Showing posts with label self. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self. Show all posts

Tuesday, February 26, 2019

Activate your divinity... restore your Self to wholeness

Things happen... They happen when you are young, and when you are little, a little boy or a little girl, every happening is very very very significant, and everything that happens seems to say something about you, and about your chances to make it... to live, to be well, to be loved, appreciated, considered valuable, etc.

You seem to be completely at the effect of everything and everyone, with a very limited number of moves of your own... you can cry, you can refuse to eat, you can talk, but they all seem to be ineffective: you have no power.

Then you grow up, and things still happen to you. And you still the effect... not the cause of any of it, or not much of it.

You are reduced to the one who can talk about it, but not the one who caused it, or can even contemplate causing anything.

And that is the typical, 99.99% reality for people on the planet.

In every interaction, in every incident, some of your Self got broken off of the whole Self, and got denied by you.



According to some research, the energy of the Self is like a donut or torus. I am saying this because in the video I am giving you as a gift, I will mention the donut... so I want you to know what i am talking about.

The fragments of the donut, the Self, are trapped in the incidents, or alternatively are denied by you, but they still hang on a cord, sucking the aliveness out of your being.

Those denied fragments of the Self act like attachments.

To become a full person again, like when you were born, the fragments need to be returned to the donut. It is a process, and it is not child"s play. It is also highly interactive.

The skeleton of the donut is like a scaffold, like a trelliswork, a frame, that the elements of it are capacities.

In order for a lost fragment to adhere again to make the donut, your Self, restored, there need to be capacities there to hold the piece in place... or they will fly off again.

The capacities needed were the capacities that were missing at the time of the incident.

For most people, in my experience, the number of capacities that are missing is low... 2-3 capacities are missing.

A capacity is an ability that is embedded and either active or inactive in the DNA.

The economy of life is that any part of the DNA that is not used, is shut down, and life needs a serious amount of convincing to open an inactive capacity... the person needs to prove to life that they need it.

Which means that you can use an ability even if you don"t have the DNA capacity open. by acting as if...

Example, surfacing in the video, is the capacity to trust... ((

http://evp-50116959de4b9-dd521b5ed563ee25508422182c681a30.s3.amazonaws.com/building-the-frameword-for-integration.mp3

http://evp-50116959de4b9-dd521b5ed563ee25508422182c681a30.s3.amazonaws.com/building-the-frameword-for-integration.mp4

))

Trust inner guidance, for example.

People for whom this capacity is missing, habitually talk themselves out of trusting inner guidance, so the capacity cannot turn on.

But they could listen to inner guidance, and say, "heck with it, I am going to go with my gut" and take the action the gut suggests... do or not do something or other.

Continued practice of "act as if" you had trust, actually turns on the capacity of trust... and it gets easier.

That capacity can now provide an adherence point, an attachment point for the restored fragments of self, providing a chance for the Self to become whole and complete.

Another capacity that is missing for everyone is the capacity to take responsibility for what they can take responsibility for, what belongs to them.

Even seeing what belongs to you is beyond most people, because the habitual attitude of "I am an effect, I am powerless" is stronger than the desire to become whatever you claim you want to become... whole and complete? happy? productive? famous? significant?

While you attempt to activate responsibility, you, concurrently, at the same time, need to strengthen your soul"s desire...

The Activate Divinity course is working on both ends... and it can get the job done... but ultimately that is up to the participant.

The video I show you at the end of this article was the recording of an energy meditation session, a session that by luck only participants of the Activate Divinity course participants showed up... so we could have an ad hoc session of that course instead.

Unscheduled, unexpected, and brilliant. The timing of that session was about 18 days into the course, a seven months long course, by the way.

I am diagnosing and teaching at the same time.

I am not showing an "episode" that is later: you would not be able to relate...

But being at the beginning of the journey, you"ll be able to see yourself in every one of the participants or some of them.

The course is available online. It includes a one-on-one diagnostic session to identify an incident that is dominant in making you the powerless individual you are now.

I have chunked the course to four modules, so you will make it easier to commit to it... once you have

Online Workshop: Activate Your Divinity


Module 1


Learn how you can avert disaster, or get good luck come your way. The luck method. This is a workshop where you learn methods of the magicians.

Available for purchase now:



Module 2

More magic methods: you"ll be amazed how well these work on upsets, disagreements, or feelings of overwhelm or feeling mistreated. We go full tilt boogie in this one, you"ll laugh, you"ll cry, but you"ll love it
Module 3

Let"s find how come you got to be the way you are. There is an incident in every person"s life where they went from divine to ordinary, from beautiful to ugly. We"ll find that incident and do some voodoo on it, so it will turn you back to divine and beautiful. We"ll reclame your lost fragment of divinity, so you can become more whole and more complete.

This is, normally, when you have your diagnostic one-on-one session
Module 4

Let"s completely disengage the machine: the break for freedom. In this session we"ll do the process on as many fragments as you gathered, so you can re-ignite your fire, your passion for life, and your love for yourself.

Thursday, August 2, 2018

What is the difference between identity and Self? Do you have a Self?

Let"s talk about identification a little more... the identification that gives you the illusion that you are a person, but in fact it what is standing between you and becoming a person.

So what is a person? A person is someone who has a consciousness, a Self, that guides their actions, their relationship to life. When you ask: who is he? show is she? what comes up is not what they do for a living, what awards they won, how well or poorly they do their job... but something deeper and constant... They are that everywhere, on the job, in the public, in the bedroom... everywhere.

If you identify yourself with stuff on the periphery of your being, on the horizontal plane, what you say about yourself, what you want people to know is that you have won an Emmy, three time...

Or that you have had HIV for twenty years going
Or that you are gay
Or that you are black

And alas, it leaves you with no Self. The stuff you identify with has no consciousness, and have no defining power on your character.

Let"s do a little quiz: Which of these people/characters have a self?




Some are actual people, some are roles in TV shows or in books. You need to know them to vote

Madame President: TV show:

The President
His Chief of staff
The Secretary of State
Her Husband

TV show: Blue Bloods:

The Police Commissioner (Frank)
His father, Henry
His Daughter the ADA, Erin
His Detective son, Danny
His other son, Jamie

TV show: NCIS... Jethro whatever his name

President Trump
President Obama
President Roosevelt
Eleanor Roosevelt
John Kennedy
Robert Kennedy

Oprah Winfrey
Tai Lopez
James Altucher
Warren Buffet
Charlie Munger
Steve Jobs
Bill Gates
Mark Zuckerberg

Jeff Bezos
Sam Walton

Ayn Rand
Dostoevsky
Pushkin
Chekhov
Tolstoy

Lenin
Stalin
Hitler

Rappers:
Jay Z
Eminem
Kanye West

Arnold Schwarzenegger
Michael Jordan
John Wooden basketball coach

Osho
Sheile, his one time assistant
Krishnamurti
Mooji
Deepak Chopra
The Dalai Lama
Paulo Cuelho
Eckhart Tolle
don Miguel Ruiz

Werner Erhard
Nancy Zapolski
Tony Robbins
Marianne Williamson
Wayne Dyer
Gurdjieff

Alexander the Great
Philip the Macedon

Socrates
Plato
Aristotle

Freud
Jung
Nietzsche

Just post the name of the character or person in the comments section who you feel have a Self, an overarching "who".

I have shared this before, but it"s probably time to share again in this context:

the story of how I got to filled with a Self at age 45.


In 1991 I participated in a week long Communication Course with Landmark (wasn"t called Landmark yet) where they verbalized your identity and made you wear it on a t-shirt.

Mine was "Recovering victim, get the f... out of my way". Not pretty. I experienced hatred and fear from my classmates. I decided to kill myself. I faced death and life won... But a year of extreme turbulence followed, illness, money troubles, the whole nine yards.

In 1992, Almost exactly a year after that t-shirt, in a seminar, I invented myself: Living on the edge, generating distinctions of transformation for humankind.

It included my tendency to get into trouble, to walk the fine line between accepted and unaccepted... and my goal in life: to use my abilities to penetrate the invisible, have insights and share them.

The Self is a crystallization.


It took me, from creation to crystallization another 15 years. Most crystallization happens in fire... and mine wasn"t an exception: I was in a program where the leader declared me a threat, a dark side, and that fire finalized the crystallization.

And I want to mention another phenomenon I pondered last night when I could not fall asleep: the way people choose spouses.

Power people like to choose goodness people who are meek, subservient.


And this pairing works until the goodness person awakens, and sees what they are doing. Then the only way to save the marriage is to be savvy, adroit, and not pick fights.

The scene from The Fountainhead, where Roark and Gail Wynand discuss the plans of Wynand"s house... Roark shows Gail what he was asking for, and then they both laugh. But without adroitness it would have cost Roark his life.

Self is for something. Being against something isn"t going to create a crystallized Self. Revolutionaries are primarily about doing away with the system that is...

Competition doesn"t agree with crystallized Self... by the way.


This is a big and new topic, and will upset a lot of people.

You need to look deep into the abyss and see if you are interested and willing to surrender all of your life to and idea greater than yourself, greater than something personal. And if yes, contact me. I"ll see if I can work with you.

PS: As I was looking for pictures for this article, I encountered a really confusing, confusing to you, phenomenon.

People talk about things as if they knew anything about them, like Self, and Self-Realization. Of all the people I looked at in the pictures section of google, I found one person, Nisargadatta Maharaj who has a Self, and therefore he could talk about Self-Realization, authentically. The rest: second handers, moochers, looters, parasites.

And what does Nisargadatta Maharaj say: I am that... it is that simple folks. it is that simple.

Wednesday, August 1, 2018

What is the difference between identity and Self? Do you have a Self? Or are you an empty shell?

Let"s talk about identification a little more... the identification that gives you the illusion that you are a person, but in fact it what is standing between you and becoming a person.

So what is a person? A person is someone who has a consciousness, a Self, that guides their actions, their relationship to life. When you ask: who is he? show is she? what comes up is not what they do for a living, what awards they won, how well or poorly they do their job... but something deeper and constant... They are that everywhere, on the job, in the public, in the bedroom... everywhere.

If you identify yourself with stuff on the periphery of your being, on the horizontal plane, what you say about yourself, what you want people to know is that you have won an Emmy, three time...

Or that you have had HIV for twenty years going
Or that you are gay
Or that you are black

And alas, it leaves you with no Self. The stuff you identify with has no consciousness, and have no defining power on your character.

Let"s do a little quiz: Which of these people/characters have a self?




Some are actual people, some are roles in TV shows or in books. You need to know them to vote

Madame President: TV show:

The President
His Chief of staff
The Secretary of State
Her Husband

TV show: Blue Bloods:

The Police Commissioner (Frank)
His father, Henry
His Daughter the ADA, Erin
His Detective son, Danny
His other son, Jamie

TV show: NCIS... Jethro whatever his name

President Trump
President Obama
President Roosevelt
Eleanor Roosevelt
John Kennedy
Robert Kennedy

Oprah Winfrey
Tai Lopez
James Altucher
Warren Buffet
Charlie Munger
Steve Jobs
Bill Gates
Mark Zuckerberg

Jeff Bezos
Sam Walton

Ayn Rand
Dostoevsky
Pushkin
Chekhov
Tolstoy

Lenin
Stalin
Hitler

Rappers:
Jay Z
Eminem
Kanye West

Arnold Schwarzenegger
Michael Jordan
John Wooden basketball coach

Osho
Sheile, his one time assistant
Krishnamurti
Mooji
Deepak Chopra
The Dalai Lama
Paulo Cuelho
Eckhart Tolle
don Miguel Ruiz

Werner Erhard
Nancy Zapolski
Tony Robbins
Marianne Williamson
Wayne Dyer
Gurdjieff

Alexander the Great
Philip the Macedon

Socrates
Plato
Aristotle

Freud
Jung
Nietzsche

Just post the name of the character or person in the comments section who you feel have a Self, an overarching "who".

I have shared this before, but it"s probably time to share again in this context:

the story of how I got to filled with a Self at age 45.


In 1991 I participated in a week long Communication Course with Landmark (wasn"t called Landmark yet) where they verbalized your identity and made you wear it on a t-shirt.

Mine was "Recovering victim, get the f... out of my way". Not pretty. I experienced hatred and fear from my classmates. I decided to kill myself. I faced death and life won... But a year of extreme turbulence followed, illness, money troubles, the whole nine yards.

In 1992, Almost exactly a year after that t-shirt, in a seminar, I invented myself: Living on the edge, generating distinctions of transformation for humankind.

It included my tendency to get into trouble, to walk the fine line between accepted and unaccepted... and my goal in life: to use my abilities to penetrate the invisible, have insights and share them.

The Self is a crystallization.


It took me, from creation to crystallization another 15 years. Most crystallization happens in fire... and mine wasn"t an exception: I was in a program where the leader declared me a threat, a dark side, and that fire finalized the crystallization.

And I want to mention another phenomenon I pondered last night when I could not fall asleep: the way people choose spouses.

Power people like to choose goodness people who are meek, subservient.


And this pairing works until the goodness person awakens, and sees what they are doing. Then the only way to save the marriage is to be savvy, adroit, and not pick fights.

The scene from The Fountainhead, where Roark and Gail Wynand discuss the plans of Wynand"s house... Roark shows Gail what he was asking for, and then they both laugh. But without adroitness it would have cost Roark his life.

Self is for something. Being against something isn"t going to create a crystallized Self. Revolutionaries are primarily about doing away with the system that is...

Competition doesn"t agree with crystallized Self... by the way.


This is a big and new topic, and will upset a lot of people.

You need to look deep into the abyss and see if you are interested and willing to surrender all of your life to and idea greater than yourself, greater than something personal. And if yes, contact me. I"ll see if I can work with you.

PS: As I was looking for pictures for this article, I encountered a really confusing, confusing to you, phenomenon.

People talk about things as if they knew anything about them, like Self, and Self-Realization. Of all the people I looked at in the pictures section of google, I found one person, Nisargadatta Maharaj who has a Self, and therefore he could talk about Self-Realization, authentically. The rest: second handers, moochers, looters, parasites.

And what does Nisargadatta Maharaj say: I am that... it is that simple folks. it is that simple.

Saturday, July 28, 2018

What do you want, really? or asked differently What do you really want?

The answer is in the values you choose to love...

I have been harping on values... and it is as if I were speaking in an auditorium where my voice doesn"t, can"t carry... there is no echo. ((My very first assignment as a newly minted architect was to create the acoustics for the rooms of the Academy of Music in Budapest. The requirements were: let the people in the room have good acoustics, while nothing to be heard outside of the room... tricky but can be done.))

Nothing and no one indicating that they are hearing me, that they are pondering, that the question is heard and taken on as a quest to answer, to ponder, to be taken with you to sleep, to your meditation, to your walks, so you eventually come up with something you value.

Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.

Community cannot for long feed on itself; it can only flourish with the coming of others from beyond, their unknown and undiscovered brothers.

During times of war, hatred becomes quite respectable even though it has to masquerade often under the guise of patriotism.

- Howard Thurman (1900 - 1981)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUsG4B8VKqQ

There are two kinds of values, temporary/transitory and eternal.

Nothing wrong with either of them. but if your life is about chasing temporary, transitory values (systemic values and extrinsic values are all transitory) your life will be, meaning your experience of your life, a roller coaster. No permanence, especially not where it matters, on the inside.

The purpose of religion in its most benevolent form, is to give some sturdiness to your insides, so you have something beyond the momentary pleasures of eating, sexing, or the ego. ((Ego is a tricky word. I should have used "selfish gene" instead... but I am still a little confused, so let"s leave it at that.))

Obviously (to me and to Source) only two percent of religious people get the eternal values guide their lives, because what you need, the pre-condition to be guided by the eternal, is to surrender yourself to something greater than yourself: the eternal.

Three of the four ways the Divine gets to you, beauty, truth, and power are transitory, temporary, change with the culture. Goodness, on the other hand is eternal.

So people who are goodness influenced have an easier time to surrender. I am not saying all do... Donald Trump is a goodness person... do you see any signs of surrendering to a purpose larger than himself? I don"t. Stalin... ditto.

I have muscle tested many of the billionaires I know of... it"s a mixed bag... Half are goodness, the other half power over others. A very few are beauty or truth.

I just had a conversation with a client/student of mine. He guessed only about 20% right what someone"s quadrant was.

It turns out that we are not born into a quadrant, but by about 3-year old we choose one. I chose goodness, in a family of Power-people. I stuck out like a sore thumb.


When my mother came to visit me in the USA when I was 45, she had a puzzled look every time she looked at me. I seemed to her to be of a different species... and in essence I was.

Here is the most troubling piece: you have no Self if you are beauty, truth, or power. You live your life, do your work, not from your Self, but from some outside element, mostly other people, or a concept like money or success.

Where Self is supposed to be, you are empty. And that is frightening.

The good news is that you can build a Self... although your outward focus will be a real obstacle.

Do all Goodness people have a Self? Muscle test says: no. Only about 1% of them.

Why is that? Because we live in a culture where it is not hip to be an individual with a Self.


I am continuing this inquiry

It is obvious that certain cultures are more intent on killing individuality, your Self than others. Canada is one of these cultures. California is another.

New York where I live is second after New Jersey that is the friendliest to individuality, followed by New York and Massachusetts. Why? I don"t know. I lived in New Jersey for 16 years, but didn"t know to look.

This should clue you in that you see more of what is through distinctions. No distinctions: you walk around with empty eyes... that is pretty much most people on the planet.

This article has been in the making for a few days now, given that I can work on it a few minutes at a time before I get so sick that I have to go back to bed again.

The most alarming thing about these few days isn"t that I am very sick... it is the lack of curiosity my readers show, including my students.


The distinction: how the divine gets through to you is one of the fundamental distinctions that will show you how your machine operates, and what to do to become someone with a Self, that can have Self-confidence, Self-respect, Self-regard, Self-esteem, Self-governance.

Without those you have empty eyes, you can never be happy, and if I were you, that is an opportunity I would never want to miss.

I had a call yesterday with a Beauty person whose mantra is "it"s too much work for too little", in essence "it"s not worth it".

The expression comes to mind:

You know the price of everything, the value of nothing.


Because most of you have never had a Self, you actually don"t know what you are missing.

A simple test: ask yourself what you want for or from your life. If it"s something transient, puny, non-eternal... you are a dog that is wagged by the tail... a clear indication that you don"t have a Self.

When Thoreau said: the mass of men live a life of quiet desperation, he meant living without a Self. Living without an inner core. Being empty inside.


I don"t care what your gurus tell you: if you are empty inside, you try to fill it with pretty images, but still no Self.

Even though 10% of humanity has the capacity to surrender and become an individual, only 10% of those actually realize that.

When you look, we are born with a ton of capacities, and few turn capacities into abilities, functional and operative abilities. The same is with the capacity for being and individual. It takes courage, it takes trust, it takes turning your life over to a single integrated principle. That is an individual... And only an individual has a Self.

And if you know the real meaning of integrity, the sentence where it says: Being true to Your Self cannot be fulfilled unless you have a Self.

I have people who argue with me on their Starting Point Measurements, saying that everyone says their strongest attribute is their integrity, while their integrity number is under 10%.

You cannot have integrity without a Self.


I learned a lot of distinctions in my 26 years in Landmark Education. With this new distinction, I suddenly understood why only 1% of participants are ever able to live the life that is available from participation.

Only 1% of humanity has a Self... and to live a life you love and to live it powerfully needs you to have a Self.

The cornerstone of Landmark"s teaching is to invent a new possibility for yourself and your life.

Once. And then live it, allow it to guide your actions, your thinking, your life.

Instead all the people I knew there, invent something bombastic every few days, and then forget it. Without a Self, without the capacity to surrender, it is band aids, soothing salve, temporary relief.

This number includes staff as well... Even Werner Erhard is a man without a Self.

You can have a Self no matter what is the method the divine has to get to you. It takes work, it takes new abilities, it takes sometime all you got... and it"s worth it... if and when you realize that walking around empty is a guarantee that you"ll live and empty life.

Of course if your access to life, if your mantra is "It"s not worth the bother" you won"t do it. You will remain a second-hander, a looter, a moocher, an person with empty eyes.

One of the billions of "men" living a life of quiet desperation.

Wednesday, May 23, 2018

Sticky point: Being able to tell the self apart from other things, the not-self.

Being able to tell the self apart from other things, the not-self. ((

Nisargadatta Maharaj: personal vibration: 200. Truth value: 10%

I have encountered and measured many Indian gurus. Although Nisargadatta Maharaj is not flashy, and seemingly nothing special, he has a unique position among all these gurus: he isn"t fake.

You cannot teach much of anything if you haven"t truly distinguished that you are not any of the things you may think you are... you are simply the Self.

Most gurus give diligent lip-service to this... I know Osho best, and he says it all the time. But saying it and being it are two different things. When you say it but you don"t be it, you talk Tree of Knowledge: it is not your experience. So you are a liar, a fake guru: because you cannot teach what you don"t have.

Nisargadatta Maharaj got one thing right... ok, maybe more, I don"t know all he did. But he got the crux of the matter right: he got that he is none of those things...

And that is what makes him a real guru.

Now, can he teach it? OK, he is dead. Could he teach it? No way. Knowing and teaching are two different capacities.

My own trouble is that I have to be able to do both... But it is getting possible... I am getting better at it.

When someone with Tree of Knowledge tries to teach it, no one learns it... because fake invites fake... ugh. Same is true for Landmark and Werner Erhard.

))

You are not your feelings, not your thoughts, not your history. Not even what you do, or what you have, or what you have achieved!


I didn"t realize that this is such a big issue, collapsing all these and calling it "you".

This is the source of unclarity, and ultimately it is the source of the delusional self and misery. Utter misery.

What am I talking about?

One aspect of clarity is to be able to tell the person from their actions. The person from their feelings. The person from their story or history. The person from what they have done. The person from everything else...

It seems that at a low level of clarity (low vibration) this isn"t obvious.


As I am teaching some of my students to become value recognizers, some of them can see that the work they do has extrinsic (monetary) value, independent of them. Others consider that their extrinsic value is the one that fluctuates from day to day, when they feel well, or when they don"t.

Your extrinsic value, what you CAN produce in the world, only changes with learning new skills or getting better at the skills you already have. And yes, they get higher if you can manage your attitude towards work and people... because you can produce more value.

But value is in the product, not in you.

A high vibration person whose clarity in telling things apart can see that. And that gives them freedom to tackle challenges with the self and challenges with the work they do.

A low vibration person feels that they are changing and their value is changing with their output, and cannot have freedom to take care of themselves independently of their output.


No distinction.

You got that from your parents, from your teachers, from your peers... that have low vibration.

Your parent called you bad, or a horrible kid, or a lazy bum. Or maybe a great kid. Or beautiful. Or smart.

But either way they collapsed behavior, looks, the effect on them, and perpetuated a level of no distinction that can only lead to an ineffectiveness in life.


It makes you feel invalidated, insulted, humiliated, or valued, appreciated but neither of these is good and neither of these is what is actually happening.
Bringing distinction to life brings happiness, effectiveness, and ultimately a much higher quality of life.

When people get their Starting Point Measurements, they see it as a composite of who they are: worthless, no good, better dead than alive.

Not as a report card on different aspects that can be altered independently, which it really is.

I have been working with people achieving unprecedented shifts by bringing distinction, bringing these different aspects of things into focus.


And teaching the individuals how to increase a "scores" effectively.

When you see yourself collapsed with your actions, your feelings, your story, you can only be ineffective.

It"s like looking at a vehicle that isn"t doing well, and trying to tackle the whole... with a hammer, a screwdriver, or whining... lol.

A vehicle has parts, engine, cooling, brakes, fuel management, electric circuits, starter, etc. I have taken cars apart and I know what I am talking about. And I have "taken people apart" and produce result.

You are trying random things... but without clarity, without distinguishing the parts, without the right tools, your results will be nothing at best, and damage at worst.

No matter what area of life we look at, bringing distinction to it will increase your effectiveness.


But the first hurdle to tackle is being able to see that not everything is about you, not everything is you.

I have students and ex students who are separated from the good life only by this issue.
  • If you think that people buy you, not your product, you will be ineffective.

  • If you think that when people say "no" to buying your product, they reject YOU, you will be ineffective.

The main difference between highly effective people who are consistently delivering results and from people who take anything personally is this unclarity and no distinction about what is you and what is not you.


Billionaires, most of them, don"t think their results are them. They see their results as their results and therefore they can increase their effectiveness with their results.

And some accidental billionaires, like Mark Zuckerberg can"t see that what facebook does, right or wrong, is not him... and therefore suffer.
You need this distinguishing... aka telling apart things that only correlate but not the same, in the area of health, in the area of social interactions, in the area of fulfillment as well.

You are, obviously, not your habits either. You can change any of your habits if you aren"t collapsing them with your self.

You can change your view of things, if you aren"t collapsing them with your self.

You are NOT your religion, not your beliefs, not your upbringing, not your racial origin, not a refugee, not a victim, not an unloved child, not a divorced/married person, not a father, not a mother, not somebody"s child.

Those things are also distinct from your self.

You HAVE them in your card pack, but the whole card pack isn"t them.

To the degree you can grasp this to the degree you can grow. To the degree you"ll invest time and energy to grasp this distinguishing function you need, to the same degree you can use your energy to carve out a good life for yourself.

For most of you, I am asking you to see something that your low vibration doesn"t allow you to see. But you have the capacity, encoded in your DNA, if you are human. The capacity can be activated by the effort to see what you cannot see.


Guaranteed.

And only you can do it for yourself.

I can give you exercises, but I can"t make you see something... but YOU can.

It is hard to conceive the notion that there is something right in front of you that you cannot see. And yet it is true.
When you are willing to take my word for it, and put in the effort, the capacities awaken, one by one.

One such capacity is to be able to read, listen, and speak NOT from the mind.

One exercise doesn"t fit all, one practice doesn"t fit all... that is why some people pay me for personal coaching, in-person coaching.

Often it takes me quite some time before I can get clear enough myself where the inability to distinguish is anchored in a client. It is more an art than a science. I experiment and the client pays.

But eventually I figure it out and then they start growing like a weed.

Nothing I have ever read written for coaches is useful in this... actually most of the methodology anyone suggests is harmful and leads to no fundamental change in a client"s clarity, in a client"s ability to bring distinguishing to life.

Can I produce good results with ANYONE? I have no idea. Even if I can see where the sticky part is, ultimately it is the level of courage and the level of ambition of the client that is the motive power that will get them unstuck. I can"t do it for them.
But no matter what"s the issue, it seems that the first sticky point that needs to be unstuck is this collapsing the self with all the things that it seems to be. And causing the person to see distinction.

The path to it can be many.

Some clients think that if they can fake me out, it is as good as having done the job... It must be innate to some soul corrections.

One famous exercise is the color exercise.

In the color exercise one learns, or more precisely, one CAN learn to tell apart different shades of the same base color.

Distinguishing is a skill, it is also a spiritual capacity. It can only happen outside of the mind. In the mind, Plato"s Cave, everything is collapsed. There are no shades, there are not aspects. You are the same as your actions, your looks, your history, your everything.

Only outside of the cave are there distinctions.


If you can see "YOUR" color in the color exercise as distinct and separate from the base color, you must be outside of the mind... But if secretly you consider it a shade of "red", or whatever the base color would be, you are in the mind, pretending to do the exercise.

It"s grueling because your tendency to collapse everything to become the same as everything else is very forceful.
You need to grow "balls" to be in the game with the powerful forces you are up against.

You can. The question is: will you?

I have asked hundreds of people to do this exercise, and thus far NONE of them that I know of has done it truly outside of the mind.

So, you see, some exercises are wicked difficult. Is it worth it? You tell me! It all depends on the size of your ambition.
  • Ambition is the energy you are willing to invest into getting what you want.

  • Desire is the energy you invest in imagining what you want.


The job is to reduce the desire to less than 10%, and raise the ambition to more than 10%.

Desire is from the mind. Ambition is from the Self.


For the Self to get anything done, it needs more or equal energy to even be in the "fight" or the game.

Another exercise is the process of becoming an idea machine...

One of the hardest exercises is to read/listen not for understanding.
Understanding is from the mind. Acts as a filter, a limitation to what you can consider as reality, what you can consider as knowledge.

Wicked difficult, but glorious when becomes operational behavior.

Distinguishing what you don"t like, what you don"t want, what you stand against is yet another practice... the challenge is again: do you take everything personally? Is everything about you?

There are many ways to skin a cat, and my job as your guide is to invent new ways. That is 90% of my work.

I am working as fast as I can.

Sticky point: Being able to tell the self apart from other things, the not-self.

Being able to tell the self apart from other things, the not-self. ((

Nisargadatta Maharaj: personal vibration: 200. Truth value: 10%

I have encountered and measured many Indian gurus. Although Nisargadatta Maharaj is not flashy, and seemingly nothing special, he has a unique position among all these gurus: he isn"t fake.

You cannot teach much of anything if you haven"t truly distinguished that you are not any of the things you may think you are... you are simply the Self.

Most gurus give diligent lip-service to this... I know Osho best, and he says it all the time. But saying it and being it are two different things. When you say it but you don"t be it, you talk Tree of Knowledge: it is not your experience. So you are a liar, a fake guru: because you cannot teach what you don"t have.

Nisargadatta Maharaj got one thing right... ok, maybe more, I don"t know all he did. But he got the crux of the matter right: he got that he is none of those things...

And that is what makes him a real guru.

Now, can he teach it? OK, he is dead. Could he teach it? No way. Knowing and teaching are two different capacities.

My own trouble is that I have to be able to do both... But it is getting possible... I am getting better at it.

When someone with Tree of Knowledge tries to teach it, no one learns it... because fake invites fake... ugh. Same is true for Landmark and Werner Erhard.

))

You are not your feelings, not your thoughts, not your history. Not even what you do, or what you have, or what you have achieved!


I didn"t realize that this is such a big issue, collapsing all these and calling it "you".

This is the source of unclarity, and ultimately it is the source of the delusional self and misery. Utter misery.

What am I talking about?

One aspect of clarity is to be able to tell the person from their actions. The person from their feelings. The person from their story or history. The person from what they have done. The person from everything else...

It seems that at a low level of clarity (low vibration) this isn"t obvious.


As I am teaching some of my students to become value recognizers, some of them can see that the work they do has extrinsic (monetary) value, independent of them. Others consider that their extrinsic value is the one that fluctuates from day to day, when they feel well, or when they don"t.

Your extrinsic value, what you CAN produce in the world, only changes with learning new skills or getting better at the skills you already have. And yes, they get higher if you can manage your attitude towards work and people... because you can produce more value.

But value is in the product, not in you.

A high vibration person whose clarity in telling things apart can see that. And that gives them freedom to tackle challenges with the self and challenges with the work they do.

A low vibration person feels that they are changing and their value is changing with their output, and cannot have freedom to take care of themselves independently of their output.


No distinction.

You got that from your parents, from your teachers, from your peers... that have low vibration.

Your parent called you bad, or a horrible kid, or a lazy bum. Or maybe a great kid. Or beautiful. Or smart.

But either way they collapsed behavior, looks, the effect on them, and perpetuated a level of no distinction that can only lead to an ineffectiveness in life.


It makes you feel invalidated, insulted, humiliated, or valued, appreciated but neither of these is good and neither of these is what is actually happening.
Bringing distinction to life brings happiness, effectiveness, and ultimately a much higher quality of life.

When people get their Starting Point Measurements, they see it as a composite of who they are: worthless, no good, better dead than alive.

Not as a report card on different aspects that can be altered independently, which it really is.

I have been working with people achieving unprecedented shifts by bringing distinction, bringing these different aspects of things into focus.


And teaching the individuals how to increase a "scores" effectively.

When you see yourself collapsed with your actions, your feelings, your story, you can only be ineffective.

It"s like looking at a vehicle that isn"t doing well, and trying to tackle the whole... with a hammer, a screwdriver, or whining... lol.

A vehicle has parts, engine, cooling, brakes, fuel management, electric circuits, starter, etc. I have taken cars apart and I know what I am talking about. And I have "taken people apart" and produce result.

You are trying random things... but without clarity, without distinguishing the parts, without the right tools, your results will be nothing at best, and damage at worst.

No matter what area of life we look at, bringing distinction to it will increase your effectiveness.


But the first hurdle to tackle is being able to see that not everything is about you, not everything is you.

I have students and ex students who are separated from the good life only by this issue.
  • If you think that people buy you, not your product, you will be ineffective.

  • If you think that when people say "no" to buying your product, they reject YOU, you will be ineffective.

The main difference between highly effective people who are consistently delivering results and from people who take anything personally is this unclarity and no distinction about what is you and what is not you.


Billionaires, most of them, don"t think their results are them. They see their results as their results and therefore they can increase their effectiveness with their results.

And some accidental billionaires, like Mark Zuckerberg can"t see that what facebook does, right or wrong, is not him... and therefore suffer.
You need this distinguishing... aka telling apart things that only correlate but not the same, in the area of health, in the area of social interactions, in the area of fulfillment as well.

You are, obviously, not your habits either. You can change any of your habits if you aren"t collapsing them with your self.

You can change your view of things, if you aren"t collapsing them with your self.

You are NOT your religion, not your beliefs, not your upbringing, not your racial origin, not a refugee, not a victim, not an unloved child, not a divorced/married person, not a father, not a mother, not somebody"s child.

Those things are also distinct from your self.

You HAVE them in your card pack, but the whole card pack isn"t them.

To the degree you can grasp this to the degree you can grow. To the degree you"ll invest time and energy to grasp this distinguishing function you need, to the same degree you can use your energy to carve out a good life for yourself.

For most of you, I am asking you to see something that your low vibration doesn"t allow you to see. But you have the capacity, encoded in your DNA, if you are human. The capacity can be activated by the effort to see what you cannot see.


Guaranteed.

And only you can do it for yourself.

I can give you exercises, but I can"t make you see something... but YOU can.

It is hard to conceive the notion that there is something right in front of you that you cannot see. And yet it is true.
When you are willing to take my word for it, and put in the effort, the capacities awaken, one by one.

One such capacity is to be able to read, listen, and speak NOT from the mind.

One exercise doesn"t fit all, one practice doesn"t fit all... that is why some people pay me for personal coaching, in-person coaching.

Often it takes me quite some time before I can get clear enough myself where the inability to distinguish is anchored in a client. It is more an art than a science. I experiment and the client pays.

But eventually I figure it out and then they start growing like a weed.

Nothing I have ever read written for coaches is useful in this... actually most of the methodology anyone suggests is harmful and leads to no fundamental change in a client"s clarity, in a client"s ability to bring distinguishing to life.

Can I produce good results with ANYONE? I have no idea. Even if I can see where the sticky part is, ultimately it is the level of courage and the level of ambition of the client that is the motive power that will get them unstuck. I can"t do it for them.
But no matter what"s the issue, it seems that the first sticky point that needs to be unstuck is this collapsing the self with all the things that it seems to be. And causing the person to see distinction.

The path to it can be many.

Some clients think that if they can fake me out, it is as good as having done the job... It must be innate to some soul corrections.

One famous exercise is the color exercise.

In the color exercise one learns, or more precisely, one CAN learn to tell apart different shades of the same base color.

Distinguishing is a skill, it is also a spiritual capacity. It can only happen outside of the mind. In the mind, Plato"s Cave, everything is collapsed. There are no shades, there are not aspects. You are the same as your actions, your looks, your history, your everything.

Only outside of the cave are there distinctions.


If you can see "YOUR" color in the color exercise as distinct and separate from the base color, you must be outside of the mind... But if secretly you consider it a shade of "red", or whatever the base color would be, you are in the mind, pretending to do the exercise.

It"s grueling because your tendency to collapse everything to become the same as everything else is very forceful.
You need to grow "balls" to be in the game with the powerful forces you are up against.

You can. The question is: will you?

I have asked hundreds of people to do this exercise, and thus far NONE of them that I know of has done it truly outside of the mind.

So, you see, some exercises are wicked difficult. Is it worth it? You tell me! It all depends on the size of your ambition.
  • Ambition is the energy you are willing to invest into getting what you want.

  • Desire is the energy you invest in imagining what you want.


The job is to reduce the desire to less than 10%, and raise the ambition to more than 10%.

Desire is from the mind. Ambition is from the Self.


For the Self to get anything done, it needs more or equal energy to even be in the "fight" or the game.

Another exercise is the process of becoming an idea machine...

One of the hardest exercises is to read/listen not for understanding.
Understanding is from the mind. Acts as a filter, a limitation to what you can consider as reality, what you can consider as knowledge.

Wicked difficult, but glorious when becomes operational behavior.

Distinguishing what you don"t like, what you don"t want, what you stand against is yet another practice... the challenge is again: do you take everything personally? Is everything about you?

There are many ways to skin a cat, and my job as your guide is to invent new ways. That is 90% of my work.

I am working as fast as I can.

Wednesday, August 12, 2015

NEW: What is stress? Not what you think...

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NEW: Dreams: The difference between scary dreams and guiding dreams, fear versus intuition

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Monday, August 3, 2015

NEW: The New Healing Modality: Revolutionary, Innovative, and Effective

I have just finished writing and editing a new pdf about the New Healing Modality. Thank you Matsa for the editing help: great work. It"s 11 pages, and it tells you everything I think you need to know about the … Continue reading →

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NEW: Chronic issues, no answers? Some questions are answered here...

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Life, nature, growth are chaotic, and non-linear Your thinking, your mind, on the other hand is linear. When it asks the question "why" it expects a linear answer. But, of course, any and all linear answers are wrong. Garbage in-garbage … Continue reading →

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Saturday, August 1, 2015

NEW: The Nature of Reality: Glimpses, reality, filters: why is the world the way world is... different for different people?

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I had a rare glimpse at the nature of reality today. It"s been happening quite some time, but I could never catch the why of it... Imagine the scenario: you are playing a card game with 52 cards. No one … Continue reading →

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Tuesday, July 28, 2015

NEW: Do you get hooked? People pushing your buttons?

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Ultimately, every time you encounter something you don"t want, don"t like, don"t agree with, your first reaction is resistance, i.e. not allowing what you don"t like to be. When you pretend to be different than you are, you are denying … Continue reading →

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Friday, July 24, 2015

NEW: How Cancer Thinks Like A Human

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If you want to understand cancer... If you want to understand cancer watch yourself and people you know. You will understand more about the condition that through any other "information" source. If you think you should only watch other people, … Continue reading →

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Monday, July 6, 2015

NEW: Turning points: When you decide that mother isn"t coming to rescue you...

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Summary: In this article I talk about a turning point that unstucks you from inaction and puts you in the driver"s seat of your life. I use my own example of taking extraordinary (to me) measures where I normally would … Continue reading →

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Sunday, July 5, 2015

NEW: Winners of remedy naming contest announced

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NEW: Breakthrough In HOE (Heaven on Earth) Bach Flower Energies Delivery

I had a breakthrough in the delivery method of the Heaven on Earth. I am testing it, and sending out a few samples to test by students. Read more about it on my healing blog, http://www.yourvibration.com/healing/the-heaven-on-earth-energy-bundle/hoe I will post the … Continue reading →

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Wednesday, June 24, 2015

NEW: What do you have to lose?

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This morning I engaged in an unusual conversation with myself, and Source. I asked myself: do I get enough enjoyment out of life to make it worth to live? The answer was yes. I am still curious of how certain … Continue reading →

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Monday, June 22, 2015

NEW: Updated: What if what you are most proud of about yourself is what holds you back in life

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Update: This article was written two years ago, and a lot has happened, but we never again addressed these life-suckers... Since we are working on anchor-to-doom and the actions necessary to live a life not determined by the doom... we … Continue reading →

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Friday, June 12, 2015

NEW: Osho: What is jealousy and why does it hurt so much to be jealous?

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I have been spending the last few days meditating, muscle testing, contemplating why it is that different people from different ethnic cultures are so different in one main aspect: caring. Caring means that you are willing to consider another as … Continue reading →



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Friday, June 5, 2015

NEW: If you live like you have to feel different to do different, you are screwed. Guaranteed

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What keeps you stuck I am starting see that what keeps you stuck is that you identify yourself with your thoughts or your feelings, or both. Bad news: Thoughts and feelings are reactionary: Without a circumstance changing, neither of them … Continue reading →

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