Updated: Hungry? Eager? How resisting "hunger" can raise your vibration.

Hunger is a poor advisor
It is said by many people, that you shouldn"t go grocery shopping when you are hungry.

Why? Because when you are hungry, the context of your being becomes to satisfy that hunger. Everything seems to be the answer to the question: this is the best way to eliminate hunger, to satisfy hunger.

So you end up spending money on stuff that is not good for you, that you should not have bought, maybe ever, in the first place.
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You have to get ready for a breakthrough? WTF? Why? Can"t you just get one any time?

One of my students had a breakthrough on the Monday webinar.

To me it came out of the blue... nothing seemed to be building up to it.

I got intensely curious. After all, when you don"t or can"t acknowledge the "real" source of a breakthrough, then you can"t sustain the result the breakthrough. It looks like divine intervention: you are not causing it, some "entity" does... and all you can do is pray for rain...

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How to make your new DNA activated capacity actually work for you

Unconscious Incompetence: the missing item
Like knowledge, capacities are either conscious or not.

When a knowledge, a skill, a capacity is conscious, you know to reach for it when it would be useful. It is like you know you have a Phillips screwdriver... and you reach for it.

But if you have never had a Phillips screwdriver, as far as you are concerned, you have to substitute other methods to screw in a screw, imperfect tools for an imperfect result, or give it up and find another screw. Makes sense so far?

To know to reach for it is not automatic, because you didn"t know you had it.

When I activate a formerly dark DNA capacity, when I switch it on, you don"t know you have it. You even paid for it, but you don"t know what"s missing, you only see that life is not quite working in a certain arena, just like the natives saw the ripples in the water, but could not see the ships... seeing ship with sails was a missing capacity for them.

A missing capacity is like the missing item, in the missing item exercise I have written about and have coached hundreds with it.
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Doctor Who... how the doctor lost sight that he is the doctor only once.

Why I love all the Doctors
I love Doctor Who... My favorite thing about the doctor is that he never forgets, never loses sight of the big picture... almost never.

In one of the episodes he does... and it is the episode I go back, and watch it again. To watch the transformation back and forth from doctor to stupid earthbound human back to doctor.

The Doctor is the best illustration I have for living out of the Observer, the Watcher... the part of you that doesn"t get entangled... that doesn"t lose sight of what you are about, what it is about. Brilliant.
1: Because he’s adorable when embarrassed, he’s always learning and growing, and he’s still very much a Time Lord.  Because he’s got precisely the reverse of Matt Smith going on: he’s young by the standards of his own species but old by ours, and it creates the most fascinating dynamic.

2: Because he’s kind, considerate, demonstrative, loving, whimsical, playful and childish, but you do not want to cross him.  Because he believes in the potential for goodness in everyone, even the Daleks, but doesn’t let that blind him to the dangers of the universe.  Because he likes music and funny hats and coats and bow ties.  Because he’s still such a boy, but he’s growing older, too.  Because his departure story is heartrending, and marks a major turning point in who the Doctor is.

 

3: Because Venusian aikido and reversed polarities.  Because of every single thing about his relationships with the Brig, Jo, Liz and Sarah, not to mention Benton and Yates and the Master and Bessie.  Because he’s a man out of his element but stronger than ever.  Because he’s a consummate gentleman.  Because he will kick your ass in velvet and lace.  Because now he’s learned something about loss and pain, and yet it’s taught him that where there’s life, there is always, always hope.

 

4: Because he doesn’t take one single thing seriously–except when it really matters.  Because he’s not afraid to lead revolutions, change history, or even kill, but he appreciates the gravity of those decisions.  Because he’s an eccentric bohemian in a twenty-foot scarf with hair as wild as he is.  Because he’s smarter than the universe, and there has never been a Doctor so impossible to defeat.  Because his major companions are absolutely incredible women, any of whom could easily carry off a show of their own, as they have to be to stand up next to him.  Because there’s no sense in being grown-up if you can’t be childish sometimes.  Because he is an unstoppable individualist and proud of it.  Because the universe is his oyster, and he always manages to find the pearl in it.  Because he’s mad as all the hatters and hares in the seven systems.  Because he’s always laughing, and always will.  Because he’ll insult you to your face if you deserve it.  Because it’s never not the right time for a jelly baby.  And because Tom Baker is the Doctor, and has always said so himself.

 

5: Because cricket, tea, cele
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Advising, giving advice, helping

Unless it"s your job to give advice, don"t.

Why? Because giving advice comes from your shadow side, from your dark side.

How? When you give advice, you place yourself above the other person. Giving advice is asserting your superiority.

Have you noticed that you can get fired for that? Even if your advice is right on the spot...

By the way: this is true for healers, coaches, salespeople, helpers, charity volunteers, everyone.

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#Raiseyourlevelofconsciousness

Money... grow it... Part 2... Inventory

Most people start pretty much anything with what they want. That is the starting point, that is also, most of the time, the context. ((The context is a statement of why you are doing what you are doing. ))

But it is a default context, and it is not empowering. ((

When something is empowering, it gives you a sense of real power to do what you intend to do.
When something is not empowering, it is just there, but no assistance is gotten from it.
When something is disempowering, it takes away your power.

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If you are the alpha and the omega of things, if everything is about you, then you are going to be wretched, or if you already are wretched, you are going to stay that way, unless things start to be NOT about you.

The job is to get out of the default context and into something empowering.
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#Money

Intelligence is like money: it can buy you a lot or it can buy you junk

Get Rid of Frustration Once and for All?
I just pulled the energetic attachments from two guys, and I had an insight while I was doing it.

Both guys are frustrated: given how smart they are, their results should be over the top, but they aren"t.

When I looked at their dominant belief, I saw the reason.

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#attachments, #Raiseyourvibration

More about changing... but not the mind

Yesterday"s article said that it"s futile to try to change the words, try to change the thought to change you or your life.

And yet, some of the time those programs work. Often? Not at all.

So why do they work, how do they work?

When I look at the examples where something shifted like in my first encounter with hypnosis, I see that the behavior changed. Dramatically.

Were the words that changed? No. Something much deeper. If I want to go out on a limb, I could say that the picture of myself changed.

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#newcapacities, #Perspective, #Raiseyourlevelofconsciousness, #Raiseyourvibration

If you have a problem keeping your word... Consistently

I am removing people from the Reclaim program, left and right, for inactivity. If you don"t have at least one written coaching conversation with me a week, you are put on the "to be removed" list. Why? Because if you are not doing the work you shouldn"t be in the program.

If you are not coming for the coaching... then I have a good idea how your life looks.
How you do anything is how you do everything.
This was probably one of the most shocking things I learned in self-development, right up there with "you think you see everything, but you only see what you have already seen".

Both insights were upsetting, and started to break up the world-view, the mythical, magical world view, that "I can do anything I put my mind to."
I realized that everything, for me, meant, maybe, 1% of the things...
Some of us seem to have no ability to sustain any activity without an outside have to, need to, or want to.

I, for example, cannot be trusted as far as eating habits go. There seems to be no correlation between my conscious decisions and my behavior. I may be able to sustain a desirable behavior for a day, a week, a few weeks... maybe.

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NEW: When you realize that YOU are wasting your life... Updated

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How do YOU waste your life? How do YOU leak? A student of mine watched a movie last night. In the movie she heard the following dialogue: "Thank you for saving my life" "Don’t waste it." She cried. Later her … Continue reading →



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Want to become an expanding human being? Suggestions: Act like one!

Yesterday I wrote an article, and asked you to recommend a course of action for the mother in the article with the female child...

Many of you have asked me before: how can I raise my vibration? What shall I do to build skills? Where should I start to find my life"s work that I would love to do?

My standard answer has been: keep alert, keep aware, life is full of training and growth opportunities. You take a path, keep your eyes open, and grow in the process.

Taking that challenge, placing yourself in the position of the mother was an excellent way for you to see if you have been giving lip service to growth or you are actually committed to grow.

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NEW: Do you have dyslexia? Or someone you know?

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NEW: What is all-of-it like? benevolent and disinterested? angry and frustrated?

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I had the most peculiar experience today that forever changed my relationship to Source. I have been muscle testing everything, and the results have been erratic, and even my name came out as no: Is my name Sophie? No. That … Continue reading →



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You can"t see and you don"t know it. You can"t hear and you don"t know it

It"s a rare opportunity to go from innocent infant to all-seeing adult, being able to observe it at the same time.

When I first did the Landmark Forum, (()) the koan of the session was: for you everything is the same as everything else, except that not always.

When you are an infant, for you everything is the same as everything else... no distinctions. No distinction between your body and the environment. You are just as ready to suck on your feet as you are ready to suck on someone else"s finger.

From time to time you"ll see something strange, like you reach out, as always, and your hands remain empty: the object you reach for is out of reach...

You learn the world, your world, slowly, and experientially. Through seeing, hearing, touching, tasting... like a baby.

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#BugFreeMind, #mites

Do you ever wonder how life would have turned out, had you made different decisions? Different choices?

Do you ever wonder how life would have turned out, had you made different decisions? Different choices?

The other day I didn"t feel like working at all... so I watched two movies in a row.

Both were interesting, but the one... about choices, made a deep imprint on me, and made me look at this issue: choices.

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NEW: Updated: Where to find the character flaws to correct? Can you learn soul correction from a book? Cheap Closure Now...

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Where are you going to find the character flaws that you need to correct? Can you learn soul correction from a book? Cheap Closure Now... Wow, I wrote this article three years ago. Not much has changed outside of me, … Continue reading →



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NEW: The fear of trusting... This is why you can"t ask and won"t get help from above

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One of the hard wired characteristic of a human is the insistence on making their own decisions. But, we often don"t have the tools, the knowledge, the means to make sound decisions, and yet... we keep on insisting. The seed … Continue reading →





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Don"t be hungry! Don"t be eager! Don"t be hellbent on success! Don"t be infatuated!

Many people may say to you: to be successful, you need to have fire in the belly. You need to be hungry.

So people, maybe you, beat yourself into a feeding frenzy, and set out to conquer the world.

Your mother said: don"t go food shopping when you are hungry. Why? Because when your belly calls the shot, your higher faculties take leave of absence, and you"ll make horrible decisions. You"ll buy everything you should not eat, and enough food for ten. I have done it... horrid.

It is when the tail wags the dog.

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How to measure vibration? How to measure consciousness? how to measure your vibrational frequency

It is good to know where you are at. With all the pretending, with all the charts, you probably overestimate or underestimate your vibration, your vibrational frequency.

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NEW: Many people grieve continuously. What do you grieve for? Is it grief or is it depression?

Believe it or not, grieving is ALWAYS for what could have been. For the loss of a future. Whether it is in a relationship, or adventure, or riches, or living a fulfilled life. Opportunities missed, a life missed. If feels … Continue reading →

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