The hardest thing, it seems, for any human, is to let go of control.

Just think how hard it is to let go and pee, when people are, maybe, watching. Falling asleep in a new environment.

But... when you are controlling, your are shrinking. When you let go of control: you are expanding.

There are so many things to control: with your control of the few things you know, your breathing, your thoughts... you take yourself out of life, take yourself to a place, where life dies with your control.

In you, and around you.

There is an exercise they make you do in leadership classes. Two people face each other. One say names of colors, the other"s job is to repeat the word the one says.

After a while they synchronize... then they switch.

Pairs where either of them wants to control... fail. Pairs where both let go... they seem to be one mouth speaking.

Same thing happens when it is movement they mirror. The same couples fail.

Life can"t be controlled, life works best when you let go.

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All my life I tried to not sound arrogant. The more I tried the more people thought that I was arrogant.

All my life I tried to not sound arrogant. The more I tried the more people thought that I was arrogant.

Why is this?

I could not answer this question until this afternoon.

I have been walking up and down the hill. I get into conversations, and I have noticed that people are not hiding from me any more. Actually they seem to enjoy talking to me.

Today I talked to an 80 year old man who I thought was shallow... He actually shared his depth with me, and I appreciated and acknowledge that.

He said how refreshing that was to be acknowledged for his depth instead of his brilliance, meaning his PhD and college professor status. ((I live on a street with many University professors, because Syracuse University is less than a mile from here... I could even share with this guy my theory about why all their wives are dying of cancer... I mean the wives of the professors... And maybe that is what started his self-reflection. I told in myself: "if you can"t take this... I have nothing else to give you... lol."))

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Self-possessed... living from the Witness position, living from Consciousness

The question in your life is: who possesses who? Who possesses what?

But the answer to that question, albeit it is fashionable to think that the guy/gal with the most toys wins, will surprise you: the person who possesses himself wins, every step of the way.

I pretty much don"t know anyone with any level of self-possession: it can be measured.

People are like leaves blowing in the wind, flotsam on the ocean... out of control, hoping for a favorable wind... lacking what can only developed by rigorous practice.

Rigorous? Practice? Please stop laughing... you are out of control!

But like anything of value, it doesn"t come cheap.

In an interaction with a longtime student, I saw something. Here is the interaction:

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Falling in step, intelligence, tough choices

Falling in step
I just finished a Talk-to-me call. It"s a call available for people on my mailing list, where they can ask any questions and get answers, coaching, whatever they need. The call was a breakthrough in a lot of ways.

First off, I distinguished for myself, for the second time, that unless I fall in step with the person I coach, they can"t get what I am saying as contribution and cannot act on it.

Falling in step with music is obviously fun. Falling in step with a drum circle is fun. But falling in step with another person is a challenge. But unless you do, discord is the result.

So what does it take to fall in step with another person in a conversation? Whether it is a co-worker, a parent, a child, a spouse, a friend, if you learn to fall in step with them, you"ll experience influence, intimacy, closeness... all the things that are missing in most relationships.

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A harder look at Gary Douglas and Access Consciousness... Scam? cult?

There are things worse than being scammed.

Being scammed leaves you with less money, with less time, but what is worse than that is if you participate with Access Consciousness...

You"ll be left with an energetic attachment, like a spigot, through which you can be mind-controlled, and made to dance to this cult"s rhythm.

I discovered it by accident. As you know, one of the special services I offer is removing energetic attachments.

Each attachment belongs to some type of attachment, like a weed can be recognized.

Most attachments are relatively benign, just like a chink in your armor, or a hole in your energy body, but some attachments are self-replicating, and infectious.

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More about changing... but not the mind

Yesterday"s article said that it"s futile to try to change the words, try to change the thought to change you or your life.

And yet, some of the time those programs work. Often? Not at all.

So why do they work, how do they work?

When I look at the examples where something shifted like in my first encounter with hypnosis, I see that the behavior changed. Dramatically.

Were the words that changed? No. Something much deeper. If I want to go out on a limb, I could say that the picture of myself changed.

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Want higher vibration? Here is what to expect...

The names "vibration" or vibrational frequency are a total misnomer.

Vibration is an indicator of your relationship to life, to other people and to yourself. It"s an indicator of where you are looking from, it"s an indicator of what you see. Feelings, energy, success are a fallout from those.

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If the twist aka dominant belief removal doesn"t seem to make any difference

How you do anything is how you do everything!
A client writes:
Do you check to see if the attachment came back or is this something I have to ask to be done.

My answer: I will check everyone

Unless I didn"t remove an attachment properly (rare) it won"t come back.

yours didn"t come back.

He: Would the activators assist in taking action after you pull the dominant belief pattern if they would you could help match an activator to whatever you pulled from each person.

My answer: The activators could only assist in taking action after I pull the dominant belief pattern but wouldn"t do it for you... i.e. you have to wipe your own arse... the activators only make it easier.

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Nothing fails like success

Nothing fails like success

Most of us think that we are miserable because we don"t have everything we ever wanted. Because we are not smart enough, talented enough, successful enough. Because we don"t have enough money, etc.

You think that successful people are happy. Actually, the more
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It takes two to tango

My horoscope said this today:
VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): Will you be the difficult wizard, Virgo? Please say yes. Use your magic to summon elemental forces that will shatter the popular obstacles. Offer the tart medicine that tempers and tests as it heals. Bring us bracing revelations that provoke a fresher, sweeter order. I know it"s a lot to ask, but right now there"s no one more suited to the tasks. Only you can manage the stern grace that will keep us honest. Only you have the tough humility necessary to solve the riddles that no one else can even make sense of.
That is really weird timing, because for the past day I have been wondering if I am out of step with the direction society, you, want to go and therefore I am out of step with life?

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Osho on greed: your emptiness within and your efforts without

What is greed?

Man feels meaningless, empty, hollow within, and wants to fill it, stuff it. The effort to fill it somehow is greed. That effort is bound to fail for the simple reason because whatsoever you accumulate remains on the outside; it cannot reach within you. And the problem is
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Lead your life from your strengths, instead of trying to fix your weaknesses

In this article I introduce the antisocial idea, that you are important enough, your time, your life is important enough to be used for something that you are good at and enjoy doing it.

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The truth, that I found three layers deep, will set you free

I am most famous for my ability to distinguish. Distinguishing is a rare capacity, the ability to tell the forest from the tree. It is solidly based on the ability to peel off layers so one can get to the root... and often below the level that used to be considered the root. Layer below layer below layer.

This past week I had the good fortune to go deeper yet again.

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