Your vocabulary is a predictor of your abundance... or scarcity

This post, this audio is a little on the choppy side, because you are witnessing me entering the invisible and making new connections, connecting some dots. Brilliant if I may say so myself... :-)

Playground: Men, women, different issues to deal with

Men and women are supposedly the same species, but I have my doubts.

So, as you might have noticed, I often treat them as separate and distinct species.

I am doing this only for the second time: I have decided to have a separate Playground Program for men and women.

Women are the main reason men need the Playground... lol. So men"s training will say that, to make them aware, and to arm them against the moves and tricks of women, mothers mainly.

Women, on the other hand, have other women, mainly, to make them miserable... including themselves. So it makes sense to separate/isolate the two "species" to have the most hard-hitting course.

This is not about changing either of the genders, it is to open their eyes and their minds to how they get trapped... so they can avoid getting trapped, or in case they slipped into a trap, release themselves without drama, without hurting themselves or another.

I don"t want to change you. You are the way you are. There is nothing wrong with you.

But I know that if I open your eyes, if I enable you to see clearly, your behavior, your attitude, your results in life will change. You"ll feel that you changed, but it"s an illusion: your view of life changes.

Everyone is afraid of changing. I remember I was.

But eventually, over time, I learned that I didn"t change, because there was nothing wrong with me.

What changed is what I saw. And that changed my attitude, my behavior, my feelings about myself, people, and life.

Here is a recent example:

It is the end of the summer, and the nights are cooler and I don"t need to use the window fan...

At first I had a hard time with all that quiet. But then I started to hear my birds audio (from the Abundance Avatar State Activator) from my home office.

In the relative silence I did some soul searching to see if that audio has done anything for me.

• I was stunned to realize what I see now.


• I see that I am doing good work,that my stuff is worth the money I am asking for, and


• that my work makes a difference.

I remember when I started to play that bird audio: my view of myself and my work was ambivalent.

• I hoped I did good work.


• I hoped it was worth the money.


• I hoped I made a difference.

I needed another job to make ends meet.

Today I experience a lightness, and a steady slow rise of income. A lack of concern, a lack of worry.

I am not saying this to sell you the Abundance audio... I am saying that to illustrate that although I didn"t change, my view of life, myself, and my stuff has.

I am on the right track, you could say, I have found many ways to change what I see... Muscle test says that I see the world "rightly" 90% of the instances, and I am still chipping away at the remaining 10% thank to my clients and students who deal with similar issues I haven"t quite dealt with.

I shine most in coaching relationships that are synergistic: I may be the mentor, but I am also, shamelessly, the mentee: I get more out of our relationships than what I put into it. Often by far.

• For example this little program, the Playground: it allows me to deal with my mother issues.


• For example the Accountability program: it opens my eyes to all the things I haven"t been able to even consider that debilitate me and my people.


• My one-on-one calls: a veritable goldmine: I deal with race, ethnicity, victimhood, sloppiness, assumptions, and other issues that can keep me and my clients in bondage.

To the degree you see the world rightly, to the same degree you have your power available to you to build a life you love.

Physically (health), mentally (brain), emotionally, spiritually, and financially.

At the end of the day you can take some time and see if you have made any headway in any of those areas. I do that.

While most people shrink their "right" view, me and my clients/students expand it, little by little, through conversations, through borrowing new eyes until our eyes catch up.

The Playground is at least a year long, and includes practice sessions/teaching in a group, practice sessions with another student, private sessions with me, and hopefully, if it every materializes, access to the online game/practice interface.

All for $150. You can join any time... I won"t tell you that I"ll raise the price soon... I won"t.

I am like the cow: I want to feed my calves more than the calves want to feed.

Generosity, choosing, gratitude

Generosity was one of the distinctions I spent years researching and trying to BE...

It is a tricky way to be, the full meaning of generosity, because almost no one ever is really generous.

We normally equate giving with generosity. Some give stuff, others give praise, some give of themselves.

Most generosity makes the recipient suspicious: what is the ulterior motive?

And rightly so: culturally, human culture, I mean, generosity doesn"t make sense... only trade does. "I give you this, so you"ll give me that."

And yet, there are a very few people who are actually generous, and they are happy. WTF, right?

Here is another important question: just like with love, whose experience matters, the giver or the receiver?

I have been teaching that the only way to experience love is to love. That you can only feel your own energy: I, in fact, never ever have felt love from another. Which doesn"t mean no one has loved me, I am talking about the experience.

So is there something similar with generosity?

That you experience generosity when you GIVE, not when you RECEIVE?

What does generosity, real generosity feel like?

Real generosity is a life changer.

The moment you are generous, really generous, in that moment, you have overcome ego, or the selfish gene... and you are in a space of abundance, as opposed to scarcity where most people live, where, maybe even you, live most of the time.

Scarcity says that there is something wrong. That you need all you got, and more. Money, love, freedom, liberty, respect, everything. That if you give it away, you"ll have less.

And it doesn"t matter how much you have, the dynamic is the same.

And scarcity is a tough master, it can torture you, and it won"t allow you to breathe freely.

So when you escape it for a moment, or through certain practices, for long stretches of time, maybe hours!, it is a major event.

Because you cross an invisible line, an evolutionary line, between human and human being... however long it lasts.

There are two other ways of being that we talk about frequently, that could be grouped with generosity, because without the leap to abundance they are as impossible as generosity.

These are gratitude and choosing.

Thanking someone isn"t gratitude, just like giving isn"t generosity. What makes it gratitude is the total disappearance of the precious "I" aka ego, for a little while.

And choosing is the same. What you choose is seemingly your enemy: reality. Reality with all its ugly events, bad things happening, etc.

Someone in a comment asked "What were you choosing in this article. ..."choose that", "choose it"

I am talking about nasty things that are happening to me, to my students, to the water, and everyone in between.

The idea to choose that to be the way it is is ludicrous: after all it feels like you condone it, your choosing it perpetuates it.

But that is scarcity thinking. When you resist, fight what is, you get frozen into that mood of resisting: misery. And sometimes you don"t even notice that it is gone...

But that is not the point that it"s gone. The point is to get out of your own way, and just embrace what is.

I have a favorite quote that it took me a long time to fully get... but it was worth it.

Arthur Miller – Take One"s Life in One"s Arms

I think it"s a mistake to ever look for hope outside of one"s self. One day the house smells of fresh bread, the next of smoke and blood. One day you faint because the gardener cuts his finger off, within a week you"re climbing over corpses of children bombed in a subway. What hope can there be if that is so? I tried to die near the end of the war. The same dream returned each night until I dared not to go to sleep and grew quite ill. I dreamed I had a child, and even in the dream I saw it was my life, and it was an idiot, and I ran away. But it always crept onto my lap again, clutched at my clothes. Until I thought, if I could kiss it, whatever in it was my own, perhaps I could sleep. And I bent to its broken face, and it was horrible... but I kissed it. I think one must finally take one"s life in one"s arms.

Arthur Miller
from the play After the Fall

Embracing what you don"t want, embracing your own life is the generous act of choosing.

Here is an interview with Keith Ferrazzi by Tai Lopez that says a lot of what I discovered in those years, and some.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pvk5Gl4M0eE

and here is more on generosity...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CsuCFL-SQLg

and here is another one by James Altucher:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=muwVwFiP2VY

It"s amazing how much you can get if you quietly, clearly, and authoritatively demand it...

Everybody dreams of a stress free life... even though stress wakes you up. Stress as in challenge. I am not talking about the anxiety where you are fighting what if scenarios... that will never happen.

My countryman, who worked in Canada, Selye Janos (aka Hans Selye), was an endocrinologist, who was the first to demonstrate the existence of biological stress.

Stress response, what stress can do to your body.

But in his groundbreaking book, "Stress without Distress" he showed that stress also keeps us alive.
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Limiting beliefs... what should you do about them?

Limiting beliefs... can you zap them like Christie Marie Sheldon pretends to do? Does listening to some guru, watching some Mind Valley video help you chuck them, change them, or eliminate them?
The answer is no. You can"t eliminate limiting beliefs, and they can"t eliminate limiting beliefs either.
Limiting beliefs will not go anywhere. You have to find another way to win: stop listening to them.

I have limiting beliefs, but you would not know from my actions. I don"t consider my mind chatter significant. I only listen to advisors that I hired... I never hired my mind chatter.
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Is your body stuck in survival mode? Framework for health

This article starts out very philosophical. If you can"t stand that, jump to here...

What is health?

No one has defined it yet, because just like "good" was until Dr Robert Hartman came along to define it, existed only in a context of good this or good that.
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The magic wand of instant change... aka manifestation

Context is one of those words that unless you have enough capacities, especially the big picture capacity, is impossible to explain... at least it"s been impossible for me to explain to you.

And yet, if you want to improve the quality of your life, the magic wand to do that is context.

You change the context and everything changes with it.

Your default context is, the context that is invisible to you, but obvious to everyone around you is not pretty. That is where you live... in that context.

But, you see, context is not something that if you understand then it becomes available to you...

In fact it is much like playing the violin: you can understand playing the violin... but that will not make you play the violin.

You need to DISTINGUISH for yourself, playing the violin, through playing the violin.

Maddening, isn"t it?

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Osho: The art of walking the tightrope

In this series of Osho talks he examines stories from different ancient cultures. This is an excellent companion to what I teach. Enjoy!



ONCE, WHEN THE HASIDIM WERE SEATED TOGETHER
IN ALL BROTHERLINESS,
PIPE IN HAND, RABBI ISRAEL JOINED THEM.
BECAUSE HE WAS SO FRIENDLY THEY ASKED HIM,
"TELL US, DEAR RABBI, HOW SHOULD WE SERVE GOD?"



HE WAS SURPRISED AT THE QUESTION,
AND REPLIED, "HOW SHOULD I KNOW?"

BUT THEN HE WENT ON TO TELL THEM THIS STORY..
THERE WERE TWO FRIENDS OF THE KING,
AND BOTH WERE PROVED GUILTY OF A CRIME.

SINCE HE LOVED THEM THE KING WANTED TO SHOW THEM MERCY,
BUT HE COULD NOT ACQUIT THEM BECAUSE EVEN A KING"S WORD
CANNOT PREVAIL OVER THE LAW.

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On suppression... the cost of positive thinking

Whoever thought that the well-meaning positive thinking will become a prison and a sentence to a "no joy life" for most who become a "practitioner" of it, about 80% of humanity at this time.

Whether you know it or not, your powers of comprehension depend on your powers of distinguishing.

In the old est training, the trainers came to the room on the first day blasting: "for you everything is the same as everything else..." and they were as accurate as accurate they would be today: you can"t tell your ass from your elbow.

This is true for everybody, including yours truly... the difference is only in degrees. No one is exempt from it.

The capacity to see differences clearly is called astuteness. The capacity to tell apart similar things, to name them and claim them.


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From my correspondence: Astrological Signs, Are they preventing us from changing lanes?

I stumbled on this old post... and it is exactly perfect for the "What"s the truth about you" workshops, so I thought I republish it...

Question:
Hi Sophie, I have a question. I would like to know your advice. I recently found an astrological site with natal chart sun decrees interpretations which are scaringly accurate.

I bought your Effortless Abundance Book, three days ago, I do believe one can get much more. My doubt is, can we change lanes? concerning those astrological imprints for a better life?

All the best,
My Answer:
it all depends on your mindset.

if you are trying to change lanes to fix anything: the answer is no.
if you manage to not make anything wrong in the present or in the past!!! not easy, then yes

astrology and such are the mind"s effort to understand the world so it can control it.

the world can"t be controlled, moreover when you want control for safety etc. you are making something wrong.

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Want to break out of living the life the selfish gene allows you to live?

How does mind serve the ego, and ego serves the selfish gene... Evolutionary view of team "you"

Tuesdays are my days to interface with people who are neither my readers, nor my clients.

Ordinary people. And although it is very frustrating to me, and maybe even them, I learn a lot from these unpleasant interactions.

Ever since I read The Selfish Gene, a book, and even more since I read the book "Why beautiful people have daughters" a look on life through evolutionary psychology, I am trying to match what I read with what I see, hear, and feel.

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Really want to raise your vibration? Let"s look at your actions, not your words...

If I hear you right, what you want is attitudes and behaviors that produce result. Money, happiness, power, peace, fulfillment... love... What you need is capacities... Read on...

This week I have worked on people who have sent me a long list of teachers, coaches, products they ave bought and perused, and yet, their vibration was below the tolerable level, and when I checked them for missing capacities, they had a ton... Like the guy in the previous article... 80 missing capacities.

By the way, I have six missing capacities myself... so even above 900 vibration you have some capacities missing.

Some capacities are linchpin capacities: meaning that unless you activate that one capacity, all the other capacities are useless... can"t work. The linchpin holds together a dysfunctional construct... keeping you unsuccessful, unhappy, ineffective. I have students like that.

It is quite stunning to look at people I know, that I have been working with sometimes for years now, and suddenly see freedom open up.

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What is the real cost of not having The Sight and Appreciation DNA capacity?

What is the real cost of not having The Sight and Appreciation DNA capacity?

Now that I have quite a few of you have these new capacities activated, I have an insight into the cost of not having had the DNA capacity active before... and to not have it be activated now, when you can.

My conversation with a guy from Holland is a good way to see the cost of not having "The Sight" activated:

He asks a valid question: (If this looks familiar, the first few comments are also in another article... just stay with it, it is worth your time. You"ll see yourself, and that is priceless.)

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Self-possessed... living from the Witness position, living from Consciousness

The question in your life is: who possesses who? Who possesses what?

But the answer to that question, albeit it is fashionable to think that the guy/gal with the most toys wins, will surprise you: the person who possesses himself wins, every step of the way.

I pretty much don"t know anyone with any level of self-possession: it can be measured.

People are like leaves blowing in the wind, flotsam on the ocean... out of control, hoping for a favorable wind... lacking what can only developed by rigorous practice.

Rigorous? Practice? Please stop laughing... you are out of control!

But like anything of value, it doesn"t come cheap.

In an interaction with a longtime student, I saw something. Here is the interaction:

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I have been working on starting to lead courses again.

I"ve taken a break, recharged my batteries, and I am ready...

The first step I needed to do is to look at the courses I have already lead, to get a sense that in fact I CAN lead effective courses...

I listened into a whole lot of the recorded sessions. I learned that I have fun leading (I laugh a lot), that the material is amazing, and that the students love participating.

I have decided on doing the second phase activators course... this time with the new energies that eliminate the need for you to be connected while I download the activators... A good 20 minutes each hour was spent on making sure you are connected when I last lead that course.

That is a lot of time, wasted... thank god for the new technology, right?

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7 steps to create ease and grace about making money?

What does it take to have, make, save, invest, and spend money in a way that you end up enjoying it, benefiting from it, being enriched by money?

Before we can talk about money, we need to define what we mean by abundance... Abundance is a being that says: All is well with the world. Abundance is also an experience.

I don"t know anyone who lives in abundance, although all of us have experienced abundance for moments, minutes, hours... sometimes even days. Don"t kid yourself, rich people don"t live in abundance... every person I have ever checked, had some version of anxiety in them.

And yet... abundance is our birthright... we are hardwired for abundance. But because...

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Review: Natalie Ledwell and Mind-Movies: does it work? is it worth buying it?

Before I start talking about the subject matter, Natalie Ledwell and Mind-Movies, let me quickly teach you something: The internet is populated, 90%, with material that is designed to make money for the person or company that published it.

If you could make money recommending the Mind Movies: would you lie? Would you say it"s the best thing that happened to you? Of course you would. But it would be still a lie...

So, as I was looking for honest reviews of Natalie Ledwell and her product, Mind-Movies, I didn"t find any.

So, let this be the first honest review.

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Does "not that bad" have you by the balls?

More than half of my site"s visitor come to download the codes by Grabovoi, for free. Grabovoi"s numbers are the type of miracles that people hope for, angels, spirits, gods... ((99% or more of those visitors are from Catholic countries, by the way.))

I have contemplated that maybe I should remove those articles, and maybe I should.

Why? Why would I want to remove a post that brings in so many visitors?

I tell you why! Because people who are interested in those numbers, are not my people. They want miracles, angel dust, prayer, magicians, shamans, or some other form of "please do it for me" magic.

Of all the people that searched for the Grabovoi codes, I am aware of one person who stayed and became a star student of mine... One out of hundreds of thousands.

But what if the people who search for the Grabovoi codes need my help?

What about the people who don"t feel well, who are bloated, or can"t get enough rest in the night, tired, sluggish, listless, depressed, not enough pep or not enough energy to enjoy life?

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Another review, this time of Gary Douglas and Access Consciousness...

A few years ago when I first "reviewed" Access Consciousness I didn"t check for attachments... and unfortunately my high evaluation exposed a lot of people to the nasty attachments Access Consciousness puts on people. I apologize. If you are one who got involved, please get in touch.

The Gary Dougless, Dain Heer bunch is as nasty as Scientology, maybe even nastier because of their ability to put an energetic attachment on you and keep you trapped.

Here is an article I found online:


WHAT"S BEHIND GARY DOUGLAS"S SCIENTOLOGY KNOCKOFF?
BY CRAIG MALISOW in The Houston (Texas) Press



"This is something I"ve wanted to do for the kids for a long time," Gary Douglas says to an audience of children in an Austin hotel conference room over the summer. Other kids across the country are watching the seminar online.

Douglas, 70, just got done hearing from a mother professing gratitude to Douglas for bringing consciousness to her kids. He opened their eyes, and they opened hers. And that"s "consciousness" with a little trademark symbol above it, just so you know. This isn"t any pedestrian notion of consciousness. It"s Access Consciousness. It"s so mind-blowingly conscious that you have to be other than human to get it. You have to be what"s called a humanoid. Here"s one way for you to find out if you"re a human or a humanoid: If you like to sit on the couch, drink beer and watch TV, you"re probably a human. If you judge others and not yourself, you"re a human. Humans are middle America. They sleepwalk through life. They"re idiots.

Humanoids are steeped in awareness, not judgment. They get it. They"ve torn down the barriers, the mental implants drilled into their brains an eternity ago by malicious entities. They can change the weather.

Humanoids in this conference room, adults and children alike, understand it when Douglas says, "What stupidity are you using to create the old thinking you are choosing? Everything that is, times a godzillion — will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right and wrong, good and bad, pod and poc, all nine, shorts, boys and beyonds."

That"s part of the Access Consciousness "clearing statement" — a sort of mush-mouthed mantra humanoids recite when they dismantle the implants. It"s what Douglas would like to bring into public schools through something called the Access True Knowledge Foundation. Not many people knew about Access, and there was no real vehicle to get it into schools, until ex-NFL player Ricky Williams fell in love with Access and accepted a $50,000 donation from them for his Ricky Williams Foundation. Some sports writers poked fun at Williams for aligning himself with a "cult," but at least Access got some attention.

Expanded consciousness might seem like a heavy trip for the average teen, but you have to remember that we"re all infinite beings, and children — even infants — are master manipulators. Children picked their parents before they were even conceived, and then they stripped those
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The machine that runs your life

My stunning discovery that my conscious thoughts don"t direct my actions may spell out why you are where you are, and why you can"t move from where you are to where you"d like to be... without energetic support.

Now, truth be told, I should have discovered that fact earlier, after all I have read it, but there is a difference between reading something and nodding, and actually discovering it for yourself.


Here is a below the conscious element, you have if you are a Christian or if your religion is "manifesting" or the Law of Attraction: "If somebody else will do it, you"ll never do it.. why bother, why interfere in fate?"

Here is another one: "I can"t." And unless you build a below the conscious reality in which you can, in which you are someone who can, it will run your life, no matter what affirmations, what mind-movies you expose your conscious mind to... because this is how it works.


The difference is the difference between Tree of Knowledge and Tree of Life... mind stuff, and personal truth.

No matter what you read, no matter who you read, who you listen to, until it becomes personal experience, it is Tree of Knowledge, not true, not knowledge, not yours.

For you, what makes the decisions is below the visible layer, below the thoughts, below what even makes sense... and unless you start to alter what is there, your life is going in the wrong direction.

The only way to make something yours, something that will move your life in the right direction is through action.

But fear is there. The fear of the unknown. Masquerading as disinterest, depression, tiredness, or laziness.

And unless you are willing to wait for some accident, or tragedy, to move you out of your slumber, to move you out of your complacency, you"d better get some help.

As I said before: words won"t do it. Pictures won"t do it. Mind-movies won"t do it. Subliminals won"t do it. Why? Because where the power is, the words, the pictures, the movies, the subliminals don"t reach... not even hypnosis. After all hypnosis is still words and pictures, albeit imagined.

So what can effect the sea of power? Energy. Precise energies can make as much difference in waking you up as an earth quake, or a tsunami...

And once you are awake, they help you to take the actions you need to take to take your life to where you want it to go.

As you see, the biggest enemy you have is sleeping.

Let me explain something... it has a lot to do with sleeping:

You see, we all live out a script. A life-script that repeats itself. It is personal, I think.
My machine
I have a life-script. I call life-script the machine. My machine is the story of the phoenix bird: periodically it burns to ashes, and then the cycle starts anew.

Your script is not necessarily a happy one... in fact it is probably a script of loss and heart break.

My story plays out in the area of money. It used to have a cycle of one year: once a year, at the same time of the year, I would
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