Updated: The secret of being able to change, and be reborn with a higher frequency

The original of this article was published a year ago... I have added new insights today

The secret of my being able to change, and be reborn with a higher frequency, a higher vibration, is that I have been able to keep in check the societal imperative to care about other people more than I care about myself. And in addition to that, I have been able to admit to myself all the errors of my ways that I can see. So I don"t even want to look good to myself. I am willing to accept myself, warts and all... for all I am and for all I am lacking.

This comes with giving up the emotional impact of others view of me, of others opinion of me, of others praise or hate of me, and my opinion of me... especially when I make a mistake, a false step, or when I make a fool of myself.

This attachment to opinions needs to be actively given up: no epigenetic shift, no transformation, no energy remedy will make these opinions neutral: we do live in a society, and others opinion of you and your products determines your money: and your money determines whether you eat, be sheltered, have leisure time, and a lot more. And your own opinion about yourself will determine whether you are going to play fully... or shrink.

So opinions are important, but they are not important emotionally.

Fear is emotional. Careful, thoughtful pro-action is not.

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What is your biggest issue or blockage that I can help you with?

I"d like to serve you better. I"d like to give you articles, webinars, products, services that meet your specific needs: as long as it is within integrity for me.

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The difference between information and education.
Mind-boggling.

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What does the Unconditional Love Activator do? Will it make you love yourself?

It helps you to bring a kind and sober eye to what you see...
But it is you who needs to do the looking.
One tool to force you to do the looking is my articles. In almost every article asks you to look at yourself, and if you told the truth, if you looked, you would see something ugly about yourself. If not, then you are lying. Those of you that got stuck at a relatively low vibration, in spite of your participation, are unwilling to look. So you lie.

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The secret of being able to change, and reborn with a higher frequency

The secret of my being able to change, and reborn with a higher frequency is that I have been able to keep in check the societal imperative to care about other people more than I care about myself.

It comes with giving up the emotional impact of others view of me, of others opinion of me, of others praise or hate of me.

It needs to be actively given up: no epigenetic shift will make in neutral: we do live in a society, and others opinion of you and your products determines your money: and your money determines whether you eat, be sheltered, have leisure time, and a lot more.

So others opinion is important, but not emotionally.

Fear is emotional. Careful, thoughtful pro-action is not.

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#Raiseyourvibration

Your soul correction is killing you... but how?

Each soul correction deals with a dominant pretense. A front, that hides the truth. A way to have two you"s, a dualistic way of living that is killing life.

If you read the few articles I have published on soul corrections, you may be able to see below the surface, and see what the pretense is. Most can"t. Especially their own.

But it"s there, hiding one or two layers deep.


Why pretend? Because the truth, although it sets you free, is also painful.

Why pretend? Because in the horizontal plane, in the world of the "other" survival seems to depend on this pretense... birds ruffle up their feathers to look bigger. Cats, dogs look fierce and big and threatening. It"s all pretense; it is all survival mechanism.




Then we believe our own lies, make our masks permanent, and suffer.

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What does the Unconditional Love Activator do? Will it make you love yourself?

It helps you to bring a kind and sober eye to what you see...
But it is you who needs to do the looking.
One tool to force you to do the looking is my articles. In almost every article asks you to look at yourself, and if you told the truth, if you looked, you would see something ugly about yourself. If not, then you are lying. Those of you that got stuck at a relatively low vibration, in spite of your participation, are unwilling to look. So you lie.
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NEW: The most frequent type of envy can be expressed with "how come they can/have/got X and I don"t?"

How come they succeeded and I don"t. How come they got the promotion and I didn"t. How come they have a nice partner and I don"t. How come they are thin and I am fat? How come they get the results and I don"t? How come, how come, how come... What am I, chopped liver?

And more often than not, the answer is: "Because they do what you don"t."

When you are the one who is slighted, how didn"t, can"t, don"t have, or didn"t get X, it is near impossible to see what it is the THEY do that you don"t.

One of my areas of didn"t, can"t, don"t have, or didn"t get X has something to do with being liked.

Not many people like me. It used to be better, and it used to be worse.

In Hungary I had friends, I had fans. I only had problems with authority: I never got a raise, never was promoted, and I was widely unpopular by the top brass of the companies I worked for.

Then between ages 34 and 64, 30 years, OMG! I was mostly alone. I only talked to people when I was giving them something, mostly stuff that they would have to pay for. I begged them to take it. I wanted to buy my way into friendship.

The past two years it"s been nicer.

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