Showing posts with label comparing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label comparing. Show all posts

Tuesday, June 28, 2016

Arrogance.


I have been dealing with arrogance in my students.

Arrogance is unearned boastful superiority.
Most people don"t know, don"t care because they themselves are not achievers... but you can have confidence that is justified by your accomplishments, your superior knowledge.

To the uninitiated, they look and sound the same. But they aren"t. You only need to scratch the surface.

I have detected a certain ancestral commonality in that behavior.

And have been pondering why and how and for what purpose are certain nationalities arrogant.

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Wednesday, May 25, 2016

Against self criticism and the 4-day weekend


One of the rarest and most functional capacities is the capacity to allow... without resistance.

Resistance uses a lot of energy, mostly the energy that you need to become successful, to do the right thing, to be well, and to treat people, including yourself, right.

Resistance is normal, but harmful. Just like self-criticism: normal but harmful, with no upside.

Upside is the benefit you gain from a harmful or painful action or experience.

Neither resistance, nor self-criticism, self-judgment have any upside, only downside.

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Thursday, May 5, 2016

Don"t Let What You Can"t Do Stop You From Doing What You Can


Another old article revived... Oldie but goodie.

I woke up this morning with despair in my heart. No reason, just the mood. I stepped on the scale, and I put on half a pound yesterday. It was raining cats and dogs, but the temperature will be normal later today.

Must be Dark Side transmission...

I read some emails, answered them, but didn"t feel like working.

I took some Heaven on Earth Remedy.

I watched some videos. One had a comment under it: "Don"t Let What You Can"t Do Stop You From Doing What You Can"

I took some more Heaven on Earth.

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Saturday, October 31, 2015

To expand the field where you live, take on curiosity


One of the beingnesses you could take on is curiosity.

I know you think you know what it is, but consider that you have no clue.

You know asking for answers. That is not the curiosity I am talking about, that is a strategy to wrap up life in a neat package, so there are no more questions... Not what I am talking about.

Then there is the curiosity you shower celebrities with...
The curiosity that brought you to this site... checking out my reviews of gurus and such... nay, that is gossipy curiosity... comparing, no real curiosity is in it.

No, curiosity does not make you ask questions, does not make you look up answers on website, curiosity is a deep yearning... but of course, If I tell you what it is, you"ll think you know it...

So I won"t... Just consider that curiosity so much out there that it really serves for a far out point, just like my magnificent.

And you can not tire of it for a whole life, hell, several lifetimes, it"s so high up there...
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Saturday, October 3, 2015

Advising, giving advice, helping




Unless it"s your job to give advice, don"t.

Why? Because giving advice comes from your shadow side, from your dark side.

How? When you give advice, you place yourself above the other person. Giving advice is asserting your superiority.

Have you noticed that you can get fired for that? Even if your advice is right on the spot...

By the way: this is true for healers, coaches, salespeople, helpers, charity volunteers, everyone.

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Friday, June 12, 2015

NEW: Osho: What is jealousy and why does it hurt so much to be jealous?

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I have been spending the last few days meditating, muscle testing, contemplating why it is that different people from different ethnic cultures are so different in one main aspect: caring.

Caring means that you are willing to consider another as important as yourself. And just the way you would not hurt yourself consciously and intentionally, you would not hurt another.

As it turns out, even after the DNA upgrade, only 19% of the population has the capacity to care. The rest refused to accept the DNA upgrade... remember, the ground rule is free will.

I have muscle tested different ethnic groups, and within the same ethnic group, I found, the DNA changed, and in the other ethnic groups it did not.

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Wednesday, April 8, 2015

Your soul correction is killing you... but how?


Each soul correction deals with a dominant pretense. A front, that hides the truth. A way to have two you"s, a dualistic way of living that is killing life.

If you read the few articles I have published on soul corrections, you may be able to see below the surface, and see what the pretense is. Most can"t. Especially their own.

But it"s there, hiding one or two layers deep.


Why pretend? Because the truth, although it sets you free, is also painful.

Why pretend? Because in the horizontal plane, in the world of the "other" survival seems to depend on this pretense... birds ruffle up their feathers to look bigger. Cats, dogs look fierce and big and threatening. It"s all pretense; it is all survival mechanism.




Then we believe our own lies, make our masks permanent, and suffer.

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Friday, March 27, 2015

Why Being Cunning prevents humans from becoming god-like?


Humans, this cunning species, want to know everything to be secure and superior
All the animals, all the plants on the planet are "fitting in with the system" we call Life.

Humans, on the other hand want to "beat the system" we call Life.

We"ve been doing it for a long time... for about 30 thousand years.

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Tuesday, March 24, 2015

The Work: Understanding vs. Seeing


Some of you do the work: you know who you are.

The most frequent issue that comes through to me in email is trying to understand.

But there is an issue with that.

The Thinking Man, i.e. the Man of the Mind, thinks about it, tries to understand.

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Wednesday, March 4, 2015

Osho on greed: your emptiness within and your efforts without


What is greed?

Man feels meaningless, empty, hollow within, and wants to fill it, stuff it. The effort to fill it somehow is greed. That effort is bound to fail for the simple reason because whatsoever you accumulate remains on the outside; it cannot reach within you. And the problem is
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Monday, December 22, 2014

Manifesting: is it possible for a human?


Every Tom, Dick, and Harry teaches manifesting. Are all these people wrong?

Do I dare saying that manifesting is not possible, or will I succumb to my fear of being killed, and tell you to calm down: you can manifest, if you do it right, if you just want it bad enough?

I probably should be scared, but to tell you the truth, when it"s time, I"ll die peacefully, knowing that I lived in integrity. That is all anyone can hope for in a lifetime.

Now, with regards to this manifesting issue, here is the scoop:

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Tuesday, July 23, 2013

NEW: Comparing: The Binary, The Pendulum, The Tedium, The Lifeless Life... PRISON BREAK!

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how to escape the mind so you can have a life


Do you work on your mind to make it better? You are making the bars of your prison shinier...


One of the activities of the mind  that takes you out of the present is comparing. If you are new here, you probably think that I am talking about your brain... but the mind is only a limited function of the brain, the brain is like the world, and the mind is like a room in your house... much smaller, and totally insulated from the world.

In this article, we are going to examine the mind"s behavior that is much like the behavior of a pendulum. ((A pendulum is a weight suspended from a pivot so that it can swing freely. When a pendulum is displaced sideways from its resting equilibrium position, it is subject to a restoring force due to gravity that will accelerate it back toward the equilibrium position. When released, the restoring force combined with the pendulum"s mass causes it to oscillate about the equilibrium position, swinging back and forth. The time for one complete cycle, a left swing and a right swing, is called the period. A pendulum swings with a specific period which depends (mainly) on its length.))

Remember, the more you are able to be out of the mind and in the present, the more intelligent you are able to be... I hope that looks like a value, like a virtue you could go for... And if it does, keep on reading this article.

The 2-year old article I republished yesterday, started talking about the mind-activity: comparing. It dealt with your judgments about people. You judge what they do compared to your standards and ideals about what people should be doing.

Unfortunately, or thankfully, you can"t live up to your own standards and ideals, so you judge yourself too.

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Monday, July 22, 2013

NEW: Comparing: The Binary, The Pendulum, The Tedium, The Lifeless Life... PRISON BREAK!

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how to escape the mind so you can have a life


Do you work on your mind to make it better? You are making the bars of your prison shinier...


One of the activities of the mind  that takes you out of the present is comparing. If you are new here, you probably think that I am talking about your brain... but the mind is only a limited function of the brain, the brain is like the world, and the mind is like a room in your house... much smaller, and totally insulated from the world.

In this article, we are going to examine the mind"s behavior that is much like the behavior of a pendulum. ((A pendulum is a weight suspended from a pivot so that it can swing freely. When a pendulum is displaced sideways from its resting equilibrium position, it is subject to a restoring force due to gravity that will accelerate it back toward the equilibrium position. When released, the restoring force combined with the pendulum"s mass causes it to oscillate about the equilibrium position, swinging back and forth. The time for one complete cycle, a left swing and a right swing, is called the period. A pendulum swings with a specific period which depends (mainly) on its length.))

Remember, the more you are able to be out of the mind and in the present, the more intelligent you are able to be... I hope that looks like a value, like a virtue you could go for... And if it does, keep on reading this article.

The 2-year old article I republished yesterday, started talking about the mind-activity: comparing. It dealt with your judgments about people. You judge what they do compared to your standards and ideals about what people should be doing.

Unfortunately, or thankfully, you can"t live up to your own standards and ideals, so you judge yourself too.

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