Showing posts with label belligerence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label belligerence. Show all posts

Sunday, August 30, 2015

Updated: Are you at cause or are you at effect?


Can context be cause?Note: I wrote this article three years ago, but it is as timely as ever... It moved me then, and it moves me today... Enjoy!

This question doesn"t sound like it could make much sense, does it? But when you find out what it means, you"ll be thrilled to know that it is the panacea, the cure for most of what ails us.
By the way, Nature"s fundamental law is: Like causes cause like effects. If something you consider "cause" doesn"t work reliably, it is not a cause, it"s an effect. Like prayer, like certain remedies, like the "Law" of attraction, like thinking positively, like placebo...
The Second Phase Activators Course just finished on Sunday, and I am working on the next course. Making decisions, creating some new stuff. And a big change: I will not allow everyone to sign up, just because they want to be in it.

There are some current students who, because of their attitude, lag behind. This creates tension in the group: I spend more time trying to unstuck the unwilling or lazy ones than actually teaching stuff. (The main unwilling attitudes "it"s good enough for me the way it is," "why rock the boat," or belligerence or even hostility/resistance are the attitudes I have been experiencing and won"t tolerate in my next courses.

These people also don"t have a big enough desire to change or even to experiment, and change and experimenting are mandatory if you want to create a shift in your life to the better.)

I also needed to create changes in MY attitude to be able to believe that I can pick and choose who I want to teach. That is a long shot from where I started: accepting anyone who was willing.

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#contextisdecisive

Thursday, July 30, 2015

Winners don"t fight what is: they use it. The ones that fight are broken.


To all the people that had their anchor-to-doom attachment pulled, I recommended that they start using the Unconditional Love Activator. Why?

Because the capacity of allowing need to be first practiced between you and you. Between you and your actions. Between you and your feelings, thoughts, and urges.
Without first allowing what is, you will ALWAYS be ineffective, bruised, and beaten.
I have learned this the hard way. I am a very forceful person by nature, and that is a horrible thing for a coach. Forcefulness create resistance in the other person, and instead of smooth transition to desirable actions, I trigger fighting, belligerence, and ultimately failure.

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#AccessYourPower, #attachments, #Raiseyourvibration

Friday, June 12, 2015

Soul Correction Actions: Part 2: Fear


The "Therefore" is: I am afraid, I feel fear, therefore I should run, hide, resist, do nothing.

Fear is universal, and we all feel afraid some of the time, and a lot of us most of the time.

I never considered fear as a "thing" until I was in a seminar, back in 1988? called Creativity: Living at Risk.

The leader of the 10-session Landmark Seminar was hollering: Move towards the fear, call it excitement.

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#ExpandingHumanBeing, #Raiseyourvibration, #SoulCorrection