Showing posts with label choices. Show all posts
Showing posts with label choices. Show all posts

Wednesday, April 4, 2018

How to Live More Abundantly... a Jewish Story


One night, the Shah dressed up as a peasant to enjoy the evening air undisturbed by his rank, and to wander through the streets of his empire unnoticed. He walked through town and reached the poor section of town. The street was quiet, but suddenly he heard singing from a little cottage. As he peaked through the window he saw a man sitting at a table.

He was amazed that such a poor man would be in such good spirits. He knocked on the door and asked if he would be welcome to join the man as a guest. They ate and drank together. After the meal the Shah asked the man how he earned his living.

"I am a poor Jew, I fix shoes in the street, and with what I earn I sustain myself for that day." answered the man.
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Tuesday, July 5, 2016

You live in a world of your own design... You don"t like the design?


You live in a world of your own design

But how do you build a world of your own design?

Everyone hopes that this sentence "you live in a world of your own design" means that you can change your life.

But the sentence means: you have the world that you have designed. You built it. brick by brick. Anxiety by anxiety. By self-limitation or self-indulgence. By lack of self-worth, self-esteem, lack of any knowledge, lack of any values... or by delusion... yeah, YOU built it. Not ever considering the consequences of your actions.

You built it to be a tiny cage: secure enough so you can feel safer, that you can feel not too much for you to deal with it, tight enough to feel trapped.

Download the pdf version of this article at the end of the article

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Sunday, June 26, 2016

Want to be high vibration? Leave the basement of your being... get well.


I woke up this morning. For the second day in a row, I am bursting of energy, more energy than I know what to do with.

I have been sorting my laundry. I have been cleaning the stove top, the sinks... doing things the I turned away from before, because I didn"t have anything to give it.

I went for a quick walk yesterday.

I am getting a lot more done even in my business.

I am starting to get some realizations that I did not expect.

For one: humanity is not ready to raise their vibration.

You are trying to put the cart in front of the horses.

You are worrying about the wrong thing. About the trip to the penthouse... but you are in the basement, and the elevator doesn"t go down there.

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Monday, April 25, 2016

Making choices: are you a rank amateur?


This may be the most important article you read this year, this decade... because this article may inspire you to become a professional at living, instead of remaining a rank amateur... aka bumbling idiot.
Risk Management
You have two options. You need to choose. You need to choose the option that has the lower cost to your reproductive success if it turns out to be wrong.

Now, I suspect, that almost none of us think about cost in terms of reproductive success, but according to evolutionary psychology, you are a mere vehicle to your genes, your genes are only interested in making copies of themselves, i.e. reproduce, and make your particular genes more dominant in the gene pool.

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Monday, November 30, 2015

Capacities... what does it mean? How do you know someone only has a few capacities active?




Capacities... what does it mean? How do you know someone only has a few capacities active?

I was on a marketing webinar... actually it is still going on as I am writing this.

The presenters are two brothers in Ireland... genius as far as building a piece of software, morons in every other area that I can see.

One has nine, the other has ten capacities working.

So, in the brief duration of the webinar, what were the capacities that weren"t turned on and made it pure hell being on the webinar:

not having a sense of what they sound like
talking about a screen not aware that that is not what the attendees of the webinar see
building an offer that timed poorly, presented poorly, salesy...
overselling...

Those are behaviors that are underlied by 10 capacities that they don"t have...

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#ActivatingAbilities, #VibrationalReviews

Saturday, November 28, 2015

Crying: what is it doing for you?


When crying/sobbing has no content, when you don"t know why you are crying, then something deep is clearing out.

When you know why you are crying, then some past gets confirmed and your ego will try and repeat it for you.

I watched a mini-series yesterday. It ended with a big surprise. It shook me.

But the sobbing came today. I don"t know why I cried. I don"t know if I was crying for the person in the movie, for you, for myself... I don"t know.

I have had nothing similar in my life... But I felt the regret, the shame, the guilt, the despair, the hopelessness, and the resolution... and these are universal for any misdeed.

When you hope to get through completing your past without thoughtless sobbing, you are being guided by Ego. Ego want you to pretend that you are doing what you need to do to get back to nothing... the only place from where you can build anything that lasts.

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#ActivatingAbilities, #ExpandingHumanBeing, #Raiseyourvibration

Getting really smart is scary


One thing the book Flowers for Algernon did not prepare me for is how scary it is to get too smart too quickly.



I have been experimenting with different capacities... what they do, what behavior, what insight they possible.

One of these capacities increased my capacity (it had been turned on, but not fully utilized by me) to see many steps ahead and act accordingly.

And for the first time since I started this work, I got scared.

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#ActivatingAbilities

Thursday, November 5, 2015

Sight DNA activated? Let"s look! is the cheerful battle cry that opens the door to seeing


I am getting more and more insights about The Sight activator that activates the capacity to see the consequences of your actions.

People, you, don"t trust themselves. They don"t believe, they don"t trust that an aspect of them, the Consciousness, sees things they didn"t see, heard things they didn"t hear.

How does that happen?

When you are busy doing other things, or being angry, for example, the Consciousness isn"t involved. It is doing what it is designed to do: watch, listen.

Now, if this is so natural, then why did you need an activator? Right? Wrong.

The problem is NOT that you don"t have a part of you that is smart and watches. The problem is that you think that everything you know is in your head... in the storage department called the mind.

The mind suggests that it has everything you know, and everything there is to know. And what it doesn"t know can be learned.

But the mind is wrong... And you think that you are your mind... so YOU are always wrong...

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#DNAactivation

Tuesday, October 27, 2015

That"s what is a "bitch" about life: what goes up must come down


That"s what is a "bitch" about life, that nothing is EVER in the bag. You have to keep your eyes on it, push it, make the right choices, do it, and then, maybe, it gets into the bag.

I am talking about projects. Big or small, it is never in the bag until it is in the bag.

They say it is not over until the fat lady sings... but that is for spectators, that don"t enjoy the show.

A participant, it is never over until it is done...

No matter how good it looks now, no matter how good it feels now, in the next moment it can tumble, go south, the whole beautiful thing can go to s-h-i-t. And more often than not it does.

Now, why am I writing this article? Because it is my experience, that we all, myself included, behave as this nature of projects weren"t true.

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#Raiseyourvibration

Tuesday, October 13, 2015

Historical novels, reading about famous people: is that a good idea?


I know a lot of people who love to read historical novels, biographies, etc. When I look at them I get that they live their lives vicariously through those novels, not in reality. All these people have boring, ordinary lives.

For the past 4-5 months, I have been reading about the Mongols, the 13-14th century innovators of the world, without whom the world would look very very different.

The founder, the father of the Mongol Empire was Genghis Khan.

Now, why am I sharing this?

Because the only reason to read historical fiction, or biographies of famous people is to get a glimpse of what caused them to become more, bigger, or special.

We are all born ordinary. Then we either stay ordinary or choose a path that leads to exceptional, whether it is in the direction of bad or good. ((In choosing a path, context is decisive. If the context is only themselves, their pleasure, their life, then the direction is towards desire for the self alone, aka evil. If the context (the why) is about more than just themselves and their life, then the direction is towards the Light))

In every life, there is at least one turning point, one moment of choice when one can choose a direction towards extraordinary...

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#Raiseyourvibration

Saturday, October 3, 2015

One principle of becoming a Human Being, that if you miss this, you"ll never raise your vibration


What is the difference between a worker and a manager?
What is the difference between the leader and a manager?
What is the difference between leading your life and managing your life?
What is the difference between working in your business and working ON your business?

The answer to all of these question is: the position from where the actions come.

By position I actually MEAN an almost physical position: where are you looking FROM when you make your decisions about what to do.

A lot of my students are stuck in a situation an earlier decision got them into. A bad marriage, bad health, bed relationship, bad job.

There are surprisingly few principles for a human being, which is the next evolutionary level after human. Applying the same principles, honoring them, will also take you to the new evolutionary level.

One of the principles is to make decisions from the whole.
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#Raiseyourvibration

Wednesday, September 30, 2015

You are hardwired to be bad and pretend to be good or better than others


Until you can look inside at your ugliness, at your emptiness, at your hatefulness, spitefulness, gossipy judgmental behavior, and see it for what it is, you will NEVER raise your vibration.

But you have an issue: that ugliness is hardwired into humans.
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#Integrity

Thursday, June 4, 2015

Can Karma put a cord or attachment on you?


If you believe in Karma

Karma (in Hinduism and Buddhism: the sum of a person"s actions in this and previous states of existence, viewed as deciding their fate in future existences.) is an action that, according to Indian philosophy, needs to be countered with another action.

There is good karma and there is bad karma.

Karma is a method to imprison you. Imprison? Yeah... Truth be told: A good action doesn"t balance a bad one, and no matter what you do, a bad action is a bad action. Done. Over. Next.

Karma acts on you like an energetic attachment. Not the action, no. The belief of karma energetically attaches yourself, anchors you and leaches your aliveness.

Karma is a lot like the national debt: it cannot be worked off, paid off, by design. You are always in debt, and that"s that.

This whole inquiry started from a recent insight I had: that people from India or Pakistan, originally or still live there, have disproportionately more attachments than "normal" people with different belief system.

What creates the attachment? It is a strong emotional connection, in Karma"s case.

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#Raiseyourvibration

Can Karma put a cord or attachment on you?


If you believe in Karma

Karma (in Hinduism and Buddhism: the sum of a person"s actions in this and previous states of existence, viewed as deciding their fate in future existences.) is an action that, according to Indian philosophy, needs to be countered with another action.

There is good karma and there is bad karma.

Karma is a method to imprison you. Imprison? Yeah... Truth be told: A good action doesn"t balance a bad one, and no matter what you do, a bad action is a bad action. Done. Over. Next.

Karma acts on you like an energetic attachment. Not the action, no. The belief of karma energetically attaches yourself, anchors you and leaches your aliveness.

Karma is a lot like the national debt: it cannot be worked off, paid off, by design. You are always in debt, and that"s that.

This whole inquiry started from a recent insight I had: that people from India or Pakistan, originally or still live there, have disproportionately more attachments than "normal" people with different belief system.

What creates the attachment? It is a strong emotional connection, in Karma"s case.

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#Raiseyourvibration

Tuesday, June 2, 2015

Therefore: Your dominant belief is not the same as your dominant behavior. So what am I pulling?


One of the biggest discoveries, for you and me, is the fact that you can"t produce a different life by changing a belief.

If it worked, and it doesn"t, then all the people who do affirmations, afformations, self-hypnosis, hypnosis, brain entrainment, EFT, would be the most successful people on Earth in the area that they are targeting.

They aren"t... and that is not surprising to me.

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#attachments, #Raiseyourvibration

Saturday, May 9, 2015

Choice is: selecting freely, AFTER consideration.


Choosing

Choice is: selecting freely, AFTER consideration.

Matsa asks: hmm, it"s puzzling - if you never choose X, didn"t you, in fact, chose Y?

My answer: are you referring to choosing sexual preference? Most people have the choice made for them, societally and biologically...
99.99% of people never actually consciously choose, instead allow something else to choose for them: how they feel, their urges, society, the other, etc.

The best example for choiceless choice is: choosing your mother... choosing your life to be the way your life is. It is weird for people. They resist how it is... but there is no other choice.


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#Raiseyourvibration

Let"s talk about sexual preference


Twice in my life I had a choice to choose being attracted to women... I mean mainly.

The first time the choice was made for me: when the woman found out that I had no history of being attracted to women, she said: "I won"t do that to you." I was about 22.

The second time I found myself turned on by a woman dancing, and I clearly saw a choice. I saw that I could choose to pursue that, but with that I would choose a life of hiding, a life of not fitting in, a hard life. I chose not to go for it.

As a sex therapist, coach, I talk to a lot of people.

I don"t buy that you are born gay. You are born normal, but are turned at some point.

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#newcapacities, #Raiseyourvibration

Saturday, March 28, 2015

Do you ever wonder how life would have turned out, had you made different decisions? Different choices?


Do you ever wonder how life would have turned out, had you made different decisions? Different choices?

The other day I didn"t feel like working at all... so I watched two movies in a row.

Both were interesting, but the one... about choices, made a deep imprint on me, and made me look at this issue: choices.

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#Raiseyourvibration

Sunday, March 15, 2015

You are hardwired to be bad and pretend to be good or better


Until you can look inside at your ugliness, at your emptiness, at your hatefulness, spitefulness, gossipy judgmental behavior, and see it for what it is, you will NEVER raise your vibration.

But you have an issue: that ugliness is hardwired into humans.
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#ExpandingHumanBeing, #Getunstuck, #Meditation, #Raiseyourlevelofconsciousness, #Raiseyourvibration

Wednesday, February 18, 2015

NEW: Authenticity

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I am a foreigner. I learned the English words, one by one, but I started to learn the being associated, the being meant by some words when I was 38 and started the work of transformation. The first being word … Continue reading →





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