High vibration, high achiever people err on the side of judging you more capable than you are.

Teachers, and coaches, who themselves are high vibration and high achievers, I know a few, see you better than you are, and tell you that with a little, or a lot of coaching you can achieve the life you want.

But, unfortunately, we desire things we are not equipped to achieve, or are not willing to move towards.

Why is this?

Because it takes active, working capacities to do things. DNA capacities... capacities that you cannot learn... Capacities are not like knowledge. Capacities are not like skills. Capacities are either open or not open. If they aren"t open, they need to be opened, either by being in a do or die situation, where unless you use a capacity you don"t have, or you die... or by me... at this point I don"t know anyone else who can open a capacity.

There are 160 capacities in the human DNA, and most of them are dormant, inactive, not available to you.

Moreover, you don"t even know they are missing.

Remember the missing item exercises? Where we are trying to activate a capacity that is missing, by lying authentically?

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#ActivatingAbilities

Can I, should I train you to do DNA activations for your family, friends?

Someone asked in a comment if I could train other people to do what I do, connect to Source on the 3rd level where you can channel the energy, the specific energy to cause something, like activating a DNA capacity.

This question is like the tip of the iceberg... it shows the world view from where the question came from.

The world view is: anyone with enough training could do anything.

Is that true? After all other people have opened healing schools, trained teachers, trained practitioners, trained coaches.

I am familiar with Landmark Education"s training programs. They train coaches, introduction leaders, seminar leaders.

They screen the applicants. The programs are rigorous, some even murderous.

Results: no good coaches, no good leaders, or not really. There are exceptions, but rare.

Why is that?

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Falling in step, intelligence, tough choices

Falling in step
I just finished a Talk-to-me call. It"s a call available for people on my mailing list, where they can ask any questions and get answers, coaching, whatever they need. The call was a breakthrough in a lot of ways.

First off, I distinguished for myself, for the second time, that unless I fall in step with the person I coach, they can"t get what I am saying as contribution and cannot act on it.

Falling in step with music is obviously fun. Falling in step with a drum circle is fun. But falling in step with another person is a challenge. But unless you do, discord is the result.

So what does it take to fall in step with another person in a conversation? Whether it is a co-worker, a parent, a child, a spouse, a friend, if you learn to fall in step with them, you"ll experience influence, intimacy, closeness... all the things that are missing in most relationships.

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Advising, giving advice, helping

Unless it"s your job to give advice, don"t.

Why? Because giving advice comes from your shadow side, from your dark side.

How? When you give advice, you place yourself above the other person. Giving advice is asserting your superiority.

Have you noticed that you can get fired for that? Even if your advice is right on the spot...

By the way: this is true for healers, coaches, salespeople, helpers, charity volunteers, everyone.

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#Raiseyourlevelofconsciousness

Money... grow it... Part 2... Inventory

Most people start pretty much anything with what they want. That is the starting point, that is also, most of the time, the context. ((The context is a statement of why you are doing what you are doing. ))

But it is a default context, and it is not empowering. ((

When something is empowering, it gives you a sense of real power to do what you intend to do.
When something is not empowering, it is just there, but no assistance is gotten from it.
When something is disempowering, it takes away your power.

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If you are the alpha and the omega of things, if everything is about you, then you are going to be wretched, or if you already are wretched, you are going to stay that way, unless things start to be NOT about you.

The job is to get out of the default context and into something empowering.
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What is your self-image? Are self-image questions, personality profiles, Kolbe test give you a correct answer?

There is a fundamental built-in error in tests that involve answering questions about ourselves.

I have found that personality tests that rely on your knowing yourself and to predict what you would do in certain situations, are profoundly flawed. ((Some tests I have an experience with: Kolbe test
Hartman value profile
other personality tests your coaches create. ))

I say this after working with thousands of people, one-on-one, observing them, feeling them (I am an empath) and comparing who and how they are compared to what they say about themselves.

The gap is significant between the two.

You believe yourself different, and you fill out your questionnaire. But your actions will still be consistent with who you really are, how you really behave, your real attitude, your real self, and you"ll be way off in your test results... ((And your coach will be way off... if they even look at it your profile at all))

You"ll be like the mad hero, Don Quixote, who lived in a world of his own design, unaware that he was out of sync, and that his actions were mad in the real world. ((Today"s equivalent is the religious person, or the Law of Attraction person, the conspiracy theorist person etc... duped, mistaken, fighting windmills))

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#contextisdecisive

What is high vibration, really?

I got this email this morning:
Hello Sophie,
I have read some of Your reviews. I thought raising vibrations meant inner transformation, less ego and more kindness. Sorry, but to me Your Message does not seem truthful. I do not think it is Your intention, but I have to quit.
Regards from K
A lot of visitors have the same opinion: higher vibration means more kindness...

Now, where is this coming from? If you watched the movie (on my subscribers" site) Babette"s Feast, you saw that the Christian sect in that movie taught kindness and love... but it was not there for anyone.

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If you have a problem keeping your word... Part 2

I am finding out that you"ve been thinking in terms of to-do lists to get things done.

I find to-do lists daunting.

The biggest problem with to-do lists is that it kills the spirit in things.

The second biggest problem with todo lists is that it mixes big things, and small things.

What takes you someplace worth going to are two kinds of things

simple steps repeated regularly, like eating, exercising, going to sleep early, reading a few pages every night, reminding yourself to get present, taking deep breaths when you remember, taking your supplements, observing yourself... The best reminders are questions... have you done that today? What time are you going to walk today? Gentle reminders. If the answer is resistance, the next question is: what purpose does walking for you?For me regular walking is increasing my capacity to walk a lot, and still enjoy what"s around me. I am having recurring dreams of living in different countries six months at a time. Lots of walking: without stamina that would be sheer torture.
projects.

In this article I"ll probably talk a little more about projects.

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Announcing an unusual coaching program, part of Reclaim

This article is intentionally difficult to read. Why? Because it is a qualifying piece: If you can"t make heads and tails out of this, then you won"t be able to become a coach... sorry.



This past Sunday I was on a training webinar for coaches (training coaches in selling their stuff). One of the questions that came up was: What is the cause of lower than expected sales?

From these past days" email interactions, my guess is that visitors don"t understand what I am saying in my articles. Even for regular students it"s a challenge to translate between words and doing. And even people who get a personal email from me telling them what is their doom, their anchor to doom... and what they should be doing to cause the DNA shift, to make themselves permanently better... even after a personal email the confusion is staggering, and the actions are rare and weak.

I have always had a real hard time making that shift, making that translation between words and doing.

I had an idea a second ago, that may be the stupidest idea I have ever had, but I am going to test it out.

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Updated: The attitudes of Poverty vs. Affluence... Can you learn the right attitudes?

This article slipped by a lot of people. And today where I keep talking about the small actions that cause and then cement your epigenetic shift, this article is more important than it was a year ago when I first wrote it. Onto the article...
... in Neal Stephenson"s novel "Reamde" he remarks that affluent parts of all cities are similar, but poor parts of cities are miserable in their own way.
What causes success, and what causes failure? Or we could say, what causes affluence, and what perpetuates poverty?

It"s habits. It"s the thing you do (or not do), day in and day out. The things you take care of and the things you don"t.

But if you look, a habit you see are only the tip of the iceberg... maintaining it, keeping it permanently, unchangeably in place.

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#Abundance, #Getunstuck, #newcapacities, #Raiseyourvibration

More on the Law of Process

I have been observing people for about 30 years... I have participated with thousands. I have coached thousands. I have been friends with a few.

There has been one thing in common with all of them: they picked and chose what they wanted to do, so they never succeeded.

I observed the same thing on myself, and to the degree that it is there, to the degree someone won"t amount to anything, won"t amount to much.



I read quite a few sales letters a day, ((I am most interested in marketing)) mostly because I am interested... not in buying, but ...

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Push or pull, inspiration or motivation or ambition?

As you know I am dyslexic. Very dyslexic. Reading even my own articles online is nearly impossible.

Today I got an article in an email where Andy of bugfree fame talks about the difference between motivation and inspiration. I could grab a sentence here and there... but I really could not read the article. But it"s been knocking about in my head, and I want to share with you what I experienced, and what opening I see for myself, an opening I have never seen before. I put the whole article in the footnotes... the article I could never read myself... ((In today’s footstep I am going to answer a question I had in a few days ago regarding motivation. I was asked what motivates me to make me to achieve my dreams.
To cover it I am going to take a section from the 2nd part of the Process Using A Bug Free Mind (Chapter 18 – Taking The Red Pill).
It comes from the point when I’ve laid out the tools to go and find your purpose and create the life of your dreams.
As I’ve covered here in these footsteps knowledge can be very dangerous and at the point you have the tools your ego decides to attack again and keep you stuck… It does all sorts of things to keep you from applying the wisdom you’ve discovered…
So I added this section to keep people focused on what they wanted, it’s called: (the sections in brackets I’ve added for your understanding).
Are You Going To Take The Blue Pill Or The Red Pill?
You take the blue pill and the story ends; you go back to living your life by accident (you go back to the waking sleep, forget about having A Bug Free Mind and begin searching again for an answer, or accept failure). You convince yourself that luck obviously does exist and rules your destiny. You decide I am obviously a loon who only thinks he can perform real magic.
You can go on with your life and ignore what I have written here – trust me it won’t take long to forget – You’ll be happy, well sort of and you’ll be content to settle for less. It’s not so bad – maybe you’ll retain some of the wisdom and your life will improve a bit. Still laziness and a lack of inspiration pay off now.
Or you take the red pill… and you stay in wonderland and you show yourself how deep the rabbit hole goes.
By taking the red pill you can give some serious thought to the amount of your life, the amount of your mind energy you are going to desire to use to really create the life you desire. This is the path which involves effort in the attainment of inspiration.
In your process of defining your desires you will uncover your inspiration without effort. My job with this process is to inspire you enough to choose the red pill… To start defining what you desire from life, as I know you will obtain your inspiration there which will fuel you enough for the rest of your life. You will never need motivation again.
Inspiration is an abundant fuel source which requires no new supply. One drop has been enough to power some of the greatest achievements we as humans have made so far. It is the perfect fuel for us! It is the fuel we were designed for.
You can travel to places no-one has ever been before when you are fueled by inspiration. This is the fuel that taking the red pill will shortly deliver for you, and you will then begin to live an inspired life again.

However… motivation is like petrol, you have to always consider how much you have of it. You effectively limp from one fuel station to another, never being able to venture out to wondrous undiscovered lands because no-one has gone there first and put a petrol station up! So I state again, when you are inspired, who needs motivation?
Anyone who speaks or writes about being, staying, or getting motivated, doesn’t understand the difference in power and do you really think a teacher like that is who you should be listening to?
It doesn’t matter how much of a luminary they are, basically anyone who speaks about motivation doesn’t know how to teach you what you need to know. They are in effect trying to stick the wrong type of fuel in your car. How far do you think your car will go when you stick the wrong fuel in it?
You do not need motivation – any books or courses which tell you that you do are teaching you incorrectly… Is it any wonder they have a less than 1% success rate! Use the word motivation as a signpost pointing to a bad teacher! This does not mean they cannot change, just currently their teaching method is not good enough.
Once again, they are using the incorrect word to educate their readers, and little words make an immense difference. As in that word they are teaching you that you need perpetual torment in your life…
They don’t intend that of course, as to them (a successful person) the word motivated simply means inspired… Successful people don’t know that as they haven’t looked at it for long enough. They are naturally motivated and therefore do not need to consider motivation.

In other words they are using the law of least effort on autopilot (they only need to consider their words if they are attempting to teach what they know, and this is where they have gone wrong). But what they state to their subconscious mind when they use the word motivated in the form of a feeling is, ‘Inspired to fulfil my dream, until completion.’
 So if you are not in the less than 1% of successful people, you get educated that you need perpetual torment, and if you are in the less than 1% who are successful then you learn that you need inspiration.
So I suggest until you are in the 0.001% and KNOW you have your natural success mindset back, that you avoid reading, and definitely using, the word motivated. As the last thing you need to attain your dreams is perpetual torment.
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If you feel you are looking for motivation then the chances are you haven’t yet found your reason why. This is the reason why you must do this, your reason why is ‘your magic fuel’, it is your inspiration.
As Mark Twain said, “The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why.”
Anything you want to do in your life that will impress others comes from you discovering your inspiration to do it… Anything you’ve taken to the top of the game in your life came from finding your inspiration…
Anything you’ve ever used motivation to start never amounted to much… Inspiration therefore is the magical ingredient for getting you the life of your dreams…
I’d like to share with you a short story of my sons inspiration…
My son David loves Scooting, in 2009 he asked me to look at some YouTube videos of children doing all sorts of aerobatics on their push scooters.
He asked me if he could ever be as good as them, and I was very present at the time and said, “Sure you can. All you need to do is decide to make that your purpose and give up at least 10,000 hours and you’ll achieve it.”
I didn’t do what most parents do and mistakenly shoot their children’s dreams in the foot by saying it would be hard work, or they would miss out on other things. Instead I told him it was possible and told him how he could do it, how he would have to choose one thing over another to be able to do it.
I didn’t put my thoughts into him, I kept out of the way and let him find his inspiration if it was there…
Sure enough he found his inspiration in desiring to be able to do those tricks. As I write this today he has talked his mother into getting up early to take him to a skate park.
He surrounds himself with his passion, and regularly drops everything for a chance to go to another skate park. I have never attempted to motivate him one little bit in the attainment of his dream. I have just aided him when asked and occasionally made it a little difficult for him on purpose (just to test how inspired he was, but don’t tell him that).
Every week he just gets on with it, he has seen months and even years with only limited progress, but still progress… He has taken this to a very high level now and is probably in the top 1% of all riders.
Over the next few years he will be in the top 100 in the world… How far he’ll go, I have no idea…
He will go as far as his inspiration takes him, and because he is inspired he requires zero motivation. In fact if he ever needs motivation, then it will probably be time to quit.
Now to complete his school work and do well in his exams he is not inspired and requires A LOT of motivation. Fortunately he has me and his mother there as coaches motivating him through the things in life he is not inspired to do… Like homework, cleaning his bedroom, eating at least one piece of fruit a day etc…
If you wish to do something big, then you will need inspiration not motivation. If you wish to achieve something that you want but are not inspired to do, then you will need careful timing and regular motivation. Otherwise known as perpetual torment…
However, by discovering your reason why to do something, or your reason not to do something (which is equally as important), then you are able to just do it, or just not do it… Discovering either a lack of or a stack of inspiration is applying the law of least effort and is going the natural way.
Having a reason why which is not yours, or weak will require a stack of motivation and this is going against the flow of life… Can you feel how seeking motivation for massive projects is doomed to fail?
Sure you can use motivation to do stuff you don’t like, like filling in your tax return, or cleaning out the garage… But motivation should never be used for the big stuff…
So you must find your reason why to do something, and it must be your reason why. Not something your Mum or Dad said you should do, or your teachers, or your friends…
Consider this, everything you have achieved in your life came about through finding your reason why which inspired you… or by having someone coaching you to achieve it.
If I want to do something big then I have to bring coaches into it as I’m far to lazy to keep going all by myself.
So now consider… this thing you want to do…
What reason why could inspire you to do it… Can you find inspiration, or will you require motivation… The secret to progress is to know your limitations and structure your way around them… Or to accept them and choose a different path…
If you think to yourself I need motivation, then the chances are you actually need inspiration.))

It is related to the "supposed to" article I wrote earlier today, so make sure you read it again.

Here it goes:

You can push someone or you can pull someone. What pushes and what pulls can be created by yourself. By what you want... and yet, when you are pulled, your experience is completely different than when you are pushed.

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Updated: Can your teacher teach you what you want to learn?

"The reasonable man adapts himself to the conditions that surround him... The unreasonable man adapts surrounding conditions to himself... All progress depends on the unreasonable man."This post was triggered by me reading a few really good articles... Observing myself I was really clear, that although I enjoyed the articles, it never became knowledge, it stayed information.

Words don"t teach. Speaking only talks to the mind... Real teaching happens NOT when you get stuff with your mind... Transformation doesn"t happen in the mind: transformation happens by taking you out of your mind... All that talking keeps you in the mind. Alas...
Growing up I lived in the shadows of my famous father. He was some kind of genius in the area of economics...

As I was dyslexic, and the public opinion of me was that I was a moron and a failure, he took it on himself to tutor me in my schoolwork, so I can succeed.

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Are you being used?

Lots of people, women and men, have a feeling that they are just placeholders or commodities for their friends or lovers.

Even coaches and gurus can have that feeling: actually this is what lead me to start this article.

Whenever I have a question about someone, or have time, I look up the online profiles of people that want to become a student of mine.

So I looked up someone today who has been a student, on and off for about two years now. I have had mixed feeling about her, so I looked her up.

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The real problem... see if you recognize yourself

From the questions you ask, I am starting to understand what is your current world-view, self-view:

You think you are, using car analogy, a Kia or a Saturn or some other cheap car, and you want to be a Ferrari.

What if you are a Ferrari and you drive yourself as if you were a Kia?

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NEW: Failure vs. success. Poverty vs. Affluence...

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NEW: Failure vs. success. Poverty vs. Affluence... how to go from one to the other?

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... in Neal Stephenson"s novel "Reamde" he remarks that affluent parts of all cities are similar, but poor parts of cities are miserable in their own way.

What causes success, and what causes failure? Or we could say, what causes affluence, and what perpetuates poverty?

It"s habits. It"s the thing you do (or not do), day in and day out. The things you take care of and the things you don"t.

But if you look, a habit you see are only the tip of the iceberg... maintaining it, keeping it permanently, unchangeably in place.

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