Showing posts with label fixing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fixing. Show all posts

Friday, February 1, 2019

Correcting vs fixing or all illness is a racket

I don"t think I have ever really distinguished the difference between these two similar sounding activities... so it"s time.

As usual, I had to distinguish the difference for myself... the hard way.

I almost didn"t make it...


My strength deteriorated to the degree that I was having heart pain and exhaustion from just going from one end of the apartment to the other... So I started to mentally prepare myself to meet my maker, so to say.

The weird stuff was, that Source answered all my "diagnostic" questions with no... not my heart, not my lungs, not this and not that... yet it agreed that I was dying... Weird, right?

Then by accident I watched the Mustard Seed video I hadn"t seen since I made it years ago. And it made me see that I had no faith, that I was resigned, and I took it for a fact that I was dying...

OK... so if I am not dying, then I must have made some mistake along the road... and if I made the mistake, I can correct it.


It took me about a week to trace my way back to when I started to get weak...

I don"t want to tell the whole story here, but what I didn"t realize that I"ve made my body really acidic, and the body cannot generate enough energy for life if it is not within a very narrow range of acidity...

My acidity wasn"t the consequence of eating processed foods, or drinking coffee, or acid creating foods... it was from a "fix" I was using to get rid of the invisible mites I have written about before.

And as it is always the case, the fix creates the next, bigger problem... almost killed me in the process.


Wow. Whew...

So, fixing:

Fixing is saying: something is wrong, and must be fixed.

The moment you say "something is wrong", you stop looking. Your wrong substitutes looking. Now you have an enemy, faceless, featureless, pathless... and by god you are going to kill it, force it, fix it... wrestle it into submission.
The issue is the not-looking. Your fix completely ignores the steps that caused the trouble you call wrong. You don"t care.

You are full of rage and pull out the big gun. I did exactly that...

Correction is saying: somewhere along the line I must have made a step that took me away from where I wanted to go.


I am really good at detecting mistakes, and yet it still took me a week to get to the bottom of it...

Finding the real issue is like picking a lock... takes patience. Takes skillful questioning, skillful looking.

And it takes to have been aware...

For most people awareness is missing.


You need to be aware inward and outward. Pay attention. Notice... and remember.

And, of course, most people aren"t aware.

I measure awareness in the Starting Point Measurements, and most people"s awareness number is on average 3%. That number means that 97% of the time you are unaware. Nobody home. You are in your head, in Plato"s Cave, and you aren"t paying attention to anything inside or outside.

My best students" awareness number is 10%. Mine is 70%...

In addition to awareness you also need to know what you are observing... accurately.


It takes distinctions, it takes vocabulary... or you"ll file what you see with a false meaning: I see a lot of examples to that, when students assume that what they are seeing means whatever sinister meaning they give it.

For most people everything is the same as everything else... except not always.

And another capacity is also crucial: being able to keep several plates in the air.


We are at a place in the Playground where only keeping one plate spinning will keep the participant from ever really getting the results of the course.

The 10% awareness students are "juggling" several plates,

  • what is real, what is meaning,

  • the complaints process, and even

  • choosing/embracing what seems to be wrong with them.


One of the reasons I added the 20-day skill learning challenge to the curriculum of the course, because unless you are challenged to spin more than one plate, you"ll remain a one-plate nobody, an underachiever, forever wretched.

If you plan to do the course, start thinking ahead what skill you"ll learn in YOUR 20 day challenge that will help you develop the dexterity to spin more than one plate.

So back to correction: you cannot correct when you cannot see the wrong step, if you cannot trace back to where you made a wrong turn.


There is nothing wrong... and you need to find the wrong step. A decision, a rule you made up, a meaning, a hasty move, an ignored step you decided you can skip...

How the invisible dynamic works in here...


Back to myself, my personal experience: yesterday I was cold so I went to bed to warm myself up, all clothed, under the covers. I didn"t have my kindle there... and I had the thought that without reading I would fall asleep, by I waved the thought away...

Of course, I fell asleep.

Then I didn"t want to work for the rest of the day... I didn"t want to do anything!

This morning, even though I woke up at my usual 4 am, I stayed in bed and slept another three hours... On my way to depression... unless...

When I finally got up, I saw that it was all an elaborate racket.



  • Being sick, dying, provided me with the payoff that I could justify why I wasn"t generating enough income.

  • And now, the oncoming predictable depression from oversleeping will continue creating the smokescreen, that it is not my fault that I am not doing better financially....


So I never have to confront that I am not as good, not as smart, not as heroic, or whatever I have been fancying myself to be.

The payoff is that i can justify why I don"t have to be responsible, why I don"t have to even consider the truth that I am not as great as I "should" be, if I were really truthful.

So there you have it. Everything you do hides a racket... and maybe many of the invisible dynamics...

If you could follow this whole topsy turvy path, you can see that now that I have retraced all the wicked mis-steps, all the invisible ugliness, I can now correct it... and get back to the strait and narrow... Of course, for me, owning it is second nature. You may have to work at it.

I am cut down a notch (baaah! weep weep) but I am alive, and a I am a person again... causing my life.

All tiredness, all illness is a racket... find the payoff... and you"ll be able to beat it at its own game.


Want to learn about the life-affirming, life-harmonious method of correction (also called Kaizen, or trim-tabbing) that leads straight to the happiness the Anna Karenina principle teaches "All happy families are alike... every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way".

Ultimately, the fundamental difference between a human and a human being, the next level of human evolution, is that human beings live in harmony with life... without forcing, dominating, coercing... with honesty and integrity.

I have a small ebook, and a webinar where I teach this... if you feel that you are ready to graduate to correcting instead of fixing life... this is for you.

Monday, November 5, 2018

Tikkun or fixing... happiness or misery... the invisible dynamic

Tikkun is a Hebrew word, means correction.

I am yet to hear a Westerner, or an Easterner use the word: correction. The world, nowadays, is into "fixing". ((In your vocabulary, each word should mean what it actually mean... If you use words that are close, but mean something different, you can see that in your Starting Point Measurements, in the vocabulary measure... your number will be low... signifying that for you everything is the same as everything else, except that not always... a low ability to differentiate between things. You"ll misinterpret what you hear/read, you"ll misunderstand things, follow things poorly, you"ll have a lot of pain and little happiness.))

Fixing is an ugly world, immediately signaling what the speaker sees, that there is something wrong and it urgently needs to be fixed, because it is wrong that it is. Reactive.

But when emotions run high, the cone of vision narrows, your intelligence plummets, and stupid as the stupid does, your fixing creates new problems, that are the next thing to fix.

Compare that with the approach of correction... course correction... returning to the path of true north.

The history of humanity can be told through the history of fixes that turned out to be no fixes at all, or created bigger problems than what they meant to fix.

One good and repeating example for this behavior is the history of toppling leaders, regimes, systems.

People who are the leaders, the instigators, the campaigners of the "fix" cannot and won"t even look how to create a new and better ess, evolutionary stable strategy... they are only interested in the fixing what they deem as wrong.

And the winners of such changes have not concept, no idea, no experience, no real interest in moving countries towards true north... only in winging it and winging it.

Like Trump, like thousands of puppets before him.

So, if you are a campaigner, if you are a hater, if you get fired up by hating war, abuse, slavery, animal cruelty, and a billion of other causes, your best action is to turn around, and look at what would true north be... and how YOU can bring it about.

One of the best advice I got from Thoreau

Never look back unless you are planning to go that way.


Looking back includes:
  • Don"t look at what you see as wrong... unless you want your life to be about it, unless you want it to occupy your whole world.

  • This includes what happened to you or to your people.

  • This even includes what"s happening now... you may be a woman, a second class citizen. Or Black or a Kurd, or a Moslem.


I am Jewish. My parents" families were wiped out in the Holocaust. I grew up without relatives.
  • My mother didn"t give up hating. She was an unhappy person till her last breath.

  • My father chose the Thoreau saying and he climbed near the top of his chosen profession. He chose to adjust his steps to true north. He was a happy person to his last breath.

But the true Jewish way has always been: keep on moving yourself towards true north. Educate yourself. Do what only you can do and do it to the best of your abilities.


In the Jewish tradition, the concept of tikkun Olam, or “repairing the world” is very simple. Any activity that leads to a more harmonious state is valid and valuable. The Chabad organization website, which illuminates Jewish mysticism, explains, “All human activities are opportunities to fulfill this mission, and every human being can be involved in Tikkun Olam, child or adult, student or entrepreneur, industrialist or artist, caregiver or salesperson, political activist or environmentalist, or just another one of us struggling to keep afloat.”

Each act of repair fine-tunes the instrument that is the universe, and you don’t have to be religious or artistic or political to participate. You just have to be a human. As Chabad puts it, “With each [fix], we are creating meaning out of confusion, harmony from noise, revealing the unique part each creation plays in a universal symphony.”

Or how the Japanese celebrity novelist says:


Japanese novelist Haruki Murakami said Saturday writing good stories is the best he can do for victims of terrorist attacks and natural disasters such as the 2011 Great East Japan Earthquake and tsunami.

“I was wondering what could I do for the people who have suffered. But I thought, ‘What I can do is to write good fiction,’ ” he said during an event in New York, referring to a number of tragedies, including the Sept. 11, 2001, terrorist attacks in the United States and the disaster that devastated parts of Japan’s Tohoku region.

Murakami, 69, said that after the 1995 earthquake that destroyed much of his hometown of Kobe, he “just wanted to write something” and penned a collection of short stories.

or you can heed Albert Einstein"s advice,


where you simply honor nature and flow with it... instead of trying to get quick answers, or force nature to go your way.
“Nature hides her secrets because of her essential loftiness, but not by means of ruse,” the physicist Albert Einstein said. What he meant is that elusiveness is a truth. Nature speaks a coded language. And you can too.

People read about their soul correction on my site, and immediately translate the word "correction" to fixing. And say to themselves:

Oh, this is what"s wrong with me! And write to me with the question: how do I fix it?


The number in your Starting Point Measurements, that most correlates to this fixing-it attitude and narrow cone of vision is the "about you" number, measure #8 To what degree you think of yourself.

When you look at something from that fixed point: it has something to do with me, you reduce the world and your cone of vision with that move. Your eyes and your feelings are consistent with that limited view of reality.

The truth is that nearly nothing is about you... things happen and the "perpetrators" didn"t even consider that you exist.


So, in my programs we do what"s necessary to reduce that "about you" number and widen your cone of vision.

How? It"s a lot of work, and the number of tools we use are many.

One of them is the Idea Machine. The ideas should be about a topic, or another person"s issues.
If you do the Idea Machine about your own issues, questions, you are still in that limiting fixed view of the world, and your about you number may even grow... so beware.

And you may have noticed: your level of stinginess and the "about you" number are also a team...

Conspiring against your happiness.

Tikkun or fixing... happiness or misery... the invisible dynamic

Tikkun is a Hebrew word, means correction.

I am yet to hear a Westerner, or an Easterner use the word: correction. The world, nowadays, is into "fixing". ((In your vocabulary, each word should mean what it actually mean... If you use words that are close, but mean something different, you can see that in your Starting Point Measurements, in the vocabulary measure... your number will be low... signifying that for you everything is the same as everything else, except that not always... a low ability to differentiate between things. You"ll misinterpret what you hear/read, you"ll misunderstand things, follow things poorly, you"ll have a lot of pain and little happiness.))

Fixing is an ugly world, immediately signaling what the speaker sees, that there is something wrong and it urgently needs to be fixed, because it is wrong that it is. Reactive.

But when emotions run high, the cone of vision narrows, your intelligence plummets, and stupid as the stupid does, your fixing creates new problems, that are the next thing to fix.

Compare that with the approach of correction... course correction... returning to the path of true north.

The history of humanity can be told through the history of fixes that turned out to be no fixes at all, or created bigger problems than what they meant to fix.

One good and repeating example for this behavior is the history of toppling leaders, regimes, systems.

People who are the leaders, the instigators, the campaigners of the "fix" cannot and won"t even look how to create a new and better ess, evolutionary stable strategy... they are only interested in the fixing what they deem as wrong.

And the winners of such changes have not concept, no idea, no experience, no real interest in moving countries towards true north... only in winging it and winging it.

Like Trump, like thousands of puppets before him.

So, if you are a campaigner, if you are a hater, if you get fired up by hating war, abuse, slavery, animal cruelty, and a billion of other causes, your best action is to turn around, and look at what would true north be... and how YOU can bring it about.

One of the best advice I got from Thoreau

Never look back unless you are planning to go that way.


Looking back includes:
  • Don"t look at what you see as wrong... unless you want your life to be about it, unless you want it to occupy your whole world.

  • This includes what happened to you or to your people.

  • This even includes what"s happening now... you may be a woman, a second class citizen. Or Black or a Kurd, or a Moslem.


I am Jewish. My parents" families were wiped out in the Holocaust. I grew up without relatives.
  • My mother didn"t give up hating. She was an unhappy person till her last breath.

  • My father chose the Thoreau saying and he climbed near the top of his chosen profession. He chose to adjust his steps to true north. He was a happy person to his last breath.

But the true Jewish way has always been: keep on moving yourself towards true north. Educate yourself. Do what only you can do and do it to the best of your abilities.


In the Jewish tradition, the concept of tikkun Olam, or “repairing the world” is very simple. Any activity that leads to a more harmonious state is valid and valuable. The Chabad organization website, which illuminates Jewish mysticism, explains, “All human activities are opportunities to fulfill this mission, and every human being can be involved in Tikkun Olam, child or adult, student or entrepreneur, industrialist or artist, caregiver or salesperson, political activist or environmentalist, or just another one of us struggling to keep afloat.”

Each act of repair fine-tunes the instrument that is the universe, and you don’t have to be religious or artistic or political to participate. You just have to be a human. As Chabad puts it, “With each [fix], we are creating meaning out of confusion, harmony from noise, revealing the unique part each creation plays in a universal symphony.”

Or how the Japanese celebrity novelist says:


Japanese novelist Haruki Murakami said Saturday writing good stories is the best he can do for victims of terrorist attacks and natural disasters such as the 2011 Great East Japan Earthquake and tsunami.

“I was wondering what could I do for the people who have suffered. But I thought, ‘What I can do is to write good fiction,’ ” he said during an event in New York, referring to a number of tragedies, including the Sept. 11, 2001, terrorist attacks in the United States and the disaster that devastated parts of Japan’s Tohoku region.

Murakami, 69, said that after the 1995 earthquake that destroyed much of his hometown of Kobe, he “just wanted to write something” and penned a collection of short stories.

or you can heed Albert Einstein"s advice,


where you simply honor nature and flow with it... instead of trying to get quick answers, or force nature to go your way.
“Nature hides her secrets because of her essential loftiness, but not by means of ruse,” the physicist Albert Einstein said. What he meant is that elusiveness is a truth. Nature speaks a coded language. And you can too.

People read about their soul correction on my site, and immediately translate the word "correction" to fixing. And say to themselves:

Oh, this is what"s wrong with me! And write to me with the question: how do I fix it?


The number in your Starting Point Measurements, that most correlates to this fixing-it attitude and narrow cone of vision is the "about you" number, measure #8 To what degree you think of yourself.

When you look at something from that fixed point: it has something to do with me, you reduce the world and your cone of vision with that move. Your eyes and your feelings are consistent with that limited view of reality.

The truth is that nearly nothing is about you... things happen and the "perpetrators" didn"t even consider that you exist.


So, in my programs we do what"s necessary to reduce that "about you" number and widen your cone of vision.

How? It"s a lot of work, and the number of tools we use are many.

One of them is the Idea Machine. The ideas should be about a topic, or another person"s issues.
If you do the Idea Machine about your own issues, questions, you are still in that limiting fixed view of the world, and your about you number may even grow... so beware.

And you may have noticed: your level of stinginess and the "about you" number are also a team...

Conspiring against your happiness.

Friday, April 13, 2018

When you are fixing something, the solution becomes the next, bigger problem

Human history has gone from problems to bigger problems throughout most of its 200 thousand years.

What is fixing?

Fixing needs something to be wrong. Wrong is a systemic judgment, cultural and personal. It is never true in reality... one could say: there is never anything wrong in reality.

Dying is not wrong, dying is dying. Being sick is not wrong, it is being sick. Being slow, ugly, lazy is not wrong, it is just being slow, ugly, or lazy.

This means that any and all fixing is working on something that doesn"t need fixing... so the fixing adds a new wrinkle to things that isn"t supposed to be there... the new wrinkle is not natural. It takes you further away from your natural state: joy, productivity, intelligence, wellness.

The straight and narrow, The Anna Karenina principle has no fixing in it... happiness, wealth, health are natural results of refraining from fixing.

I can hear you getting up in arms, wanting to yell at me. Don"t yell just yet. Please hear me out.

Your laziness, for example, is most likely the result of fixing. You weren"t born lazy, and one day you decided to fix some situation and start behaving lazily... most likely what you said: it"s not worth it.

And the solution, outwardly, was working less, but internally you killed your spirit. The solution is the next bigger problem.

Or you decided, some day, that stingy is a good solution to having been taken advantage of, and now you are stuck with stingy. It looked like a good solution, but it killed all your joy, it killed all the activities that create flow, and now thing flows, including money, Including the blockage that is growing in your veins. And in your brain. The long term results of stingy is dullness, and a slow brain.

Or, alternatively, you could have decided to be loving, chipper, caring... because your environment treated you as someone substandard being normal: happy when happy, sad when sad, busy when busy, healthy kid. So you decided to fix yourself, and you became nice. And you killed your spirit.

Or you decided to be independent, and now you cannot accept any teaching, any love, anything that you don"t specifically ask for. I avoid you. And probably everyone else...

So what can you do if you are already deep into solutions that are killing you and your life?


In the Money Workshop we experimenting.
  • You experiment in ways of being that return you to wholeness... maybe restore you.

  • I experiment how to help you without doing the work FOR YOU.


So it is work-shop both for you and for me.

The reason I choose to do this experimentation in the area of money because there I probably don"t have to teach you anything new.
  • If I picked health... you are so screwed up, that it will take years to restore your original healthful state.

  • If I picked love... same thing as health... years to restore.

  • If I picked fulfillment: you wouldn"t know what I am talking about.


So I do these experiments with money.

I ask some questions, and then gently nudge you away from fixing, and towards restoration of a life worth living... restoration of the human spirit.


Depending on where you are at, you"ll get what you get. If you do this exercise often enough, you"ll be, maybe, able to see the layer upon layer of fixing, and remove them.

Replace them with curiosity, generosity, love... or any of the 160 possibilities a human is born being capable of being.

Or not. This is what the experiment is about for me... Can you, can I help you to. Are you even interested? Or arrogant, all knowing, ungrateful, angry, resistant?

You reap what you sow. Really.

You can fake me, but you cannot fake Life.


Oh, the money workshop...

it"s at 2:00 PM, in four hours. Here is the link to register.

It is NOT a walk in the park...

https://attendee.gotowebinar.com/rt/478944355868846851

Tuesday, April 3, 2018

When you are fixing something, the solution becomes the next, bigger problem

Human history has gone from problems to bigger problems throughout most of its 200 thousand years.

What is fixing?

Fixing needs something to be wrong. Wrong is a systemic judgment, cultural and personal. It is never true in reality... one could say: there is never anything wrong in reality.

Dying is not wrong, dying is dying. Being sick is not wrong, it is being sick. Being slow, ugly, lazy is not wrong, it is just being slow, ugly, or lazy.

This means that any and all fixing is working on something that doesn"t need fixing... so the fixing adds a new wrinkle to things that isn"t supposed to be there... the new wrinkle is not natural. It takes you further away from your natural state: joy, productivity, intelligence, wellness.

The straight and narrow, The Anna Karenina principle has no fixing in it... happiness, wealth, health are natural results of refraining from fixing.

I can hear you getting up in arms, wanting to yell at me. Don"t yell just yet. Please hear me out.

Your laziness, for example, is most likely the result of fixing. You weren"t born lazy, and one day you decided to fix some situation and start behaving lazily... most likely what you said: it"s not worth it.

And the solution, outwardly, was working less, but internally you killed your spirit. The solution is the next bigger problem.

Or you decided, some day, that stingy is a good solution to having been taken advantage of, and now you are stuck with stingy. It looked like a good solution, but it killed all your joy, it killed all the activities that create flow, and now thing flows, including money, Including the blockage that is growing in your veins. And in your brain. The long term results of stingy is dullness, and a slow brain.

Or, alternatively, you could have decided to be loving, chipper, caring... because your environment treated you as someone substandard being normal: happy when happy, sad when sad, busy when busy, healthy kid. So you decided to fix yourself, and you became nice. And you killed your spirit.

Or you decided to be independent, and now you cannot accept any teaching, any love, anything that you don"t specifically ask for. I avoid you. And probably everyone else...

So what can you do if you are already deep into solutions that are killing you and your life?


In the Money Workshop we experimenting.
  • You experiment in ways of being that return you to wholeness... maybe restore you.

  • I experiment how to help you without doing the work FOR YOU.


So it is work-shop both for you and for me.

The reason I choose to do this experimentation in the area of money because there I probably don"t have to teach you anything new.
  • If I picked health... you are so screwed up, that it will take years to restore your original healthful state.

  • If I picked love... same thing as health... years to restore.

  • If I picked fulfillment: you wouldn"t know what I am talking about.


So I do these experiments with money.

I ask some questions, and then gently nudge you away from fixing, and towards restoration of a life worth living... restoration of the human spirit.


Depending on where you are at, you"ll get what you get. If you do this exercise often enough, you"ll be, maybe, able to see the layer upon layer of fixing, and remove them.

Replace them with curiosity, generosity, love... or any of the 160 possibilities a human is born being capable of being.

Or not. This is what the experiment is about for me... Can you, can I help you to. Are you even interested? Or arrogant, all knowing, ungrateful, angry, resistant?

You reap what you sow. Really.

You can fake me, but you cannot fake Life.


Oh, the money workshop...

it"s at 2:00 PM, in four hours. Here is the link to register.

It is NOT a walk in the park...

https://attendee.gotowebinar.com/rt/478944355868846851

Sunday, October 11, 2015

what does spirituality have to do with the quality of your life? The Computer Story


Yesterday my computer started to misbehave.

It shut down without an error message, without the dreaded blue screen.

I went online and researched the potential causes for it.

I have three computers, but this is my newest, and the one I do webinars on, the one I coach on skype, and I have a call already paid for this afternoon... so it was important to make the computer work.

I started with the hardware, the physical parts of the computer, and no matter what part I changed or disconnected, the error, the computer shutting down, persisted.

I was afraid, I was anxious.

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Thursday, July 9, 2015

NEW: Unusual Healing Modalities

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The Cleansing event went well. The energy was reasonably strong, and the feedback is that people felt the energy, felt their hands warm up, felt the nausea, so it showed people that something was happening. Some people wrote to me … Continue reading →

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Unusual Healing Modalities

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Tuesday, July 7, 2015

NEW: Are you on the right track... integrity... compass... conscience. Is there such a thing as a path?

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The biggest issues that I see students deal with are around the fear of taking a wrong step. The underlying belief, the underlying assumption is that the soul"s path, your life"s work is a straight line and unless you are … Continue reading →

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Are you on the right track... int
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NEW: Winners and losers: what is the difference between being a winner or a loser?

If you observe, every long running TV show went through a sudden change a year or two ago. The plots got steeper, the camera movements swifter. Why? Because we live in "attention economy". The rarest resource, the most un-renewable resource … Continue reading →

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Winners an
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Wednesday, May 27, 2015

NEW: Are you holding your breath?

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I never thought much about breathing... after all who does. But, because of my insomnia, because of my inability to fall asleep, because of the horrible nightmares, I took a class on relaxation techniques, and it was a breathing technique. … Continue reading →

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Are you hol
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Saturday, April 18, 2015

Nothing fails like success


Nothing fails like success

Most of us think that we are miserable because we don"t have everything we ever wanted. Because we are not smart enough, talented enough, successful enough. Because we don"t have enough money, etc.

You think that successful people are happy. Actually, the more
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Tuesday, April 7, 2015

Have you ever noticed... what hope is doing to you?


You have your eyes on something. Something that is currently out of reach. It either take work, time, or money to get it. Time passes, you do the work, you get the money, you buy it... and then something totally unexpected happens: you don"t want it. You don"t want to use it...

Another version of the same thing, just in a different arena: you want a person to love you. You long for it. You court them. You buy them gifts, or do nice things to them. Then, when they say they love you and want you... the bottom falls out. You suddenly don"t want it.

But why would such a horrible thing be a daily occurrence?

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Friday, January 2, 2015

The month when abundance is on your mind

It must be January, because my Effortless Abundance bundle is selling a lot. And Unlimited Abundance, astutely, is launching this month...

January, everyone looking at their current situation and starting to organize themselves to improve what they have.

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Monday, September 15, 2014

NEW: Why do you want to change?

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A guru I used to know, had a conversation with members of his staff, when they wanted to marry someone.

In fact, he saw the couple.

The conversation"s purpose was to find out if the relationship can last or not.

The questions the guru asked of each half of the couple:


what is wrong with the other person

can you be (can you love them, tolerate them, live with them forever) with what"s wrong with them?




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Thursday, July 17, 2014

NEW: Hungry? Eager? what is cause, what is effect? How resisting "hunger" can raise your vibration.

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Hunger is a poor advisor

It is said my many people, that you shouldn"t go grocery shopping when you are hungry.

Why? Because when you are hungry, the context of your being becomes to satisfy that hunger. Everything seems to be the answer to the question: this is the best way to eliminate hunger, to satisfy hunger.

So you end up spending money on stuff that is not good for you, that you should not have bought, maybe ever, in the first place.

Are you eager?Another word for hungry is "eager". Eager produces the same kind of results. It gives you roving eyes, eyes that hunger for a solution to a wrong that eager seeks to remedy... like hunger is to remedy an empty stomach.

Because neither are wrong, because there is nothing to fix, both eager and hungry are the product of the internal dark force, "The Opponent", as Kabbalah calls it.

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