Co-creation. Connecting to Source. What is YOUR context that leaves you unfulfilled?

This is an audio that will explain a lot... and you"ll hate it. If by any chance you"ll love it, you just found the secret of a well lived life.

Transcript

Okay. It"s Friday morning, and this little talk I"m doing today will not make you happy. Why? "Cause it"s going to upset the apple cart. It"s going to wrinkle your sheets. It"s going to be trampling on your beliefs.

So, what am I talking about?

One of my students wrote to me today. She is listening to an audio of mine, where I am talking about connecting to Source, how I found out that you can actually connect to Source, that Source is always there to connect to, and it was me who wasn"t connecting to Source.

Now, in a way, this flies in the face of everything that everybody thinks. I wasn"t thinking that, "cause I wasn"t brought up to be religious or think that there is something or someone there that I could connect to. But, when I shared, at the time, that you can connect to Source, people answered snottily that you are always connected, which is very, very far from the truth. Then the second wrong belief with regards to connecting is that you can THINK yourself connecting, and that would connect you. That is very far from the truth, too.

What I am sharing in that particular audio, and what this student of mine is asking about, is this: I am saying that Source is like that electric outlet that you have on your wall, and you need to plug in. Then I said you need to turn yourself into the plug and push yourself all the way in, which is what I do. I turn myself into the plug and push all of me into the outlet. When I, for years, was teaching people to connect, that is what I was teaching, and people had a real hard time doing it. I just found out today why.

So, why? Why do you have such a hard time connecting? Of course, this is going to be context again, because that is the filter through which we look at everything in this series. So, what is the context that you live in that you have a hard time even thinking that you should push all of yourself into the electric outlet so that you can connect to Source?

Well, the context that you live in is that you can just put your little finger in, and that will give you what you need.

Meaning that you are trying to stay distant, uninvolved, uncommitted, and get the same results that are promised with the condition that you need to connect. So, you don"t connect and want the same results.

For instance ... Okay, so let"s go back. What are the activities that are similar to connecting? Well, one of the activities is surrender. You surrender all of you. It"s very risky. But, you can do it. The other one is co-creation. When you co-create, you surrender your superiority or you surrender your laziness or you surrender your stinginess, and you do what you need to do at least half. You INTEND to do it all, by the way, because unless you do, Source or the person will withhold. There"s a little part in the Landmark Forum where they introduce the idea of accountability. It"s really brilliant because it shows how relationships devolve.

You get married, okay? That"s the starting point. And you say in your head, "I am 100% responsible for how this relationship turns out." Now, if you start out with less than that, then that"s story over.

But, let"s say you mean business and you say, "I am 100% committed to this marriage." It could be business as well, okay? Or learning from someone. It always starts with you commit 100%, if you do, and the teacher or your spouse, or whoever, commits 100%. The sum total of the tw2o 100%"s is 100%. It"s called co-creating.

Then one day you have a real bad day in the office, and you go home and you say, "Today I am having a bad day. I am just going to give 80%," and you give 80%. The other person says, "Hey, you promised ... " in their head, "You promised 100%. You gave 80%. Huh. I am going to give 80%, too." The other person gives 80%. Then, next, you find out that suddenly it"s an 80% relationship. So, you keep on giving less and less, and the other person adjusts what they give to yours. In the end, it"s a 0%-0% relationship, and then you get divorced. But, before you get divorced, you kill each other.

But, if you look, that is exactly how you live your life. You think that you should give 50% and the other person should give 50%, and that will add up to 100%. But, in the dominion of life, that"s not how it works. You can"t give 50% and expect 100% getting out. You need to give 100%, and no matter what the other person gives, you are going to have 100%. Of course, your sense of fairness says, "I shouldn"t have to give more. I should only have to give as much as the other," and that is how you live your life. So, that is your context, okay? Your context is the other person should give 100%, and whatever you give is whatever you get, and whatever you gave, you expect 100% result. That is the context inside which you live your life. Of course, it"s silly, right? Because, eventually, sometimes really fast, this will result in the 0%-0% relationship. You are going to get nothing.

Now, some soul corrections are stingier. This is called "stingy", okay? You withhold. You"re not willing to give. You withhold your power, you withhold your brilliance, you withhold your everything, and at the same time you expect 100%. Most or all of my active students are like that. Why? Because I am so incredibly generous. I don"t sound generous, but I am. my world view, my context, is I always give 100%, no matter what you give. Now, I have found with one student starting to give less and less and less, and in the end I gave nothing, and then I told them to take a hike, because that"s how it works. When you give and you give and you give, and nothing creates an echo, and the other person gives nothing, eventually you are going to give up. Even I am not an exception from that. But, for the most part, I give all I got and you get whatever you get.

Now, here is the interesting chemistry miracle, or what"s the opposite or miracle, okay?

If you give 30%, doesn"t matter what the other person gives, you"re going to get 30%. If you give nothing, then you are going to get nothing. That"s really sad, right? Because, here is one of the principles. It takes as much work to give nothing, as much work it takes to give everything. As much time. As much everything. If you are a Circuitry 9soul correction) person, for instance, the issue in circuitry is that they don"t want to give. Really. Don"t want to give. Their whole context, their whole world view, is "I give nothing and will hold onto everything that you give me." Except that that may be true when we come to chocolate, but it"s not true when we come to energy, which means, in essence, they get nothing. That is the issue with Circuitry.

But, there is an issue with Silent Partner. Silent Partner is withholding their willingness to connect and withhold their willingness to receive. You can withhold your willingness to receive, which means if the other person is giving 100% or the universe is giving 100%, you push it back. You push it back. Because the issue of Silent Partner is that they want to be the heroes of the day. They want to do everything by themselves. They only value what they created, nothing from the other.

Then the third soul correction that I have in my student body is Sexual Energy. It has nothing to do with sex. It has something to do with force. They are forceful. They are expecting to get 100%, and they are going to resist it. They are going to pretty much give only as much as pleasures them. That"s where the sexual energy comes from. The kind of lover who is only going to want to have sex with you when it pleases them, and only to the degree that it pleases them. They withhold themselves because they are only interested in their own pleasure.

Teaching any of these soul correction people, as I do in private calls, is pure torture. Worse than that, the results are not 100%, because they are either unable or unwilling to receive because they are not giving. Okay? In essence, you can see that your world view, said in another way your context, is withholding. You withhold.

You really think that you can get without giving.

It"s, again, the fireplace analogy. You expect heat without giving wood. You do. Of course, it results in utter disappointment and utter unhappiness, without ever realizing that it"s you. YOU are not giving.

There are lots of ways to give, by the way. One of the ways is that you give to life. You, if you need to, you need to crank yourself up so that you are enthusiastic. You can do that. You may even need to pretend. But, whatever you bring to life is what life gives back to you. You go to the most amazing sunset and you are, "Seen that, done that." What you get back is exactly that. No energy.

So, this was another episode of context, and I hope that you are going to get at least curious how the heck to give more, because you don"t. I don"t think that inside the context that you"re listening you can even hear it as the price of your aliveness, the price of your results. You don"t. You hear it as "I just want more." Okay? So, you see what you are. You see other people being grabby, seeing other people wanting and giving you nothing, and that is the issue with your context. It"s not invented. It"s your default. Okay? All right.

So, I am going to close this audio now and put it on the site. Thank you.

Co-creation. Connecting to Source. What is YOUR context that leaves you unfulfilled?

This is an audio that will explain a lot... and you"ll hate it. If by any chance you"ll love it, you just found the secret of a well lived life.

Transcript is coming around 10 am

Going from scarcity to abundance, from stingy to generous, from withholding to surrender

this is a personal gushing message to legrande... but i say things i have never said before... definitely a need to listen

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If meaning makes the difference between a life worth living and a life not, why do some people take to it and most people don"t?

• intellectual capacity? somewhat


• having the spiritual capacity to see the big picture in width and it time? mostly


• willingness to be responsible, willingness to cause the context.


• courage to cause the context

Being a sheep means lack of courage, lack of vision, lack of responsibility

Stuck energy. Stinginess.

For you everything looks like everything else

I have been growing by leaps and bounds for the past two and a half years... faster since I started to go to my weekly senior exercise classes 20 months ago.

Before that I went to a chiropractor three times a week... and got hardly any results. Mostly none. Actually I was getting worse. Why? Because of giving away my responsibility to get well.

It is hard to see why when you are not aware, when you have no distinctions, when everything looks the same to you as everything else.

In order to see anything different, to see more, you need to get out of your usual one way of looking mode, or you won"t...

We humans are oriented vertical and at right angles... At school they tell you: sit straight. Or sit "up".

And the result: we all see the same things, the same way...

With the exception of the weirdos...

We slowly lose our ability to move, to be flexibly, to use our bodies outside of the vertical.

Physical therapists need to move your limbs for you, because you have no sideways flexibility, no sideways mobility.

Milton Trager created a simple moving regimen that when followed faithfully, creates a pain free (or less pain) ageless body.

I am really lucky to have found this class where half of the movements are sideways, oiling and unstucking my body and my view.

Obviously everyone has a different result in the same class.

You get back commensurate ((commensurate:
corresponding in size or degree; in proportion.
"salary will be commensurate with experience"
synonyms: equivalent, equal, corresponding, correspondent, comparable, proportionate, proportional
)) with what you put in. This is true in everything. In love, in sex, in a class...

People have a mistaken belief that you can dabble, that you can withhold your energy, and get the same thing back as someone who puts all power in all action.

As I have said in other places, humanity is stuck on the level of stingy... want to get their money"s worth, so to say.

I obviously have a different "religion"... probably because I am dyslexic.

I have always put in unmeasured, and was happy getting what I got. Always. I don"t have any value for energy I didn"t spend, didn"t expend. You cannot save energy, you cannot store up energy. It becomes poison when you do.

Energy is only energy when it is flowing... When it isn"t, it makes you stuck. Rigid. Frozen. Encased. ((Like emotions... unless you allow it to move, it turns into toxin. When you allow it to move it is over faster than you can say blahblahblah. Really. The longer you feel emotions the more stuck you are everywhere.))

Why do I have this knowledge and not you?

I guess I was lucky in two ways: My parents didn"t talk to me, and the one advice my father gave me was about how to not block energy... And he spoke from Tree of Life: he went from poor orphan to a statesman and a revered scientist using the advice he gave me.

He said: let go. Let go and it will be over that much faster.

At the time I didn"t understand: my whole identity was vested in being someone who was raped, what was going to be raped... And I took his advice relating to that: that I should let whoever wants to rape me rape me.

Of course that is not what he meant...

but when you have the whole world about you, as I was, you create a meaning that is all about you.

So it took me till I was about 40 years old to even consider letting anything go.

And I was stiff. And I was hurting. And I was miserable... and stuck.

Moving your body outside of the vertical, gracefully and fluidly unstucks your whole self, not just the body. Unstucks your view of life.

The Indians have the right idea with yoga: body and your inner world are connected and go in the same way... but they have the wrong execution: most yoga poses keep you in the vertical. Nothing gets unstuck inside or outside.

There are a few moves, but not many. The Lotus sitting position, and any pose where you stand on one foot... where you need to balance on your feet or your head, or your hands... but that"s it.

Of course this whole article is a theory. And like any theory it has a truth value. So what is the truth value of this theory? I muscle test: 80%. What is not true about it? The tense of the verbs. I say "you will get unstuck" and it should say: You could get unstuck.

What else? something about yoga... that yoga is, like everything else, is as useful as you make it.

That"s it.

What does it mean "you could get unstuck?"

Getting unstuck, like everything in our reality, is interactive or co-creative.

You participate in it: it works. You want it done to you: it won"t work.

Both physically and mentally, what keeps you from becoming ageless, and from becoming one with anything is your stinginess.

You are a taker. But what you take doesn"t give you anything. Because even for something to give you value, you need to make it a value by seeing it as value.

YOU give the value to anything for it to have value... and you haven"t.

One of the exercises I have given to students who managed to grow is to become a value recognizer.

I didn"t want to say the truth: to ask them to become a value creator... because in the rigid context the world/civilization gives you, you would, they would have understood the word "creator" as doing.

But being a value creator is the same as value recognizer. There is no such thing as value without someone seeing it as such, treating it as such.

I have students who intend to suck me dry, take all I got, and yet they benefit not from what they get from me.

They can"t see value, they cannot create value.

And then I have students who interact with me sporadically, and get immense value. They are the value recognizers.

So if you are stingy, you get little or no value... because you didn"t create value in what you are getting.

Bummer, eh?

One more thing: The statement "Truth repeated is a lie" describes most of the things that belong to this category.

If you don"t give value to what you are getting, then all the things you say about it is a lie.

This includes everything where your role needs to be a co-creator. You cannot experience value if you didn"t create it.

Most gurus (maybe all) are mouthpieces to someone else"s truth. Tone of voice doesn"t create value, only creating value creates value.

When I measure people"s vibration, and the truth value of what they teach, I measure to what degree they created themselves the value of what they are teaching, and to what degree it is actually a value.

Not everything is a value... and calling it a value won"t make it so.

How full is your toolbox? Planning to dig a well when you are thirsty?

One of the common characteristics of people I meet is that they have no skills, no tool box, they are waiting for the right opportunity to do anything. They will start to learn the right skills when they need them, when they"ll know what they want to do. And, of course, it is too late to dig a well when you are thirsty... they languish of thirst...

I am a lot like Bob in the movie "Bob The Butler".

I am inspired by that movie to do even more skill building to fill my tool box.

I am 70 years old. I have 27 skill sets, 27 ways to make a living. I am an architect. I am a brick mason. I can lay wooden floor, I can lay tiles both on the floor and on the wall. I can hang wallpaper. I am a plumber. etc. etc. etc. One time I counted. I have forgotten more professions than you know how to do.

What did this do to me? What did this do to Bob, the butler?



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For one, we, the Bob-the-butler-people, don"t have to get stuck if one door closes... we have other doors that are open.

The more tools you have, the more ways you can solve issues, the less ways you get stuck.


Of course, it is true that what gets you stuck is your voices... and the marker feelings... but, trust me, they talk a whole lot less if you have more successes and experiences under your belt. A whole lot less.

Of course if you are stingy, you won"t do what Bob the butler, or I did.

Because stingy means: you want every breath of yours to be worth it... instant result, instant reciprocation, instant payment.

I am OK paying it forward ( pay it forward by doing a good deed for someone else).

Of course being the recipient of a "blessing" in paying it forward is easier than being the one who says: here you go... pay it forward.

I am this second type... I live, I breathe, I exist in total abundance. I need for nothing. I want for nothing.

I think it is mainly a cultural thing: most people, maybe all people I know have more than I do. Some: a lot more. And most people are really stingy. ((Being stingy with their heart, with their time, with everything. The opposite of stingy is, surprisingly really, appreciation and gratitude. The source of abundance. Because abundance is a state of being, a state of mind. The state of flow. What blocks the flow is stinginess. Your stinginess.))

Bob is anything but stingy. Watch his behavior, his words don"t give him justice.

I wasn"t always like this. The "world" seems to foster craving, hunger, wanting, a sense that something is missing.

It began for me when I arrived to the United States, in 1985. Hungary wasn"t like that in 1982 when I left there, and Israel definitely wasn"t like that in the in-between years.

But here, in America, everything suggested that I should have more. ((I remember reading an article during my commute to work that suggested that I only buy stuff I need and not what I want. These were distinctions wholly alien to my mind... New. Unfamiliar. And corrupting me... they made me want even more.))

I don"t know if it was just me feeling other people"s feelings, or it was communicated with the voices... but it was oppressive. My desire number went sky high. And my happiness dropped to nothing.

At the time (till 1988) I worked as an architect for hire (through Architemps, a temporary employment agency) and I felt this "I should be having more, I should be somewhere else doing something else" tension in every muscle... I was miserable, and in addition to that, I was doing a poor job at my job... because I didn"t want to be there.

In the evenings and the weekends I was at the Landmark Center... At the time I was participant in a Landmark seminar: Excellence: in the Zone.

In the seminar, part of the seminar, I created a project to bring excellence to my job.

The technology of the seminar is simple: list your complaints in life. Then create a project around one of your complaints, and bring possibility to the area. I used this technique successfully in many Landmark Seminars... Complaints stood on their heads are giving you an amazing new view.

It is similar to the inversion technique where you want something, and you, instead of starting acting on what you want, you ask: what can I do, how can I be, that guarantees that I won"t have what I want?

The Anna Karenina Principle, the principle of the strait and narrow is based on this inversion, both the Landmark version, and the other... Brilliant.

You can see how this applies... The desire trap, the stinginess, the waiting for the right thing... Even the sweeping things under the rug! If you don"t see it, please ask me in the comments...

Doing my seminar project, transforming my job from misery to a place I bring excellence to, I hit on something profound: the more interruptions, the more negative energy I have in my space that says somewhere is better than here, the less excellence is possible... and the less I enjoy doing my job.

I"ll have an off-color analogy here: if you are surrounded by pictures of beautiful specimens of your preferred gender, sex will always pale in comparison to what you imagine it would be with those beautiful looking people. Desire trap.

Or food: if you are on Pinterest all day looking at good looking food, your simple dinner will be unsatisfying, and you"ll probably fill yourself with a lot of potato chips, or bread, or candy, to fill the void.

This is desire trap, and this desire trap is why you live in scarcity, and this is why you do only a so-so job at life...

...you don"t want to be here, doing this life, you want to live in that dream-life you imagined.

Almost every person I deal with through my site is trapped in the desire trap. Whether it is abundance, happiness, joy, meaning, peace, riches, health, love that you desire, you are trapped in the desire trap... and life is tasteless to you.

One of the hallmarks of the desire trap is being more present to what you don"t have than what you do have.

The opposite of abundance is stinginess.

The biggest fear you have is that by giving, you"ll be having even less than you have now... and you protect your desire as if it were the guarantee that you will have what you want.

I remember that I was deadly afraid to do anything, especially things that were connected to that desire, in fear of failing and then losing even the "hope" for fulfilling my desire.

It turned out that this approach was a definite paralyzing approach, an absolute misery maker.

Only when I was willing to take steps not connected to my desire that I was able to finally rid myself of the desire trap.

At some point in the 80"s I attended 12 step programs. First for Adult Children of dysfunctional families  (ACOA). And when I felt done with that, I started to attend Emotions Anonymous meetings. I was an angry person. I suppressed my anger and I needed to learn to release my anger so it wouldn"t kill me.

People in emotions anonymous were worse off even than myself.

One of them, a guy, lived not very far from me, yet I had to take two buses to get to his house.

I went there to visit him... I had no friends. No relatives. I was alone. I felt alone. I wanted to experience that I still belonged to the human race. I spent the afternoon and the evening with him. Then I didn"t see him at meetings, and asked around about him.

Turned out that after that afternoon, he snapped out of his depression, and started to work. He was doing well. He didn"t need the 12 step program any more.

Surprisingly the same thing happened to me! I also snapped out of my depression.

That simple one-time incident of being willing to be generous with my time, my warmth, my listening snapped ME out of MY depression... and the rest is history. I started a magazine, that was wildly successful. I still had periods when my life was about my life, and I slipped back into depression. Lately I have been able to stay out of depression... my life is not about my life any more.

There is a principle in this. Your life makes no sense when it"s about your life. It leads to depression. There are a lot of ways people express this principle... choose something bigger, etc.

Most people think it is giving your life to other people... but that is a misery maker too: some people are like a black hole, nothing comes back... lol. You need to choose yourself, be Self-ish, and give from that place. Only give away what is not really yours... your time, your love, your compassion. Not your Self. But give it fully, expecting nothing in return. The moment you do: you are stingy. And life is heading downward.

It"s like a rope-dance. Don"t lean too much to either side and then you can cross the abyss.

How to have a life not about your life?

You need to pick an idea, an idea bigger than just your life...

An idea that includes you and your life... but doesn"t stop there. In my case the idea that includes me and doesn"t stop with me is creating a methodology to take humans to the next level of evolution... it"s a purpose bigger than my life, it is unlikely and probably impossible to accomplish. Yet it is worth giving my life to it... As I am attempting the impossible, MY life gets enriched too. It is a win-win.

I like success. I like when people tell me: this was really great. Or I like to see you succeed. But I am not hooked on it... My life, the quality of my life doesn"t depend on my day to day success, or even on the success of my purpose in life.

Truth be told, I have to work on remembering that, occasionally. I used to have to work on it at least once a week. Now I can go 6-7-8 weeks not needing to unhook myself.

I am researching software solutions to create a community of people who would be willing to support each other to become a human being, to be productive, maybe even producers.

I have now four students who are learning how to do that. If I can teach them to be both generous and Self-ish, that will be a big step in the right direction to make their lives worth living.

I start small, and if and when it works, I ratchet it up.

I also do what I teach... 90% of the time. Not bad. 10%: I am still working on it.

I have found that my 10% is self-sabotage.

I have been trying really hard to choose myself. But when I say "I choose myself" I have a blank there. I don"t know what that would look like. I don"t know what that means.

One time, a few weeks ago, I succeeded. I said it differently: I am important to me. And suddenly I had a choice: to have a phone call or to buy myself grocery for the weekend. I chose buying the grocery. The sky did not collapse. Nobody yelled at me, and I was beaming.

This week I read a book, which would not be a big deal: I read at least one book every week... What was a big deal is that I read a book I didn"t know anything about.

I followed an advice from this guy who wrote "Hustle". He said: read a few pages in the Amazon preview, and if it grabs you, buy it. If it doesn"t, or you don"t want to spend the money, just read those pages.

I had massive fear... my conscientious (( wishing to do what is right, especially to do one"s work or duty well and thoroughly.
"a conscientious and hardworking clerk"
synonyms: diligent, industrious, punctilious, painstaking, sedulous, assiduous, dedicated, careful, meticulous, thorough, attentive, hard-working, studious, rigorous, particular;)) nature that makes me read books cover to cover was piping up. "Hell, we can try it!" I said brightly, and read a few pages from this book...

I know when I get "hooked" and I want to read the whole book... and this is how this book was.

I read it. I cried over it. I saw myself in it. I saw that I have a lot of stuff swept under the rug... and that stuff keeps me from taking care of myself. Keeps me from choosing myself.

In one of my articles this week I am talking about the method of alleviating depression. The same method will work to work through the "under the rug" stuff... coming to terms with it, removing some of the "is-ness". (My Playground method)

This is my self-project now. It will take as long as it takes. I don"t think it will ever disappear... but I"ll treat it as a the ball of yarn, I"ll snip away at it until I can restore flow.

Because when you cannot choose yourself, there is no flow in that area.

I am lucky. Most people I work with have a huge pile of stuff under their rug. I am going to be able to do this clean up project while I am dealing with their stuff... just like reading this book has helped tremendously.

Will my students be able to do it for each other. NO.

What kind of "listening" does a person must have to be helpful?

Listening is how you listen. Most people have a lot of stuff blocking their listening, they agree, they sympathize, they advise, they try to fix, they condone, they disagree. They judge. They turn the conversation to be about themselves. They narrate what you say. In essence they are lousy listeners.

Good listening is about the echo the speaker hears.

Just like echo is killed with stuff in a room, the person who is speaking cannot hear themselves in a listening that is full of "stuff".

Some people are naturally good listeners. Others need a lot of training...

If you don"t have a good listener, you need to find a professional listener. I am a 90% good listener. Why? I guess I bring my own stuff and that may muffle the echo.

I am sure this is the same 10% that is missing for me to be impeccable in other areas of life.

Impeccable is my favorite word... impeccable integrity... impeccability. Crisp. Beautiful.

PS: I spoke with my brother a few months ago. He said: take care of yourself. So maybe saying "I take care of myself" could be my phrase for "choosing myself".

This opens up a whole can of worms... not now. I need to work on this in my privacy. I don"t think you are ready for the can of worms... lol.

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I am working on starting the Soul Correction Coaching Program again... Both individual and group coaching. I am also thinking of writing a "book" on Soul Correction

Since I ran it last time, I managed to learn a lot. One of the things that I learned that people want your time and attention more than what you are selling... or what you think is the best you can give.

The joke in which the guy takes his car to the auto mechanic because the engine runs unevenly. The mechanic looks at it, ask him to add some gas, and then takes out a big hammer, and gently taps a spot under the hood. The engine suddenly is running smoothly.

The guy asks for the bill, and it"s 500 dollars. The guy, upset, yells... Five hundred dollars for five minute work? Oh, you want a detailed bill... here you go: Five minutes troubleshooting: $1, Knowing where to tap with the hammer: $499.

Now, what is most important to get, is that the guy with the car got what he paid for, and yet he is unhappy. He"ll share the injustice with anyone who is willing to listen. Why?

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