Against self criticism and the 4-day weekend

One of the rarest and most functional capacities is the capacity to allow... without resistance.

Resistance uses a lot of energy, mostly the energy that you need to become successful, to do the right thing, to be well, and to treat people, including yourself, right.

Resistance is normal, but harmful. Just like self-criticism: normal but harmful, with no upside.

Upside is the benefit you gain from a harmful or painful action or experience.

Neither resistance, nor self-criticism, self-judgment have any upside, only downside.

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Your Dominant belief...

If I am better off than you, I have one thing that I can acknowledge, that you don"t seem to have: I don"t see that what I believe, my beliefs, have anything to do with what I do.

You do... You live in a world that preaches you to believe, and if and when you do, you can have anything you want, that you believe you can have. That is the floor of your world, and it is a false floor.

I don"t believe that, and I have proven a hundred times that what I believe or don"t believe is irrelevant.

So while you are trying to change your beliefs, while you follow any guru who promises to change your beliefs, and get even deeper entranched in that world view where your beliefs matter, I just do what I do, regardless of what I believe or what I don"t.

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What is your self-image? Are self-image questions, personality profiles, Kolbe test give you a correct answer?

There is a fundamental built-in error in tests that involve answering questions about ourselves.

I have found that personality tests that rely on your knowing yourself and to predict what you would do in certain situations, are profoundly flawed. ((Some tests I have an experience with: Kolbe test
Hartman value profile
other personality tests your coaches create. ))

I say this after working with thousands of people, one-on-one, observing them, feeling them (I am an empath) and comparing who and how they are compared to what they say about themselves.

The gap is significant between the two.

You believe yourself different, and you fill out your questionnaire. But your actions will still be consistent with who you really are, how you really behave, your real attitude, your real self, and you"ll be way off in your test results... ((And your coach will be way off... if they even look at it your profile at all))

You"ll be like the mad hero, Don Quixote, who lived in a world of his own design, unaware that he was out of sync, and that his actions were mad in the real world. ((Today"s equivalent is the religious person, or the Law of Attraction person, the conspiracy theorist person etc... duped, mistaken, fighting windmills))

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#contextisdecisive

Can I connect directly to your Consciousness to get you well?

Unexpectedly, I am finding myself doing health coaching on the Reclaim program.

Although that wasn"t my original intention, it turns out that if someone chooses to get well, get enough energy to live life well, to relate well, to find and live a purposeful life, then health coaching is their path, and my job is to accommodate it.

It"s a whole different coaching experience than my $200 per session health coaching: here I get daily feedback for weeks or months... invaluable.

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#Healing, #Reclaim

What is high vibration, really?

I got this email this morning:
Hello Sophie,
I have read some of Your reviews. I thought raising vibrations meant inner transformation, less ego and more kindness. Sorry, but to me Your Message does not seem truthful. I do not think it is Your intention, but I have to quit.
Regards from K
A lot of visitors have the same opinion: higher vibration means more kindness...

Now, where is this coming from? If you watched the movie (on my subscribers" site) Babette"s Feast, you saw that the Christian sect in that movie taught kindness and love... but it was not there for anyone.

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Find a Growth Method That Matches Your Personality

There are two categories of humans

sheep, victim, the effect... not in action, hoping, praying, visualizing, etc.
the climber

In this article I want to talk about the climber. The politician. The ruthless user. The win-lose type of person.


Why do you want to know them? Because you need to know evil intimately to fight evil.

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Self-improvement, self-development is a lot like the illegal drug trade

Self-improvement, self-development is a lot like the illegal drug trade. It"s not regulated. A few "cartels" dominate the market. What they sell is mostly addictive, pleasure promising, but on the long term destroys the user"s life.

Then there are the drug pushers, the evangelists that seems to know what"s right and what"s wrong, and how a teacher should or should not be.

The programs and the tools are ineffective... you"ll find out why later in this article.

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Negative Emotions Worldwide Transmission

Unless you learn how to identify with the Witness aka Observer, you"ll be miserable for the rest of your life. Guaranteed.

It"s Sunday. Ever since I woke up the Negative Emotion Transmission has been very strong today. Stronger than on a weekday.

It is by design. The owners of the transmission want to spread misery on your day off. Why? I don"t know.
What is your recourse? You can"t protect yourself from the misery transmission.
You can do three things, maybe four.
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How do you know if a program or method works or not?

A better question: How do you know if a program or method will work for you or not?

That is a crucial question.

A program may work, but

you won"t like it
you will be afraid to do what you need to do to make it work
you don"t have the foundation to make it work
you have time and energy to do it
It takes you away from where you should be, or takes your time and attention from doing what you should be doing.


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Tools to remove Dark Side attachments yourself

This article gives you some tools that you can use to remove the Dark Side attachments you unwittingly gathered through curiosity, greed, or desire to heal. If I refused to remove your attachments, this is what I can offer to you, for now. If you can"t afford my services to remove you attachments, this is also your path.

From time to time I am approached by people that I know are dangerous. Some are unconscious of the danger they pose... they are like zombies... operated by a power greater than themselves: an evil and dark power.

How did that happen? They find themselves attracted to weird stuff... energies, spells, curses, rituals, magical, magik.

The attraction comes from weakness. And the weakness gets exploited.

Thousands of weak sorcerer wannabees walk around the planet, all enslaved by killer energies. Many come to me to curse me or ask for help.

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#attachments, #DarkSide, #Energies, #Raiseyourvibration

Winners don"t fight what is: they use it. The ones that fight are broken.

To all the people that had their anchor-to-doom attachment pulled, I recommended that they start using the Unconditional Love Activator. Why?

Because the capacity of allowing need to be first practiced between you and you. Between you and your actions. Between you and your feelings, thoughts, and urges.
Without first allowing what is, you will ALWAYS be ineffective, bruised, and beaten.
I have learned this the hard way. I am a very forceful person by nature, and that is a horrible thing for a coach. Forcefulness create resistance in the other person, and instead of smooth transition to desirable actions, I trigger fighting, belligerence, and ultimately failure.

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Positive belief myths

It is in the unsaid, it is the obvious that doesn"t need to be said, that dominant beliefs that keep us poor, miserable and sick are beliefs that are negative, about ourselves, or about money.

In my work with people, especially pulling the "therefore" of the dominant belief, and pulling the anchor to their doom, I find that about 50% of people have a dominant belief that is a "positive" belief.

Men have it more than women, by my experience.

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You"ll withhold celebration until the big prize?

Every big achievement is made up of a lot of tiny achievements.

You cannot have an achievement on a level where you are not.

This mistake, thinking that you should be somewhere where you aren"t, is costing you achievement.

Every right step is choosing from thousands of steps, out of which only one step is a right step... and there are a few so-so steps.

The right step comes from assessing the situation right... i.e. being astute, distinguishing something accurately. This is an area where you are very weak, that is why you need the Reclaim program.

I just finished an email conversation with a long-time student who shared, accurately, where he is at. Then he said, that given his soul correction, Finish What you Start, the archetype of a liar, telling the truth about where he is at is very good.

I suggested that it"s time to celebrate. He laughed.

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The secret words that activate a dormant DNA

After your anchor-to-doom attachment is pulled... A whole new set of choices show up... Will you choose differently? All future depends on that.

As you know I use my own life as a kind of laboratory to test if there are really changes when I say there will be changes, and if indeed the new choices will give you a new life.

I am at a point of choice, so let us see the whole process, and see what we see. OK?

For background, enough to suffice, I hope, that just having a website, one website, and even lots of unique articles won"t get you far in today"s economy. You need to have and you need to do a lot more to make a living.

About six-seven weeks ago I set up such a supportive system on a well recommended web hosting site, and it took a lot of work. Then the web hosting site decided to do some internal work, and it hasn"t gone well. My supportive system (100 websites) is entirely offline. I am paying 99 dollars rent. And they don"t seem to care about me.

Now, here it is where it gets juicy for our purposes.

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Each anchor-to-doom pulled has a chance to activate an inactive DNA

The civilized world is sheeple walking meekly into slaughter...

There is no incentive, there is not much room for independent thinking, growth, in today"s world. But how it is is deadly, both on the individual level, and on the level of world politics.

You need to become not politically correct... You need to reclaim your right and abililty to become a human being, who isn"t completely enslaved to the status quo, of doing nice-nice... Getting killed in the process... or just simply dying.

Now that the site is squared away after the crash... We can get to work on making the Epigenetic shifts, the activation of certain DNA in your genome, permanent.

Each anchor-to-doom pulled has a chance to activate an inactive DNA.
And as we have said before, actions, small actions, consistent with an active DNA are needed to make the shift permanent.

The list is long, and I don"t have it... This is why I recommend that if you have had your anchor-to-doom pulled, you participate, at least for a little while, in the Reclaim coaching program. There I and the coaches I train, will be able to pinpoint the type of actions you need to take to cause this permanent change.

Just one more aspect: your actions are very often, correlated to your soul correction, which is the main way you avoid becoming an expanding human being, by insisting on desire for the self alone.

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Are you willing to become a prosperous "neighborhood"?

I republished an article, that is as important as anything you"ll ever learn, if you wanted to live a life of an expanding human being...

Response when I first published it: no echo. Response this time: no echo. Nobody heard it. Nobody saw it. Nobody was interested.
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The article is pinpointing the reason why you have what you have, and not what you want to have.
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The least qualified person syndrome

Before I get into the meat of the article, I"d like to share what happened in Israel during and after the War of Independence, lasting about 20-25 years.

Most new immigrants lived in kibbutzim, and in kibbutzim, a kind of "collective" the children spend most of their times in children"s houses.
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Announcing an unusual coaching program, part of Reclaim

This article is intentionally difficult to read. Why? Because it is a qualifying piece: If you can"t make heads and tails out of this, then you won"t be able to become a coach... sorry.



This past Sunday I was on a training webinar for coaches (training coaches in selling their stuff). One of the questions that came up was: What is the cause of lower than expected sales?

From these past days" email interactions, my guess is that visitors don"t understand what I am saying in my articles. Even for regular students it"s a challenge to translate between words and doing. And even people who get a personal email from me telling them what is their doom, their anchor to doom... and what they should be doing to cause the DNA shift, to make themselves permanently better... even after a personal email the confusion is staggering, and the actions are rare and weak.

I have always had a real hard time making that shift, making that translation between words and doing.

I had an idea a second ago, that may be the stupidest idea I have ever had, but I am going to test it out.

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Are you habitually depressed?

Depression can be like pessimism, habitual. You KNOW how it is, you KNOW how you are, and any change in that is only possible if you actually look and see how it is, how you are. You may have the thousand mile stare.

We seem to settle into a life KNOWING, as if living in a created little universe, our own, where everything is known. We know how to live depressed... We may complain, but we don"t even entertain the option of looking from outside to see if we are still depressed.

When you live like this, and I think everyone lives like this! then mostly an outside of you energy is needed to kick you in the behind, so you open your eyes, and gasp.

Like the just born baby, needs a slap on the behind to even consider breathing. So sure that they don"t have to...

I think that we need to be slapped on the behind a lot.

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What"s the difference between a DNA activation and self-control? Self-improvement, self-development?

I said in the last article and I say it here again:

We are all born with a full "Christmas tree" loaded with ornaments i.e. genes. Some of those ornaments light up, some of those don"t.

The capacities that those dark ornaments show as dormant are patience, compassion, caring, seeing the big picture, intelligence, focus... as you see, these are the prized qualities of winners.

And they are dormant on your tree of genes, the Christmas Tree.

I have found that strong energies that create a whole new terrain to play on, plus consistent small actions using those capacities create a DNA activation, an epigenetic shift where you don"t have to try to be patient, you just are.

This is what I noticed this morning:

I have lived in this apartment for 12 years now. It is walking distance from a Catholic church, that insists on doing 15 minute long music twice a day, at noon and at 6 pm.

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