Are you part of the problem or part of the solution? Don"t be hasty answering...

Yesterday and especially today I had plenty of reasons to not want to face what there was to face: that we are the problem. Especially if and when we think it"s others.

I haven"t done MY soul searching, but I will, I promise.

For now, just to document it, I"d like to address what I have seen.

One client paid me to remove her children"s attachments.

I am still working on the second child, and this is what I have seen:

If you live inside a strong judgmental world of your own, where everyone, maybe including yourself, is wrong, then you are the Dark Side in your and your children"s life.

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Are you part of the problem or part of the solution? Don"t be hasty answering...

Yesterday and especially today I had plenty of reasons to not want to face what there was to face: that we are the problem. Especially if and when we think it"s others.

I haven"t done MY soul searching, but I will, I promise.

For now, just to document it, I"d like to address what I have seen.

One client paid me to remove her children"s attachments.

I am still working on the second child, and this is what I have seen:

If you live inside a strong judgmental world of your own, where everyone, maybe including yourself, is wrong, then you are the Dark Side in your and your children"s life.

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Are you part of the problem or part of the solution? Don"t be hasty answering...

Yesterday and especially today I had plenty of reasons to not want to face what there was to face: that we are the problem. Especially if and when we think it"s others.

I haven"t done MY soul searching, but I will, I promise.

For now, just to document it, I"d like to address what I have seen.

One client paid me to remove her children"s attachments.

I am still working on the second child, and this is what I have seen:

If you live inside a strong judgmental world of your own, where everyone, maybe including yourself, is wrong, then you are the Dark Side in your and your children"s life.

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How The Unconditional Love Activator Changed My life from Hated to Loved

How I found myself loved, respected, and maybe even revered... a tale of extraordinary transformation, from hated smart know-it-all to loved
I used to be smart. At all cost. In fact smarter, that would be more precise to say. Smarter than you, him, them... ;-)

You see, it almost didn"t matter whether I was happy, rich, pretty, healthy, as long as I could be smarter than you.

Most people hated me, and I had few if any friends.

Since my vibration rose to where it"s at today, I have had no issues, people actually like me, most of them anyway.

Recently I had a curious phenomenon happening to me.

I have shared that I am taking a class. We are sorted into groups, and the group meets every week. My previous experiences of being in a group were horrible: I was beaten up regularly, it was painful. Always.

This time my experience is the exact opposite: people thank me for my contribution. Wow, what happened? I have been waiting for the other shoe to drop, but it hasn"t. Until this morning I had no idea what changed.

This morning I watched a commencement address at Georgetown University on video. The address was lousy, boring, didn"t address anyone in particular, and if I hadn"t been participating in Landmark for 27 years, it would have made no sense to me. Then I saw an email of someone in my class rave about the address, and I got really angry.

I started to say insulting things in my head about their lack of ability to discern what is good and what is not. In my internal monologue they were stupid and I was smart, much smarter than them. And it felt horrible. The pain in my chest was unbearable, it was hard to breathe, I was miserable. And I had an insight:

When I am right about how they are, when I am smarter than them, I am miserable and caught up in a self-righteousness trap. I used to be like that all the time. Judgmental, always implying that I am better.

But the interesting thing is that it wasn"t the words I used, but the attitude of having to be smarter, and them having to be stupider, for me to be smarter. Does this make sense?

In the recent conversations with my group this wasn"t happening, in my classes it doesn"t happen, with my friend it doesn"t happen, with my family it doesn"t happen.

I did some thinking and this is what I"ve come up with: some 62 years ago I got into trouble for being not smart enough. I got hurt. A whole lifetime of drama got its start in that incident. It makes sense (MIND!) to fix that issue by being smart.

That smart/stupid issue acted like a nail that was driven through my right foot my whole life. I could not just enjoy conversations, because I had to be smart, in fact smarter than them. I sought the company of people who I thought less smart than me, so I can be smarter. When I was an architect (17 years!) there was not a day when I didn"t wonder if I was talented enough. I was trapped, I was miserable, and there seemed to be no escape: it was like a machine that churned me whether I liked it or not.

Until about a year ago. What happened a year ago?

Two things, in fact.

1. I recovered broken off fragments of my soul? Self? I am not sure, because I am still not sure where the dividing line is between my soul and my Self... But regardless, I followed someone"s instructions not through what they said, but what they did, just like when I connected just as Vianna did, not the way she said... and I managed to find many broken off fragments. ((I created a whole course on this, the Activate Divinity course)) Too many... I did live a life of abuse. I cannot say I had nothing to do with it... in fact I think I caused most if not all of it... but that is how the machine works.

2. And once I was done with that, I started to experiment with an activator of Unconditional Love...

That was the very first activator I tried my hands on, and because I didn"t know if it would work, or how, I needed test subjects.

Nancy was the first.

I downloaded the Unconditional Love Activator into myself while I activated my friend, Nancy, who was a pioneer.

Nancy was a great tester. And her grandson got everything Nancy got, through the genetic upline channel, which I call history channel.

The most remarkable thing that happened as a result of the Unconditional Love Activator, happened to the grandson: he voluntarily stopped throwing temper tantrums and using rude words...

...and I stopped having to be so darn smart! That activator pulled the nail out of the floor board, tha nail I danced around (concern) and now my life could move instead of just dancing around being smart/making others feel stupid.

The most surprising thing is that today it"s OK for me to be smart, no one hates me for it.  Except one person who, it seems has that same concern: having to be smart. ((In the East (India mainly) they say that there is no one but you. This doesn"t make much sense, but this guy proves it famously.

This guy hates me every time I open my mouth and sound smart. Is his hatred about me, or is this hatred about him?

My guess is that he has this same smart/stupid machine like I do. Every time I say something "smart" he thinks that what I am saying is that he is not smart. What I am trying to say here, that his upset is always about him, his hatred of me is about him, never about me.))

Until you free yourself of having to be in a certain way to fix yourself, you"ll see everything through that "wrong you are trying to fix." You"ll see everything in that skewed way: everything is about your issue, and it seems that the world is trying to prove or disprove to you what you are afraid of. And you will be miserable.

One of my students, for example, has anguish arise in her chest every time I praise someone on a webinar. In her world, inside her machine, it"s either she is the star, the best, the one noticed, or she is nothing. And in her machine there is only one way to survive: by being the best. A horrible trap, if you ask me, but not more horrible than my smart/stupid trap. Exactly as horrible.

A friend of mine has glee arise in her chest, and laughs raucously, every time I say someone is not as smart as they think... It is the same machine.

Some people"s machine is about significance/insignificance, some others" about being worthy/unworthy, being special/not special, belonging/not fitting in, or being different/being ordinary, being this or that, a binary structure, black or white.

Every machine is designed to fix something unfixable. What holds the machine together, what keeps the machine churning is an un-reality, an un-truth.

I was never stupid, you never not belonged, you were never unworthy, different, a killer, stuck, or whatever you made up when you were 3-4-5 years old. Something that is not real cannot be fixed. Fixing the shadow of something won"t fix the thing... ((I teach everything I can about telling reality and unreality apart in my Playground course))

There is no person who isn"t caught up in a machine like this.

And everything that happens to you happens inside that context. You get to be someone who cannot learn. You get cancer. your husband leaves you for a younger woman. You are asked for a date. You are trying to figure out what you like and what you should do with your life. Your water isn"t energizing. You misses your thesis deadline. Everything.

Until you get yourself reasonably free from the machine (I am about 70% free, just muscle tested it) all your efforts to carve out a meaningful life are futile.

Lots of people ask me: what is my soul purpose? No matter what I answer, until you can get out of the machine, you are not even interested. It"s the machine that is asking that question, not you.

So how do you get out of the machine?

Fastest way I know is using the Unconditional Love Activator for 40 days. It"s a video recording. In addition, to make it more effective, I am downloading it now five times a week on live meditation calls to those that have purchased the Unconditional Love Activator.

It"s inexpensive, so that most people can afford it. Still about 40% that buy it never use it.

Why? Because your machine has given you your identity. People experience fear of what their life will look like once they are set free. It"s a valid fear.

Luckily the changes come so slowly, so imperceptibly, that you are be able to smooth into your new life. The life won"t change, but you will have freedom, peace of mind, and silence. Heaven. Inside.

The outside never mattered anyway.

Expectations, Self-Image, and your future results: should you expect the best?

I have a friend who is around 4 years older than me, he is in his 70"s. We have been talking once a week for about seven years.

He would like to retire, but his business is in decline, and there is nothing to sell: he is a glorified self-employed person.

Since I have known him, he bought about 15 money making programs, only to drop them after a weak attempt, after losing money with it, or even without trying.

Last week, to keep myself challenged and sharp, I signed up to a program by my favorite teacher, Robert Plank. The program is to teach you to build an easy, self-sustained business using Amazon.com, buying low and selling high.

It is not that I needed instruction per se, I needed to be challenged. I already have an Amazon business, so I could almost teach the course... But there was something I really liked about the setup: Lance, Robert"s partner, has a 7 years old daughter. She asked her dad to teach her to create a business of her own... Wow, that is not your usual relationship with your kids, is it? So he created a "modality", a system of business, that is fun, and easy enough for a 7-year old.

I decided, that if a 7-year old can do it with guidance, then my friend will certainly be able to do it... lol.

Now, we had an hour long conversation, I shared with him some of the things he needs to know, and then gave him "homework" to do. Then he said: "I expect this to succeed" or something similar to this.

I flew off the handle. I said: "Don"t bring positive thinking bs into this conversation! If you ask me what I expect, I look at your past performance, and I see failure after failure. So I expect this to be a failure in spite of your good intentions, in spite of my help, in spite of the good information."

This article is about this aspect of the delusional attitude positive thinking teaches you to have.

They say: expect good things to happen to you... Ugh.

Trend is a largely graphical method of showing where things are going.

It is based solely on your past performance, and your attitude. Your attitude is very predictable, it can be called constant, it is so predictable.

You are unaware of your attitude. You are unaware of the powerful force it is to fail you.

Positive expectations is an attitude. You pretend that you are starting with a clean slate, you pretend that you are not who you are but someone way way better: who you "should" be, not who you are, not who you have been,not  who you will predictably be for the rest of your life.

Moronic. A sure sign of low vibration.

Here is what came in my email today: isn"t it eery that the writer of this email is addressing the same issue?

Brands are Built on Core Beliefs
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I look in the mirror and see the person I believe myself to be. You look at me and see the person you believe me to be. We don"t see the same person.

Businesses, too, see themselves differently than their customers do.

A flatterer disguised as a branding consultant will help you create an idealized self-portrait and tell you it"s your brand. I say "idealized" because we businesspeople judge ourselves by our intentions. Customers judge us by our actions.

Peace of mind comes from liking the person you see in the mirror.

But brand attraction happens when the customer looks at your company and sees a reflection of themselves.

We are attracted to brands that stand for something we believe in. Likewise, we are attracted to television shows, movies, books, websites, podcasts, newscasts and songs that confirm what we believe. This is known in psychology as "confirmation bias."

Let me say this plainly: If you challenge a person"s core beliefs, they will avoid you. Agree with those beliefs and they will like you. This is the essence of brand building.

But not everyone believes the same things. This is why a brand-builder must choose who to lose. There is no message, no belief system, that appeals to everyone.

The Democratic party and the Republican party dominate American politics even though just fifty-eight percent of Americans align themselves with either of these two brands.

In a survey of self-identified "Liberal Democrats" and self-identified "Conservative Republicans," Experian Simmons identified the Top 15 favorite television shows of each group.

Not a single show was on both lists.

Not one.

Liberals prefer shows of moral ambiguity like Mad Men, Dexter, 90210 and Breaking Bad, where the good people aren"t entirely good and the bad people aren"t entirely bad.

"I don’t mean to make light of it, but Democrats seem to like shows about damaged people,” said John Fetto, senior marketing manager at Experian Simmons. “Those are the kind of shows Republicans just stay away from.”

Conservatives prefer shows where hard work and talent are clearly rewarded. Reality shows and contests like American Idol, Dancing with the Stars, Survivor and The Bachelor scored high with this group.

Interesting information, right? But not really surprising when you think about it. Narcissus saw his reflection in a pool of water and fell in love with the person he saw.

Confirmation bias strikes again.

How can you use this information to make money?

1. Quit trying to change your customer"s mind.
2. Tell them they"re right.
3. Confirm their suspicions.
4. Demonize their enemies.
5. Let them see themselves when they look at you.

Do these things and you"ll make more money (or friend?). Usually, a lot more money.

But a strange thing happens when you "go along to get along," when you agree with people you don"t respect, when you fail to speak out against injustice, when you allow etiquette and expediency to quietly replace compassion and courage:

You look in the mirror and you no longer like who you see.

How do we remain open to seeing things from a new perspective without losing clarity of self in the process?

If I ever figure it out, I"ll let you know.

Roy H. Williams

Now, returning to my friend who said: "We"ll expect this to be successful." Is he a bad person? No, he isn"t... he just doesn"t exist as a person. There is a person he thinks he is, he hopes he is, he pushes in front of him as HE, he who doesn"t exist. But there is a real self inside that he doesn"t know about, that accepts him, accepts his behavior, his delusions, his cowardice, his settling for less, without judgment. This is the Creator/Witness/Observer aspect we all have.

When you manage to remove the barriers between these two selves, a whole new life becomes possible for you. You will stop pretending to get love, attention, appreciation that you didn"t earn. You will stop trying to be someone you aren"t. You will start working with what you have, and earning what you earn. You will not need others loving you, because you already have as much love as you need: your Creator aspect already loves you.

You"ll experience freedom, creativity, powers, and self-expression. Because little by little you"ll have a self that you can like, that you can love. When you"ll look in the mirror, you"ll like the person who is there... and you"ll love your life.

When you like yourself, you love your life. That is the bottom line.

The Unconditional Love Activator, especially infused in your drinking water, can take you there faster than anything I know.

It only takes a few minutes to infuse your water... and it works quite fast.

Raise your vibration? It"s a Hero"s Journey

If you are here, I know a thing or two about you.

One of the most important things I know is that you are smart. That you have earned to be here. You have tried a lot of other teachers or gurus or methods or tools to get what you want: more energy, better decisions, more love, more peace, a sense of meaning in your life.

There is no way to throw a dart and get to the right solution, every mistake you make, every wrong turn, wrong decision, believing false promises, falling pray to money-sucking gurus or cults have caused you to get here, zig-zag.

The more often you have been disappointed, the more hopeless it seemed, the more of your funds were eaten up, the smarter you have become, and the more ready you have become to actually see your way, do your work. You haven"t given up. Good.

Download the pdf version of this article at the end of the article

In your society-induced craving for security and safety, you probably hoped, every time, that it was the right turn, that finally you found your straight path, that you were handed a map to follow, or that someone gave you a magic potion, a magic board, a magic spell, and you would find yourself transported to the right place at the right time.

But...

Trust me, there is nothing more boring, and less satisfying for a human being than security and safety. Following a set path, and succeeding at every turn takes adventure out of life.

If you play chess and you can only play against someone less skillful than you: you know that it"s boring. Same with tennis. Same in swimming, running... winning is only joyful when you play against someone equal or better.

Being human means finding your own path, the hero"s journey, for each of us. Without that search life is empty and hollow. You find yourself as you find your path.

You got to this site, to reading what I say, through a winding path, and that makes you more suited for my work than the rest of the people. You have proven your mettle, and you have found the methods that will take you through the hero"s journey to where you want to go: earning your success, earning your peace, earning your fulfillment.

I know you can do it because you are here.

There are no accidents in life, and you being here isn"t an accident, even if, from your point of view, it looks like an accident.

What should you expect on this hero"s journey?

This journey will have several assignments, several challenges.

Each challenge will be completed with the help of some energetic tools... (and coaching if you want to go faster).

Your first challenge

(approximately 40 days)

Your health: You"ll need to become someone with energy to spare. You cannot even consider entering the journey without getting healthy first.

I am not talking about fixing you, I am talking about returning to health. Cells vibrated, nourished, and no additional toxins entering your body through food or drink.

If you follow the instructions you"ll get there in 40 days. Guaranteed.

How do you get started? You get your numbers so we"ll know, you know, where you are standing. It"s a comprehensive set of facts about where you are now.

Your vibration, your soul correction, your current level of intelligence, your health number, your hydration level... Get it here

I"ll send your facts to you in email.

Your second challenge

You will to look at your life, at the wrong turns, mistakes, errors, horrible things that you have done, or you allowed to be done to you.

This may take a little time. Allow yourself to grieve. Feel your feelings. Weep, cry, yell, run... just stay with it. Not in public, not at others, no, in your privacy.

Why? suppressed bad feelings keep you suppressed. You can"t suppress only bad feelings: once you suppress anything, you suppress everything, and all the good feelings are suppressed as well. No love, no peace, no satisfaction can be felt: they are suppressed too.

Here are the energetic tools for this leg of the journey...

1. The HOE long range, or the Heaven on Earth remedy will help you be with the feelings that you feel, like a safety net.The HOE allows you to feel and let go... you won"t suppress and you won"t hold onto. Feel what you feel and be done with it.


2. The Harmonize your vibration will energetically take you through the journey through memory lane: you may be able to take this trip without much conscious effort.


3. The Unconditional Love Activator Infusable version will remove the false, society built foundation for your life, feeling wrong, insufficient, unlovable, stupid, a misfit.


4. The Water Energizer will start to change your body chemistry, so your cravings, addictions, edginess, aches and pains will ease or disappear, gently, almost imperceptibly... the Energized Water will wash them away.


5. Get two free weeks in my Reclaim coaching program. Two weeks are enough for either of us to see if you are indeed ready for the hero"s journey... The third leg.

Get a package deal: you can get each piece or you can get all four. Save 35%

For infusion of the energies, use the Polar Pitcher and the mini speaker... it"s the most effective way. See details here: https://www.yourvibration.com/24874/new-equipment-to-energize-your-water/

Your third challenge

We"ll talk about this when you have completed your second Challenge.

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How could you experience love? The warm fuzzy feeling of love...

How did you become the person you are today?

It"s Christmas, and my whole thinking is about love, and the lack of it... this article digs deep to why and how love disappeared for most of us.

According to Landmark Education, the identity that you consider yourself to be developed through three or four incidents in your life.

In each incident you experienced to be wrong, less than perfect, less than what would make you lovable, deserving, worthy.

Now, experiencing yourself less than lovable is not a big issue unless you find a way to please the people around you so you can regain your sense of being OK, lovable, deserving, etc.

We all think that what has made us who we are today are the influences, the events, etc.

But when you look at siblings, or even twins, you will find that they have slight quirks in their personality... same events, different reaction.

One may decide that the way to restore status in the world is through being cautious, the other may decide to restore status in the world by becoming a smarty pants.

But no matter what you decided, you are screwed.

Every decision was based on an untruth: that there was something wrong with you and that it needed to be fixed... at once, and once and for all.

Having these fixes, being smart, being outgoing, being artistic, etc. are going to make you limited and miserable, but that"s not the aspect I"d like to talk about today. Landmark has been teaching that since 1988... what they haven"t seen, and even I could not see until this morning, is this:

When you have something to prove, you are in the competitive state of mind. You are in survival. And you are there, it"s all about you.

Love is present when you are not there. There is no lover and loved, there is only love, a rare energy of both lover and loved disappearing.

Even if you have experienced and got benefit from the Unconditional Love Activator, if there is an I that is loved unconditionally by All-of-it, you still won"t experience love, because you are still there to be loved.

Feeling the warm and fuzzy energy of love is all-encompassing. All of life is love at that moment. You are love, and it"s glorious.

Some mothers feel it when they first look into the eyes of their newborn. Then, the moment "my child" comes as a thought, love disappears, because lover and loved re-appeared: love has to go.

Can you learn to disappear so love can be there? Yes.

So, why haven"t you? Or said in another way, why wouldn"t you?

If you think that using the word "love" creates it, they you won"t be willing...

If you think that love buys you something, then you won"t be willing... Example are the people that say good bye by saying instead "I love you" or "Love and light." I cringe every time I hear it. It is all about them, it is all about survival.

Check your email signature or language for what has been perpetuating your inability to experience love.

If you think that you need to be loved to be whole and complete: you need the Unconditional Love Activator.

If you think that love is affection, attention, appreciation, etc. then you live in a fog, and you may need to clear that before you can go anywhere else... For you everything is the same as everything else... no distinctions, no details, nobody home.

Your relationship to love is a culturally induced false state based on misinformation.

81% of humanity is not even willing to engage in the real conversation for love: for them it is about being loved so they can have more, be more than the other, a control device... ugly.

19% of humanity is willing... but don"t know how, don"t have enough capacity to trust, to be vulnerable, to want nothing.

This 19% are the people that I have a chance to initiate them into love.

Nothing wrong if you are not in the 19%, you can still have an enjoyable life: your desire to be better, more and different than others is still going to give you pleasure.

NEW: Bioelectric shield, Q-link and other gadget... a review. What works?

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Bio-electric shield and other gadget... a review

A students says:
Sophie, have you ever find a review of the Bio-electric Shield? It is a disk-shaped pendant that contains some quartz crystals. I had one for 15 years, and it was like my best friend. It seemed to he very attuned to my energy. When I first tried it on, I could only wear it for a few minutes. Then longer and longer.

It kind of fell apart and I lost it around the time I started working with you. Maybe its work was done.
I have tried Q-link, a variation to bio-electric shield. That was before I knew I was an empath. I only knew that other people"s energy was interfering with mine...

I hated it.

Now, I don"t know how it works, I don"t know why it works, but I"ll tell you what I think is the truth about any of these trainable circuits:

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NEW: Giving permission to feel what you feel is strong medicine

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We live in a "fix-it" culture. Doctors, chiropractors, coaches, husbands, parents (especially mothers) are all about fixing what"s wrong with you. No wonder that you relate to everything that is going on with you as something to fix.

What is part of the "fix-it" culture, and is hidden behind it, but gives it the context, is that what is going on is INTOLERABLE, and MUST BE FIXED.

It feels like an imperative... like a straightjacket.

What is the problem with fixing stuff?

Let"s look at the action of fixing from a different point of view: what is your cone of vision when you are looking to fix something?

Narrow.

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NEW: You want to raise your vibration. You want to become an Expanding Human Being. You want abundance. You want fun, joy, and love.

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Summary: this article started out to be short and sweet and, because it is so important, became really big. The most important things are said in the footnotes, so don"t miss them. The article reveals what it is you need and probably don"t have, will never have, to become an Expanding Human Being. But it is good to know, at least you will know what you can and what you can"t... and stop deluding yourself, and others.

To celebrate that amazon kicked me out, I am offering a 2 for 1 on all my remedies... until further notice. Go to the special site I made....

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NEW: Who or what is The Creator that loves you unconditionally? A breakthrough in context

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Summary: In this article I am going to illustrate to you how something evolves, as opposed to being born... I will illustrate to you the thought process it takes to move something from good to better to better and even better... There is no such thing as best in this thought process. This is the foundation of an Expanding Human Being: there is no limit to expanding, neither in the mind nor in the reality of the Original Design. And I"ll share the breakthrough we had in raising your vibration.






When I came to this country at age 38, I was much like you in a lot of ways. One of the thngs that I remember vividly is my relationship to improvement. If a product label said "improved", my thought was "that means it wasn"t good before, and probably isn"t good now... so I won"t get it."

I still lived in the mind, and the mind does not like improvement, it doesn"t like change. If something is good, then it is good, no need for improvement... Bah humbug.


When I was an architecture students, I learned two things that became totally useful regardless of the field I applied them. One of these is what I learned from my famed History of Architecture professor: He shared that when he graduated as an architect, he went to work in a theater, instead of the field of design or construction.

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NEW: How could you experience love? The warm fuzzy feeling of love...

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How did you become the person you are today?

It"s Christmas, and my whole thinking is about love, and the lack of it... this article digs deep to why and how love disappeared for most of us.

According to Landmark Education, the identity that you consider yourself to be developed through three or four incidents in your life.

In each incident you experienced to be wrong, less than perfect, less than what would make you lovable, deserving, worthy.

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