Do you feel banged up? By life, by people? Listen up!

When Tai asks you, what is in the way of you growing, and starting to live the good life, most people have a ready answer. An answer they are sure is true. And an answer that they had seen a million times.

What no one seems to consider, that the saying "how you do anything is how you do everything" is more of a reason than you would consider.

One of them shows up an awful lot on my site: assuming to know. That is a how... falsely certain.

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More on stupid/smart

Every success proves nothing. It can be luck, it can be accident, it can be smarts... you can"t be sure.

I am an architect by trade... and all my life as an architect I was wondering if I was talented. I could never say for certain. I could win contests, I could win awards, talent is not proven by them.

Finally I gave it up and sighed a sigh of freedom and relief.

You are the same way about being smart... or whatever is your issue. (Some people have an issue with being liked, loved, valued, respected, etc. But I think everyone has some issue with smarts. I could be wrong...)

My recommendation is that you consider the Forrest Gump saying: Stupid is as the stupid does... i.e. the only stupid thing you can do is not judge accurately what you need to see to make a good decision.

If you rush, or already know... the action is stupid, and that"s that.

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#Raiseyourvibration

Intellect, iq, smarts, intelligence... and the ability to raise your vibration...

We need to have a conversation about intellect, iq, smarts, intelligence... and the ability to raise your vibration...

There IS a connection.

You have what you have... as much or as little as you do.

Just like in everything, how you use what you have that matters.

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#attitudes

If you have a problem keeping your word... Consistently

I am removing people from the Reclaim program, left and right, for inactivity. If you don"t have at least one written coaching conversation with me a week, you are put on the "to be removed" list. Why? Because if you are not doing the work you shouldn"t be in the program.

If you are not coming for the coaching... then I have a good idea how your life looks.
How you do anything is how you do everything.
This was probably one of the most shocking things I learned in self-development, right up there with "you think you see everything, but you only see what you have already seen".

Both insights were upsetting, and started to break up the world-view, the mythical, magical world view, that "I can do anything I put my mind to."
I realized that everything, for me, meant, maybe, 1% of the things...
Some of us seem to have no ability to sustain any activity without an outside have to, need to, or want to.

I, for example, cannot be trusted as far as eating habits go. There seems to be no correlation between my conscious decisions and my behavior. I may be able to sustain a desirable behavior for a day, a week, a few weeks... maybe.

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Do I want, do I need your gratitude? Do I have Unrequited love?

Surprise: I don"t need your gratitude. I don"t want your gratitude. I know what works, and I can find out if it worked for you without ever having to ask you. That"s what you can do with empathy.

So why do I encourage you to share? So others can hear that it works? Like a testimonial?

No, neither, but that"s a good idea, maybe I"ll use them as a testimonial!

So why then do I encourage you to share publicly?

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