventory


Most people start pretty much anything with what they want. That is the starting point, that is also, most of the time, the context. ((The context is a statement of why you are doing what you are doing. ))

But it is a default context, and it is not empowering. ((

When something is empowering, it gives you a sense of real power to do what you intend to do.
When something is not empowering, it is just there, but no assistance is gotten from it.
When something is disempowering, it takes away your power.

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If you are the alpha and the omega of things, if everything is about you, then you are going to be wretched, or if you already are wretched, you are going to stay that way, unless things start to be NOT about you.

The job is to get out of the default context and into something empowering.
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#Money

Can you change by changing what you say? Why aren"t your affirmations make money appear for you?


Back in 1987 I took a course about money. I had been poor, just a tad poorer than most of my life.

I remember working in New York City as an architect for hire, freezing my ears off... the weather always felt worse in the wind-tunnels of the New York City streets.

My two big investments were ear muffs and boots. It was more important than food: you can be hungry and alive... these were mostly my two choices: full or alive.

I took the train to the City from New Jersey, and spent all my time daydreaming about stuff... stuff I wanted, stuff I needed, stuff I had to have... as in "I have to have that!"

Then I did this course. The main message of the course was that you can change your relationship to money by simply speaking some magic words.

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#Abundance

Sunday, August 23, 2015

Is it nourishing or is it titillating?


How our sense of what is nourishing and what is junk got atrophied

I like reading and watching investigative, detective, police procedural books and movies.

I have noticed a new trend: when I ask myself at the end of a show, for example, I have no idea what exactly happened, who done it... minutes after the show.

So how is that possible? Am I the only one, the only stupid person? And if not, how come the millions of viewers don"t cry bloody murder... to set the creators of the shows straight?

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Friday, June 5, 2015

If you live like you have to feel different to do different, you are screwed. Guaranteed


What keeps you stuckI am starting see that what keeps you stuck is that you identify yourself with your thoughts or your feelings, or both.

Bad news: Thoughts and feelings are reactionary: Without a circumstance changing, neither of them will change, and life will continue to go downhill.

Your thoughts and feelings can only change when something else changes. Why? Because thoughts and feelings are like a thermometer. They are a reaction to something else... Thermomenter reacts to the temperature. Feelings and thoughts react to some other circumstance.

Unless somne circumstance changes, nothing will change.

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Thursday, May 14, 2015

What is good for society is not good for the individual!


This was the exact insight I had in 1977, after I read the book, Brave New World.

I lived in communist Hungary at the time. I was an award winning architect, the daughter of a statesman, and suddenly I had the insight: the great system, the great idea of "nobody left out" left everyone left out.

There was no room for individual achievement. For individual growth. For being an individual. That wasn"t part of the deal: if you were, you suddenly weren"t part of the everybody, you were the one left out.

Human evolution happens through individual evolution, but in the most advanced, the most prosperous, the most efficient, productive nations people are dumb as a door knob.

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