Showing posts with label bubble. Show all posts
Showing posts with label bubble. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 22, 2016

The Juice Exercise: what gives you "juice" in life?


I have been coaching people for many years now. The goal was always to take people on a journey to become their best Self.

Now, the task is easier when someone knows who they are. When someone has a Self.

Most people don"t. They have a persona for each group they interact with, the family persona, the student persona, the friend, the gossiper, the entertainer, the this and the that.

Those personas (roles you play) are not you. They were created by a perceived demand in the circumstances, a perceived demand in the environment.

They leave you empty, they leave you being jerked by the shoulds, and have to"s and the wants... like a puppet on a string.

You sense that you have no control, you sense that you are not you... a vague sense.

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Tuesday, May 3, 2016

Knowledge, Strategy, Execution, is that enough for success?


I lead a workshop on Sunday. I had knowledge, I had strategy. I executed it. It was sloppy. What was missing?

I didn"t know. But "god" works in mysterious ways, the book I am reading has an answer that shows me what has been missing for me on Sunday and all my life.

The book, Peak, the new science of expertise, calls it Mental Representation.

Mental Representation is being able to see the finished product in your mind"s eye, and also see the process getting there, so you can anticipate missteps, and can correct, given that you know how it is, how it looks when it is perfect.

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Tuesday, October 27, 2015

Connecting to Source your way


I think we humans are alternating between two extremes: being slavish, and being arrogant.

Either extreme is detrimental to your growth as a person.

I have been in an email exchange with a woman who tries to connect every day, and then describes to me her experience and asks me to muscle test if she connected or not.

I comply, but even from her experience it is clear to me that she imagined how it could feel to connect to something... but the experience of connecting to Source is not even similar to what she describes.

She promised to actually do it with me and with the video... but I doubt she will. We each have a bend: slavish or arrogant.

Her bend is arrogant. ((By the way it is through and through... The arrogance of the very young, teenager, even though she is over 50. I remember when I was asking myself: why go to university? I already know everything.

Nobel prize laureate writer, Elie Wiesel said, I think in a commencement address something like this: every generation thinks that they are the first person to tread this earth. Every generation thinks that the thoughts that they think are new, fresh, and revolutionary. And every generation refuses to find out what thousands of generations have thought... That is arrogance.

So you see, we are all arrogant, some of us know it, and stop for a moment and ask: what if I don"t know everything? Hah. What if my whole knowledge sits on the wrong foundation?: hah... And stay in the inquiry. Inquiry is humble.))

What is arrogance? Arrogance is when you think there is nothing to know beyond what you already know. The opposite of arrogance is humility... the kind where you declare yourself incompetent so you can actually learn, fully, what is being taught.

Most of us hear what we are told as maybe missing pieces to our completely built wall... missing bricks if you will.

But that arrogant world view says: My wall is correct, it just misses a few pieces here and there.

But what if your wall isn"t correct? What if it is all b.s. that you made up, heard, gleaned, incorrectly... and now you try to add pieces to it that fit... but the result will be a b.s. wall.

You are arrogant and you don"t even know it.

If you could destroy that arrogance, you"d have some hopes for growth, building a world view that matches how it is more closely, and more importantly, you"d be willing to destroy what you have and build a new one, so you don"t have to carry the faulty sickening view of the world, that got you where you got to: utter incompetence masquerading as "smart", misery, relationships that don"t work, purposeless life, no skills... the whole catastrophic lack of wholesomeness I see in your responses.

But you, in your arrogance, want to keep what you have, and only add to it.

It"s like me trying to fix the first meal I ever cooked by adding salt to it in the end: disgusting...

Destroying your world view, of course, takes courage. But unless you are willing to do it,
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#SpiritualPractice

Sunday, October 11, 2015

what does spirituality have to do with the quality of your life? Part 1


My method of growing myself, my method of growing what can be known for humans, is running conquering-new-territories campaigns into the unknown. ((I am using military language here, given that I have been reading Genghis Khan stuff for months...))

It is about leading scouting and conquering military campaigns into the unknown and unknowable, and I do it on my Sunday morning calls... the one I have been having for 8 years now. Every Sunday.

Some calls are huge campaigns, today"s was like that, and most calls are maintenance, cleaning up, clarifying... All needed for a coherent view.

In today"s call, the conversation was about the question: what does spirituality have to do with the quality of your life??

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#Raiseyourvibration

Wednesday, September 30, 2015

You are hardwired to be bad and pretend to be good or better than others


Until you can look inside at your ugliness, at your emptiness, at your hatefulness, spitefulness, gossipy judgmental behavior, and see it for what it is, you will NEVER raise your vibration.

But you have an issue: that ugliness is hardwired into humans.
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#Integrity

Tuesday, August 11, 2015

Transformation: Making the impossible possible


We all live in a paradigm. It is our model of reality. Our paradigm is bordered and separated from higher paradigms by all the things that we know. Not what we believe, but what we know. Beliefs are content in a paradigm, but don"t define it. The paradigm defines the content, the paradigm defines the beliefs.

While I am not sure that there are parallel universes, there are definitely higher paradigms that we can visit and find out where we are erring in our own paradigm.

But most of us while we visit, we have a Transformative ((able to transform)) or transformational experience: a glimpse at a paradigm where what is impossible at the moment, is possible. It may be followed, maybe not. May just be an insight, but not an enlargement of the current paradigm, it won"t last, it won"t take, it is like a seed dropped on the sidewalk: it won"t become transformation.

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#ExpandingHumanBeing, #Raiseyourvibration

Sunday, June 21, 2015

Updated: Removing energetic, vampire attachments, also called cords



I had the insight, after I published this article, and after I removed some 20 attachments, today, that the people (distance healers?) that put the attachment on you may not have malicious intent.They need to connect to you, and because they are not empaths, they have to do it with a cord-like energy attachment. At the end of the session they don"t remove it... And now they have your energy available to them, or potentially their energy available to you.

But there is a price to pay, and that"s why I offer this attachment removal. Watch the 1-minute video I made today, no makeup, no background, just showing myself in the middle of removing an attachment.

If you watch my face, it hurts. This is what you are experiencing below your conscious awareness... Get it/them removed!

One more thing: some websites suggest cutting those cords: I don"t recommend that. It is like leaving a "hose" through which you bleed to death... "

I don"t usually check for attachments, cords, unless someone asks me to.

Attachments are like water hoses that suck away your Life Force, suck your energy. Why people do that to you? I don"t know, it takes extreme emotion, anger, greed, jealousy (possessiveness) to do that.

I am mostly seeing greed attachment, i.e. the person is greedy for your life force.
The same person, usually pumps energetic disruptor into the same "hose"... so you are screwed both ways.

I can remove attachments. If I can detect it, I can remove it. For me, because I work "by-proxy", it is easy: I work on my own body while I am connected to you.

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#Attachments, #Raiseyourvibration

Saturday, May 9, 2015

Let"s talk about sexual preference


Twice in my life I had a choice to choose being attracted to women... I mean mainly.

The first time the choice was made for me: when the woman found out that I had no history of being attracted to women, she said: "I won"t do that to you." I was about 22.

The second time I found myself turned on by a woman dancing, and I clearly saw a choice. I saw that I could choose to pursue that, but with that I would choose a life of hiding, a life of not fitting in, a hard life. I chose not to go for it.

As a sex therapist, coach, I talk to a lot of people.

I don"t buy that you are born gay. You are born normal, but are turned at some point.

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#newcapacities, #Raiseyourvibration

Monday, May 4, 2015

What is your approach to spirituality? Feminine and Masculine?


This article is not for everyone. If you haven"t been a seeker, this is not for you. This article is quotes from an email conversation with a client who can"t create a powerful blockage to energetic, malicious, attachments and spells...

What is your approach to spirituality? Feminine and Masculine?

Feminine is: waiting for it to come to you, passive.

Spirituality, access to the beyond, your relationship to life needs to be feminine... an agressive male approach will take you away from what you are trying to accomplish.

This whole topic came up because a student of mine needs to frequently cloak herself. She also wants to bubble.

Cloaking is very easy, and enough for temporary protection against attachments, but she wants to bubble herself too. Why? I didn"t ask.

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#Raiseyourvibration

Sunday, March 15, 2015

You are hardwired to be bad and pretend to be good or better


Until you can look inside at your ugliness, at your emptiness, at your hatefulness, spitefulness, gossipy judgmental behavior, and see it for what it is, you will NEVER raise your vibration.

But you have an issue: that ugliness is hardwired into humans.
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#ExpandingHumanBeing, #Getunstuck, #Meditation, #Raiseyourlevelofconsciousness, #Raiseyourvibration

Tuesday, March 3, 2015

Are you well? Recover Fast? No? Here is my secret to be always well...


I just came back from my weekly grocery shopping trip.

My driver has been struggling with a chest and head cold for weeks now.
One of my students has been missing classes because of a cold that now moved into her chest.
I am well. What"s my secret?
I have a system for being well.

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#Healing, #Raiseyourvibration

Wednesday, February 25, 2015

Removing energetic, vampire attachments, also called cords


I don"t usually check for attachments, cords, unless someone asks me to.

Attachments are like water hoses that suck away your Life Force, suck your energy. Why people do that to you? I don"t know, it takes extreme emotion, anger, greed, jealousy (possessiveness) to do that.
I am mostly seeing greed attachment, i.e. the person is greedy for your life force.
The same person, usually pumps energetic disruptor into the same "hose"... so you are screwed both ways.

I can remove attachments. If I can detect it, I can remove it. For me, because I work "by-proxy", it is easy: I work on my own body while I am connected to you.
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#DarkSide, #Raiseyourlevelofconsciousness, #Raiseyourvibration

Monday, December 29, 2014

Why are you not offering measuring the vibration? Why do I need to disconnect after meditation?


UPDATE: I, occasionally, refuse to connect to someone. I have learned my lesson, and now I ask Source before I connect to a person, if I am allowed.

I sometimes connect accidentally and I pay the price. My water gets de-energized, I get an attachment, I get an energetic attack.

Don"t be mistaken, what I teach is dangerous for the status quo... and status quo people will want me dead, or at least stopped.

I want to give them less and less occasion and opportunity to reach me.

Question:
Hi Sophie,
I didn"t see the option to donate on your site to measure one"s vibration. Do you still offer that?

J

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#TalkBackToMe

Thursday, August 14, 2014

NEW: How to become unbreakable, unflappable, and flowering like a white lotus?

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White lotus grows out of mud... and creates beauty out of it. Peacocks eat poisonous berries and create beautiful plumage out of it... This article is about how to be like the white lotus, how to be like a peacock where life, and the circumstances don"t beat you down.

So, how to be like that, unbreakable ((the song, Unbreakable, is exactly the opposite of what I am teaching in this article. That whole song is imagining a perfect world with a perfect "another" where they do all the things they are supposed to do so you can feel good, so you can feel loved... The perfect prescription for unhappiness, fear, anxiety, disappointment, frustration... because people are the way they are. Because people aren"t even willing to be the perfect person for you, because it feels like a straight jacket. If you look in your own heart: you aren"t willing... and yet you expect others to abide by your standards... ugh... ugly.)) , unflappable... loving life the way it is?

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