Showing posts with label cone of vision. Show all posts
Showing posts with label cone of vision. Show all posts

Wednesday, July 18, 2018

You are convinced that you are smarter than me...

I have been holding off on delivering the promised READING class... Why?

There are so many factors that control how much you can do with the instructions I give you, that it is hard to know what I can teach to make a difference...

When you read my articles, when you listen to me (or to anyone else, by the way!) you think that you got 100%, and you maybe even think that you are smarter than me... OK, it"s not a maybe. You think you are smarter than me. And that you know everything. ((I listened to step 67 in the 67 steps where Tai talks about a kid who has a toy business that nets 10 million dollars a year. He says: the kid may be smart, and maybe I am not as smart as he is... So maybe I am half as smart... so I"ll make five million dollars a year... Tai is not exempt from this phenomenon: he thinks he is smarter than everyone, because he doesn"t know what makes someone smart, so he cannot do deliberate practice to make himself smarter.))

How do I know you think you are smarter than me?


From your questions, from your requests.

Here is what you do that gives it away:

You ask me to muscle test things... but never ask me a question that would bring some clarity into your thinking. What got you where you are is the quality of your knowledge, the quality of your thinking. All within your power... but you accept and ask for no input from me... because, you know, she is just an empath, a tool.

So what makes one smarter than another?




The answer is simple: how much they see of reality accurately.

The measures in the Starting Point Measurements tell me all I need to know... but not to you, because you already know that you see everything, and you see it accurately.

Sigh...
  • your relationship to feedback and instruction:

  • The level of discomfort you are willing to allow w/o trying to fix it. This is your TLB score...

  • The size of your vocabulary: the number of words you can use accurately:

  • To what degree you think of yourself:

  • how enslaved are you to memes? (what percentage of your life is run by memes?)

  • do you have a bridge between your precious "I" and your actual I? What is your level of delusion

  • How teachable/how coachable are you?

  • The level of your awareness?

  • the percentage of time you spend in the mind:

  • the percentage of input that gets through to you.

These measures are all about how much you can see and how accurately.


But your delusional self, the one that fancies itself smarter than me... maybe not smart, but definitely smarter than me, will not allow you to hear that you and your results are below acceptable, and unless you increase how much you see and how accurately, you are stuck with where you are... no matter how much you argue with me.

One of the elements of getting those numbers better is what I intend to teach in the READING course. Maybe it is the linchpin element, that unless you get that under control, nothing will happen...

It"s been hard for me to see what it is I have done that allowed me to see more and to see all that more clearly than before.

The linchpin capacity is this:

Being able to hold your attention without narrowing your cone of vision


When you hear "focus" you narrow your cone of vision and block out everything that is outside.

It sounds like a good thing but it is really very bad for you, because it causes the fragmentation where you can"t see the context of what you see, and therefore it either doesn"t make sense, or it seems to mean something entirely different than what it actually means.
  • Let"s say your focus is to make sure no one says anything bad about you, that you can maintain your delusion that you are smart... When you have a hammer everything looks like a nail... you"ll hear everything as a personal affront, a judgment, a slight, an attack.Your hammer will then activate and you cannot learn anything new, neither about yourself, nor about anything else.


When you can keep your cone of vision wide enough and deep enough, it is like having a tool box with all the tools a tool box can hold, and you can look and pick the tool that is a good match to the "issue"... learn from it, dance with it, try it out, experiment, take correction, and a lot more.
  • Same with having the focus on understanding... narrow cone of vision, context is missing... and surprise, understanding will not happen.

  • Same with "What"s in it for me?"... you won"t hear anything else, and you"ll even miss what"s in it for you.

  • Same with the Desire Trap... you"ll hear that I am your enemy, or you"ll hear how you can jump and skip to a windfall without any process, any knowledge, any skills, any consideration, any plan, any work.

  • Same with when you want me to be kind, nice, or whatever

  • Same with when you want things to be so... and nothing less will satisfy you... it"s not fun? It"s not just so... Not easy? it is not just so... Doesn"t agree with what you believe? it is not just so...

With a penlight of attention you need someone else to direct your attention so you can now flash it on another tiny fragment of reality.


But something remarkable happens: when you have a narrow cone of vision, you never build a framework of knowledge that the new learning can be hung from.
You remain ignorant, fancying yourself smart.

And your life is a proof of it:
  • you don"t tapdance to work,

  • you don"t tapdance to the people in your life, and definitely

  • don"t tapdance to looking in the mirror... because nothing is really magnificent, nothing is really up to your expectations.

Working with one of my students who volunteered to work with me, I managed to recall my many attempts to increase my reading speed AND retention.


Now... I never increased my reading speed. But I learned to control my cone of vision... the width...
I am still working on increasing the depth... the chesslike thinking part. Especially the willingness to do it.

My base nature is to jump without looking. Not pretty, is it? My patience is in short supply... but I am getting better, even dramatically better. It is deliberate practice: I do it every day, and the only purpose is to force myself to look before I leap, then look a little longer a little wider a little less impatiently.

I still have to do it with conscious competency: the unconscious competence, where I don"t have to think about it, is probably still far away. ((the stages of learning are: unconscious incompetence, conscious incompetence, conscious competence, unconscious competence. My job is to take you to conscious incompetence, or you"ll never learn anything: you believe you don"t have to. Once you are in conscious incompetence, I may be able to teach you something. But your "ego", your Precious "I" will not want to let go of the delusion that you already know everything you need, that you are smart enough. ))

So I am still getting smarter.

It"s all about how much of reality you see, the reality that is in front of you, and how accurately.


Your results will depend on that. And the quality of life as well.

Ignorance is bliss? Not in this day and age. It is bliss not for the ignorant, but for the puppeteers. Because ignorant people can be swayed this way and that... Because they can"t tell what they see...

Yet they think they are smarter than me, smarter than everyone.

No respect, no regard, no honor, no reverence, no appreciation.

You are the person who knows the price of everything but the value of nothing.

How is it working for you?

I posted this puzzle for you in a previous post, the difference between make do, or make it work.


The biggest difference is the mood it creates, the attitude it creates.

Your approach to life (attitude) is that you will make do... with less than what you deserve, less than what you should get. Settle for less, resigned, depressed, yearning, but inactive. You are the effect, not the cause. You are not getting enough, you are not loved enough, you are not happy enough, you don"t enjoy your work enough... not enough...

The second, make it work, is an active relationship to reality.

I live as if I lived in the woods with electricity, water, fast internet, and sewage. I don"t spend a lot of time making my environment just so... I leave it alone. I only care about taking care of what takes care of me.

Energizing my water, eating good quality food that matches perfectly what my body needs. Having enough opportunities to access the all-knowledge and also to teach it new things. And to practice the fundamental linchpin capacity that allows me to do a good job at it.

I also attend to exercising my body a little bit each day. To fill the birdbaths with fresh water so I can lift my eyes from my computer to watch the 40 different bird species that visit every day.

And I play the different activators around the house... so I can remain high vibration.

That"s it. I make my life work for me. I make my environment work for me: meaning: serve my needs. Fill me up so I never run on empty.

Thursday, June 30, 2016

Abilities that are not available until your health number is above 50%


When you are not well, you are in survival mode. Everything is an is, and the questions you ask are from that "is".

When you are well, you can start to ask different questions, that widen your cone of vision, that deepen your field of depth perception.

Questions like:

What am I missing here? What else could I/should I be asking?
What am I not looking at? What is outside of my survival, business as usual narrow cone of vision?

But there is a caveat: Even after people getting healthy or healthier (above 50%), changing habits, even though you can, doesn"t come naturally.



Survival mode is most recognized by the narrow cone of vision.

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Sunday, June 26, 2016

Want to be high vibration? Leave the basement of your being... get well.


I woke up this morning. For the second day in a row, I am bursting of energy, more energy than I know what to do with.

I have been sorting my laundry. I have been cleaning the stove top, the sinks... doing things the I turned away from before, because I didn"t have anything to give it.

I went for a quick walk yesterday.

I am getting a lot more done even in my business.

I am starting to get some realizations that I did not expect.

For one: humanity is not ready to raise their vibration.

You are trying to put the cart in front of the horses.

You are worrying about the wrong thing. About the trip to the penthouse... but you are in the basement, and the elevator doesn"t go down there.

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Friday, April 29, 2016

Can you tell what size is your cone of vision? Look to what degree your live is fragmented...


Your vibration, your creativity, your truth value all depends on your cone of vision... But until you see that you have a narrow cone of vision, that you look at things with narrow cone of vision, or a narrow filter, you won"t want to make it wider.

Wide cone of vision means inclusive... narrow cone of vision is exclusive... exclusive of areas that you KNOW don"t matter, don"t belong, or you don"t like them. Exclusive because you KNOW the answer...

The most exciting insights first show up in the corner of your eyes... Which means they are literally outside of your cone of vision.

One way I see this is how attached you are to one area of life, or one way to do it, or one problem you have.

For some: it is their soul correction. They scratch the wound until it bleeds, and neither the soul correction issue moves, nor their lives move... it is a strategy.

Strait and narrow is transferred on land. It may be narrow, but it is not the strait. Strait means a narrow path of water between land masses.

If you are on a ship, talking about the land is irrelevant, won"t allow you to pass.

For others it is laziness.

But for most, it"s the soul correction...

Soul correction is one way the "Universe" is telling us that there is some design... otherwise soul correction categories would not exist. Or horoscope signs.

And most soul corrections narrow your cone of vision to not see all of what can be seen. Not even look.

I am a "Forget Thyself" soul correction. I need people to condescend upon, feel superior to.
I avoid people in position of authority. And I have been avoiding my older brother. I have dug up some information that could be useful for her wife"s health, but decided that he"ll knock me for it... so I didn"t do it.

This week I called him, and he was gracious, maybe even grateful. I wasn"t superior. Instead I looked wider, and was helpful, loving, sharing? Without the big ego.

Summon different ways of being... wider cone of vision...

Because it really not physical seeing as much as spiritual seeing.

In the sentence: how you do anything is how you do everything is true, because of your narrow cone of vision with regards to approach, attitude, being.

Giving lip service to higher states of being is not being that way. Talking about flying isn"t...

You know your dominant being: cheerful, gloomy, withholding, belligerent, self-aggrandizing, slimy, slippery, avoiding, domineering, judgmental, fearful, suppressed, tentative, deceitful, delusional, arrogant...

I am actually looking at actual people in that list above.

You know who you are.

Sometimes I give exercises to expand your repertory of ways to be.

Like most actors, you play life the same way, no matter what the movie.

And then are a few actors, very few, Meryl Streep, for example, who can change the how.

You are not locked in... just there is more pull to be one way. Boring, predictable, lifeless.

And what you see while you are that
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Monday, April 25, 2016

Why is awareness the predictor of future success, why not skills or knowledge?


The first few steps in the 67 steps are long, rich, convoluted audios. Why? Because no matter how long the audio, you"ll only get one little thing, if that, because the cone of vision of your awareness is as wide as a pencil.

Did I notice, did I take in all he spoke about my first time around doing the 67 steps? No. I didn"t.

It is like traveling in a car. If you look out the window, you miss the conversation in the car. If you take part in the conversation in the car, you miss the whole trip. If you read, if you are hungry...

The goal is to expand the cone of awareness so it"s wide. So you can see the view, partake in the conversation, and maybe even be hungry...
Now, that is, increasing your awareness is the goal... but how does it effect success?

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Sunday, August 23, 2015

What is high vibration, really?


I got this email this morning:
Hello Sophie,
I have read some of Your reviews. I thought raising vibrations meant inner transformation, less ego and more kindness. Sorry, but to me Your Message does not seem truthful. I do not think it is Your intention, but I have to quit.
Regards from K
A lot of visitors have the same opinion: higher vibration means more kindness...

Now, where is this coming from? If you watched the movie (on my subscribers" site) Babette"s Feast, you saw that the Christian sect in that movie taught kindness and love... but it was not there for anyone.

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#Raiseyourvibration

Wednesday, April 29, 2015

Overconfidence... do you screw up because of it? Or the opposite? lol


My soul correction is "Forget Thyself".

One aspect of this soul correction is overconfidence. I have to invent tricks to counter it, but, from time to time, it creates hell in my life... like right now.

You know I have been working on this human biting mites, or said in another way: microscopic mites that bite humans, live on and in humans, torture humans; avoid detection, so doctors don"t know about them, blame chemicals, viruses, allergies, infections, etc. to cover up that they have no idea.

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#newcapacities, #Raiseyourvibration, #SoulCorrection

Wednesday, February 11, 2015

A reader asks: Isn"t inventing a being the same as pretending?


Hi Sophie - I need some clarifications ..

Isn"t inventing a being the same as pretending?

Is the goal to have the being be the "inventing being"? ..someone who can be any being? i.e caring, happy, courageous etc.

What kind of being do I invent when 99% of the population is there to make me feel bad?

Thanks!
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#Raiseyourlevelofconsciousness, #Raiseyourvibration, #SoulCorrection, #TalkBackToMe

Friday, January 23, 2015

Judgment: What is judgment? what is it really? The whole picture...


Judgment



Update: When we are on a lower level of consciousness ((your vibration number is very consistent with your consciousness level)) , we think it is all about us. What we do, what other people say, our results... everything. So our "self" is always in danger of falling off its pedestal, and we feel that with it we die.

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Saturday, November 8, 2014

Panache Desai"s Soul Signature... Dissolving Density Programs and why they don"t work


Any program that talks to your mind, the automatic thinking mind, is doomed to fail. But first it will titillate, soothe, much like a lullaby of a mother.

Why cannot they change you, and actually move you up where your soul wants to go?

Because you are stuck on low levels, young levels, and to unstuck you from there requires work... work that may not be pleasant, but unless it"s done, you are stuck forever.

The teachers you follow, the teachers whose products you buy, have one thing in common: they can sell ice to an Eskimo.

And you, who buys their product: you have one thing in common: you hope that life is going to be easy, and that by some miraculous way you can wish yourself out of the deep hole you live in.

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Monday, April 7, 2014

NEW: Transformational methods to get you unstuck

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Or how to set the context to alter the story and therefore alter your actions?

Whether you know it or not, your relationship to life is stiff, inflexible, and therefore ineffective.

You look at things, always, from the same exact perspective, and therefore you see, always, the same old, same old life: good or bad, the same.

The Sideways Method
I have taught you previously a move, that can transform your reality, the sideways view.


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Wednesday, February 5, 2014

NEW: Cone Of Vision, Attitude, Responsibility, Nature, Nurture And Choice

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What is transformation? There are many ways to say what it is, for the purposes of this article we"ll say: transformation is catching YOURSELF stuck in a state that is unproductive and self-righteous.

For a transformational teacher every moment looks like an opportunity to cause your transformation: you are always in layers upon layers of stuck states, even when you feel successful, and especially when you feel comfortable.

So, what gives a stuck state away as a stuck state? Stuck state, instead of wrong, right, etc...

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Wednesday, December 4, 2013

NEW: Are you looking at the world always the same way? It keeps the world the same way!

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What can you do to personally upgrade to Human Being: magnificent, cutting edge, inclusive? Learn from the Bateleur Eagle...

I stopped in a public library yesterday and got a book, called Upgrade Me, by Brian Clegg.

Here is the "flap" copy: Biologically, human beings haven’t changed in 100,000 years – but thanks to our amazing brains we can upgrade ourselves to add capabilities that took other creatures millions of years to evolve. Thanks to this "unnatural" evolution we are already Human 2.0. In the effort to stay alive, reproduce and make more of brains, we have transformed ourselves. Now with a better understanding of the mechanisms of the body, cloning, gene therapy, bionics, and other technologies, our rate of change is getting ever faster. This process of upgrading is nothing new. It has been around for millennia, and it raises some provocative questions. What will the future hold? Will our drive to upgrade continue to give positive benefits, or will it result in destruction? Where is our evolutionary survival heading? Sure to cause much debate, UPGRADE ME is science journalist Brian Clegg"s ambitious and brilliant account of humanity"s need to upgrade

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