Showing posts with label child. Show all posts
Showing posts with label child. Show all posts

Sunday, June 26, 2016

Want to be high vibration? Leave the basement of your being... get well.


I woke up this morning. For the second day in a row, I am bursting of energy, more energy than I know what to do with.

I have been sorting my laundry. I have been cleaning the stove top, the sinks... doing things the I turned away from before, because I didn"t have anything to give it.

I went for a quick walk yesterday.

I am getting a lot more done even in my business.

I am starting to get some realizations that I did not expect.

For one: humanity is not ready to raise their vibration.

You are trying to put the cart in front of the horses.

You are worrying about the wrong thing. About the trip to the penthouse... but you are in the basement, and the elevator doesn"t go down there.

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Sunday, May 22, 2016

Time to reinvent yourself as someone you can love


You live in a world of your own design... Time to reinvent yourself as someone you can love

Your own design is like a filter you look through. You can"t see the filter, just like you don"t see the window unless you touch it...
A filter is like a pair of glasses...
A filter is also like a pair of glasses... They can be dark tinted, they can be yellow, green... and the world occurs differently with each pair of glasses. You can"t see that it"s the glasses that make the world look the way the world looks to you... unless you can take it off...

You can see only the ripples. The indication that there is something there...

It"s the ripples that we don"t like... we don"t like the things we do, the things we think, the things we feel. We want to change the ripples. But the ripples are the surface of the iceberg... hidden, invisible...
But you can"t change something that you don"t know. You can"t change something that you don"t see.
We all want to reinvent ourselves, our world. Because what we have now is not working too well, not serving us too well. We can"t have what we want, and we suffer.

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Thursday, May 5, 2016

Doing your soul correction, shifting your state of being, toughening up


What is the easiest method to shift someone"s state of being?

We already know. Children, when they cry because they hurt themselves, can be brought out of crying by directing their attention to something more interesting, more engaging.

We use it in the Soaring Method.

I use it in almost every coaching conversation I have with people who are stuck in some unproductive state of being, like sadness, despair, maybe even resistance.

State of being, mode of being, beingness... all are outside of what you call self-awareness...

Self-awareness on the level of human is all physical and emotional.

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Updated: A Time To Give Thanks. But To Who? For What? Mundane Or Significant? Habit And Duty Or Privilege?


I wrote this article five years ago. Sometimes the way to get ahead is to go back five years and start from there.

Recently the readership of this blog has changed, not to my liking. I"d like to return to how it was five years ago, when people with sincere desire to change visited, and asked for help.

OK, here is the old article... hopefully all typos are corrected.



Thanksgiving: a time to give thanks. But to who? For What? Mundane or Significant? Habit and Duty or Privilege?

In searching what I am really thankful for, I went through all the things I could be thankful for.

The air I breathe? the fact that I woke up this morning? the sunshine on this winter day on my window... hey it"s so strong I had to lower the blinds! lol

Or the roasted beet salad with goat cheese (yumm) I am making as part of Thanksgiving dinner?

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Thursday, April 28, 2016

Can you heal yourself? Holographic universe or intelligent universe?


My habit is to read one or two non-fiction books, cover to cover, the old fashioned way, and then about 600 pages worth of fiction.

My choice of fiction is historical novels, mostly. I like the short and sweet novellas 60-120 page long pieces, from the Foreworld Saga, that for me started with the book Mongoliad.

These books are perfect for me. They are fantastical. They always have heroes, and incredible odds, and the characters are larger than life.

Just like I used the Medium series to learn how to hold guidance, I am using these books to show me how guidance can be even more difficult to see ahead of time, and why it is so important to surrender one"s immediate agenda to guidance.
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Healing... is that a negative word? Is that a sign of negativity?


Did you know that if you say: I need healing, what you are saying is that you are sick?

This includes inner healing, faith healing, etc...

And when you start from something wrong... like "I am sick", you are on your way to create a context that is misery every step of the way.

If I needed to define what negativity is, it"s that "what is is wrong, and it needs to be fixed."

Yesterday I was leading my Theta State training webinar, and I felt horrible. Partially, because I wasn"t feeling well myself. Partially because my students didn"t feel well. And yet partially because one of my students wrote to me, and I needed to feel their feelings stronger than they felt them... because I am an empath.

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Monday, April 25, 2016

It"s hard to be silently brilliant. Lots of thoughts occur when you open your mouth.


Some days I have nothing to say. It doesn"t feel like there is anything to say that needs to be said.

Some people never have anything to say and they talk all the time. Others think that they have to first formulate it in their heads to say it, and it never comes together.

Professional thinkers, writers know that "it is hard to be silently brilliant. Lots of thoughts occur wen you open your mouth."

Thinking is a lot like digging for gold. Someone or something has to hold the dirt, or you can"t get beneath it.

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Making choices: are you a rank amateur?


This may be the most important article you read this year, this decade... because this article may inspire you to become a professional at living, instead of remaining a rank amateur... aka bumbling idiot.
Risk Management
You have two options. You need to choose. You need to choose the option that has the lower cost to your reproductive success if it turns out to be wrong.

Now, I suspect, that almost none of us think about cost in terms of reproductive success, but according to evolutionary psychology, you are a mere vehicle to your genes, your genes are only interested in making copies of themselves, i.e. reproduce, and make your particular genes more dominant in the gene pool.

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Saturday, November 28, 2015

How words really effect you? And how positive thinkers are stupid


If you had a childhood trauma... what is the best way to deal with it now, so you can grow?

Some of you were abused as a child.

Now, strictly speaking, there is no such thing as abuse in reality. Abuse is a particular interpretation of something that happened. If I asked a visiting Martian what happened, he would say things like one person hit the other, or one person yelled at another, or one person tied up another, pushed them down, maybe even put one part of their anatomy into the other... but not abuse.

Abuse never happened... or it happened only if you said so... for you. In your mouth. In your interpretation.

Some things don"t exist outside of language... they don"t exist in reality. Abuse is just one of these. One other "thing" that doesn"t exist in reality is lack... In reality only things that are there exist.

New age gurus talk about the importance of the words you use. Of course, either because you are dumb or they are dumb, this gets generalized.

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#ActivatingAbilities, #Raiseyourvibration

Sunday, November 22, 2015

When you have a capacity activated... will you be great right away? Courageous, insightful, self-trusting?


When you have a capacity activated... will you be great right away? Courageous, insightful, self-trusting?

One of the "results" I"ve been seeing is this:

The ego is responsible, or at least feels responsible for your survival. It"s like a domineering mother... it professes to know what is good for you and what isn"t.

Mothers will stop you from becoming all you can be... unless...

Unless you bother to sweet-talk them into seeing your side of the situation.

Negotiating, sweet talking, enrolling people who "should" be on your side is universally missing. I have spoken about that in the context of agreements you never made. ((Here are the two articles where I explain this agreement issue... http://yourvibration.com/getunstuck/250/hidden-blockages-success-melt http://www.yourvibration.com/816/miserable-miserable-binding/))

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#ActivatingAbilities, #contextisdecisive

Friday, November 20, 2015

I got a nasty attachment this morning... nice people... appreciation capacity


I see the so-called distance healers the same as the people who use coat hangers to perform an abortion. They may kill the child, they may kill both.

They pretend to be on your side, but really they are all about "desire for the self alone".

Distance healers leave their "channel" in you... like coat hanger abortioners leave the dirt and pathogens in you. And then you are on your own... suddenly not well. Suddenly carrying the proof of their guilt.

I was directly attacked by a "distance healer" today. They aimed at my tangerine spot but they don"t know where it is, so they missed it by about an inch. I pulled the attachment right away, but the skull where the attachment hit is now sore. Very sore.

Nice people.
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A new client asked me to remove her attachments. As I was working on her, I noticed that her medical diagnosis is wrong: she doesn"t have what the doctors said they had. But when you have a hammer, everything looks to you like a nail.

She didn"t have pathogens in her brain. Besides: how would the doctors know she did: by exploratory surgery, right? But had they done that, they would have access to the brain... and the blood brain barrier would not matter would it?

The hammer: a 40K brain treatment. The nail: sinus infection. Not a nail. Not by a long shot.

The poor woman has been disabled for two years... I even question the original diagnosis: Lyme disease.

Nice people
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The world is full of nice people who feast on your misery, especially if they can add to it.

You may be one of them. I remember when I was. Not that long ago, by the way. I think it all ended abruptly in 1998... when I first learned about the three levels of values... I suddenly saw myself... It was horrible.

Nice person? I wasn"t.
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Almost all highfoluted qualities, love, caring, respect, dignity, etc. are based on the capacity switched on: appreciation.

Seeing value on all three levels. Not a conscious act. When a capacity is turned on, your reaction to things is different, and you don"t have to know why. You don"t have to know the three levels of value. It is useful... but it"s not necessary.

Because Life knows it, once the capacity is turned on, you act in harmony with that...

Appreciation: seeing value will be the next activation that I"ll start next week.

Doesn"t it cut into my revenues? It probably does.

So why am I doing it? Because I can... lol. No, that is not why. I am doing it because I enjoy it. That"s not it either. So why am I doing it? I am doing it because the more activation I do, the clearer I become.

And the larger, the wider the foundation for the full activation of the Genghis Khan descendants become.

The three people have two things in common: their ancestry, and the fact that they don"t live life powerfully.

I have my job cut out for me.
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#ActivatingAbilities, #attachments, #Energies

Thursday, November 19, 2015

Current science"s view on DNA and what I say is the truth




Science talks about genetic lottery... haves and have nots, lucky and unlucky.

The truth is both simpler and more complicated.

Human DNA has capacities encoded, but they are either turned on or not. And even capacities that are turned of, may be used, or not used.

The kids in studies who are good at reading but not good at math are dealing not with a reading gene and a math gene missing, instead they deal with something less simplistic than that.

There is no reading gene and there is no math gene. On the other hand, there are 160 genes that lie underneath all the clever feats a child or adult can perform to scientists" amazement. Sarcasm intended.

So, let"s take an example: you got a kid who is good at reading... but isn"t good at math. I say, that the capacity that is definitely missing is humility: the capacity to say: I am incompetent, I don"t know anything: teach me.

Why? Isn"t saying "I am incompetent" going to keep me stunted? No, the opposite is true. What keeps you stunted is what you have decided is true about you and about the world.

When your earlier decision was: I am not good at math... you"ll not even try. You already know that you won"t be able to get it.

Are there other capacities that are missing? Probably another up to eight capacities... duh...

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#ActivatingAbilities

Wednesday, November 11, 2015

Does it ever happen to you that you talk and no one responds?


You talk about something miraculous, that could make all the difference for people... you speak, they listen... and nothing.
You say something profound... no echo. You ask for something, and people"s eyes are glazed over.

Well, this is a regular occurrence in my life... it"s been happening as far as I can remember. And it has happened in every language... not just in English.

I used to suffer about it. I used to blame everyone, call them stupid, etc.

There was a point, some 30 years ago, when it first occurred to me that maybe it is my job to speak in a way that people can understand, it is not their job to change how they speak.

It was jarring. I resented it for a long time.

And in the past 30 years, I have gotten a little bit better at speaking to how people think... a little bit better.

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#Activation

Monday, November 9, 2015

You want to be special but you don"t want to do anything for it... not really.


I was researching this whole Third Eye humbug on the internet.

Of all the "supernatural" abilities people want, this seems to take the prize!

People want to be special, want to stand out, what to amaze people, but they don"t want to pay the price. Please check if you are part of "people". My hunch is that if you tell the truth, you"ll find that you are.

Now, what is wrong with this picture?

It violates fundamental spiritual laws.

What are spiritual laws? Why are they spiritual?

Spiritual laws are the laws of the invisible. Energy, for example. Energy is invisible. It can be made visible, ((TV screen, X-ray, radar, EEG are good examples)) but what you see is not the energy itself, you see its effect... Or you feel it... or you hear it... the effect, not the cause.

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#DNAactivation, #SpiritualLaws

Sunday, November 1, 2015

I found a missing capacity. I am now clear why you are not doing your spiritual work


OK, if you have found yourself not being willing, or not being able to do the practices, or keep doing them: this article is for you.

I have been studying learning styles, thinking styles, teaching methods to make my teaching more effective. And while it wasn"t a waste of time, because it brought me to this day and this knowledge, it was putting the cart in front of the horse.

Today I recounted some effective teaching methods to a friend... They were effective to me. But when I looked at all the people who were exposed to the same teaching, same teaching method, same teacher, at the same time as myself, I found that those other people didn"t get the same results I got, in fact, most of them got no results at all. ((I looked at Landmark courses, I looked at T. Harv Eker courses, I looked at Pam Ragland courses, I really looked!))

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#Raiseyourvibration

Monday, October 19, 2015

Your invisible heroes... a guidance from fiction: books, movies, plays


I read today"s Monday Morning Memo, as usual, and it made me look. (())

Who are my favorite fictional characters?

At first I looked at the ones that weren"t supposed to survive, weren"t supposed to succeed, because they paralleled my own life experience.

But their influence on the multitudes was minimal, because they were about themselves, or maybe about one other person... and I saw that I have grown beyond that path. I have grown beyond the little Chinese boy"s character, my favorite as a child. I have grown beyond the deaf and blind yet dutiful character of Helen Keller, another favorite character of mine from childhood. I have even grown beyond "Socrates", the orphan boy that became the Peaceful warrior in Dan Millman"s books. The little girl in the movie "King of Masks" or BianLian. that you can watch in the subscribers" area of my site.

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#ExpandingHumanBeing

Friday, October 16, 2015

Vibrational reviews Abdy Electriciteh, Val Tignini, and Mohammad Eshtehar


Vibrational reviews Abdy Electriciteh, Val Tignini, and Mohammad Eshtehar

Most of the reviews were written at students" and clients" request.

Here is one:

"How interesting that my vibration is so low. I have been working with Abdy Electriciteh , Val Tignini, and Mohammad Eshtehar.? I have had wonderful experiences with them and the energy is strong.
I have had dreams most of my life that tell me messages. So now.... very confusing!!!"



The client"s vibration is 100. So let"s see what is her "gurus" doing in the area of vibration.

Remember: vibration is the degree to which you are growing in the direction the DNA gives you... towards the next evolutionary phase: human being.

Dreams and experiences probably mean: you are decorating your cave... not moving out of it.

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#VibrationalReviews

Saturday, October 10, 2015

Falling in step, intelligence, tough choices



Falling in step
I just finished a Talk-to-me call. It"s a call available for people on my mailing list, where they can ask any questions and get answers, coaching, whatever they need. The call was a breakthrough in a lot of ways.

First off, I distinguished for myself, for the second time, that unless I fall in step with the person I coach, they can"t get what I am saying as contribution and cannot act on it.

Falling in step with music is obviously fun. Falling in step with a drum circle is fun. But falling in step with another person is a challenge. But unless you do, discord is the result.

So what does it take to fall in step with another person in a conversation? Whether it is a co-worker, a parent, a child, a spouse, a friend, if you learn to fall in step with them, you"ll experience influence, intimacy, closeness... all the things that are missing in most relationships.

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#AccessYourPower

Thursday, October 1, 2015

When you are looking for and find things to be unhappy about... always angry...


I have a student who seems to be looking for reasons to be unhappy, angry, frustrated. And not surprisingly she finds something. Always.

She is working on her health and well-being, and part of that is to document every breakfast, lunch and dinner time what she eats, what she drinks, what she does, what she feels like, and whether she had a bowel movement or not. These are all indicators of her well-being and progress.

This morning I realized something: her diary says: bowel movement: small. She doesn"t say: bowel movement: yes (or no, whatever is the case.) No she says: small.

This realization lead me to look back and see that she wants to find something she can be unhappy about.

Now, this is actually very familiar to me. Bear with me, a lot of you have this, and if you can see it, you can do something about it.

I"ll share my story later, let me first distinguish the mechanism:

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#Raiseyourvibration

You cannot catch what you don"t see and the great white tiger


You can"t catch what you don"t see; do you keep them sacred like a great white tiger?
I was wondering what I should write about today.
I have half a dozen half written posts, but what should I write about today?
Then, as I was doing some energy work on myself, it came to me.

I have a young friend, he is about 4. He is my chiropractor"s son, he lives in Baltimore with his mother, but for about a week every month he is in Syracuse, and I always make it a point to spend a few hours with him.

Today was the day, and we were playing, and singing, and laughing. He goes to school, and he had learned a lot of new songs, so he was singing a lot today. One of the songs was "You can"t catch what you don"t see"

That is what I want to talk to you about today. That you want to see what you don"t see.
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