What you value and in what order... why you are off... and why you are unhappy, unfulfilled, living a meaningless life

A lot of why"s are answered here... why you can"t get well, why you are not happy, etc.

People are the highest value in the universe. Why? Because they are able to be all levels of values, the thinking mind (systemic), the extrinsic (create tools, cook food, provide pleasure), and the intrinsic.

You live, predominantly on one level, and value what is on that level most.

Depending on how closely your valuation matches the valuation that is "godly", or the Original Design, you fulfill the purpose of being human.
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Call me blunt, call me judgmental... I don"t care.

I am going to share, in this article, some of the judgmental sounding questions I ask when I try to get a full picture about someone who is asking for help.

As you probably don"t know, judgment comes from ego, from comparison. I am smart and you are stupid... that is judgment.

You are stupid isn"t judgment unless you feel something in your chest or throat as you say it. Unless it means something about you.

I feel nothing, or maybe sadness, when I ask these assessment question... that help me make sense out of the convoluted picture each person is.

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Current science"s view on DNA and what I say is the truth

Science talks about genetic lottery... haves and have nots, lucky and unlucky.

The truth is both simpler and more complicated.

Human DNA has capacities encoded, but they are either turned on or not. And even capacities that are turned of, may be used, or not used.

The kids in studies who are good at reading but not good at math are dealing not with a reading gene and a math gene missing, instead they deal with something less simplistic than that.

There is no reading gene and there is no math gene. On the other hand, there are 160 genes that lie underneath all the clever feats a child or adult can perform to scientists" amazement. Sarcasm intended.

So, let"s take an example: you got a kid who is good at reading... but isn"t good at math. I say, that the capacity that is definitely missing is humility: the capacity to say: I am incompetent, I don"t know anything: teach me.

Why? Isn"t saying "I am incompetent" going to keep me stunted? No, the opposite is true. What keeps you stunted is what you have decided is true about you and about the world.

When your earlier decision was: I am not good at math... you"ll not even try. You already know that you won"t be able to get it.

Are there other capacities that are missing? Probably another up to eight capacities... duh...

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Notes from my experience with activating the DNA capacity of seeing the consequences of your actions

The new capacity, the capacity to see the consequences of your actions, clearly, like a diagram is an unconscious capacity. Unconscious meaning: you don"t necessarily notice any difference, especially if


your ego keeps shouting: it"s hopeless...
the subconscious will keep on feeding you the same nonsense it"s been feeding you to get you where you are...
greed, urges, jumping, impulsiveness will have you jump without looking. The fact that you can see doesn"t guarantee that you"ll look.


All activation was successful... I am writing in the process, and I almost never write: the energy went through... I take it for granted that you understand. I found out some people don"t... :-(
Ego noise
here is a person who will have a hard time acting with what he sees, because of all the noise the ego makes:

this is what I wrote down while I was doing the activation
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What you see will give you your mood, your emotions, and your actions... what do you see?

When I find an issue that a student is struggling or not dealing well with, I often write an article.

The issue here, I guess, is universal. It has two parts:

you can"t see the big picture, the forest, for the trees.
you are not good, practiced, skillful at taking advantage of the practices I have taught.

A student of mine has a daughter. The daughter decided to join the swim team. She is 13 years old. The only person who can take her to her swimming is my student.

And although it is great that the daughter wants to do something that she likes, it takes a chunk of time out of the mother"s "me" time.

So a good news is threatening to become a burden. Tell me if you haven"t had to deal with a similar issue... I used to be someone for whom even having a date was a burden... lol. Going out to eat was a burden.
It is human to be hard to please.

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Falling in step, intelligence, tough choices

Falling in step
I just finished a Talk-to-me call. It"s a call available for people on my mailing list, where they can ask any questions and get answers, coaching, whatever they need. The call was a breakthrough in a lot of ways.

First off, I distinguished for myself, for the second time, that unless I fall in step with the person I coach, they can"t get what I am saying as contribution and cannot act on it.

Falling in step with music is obviously fun. Falling in step with a drum circle is fun. But falling in step with another person is a challenge. But unless you do, discord is the result.

So what does it take to fall in step with another person in a conversation? Whether it is a co-worker, a parent, a child, a spouse, a friend, if you learn to fall in step with them, you"ll experience influence, intimacy, closeness... all the things that are missing in most relationships.

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One size does not fit all... or How do you know what spiritual practices to cultivate to get the most results?

Some people want me to give them answers, give them a spiritual practice for growth, to raise their vibration, without allowing me to know anything much about them.

I am an empath, but that doesn"t mean I know your date of birth, or I know your education, your job, your aspirations, your ethnicity...

These are important, because one size doesn"t fit all.

The reason you get more from me than from buying a course, because I give you answers that are a perfect fit to who you are.

But of course the "egalitarian" culture of today... that we are all the same, needing the same food, the same way to exercise, the same thoughts, if you believe it, will mess with your mind.

We may have the same rights... but we are not the same.

We each have the right to demand respect, to ourselves, to our culture, to our beliefs. We have the right to receive respect... but it is not up to rights to actually get them.

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The cost of believing in the power of your mind

You are the peak of evolution... and you have a brilliant tool: your thinking brain (()). When you only use it to do mind-functions, remembering and recalling, you use only 1-3% of that power... and you are a slave. Unless you have the courage to learn to use your brain correctly... you remain a slave.

A famous physics professor, one day, was shaking his head.

"I can"t teach them physics the way I teach physics" he complained.

I interview students for my graduate program, and they are all, almost all, unable to think for themselves.

When they show up for the interview, I ask them: Why are you wearing the suit jacket you are wearing?

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How do I make my life move? What is the trick? How do you beat your projective mind

It"s 10 o"clock, and I just reached the predictable state of "why did I do it?"

At 11 o"clock I have a webinar scheduled to meet and greet, and test the Emotional Shock Absorber energy.

I don"t want to talk about the energy, I want to talk about, instead, the phenomenon of the mind projecting into the future and thus stopping us or making us rush, depending on the memory or our personality.

I don"t date because I have a long string of memories where I didn"t have fun. I am sure I had fun dates, but my mind keeps those from me.

I remember telling everyone that I never had fun, and yet lots of people know me as a fun and funny person, always laughing. That is not how I know myself.

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Soul Correction Actions: Part 2: Fear

The "Therefore" is: I am afraid, I feel fear, therefore I should run, hide, resist, do nothing.

Fear is universal, and we all feel afraid some of the time, and a lot of us most of the time.

I never considered fear as a "thing" until I was in a seminar, back in 1988? called Creativity: Living at Risk.

The leader of the 10-session Landmark Seminar was hollering: Move towards the fear, call it excitement.

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Spells, curses, spell casting, spellworking... WTF?

If you read my horror story about Ayahausca, you know that the number of attachments on people were in the 30"s, and the type were spells... killing spells.

Even I got a bunch, because I didn"t cloak myself... Now I do. I got curious about spells... I am an educated woman, and spells belong to the uneducated and imaginative... My opinion strictly. I mean wanting spells, "getting" spells, and such. I am not necessarily talking about the witches, at least not all of them.

Compared to these witches and sorcerers, shamans, and other showy practitioners, I am a lame housewife, a pedestrian... sitting in my underwear by the computer, connect, find and grab the attachment with my hands, and pull until there is no more... No poetry, no drama, no formidable... lol. No magik.

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What is the difference between winners and losers?

Take up one idea. Make that one idea your life
- think of it, dream of it, live on that idea. Let the
brain, muscles, nerves, every part of your body,
be full of that idea, and just leave every other
idea alone. This is the way to success.

Swami Vivekananda



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