Arrogance.

I have been dealing with arrogance in my students.

Arrogance is unearned boastful superiority.
Most people don"t know, don"t care because they themselves are not achievers... but you can have confidence that is justified by your accomplishments, your superior knowledge.

To the uninitiated, they look and sound the same. But they aren"t. You only need to scratch the surface.

I have detected a certain ancestral commonality in that behavior.

And have been pondering why and how and for what purpose are certain nationalities arrogant.

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Call me blunt, call me judgmental... I don"t care.

I am going to share, in this article, some of the judgmental sounding questions I ask when I try to get a full picture about someone who is asking for help.

As you probably don"t know, judgment comes from ego, from comparison. I am smart and you are stupid... that is judgment.

You are stupid isn"t judgment unless you feel something in your chest or throat as you say it. Unless it means something about you.

I feel nothing, or maybe sadness, when I ask these assessment question... that help me make sense out of the convoluted picture each person is.

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Expectation is the mother of Disappointment

One of the questions I hear on the Talk-to-Me calls or in emails is how to "make it better" or what is good, etc.

It"s all a comparison, past based, from the mind.

One thing, disappointment ((the feeling of sadness or displeasure caused by the nonfulfillment of one"s hopes or expectations.
"to her disappointment, there was no chance to talk privately with Luke"
synonyms: sadness, regret, dismay, sorrow; More
dispiritedness, despondency, distress, chagrin;
disenchantment, disillusionment;
displeasure, dissatisfaction, disgruntlement
"his disappointment in the outcome was obvious"
antonyms: satisfaction

a person, event, or thing that causes disappointment.
plural noun: disappointments
"the job proved a disappointment"
synonyms: letdown, nonevent, anticlimax, washout; informal: bummer
"the trip was a bit of a disappointment")) can"t be made better. It"s like pregnant: it is either a yes or a no.

Now, I assume that we all get disappointed, more or less, depending on us.
Disappointment is the shadow side of expectation.
Expectation, of course, is quite automatic, just like having an agenda is automatic... actually they are just a different word for the same thing.

I haven"t been able to consciously not expect a certain result... on the other hand, for the most part I expect nothing... or expect the worst.

This is another Dark Side suggestion: expect the best and then you"ll get the best... What a bunch of huey! The whole positive thinking movement is a Dark Side suggestion, and has created more misery than even religion, which is saying a lot.
Expecting the best won"t get you the best... Exactly the opposite is true.

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Advising, giving advice, helping

Unless it"s your job to give advice, don"t.

Why? Because giving advice comes from your shadow side, from your dark side.

How? When you give advice, you place yourself above the other person. Giving advice is asserting your superiority.

Have you noticed that you can get fired for that? Even if your advice is right on the spot...

By the way: this is true for healers, coaches, salespeople, helpers, charity volunteers, everyone.

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What will save you in this tanking economy: three moves anyone can learn

How to be the eye of the storm calm... Three moves you can learn and practice
Everything is moved by the invisible... where all the power is. Some are just one layer below the surface, some are deeper... but all the same, all changes, all movements, all phenomena comes from there, the invisible.

Do I see all the forces in the invisible that jerk on your chains? I don"t.

But be sure that your efforts to manage the visible, in reaction to what you see, is misdirected.
Let"s look at the economy in the wake of an election.

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What causes success?

When you have a success, when you have even had a successful life, people ask you what you attribute it to. What was responsible for your success.

They ask you so they can learn from you. ((Most of your teachers are guessing at the cause of success, and then teach it to you. No wonder you don"t succeed with their teaching! But, of course, most people have no idea what is important and what isn"t... for them everything is the same as everything else... except that not always.

This is where mental acuity, seeing things for what they are, is mandatory... Unfortunately, mental acuity is as rare as the kohinoor diamond...))

But... it is hard to know what was the duplicatable, repeatable step that made all the difference.

I have successful students and I have not so successful students.

Today, after my best article, ever, I looked and found that ALL the successful students started to get successful after they put the "there is nothing wrong here" spiritual practice in place.

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Do your biological age and behavior match?

I found this chart on the net. Let"s do an experiment today, OK?

Find your age and give me feedback. It will be interesting to see if any of this is just mumbo jumbo or actually approximating the truth.
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Are you adding good to the bad, hoping the bad will get better?

In almost any endeavor, removing what you don"t want makes more difference than adding something good to the mix.

And although this makes a lot of sense, in spite of it not being common knowledge in self-improvement, you keep on trying to add stuff to your anxiety, to your inability to breathe,
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NEW: Osho: What is jealousy and why does it hurt so much to be jealous?

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I have been spending the last few days meditating, muscle testing, contemplating why it is that different people from different ethnic cultures are so different in one main aspect: caring.

Caring means that you are willing to consider another as important as yourself. And just the way you would not hurt yourself consciously and intentionally, you would not hurt another.

As it turns out, even after the DNA upgrade, only 19% of the population has the capacity to care. The rest refused to accept the DNA upgrade... remember, the ground rule is free will.

I have muscle tested different ethnic groups, and within the same ethnic group, I found, the DNA changed, and in the other ethnic groups it did not.

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What"s been happening here... at yourvibration.com

I have been too busy with my "other" tasks, removing attachments, and testing methods to rid myself and the world of parasitic mite infestation.

I am happy to report that the second type of mite, spider mite, has been turned into "has been", for now at least. Finally, now that the pressure of nightly fear of going to sleep, the incessant itching, is lowered to a bearable level.

The weather has turned springlike, and today I noticed that it went by unnoticed, I only paid attention that now I have to wear less clothing. No thought of going for a walk, no thought of gratitude, just going through the days teeth gritted. Life felt like a chore, something to survive.

Today, when I woke up with no itch, no mites, I noticed the quality of the light, the color of the sky, and I felt a deep gratitude.

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If you don"t want to buy the Bug Free Mind book, but want the benefits...

The hardest bad behavior, for me, to get rid of is blame... pointing fingers, feeling superior to others.

I can see bad behavior, but to identify with it, to map it on myself is difficult.

But, ultimately that is what the Bug Free Mind book does: bring into conscious awareness that which you can"t do when you are aware and conscious... The behaviors that are below you, the behaviors that harm others, the behaviors that harm you.

So, I finished the Bug Free Mind book, the first book...

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Osho on greed: your emptiness within and your efforts without

What is greed?

Man feels meaningless, empty, hollow within, and wants to fill it, stuff it. The effort to fill it somehow is greed. That effort is bound to fail for the simple reason because whatsoever you accumulate remains on the outside; it cannot reach within you. And the problem is
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NEW: Are you using your attention? Attention: a strong physical energy that can move mountains

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When people come to a session to learn to connect to Source, the first hurdle they need to go through is to find their attention. Attention is physical. Attention is not mind, not brain, not your eyes. Seeing something doesn"t … Continue reading →





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Rose Colored Glasses, Hope, and other stuff that takes you out of the present moment

The purveyors of hope
When "picking" a state of being, an attitude, a mindset, conventional wisdom can be detrimental to our well-being.

Unless you are a prisoner in a concentration camp, and what"s predictable is that you will not make it out alive, hope is a very bad-for-you state to pick. But even there, unless it gives you actions that keep you alive longer, that make you take care of yourself, hope as a being, hopeful is the right word, will be just a feeling... and you know how it is with feelings: they come and go at their own accord: you can"t control feelings. Hope and hopeless are the two sides of the same coin. Being doesn"t have a flip side.
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The secret of doing something important

This article was written by a guy in Switzerland. Different culture, different cultural conversations... he lives by a method of growing himself and his business counter-culturally if you look at it from the USA, especially if you live in California. And, of course, if you live in Canada.

What is the cultural conversation that he defies? That you are supposed to know it. That you are supposed to leap tall buildings, and there is no need to practice, there is no need to learn anything, you should just know.

I could have written this article, because my story is similar.

Enjoy.

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NEW: Abundance Or Scarcity? Choose

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Often anything can kick you into the horizontal plane ((The term, horizontal plane, was coined by Wallace D. Wattles some 110 years ago, in The Science of Getting Rich. Of course the title is all horizontal plane, but the book, between the covers, is pure gold. You can download it on my subscriber gifts site http://www.yourvibration.com/subscribers if you don"t have it. You need to register, and it will put you on my mailing list.)) . I got kicked into it... and now I am working my way off... it is not that easy. I can"t even connect to muscle test... the horizontal plane is sticky. It wants you, all of you. I eats your life for breakfast.

Let me explain: Humanity (you!) lives on the horizontal plane at this stage of evolution. It is both the starting point and the end state...

On the horizontal plane everything is about comparison. More, better, different...

The good old days...
I want what they have, because I don"t have it... and I want it.

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