Are you part of the problem or part of the solution? Don"t be hasty answering...

Yesterday and especially today I had plenty of reasons to not want to face what there was to face: that we are the problem. Especially if and when we think it"s others.

I haven"t done MY soul searching, but I will, I promise.

For now, just to document it, I"d like to address what I have seen.

One client paid me to remove her children"s attachments.

I am still working on the second child, and this is what I have seen:

If you live inside a strong judgmental world of your own, where everyone, maybe including yourself, is wrong, then you are the Dark Side in your and your children"s life.

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Are you part of the problem or part of the solution? Don"t be hasty answering...

Yesterday and especially today I had plenty of reasons to not want to face what there was to face: that we are the problem. Especially if and when we think it"s others.

I haven"t done MY soul searching, but I will, I promise.

For now, just to document it, I"d like to address what I have seen.

One client paid me to remove her children"s attachments.

I am still working on the second child, and this is what I have seen:

If you live inside a strong judgmental world of your own, where everyone, maybe including yourself, is wrong, then you are the Dark Side in your and your children"s life.

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Are you part of the problem or part of the solution? Don"t be hasty answering...

Yesterday and especially today I had plenty of reasons to not want to face what there was to face: that we are the problem. Especially if and when we think it"s others.

I haven"t done MY soul searching, but I will, I promise.

For now, just to document it, I"d like to address what I have seen.

One client paid me to remove her children"s attachments.

I am still working on the second child, and this is what I have seen:

If you live inside a strong judgmental world of your own, where everyone, maybe including yourself, is wrong, then you are the Dark Side in your and your children"s life.

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Can you tell what size is your cone of vision? Look to what degree your life is fragmented...

Your vibration, your creativity, your truth value all depends on your cone of vision... But until you see that you have a narrow cone of vision, that you look at things with narrow cone of vision, or a narrow filter, you won"t want to make it wider.

Wide cone of vision means inclusive... narrow cone of vision is exclusive... exclusive of areas that you KNOW don"t matter, don"t belong, or you don"t like them. Exclusive because you KNOW the answer...

The most exciting insights first show up in the corner of your eyes... Which means they are literally outside of your cone of vision.

One way I see this is how attached you are to one area of life, or one way to do it, or one problem you have.

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Why you are not confident... Why you don"t trust yourself... Why you aren"t happy...

I watch, I observe people"s behavior and the emotions that go with it.

Unless I can see what you did, your emotions and much of your behavior don"t make sense.

And occasionally I get the opportunity to see both the actions and the emotions...

1. 
   

   The most frequent behavior is you acting without looking.

   
   Much like a drunk jumps into an empty pool... expecting it to be full.
   
   You buy something. You are on the payment page. You assume you know what"s there... you are not looking. You don"t even suspect that you are singing up to a monthly program as well... and that you need to "un-tick" that if you don"t want it.
   
   
   
   How do I know? Nine of you "accidentally" and unknowingly signed up to Tai"s premium monthly program.
   
   I remember a month ago when I bought my 67-steps... I carefully looked before I paid. Sometimes swimming pools are empty... and if you assume they are full... you hurt yourself.
   
   Another example when you buy something on my site and you don"t wait to be taken to your purchase. The text on the page, small letters, says: wait until we redirect you to your purchase.
   
   Result: I have to manually add you to the site so you can get your purchase.
   
   I do it, begrudgingly, because I"d like students and clients who are awake, aware, and conscious.
   
   Your results in life are very consistent with your level of awareness...


2. 
   

   The second most frequent behavior is lying.

   
   I know it"s a word you don"t want to hear. The word lying has two meanings: telling something that is not true, and to rest horizontally in bed, for example. In American English, people stopped using the word even for the second action: they say "lay" instead, which means "make lie"...
   
   Why do people lie?
   
   Because they can"t face the truth. Because courage is in the shortest supply... there is a courage deficiency.
   
   The second reason they lie, even to themselves, is that they don"t know that the payment for a lie is intense unhappiness.
   
   I am reading Freud"s essay, Civilizations and its discontents. It"s not an easy read... It"s Freud"s investigation into what makes humanity unhappy. What makes happiness impossible.
   
   Civilization wants to curtail humans" freedom to live by their instincts (sex, anger, hate, etc.) and makes it impossible for humans to live at peace with themselves.
   
   Humans, you, feel what you feel, have urges that you have, and then lie about it, even to yourself.
   
   Yesterday I had a conversation with someone whose soul correction is "Removing Hatred".
   
   He doesn"t seem angry, or full of hate, but at the same time he is not happy, he is further and further away from what he"d like to accomplish in his life.
   
   He cannot see, but until he makes peace with his own human urge to hate when he hates, he will never accomplish anything worth accomplishing in his life.
   
   And he will feel unhappy.
   
   I shared that I have flares of hate when I see you, my readers, my students, do the things you do: not be aware.
   
   Anger, hate, are like lightening... 2-3 seconds max... except when they are suppressed.
   

   When I was three years old, I remember lying awake in my bed, pondering why I wasn"t allowed to go to my baby sister"s funeral.
   
   She was going to be my knight in shining armor: the one that will love me in a world where nobody loved me.
   
   I decided that it is because I killer her. A three year old"s logic is hard to follow, but it is logic nevertheless.
   
   I never even visited her in the hospital during her 10 days struggle to live... she was a preemie like myself.
   
   But I KNEW that I killed her, I killed her with my anger. I KNEW...
   
   So, obviously, I started to suppress my anger from that point on. You suppress anything, you have to suppress everything.
   
   I don"t remember joy, I don"t remember happiness, I only remember anger and hate. They haunted me in my dreams.
   
   When I was 34 I read a book on how to release anger. That was after I had been hospitalized for depression three times...
   
   It took me another 20 years to clear the anger from my system, so when anger or hate comes, it is new... and not overwhelming.

   
   

   Suppressing a natural instinct makes you feel like you are sitting on a bomb... paralyzing.

   
   Expressing a natural instinct after it"s suppressed is dangerous: it may make you kill someone.
   
   The job is to gently and diligently release it from its prison... and to make the natural instinct, sexual, or aggression, ok to feel, ok to express, but redirect.
   
   I have redirected sexual energy most of my life, energy can be redirected... it"s like the energy of the river can be destructive, or it can create electricity... humans can do it.
   
   In the conversation, yesterday, when I spoke of my hate, my "Removing Hatred" friend tried to stop me and correct me: you didn"t hate them, you hated the behavior... he tried to dull the edge of my statement.
   
   Hell, I hate you for all of two seconds when you do something stupid. Can you be with that?
   
   People don"t hate behavior, they hate the perpetrator. Ask any dog... they attack you, even though it"s what you did they don"t like.
   
   If you won"t start cleaning up your act, and start allowing your aggression and your sex to be felt, you can"t even redirect it.
   
   You have to suppress it, lie about it, and be unhappy, as surely as that everybody has to die.
   
   Now, looking at the questions I ask in the title: who would trust a certified liar?
   
   My "Removing Hatred" friend is an underachiever, because he can"t trust himself, because he is a liar.
   
   Deliberate action is the hallmark of achievers. Your haste to close the page after paying, your haste to click the payment button, instead of checking if you are paying for what you think you are paying for, is a sign that you are a liar.
   

   I catch myself, once in a while, do the same.

   
   I don"t think I am stupid. I think I am a liar... and start looking what I am lying about. Where my integrity am out. I look until I find it. Sometimes it takes days... but I always find it, and then proceed to tell the truth about it.
   
   More often than not I promised to do something, and I am not doing it... currently the zenify my house project... I stopped being in action about it...
   
   Time to restart... Today is a good day for that.

Related post: https://www.yourvibration.com/16447/you-are-a-liar/

PS:

The nature of your suppression, the nature of your lies seems to be consistent with your soul correction.

You should get intimately familiar with your machine encoded in your soul correction.

Example: my soul correction is "Forget Thyself" and it is needing to be superior, thought of as superior and faultless.

Last week I bought something that today smelled funny. I muscle tested and although it would not make me sick... yet, muscle test says: don"t eat it.

I was looking to return it, but, I think, it was my fault: the thing was on sale, probably because it was expiring... I bought it nevertheless.

So I am just going to throw it away... it allows me to still look superior and faultless... Do you see the machine in action?

On the other hand, my friends who are "Speak your mind" soul correction (25) will buy stuff and return it a week later for a refund, even thought the thing was perishable and would not last a week... and it was obvious already in the store. They didn"t miss it... no, they like to think of themselves as people who take care of themselves... preferably at someone else"s expense.

What would your soul correction make you do in similar situation?

Overconfidence... do you screw up because of it? Or the opposite? lol

My soul correction is "Forget Thyself".

One aspect of this soul correction is overconfidence. I have to invent tricks to counter it, but, from time to time, it creates hell in my life... like right now.

You know I have been working on this human biting mites, or said in another way: microscopic mites that bite humans, live on and in humans, torture humans; avoid detection, so doctors don"t know about them, blame chemicals, viruses, allergies, infections, etc. to cover up that they have no idea.




Well, if I count how many times I was sure that I got the solution, only to see that a. it wasn"t a solution yet, b. that my solution made more trouble than I had before, c. to stop doing what I knew worked, and declared victory prematurely.

I could probably count more than there are fingers on my two hands.

Now, I am sure you say "thank god I am not like that" but you are probably kidding yourself: it is as human as anything, to jump into conclusions.

The art is not to never jump into conclusions. The art is to stay awake, stay aware, and admit the mistake. To go back to the drawing board, and continue looking, or to start all over again.

I told you I was a scientist by nature, and many scientists are this way. This is why of 135,000 pharmaceutical submissions a year, only a handful of medicines pass the muster...

So, if you are like me, jump into conclusion, know when you don"t... don"t try to change. Try to learn how to be someone who can make corrections.

You see the shortest distance between two points is a zig zag. Not on the drawing board, in real life.

The easiest way to see this is sailing.

If you want to sail from point A to point B, listen up! is to first start moving.

A vessel that is not in motion cannot be directed at all. You need to make the vessel move, and then you can use the rudder... steering wheel, correction, whatever you want to call that "thing" that you operate to change directions.

So now the vessel is moving, so you change directions, and now the vessel is crossing the imaginary straight line between points A and B, but at least it"s moving. Now you can zig-zag your way to your goal, to your destination.

Most people are afraid to get started, because they don"t want to make a mistake. The don"t move, waffle, hesitate, plan some more, ask more advice, talk some more... because they can"t see that the only way to do anything is to start moving, start moving to the wrong direction. And be masterful at course-correction...

Of course, one of the reason people don"t want to start in the wrong direction, because they know that they get all busy doing the wrong thing: they know that they can"t keep a distance between themselves and the project: that they don"t have an active Observer.

They also know that they are so afraid that they will rub their nose into the thing... narrow cone of vision, losing perspective, losing the context, accidents, tragedies, losses result.

But, for crying out loud, it is so easy to keep a distance! It is so easy to not get involved. It is so easy to stay aware, or at least put into your scheduler every 4-5 hours: "check where we are going! Make course corrections if necessary."

Between those that jump and quit, those that jump and go to hell, or those that never start... there are a few people, less than one percent, that actually enjoy "sailing", enjoy the zig-zag, enjoy the way life works, instead of hoping it will work differently.

Get to know yourself, both who you are that works, and what you do that doesn"t.

But for that, ugh, you"ll have to keep your eyes open, and keep yourself at a slight distance, so you can see.

PS: You can be overconfident in yourself, in another, in what you read, in the Bible, in a method, in what somebody said... even in me. Don"t do it. It makes you stupid...

My method of getting to the truth is called the Bumbling Idiot"s method... you keep on bumbling, with your eyes open, aware, paying attention to all the feedback, and you get to where you wanted to get. It"s not elegant, but it is very effective. You won"t impress... but your results will.

And, of course, the now customary video, that only loosely relates:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2gCsWjMLeeU

More money Part 4: your relationship to money

What is your relationship to money?

For the most part, your relationship to money, your attitude about money, is the same or similar, as your attitude about life. It is either powerful or it isn"t... and of course everything in between.

Raising the quality of your relationship to money is the exact same thing as raising your vibration. The moves are exactly the same. The higher vibration relationship will effect your money, your personal relationships, your success in any area of life, your health, and your experience of life: your level of fulfillment, purpose, joy, and happiness.

Of course, your understanding of what I just said is on the level of your current vibration... you want more stuff... right? You"ll see what it really means as you raise (increase) your vibration by climbing the Tree of Life, from branch to branch to branch, to as high as you can manage in this lifetime.

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Soul Correction Actions: Part 2: Fear - the flip side: living dangerously

Fear is natural. And we "respond" to fear according to our habitual ways, which is largely imprinted in our soul correction.

Just like there is procrastination and there is precrastination, both are fear based, there is also the phenomenon of brash, impulsive bravado...

Neither "responses" to fear are intelligent.

So, what is an intelligent response to fear?

Fear is normal, fear is natural, fear is a life saver.

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Overconfidence... do you screw up because of it? Or the opposite? lol

My soul correction is "Forget Thyself".

One aspect of this soul correction is overconfidence. I have to invent tricks to counter it, but, from time to time, it creates hell in my life... like right now.

You know I have been working on this human biting mites, or said in another way: microscopic mites that bite humans, live on and in humans, torture humans; avoid detection, so doctors don"t know about them, blame chemicals, viruses, allergies, infections, etc. to cover up that they have no idea.

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Your soul correction is killing you... but how?

Each soul correction deals with a dominant pretense. A front, that hides the truth. A way to have two you"s, a dualistic way of living that is killing life.

If you read the few articles I have published on soul corrections, you may be able to see below the surface, and see what the pretense is. Most can"t. Especially their own.

But it"s there, hiding one or two layers deep.


Why pretend? Because the truth, although it sets you free, is also painful.

Why pretend? Because in the horizontal plane, in the world of the "other" survival seems to depend on this pretense... birds ruffle up their feathers to look bigger. Cats, dogs look fierce and big and threatening. It"s all pretense; it is all survival mechanism.




Then we believe our own lies, make our masks permanent, and suffer.

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Middle or the road - wisdom or mistake?

One of the biggest challenges for me on the path is to stay in the middle.

Neither too egotistic, nor self-cheating.
Neither too buoyant nor down in the dumps.
Neither accepting nor refusing credit.
Neither too nice nor too rude to people and myself.


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