Call me blunt, call me judgmental... I don"t care.

I am going to share, in this article, some of the judgmental sounding questions I ask when I try to get a full picture about someone who is asking for help.

As you probably don"t know, judgment comes from ego, from comparison. I am smart and you are stupid... that is judgment.

You are stupid isn"t judgment unless you feel something in your chest or throat as you say it. Unless it means something about you.

I feel nothing, or maybe sadness, when I ask these assessment question... that help me make sense out of the convoluted picture each person is.

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You live in a world of your own design

You live in a world of your own design. And you create the world with your beingness.

We think that beingness is all good... But beingness is neutral. It doesn"t take sides. There is a beingness for everything, including greed, jealousy, and puniness... if that"s a word.

But whatever that beingess is, when you realize it, when you pinpoint it, you"ll immediately see that it actually created your current reality, and if you don"t do something about it... it will create the rest of your life that same...

But as a human you have access to creating any kind of beingness... you have difficulty in holding onto it. But yet, you can start. Any time, any day, any age. And increase your capacity to hold onto the beingness, honor it as yourself.

One of the beingnesses we are really familiar with is BEING judgmental. Or the flip side of it (they always go together, like the two sides of the coin!) BEING judged.

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Sometimes all you need is a tiny nudge... and you can go from unhappy to happy.

As you may know, I am doing my second round of the 67 steps. In step 13 Tai says something like this: if you are not happy, don"t throw everything away. It is possible that the unhappiness is due to a mismatch of your current lifestyle with your social needs...

Huh?

So I went back in my memory to different stages of my business, or the different businesses I had. And lo and behold, I found something totally freaky: I was happiest when I had at least one person cooperating with me in my business. Even if the cooperation was minor, and we didn"t interact much. Just knowing that I am not alone transformed my experience.

Now, this is a big surprise to me.

It is counter intuitive. I didn"t know that I didn"t know. I wasn"t even looking in that direction

And it is something that I can easily apply, easily accommodate without changing anything else.

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High vibration, high achiever people err on the side of judging you more capable than you are.

Teachers, and coaches, who themselves are high vibration and high achievers, I know a few, see you better than you are, and tell you that with a little, or a lot of coaching you can achieve the life you want.

But, unfortunately, we desire things we are not equipped to achieve, or are not willing to move towards.

Why is this?

Because it takes active, working capacities to do things. DNA capacities... capacities that you cannot learn... Capacities are not like knowledge. Capacities are not like skills. Capacities are either open or not open. If they aren"t open, they need to be opened, either by being in a do or die situation, where unless you use a capacity you don"t have, or you die... or by me... at this point I don"t know anyone else who can open a capacity.

There are 160 capacities in the human DNA, and most of them are dormant, inactive, not available to you.

Moreover, you don"t even know they are missing.

Remember the missing item exercises? Where we are trying to activate a capacity that is missing, by lying authentically?

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DNA capacities... how many should you get activated?

This question is coming up with increasing frequency.

You should ONLY activate a capacity if and when you need it, when you have a use for it, and it"s missing. Otherwise you won"t know what to do with it, and won"t use it.

Ego will declare it a ballast... and turn it off.

What is the most important ingredient that you need to grow and need new capacities turned on?

It"s ambition.

Ambition is an inner force that propels you towards growth, upwards, onwards. It only has direction, and not a goal. If you have a goal, it is not ambition, it is desire... aka greed. All ego. Wanting to have.

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When you have a capacity activated... will you be great right away? Courageous, insightful, self-trusting?

When you have a capacity activated... will you be great right away? Courageous, insightful, self-trusting?

One of the "results" I"ve been seeing is this:

The ego is responsible, or at least feels responsible for your survival. It"s like a domineering mother... it professes to know what is good for you and what isn"t.

Mothers will stop you from becoming all you can be... unless...

Unless you bother to sweet-talk them into seeing your side of the situation.

Negotiating, sweet talking, enrolling people who "should" be on your side is universally missing. I have spoken about that in the context of agreements you never made. ((Here are the two articles where I explain this agreement issue... http://yourvibration.com/getunstuck/250/hidden-blockages-success-melt http://www.yourvibration.com/816/miserable-miserable-binding/))

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What can my recent anger teach you?

I have said before: What you see is the most important element in your life. In this article you"ll see, that what you see is also directed by where you are looking... You can look at one thing or you can look at another ting... and your actions will be sharply different. ((For completeness sake, where you are looking from is also an important factor... where the "where" is not a place, it"s an attitude, expectation, or an already knowing. If this made no sense... it is new to you. Ask me to write an article about that. But here is an example for already knowing: "Carlos never listens to me..." it is from where you are looking...))

So read this article with that in mind: it will make it more valuable to you.

I have been angry for the past few days.

It is a familiar place where I"ve gone before: I started to pay attention to the results, good or bad, instead of paying attention to something I can control, something that belongs to me.

The results are not up to you. Really.

All you can do is all you can do, and all you can do is enough...

Actions, the doing, comes from the beingness... Beingness comes from within... from consciousness.

The doing, the actions cause something... whatever the results may be, and that is the having...

You"ll have the results.

We tend to get angry about the results... as if the world owed us the results we had in mind.

But the truth is, that even the best actions don"t produce the results that you had in mind, unless you are the only person in the game. No partners, no customers, no family... just you.

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One method to force your new capacities work for you

It seems that one method of making the newly activated capacities real has been found.

As you know, having activated DNA capacities is nice, but unless you need it, they won"t do anything. They will be like lights that are on in streets that no one passes.

The methods I am looking for are methods that make you go into those streets, so you use the light and find ways to be different, do different, have different results, different reactions, different feelings.

The issue with comfortable and somewhat successful people (you) has been is that ego won"t allow you to take risks unless you trick it. I mean: trick the ego. Sweet-talk is great, but won"t help much in this case, I have tried.

So, the method I have zeroed in with the client who inherited his father"s company is this:

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DNA capacity: Flexibility

Sometimes people get an idea of activating a capacity that is so alien to their culture, it takes a good 5-10 minutes for the history channel, the ancestors backwards, to build.

It is so unfamiliar that ego doesn"t even know to protest. It is like a way of being that is totally unfamiliar... you can"t see other than special people, like kung fu fighters, or shaolin monks to demonstrate.

Flexibility is the capacity to be able to keep your balance even though the world is pushing you hither and tether...

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What does your email address tell about you?

I just sent out a bunch of emails to people that I wasn"t sure wanted to get my emails.I wanted the ones that didn"t, to unsubscribe. Why? Because I don"t like to anger people... and people anger really easily...

The people on this list asked to learn from me. Learn to connect to Source, learn to slip out of the mind, really important stuff.

Many unsubscribed. My hunch: many of them didn"t even open my email.

I removed the ones that unsubscribed, one by one... Time consuming, but it was worth it.

I gleaned an insight that I want to share with you:

90% of those that unsubscribed had an email address that betrayed their affiliation, their self-image, or their aspirations.

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The lesson of Doctor Who for those who want to raise their vibration

I published an article on Doctor Who a week or so ago: I did not write that article, no matter what you thought when you read it.

That article was written before the current Doctor came to the scene.

The Doctor, 1000 years old, periodically dies and regenerates into a whole different look and personality "new" Doctor.

It is jarring for everyone involved, especially to the previous companions of The Doctor. The doctor looks dramatically different, and is a dramatically different personality.

As I can tell, one aspect of The Doctor needed to be made obvious: his vulnerability.

There is a great video compilation at the end of this article... worth watching, even if you have never seen the show.

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Vibration is like fitness: if what you are doing is not painful, it will not raise your vibration

Everybody is looking for the easy, take a pill type of solution to life"s issues: fitness, relationships, money, raising your vibration.

One of my students has been coming back to the same article, over and over again, several times a day, because to him it seems like an instant, pop a pill type of solution to raising your vibration.

The truth is that pop a pill type of solutions either don"t work, or work counter to your intention.
Fitness is the easiest to see because it is visible... the others: it isn"t quite obvious
If you take a pill... you"ll not get fit. If it works and you lose weight, it probably caused damage, just ask me. I won"t say it publicly, but I did that and it has caused probably irreparable damage... I am still working to repair it.

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Social Evolution... what level of evolution is your ethnicity at?

I am reading my n-th book on Genghis Khan and the Mongols. I don"t know how many thousands of pages... this book is about 2,000 pages: I am now used to reading really long books: Kindle makes it weightless.

There is something about Genghis Khan that talks to me. He was a great innovator and a visionary: envisioned a world of tolerance, commerce, division of labor... a grand vision.

One of the sentences he said is that everyone wants to belong, everyone yearns for a place and a community called home. That is what he used to build a huge empire, where instead of thousands of warring tribes, there was one tribe and on Khan.

Of course it didn"t last... all beautiful desires and visions are balanced out by tens of desires of greed, of anger, of vengeance, of pride, of ego. All societally defined values.

Genghis Khan didn"t want anything for himself, he wanted everything for his people...

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What is high vibration, really?

I got this email this morning:
Hello Sophie,
I have read some of Your reviews. I thought raising vibrations meant inner transformation, less ego and more kindness. Sorry, but to me Your Message does not seem truthful. I do not think it is Your intention, but I have to quit.
Regards from K
A lot of visitors have the same opinion: higher vibration means more kindness...

Now, where is this coming from? If you watched the movie (on my subscribers" site) Babette"s Feast, you saw that the Christian sect in that movie taught kindness and love... but it was not there for anyone.

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More about changing... but not the mind

Yesterday"s article said that it"s futile to try to change the words, try to change the thought to change you or your life.

And yet, some of the time those programs work. Often? Not at all.

So why do they work, how do they work?

When I look at the examples where something shifted like in my first encounter with hypnosis, I see that the behavior changed. Dramatically.

Were the words that changed? No. Something much deeper. If I want to go out on a limb, I could say that the picture of myself changed.

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Inner peace... is it possible for you?

Inner Peace is elusive, like health.
What do you call peace? The lack of war? What do you call health? Lack of illness?

Imagine that you are walking in a forest, on a footpath on a beautiful summer day. The birds are chirping. There is a slight breeze. There is peace. And you may know that animals are hunting, eating another, and yet there is peace.

It seems that peace is when you are OK with how it is, good, bad, ugly, you are OK. When a ball comes your way: you catch it. When a branch blocks your way, you bend it away. When there is a climb in the path, you climb. When a stone gets in your shoe, you shake it out. No resistance. Life is good.
If you can bring that OK-ness...

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NEW: How do you know if a program or method works or not?

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A better question: How do you know if a program or method will work for you or not? That is a crucial question. A program may work, but you won"t like it you will be afraid to do what you … Continue reading →

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NEW: Despair to get money fast, to pay the rent, to make ends meet, to get out of a bad situation?

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NEW: How Self-Awareness is the Key to Happiness, Effectiveness, Intelligent Decisions... The Sideways View

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NEW: Excited about tomorrow"s webinar? I am. It"s at 4 pm EST

Question: Dear Sophie, Read your love article- excellent- again, makes perfect sense I"m exactly halfway thru the Wattles book, I expect to finish it sometime tonight- I saw that you have a webinar tomorrow/Saturday at 9 p.m. EST - yes, … Continue reading →

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