Why are happy people happy? Have you ever asked that question?

The biggest differentiator between a successful, happy, balanced, unbroken person, and someone with a life not worth writing home about is their relationship to failures. ((Or you could say: challenges... Said in another way, the biggest differentiator if their activities are chosen to make them grow, or make them survive. The more someone chooses to grow, the happier that person becomes. Why? Because the purpose of life is to become all you can become... That is the game... Each game has its own rules what is winning and what is losing. In golf putting the little white ball into the little cup is a winning move. In basketball... into the basket. In black jack: getting as close to 21 as possible... etc. Life: the rule is grow as much as you can. Become all you can become. If you are not happy, here is your main reason... ))

Yes. Plural.

Wanting only successes is like wanting to walk but never take a step with your left leg... Unnatural and ... and why would you want that?

Everything in life has a rhythm, sex, breathing, eating and elimination... everything.

On Days of Power, when I climb the "pole" to get to the place where i can channel the light of the Days of Power... up and down... hands and then legs... or maybe legs and then hands? lol.

There are more talented, smart people in the graveyards of failures than you can imagine, and unless you learn the most important skill, the skill that separates the 1% from the 99%, you are heading there too.

Now, just so you know, you are born with a certain amount of grit, and a certain amount of resilience... it is your starting point... Depends, surprisingly, more on your Soul Correction than on your ancestry, or family... why? I have NO CLUE... so far.

But you need to know your soul correction, intimately, so when the weaknesses show up, you can greet them as friends.
You also need to know your "case", your default sentence, or whatever name you give it, your linchpin issue... so you can keep an eye on it, even though it is a tough little shape-shifter.

I talk about those in different courses, different articles, and maybe even in some of my free webinar workshops. So I won"t do it here... it is only valuable when you get help to find out your own... knowing, in general, doesn"t do you much good.

I was given an opportunity to go deep and see what mine was... back in the fall of 1987. I was invited to be in a program "Potential Forum Leader Candidates Program" to train to become the very select few: Forum Leaders.

I was excited... I prepared a short presentation on my pluses and my minuses, all around the predictable: I will start strong, I will charm you, I will raise high hopes, only to disappoint you.

Until that point that was the story of my life... and I knew, that if nothing changes, that story won"t change either... I"ll be a disappointment... and never become a Forum Leader...

And, of course, that is exactly what happened, and the first real obstacle I buckled and lost my drive.

I went to my "favorite place" I always went when I failed... "I should be dead" or some version of that.

You can see that my soul correction has this weakness, my default sentence (I will be thrown out) was running my life, and to some degree they still do. The only difference is: nowadays I catch them faster, before they bring the whole "ship" down.

Consistency is king... but the only thing you have been consistent, thus far, is allowing your sentence to bring you down.

Kabbalah calls this your Opponent... the opposing force that is personal to you.

The amount of Light you create in your life and in the world is the amount of force you apply against the Opponent.

The Opponent, some cultures call it Satan, or the Devil, is the sweet talking snake of the Garden of Eden. The reasonable voice that says: you have done enough. The voice that says: I deserve some fun. The voice that says: you"ll never be good enough...

One of my favorite sentences flies in the face of political correctness: to know good, you must become an expert at evil.

The opposite, the politically correct bromine that 90% of humanity subscribes to can be best expressed by this Helen Keller quote: "Keep your face to the sun and you will never see the shadows." ((The stupid Helen Keller quote )) What most people use as foundation for the popular and deadly cult: positive thinking, or more precisely: Avoid Negativity.

You are a member of that cult? You are on cool aid... better leave now, I don"t cater for mentally feeble specimens of the human race.

But even if you are not part of that cult, you have drank some of the cool aid... and believe that life should be all success, all joy, all good...

So what does that cool aid do to you and your dreams?

It will make you reject any slip-up, any weakness, any semblance of failure... and suggest that you make your game smaller, so you can avoid the negative.

I suggest that there are no winners and losers in this game. All players die in the end, and there is no reincarnation, no heaven, no hell... you die and it"s over for you.

And while there are no winners and no losers, there is a difference in life experience.

Some people enjoy their lives, and others don"t.

If your goal is survival, I guarantee that you don"t enjoy your life. But surprisingly: if your goal is success... I also guarantee that you don"t enjoy your life... or not much.

I have a favorite Jewish joke (actually I have many, lol)

The guy goes to the rabbi and asks him to give him advice on how to live a long life.

The rabbi says: Simple. Every morning, when you get up, kiss your wife, have breakfast, go to work, after work go home, have dinner, kiss your wife... and do this every day.

The guy asks: And rabbi... if I do this, will I have a long life?

The rabbi answers: I don"t know. But I can guarantee that it will FEEL long.

What makes life enjoyable is the challenges you set and overcome.

Your body hums, when you challenge it physically every chance you have. A sedentary lifestyle results in a body that stops humming. And it takes work, it takes initiative, it takes willingness to challenge the body... I didn"t do that for too long, and I am suffering for it.

The same is true to your brain, to your lungs, to your psyche...

No challenge, no humming.

And guess what the Opponent ALWAYS suggests you do? If you guessed, that IT says: make your game smaller... take it easy... give up... have fun instead... you guessed right.

Unless you KNOW that it is the EVIL that suggests that, you"ll go with it.

And you may live a long life, but it will not be humming.

I am a member of this Community Center in my neighborhood, that caters to seniors. When I look at people, I see people who have lived long... but I hear no humming. But what is interesting: no humming from the staff either.

Humanity is not humming... 60% dead while alive...

PS: With many of my unhappy students, the cause of unhappiness is this: they look for reasons outside of themselves for growing. Trying to be nice... trying to be liked... trying to fit other people"s expectations of how they should be.

The growth, the growing person, is interested in growing for their own sake. At least 50% of their motivation is Self-serving. Self, with a capital S.

And only the remaining 50% is interested in success, rewards, acknowledgment, or anything from the outside.

If you don"t have 50% inner motivation (the ambition number in the Starting Point measurements, your first job is to increase that number! by resetting your context.

Why are happy people happy? Have you ever asked that question?

The biggest differentiator between a successful, happy, balanced, unbroken person, and someone with a life not worth writing home about is their relationship to failures. ((Or you could say: challenges... Said in another way, the biggest differentiator if their activities are chosen to make them grow, or make them survive. The more someone chooses to grow, the happier that person becomes. Why? Because the purpose of life is to become all you can become... That is the game... Each game has its own rules what is winning and what is losing. In golf putting the little white ball into the little cup is a winning move. In basketball... into the basket. In black jack: getting as close to 21 as possible... etc. Life: the rule is grow as much as you can. Become all you can become. If you are not happy, here is your main reason... ))

Yes. Plural.

Wanting only successes is like wanting to walk but never take a step with your left leg... Unnatural and ... and why would you want that?

Everything in life has a rhythm, sex, breathing, eating and elimination... everything.

On Days of Power, when I climb the "pole" to get to the place where i can channel the light of the Days of Power... up and down... hands and then legs... or maybe legs and then hands? lol.

There are more talented, smart people in the graveyards of failures than you can imagine, and unless you learn the most important skill, the skill that separates the 1% from the 99%, you are heading there too.

Now, just so you know, you are born with a certain amount of grit, and a certain amount of resilience... it is your starting point... Depends, surprisingly, more on your Soul Correction than on your ancestry, or family... why? I have NO CLUE... so far.

But you need to know your soul correction, intimately, so when the weaknesses show up, you can greet them as friends.
You also need to know your "case", your default sentence, or whatever name you give it, your linchpin issue... so you can keep an eye on it, even though it is a tough little shape-shifter.

I talk about those in different courses, different articles, and maybe even in some of my free webinar workshops. So I won"t do it here... it is only valuable when you get help to find out your own... knowing, in general, doesn"t do you much good.

I was given an opportunity to go deep and see what mine was... back in the fall of 1987. I was invited to be in a program "Potential Forum Leader Candidates Program" to train to become the very select few: Forum Leaders.

I was excited... I prepared a short presentation on my pluses and my minuses, all around the predictable: I will start strong, I will charm you, I will raise high hopes, only to disappoint you.

Until that point that was the story of my life... and I knew, that if nothing changes, that story won"t change either... I"ll be a disappointment... and never become a Forum Leader...

And, of course, that is exactly what happened, and the first real obstacle I buckled and lost my drive.

I went to my "favorite place" I always went when I failed... "I should be dead" or some version of that.

You can see that my soul correction has this weakness, my default sentence (I will be thrown out) was running my life, and to some degree they still do. The only difference is: nowadays I catch them faster, before they bring the whole "ship" down.

Consistency is king... but the only thing you have been consistent, thus far, is allowing your sentence to bring you down.

Kabbalah calls this your Opponent... the opposing force that is personal to you.

The amount of Light you create in your life and in the world is the amount of force you apply against the Opponent.

The Opponent, some cultures call it Satan, or the Devil, is the sweet talking snake of the Garden of Eden. The reasonable voice that says: you have done enough. The voice that says: I deserve some fun. The voice that says: you"ll never be good enough...

One of my favorite sentences flies in the face of political correctness: to know good, you must become an expert at evil.

The opposite, the politically correct bromine that 90% of humanity subscribes to can be best expressed by this Helen Keller quote: "Keep your face to the sun and you will never see the shadows." ((The stupid Helen Keller quote )) What most people use as foundation for the popular and deadly cult: positive thinking, or more precisely: Avoid Negativity.

You are a member of that cult? You are on cool aid... better leave now, I don"t cater for mentally feeble specimens of the human race.

But even if you are not part of that cult, you have drank some of the cool aid... and believe that life should be all success, all joy, all good...

So what does that cool aid do to you and your dreams?

It will make you reject any slip-up, any weakness, any semblance of failure... and suggest that you make your game smaller, so you can avoid the negative.

I suggest that there are no winners and losers in this game. All players die in the end, and there is no reincarnation, no heaven, no hell... you die and it"s over for you.

And while there are no winners and no losers, there is a difference in life experience.

Some people enjoy their lives, and others don"t.

If your goal is survival, I guarantee that you don"t enjoy your life. But surprisingly: if your goal is success... I also guarantee that you don"t enjoy your life... or not much.

I have a favorite Jewish joke (actually I have many, lol)

The guy goes to the rabbi and asks him to give him advice on how to live a long life.

The rabbi says: Simple. Every morning, when you get up, kiss your wife, have breakfast, go to work, after work go home, have dinner, kiss your wife... and do this every day.

The guy asks: And rabbi... if I do this, will I have a long life?

The rabbi answers: I don"t know. But I can guarantee that it will FEEL long.

What makes life enjoyable is the challenges you set and overcome.

Your body hums, when you challenge it physically every chance you have. A sedentary lifestyle results in a body that stops humming. And it takes work, it takes initiative, it takes willingness to challenge the body... I didn"t do that for too long, and I am suffering for it.

The same is true to your brain, to your lungs, to your psyche...

No challenge, no humming.

And guess what the Opponent ALWAYS suggests you do? If you guessed, that IT says: make your game smaller... take it easy... give up... have fun instead... you guessed right.

Unless you KNOW that it is the EVIL that suggests that, you"ll go with it.

And you may live a long life, but it will not be humming.

I am a member of this Community Center in my neighborhood, that caters to seniors. When I look at people, I see people who have lived long... but I hear no humming. But what is interesting: no humming from the staff either.

Humanity is not humming... 60% dead while alive...

PS: With many of my unhappy students, the cause of unhappiness is this: they look for reasons outside of themselves for growing. Trying to be nice... trying to be liked... trying to fit other people"s expectations of how they should be.

The growth, the growing person, is interested in growing for their own sake. At least 50% of their motivation is Self-serving. Self, with a capital S.

And only the remaining 50% is interested in success, rewards, acknowledgment, or anything from the outside.

If you don"t have 50% inner motivation (the ambition number in the Starting Point measurements, your first job is to increase that number! by resetting your context.

One path to Self you may want to take

One of the capacities you want to cultivate is the capacity of being in awe. Awestruck, awe-inspired.

Why? Because unless you can be moved on the inside, you are dead and I can"t help you... nobody can.

Unless you can attain to a certain level of awe, you are not going to be able to have a purpose to your life, or love, or rise above the pedestrian existence of the current humanity.

And no, I am not going to turn it on for you, please don"t ask.

This is a project you need to invent for yourself, and try to get in the state of awe. Inspiring stories, inspiring books, inspiring people, inspiring movies.

Awe is being present to the beyond... the beyond of the level where you are, the beyond of the knowable universe... from where all power comes.

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Why should you believe me? Why should you learn from me?

I have been a spiritual, raise-your-vibration teacher for a while... and when someone asked what qualified me to teach, I could say that the fact that I did it myself, and went from a vibration of 185 to 930, consciously and with my eyes open.

Now, having done that is fine and dandy... but can I teach it? Good question.

But let"s look at another area: health.

At some point I got really clear that unless you have energy to do the work, unless you have coherence to do the work, unless you are well enough... I can"t help you much.

But I had a problem, an integrity issue: I myself wasn"t well enough to prove to you that I know what I am talking about when it comes to becoming healthy.
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When something isn"t working consider that it"s because there is something that you don"t know.

When something isn"t working consider that it"s because there is something that you don"t know.

Whether the something that isn"t working is money, love, health, business, school... the answer is always "there is something you don"t know."

The brilliance of this statement that turned a broke loser, a serial nebbich, Harv Eker into a multimillionaire T. Harv Eker. The brilliance is that because you don"t know what it is that you don"t know... you need to open yourself up to looking. At everything. And a lot... Expose yourself to seeing stuff. He did it, and he is now rich. This one sentence, this one statement, this one habit.

This isn"t what he teaches, because this statement gives you all the power, and you don"t buy stuff when you have the power... He is so rich because no one understand this statement... But why?

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How could you become ready to grow?

I am using Rob Brezsny"s words here... maybe his English communicates better than mine:
ANTI-INSTRUCTIONS

Exaggerate your flaws till they turn into virtues Pretend your wounds are exotic tattoos Refuse the gifts that infringe on your freedom Shun sacred places that fill you with boredom Keep in mind it"s bad luck to be superstitious The official story"s always fictitious Pump up your karma with idiot laughter The promised land"s here, not in some hereafter

We are searching for the answers so we can destroy them and dream up better questions

Here are two attitudes that will be useful, invaluable, and mandatory if you want to grow through my programs

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What"s the truth about you? Your health

Trace minerals... what do you need to know


I have been doing these 90 essential nutrient evaluations for about a month now.

Yesterday I had some time and tested a few people I know, clients, readers, friends, and emailed them my findings... at least the numbers.

I sent an email to one of my clients, and she wrote back arguing. I had a typo in the email... by mistake I wrote that she had 90 of the 90 essentials missing... obvious typo.

But yet, there is a question that she didn"t ask, and I want to ask it for her, so you can learn something.

Trace minerals are needed in higher quantities when you are under stress.

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You have to get ready for a breakthrough? WTF? Why? Can"t you just get one any time?

One of my students had a breakthrough on the Monday webinar.

To me it came out of the blue... nothing seemed to be building up to it.

I got intensely curious. After all, when you don"t or can"t acknowledge the "real" source of a breakthrough, then you can"t sustain the result the breakthrough. It looks like divine intervention: you are not causing it, some "entity" does... and all you can do is pray for rain...

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Could you learn to be an investor like Warren Buffet? If you had the time, the teachers, the money?

I shared a few bits here and there today with my chiropractor... He has 13 capacities used.

The conversation was an utter and total failure.

Capacities, abilities, is a whole new concept, and he wasn"t even getting a glimpse of what I was talking about. Very interesting.

It seems that the mistaken belief is that you can learn anything... including being an investor like Warren Buffet... that is a total illusion: you cannot learn anything that you don"t have the capacities for.

Most types of learning, like classes, coaching, etc. don"t take you to a place where the capacity missing would turn on, because you are ready for it and need it, It is not deep enough water, so the sink or swim would apply. Especially if you think you should be able to do it...

Big mistake.

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How words really effect you? And how positive thinkers are stupid

If you had a childhood trauma... what is the best way to deal with it now, so you can grow?

Some of you were abused as a child.

Now, strictly speaking, there is no such thing as abuse in reality. Abuse is a particular interpretation of something that happened. If I asked a visiting Martian what happened, he would say things like one person hit the other, or one person yelled at another, or one person tied up another, pushed them down, maybe even put one part of their anatomy into the other... but not abuse.

Abuse never happened... or it happened only if you said so... for you. In your mouth. In your interpretation.

Some things don"t exist outside of language... they don"t exist in reality. Abuse is just one of these. One other "thing" that doesn"t exist in reality is lack... In reality only things that are there exist.

New age gurus talk about the importance of the words you use. Of course, either because you are dumb or they are dumb, this gets generalized.

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The World Is Full Of Dumb People Who Think They"re Smart

What is IQ, what is smart, and what does it have to do with DNA capacities?

If you read my previous article, you know that I think of the movie "The Constant Gardener." As I was looking for pictures, I stumbled onto a movie review where the person either didn"t see the movie or is dumb. And the article is five years old, and he never realized that he is dumb.

So that prompted me to look for article s where dumb people think they are smart. Here is one... I am going to make slight changes in the original...

20 Reasons Why The World Is Full Of Dumb People Who Think They"re Smart
by Daniel Hayes


IQ measures reasoning and problem-solving ability and nothing else. It doesn"t measure curiosity or creativity. [Source]
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One method to force your new capacities work for you

It seems that one method of making the newly activated capacities real has been found.

As you know, having activated DNA capacities is nice, but unless you need it, they won"t do anything. They will be like lights that are on in streets that no one passes.

The methods I am looking for are methods that make you go into those streets, so you use the light and find ways to be different, do different, have different results, different reactions, different feelings.

The issue with comfortable and somewhat successful people (you) has been is that ego won"t allow you to take risks unless you trick it. I mean: trick the ego. Sweet-talk is great, but won"t help much in this case, I have tried.

So, the method I have zeroed in with the client who inherited his father"s company is this:

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DNA capacity: Flexibility

Sometimes people get an idea of activating a capacity that is so alien to their culture, it takes a good 5-10 minutes for the history channel, the ancestors backwards, to build.

It is so unfamiliar that ego doesn"t even know to protest. It is like a way of being that is totally unfamiliar... you can"t see other than special people, like kung fu fighters, or shaolin monks to demonstrate.

Flexibility is the capacity to be able to keep your balance even though the world is pushing you hither and tether...

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How to activate your relationship with your consciousness so you can be guided

Most things that happen inside you, inside Team-YOU, (Team You: body: feelings/emotions, mind, soul, ego, subconscious, history/ancestry, cells/DNA, self/identity, Self, consciousness)) are below your conscious awareness.

Most of the abilities, most of the DNA capacities I activate, need you to get aware of the happenings inside you, or you"ll lose out.

What do I mean "lose out"?

When you pay $25 for the activation of a capacity, an ability becomes available to you. If you don"t use it, you lose the $25. But what more you lose depends on the game you play in life.

Some people don"t play a big game, and for you the loss is negligible.
Some people play bigger game, and for you the loss is thousands, hundreds of thousands of dollars.
And for some of you, it"s millions of dollars, plus happiness, fulfillment, satisfaction, your legacy... you get the picture.

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#Activation

Notes from my experience with activating the DNA capacity of seeing the consequences of your actions

The new capacity, the capacity to see the consequences of your actions, clearly, like a diagram is an unconscious capacity. Unconscious meaning: you don"t necessarily notice any difference, especially if


your ego keeps shouting: it"s hopeless...
the subconscious will keep on feeding you the same nonsense it"s been feeding you to get you where you are...
greed, urges, jumping, impulsiveness will have you jump without looking. The fact that you can see doesn"t guarantee that you"ll look.


All activation was successful... I am writing in the process, and I almost never write: the energy went through... I take it for granted that you understand. I found out some people don"t... :-(
Ego noise
here is a person who will have a hard time acting with what he sees, because of all the noise the ego makes:

this is what I wrote down while I was doing the activation
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DNA activation: Human DNA is like a Christmas tree: it has lots of light on, and even more lights off.

Human DNA is like a Christmas tree: it has lots of light on, and even more lights off.

A light on is a human capacity that is active. A light off is a human capacity that is not active.

Evolution of the species is an inside job. It happens on the DNA level: some capacities turn on.

But how do these capacities turn on, and why isn"t everybody the same on the level of DNA?

A DNA capacity turns on when it"s needed. Comfort, peace, smooth living don"t turn on new capacities.

You don"t need them. You could use them, but you don"t need them.

When I came to America, I spent all my money... it wasn"t much anyway. Eventually I made a habit of asking myself every time I wanted to buy something: do you want it or do you need it?

It was hard to tell. I wanted most things and therefore I felt I needed them.

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How to take an active role in raising your vibration: the process

Let me repeat the process that will begin your active role in raising your vibration, that will begin your process of becoming a Human Being.

If you are offended that I say that you are not a human being, please give it up. Beingness is not available fully on the level humanity is existing, and if you live in the United States, you are even less likely to be on the level than people who live in countries where pretentious living is not the norm.

With that said, let"s see, again, what is the process. What is triggering this article, is the response I am getting to the article: no understanding, none whatsoever.

Now, the process is simple. It is not easy, but at least it is simple.


Step 1: What do you want to accomplish?

You look at yourself, you look at your life, and you see where you are, you see what you have, and you decide what you want to have. Some result...

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Who are you? How do you define yourself?

I just read an article on the Monday Morning Memo and I cringed. It hit me what bs is being propagated as wisdom.

As you have seen, if you have been with me for more than a week, you would know that I knock the idea of beliefs being important to your success in life. And after reading Roy Williams article, I am also going to start to knock the idea that the why is what"s important.
What am I talking about? What is the why, and why should it matter to you?
Here is what is being taught in the entrepreneur field today: If your why is big enough, you"ll do what you need to do, to succeed. ((Entrepreneurs, strictly speaking, are problem solvers for others. But you need to be a problem solver in your own life... don"t you? Health, money, family... full of problems to solve. Big and small... So what applies to entrepreneurs also applies to you. So keep reading...))

"They" encourage you to design your business, your communications from your why. Why are you doing what you are doing? What do you want to get out of it? Money? Fame? Love? Power?

Who gives a flying f...ck? Other than you, of course?

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Falling in step, intelligence, tough choices

Falling in step
I just finished a Talk-to-me call. It"s a call available for people on my mailing list, where they can ask any questions and get answers, coaching, whatever they need. The call was a breakthrough in a lot of ways.

First off, I distinguished for myself, for the second time, that unless I fall in step with the person I coach, they can"t get what I am saying as contribution and cannot act on it.

Falling in step with music is obviously fun. Falling in step with a drum circle is fun. But falling in step with another person is a challenge. But unless you do, discord is the result.

So what does it take to fall in step with another person in a conversation? Whether it is a co-worker, a parent, a child, a spouse, a friend, if you learn to fall in step with them, you"ll experience influence, intimacy, closeness... all the things that are missing in most relationships.

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True or false: "You have to believe that you can succeed to succeed"?

The teaching that you have to believe that you can succeed is utter b.s.

This teaching has been the secret to more failures than anything else I can find.


You see, you cannot force yourself to believe anything that you don"t believe.


In addition to that, your actions do NOT come from your beliefs, do not even come from your thoughts, they come from a place much deeper than that.

For example, I am your perfect pessimist: I never believe I can do it. I never believe that I will succeed.

But... I am not waiting for my beliefs to change, I do what I need to do, whether I believe I will succeed, or even that I am doing the right thing.




Now, why is this stupid lie taught? Because it makes you sheep... Or conversely, it makes you overconfident.

By the way, all Dark Side suggestions, or emotions are designed to make you sheep.

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