I am changing... Why aren"t you?

I have been changing. Subtly.

The biggest problem with subtle changes is that they go unnoticed. And if you are like most people, you want encouragement, you want people to see that you are becoming something better.

But your environment is about as aware and as present as you are, which means: not very. And besides they are busy having their head up their ass... so until you are very very very different, they don"t notice it.

A good example is your weight: if you drop two dress sizes... then they notice it. But if you are doing it right, in a sustainable fashion, it"s taken you months... And for those months you had gotten no feedback.

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Abilities that are not available until your health number is above 50%

When you are not well, you are in survival mode. Everything is an is, and the questions you ask are from that "is".

When you are well, you can start to ask different questions, that widen your cone of vision, that deepen your field of depth perception.

Questions like:

What am I missing here? What else could I/should I be asking?
What am I not looking at? What is outside of my survival, business as usual narrow cone of vision?

But there is a caveat: Even after people getting healthy or healthier (above 50%), changing habits, even though you can, doesn"t come naturally.



Survival mode is most recognized by the narrow cone of vision.

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It takes tweaking to get things right... including your diet

I find that most people want to be mindless... Get a solution and never look again, never think again.

Tai calls this: an experiment run too long.

But for most people experiments are non-existent. They want to live their lives as puppies or kitties... not as humans.

Why is that? you ask... whether you are one of "most people" or one of the few who are individuals.

To answer that why question,

You may look at how you were brought up.
You may look at how you were educated to be sheep.
You may look at that as character defect.
You may blame this or that...

The truth is simpler and more sinister than any of those you have already thought of.

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Arrogance.

I have been dealing with arrogance in my students.

Arrogance is unearned boastful superiority.
Most people don"t know, don"t care because they themselves are not achievers... but you can have confidence that is justified by your accomplishments, your superior knowledge.

To the uninitiated, they look and sound the same. But they aren"t. You only need to scratch the surface.

I have detected a certain ancestral commonality in that behavior.

And have been pondering why and how and for what purpose are certain nationalities arrogant.

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Why should you believe me? Why should you learn from me?

I have been a spiritual, raise-your-vibration teacher for a while... and when someone asked what qualified me to teach, I could say that the fact that I did it myself, and went from a vibration of 185 to 930, consciously and with my eyes open.

Now, having done that is fine and dandy... but can I teach it? Good question.

But let"s look at another area: health.

At some point I got really clear that unless you have energy to do the work, unless you have coherence to do the work, unless you are well enough... I can"t help you much.

But I had a problem, an integrity issue: I myself wasn"t well enough to prove to you that I know what I am talking about when it comes to becoming healthy.
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Your health number... thoughts from the starting point tests I"ve done

Hippocrates said: food will be your medicine.

Let"s look at that statement from my experience with myself, and with my clients.

Let food be thy medicine and medicine be thy food.

– attributed to Hippocrates

Lay people (you) jump into conclusions... and jump from one superfood to the next, from one fad to the next, from one magic bullet to the next.

Modern (ineffective) medicine attacks this statement.
Energy medicine attacks this statement.

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What else... Where else... A spiritual practice

One of my "favorite" practices is this:

I find out that I misunderstood something. It cost me... It always does.

I ask the question: I wonder what else I misunderstand? I wonder what else I misread? I wonder where else I am sure I understand and I don"t.

Or I make a mistake... Where else do I make a mistake like this? Or this same mistake...

Because how you do anything is how you do everything!

I sent out an email last night asking for people who haven"t raised their hand to work with me yet, to raise their hands if they are potentials to work with me.

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From my correspondence: Astrological Signs, Are they preventing us from changing lanes?

I stumbled on this old post... and it is exactly perfect for the "What"s the truth about you" workshops, so I thought I republish it...

Question:
Hi Sophie, I have a question. I would like to know your advice. I recently found an astrological site with natal chart sun decrees interpretations which are scaringly accurate.

I bought your Effortless Abundance Book, three days ago, I do believe one can get much more. My doubt is, can we change lanes? concerning those astrological imprints for a better life?

All the best,
My Answer:
it all depends on your mindset.

if you are trying to change lanes to fix anything: the answer is no.
if you manage to not make anything wrong in the present or in the past!!! not easy, then yes

astrology and such are the mind"s effort to understand the world so it can control it.

the world can"t be controlled, moreover when you want control for safety etc. you are making something wrong.

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Sometimes all you need is a tiny nudge... and you can go from unhappy to happy.

As you may know, I am doing my second round of the 67 steps. In step 13 Tai says something like this: if you are not happy, don"t throw everything away. It is possible that the unhappiness is due to a mismatch of your current lifestyle with your social needs...

Huh?

So I went back in my memory to different stages of my business, or the different businesses I had. And lo and behold, I found something totally freaky: I was happiest when I had at least one person cooperating with me in my business. Even if the cooperation was minor, and we didn"t interact much. Just knowing that I am not alone transformed my experience.

Now, this is a big surprise to me.

It is counter intuitive. I didn"t know that I didn"t know. I wasn"t even looking in that direction

And it is something that I can easily apply, easily accommodate without changing anything else.

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Is there no rhyme or reason in your life?

Bringing rhyme and reason to your life, to your activities is an important topic, maybe the most important for you, so please makes sure you read it until it makes sense. The article is a stream of consciousness one... I apologize for that. It makes wild turns... but where it leads is important. So please read it, and come to the workshop, if you can.Planning is practice

If you live from the mind, you know little, and you recognize even less. Especially things you need... because you don"t know them. Don"t already know them.

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Why is awareness the predictor of future success, why not skills or knowledge?

The first few steps in the 67 steps are long, rich, convoluted audios. Why? Because no matter how long the audio, you"ll only get one little thing, if that, because the cone of vision of your awareness is as wide as a pencil.

Did I notice, did I take in all he spoke about my first time around doing the 67 steps? No. I didn"t.

It is like traveling in a car. If you look out the window, you miss the conversation in the car. If you take part in the conversation in the car, you miss the whole trip. If you read, if you are hungry...

The goal is to expand the cone of awareness so it"s wide. So you can see the view, partake in the conversation, and maybe even be hungry...
Now, that is, increasing your awareness is the goal... but how does it effect success?

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Does it ever happen to you that you talk and no one responds?

You talk about something miraculous, that could make all the difference for people... you speak, they listen... and nothing.
You say something profound... no echo. You ask for something, and people"s eyes are glazed over.

Well, this is a regular occurrence in my life... it"s been happening as far as I can remember. And it has happened in every language... not just in English.

I used to suffer about it. I used to blame everyone, call them stupid, etc.

There was a point, some 30 years ago, when it first occurred to me that maybe it is my job to speak in a way that people can understand, it is not their job to change how they speak.

It was jarring. I resented it for a long time.

And in the past 30 years, I have gotten a little bit better at speaking to how people think... a little bit better.

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#Activation

Really want to raise your vibration? Let"s look at your actions, not your words...

If I hear you right, what you want is attitudes and behaviors that produce result. Money, happiness, power, peace, fulfillment... love... What you need is capacities... Read on...

This week I have worked on people who have sent me a long list of teachers, coaches, products they ave bought and perused, and yet, their vibration was below the tolerable level, and when I checked them for missing capacities, they had a ton... Like the guy in the previous article... 80 missing capacities.

By the way, I have six missing capacities myself... so even above 900 vibration you have some capacities missing.

Some capacities are linchpin capacities: meaning that unless you activate that one capacity, all the other capacities are useless... can"t work. The linchpin holds together a dysfunctional construct... keeping you unsuccessful, unhappy, ineffective. I have students like that.

It is quite stunning to look at people I know, that I have been working with sometimes for years now, and suddenly see freedom open up.

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Sight DNA activated? Let"s look! is the cheerful battle cry that opens the door to seeing

I am getting more and more insights about The Sight activator that activates the capacity to see the consequences of your actions.

People, you, don"t trust themselves. They don"t believe, they don"t trust that an aspect of them, the Consciousness, sees things they didn"t see, heard things they didn"t hear.

How does that happen?

When you are busy doing other things, or being angry, for example, the Consciousness isn"t involved. It is doing what it is designed to do: watch, listen.

Now, if this is so natural, then why did you need an activator? Right? Wrong.

The problem is NOT that you don"t have a part of you that is smart and watches. The problem is that you think that everything you know is in your head... in the storage department called the mind.

The mind suggests that it has everything you know, and everything there is to know. And what it doesn"t know can be learned.

But the mind is wrong... And you think that you are your mind... so YOU are always wrong...

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Updated: Humility: What Is It And Why Should You Have It? Is Being Humble Meek? Powerless? Stupid? Get Ready To Be Surprised!

Sometimes guidance comes from a student or client request.

Today I heard from a long time client who never managed to go from a to be... despite of the many courses she came to.

She had a difficult time accessing an activator, part of the Second Phase Activators (I downloaded more than 100 activators in that course!). I checked and she was right, somehow the video got corruteed in the more than three years it was moved around...

I listened to it and it dawned on me that without activating humility, of course you"ll never learn anything. Anything new, I mean.

Here is the article I wrote at the time, and in the meantime I am trying to rescue that video: given that it is the cornerstone of all learning, all growth, all evolution, all raising your vibration, if necessary, I"ll dedicate another webinar to the topic...

In the meantime, here is the "oldie but goodie" articleOn Humility

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How to take an active role in raising your vibration: the process

Let me repeat the process that will begin your active role in raising your vibration, that will begin your process of becoming a Human Being.

If you are offended that I say that you are not a human being, please give it up. Beingness is not available fully on the level humanity is existing, and if you live in the United States, you are even less likely to be on the level than people who live in countries where pretentious living is not the norm.

With that said, let"s see, again, what is the process. What is triggering this article, is the response I am getting to the article: no understanding, none whatsoever.

Now, the process is simple. It is not easy, but at least it is simple.


Step 1: What do you want to accomplish?

You look at yourself, you look at your life, and you see where you are, you see what you have, and you decide what you want to have. Some result...

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#SpiritualPractice

Announcing: More Money Course...

Make more money and keep more of it

It is time.

I have been promising it for years... And I guess, I am ready.

This course will happen as a series of blog posts...

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#Money

Is it belief that is holding you back? Is self-image a belief?

Life is a between you and you deal

The only thing that effects your quality of life is your own experience of yourself. Not your opinion of yourself. your EXPERIENCE of yourself.

Others" reaction to you or your actions merely brings that area into focus... your experience of yourself was already there.

Admonishment and your experience of yourself. Praise and your experience of yourself

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Intelligence is like money: it can buy you a lot or it can buy you junk

Get Rid of Frustration Once and for All?
I just pulled the energetic attachments from two guys, and I had an insight while I was doing it.

Both guys are frustrated: given how smart they are, their results should be over the top, but they aren"t.

When I looked at their dominant belief, I saw the reason.

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Self-improvement, self-development is a lot like the illegal drug trade

Self-improvement, self-development is a lot like the illegal drug trade. It"s not regulated. A few "cartels" dominate the market. What they sell is mostly addictive, pleasure promising, but on the long term destroys the user"s life.

Then there are the drug pushers, the evangelists that seems to know what"s right and what"s wrong, and how a teacher should or should not be.

The programs and the tools are ineffective... you"ll find out why later in this article.

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