Updated: Soul Correction: Finish What You Start

Soul Correction: Finish What You Start

Update 7/10/2016:

The archetype is the flatterer scam artist. If you are their victim: They will hook you with their compliments, flattery, while suck you dry, take you for your last dime, without ever caring about you, and without ever delivering on what they said they would do.

If you are the person with this soul correction: You find yourself with projects half started, never finished. You find yourself getting enough satisfaction out of buying a self-improvement program, but you don"t actually listen to it or use it.

Your self-image is "insignificant." Maybe even weak, inconsequential, not important. Or you suffer from delusions of grandeur: you are or should be the best the best looking, the smartest, a hero... except that you are literally unwilling to do the work to make it happen... What"s in the way is that pesky "should already" be that. Or "it should be easy for me, even if it is hard for others"

You instinctively know who is a sucker, and you latch onto them. I must be a sucker: you are attracted to me... Why? How? I am sensitive to your flattery... that is MY weakness, and you know it.

It"s all a game.

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The chemicals in your food: are they a big threat?

The biggest threat to "them" is the man who stops jumping
There is an issue that I need to address: your trained Chemophobia.

You have been trained to bark up the wrong tree.

You have been trained to have Chemophobia, and it is bigger threat to your health than the chemicals themselves.

Why? For the same reason that you are attracted to film stars" sex life... You don"t know chemistry, but you understand some words. So you are morbidly curious...

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The Juice Exercise: what gives you "juice" in life?

I have been coaching people for many years now. The goal was always to take people on a journey to become their best Self.

Now, the task is easier when someone knows who they are. When someone has a Self.

Most people don"t. They have a persona for each group they interact with, the family persona, the student persona, the friend, the gossiper, the entertainer, the this and the that.

Those personas (roles you play) are not you. They were created by a perceived demand in the circumstances, a perceived demand in the environment.

They leave you empty, they leave you being jerked by the shoulds, and have to"s and the wants... like a puppet on a string.

You sense that you have no control, you sense that you are not you... a vague sense.

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Yesterday I sent out a request to my subscribers asking for

a health question that you have answered to yourself and you live that way
one or more actual health questions that concern you, with regards to your health or your loved ones" health
Please let me know if you go to the doctor regularly... it will let me know something about you, that I"d like to know.

It is a holiday weekend and I got surprisingly quite a few answers to my request.

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You live in a world of your own design

You live in a world of your own design. And you create the world with your beingness.

We think that beingness is all good... But beingness is neutral. It doesn"t take sides. There is a beingness for everything, including greed, jealousy, and puniness... if that"s a word.

But whatever that beingess is, when you realize it, when you pinpoint it, you"ll immediately see that it actually created your current reality, and if you don"t do something about it... it will create the rest of your life that same...

But as a human you have access to creating any kind of beingness... you have difficulty in holding onto it. But yet, you can start. Any time, any day, any age. And increase your capacity to hold onto the beingness, honor it as yourself.

One of the beingnesses we are really familiar with is BEING judgmental. Or the flip side of it (they always go together, like the two sides of the coin!) BEING judged.

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Why do spiritual capacities turn off when they turn off? Do you have the correct answer?

Needing it

I have a student whose company moves earth. That is their business. Parking lots, roads, leveling the ground.

Unless you have a clear picture, a clear and accurate mental representation of what a job entails, you can"t bid successfully on it: you may lose your shirt if your mental representation was off. ((The doctor"s mental representation of the state of my injured ear was neither clear nor accurate, and therefore his suggestions to me were way off the mark. This was the topic of my article yesterday...))

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Knowledge, Strategy, Execution, is that enough for success?

I lead a workshop on Sunday. I had knowledge, I had strategy. I executed it. It was sloppy. What was missing?

I didn"t know. But "god" works in mysterious ways, the book I am reading has an answer that shows me what has been missing for me on Sunday and all my life.

The book, Peak, the new science of expertise, calls it Mental Representation.

Mental Representation is being able to see the finished product in your mind"s eye, and also see the process getting there, so you can anticipate missteps, and can correct, given that you know how it is, how it looks when it is perfect.

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Is Sophie a fake? Can she activate a DNA capacity for herself? A capacity she obviously never had?

I have been re-reading Dan Millman"s The Life You Were Born To Live.

I don"t know why I am reading it, but here is what I have found that is worth mentioning:


What used to be too much English is suddenly clear, concise, and applicable. The text didn"t change, I did. Obviously I am playing with a fuller deck...

I get, again and again reminded of my Achilles heel: I have a missing capacity that is probably responsible for many of my failures, and all of my no successes.


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DNA capacities... how many should you get activated?

This question is coming up with increasing frequency.

You should ONLY activate a capacity if and when you need it, when you have a use for it, and it"s missing. Otherwise you won"t know what to do with it, and won"t use it.

Ego will declare it a ballast... and turn it off.

What is the most important ingredient that you need to grow and need new capacities turned on?

It"s ambition.

Ambition is an inner force that propels you towards growth, upwards, onwards. It only has direction, and not a goal. If you have a goal, it is not ambition, it is desire... aka greed. All ego. Wanting to have.

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Life, looked through the filter of games... Is life a game?

In the game of life, when you are losing, or not winning, the two things that can be missing are moves and DNA capacities.

The game goes the way the game goes, but you can play well and with a full deck, or not. Life deals a hand that you can play to win, and you can play to lose...

Each game in life has moves. Winning moves, and losing moves. You can have all the winning moves if you can"t see the consequences of your actions, you won"t win. And even if you see the consequences of your actions (capacity), if you don"t have moves, you still lose.

You have to have the capacities and you have to have the moves to win. Both are part of the invisible.

Life can be treated as a game, and everything in life can be treated as a game... A game you can win, or a game that you can lose.

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Self-possessed... living from the Witness position, living from Consciousness

The question in your life is: who possesses who? Who possesses what?

But the answer to that question, albeit it is fashionable to think that the guy/gal with the most toys wins, will surprise you: the person who possesses himself wins, every step of the way.

I pretty much don"t know anyone with any level of self-possession: it can be measured.

People are like leaves blowing in the wind, flotsam on the ocean... out of control, hoping for a favorable wind... lacking what can only developed by rigorous practice.

Rigorous? Practice? Please stop laughing... you are out of control!

But like anything of value, it doesn"t come cheap.

In an interaction with a longtime student, I saw something. Here is the interaction:

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Does this ever happen to you?

You are making all the right moves, you feel on the top of the world, smart, dashing... and then reality comes crashing down...


the game you were playing bottoms out: you lose

the person you were charming says something like: I have to go to pee

the product you produced, book, website, whatever, attracts no response
your carefully crafted story falls flat on its face... and lots of more examples I could give...




What happened? What the f... happened? For the most part you are dumbfounded. After all if you could see what you did, after the fact, this would not happen as often as it does. To you, and to most people...

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Doctor Who... how the doctor lost sight that he is the doctor only once.

Why I love all the Doctors
I love Doctor Who... My favorite thing about the doctor is that he never forgets, never loses sight of the big picture... almost never.

In one of the episodes he does... and it is the episode I go back, and watch it again. To watch the transformation back and forth from doctor to stupid earthbound human back to doctor.

The Doctor is the best illustration I have for living out of the Observer, the Watcher... the part of you that doesn"t get entangled... that doesn"t lose sight of what you are about, what it is about. Brilliant.
1: Because he’s adorable when embarrassed, he’s always learning and growing, and he’s still very much a Time Lord.  Because he’s got precisely the reverse of Matt Smith going on: he’s young by the standards of his own species but old by ours, and it creates the most fascinating dynamic.

2: Because he’s kind, considerate, demonstrative, loving, whimsical, playful and childish, but you do not want to cross him.  Because he believes in the potential for goodness in everyone, even the Daleks, but doesn’t let that blind him to the dangers of the universe.  Because he likes music and funny hats and coats and bow ties.  Because he’s still such a boy, but he’s growing older, too.  Because his departure story is heartrending, and marks a major turning point in who the Doctor is.

 

3: Because Venusian aikido and reversed polarities.  Because of every single thing about his relationships with the Brig, Jo, Liz and Sarah, not to mention Benton and Yates and the Master and Bessie.  Because he’s a man out of his element but stronger than ever.  Because he’s a consummate gentleman.  Because he will kick your ass in velvet and lace.  Because now he’s learned something about loss and pain, and yet it’s taught him that where there’s life, there is always, always hope.

 

4: Because he doesn’t take one single thing seriously–except when it really matters.  Because he’s not afraid to lead revolutions, change history, or even kill, but he appreciates the gravity of those decisions.  Because he’s an eccentric bohemian in a twenty-foot scarf with hair as wild as he is.  Because he’s smarter than the universe, and there has never been a Doctor so impossible to defeat.  Because his major companions are absolutely incredible women, any of whom could easily carry off a show of their own, as they have to be to stand up next to him.  Because there’s no sense in being grown-up if you can’t be childish sometimes.  Because he is an unstoppable individualist and proud of it.  Because the universe is his oyster, and he always manages to find the pearl in it.  Because he’s mad as all the hatters and hares in the seven systems.  Because he’s always laughing, and always will.  Because he’ll insult you to your face if you deserve it.  Because it’s never not the right time for a jelly baby.  And because Tom Baker is the Doctor, and has always said so himself.

 

5: Because cricket, tea, cele
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The cycles of energy: the will to live and its cycle... the ups and downs of life

As I have said in other articles before, we have several cycles going on in our lives.

What I didn"t say about the cycles is this: earliest incidents of disappointment, pain, abuse, loss create them. The length of the cycle is fixed, and it is correlated to the age when the incident happened.

OK, after this preamble, I"d like to share a cycle I haven"t spoken about: the cycle in which I lose the will to live. I lose enjoyment. It"s not fun.

I am probably at the deepest point of the cycle right now. And until a few minutes ago, life was showing up and an is... All life held, success, money, love, relationships showed up as: this is how it is, there is nothing you can do about it.

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More Money Course: Part 5 change, growth need to start below the surface

As you see, every project for change, for growth needs to start below the surface. With the roots.

Why? Because unless you attend to the invisible, the visible can only change temporarily, and then, by law, it will go back to how it was.

It"s a worldwide epidemic to expect results inconsistent with the quality of the roots. A rotted root system cannot bear a healthy tree, whether it is a body, a relationship, a society, a business... it just can"t, but more important than that: it won"t. It is true everywhere. It is nature"s law.

Example: if you want your apple tree bear cherries in May, you can pin cherries up the branches, but regardless, in late August, the apple tree will have apples on it... It is an apple tree after all.

If your root level is "I need..." or "I want..." or "I deserve..." or "I hope, I wish for a miracle..." then your fruits will be consistent with the roots: will produce more of the same.

Examples from two people I know intimately:

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The cost of believing in the power of your mind

You are the peak of evolution... and you have a brilliant tool: your thinking brain (()). When you only use it to do mind-functions, remembering and recalling, you use only 1-3% of that power... and you are a slave. Unless you have the courage to learn to use your brain correctly... you remain a slave.

A famous physics professor, one day, was shaking his head.

"I can"t teach them physics the way I teach physics" he complained.

I interview students for my graduate program, and they are all, almost all, unable to think for themselves.

When they show up for the interview, I ask them: Why are you wearing the suit jacket you are wearing?

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Energies Part 2: The water energizer

Water... OK... first my story.
In 1993 a physician declared me incurable. I was weak, I was malnourished, and my blood work did not respond to anything, and was completely messed up. I didn"t seemingly have any known disease: had I died they would have put in cause of death: old age. I was 46 years old.

I hired a nutritionist, who out of desperation, put me on a complete elimination diet: I was living on protein shakes for a little while. and then slowly moved on to the complete elimination diet: you try to find out what doesn"t agree with your body.

In spite of all that effort, dietary changes, etc., two years later, a naturopathic physician still declared me incurable.

My body had no energy, my cells were drying out, and I could barely work.

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What is the capacity that is like a linchpin... if you have it you can enter the kingdom

I am a lot like you, except not always. I am forceful with the best of them, except I am not always forceful. I can be limp and resigned, like you, except that I am not always limp and resigned.

I have mastered to a large degree the capacity "allowing."

One of the readers says in a comment: I have been practicing dropping the pen, and yet I find no change in my attitude towards anger that I don"t want.

Dropping is forceful. Surrendering is forceful. Changing is forceful.

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THE BATTLE FOR YOUR LIFE

Which is the most important when it comes to succeeding in the world?

Your vibration,
your intelligence,
your skills,
your context,
your vision,
metal toughness
your habits?
your attitude




I got an email today from a marketing teacher of mine, Frank Kern... not a
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How far from your island are you willing to swim?

I had a conversation about 30 years ago with a fellow Hungarian. We were both Landmark "graduates" and assisted our asses off.

"Assisting" is a cheap way to feel superior without having to earn your stripes.

He was an artist, a painter, who was in the US because his wife fell ill with cancer, and needed special treatment. In spite of all, she died, and he was stuck here. Didn"t want to return to Venezuela, didn"t want to go back to Hungary, but his existence in the US was touch and go.

He didn"t feel like producing the "art" that had been earning him a living: kitch sold in furniture stores, mass produced by an artist. Slave labor, mind numbing, and killing the artist within.

It was late in the evening, and we chatted, intimately, like friends that we weren"t.

The simile, or analogy, or metaphor, whatever you want to call it, came up:

If you were stranded on an island, how far would you swim to see if there are any ways to escape and return to civilization?

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