When the guru is wrong...

Today I learned a lesson so cruelly cutting, my stomach hurt from it.

Now, being on the other side of it, it has opened my eyes to so many things, I am surprised.

I found out that some of my carefully crafted assumptions based in decades of education might be wrong.

I have been fighting it for more than a week now... and finally, today, I had to face the piper.

The polar pitcher, the equipment I use for energizing water, has changed: the pitcher you get on Amazon today are slightly smaller than what I own and have based my water energizing system on.

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The Juice Exercise: what gives you "juice" in life?

I have been coaching people for many years now. The goal was always to take people on a journey to become their best Self.

Now, the task is easier when someone knows who they are. When someone has a Self.

Most people don"t. They have a persona for each group they interact with, the family persona, the student persona, the friend, the gossiper, the entertainer, the this and the that.

Those personas (roles you play) are not you. They were created by a perceived demand in the circumstances, a perceived demand in the environment.

They leave you empty, they leave you being jerked by the shoulds, and have to"s and the wants... like a puppet on a string.

You sense that you have no control, you sense that you are not you... a vague sense.

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Back into light... The counter cultural way to become your higher self, no matter where you are.

Living in the three levels of value, the systemic, the extrinsic, and the intrinsic, lived fully, and balanced, is the secret to the good life.

The Indian sages, including the Buddha, skipped the extrinsic. They taught people not to live there. They had a disdain for it.

But work is on the extrinsic level, making money is on that level, so skipping it means living a life of charity. Living a life where you cannot value another person on all levels... because you don"t value the values of that level.
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How context can unify a fragmented life and make it a seamless life?

It is time to rewrite the book, Truth versus Falsehood, on muscle testing, measuring for truth, and other practices that most everybody uses to cover up that they don"t know. To cover up that they are amateurs out to get your money.

So who has to write it? Me... and I don"t like to write long things: I am a really short article type person.

People tell me that you write long things the way you write short things... but I don"t know if this is true.

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What is the vibration of being right?

One of the most desired possibilities, one of the most desired life anyone can have is a life where you are free to be yourself, warts and all.

It is human nature to be self-critical, it is because of our ambivalent nature of feeling everything and the opposite.

There is no one on the planet who is all good. It is not possible. It is a physical impossibility. It"s unnatural.

You have to be good and you have to be bad, and you have to have high thoughts and you have to have low thoughts. Actions: you have a choice about. But feelings, thoughts... no choice.

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You have to get ready for a breakthrough? WTF? Why? Can"t you just get one any time?

One of my students had a breakthrough on the Monday webinar.

To me it came out of the blue... nothing seemed to be building up to it.

I got intensely curious. After all, when you don"t or can"t acknowledge the "real" source of a breakthrough, then you can"t sustain the result the breakthrough. It looks like divine intervention: you are not causing it, some "entity" does... and all you can do is pray for rain...

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Why is awareness the predictor of future success, why not skills or knowledge?

The first few steps in the 67 steps are long, rich, convoluted audios. Why? Because no matter how long the audio, you"ll only get one little thing, if that, because the cone of vision of your awareness is as wide as a pencil.

Did I notice, did I take in all he spoke about my first time around doing the 67 steps? No. I didn"t.

It is like traveling in a car. If you look out the window, you miss the conversation in the car. If you take part in the conversation in the car, you miss the whole trip. If you read, if you are hungry...

The goal is to expand the cone of awareness so it"s wide. So you can see the view, partake in the conversation, and maybe even be hungry...
Now, that is, increasing your awareness is the goal... but how does it effect success?

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How superiority blocks you from growing. Are you perceptive, astute?

I do a lot of "work" that doesn"t look like work.

For example, asking the question: Is being perceptive a capacity?

It turns out that it is. It is on a scale of one to 100... very perceptive, somewhat perceptive, not perceptive.

Cats are not perceptive. Partially because their eyes are calibrated to only notice movement. A non-moving tasty bit of food, mouse, bug is like doesn"t exist for a cat. That is probably why they only eat food that stinks to my human nose... ugh. They can"t see it, can"t judge it from its look, color, etc.

Not perceptive.

So, in effect, perceptive is a capacity to see details, see much.

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All my life I tried to not sound arrogant. The more I tried the more people thought that I was arrogant.

All my life I tried to not sound arrogant. The more I tried the more people thought that I was arrogant.

Why is this?

I could not answer this question until this afternoon.

I have been walking up and down the hill. I get into conversations, and I have noticed that people are not hiding from me any more. Actually they seem to enjoy talking to me.

Today I talked to an 80 year old man who I thought was shallow... He actually shared his depth with me, and I appreciated and acknowledge that.

He said how refreshing that was to be acknowledged for his depth instead of his brilliance, meaning his PhD and college professor status. ((I live on a street with many University professors, because Syracuse University is less than a mile from here... I could even share with this guy my theory about why all their wives are dying of cancer... I mean the wives of the professors... And maybe that is what started his self-reflection. I told in myself: "if you can"t take this... I have nothing else to give you... lol."))

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What holds you back?

I have been wondering what is the real reason behind many of you

1. coming back and reading the articles for years, yet never actually buying anything
2. buying stuff but not using them

I watched a video today, aimed at hypnotherapists.

The similarity between hypnotherapy and what I do is that most of what happens happens in the invisible realm. And what comes up is fear... doesn"t it?

What if she blah blah blah, fill in the blank with your fear.

In this article I want to honor the people who can"t even get themselves into the position of actually try... try and succeed, try and fail, but at least give it a shot.

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After the DNA capacity activated: what is it like?

Some unexpected fallouts and insights from activating the newly discovered DNA capacity to all those people...

Suddenly this client thinks, for the first time, to ask how to speak to her mother in law who goes to her house, picks up her ironing and cleans her house...

Here is the whole conversation... this is an issue that SHOULD come up for everyone, because the idea of being interested in how a communication lands is one of those things, being able to see the consequences of your action. Communication is action!

So here is the email conversation where I teach her how to 1. be appreciative 2. be kind 3. be effective without forcing, without blaming, without making the other person defensive, and yet have a good chance to have the result you want... eventually.

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Tuesday, November 3, 2015, 1:23:16 PM, she wrote:


Okay I am taking the courage to e mail what came up today. Perhaps it is as a result of the activation.

I came home to find my mother in law had been in our house and had taken it upon herself to take my ironing with her and do cleaning in the house.

While some would like this it is different for me.

I find it an intrusion of my space and boundaries. Of course I am mad and want to tell her to stop but fear the consequences. The ego comes up saying leave it alone your only making a big deal out of nothing.

Is this coming up for me to move through the fear of saying what I want to say?

I really would appreciate your insight.

Many thanks

[client]


On Tuesday, November 3, 2015, Sophie wrote:
it IS coming up because of the activator.

but you are still stuck with the binary option... yell at her/say nothing.

I had something like this happen to me this morning, and I saw that there is a third option: gently suggesting. so I did. it wasn"t as smooth as I thought it was going to be, but it wasn"t hurtful either.

consider that your mother in law is best for you if she isn"t offended...

My issue was with my chiropractor, and instead of telling him how bad the last session was, I suggested this: Maybe we could try this...

So what can you tell your mother in law with a maybe? Maybe next time she could ask if it"s ok? Maybe she could help with something you do need help with?

The question is: are you willing to be generous of heart?

Thank you,
Sophie

Tuesday, November 3, 2015, 2:10:03 PM, she wrote:


Okay well what I really want to say is that I will ask for help if I need it but I don"t want her coming into my space unless I ask her to. It is a privacy thing and I want my own space and for her to repect that . I feel this really important for me.

It is how to say it without offending is the issue but that it won"t keep happening.

When you say are you willing to be generous of heart is do you mean that with her in this issue?

Thanks

[client]

On Tuesday, November 3, 2015, Sophie wrote:
yes. You see, it is easy to hurt someone. It
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Intellect, iq, smarts, intelligence... and the ability to raise your vibration...

We need to have a conversation about intellect, iq, smarts, intelligence... and the ability to raise your vibration...

There IS a connection.

You have what you have... as much or as little as you do.

Just like in everything, how you use what you have that matters.

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#attitudes

Turning points: how to create them so you start having access to being

The response to my beingness article has been a cry for help... Help to get you to beingness. This article talks about three ways you block the flow. There are, of course, a lot more ways, but we"ll start with these. When you release these, you"ve done 50% of the work to get to beingness.

We"ll look at the Three R"s, resignation, resentment, regret. We are going to create a turning point in our lives.

Most people wait for something to turn them and their lives around. We are going to take an active approach... we are going to create this turning point by doing the exercises fully.

You will need your integrity checklist for this... You don"t want to make this an event, you want to make it a gentle process, where you bring light to where there is none, breath, freedom.

As long as you are wrecked by the three R"s, beingness is not available to you, only pretense.

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what does spirituality have to do with the quality of your life? The Money Story

Six days before the rent was due I had no hopes that I"d have the money for rent...

In a conversation with Sarah, the woman who drives me to do my grocery shopping, and accepted the fact that the rent wasn"t going to get paid.

The rent money came in without me having to do anything special.

Once the rent was paid, I still had bills to pay, credit card, utilities, and it didn"t look good.

I sat down and looked at what are my fixed expenses, the minimum I must have to make ends meet, and stay well.

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Falling in step, intelligence, tough choices

Falling in step
I just finished a Talk-to-me call. It"s a call available for people on my mailing list, where they can ask any questions and get answers, coaching, whatever they need. The call was a breakthrough in a lot of ways.

First off, I distinguished for myself, for the second time, that unless I fall in step with the person I coach, they can"t get what I am saying as contribution and cannot act on it.

Falling in step with music is obviously fun. Falling in step with a drum circle is fun. But falling in step with another person is a challenge. But unless you do, discord is the result.

So what does it take to fall in step with another person in a conversation? Whether it is a co-worker, a parent, a child, a spouse, a friend, if you learn to fall in step with them, you"ll experience influence, intimacy, closeness... all the things that are missing in most relationships.

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#AccessYourPower

One principle of becoming a Human Being, that if you miss this, you"ll never raise your vibration

What is the difference between a worker and a manager?
What is the difference between the leader and a manager?
What is the difference between leading your life and managing your life?
What is the difference between working in your business and working ON your business?

The answer to all of these question is: the position from where the actions come.

By position I actually MEAN an almost physical position: where are you looking FROM when you make your decisions about what to do.

A lot of my students are stuck in a situation an earlier decision got them into. A bad marriage, bad health, bed relationship, bad job.

There are surprisingly few principles for a human being, which is the next evolutionary level after human. Applying the same principles, honoring them, will also take you to the new evolutionary level.

One of the principles is to make decisions from the whole.
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Election year manipulation

Who makes money when you are scared?

Or another question: who doesn"t make money when you are scared? Because if you stay scared long enough, smaller companies will go out of business... for sure.

This fear based behavior started in the middle of summer, if my feelings are correct, and it is effecting my chiropractor, MindValley, and myself. And when I look at the behavior of people emailing me to sell me something, creators of programs, I can detect desperation and hope in them... Hope that SOMETHING will work...

Panic-mongering is an age old technique to control people and fleece them.

Scared people are stupid. Fear causes inchoherence.

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Where is the Value? Money Series Part 3

Value ((Please note that in this article, in all my articles about money, I will talk about extrinsic values, values that can be bought for money. Stuff, comfort, status. The other two types of values, Intrinsic value and systemic value cannot be bought. More in my articles about axiology.)) is in the eye of the buyerI have had a great day. In a conversation with Sarah I started to see what are some of the things you need help with.

It"s become clear that creating an inventory is going to be difficult for you, so I am going to create detailed instructions to help you with that.

The second thing is this: In every interaction when you are operating from your own vantage point, you and your interaction counterpart are like two trains passing each other.

What do I mean?

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Is it nourishing or is it titillating?

How our sense of what is nourishing and what is junk got atrophied

I like reading and watching investigative, detective, police procedural books and movies.

I have noticed a new trend: when I ask myself at the end of a show, for example, I have no idea what exactly happened, who done it... minutes after the show.

So how is that possible? Am I the only one, the only stupid person? And if not, how come the millions of viewers don"t cry bloody murder... to set the creators of the shows straight?

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Do you respect money? If not, you pay the price...

Why is respect hard and rare?
Because respect includes the capacity and the willingness to look again, but this time look from a different vantage point, preferable from the point of view of the other person. Of the big picture, away from the wishful thinking, the inflated self-image, and your expectations.

I remember, that all my life, all I ever wanted is to be considered a person. In a world where people consider themselves things in the world of things, being treated, being looked at, being listened to as a person is so rare that I can remember every time it happened.

And yet, everyone wants to be treated like a person, and everyone treats themselves and others like things.
One of the big prices we pay is with our money.
I had this conversation this past Sunday with a friend who is working on becoming a millionaire: he is at minus lots-of-money right now.
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