Wanting to win is a survival game. Low vibration, low consciousness

If you play to win, you"ll always play a small game. Play to win in anything.


Win friends, and influence people.





Win an argument

Win a competition

Win at cards

Win a reward, a salary, a compliment

to look smart, respectable, well-thought-of, generous, holy, spiritual, humble... whatever will make you look, so you can live another day.


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Why getting well is so difficult for us, people without a Self

There is never a better time to experience what you experience, than right when you experience it.

This morning I was hit with a strong feeling of despair, loneliness.

I didn"t have time to hang out with it, I was in the middle of something. I wanted to shoo it away, and I also wanted to indulge in it.

But then I decided to just feel it, acknowledge it, and let it go. I paid attention to what it said... nodded, wept a little, and let it go.

Is this familiar to you? I didn"t think so. You don"t know who you are, and you don"t want to find out.
There are many reasons you don"t know yourself.
One of these reasons is that you resist your emotions.
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More on toughening up... and an exercise

More on toughening up...

When I first did the Landmark Forum (actually it was called The Forum in 1987) I remember, distinctly, experiencing, for the first time, that I am not alone.

There was so much misery shared in that room, that it caused a kind of comradery ((special friendship, or experience of being in battle together, that have experienced the crucible of combat together)), I wasn"t familiar with.

I remember thinking: If I am not alone, then it is not me... then it is something shared...

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Crying: what is it doing for you?

When crying/sobbing has no content, when you don"t know why you are crying, then something deep is clearing out.

When you know why you are crying, then some past gets confirmed and your ego will try and repeat it for you.

I watched a mini-series yesterday. It ended with a big surprise. It shook me.

But the sobbing came today. I don"t know why I cried. I don"t know if I was crying for the person in the movie, for you, for myself... I don"t know.

I have had nothing similar in my life... But I felt the regret, the shame, the guilt, the despair, the hopelessness, and the resolution... and these are universal for any misdeed.

When you hope to get through completing your past without thoughtless sobbing, you are being guided by Ego. Ego want you to pretend that you are doing what you need to do to get back to nothing... the only place from where you can build anything that lasts.

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The sentence that was worth $100

Sometimes it is worth buying a book for $100 that has one sentence... the rest is gravy.

The sentence that was worth the $100 is:
If you are angry at a person who is unconscious, is like being angry at a dog for being a dog.
And at another place

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The levels of self awareness... and your financial and relationship troubles Part 2.

Yesterday I had a marathon call with a student. It went almost three hours.

She paid for 15 minutes... and we only ended it after almost three hours, because she needed to use the bathroom and walk the dog... I was still ready to continue.

What made we want to talk to her this long?

The answer is obvious to me, but maybe not that obvious to you, so let me explain.

In every conversation you have the opportunity to observe yourself, and catch yourself in some machine-like reaction. Every time it"s a gift.

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"Sell dreams, not products." said Steve Jobs. Most purchases stay a dream only, a disappointing one at that

If you are like me, if you understand the title of this article, you are terrified, dismayed, disgusted... Feel cheated, duped, bamboozled... But chances are you have no idea what the title says. You keep buying the stuff and get no results whatsoever. This article may change it for you forever.

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