Limiting beliefs... what should you do about them?

Limiting beliefs... can you zap them like Christie Marie Sheldon pretends to do? Does listening to some guru, watching some Mind Valley video help you chuck them, change them, or eliminate them?
The answer is no. You can"t eliminate limiting beliefs, and they can"t eliminate limiting beliefs either.
Limiting beliefs will not go anywhere. You have to find another way to win: stop listening to them.

I have limiting beliefs, but you would not know from my actions. I don"t consider my mind chatter significant. I only listen to advisors that I hired... I never hired my mind chatter.
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The sad guru... Paramahansa Yogananda

Yogananda... I have measured his vibration at different times, in different contexts, always having a different number come up. So today I spent some time in his space... to see what"s up.

Paramahansa Yogananda was a sad person. For two reasons, the two sides of the same coin: he had something that he wanted to share, and it wasn"t shareable.

His words are simply his idea what made him the way he was, and the words did not communicate. Did not do for others what they, he thought, did for him.

So, slowly but surely, his words became a lie. Now, he himself wasn"t the way he said people should be: he had sadness, grieving, devastation move into his heart.

And greed... wanting. Wanting it to be different. Wanting that burning go away from his throat and his upper chest.

And then it all fell apart... and what remained is pretense.

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Why getting well is so difficult for us, people without a Self

There is never a better time to experience what you experience, than right when you experience it.

This morning I was hit with a strong feeling of despair, loneliness.

I didn"t have time to hang out with it, I was in the middle of something. I wanted to shoo it away, and I also wanted to indulge in it.

But then I decided to just feel it, acknowledge it, and let it go. I paid attention to what it said... nodded, wept a little, and let it go.

Is this familiar to you? I didn"t think so. You don"t know who you are, and you don"t want to find out.
There are many reasons you don"t know yourself.
One of these reasons is that you resist your emotions.
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Being judgmental is a result of your health number being low

One of my ex-students got offended when I suggested that she does her homework instead of having excuses. She left and she stopped visiting my site... I felt the "F... you" from her... When I asked yesterday if she was angry, she said... "No, I just need to grow thicker skin..." Her health number is 7%.
One of my students took two years to finally get a job, because in her last job she felt judged... for being different. She is Chinese in a predominantly White country. Once I adjusted her diet... she is flying. She went from 10% to 50% in her health number.
Another student is judgmental and doesn"t listen. She lives in systemic... even in the areas of food, marriage, children, smart... not a single step outside of it. Her health number is 7%.

If you are well, you can be in any state at any time

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Yesterday I sent out a request to my subscribers asking for

a health question that you have answered to yourself and you live that way
one or more actual health questions that concern you, with regards to your health or your loved ones" health
Please let me know if you go to the doctor regularly... it will let me know something about you, that I"d like to know.

It is a holiday weekend and I got surprisingly quite a few answers to my request.

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Why you should not trust your doctor, your nutritionist, your muscle testing...

Mental Representation... an incredibly useful distinction and an incredibly rare capacity

I loved the book "Peak, the new science of expertise", until almost the very end. Then I got angry.

Somewhere around 90% of the book I noticed that he uses an expression, a phrase, that means something to him, the author, but meant nothing to me.

Now I know how you feel when you read my articles...

The expression he used was "Mental Representation".

He never quite explained what it was, and my mind was screaming "bloody murder" for a few days.

I felt it was important, I felt that without that the whole book is just letters and lines, and useless words in random order. I knew.

I fired up my hunting dog part, and instructed it to find it... it must be there, even if "I" can"t see it.

Dreams that fell apart the moment I opened my eyes, glimpses that I didn"t quite catch... maddening, if you ask me.

Then a glimpse I could hold onto.

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Updated: So you want to feel special... how is it going for you?

So you want to feel special?

We are all special, if special means, as special as our thumbprint... But that is not special enough for you, is it?

You want to be SPECIAL... so you can be treated special... a special talent, outstanding, mind boggling, awesome, the best.

In this article I will shed light to an important phenomenon that we are all experiencing... the ITCH, that keeps us miserable, and the HORIZON that keeps us on track, sane, happy and always well.

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Republished: No One Is A Prophet In Their Own Land, Passover And Easter: What Is This All About?

Passover and Easter around, you"ll spend time with family. You"ll see examples of "No One Is A Prophet In Their Own Land."

You"ll be on both sides... by the way. But if you are one of my students, you will feel that you have something to teach your family: and no one will be interested. Get prepared!

In fact they will try to discourage you from continuing to pursue what you pursue when you spend time with me or my writing.

I"ve been teaching the Original Design for five years.

None of the original participants, that were my friends, are around, except one... barely.

I have been going through hell trying to get why that is, and what it is that I need to see.

It is true that no one is a prophet in their own land.
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It"s hard to be silently brilliant. Lots of thoughts occur when you open your mouth.

Some days I have nothing to say. It doesn"t feel like there is anything to say that needs to be said.

Some people never have anything to say and they talk all the time. Others think that they have to first formulate it in their heads to say it, and it never comes together.

Professional thinkers, writers know that "it is hard to be silently brilliant. Lots of thoughts occur wen you open your mouth."

Thinking is a lot like digging for gold. Someone or something has to hold the dirt, or you can"t get beneath it.

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Want to become a nice person? Here is a clue that you aren"t

Every soul correction is about correcting the desire to receive (Light) for the self alone.
If you were born, you have a soul correction.

There is no jumping into "desire for the sake of sharing", which selfless, charitable, do gooders try to do.

Being charitable, giving, do-gooding, selfless is NOT desire for the sake of sharing, it is just more "desire to receive for the self alone."

Bummer, eh?

As I am sitting here pondering one of my favorite students" Reclaim share where she is proudly telling me that her husband walked in during the webinar, evidently hungry, she could courageously ignore him and not be interrupted.

My, my...

You may not hear anything: I hear "nasty piece of work", or simply: "desire to receive for the self alone."

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When you have a capacity activated... will you be great right away? Courageous, insightful, self-trusting?

When you have a capacity activated... will you be great right away? Courageous, insightful, self-trusting?

One of the "results" I"ve been seeing is this:

The ego is responsible, or at least feels responsible for your survival. It"s like a domineering mother... it professes to know what is good for you and what isn"t.

Mothers will stop you from becoming all you can be... unless...

Unless you bother to sweet-talk them into seeing your side of the situation.

Negotiating, sweet talking, enrolling people who "should" be on your side is universally missing. I have spoken about that in the context of agreements you never made. ((Here are the two articles where I explain this agreement issue... http://yourvibration.com/getunstuck/250/hidden-blockages-success-melt http://www.yourvibration.com/816/miserable-miserable-binding/))

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What can my recent anger teach you?

I have said before: What you see is the most important element in your life. In this article you"ll see, that what you see is also directed by where you are looking... You can look at one thing or you can look at another ting... and your actions will be sharply different. ((For completeness sake, where you are looking from is also an important factor... where the "where" is not a place, it"s an attitude, expectation, or an already knowing. If this made no sense... it is new to you. Ask me to write an article about that. But here is an example for already knowing: "Carlos never listens to me..." it is from where you are looking...))

So read this article with that in mind: it will make it more valuable to you.

I have been angry for the past few days.

It is a familiar place where I"ve gone before: I started to pay attention to the results, good or bad, instead of paying attention to something I can control, something that belongs to me.

The results are not up to you. Really.

All you can do is all you can do, and all you can do is enough...

Actions, the doing, comes from the beingness... Beingness comes from within... from consciousness.

The doing, the actions cause something... whatever the results may be, and that is the having...

You"ll have the results.

We tend to get angry about the results... as if the world owed us the results we had in mind.

But the truth is, that even the best actions don"t produce the results that you had in mind, unless you are the only person in the game. No partners, no customers, no family... just you.

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Updated: Is being astute a good thing? Or does it mean you are a bad person who wants to deceive others?

If I asked you what will be the most important capacity to master in the coming years, you would come up with all kinds of capacities, but I bet you would not think of saying: becoming astute.

If you go to the online dictionary, like one of my students did, the one for whom I made this activators, you would not understand why that capacity is important.

Here is what the dictionary has to say:

as·tute
/??st(y)o?ot/
Adjective
Having or showing an ability to accurately assess situations or people and turn this to one"s advantage: "an astute businessman".
Synonyms
shrewd - sly - wily - crafty - canny - artful - sharp

To understand the meaning better, you look at the synonyms, and you are appalled, am I right? They are all words usually used to express one kind of deception or another.

But the meaning is only the first few words, the rest of them is added by "culture": "Having or showing an ability to accurately assess situations or people"

Of course you will turn everything to your advantage, after all accurate knowledge is power... I said accurate, because all the things that YOU know are not accurate, your vibration number belies that.

Your vibration number grows with the percentage of accuracy of your knowledge.

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Really want to raise your vibration? Let"s look at your actions, not your words...

If I hear you right, what you want is attitudes and behaviors that produce result. Money, happiness, power, peace, fulfillment... love... What you need is capacities... Read on...

This week I have worked on people who have sent me a long list of teachers, coaches, products they ave bought and perused, and yet, their vibration was below the tolerable level, and when I checked them for missing capacities, they had a ton... Like the guy in the previous article... 80 missing capacities.

By the way, I have six missing capacities myself... so even above 900 vibration you have some capacities missing.

Some capacities are linchpin capacities: meaning that unless you activate that one capacity, all the other capacities are useless... can"t work. The linchpin holds together a dysfunctional construct... keeping you unsuccessful, unhappy, ineffective. I have students like that.

It is quite stunning to look at people I know, that I have been working with sometimes for years now, and suddenly see freedom open up.

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What is the real cost of not having The Sight and Appreciation DNA capacity?

What is the real cost of not having The Sight and Appreciation DNA capacity?

Now that I have quite a few of you have these new capacities activated, I have an insight into the cost of not having had the DNA capacity active before... and to not have it be activated now, when you can.

My conversation with a guy from Holland is a good way to see the cost of not having "The Sight" activated:

He asks a valid question: (If this looks familiar, the first few comments are also in another article... just stay with it, it is worth your time. You"ll see yourself, and that is priceless.)

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Sight DNA activated? Let"s look! is the cheerful battle cry that opens the door to seeing

I am getting more and more insights about The Sight activator that activates the capacity to see the consequences of your actions.

People, you, don"t trust themselves. They don"t believe, they don"t trust that an aspect of them, the Consciousness, sees things they didn"t see, heard things they didn"t hear.

How does that happen?

When you are busy doing other things, or being angry, for example, the Consciousness isn"t involved. It is doing what it is designed to do: watch, listen.

Now, if this is so natural, then why did you need an activator? Right? Wrong.

The problem is NOT that you don"t have a part of you that is smart and watches. The problem is that you think that everything you know is in your head... in the storage department called the mind.

The mind suggests that it has everything you know, and everything there is to know. And what it doesn"t know can be learned.

But the mind is wrong... And you think that you are your mind... so YOU are always wrong...

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That"s what is a "bitch" about life: what goes up must come down

That"s what is a "bitch" about life, that nothing is EVER in the bag. You have to keep your eyes on it, push it, make the right choices, do it, and then, maybe, it gets into the bag.

I am talking about projects. Big or small, it is never in the bag until it is in the bag.

They say it is not over until the fat lady sings... but that is for spectators, that don"t enjoy the show.

A participant, it is never over until it is done...

No matter how good it looks now, no matter how good it feels now, in the next moment it can tumble, go south, the whole beautiful thing can go to s-h-i-t. And more often than not it does.

Now, why am I writing this article? Because it is my experience, that we all, myself included, behave as this nature of projects weren"t true.

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Expectation is the mother of Disappointment

One of the questions I hear on the Talk-to-Me calls or in emails is how to "make it better" or what is good, etc.

It"s all a comparison, past based, from the mind.

One thing, disappointment ((the feeling of sadness or displeasure caused by the nonfulfillment of one"s hopes or expectations.
"to her disappointment, there was no chance to talk privately with Luke"
synonyms: sadness, regret, dismay, sorrow; More
dispiritedness, despondency, distress, chagrin;
disenchantment, disillusionment;
displeasure, dissatisfaction, disgruntlement
"his disappointment in the outcome was obvious"
antonyms: satisfaction

a person, event, or thing that causes disappointment.
plural noun: disappointments
"the job proved a disappointment"
synonyms: letdown, nonevent, anticlimax, washout; informal: bummer
"the trip was a bit of a disappointment")) can"t be made better. It"s like pregnant: it is either a yes or a no.

Now, I assume that we all get disappointed, more or less, depending on us.
Disappointment is the shadow side of expectation.
Expectation, of course, is quite automatic, just like having an agenda is automatic... actually they are just a different word for the same thing.

I haven"t been able to consciously not expect a certain result... on the other hand, for the most part I expect nothing... or expect the worst.

This is another Dark Side suggestion: expect the best and then you"ll get the best... What a bunch of huey! The whole positive thinking movement is a Dark Side suggestion, and has created more misery than even religion, which is saying a lot.
Expecting the best won"t get you the best... Exactly the opposite is true.

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Spiritual practice: Recognizing yourself in another, considering the other a mirror

This is probably the most politically incorrect post I have ever written... I could not find a picture to illustrate it on the whole world wide web.

Why is it politically incorrect? Because the current Dark Side suggestion is that you are perfect the way you are, and your job is to forgive yourself any faults, if you even have any, and keep looking to the outside where other people are worse than you.... Dark Side suggestions are designed to keep you miserable and powerless till you die... ((I teach you to be powerful, not to fancy yourself powerful, while you are lying to yourself. It was very clear in yesterday"s talk to me session... watch the replay))

But the picture and quote I found is true, even if no one understands it. Oh well...

The other day I watched this British comedian mock Robert Pattinson"s acting. I don"t know the actor he was talking about, but I recognized myself having, somewhat the same relationship with some gurus that, in my view, don"t deserve the adulation and the millions of dollars they make, while I "should".

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Spiritual Practice: Angry? Frustrated? Anxious? Ask: Does this benefit me?

You get angry, you get frustrated, you get anxious, you get jealous... you name it, the emotions pop up and you have nothing to do about them.

But... and this is a BIG but: A normal emotion comes and goes, like clouds on a windy day. Com and go... sunny, cloudy, sunny, cloudy.

Emotions and feelings are energies, and energy"s nature is to move. If they don"t, you have the static electricity thing going: and because energy MUST move, it will explode... like lightening.

You just have to hold onto the emotion by resisting it.

After all most emotions don"t feel good. I even dare say: held-onto emotions don"t feel good... even if it is happiness you are holding onto.

It"s like laughter: it is great. It is a great release. It is invigorating.

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