if it is not true everywhere it is not true anywhere

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what i am not saying in part 3 is that creating a new context is, in essence, what we are doing.

You got stuck in the behavior of a 3-4-year old and it is biting you in the ass today

I am writing nowadays a lot about your mental slothfulness, about your lack of knowledge, lack of understanding, and poor absorption of what you are seeing.

In a coaching call yesterday my student started to bring some clarity for me.

He calls it "nodding" when he has no idea what he just heard, or what he just read.

That is the visible part of this huge iceberg... but what is in the immersed part?

A night and a few hours pondering later, I am starting to see that this is what a 3-year old does.

At age three you start to get that you are a person, separate from your parents, or caretakers. This is a big step and scary as hell. Because you get that they know EVERYTHING and you know NOTHING, and that you are NOT EQUAL.

I put the important words that create horrid marker feelings, aka emotions.

They make you feel small, inferior, and put you in desperate survival mode. If you could be just equal to other people, if you could just know everything, everything would be all right, whispers the mind, and you listen.

So when someone wants to help you to tie your shoe laces, you protest, I know how... and they tie your shoe laces for you. Because, of course, they don"t believe you. Win number 1.

You pretended to know, and they gave you what you needed.

Now, fast forward a few years, and the same thing is happening: you pretend... and they do it for you.

But later, all the pretending gets you nothing... but the behavior remains. If you just pretend that you know, or that you understand, you will be OK.

So you never develop your capacity to get curious, to research, to ask questions, to assess if what you are reading hold any water.

You never actually learn anything.

Yesterday my student and I talked about drooling, which is the saliva spilling out through the open mouth.

So I asked if he knew why we drool. He didn"t... I suggested that he does research, and I went to google... and to my utter surprise, google and all the websites consider drooling something bad.

But it is natural to drool... if you know biology. Just know it on the elementary school level...

Turns out that my student knew nothing, and my guess is: you know nothing either... judging from your general level of ignorance.

But why would you be ignorant, is what I am pondering. Some of you have high IQ. Some of you are in graduate programs, some of you have professional degrees, like my student.



So why would you be ignorant? Makes no sense to me.

And why am I not ignorant?

And then I realized: when I pretended that I knew, no matter how old I was, they let me figure it out for myself. So I didn"t learn the trick you have: nod and you"ll look clever. I learned: do research, find out, ponder it until it"s clear to you.

But I am one in a million.

And today, when you come to my website, when you come to my webinars, my coaching program, you are trying to build something viable, something useful, something lasting on air.

In "writing school" they recommend writing for 10 year olds when you write for an adult audience. They know something i am just learning.

Unfortunately you want to read about topics, issues, that cannot be explained to a 10 year old.

My student got that he is building on air... and since yesterday enrolled in an online class on biology, and ordered some books. All to start building a foundation on which, when he nods his head, it will not be a pretense. And when something is not clear, he will be able to ask questions that are clarifying instead of forcing the coach/teacher to go back to fifth grade, and do the work for you. Ask questions of google that make sense. Be able to evaluate the search results and call b.s. when b.s. is due.

https://www.yourvibration.com/39348/reframing-age-meme/

How much of what you hear, read, see, gets through to you? And how much of it is replaced with noise? on the energies...

I had a webinar yesterday where I am talking with my students about the Avatar State Activator energies, and how to use them to get the most results.

If you are a subscriber, I am posting it in the subscribers" area on this page. You have to be a subscriber and confirm your email address to view that page.

It was a very interesting call: I learned a lot.

This has been the pattern lately. I do something, say something, and then shortly after I find out what people misunderstood. I explain that... and a few days later I find out, in a conversation, what people misunderstood.

Mind you, not that people ask about the misunderstand. When you misunderstand, you are sure you got exactly what I said. You have no inkling that you misunderstood. None.

You store away that "knowledge" as the truth...

This is what I measure in the Starting Point Measurements, when I measure how much of what I say, what is said, what you read, gets through to you. ((24. the percentage of input that gets through to you as it is said: no commentary, no "it is like...", no interpretation, no story: raw, the way it is said.. This number is a combination of your awareness number, your clarity number (vocabulary) and your coachability number.))

This number is very low across the whole population, and it is even low among my students.

Something misunderstood did not get through to you.

So after the webinar I was quite exhausted. Remember, what comes back to me, the exact echo of what I say, is what keeps me energized. Yesterday the echo gave me back seven percent of my energy. It will take some serious work on my end to replenish my full vessel...

Anyway, one of the questions came from one of my favorite students. He asked:

I have a question about the activators: is there a substantial difference between the Abundance Activator and Effortless Abundance Activator? I"ve got, and have been using the latter, the one with sea sounds in the background. If I remember correctly, you can use it to infuse your water, while you can"t do that with most other Avatar State Audios.

(I also have the Harmonizer, so I could switch to it, if it"s more suitable for any reason.)

I have many activator energies recorded. The voice carry the energy, so the recording works.

Now, I have two activators that work for abundance.

The infusible energy is a bundle of 192 individual energies and it is infusible into water, and that is the best and most effective way to use it. It is the Effortless Abundance Activator.

What do infusible energies do?

They lead you to the strait and narrow.

The Effortless Abundance Activator works to eliminate 192 ways you keep yourself in scarcity and cause for abundance not to be there.

192 ways! Count the ways... lol.

So the Effortless Abundance Activator works on the Anna Karenina Principle. It works. It also works co-creatively. Co-creative means something different in different areas. In the infusible energies (Heaven on Earth, Unconditional Love Activator, Effortless Abundance Activator) the blockages are emotional reactions to some scarcity, some fear, some having to, needing to, wanting to, or should. They work on the marker feelings directly, without addressing the words.

As long as the words remain the same, this blockage release is temporary. This is why these activators work best infused in your water best, because you need them 24/7.

And co-creative simply means: notice where you have the blockage, where in your body. The emotions article I published a few days ago should help. I bet you haven"t looked at the chart... So much about your intention to become all you can become... Ugh.

The next generation activators, the Avatar State Activators, attempt to lift you to the vertical plane, above the horizontal plane, and show your consciousness what errors you are making. Errors in thinking. Errors in seeing. Misunderstandings, misrepresentation, false interpretations, mis-heard truths.

So the Avatar State activators are leaving it to consciousness to make YOU aware the errors of your thinking, so YOU can correct it.

Fundamentally different approaches to wake you up.

With the Avatar State Activators you"ll see the words that cause the marker feelings.

In the moments when you are lifted... if ever.

What would make you not able to be lifted?

So far I have distinguished two ways. I have a hunch there are more.

• 1. You are fiercely unwilling to be lifted. In other places I call this attitude "belligerent" and the "champions" of this are the stingy soul corrections: Silent Partner, Finish What You Start, Sharing the Light, and Stop Fatal Attraction... there could be more, but these show up frequently on my calls.

What is missing humility. You know better... everything. You cover it up, but it is that: a coverup.

• 2. Your attitude towards co-creation: you are trying too hard. Or you don"t trust yourself. Or you don"t wanna... Baaah.

Between you and me, your Starting Point Measurements will tell me if you will or if you won"t.

Most people need a lot of work with words before they are truly ready for energies to do work effectively.

Instead, most people I observe, hope that energies will save the day, save themselves, and they won"t have to do any work.

How is it working out for you?

How much of what you hear, read, see, gets through to you? And how much of it is replaced with noise? on the energies...

I had a webinar yesterday where I am talking with my students about the Avatar State Activator energies, and how to use them to get the most results.

If you are a subscriber, I am posting it in the subscribers" area on this page. You have to be a subscriber and confirm your email address to view that page.

It was a very interesting call: I learned a lot.

This has been the pattern lately. I do something, say something, and then shortly after I find out what people misunderstood. I explain that... and a few days later I find out, in a conversation, what people misunderstood.

Mind you, not that people ask about the misunderstand. When you misunderstand, you are sure you got exactly what I said. You have no inkling that you misunderstood. None.

You store away that "knowledge" as the truth...

This is what I measure in the Starting Point Measurements, when I measure how much of what I say, what is said, what you read, gets through to you. ((24. the percentage of input that gets through to you as it is said: no commentary, no "it is like...", no interpretation, no story: raw, the way it is said.. This number is a combination of your awareness number, your clarity number (vocabulary) and your coachability number.))

This number is very low across the whole population, and it is even low among my students.

Something misunderstood did not get through to you.

So after the webinar I was quite exhausted. Remember, what comes back to me, the exact echo of what I say, is what keeps me energized. Yesterday the echo gave me back seven percent of my energy. It will take some serious work on my end to replenish my full vessel...

Anyway, one of the questions came from one of my favorite students. He asked:

I have a question about the activators: is there a substantial difference between the Abundance Activator and Effortless Abundance Activator? I"ve got, and have been using the latter, the one with sea sounds in the background. If I remember correctly, you can use it to infuse your water, while you can"t do that with most other Avatar State Audios.

(I also have the Harmonizer, so I could switch to it, if it"s more suitable for any reason.)

I have many activator energies recorded. The voice carry the energy, so the recording works.

Now, I have two activators that work for abundance.

The infusible energy is a bundle of 192 individual energies and it is infusible into water, and that is the best and most effective way to use it. It is the Effortless Abundance Activator.

What do infusible energies do?

They lead you to the strait and narrow.

The Effortless Abundance Activator works to eliminate 192 ways you keep yourself in scarcity and cause for abundance not to be there.

192 ways! Count the ways... lol.

So the Effortless Abundance Activator works on the Anna Karenina Principle. It works. It also works co-creatively. Co-creative means something different in different areas. In the infusible energies (Heaven on Earth, Unconditional Love Activator, Effortless Abundance Activator) the blockages are emotional reactions to some scarcity, some fear, some having to, needing to, wanting to, or should. They work on the marker feelings directly, without addressing the words.

As long as the words remain the same, this blockage release is temporary. This is why these activators work best infused in your water best, because you need them 24/7.

And co-creative simply means: notice where you have the blockage, where in your body. The emotions article I published a few days ago should help. I bet you haven"t looked at the chart... So much about your intention to become all you can become... Ugh.

The next generation activators, the Avatar State Activators, attempt to lift you to the vertical plane, above the horizontal plane, and show your consciousness what errors you are making. Errors in thinking. Errors in seeing. Misunderstandings, misrepresentation, false interpretations, mis-heard truths.

So the Avatar State activators are leaving it to consciousness to make YOU aware the errors of your thinking, so YOU can correct it.

Fundamentally different approaches to wake you up.

With the Avatar State Activators you"ll see the words that cause the marker feelings.

In the moments when you are lifted... if ever.

What would make you not able to be lifted?

So far I have distinguished two ways. I have a hunch there are more.

• 1. You are fiercely unwilling to be lifted. In other places I call this attitude "belligerent" and the "champions" of this are the stingy soul corrections: Silent Partner, Finish What You Start, Sharing the Light, and Stop Fatal Attraction... there could be more, but these show up frequently on my calls.

What is missing humility. You know better... everything. You cover it up, but it is that: a coverup.

• 2. Your attitude towards co-creation: you are trying too hard. Or you don"t trust yourself. Or you don"t wanna... Baaah.

Between you and me, your Starting Point Measurements will tell me if you will or if you won"t.

Most people need a lot of work with words before they are truly ready for energies to do work effectively.

Instead, most people I observe, hope that energies will save the day, save themselves, and they won"t have to do any work.

How is it working out for you?

A politically incorrect view at being inner directed

Some of my findings are so politically incorrect that I hold them back for a long time until I have further proof, or gather enough courage to take the beating that may come.

Yesterday, with the Days of Power, I filled up my vessel with The Light... and with that my courage is overflowing. I am not saying I am not afraid. Last night it took me two and a half hours to fall asleep instead of the now usual 30 minutes or less.

One of these is what I didn"t write in my last article on motivation, the spirit, the inner desire to become all you can become.

What I didn"t write in that article is that maybe all men were created equal 50 thousand years ago, but evolution left certain people, certain groups unevolving, and other groups evolving, because of what they were allowed to do, what they were encouraged to do, what they needed to do.

So, for example, in North America, the number of people who are born without an inner motivation, without the spirit that wants them to fly, is 50%. (The worldwide number is 40%).

England: 60%
Ireland: 70%
Germany: 40%
France: 30%
Netherlands: 20%
Hungary: 30%
Serbia: 50%
Poland: 30%
Russia: 50%
Greece: 60%
Israel: 20%
India: 60%
China: 50%
Korea: 20%
Singapore: 20%
Indonesia: 60%
Japan: 40%

I am not going to measure all the countries... but you get the gist of it: we are not born the same, and we are not the same. We have been shaped by the political/social environment for hundreds, thousands of years.

It is decided in you genes, just like the number of active spiritual capacities you are born with. Most people are born with no capacities active.

But while you can activate spiritual capacities, muscle test says you cannot activate the inner spirit, the inner motivation.

It is good to know what is your starting point.

Your job is not to be better than other people, your job is to become the best you you can become.

It is possible to have a decent life without the innate desire... you"ll be guided by outer desire.

When you don"t have the innate desire, you won"t really miss it. The spirit won"t nudge you, your desire to have more is going to be all ego driven, survival driven.

Survival: the genes are only interested in two things: individual survival and species survival. Individual survival is fear based, species survival is lust based (reproduction.)

Being innate motivated, the spirit, flies in the face of fear, flies in the face of danger. The spirit is not concerned with survival, the spirit is not concerned with reproduction.

The spirit is only interested that there be flying.

"If I don’t manage to fly, someone else will. The spirit wants only that there be flying. As for who happens to do it, in that he has only a passing interest." – Rainer Maria Rilke

More quotes that speak to the people where the spirit is active and nudges you to do:

"We cannot put off living until we are ready. The most salient characteristic of life is its coerciveness; it is always urgent, "here and now" without any possible postponement. Life is fired at us point blank." – Orgega Y Gasset

"Much will be required of the person entrusted with much, and still more will be demanded of the person entrusted with more."
– Luke 12:48, The New Testament

"The reasonable man adapts himself to the conditions that surround him…
The unreasonable man adapts surrounding conditions to himself… All progress depends on the unreasonable man."
– George Bernard Shaw

"If I were to wish for anything, I should not wish for wealth and power, but for the passionate sense of the potential, for the eye which, ever young and ardent, sees the possible. Pleasure disappoints, possibility never. And what wine is so sparkling, what so fragrant, what so intoxicating as possibility!"
– Kierkegaard, Either/Or

"Where there is no vision, the people perish."
– Proverbs 29:18, The Bible

The question is: is the number of people with an active inner motivation, with an active spirit is growing or dwindling?

To my surprise the number is dwindling. 2000 years ago it was 40%, now it is 30%.

Why? The answer is actually quite simple:

People who are motivated by the spirit, don"t have time or desire to have lots of children. While people who live by an outside motivation, a should, have many children. They fill the inner emptiness with creating more and more outer motivation.

They inherit their DNA... and we can see the result.

When Ayn Rand writes about "producers" she actually writes about people who are inner directed. Who do their work with and inner must, not the paycheck, not the "I must put in my time", not the homework mentality. Instead, the work is their self-expression.

How do you know if you belong to the inner motivation people or the outer motivation people who were born without an inner motivation?

Religion, spirit guides, angels... if you need them, if you love them, you probably do need them, because you are without inner guidance.

In my Starting Point Measurement four measures point to this:

11. To what degree you think of yourself: This is the inverse humility number. If you have yourself in the center of the filter through with you look at events, things to do, reality, you can see that your view cannot change, because consciousness is fixed, anchored, and the view of life cannot change. This is the most important number that determines to what degree your door can open or not.
17. how enslaved are you to memes? (what percentage of your life is run by memes?) Memes act as the opposite of grease... the higher this number the more sticky, rusted hinges will behave.
23. the percentage of time you spend in the mind: This number is the inverse of the awareness number... you cannot be aware inside the mind.
25. How inspired can you become? And what level are you now... This number shows your intrinsic/internal motivation. The energy you have available after all the having to, needing to, wanting to and should. The more the shoulds drive you, the less you are willing to change, the less inner directed you are.

Ultimately #25 is the most accurate.

With people who are inner directed, innately motivated, my work is easier... after a certain amount of stuff removed.

The most important removal tool I have is the Playground process, where we remove the story by pointing out that it"s made up. And once this practice becomes instinctual, the person with a live spirit will start to pay more heed to the inner spirit"s calling than the carrot and the stick world out there.

About 80% of the people who visit my site are searching for something outside of themselves to take them out of their emptiness. They are desperate for something that works.

10% of the site"s visitors, with proper training, can recover/awaken their inner spirit, the spirit that wants that there be flying.

The rest is not interested: the spirit isn"t pointing it out to them that they need to be trained, that they need to be trainable.

The people who are in the Playground program right now all experience inner tension between what the "world" wants, what the genes want, and what the inner spirit wants.

To the degree they are trainable, to the degree they can hear what is being said accurately, to the same degree they can turn their lives over to the inner spirit and start on the climb of self-actualization. Do what they were born to do.

Now, here is the bad news: what resonates with the Avatar State Activator Audios, what allows the energy lift you up to the Avatar State, is the inner spirit.

In the moments of being in the Avatar State the spirit experiences flying, and get re-energized by that. No spirit: no Avatar State.

Avatar State is not the normal state of any person, including very high vibration people. It is a special state one can enter for seconds at a time.

I discovered that state and the method to enter it by accident. In one of our "moving the self" classes, years ago, it came as a surprise, a wow experience.

At first I had difficulty doing it again... and had to use the recording of the class session for lifting myself up to the Avatar State.

I can do it at will now, but I still mostly do it with the help of that same audio. It is playing in the background 24 hours a day. I overlap it with different "themes", different flavors, but the base audio is the same.

Playing that audio and entering Avatar State occasionally may be the secret of me being able to stay high vibration, and to my integrity, this frequent entering the Avatar State.

The expression Avatar State is from the Nickelodeon animated movies. I don"t know what else avatar may mean to you, but that is not what I am talking about.

Many avatars in that series were nasty people, not high vibration. They had access to all four elements and could move them and use them as weapons. Earth, water, air, and fire. And in the Avatar State they could use all four at the same time.

Being in the Avatar State doesn"t directly raise your vibration. It allows you to get in touch with the living spirit in you, if you have one.

If you are part of the minority.

If you are wholly outward directed, (religion, angels, spirit guides, worldly success, goals, results) it probably won"t do anything for you. You may imagine that it does, but imagination is a mind thing, not an inner spirit thing. When you imagine, you are fully in the mind.

This is why Measure #23 is indicative of the presence of a spirit... or not.

Nearly every book, nearly every article, every video, every movie is made for the people who want to carve out a life for themselves without the help of the spirit.

You are not alone. And you don"t have to grieve about what you don"t have.

Your job is to do the best with what you have. ((here is a 2% truth value article, directed at you, on Huffington Post. Great consolation. Politically correct, and obviously doesn"t agree with what I say. Go there and feel better.))

When you ask: what should I do with my life, do what Tai Lopez recommends in this Eulerian Destiny step, Finding your Eulerian destiny:

• What did you grow up around?


• What have you had strangers feedback/compliments on?


• What have you been doing for the past 10 years? (the 10,000 years or 10 dark years)


• What can you talk about effortlessly to your friends and family? (e.g. sports, gardening, politics)

Find where the above four points meet in the middle, this will give you a great idea of your Eulerian destiny.

And whether you have an active spirit or not, to do well, professionally, in a global community of about eight billion people, you need to become a polymath... so with your unique combination of skills, interests, and expertise, you can rise to the top and succeed.

The Eulerian destiny gives you the main strength, and you pick compatible strengths to create your edge effect.

But if you become a person who dabbles... oops. That is not going to take you to the good life, whether you have an alive spirit or not.

In today"s webinar (Sep 26, 2018, 4 pm EST) I will talk more about the Avatar State and the activator. I will also accept requests to muscle test if you were born with an inner spirit, and if you were: to what degree it is active in you.

You can register here to the webinar. You will need a working microphone. I won"t accept written requests. You will be added to my mailing list. If you don"t confirm, I"ll remove you from the webinar. Something for something.

A politically incorrect view at being inner directed

Some of my findings are so politically incorrect that I hold them back for a long time until I have further proof, or gather enough courage to take the beating that may come.

Yesterday, with the Days of Power, I filled up my vessel with The Light... and with that my courage is overflowing. I am not saying I am not afraid. Last night it took me two and a half hours to fall asleep instead of the now usual 30 minutes or less.

One of these is what I didn"t write in my last article on motivation, the spirit, the inner desire to become all you can become.

What I didn"t write in that article is that maybe all men were created equal 50 thousand years ago, but evolution left certain people, certain groups unevolving, and other groups evolving, because of what they were allowed to do, what they were encouraged to do, what they needed to do.

So, for example, in North America, the number of people who are born without an inner motivation, without the spirit that wants them to fly, is 50%. (The worldwide number is 40%).

England: 60%
Ireland: 70%
Germany: 40%
France: 30%
Netherlands: 20%
Hungary: 30%
Serbia: 50%
Poland: 30%
Russia: 50%
Greece: 60%
Israel: 20%
India: 60%
China: 50%
Korea: 20%
Singapore: 20%
Indonesia: 60%
Japan: 40%

I am not going to measure all the countries... but you get the gist of it: we are not born the same, and we are not the same. We have been shaped by the political/social environment for hundreds, thousands of years.

It is decided in you genes, just like the number of active spiritual capacities you are born with. Most people are born with no capacities active.

But while you can activate spiritual capacities, muscle test says you cannot activate the inner spirit, the inner motivation.

It is good to know what is your starting point.

Your job is not to be better than other people, your job is to become the best you you can become.

It is possible to have a decent life without the innate desire... you"ll be guided by outer desire.

When you don"t have the innate desire, you won"t really miss it. The spirit won"t nudge you, your desire to have more is going to be all ego driven, survival driven.

Survival: the genes are only interested in two things: individual survival and species survival. Individual survival is fear based, species survival is lust based (reproduction.)

Being innate motivated, the spirit, flies in the face of fear, flies in the face of danger. The spirit is not concerned with survival, the spirit is not concerned with reproduction.

The spirit is only interested that there be flying.

"If I don’t manage to fly, someone else will. The spirit wants only that there be flying. As for who happens to do it, in that he has only a passing interest." – Rainer Maria Rilke

More quotes that speak to the people where the spirit is active and nudges you to do:

"We cannot put off living until we are ready. The most salient characteristic of life is its coerciveness; it is always urgent, "here and now" without any possible postponement. Life is fired at us point blank." – Orgega Y Gasset

"Much will be required of the person entrusted with much, and still more will be demanded of the person entrusted with more."
– Luke 12:48, The New Testament

"The reasonable man adapts himself to the conditions that surround him…
The unreasonable man adapts surrounding conditions to himself… All progress depends on the unreasonable man."
– George Bernard Shaw

"If I were to wish for anything, I should not wish for wealth and power, but for the passionate sense of the potential, for the eye which, ever young and ardent, sees the possible. Pleasure disappoints, possibility never. And what wine is so sparkling, what so fragrant, what so intoxicating as possibility!"
– Kierkegaard, Either/Or

"Where there is no vision, the people perish."
– Proverbs 29:18, The Bible

The question is: is the number of people with an active inner motivation, with an active spirit is growing or dwindling?

To my surprise the number is dwindling. 2000 years ago it was 40%, now it is 30%.

Why? The answer is actually quite simple:

People who are motivated by the spirit, don"t have time or desire to have lots of children. While people who live by an outside motivation, a should, have many children. They fill the inner emptiness with creating more and more outer motivation.

They inherit their DNA... and we can see the result.

When Ayn Rand writes about "producers" she actually writes about people who are inner directed. Who do their work with and inner must, not the paycheck, not the "I must put in my time", not the homework mentality. Instead, the work is their self-expression.

How do you know if you belong to the inner motivation people or the outer motivation people who were born without an inner motivation?

Religion, spirit guides, angels... if you need them, if you love them, you probably do need them, because you are without inner guidance.

In my Starting Point Measurement four measures point to this:

11. To what degree you think of yourself: This is the inverse humility number. If you have yourself in the center of the filter through with you look at events, things to do, reality, you can see that your view cannot change, because consciousness is fixed, anchored, and the view of life cannot change. This is the most important number that determines to what degree your door can open or not.
17. how enslaved are you to memes? (what percentage of your life is run by memes?) Memes act as the opposite of grease... the higher this number the more sticky, rusted hinges will behave.
23. the percentage of time you spend in the mind: This number is the inverse of the awareness number... you cannot be aware inside the mind.
25. How inspired can you become? And what level are you now... This number shows your intrinsic/internal motivation. The energy you have available after all the having to, needing to, wanting to and should. The more the shoulds drive you, the less you are willing to change, the less inner directed you are.

Ultimately #25 is the most accurate.

With people who are inner directed, innately motivated, my work is easier... after a certain amount of stuff removed.

The most important removal tool I have is the Playground process, where we remove the story by pointing out that it"s made up. And once this practice becomes instinctual, the person with a live spirit will start to pay more heed to the inner spirit"s calling than the carrot and the stick world out there.

About 80% of the people who visit my site are searching for something outside of themselves to take them out of their emptiness. They are desperate for something that works.

10% of the site"s visitors, with proper training, can recover/awaken their inner spirit, the spirit that wants that there be flying.

The rest is not interested: the spirit isn"t pointing it out to them that they need to be trained, that they need to be trainable.

The people who are in the Playground program right now all experience inner tension between what the "world" wants, what the genes want, and what the inner spirit wants.

To the degree they are trainable, to the degree they can hear what is being said accurately, to the same degree they can turn their lives over to the inner spirit and start on the climb of self-actualization. Do what they were born to do.

Now, here is the bad news: what resonates with the Avatar State Activator Audios, what allows the energy lift you up to the Avatar State, is the inner spirit.

In the moments of being in the Avatar State the spirit experiences flying, and get re-energized by that. No spirit: no Avatar State.

Avatar State is not the normal state of any person, including very high vibration people. It is a special state one can enter for seconds at a time.

I discovered that state and the method to enter it by accident. In one of our "moving the self" classes, years ago, it came as a surprise, a wow experience.

At first I had difficulty doing it again... and had to use the recording of the class session for lifting myself up to the Avatar State.

I can do it at will now, but I still mostly do it with the help of that same audio. It is playing in the background 24 hours a day. I overlap it with different "themes", different flavors, but the base audio is the same.

Playing that audio and entering Avatar State occasionally may be the secret of me being able to stay high vibration, and to my integrity, this frequent entering the Avatar State.

The expression Avatar State is from the Nickelodeon animated movies. I don"t know what else avatar may mean to you, but that is not what I am talking about.

Many avatars in that series were nasty people, not high vibration. They had access to all four elements and could move them and use them as weapons. Earth, water, air, and fire. And in the Avatar State they could use all four at the same time.

Being in the Avatar State doesn"t directly raise your vibration. It allows you to get in touch with the living spirit in you, if you have one.

If you are part of the minority.

If you are wholly outward directed, (religion, angels, spirit guides, worldly success, goals, results) it probably won"t do anything for you. You may imagine that it does, but imagination is a mind thing, not an inner spirit thing. When you imagine, you are fully in the mind.

This is why Measure #23 is indicative of the presence of a spirit... or not.

Nearly every book, nearly every article, every video, every movie is made for the people who want to carve out a life for themselves without the help of the spirit.

You are not alone. And you don"t have to grieve about what you don"t have.

Your job is to do the best with what you have. ((here is a 2% truth value article, directed at you, on Huffington Post. Great consolation. Politically correct, and obviously doesn"t agree with what I say. Go there and feel better.))

When you ask: what should I do with my life, do what Tai Lopez recommends in this Eulerian Destiny step, Finding your Eulerian destiny:

• What did you grow up around?


• What have you had strangers feedback/compliments on?


• What have you been doing for the past 10 years? (the 10,000 years or 10 dark years)


• What can you talk about effortlessly to your friends and family? (e.g. sports, gardening, politics)

Find where the above four points meet in the middle, this will give you a great idea of your Eulerian destiny.

And whether you have an active spirit or not, to do well, professionally, in a global community of about eight billion people, you need to become a polymath... so with your unique combination of skills, interests, and expertise, you can rise to the top and succeed.

The Eulerian destiny gives you the main strength, and you pick compatible strengths to create your edge effect.

But if you become a person who dabbles... oops. That is not going to take you to the good life, whether you have an alive spirit or not.

In today"s webinar (Sep 26, 2018, 4 pm EST) I will talk more about the Avatar State and the activator. I will also accept requests to muscle test if you were born with an inner spirit, and if you were: to what degree it is active in you.

You can register here to the webinar. You will need a working microphone. I won"t accept written requests. You will be added to my mailing list. If you don"t confirm, I"ll remove you from the webinar. Something for something.

Ambition, motivation, and will power... which one will give you a life worth living?

Today the sky is open and the motive power of the Universe can be downloaded. I"ll be doing it in a few minutes.

That energy, the Day of Power energy is what powers the spirit inside. The spirit that expresses itself, makes itself felt in you. If you refuse to move with it, the pressure is tremendous. In creativity it is the energy that pushes you to go beyond the limitation of the horizontal plane.

This article examines what makes you move, choose, act... Worth reading.


You want to be someone who can do things, who want to do things, who actually does things? This article will answer some of your questions on how to become that person.

I am reading a book, Diet Cults. The author and the book itself is as cultish as the diet cults it writes about, nevertheless it is worth my time to read it.

One thing I found interesting in this book is this "dissertation" about the importance and the effect of motivation in losing weight and maintaining the weight loss once the ideal weight is achieved.

What he is saying is that one needs a motivation, which I would rename, for the purposes of clarity, an outside or inside goal... According to the dictionary, "the reason or reasons one has for acting or behaving in a particular way." Or secondarily "the general desire or willingness of someone to do something"

But if you look at the root of the word, motivation is a power that moves you. Motivation is literally the desire to do things.

• MOTIVATION: Something inner, something emotional or soul based...A subtle inner force.


• AMBITION is similar, but it has a definite goal in mind, and what pulls and moves a person is a desire to achieve that definite goal.


• WILL POWER means, again according to the dictionary: "the faculty by which a person decides on and initiates action" "a control deliberately exerted to do something or to restrain one"s own impulses."It is like a push to start... or alternatively a push to refrain from starting.

So which one would you rather have? Motivation, ambition, or will power?

• If you have bad habits, which will pull you out and will keep you out most effectively?


• Which one will get you out of bed early and pull you to put on your walking shoes when you are tired while the bed is beckoning?


• Which one will stop your hand halfway to your mouth with the cookie or chocolate you swore you would lay off?

My hunch is that it is indeed MOTIVATION.

Why? Because motivation seems to be an ongoing, 24 hours a day power, a power that gently moves you, or tries to move you. It tries, it nudges you until you are ready to move.

Ambition, because it is going for a wholly outside of you, worldly result, will make you a fanatic, a workaholic, an overachiever, much like greed.

Ambition is so strong, that it may even make you step on other people to achieve what you set out to achieve.

And will power makes you brittle, and gritting teeth... no lightness, no grace in it. Forcing. Strong arming you. Ugh.

But, the question is, how do you get motivated if you find there is no motivation inside.

Thousands of motivational speakers have discovered that most people have little or no motivation, but would like results nevertheless. So they talk... but the effect of their talks is temporary at best.

The same is the purpose of the millions of inspirational memes on the internet: to motivate and inspire people, but without an inner source of motivation, they don"t even make a ripple on the dead inner surface of most people.

Why are people dead? Were they born dead inside?

My hunch is that low or no motivation is often born with... and the rest of unmotivated people, about 30% of that crowd, is the lasting effect of parental disapproval syndrome: on one hand wanting to please the parent, on the other hand only perfection pleases the parent, so people first try and then give up.

But what if you were born without motivation? According to my conversations with Source, entire cultures of people are born without motivation.

Motivation is a sign that a self is present. A person with a self is further along in evolutionary terms than a person without a self. The self is a uniquely human phenomenon.

Each and every person can awaken the self... and I have students who have, or who are working on it...

Once the self becomes fully available, motivation, inner motivation becomes also available... And of course there are degrees.

On average, measured today, the self is opened up on average about 7%. This average includes the 40% of humanity with not even an inkling of self, and the people with different degrees of flowering. It"s an average of all the people on the planet.

I have found that reading my articles, and especially participating in my coaching program, nudges the self, and for most, if there is any motivation inside, it inevitably awakens the self.

So what can you do if you don"t want to read my articles and don"t want to be in my coaching programs?

You can do what the articles on other sites say you should do: find external motivation, or pray for rain.

I have been testing a third method: altering your self-image... I"ll report on my findings in this same forum.

PS: Many people have buried, have hidden their motivation. Why? They can only take so much disappointment. Pain. Let-down. So they hide it and so something reasonable instead, like a job.

These are the people I would most like to have in my programs... because they can get the most results out of them.

I have found that these people need to be asked questions, the right questions, before they allow you to see the hidden, precious, bruised inner ambition.

And when it comes out, then gently nudge it to flowering.

The Juice exercise (expensive), questions in books, questions in TV shows (like “Don’t you want to do something that only YOU can do?” in The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel (Amazon), or accidental questions you hear as if it were asked of you (the cocktail party effect), or ferreted out (like in the color exercise) will eventually dig out the buried treasure.

Motivation is for doing, not for having. Motivation is the human spirit wanting to fly, and is hurting until it does.

And if you have it, or if you can strengthen it by pulling back the desire trap ((the desire trap is a mind working. It jumps over doing, jumps over life, and takes you to the experience directly. And while you life a puny, desperate life, it gives you the experience whenever you think of it. Shitty life plus desire trap equals a shitty life)) that dampens it, takes the wind out of its sail, you are going to live a life worth living.

PPS: The Avatar State Activators (the audios that can take you to the Avatar State, are an invaluable state-changers, where you, for the moments you work with the energy by sticking your chest out, allow you to get glimpses of your inner spirit by liberating it, by allowing it to fly... for those moments. The more often you do this, the faster you"ll get in touch with your motivation... motivation is just another word for inner spirit.

Get outside of the nine dots

After yesterday"s article I got an email from one of the readers asking if solving jigsaw puzzles will develop their eye muscles to enable them to see the bigger picture and to see the deeper picture.

It doesn"t.

So I started to ponder and spent my day pondering about the topic: seeing, creativity, innovation, cone of vision, and what is the difference between extraordinary people and ordinary people.

I have found that extraordinary people don"t necessarily have more brain cells... but they habitually use more spiritual capacities that allows them to play with a fuller deck.

If you look at yourself, you almost always look for things where you know they are, or where you think they are.

In your mind, or when they belong, or where you normally put them.

So you stick to a defined area to look for them.

You have the box cover as people who play jigsaw puzzle have, so you know what the finished product will look like. You know what you are looking for.

You can solve a jigsaw puzzle using a penlight to find the fitting pieces. And if you have the piece, you"ll find it.

This is one level of puzzle solving.

• This is what "normal" police detectives do: they look for motive and opportunity, and they have their fitting piece, and they put that fitting piece to prison.


• This is what "normal" medical doctors do: they look for symptoms, compare them with the "box cover" and then treat the disease the box cover says you have.


• This is also what psychologists do... this is what economists do... this is what governments do...

Their combined truth value is 7%. Which means: they are 93% wrong.

This is normally what you do: you make decisions from the information available to you, to fit your solution to the "box cover".

Now, not surprisingly, I am interested in you having a life that has a higher truth value than 1%.

My training of you, my coaching or you, my teaching of you, my energy products are designed to bring you up from your starting truth value to 7% and above.

What? you ask, and you are offended.

But truth be told, a normal person lives, makes decisions, works, eats, loves with a combined truth value of 1%.

The truth value is a comparative number. It compares what you know accurately with the truth that is available.

A PhD"s truth value, in his chosen field, is 7%, while their truth value, across all areas of life, is 1%.

So I am not insulting you. In your chosen field, if you have one, you may have a higher truth value.

And when you are using your penlight size search light inside the area that you are searching, your average truth value remains the same.

Let"s take a few examples of people you can, you may know from television:

• Dr. House, the diagnostic genius. His average truth value, in life, is 1%
  his knowledge all things medical, is 7%
  His results, his accuracy, in diagnostics is 50%.


• Countless detectives, my latest favorite: Brenda Leigh Johnson from The Closer: truth value regarding all of life: 1%,
  Her results, her accuracy of finding the perpetrator: 30%. If she left her staff do the work, they would have the standard 7% accuracy.

I am getting these numbers from muscle testing while I am connected to Source. So the answers don"t come from my knowledge, because I only know what the shows show me... mighty little. But Source knows the cases I don"t see as well.

• Sherlock Holmes from British author Sir Arthur Conan Doyle: savvy, truth value in life: 1%. Accuracy in finding the perpetrator: 40%.

Now, the question on your mind should be: where does the discrepancy come from, the increased accuracy over the standard 7%?

The answer is: from left field.

Left field is an idiom. To originate from a surprising or strange place. ("Left field" is the metaphorical origin of something uncommon, unpopular, or otherwise strange.) That suggestion certainly came from left field! How did you come up with that one?

A question, statement, or event which comes from left field or comes out of left field is completely unexpected. The question came out of left field, but Mary Ann wasn"t really surprised. This letter sort of came out of left field. Compare with left-field. Note: In baseball, left field is part of the outfield. A ball is said to come out of left field when the pitcher throws it in such a way that it seems to come out of nowhere.

Said in another way:

the famous doctor, the famous detective, the famous inventors, famous painters, whose results don"t match the expected results get a piece of the puzzle, an insight from outside the area a "normal", an average person searches for clues.

Same with any of the famous billionaires, famous inventors, famous writers, famous composers. They get their inspiration from outside of the "normal" playground, what we can call the "box cover" of the jigsaw puzzle.

So how do you get access to the "left field" from where the unexpected solutions come from?

Yes, that is the million dollar question.

Observing the people/characters who have access to the left field, you will notice that they don"t jump into conclusions. They remain open. Their brain, their eyes, their ears remain open, unfocused. They cast their net without prejudice.

The clue can come from anyone, the clue can come from anywhere... they remain open.

This is, by the way, humility in action.

The more willing you are to be the bumbling idiot, the clueless klutz, the incompetent, the wider you can cast your net, the more willing you are to hear what will give you a clue.

They call this the "cocktail party effect", where you can hear, in the noise of a party, the piece you need, over the noise, spoken in the other end of the room.

This is what we try to activate in the "color exercise" that no one takes seriously after they find three objects with the exact color.

Why? Because it is a capacity, a spiritual capacity that is activated in people who dare to look outside of the box, outside of the nine dots, outside of the box cover.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c9d78k7T0R4

0.6 percent of humanity has it. It is the needed capacity to have a life that worth writing home about.

In every program of mine, the human error, the misunderstanding, the failure to come from your inability, your incuriousness of what you don"t know is causing your lack of success, not the program.

The lack of looking outside your tiny box.

You don"t ask, and don"t hear, that my energies are co-creative, so you have to DO something that is not your usual doing.

In the Playground we look to separate what happened, reality, the facts, stuff that can be measured, and has a beginning, a middle and an end, and the words that the "event", the "incident", the reality comes with or we would not know it happened.

Without words you don"t know that something is happening, or like dogs, you would only know some things... like going to the vet, or dinner.

So there are always words, but they are not telling the truth, they are not part of what happened, they are placed on the top of them, like a wig on your head... they don"t belong, they are an addition.

I write about the method that when fully utilized, when it is made instinctual, reliably raises your level of happiness, effectiveness, finances, relationships, life satisfaction by 60% in another article.

It"s the Playground method.

I had a conversation with a student today that opened my eyes to a bunch of reasons why you don"t hear me, why you can"t even use what I teach: no exception.

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The same things that keep you poor, unhealthy, unhappy, unfulfilled will also make you not hear some of the call... some of what is being said. Also no exceptions.

But the more you hear, the closer you get to be able to change some attitudes and some behavior that are preventing you from learning anything new. Learning to see new, learning to hear new, learning to do new.

Understanding is the booby prize... and you have a tendency to be satisfied with the booby prize... And of course it is your business, your life, who am I to tell you to not be satisfied.

But if you want a better life, you better not stop at understanding. Why? Because your understanding is worthless... and in addition, your understanding is more misunderstanding more of the time than you care to consider.

I measure that proportion in the Starting Point Measurements.

Measure #24. the percentage of input that gets through to you. This number is a combination of your awareness number and your coachability number. The higher that number is the more chance you have that you heard and understood accurately what was being said.

The average level of humanity is 1%. The average humility level of high achievers is 30%. The average level of my students, my paying students is 7%. Meaning that 93% goes way over your head... because you have no foundation to hear it.

But obviously students also started at 1%, and built enough foundation to raise their level to 7%.

I know I am the messenger, the bringer of bad news.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JOvjIAbB2i8

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uFJBgnCMk-E

Been there done that! the fixed mindset and how it prevents you from changing yourself and your life...

How the notes you take, the stories you tell, put blinders on you and prevent you from growing...

As a coach, I will send you back to the same book, the same video a number of times. My intention is that you watch it... But some students won"t watch it again, they go to their notes, and read them instead. In their mind they say: I have done that... I know! And they kill their chance to see how much they have grown, and their chance to allow their consciousness to see something different.

This is the same mechanism that your stories remain the same. You say the same thing at age 50 as what you said at age six. If the stories you tell remain the same, then be sure: you have remained the same.

http://evp-50116959de4b9-dd521b5ed563ee25508422182c681a30.s3.amazonaws.com/story-you-tell.mp4

Telling what happened the same way is the most important way fixed mindset manifests.

Fixed mindset violates the adage: you can"t step in the same river twice...

The well translated (from Greek) quote is "“No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it’s not the same river and he’s not the same man.”

If you think that the river is the same, or if you think you are the same, you have a fixed mindset. And even if you have changed, you won"t know... you will not allow what you consciously see become different.

What do I mean?

The seed level on which I base my coaching is that the basis of your existence is what you see. It gives you the second part of the "occurrence", what you perceive happens, and your actions will be in a perfect correlation, in a perfect dance with what you see: the occurrence.

So my job, as a "change agent", a coach, is to use what I have available to myself, as tools to change what you see, the occurrence.

The "thing" you look at can be life, events, other people, and yourself.

I am rarely able to change the reality part of occurrence (occurrence=reality+what you say about it), but more often than not, that has already happened, so I can only change the "what you say about it" part, that is, depending on the level of your fixed mindset, can change a little bit or a lot.

When occurrence thus changes, your further actions and what you say about life, yourself, can change.

That is the whole secret of growth, that is the whole secret of coaching, that is the whole secret of self-actualization.

I bring the new angle of looking, I bring the speaking.

Your job is to come around and look from the new angle, to allow YOUR speaking to change.

It sounds easy, but there are obstacles, sticky hinges...

Occurrence is like a door than swings on sticky hinges. The stickier the hinges the less willing the door will be to swing, and the more likely it will automatically return to its original position when you are not looking.

So what makes the hinges sticky?

We"ll look at it through the starting point measurements.

• 1. your vibration (1-1000): Your vibration is a combo number that tells me from what height and with what accuracy you look at reality. When this is a low number, your height and accuracy will be lacking, and you will listen to what I say as my opinion, my good idea, but you actually won"t be able to see it yourself.


• 2. your overall intelligence, emotional, intellectual, spiritual, body, relationship, etc.: This is also a combination number, that grades your aptitude to see reality in different areas of life and respond accurately. This number is a percentage, instead of the vibration number, which is a logarithmic number. Your overall intelligence shows a percentage: to what degree you can work with what you have, instead of comparing you to other people.
  
  If you don"t have much to work with, but you use what you have brilliantly, your overall intelligence can be a high number. But most people "sport" a really low number, meaning that they have a lot of room to grow.


• 3. the number of spiritual capacities you have: There are 160 spiritual capacities hardwired in your DNA. They are dormant, inactive, unusable in most people. They will turn on when you actually do things, regularly, that need them.
  
  Most people never do anything regularly that turns on capacities. This number is a very reliable indicator of a fixed mindset: you see yourself unchanged, and unchangeable: fixed, and you refuse to do things you are not already suited for.


• 4. your soul correction (your machine): There are soul corrections that are more fixed mindset than others https://www.yourvibration.com/sc


• 5. do you have attachments? Attachments can be so irritating, or so "leash-like" that you have no mind to spare for change. this is true to all attachment-like phenomena: placed on you by a malicious person, your soul fragments you denied, your base belief about yourself, or the "anchor to doom" around which you circle the drain. I talk about these somewhere else.


• 6. the level of your health (1-100): The higher your health number, the more energy you have above mere survival... so this number directly influences how fixed is your few: survival mode, scarcity mode is a fixed view of the world and yourself.


• 7. the level of your cell hydration (1-100): Same as the health number.


• 8. your relationship to feedback and instruction: Of course, if your attitude to input is that it"s judgment, right/wrong, an attack, you won"t allow feedback and instruction to move you and move the door... This is a very significant reason most people cannot and will not grow.


• 9. The level of discomfort you are willing to allow w/o trying to fix it. This is your TLB score... Growth, change are inherently scary. It is natural to be afraid. You will have a hard time allowing yourself to go with change and even if you change, this is the force that returns the door to the original position where life was comfortable and you didn"t have to feel discomfort.


• 10. The size of your vocabulary: the number of words you can use accurately: This is a filter that causes you to not hear, not see anything that you haven"t already seen and decided about. If this number doesn"t change during your coaching, I know that I am failing. It"s hard work to raise this number. Reading and pondering changes it. Pondering is connecting the dots of reality differently than before. Busy people don"t ponder. They chase the next thing to do: no pondering.


• 11. To what degree you think of yourself: This is the inverse humility number. If you have yourself in the center of the filter through with you look at events, things to do, reality, you can see that your view cannot change, because consciousness is fixed, anchored, and the view of life cannot change. This is the most important number that determines to what degree your door can open or not.


• 12. % of fixed mindset: This is a combo number, and in my experience isn"t an accurate representation of your willingness you change your mind.


• 13. Ambition: A higher ambition number indicates a higher willingness to make changes, and to actually invest energy into making things happen


• 14. Desire: A high desire number indicates a desire trap. As with any trap, this number shows in reverse how far you are willing to go from the fixed view of life to get what you want. A high desire number indicates blinders.


• 15. Degree of inauthenticity overall: Inauthenticity is the distance between your public self and your real self. The more you want to be seen as, the better, the more this acts as a barrier to growth, an barrier to change, a barrier to becoming. Without changing the environment, the people for whose sake you pretend, this number is quite fixed. Moving house, moving town, changing friends, changing jobs, may be necessary: very few people will be willing for that.


• 16. Level of integrity 1-100: This number is very strongly correlated with the inauthenticity number.


• 17. how enslaved are you to memes? (what percentage of your life is run by memes?) Memes act as the opposite of grease... the higher this number the more sticky, rusted hinges will behave.


• 18. do you have a bridge between your precious "I" and your actual I? What is your level of delusion... The higher this number the more you"ll protect the Precious "I", the fake self, and the less you"ll be willing to change.


• 19. To what degree you have access to your adult capacities. this is the inverse number that shows to what degree you"ve been willing to change the stories you tell.


• 20. How teachable/how coachable are you? The higher this number is the more you are willing to allow your consciousness to go where the coach is taking it.


• 21. The level of your awareness? if this number is low, you won"t notice that you are taken to places that are different. You will step into the same river every time.


• 23. the percentage of time you spend in the mind: This number is the inverse of the awareness number... you cannot be aware inside the mind.


• 24. the percentage of input that gets through to you. This number is a combination of your awareness number and your coachability number.


• 25. How inspired can you become? And what level are you now... This number shows your intrinsic/internal motivation. The energy you have available after all the having to, needing to, wanting to and should. The more the shoulds drive you, the less you are willing to change.

As you can see, it is quite predictable how effective coaching and guidance can be for you.

What is the bottom line?

The more tethered your consciousness is to where it"s at, the less you can change what you see and the less willing you"ll be to say something different about what you see.

The Playground program is entirely dedicated to altering "occurrence".

We cannot change what happened, but when seen as a separate action, we can change what we say about it.

How successful you"ll be in that program depends on your fixed mindset that keeps what you react to the same.

This is ultimately the most important indicator of your life satisfaction: to what degree you have control over your life.

The degree of flexibility you have about what you say about things.

Positive thinking is a bastardized version of this: it is not about positive or negative: you cannot reduce life to two colors and be happy and effective in life.

The more colors you have in your palette, the more ways you can see, interpret, explain, the more creativity you have available for yourself in seeing things that are real, the more power you have over your life.

At this point you probably have one, maybe two ways... The job is to have many.

Reality: collective hunch at best. This means: we don"t know what things mean.

Will Durant historian said: unless you are able to see 500 years before and 500 years after, you have no idea what it means that this happened or that happened.

I have a 70 year perspective on the happenings in my life. My interpretation of the events in my life have gone through hundreds of re-evaluation, although in the beginning, just like you, I had very rusted hinges on the door to change.

The swinging of the door, frequently, removes the rust. And you can become all you can be.

You hope you can become all you can be without changing your mind about things that you have a strong opinion.

Dream on... it is not possible.

Unless what you see changes, you cannot change, and your life cannot change.

The person who you are now cannot and will not do well, will not accomplish what you desire, no matter how real it looks in your imagination.

In fact, that imagination is what keeps you stuck...

Been there done that! the fixed mindset and how it prevents you from changing yourself and your life...

How the notes you take, the stories you tell, put blinders on you and prevent you from growing...

As a coach, I will send you back to the same book, the same video a number of times. My intention is that you watch it... But some students won"t watch it again, they go to their notes, and read them instead. In their mind they say: I have done that... I know! And they kill their chance to see how much they have grown, and their chance to allow their consciousness to see something different.

This is the same mechanism that your stories remain the same. You say the same thing at age 50 as what you said at age six. If the stories you tell remain the same, then be sure: you have remained the same.

http://evp-50116959de4b9-dd521b5ed563ee25508422182c681a30.s3.amazonaws.com/story-you-tell.mp4

Telling what happened the same way is the most important way fixed mindset manifests.

Fixed mindset violates the adage: you can"t step in the same river twice...

The well translated (from Greek) quote is "“No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it’s not the same river and he’s not the same man.”

If you think that the river is the same, or if you think you are the same, you have a fixed mindset. And even if you have changed, you won"t know... you will not allow what you consciously see become different.

What do I mean?

The seed level on which I base my coaching is that the basis of your existence is what you see. It gives you the second part of the "occurrence", what you perceive happens, and your actions will be in a perfect correlation, in a perfect dance with what you see: the occurrence.

So my job, as a "change agent", a coach, is to use what I have available to myself, as tools to change what you see, the occurrence.

The "thing" you look at can be life, events, other people, and yourself.

I am rarely able to change the reality part of occurrence (occurrence=reality+what you say about it), but more often than not, that has already happened, so I can only change the "what you say about it" part, that is, depending on the level of your fixed mindset, can change a little bit or a lot.

When occurrence thus changes, your further actions and what you say about life, yourself, can change.

That is the whole secret of growth, that is the whole secret of coaching, that is the whole secret of self-actualization.

I bring the new angle of looking, I bring the speaking.

Your job is to come around and look from the new angle, to allow YOUR speaking to change.

It sounds easy, but there are obstacles, sticky hinges...

Occurrence is like a door than swings on sticky hinges. The stickier the hinges the less willing the door will be to swing, and the more likely it will automatically return to its original position when you are not looking.

So what makes the hinges sticky?

We"ll look at it through the starting point measurements.

• 1. your vibration (1-1000): Your vibration is a combo number that tells me from what height and with what accuracy you look at reality. When this is a low number, your height and accuracy will be lacking, and you will listen to what I say as my opinion, my good idea, but you actually won"t be able to see it yourself.


• 2. your overall intelligence, emotional, intellectual, spiritual, body, relationship, etc.: This is also a combination number, that grades your aptitude to see reality in different areas of life and respond accurately. This number is a percentage, instead of the vibration number, which is a logarithmic number. Your overall intelligence shows a percentage: to what degree you can work with what you have, instead of comparing you to other people.
  
  If you don"t have much to work with, but you use what you have brilliantly, your overall intelligence can be a high number. But most people "sport" a really low number, meaning that they have a lot of room to grow.


• 3. the number of spiritual capacities you have: There are 160 spiritual capacities hardwired in your DNA. They are dormant, inactive, unusable in most people. They will turn on when you actually do things, regularly, that need them.
  
  Most people never do anything regularly that turns on capacities. This number is a very reliable indicator of a fixed mindset: you see yourself unchanged, and unchangeable: fixed, and you refuse to do things you are not already suited for.


• 4. your soul correction (your machine): There are soul corrections that are more fixed mindset than others https://www.yourvibration.com/sc


• 5. do you have attachments? Attachments can be so irritating, or so "leash-like" that you have no mind to spare for change. this is true to all attachment-like phenomena: placed on you by a malicious person, your soul fragments you denied, your base belief about yourself, or the "anchor to doom" around which you circle the drain. I talk about these somewhere else.


• 6. the level of your health (1-100): The higher your health number, the more energy you have above mere survival... so this number directly influences how fixed is your few: survival mode, scarcity mode is a fixed view of the world and yourself.


• 7. the level of your cell hydration (1-100): Same as the health number.


• 8. your relationship to feedback and instruction: Of course, if your attitude to input is that it"s judgment, right/wrong, an attack, you won"t allow feedback and instruction to move you and move the door... This is a very significant reason most people cannot and will not grow.


• 9. The level of discomfort you are willing to allow w/o trying to fix it. This is your TLB score... Growth, change are inherently scary. It is natural to be afraid. You will have a hard time allowing yourself to go with change and even if you change, this is the force that returns the door to the original position where life was comfortable and you didn"t have to feel discomfort.


• 10. The size of your vocabulary: the number of words you can use accurately: This is a filter that causes you to not hear, not see anything that you haven"t already seen and decided about. If this number doesn"t change during your coaching, I know that I am failing. It"s hard work to raise this number. Reading and pondering changes it. Pondering is connecting the dots of reality differently than before. Busy people don"t ponder. They chase the next thing to do: no pondering.


• 11. To what degree you think of yourself: This is the inverse humility number. If you have yourself in the center of the filter through with you look at events, things to do, reality, you can see that your view cannot change, because consciousness is fixed, anchored, and the view of life cannot change. This is the most important number that determines to what degree your door can open or not.


• 12. % of fixed mindset: This is a combo number, and in my experience isn"t an accurate representation of your willingness you change your mind.


• 13. Ambition: A higher ambition number indicates a higher willingness to make changes, and to actually invest energy into making things happen


• 14. Desire: A high desire number indicates a desire trap. As with any trap, this number shows in reverse how far you are willing to go from the fixed view of life to get what you want. A high desire number indicates blinders.


• 15. Degree of inauthenticity overall: Inauthenticity is the distance between your public self and your real self. The more you want to be seen as, the better, the more this acts as a barrier to growth, an barrier to change, a barrier to becoming. Without changing the environment, the people for whose sake you pretend, this number is quite fixed. Moving house, moving town, changing friends, changing jobs, may be necessary: very few people will be willing for that.


• 16. Level of integrity 1-100: This number is very strongly correlated with the inauthenticity number.


• 17. how enslaved are you to memes? (what percentage of your life is run by memes?) Memes act as the opposite of grease... the higher this number the more sticky, rusted hinges will behave.


• 18. do you have a bridge between your precious "I" and your actual I? What is your level of delusion... The higher this number the more you"ll protect the Precious "I", the fake self, and the less you"ll be willing to change.


• 19. To what degree you have access to your adult capacities. this is the inverse number that shows to what degree you"ve been willing to change the stories you tell.


• 20. How teachable/how coachable are you? The higher this number is the more you are willing to allow your consciousness to go where the coach is taking it.


• 21. The level of your awareness? if this number is low, you won"t notice that you are taken to places that are different. You will step into the same river every time.


• 23. the percentage of time you spend in the mind: This number is the inverse of the awareness number... you cannot be aware inside the mind.


• 24. the percentage of input that gets through to you. This number is a combination of your awareness number and your coachability number.


• 25. How inspired can you become? And what level are you now... This number shows your intrinsic/internal motivation. The energy you have available after all the having to, needing to, wanting to and should. The more the shoulds drive you, the less you are willing to change.

As you can see, it is quite predictable how effective coaching and guidance can be for you.

What is the bottom line?

The more tethered your consciousness is to where it"s at, the less you can change what you see and the less willing you"ll be to say something different about what you see.

The Playground program is entirely dedicated to altering "occurrence".

We cannot change what happened, but when seen as a separate action, we can change what we say about it.

How successful you"ll be in that program depends on your fixed mindset that keeps what you react to the same.

This is ultimately the most important indicator of your life satisfaction: to what degree you have control over your life.

The degree of flexibility you have about what you say about things.

Positive thinking is a bastardized version of this: it is not about positive or negative: you cannot reduce life to two colors and be happy and effective in life.

The more colors you have in your palette, the more ways you can see, interpret, explain, the more creativity you have available for yourself in seeing things that are real, the more power you have over your life.

At this point you probably have one, maybe two ways... The job is to have many.

Reality: collective hunch at best. This means: we don"t know what things mean.

Will Durant historian said: unless you are able to see 500 years before and 500 years after, you have no idea what it means that this happened or that happened.

I have a 70 year perspective on the happenings in my life. My interpretation of the events in my life have gone through hundreds of re-evaluation, although in the beginning, just like you, I had very rusted hinges on the door to change.

The swinging of the door, frequently, removes the rust. And you can become all you can be.

You hope you can become all you can be without changing your mind about things that you have a strong opinion.

Dream on... it is not possible.

Unless what you see changes, you cannot change, and your life cannot change.

The person who you are now cannot and will not do well, will not accomplish what you desire, no matter how real it looks in your imagination.

In fact, that imagination is what keeps you stuck...

Remove just one attitude... and your happiness will grow 60%

The only effective method to make something work is to remove, little by little, all the things that make it not work, or not work as well as it could.

This is true in every area of life.

So what can be removed?



Attitudes are the number one, and the highest return on investment kind of things to remove.

Your attitudes are mostly invisible to you, because they feel like the truth, or the right way to be to get what you want.

All attitudes sit on words... world view words, that are invisible to you. They are a "given"... an "of course"... like the air you breathe.

You see other people"s attitudes but not your own.

Here is an attitude, but attitudes is a veritable mountain:

Entitled

Entitled... I should have it, because (and your main world view comes here.) I deserve it. They owe me... It"s only fair...

This attitude is what robs you of earning what you want in life. You consider that your parents, your employers, your spouse, your children, society, the country owes you, and therefore you should have it.

I have never met a person who, on some level, didn"t have this attitude.

60% of all unhappiness would disappear from the world, if this attitude disappeared.

The essence of this attitude is that you don"t interact with reality, for you X is not X...

The unreality you interact is a should-be-reality, and not how it is.

People should treat you in a certain way. You should be in a certain way. You should and they should and it should... and, of course you don"t, and they don"t, and it doesn"t... and so you are disappointed, disgusted, offended, sad, angry, violent, spewing...

You see how this leads to unhappiness.

The unhappiest countries" citizens feel the most entitlement. And the trend is that the unhappiness grows, worldwide.

Entitlement is a delusional aberration... Aberration is a departure from what is normal, usual, or expected, typically one that is unwelcome. Using the Anna Karenina principle we are endeavoring to remove what doesn"t get us what we want, happiness, for example.

I used to call this technique the Michelangelo Method, because we are removing everything that is not the you who can have health, wealth, love and fulfillment. But I think the Anna Karenina Principle method is easier to see.

Of course people do all kinds of stuff to get what they want.

The biggest desire is to have control over your life.

But the overwhelming feeling of people is that they don"t have control over their lives... As if you were entitled to have control of your life.

Everyone whats life to change, circumstances to change, the "other" to change... and no one considers that they can change their attitude, how much control they have over their attitude.

This morning I watched two videos on youtube, one was about men who want to grow taller, and are willing to go through extremely painful treatment. Hm.

The other was a compilation of episodes of a British show, Supernanny.

In that show this Supernanny works with families who have problems with their children. Children who without this intervention, in my humble opinion, will grow up to become criminals. ((
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DO-xS6TACvY
))

Depending on the country, the frequency of such families differs. The correlation between the attitude "entitled" and the parents failure to have a manageable, harmonious upbringing to their children is undeniable.

Happy people don"t become criminals. Happy people don"t lie, don"t steal, their entitlement level is low.

Obviously there are levels and there are levels.

To some degree we all feel entitled... You expect life to become better and easier. You expect to increase your fulfillment, your life satisfaction every year. You expect life to become easier.

To the degree you have these expectations, to the same level you are unhappy.

The attitude of entitlement and the attitude of "if it is to be it is up to me" are negatively correlated. The less expectations you have, the more you are willing to do what it takes to get what you want.

To EARN IT.

Physically, financially, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.

Most people are so alien to "if it is to be it is up to me", they can"t even come up with ways to grow in all those five aspects of life.

And even myself, when I observe myself, I find myself entitled, expecting life, business, to treat me well, because... because why? Because it would be only fair? Because I work for humanity?

The faster I snap out of it and attend to what I need to do, the faster I"ll earn what I want... and drop the attitude of entitlement.

People who visit my site on any given day are MORE entitled than the rest of the population.

Why? Because of all the teachings about spirituality and manifestation, they think they have done the work they needed to do, and now it is the Universe"s turn to give them what they want.

Not useful work, not effective, productive work, not the kind of work that makes you earn what you want... no, not that.

So when they read my articles, or get their Starting Point Measurements from me, they are furious. They are mad at me.

But they are not bad people.

When something isn"t working, it is time to stop and consider that what you know that you based your actions on, your "knowledge" isn"t true. It is time to do time-out and retool, re-design, and do something true and tried.

Something with a lot higher truth value than what you have been doing.

• You see, my teaching"s truth value is 70%. Filtered through your low vocabulary, filtered through your unexamined beliefs, filtered through your living in the mind behavior, you"ll get 7% truth.


• While, when you read the 7% truth value stuff you tend to read or listen to, with the same filters, you get "knowledge", answers that have a less than 1% truth value.

Tragic, if you ask me. And a very poor investment of your time and money.

So, if this article woke you up, you are one in every 15 people. Nice.

So if you are the small minority of my readers, what should you do?

Should you buy some activator? Maybe... on condition that you learn first how to actually use it... so you don"t waste your money by feeling entitled that the energy works without your input!

This coming Wednesday I"ll have a free webinar answering questions, and teaching you the attitude and actions that will get you the most out of my Avatar State Activator audios.

They can raise your vibration with a little help from you to the level where you can actually start seeing reality and start taking actions consistent with how reality is, instead of how it should be.

The session starts at 4 pm NY time, and I will stay on the call as long as there are questions.

I will record the call, and then make this an ever-green webinar... So if the time doesn"t work, you won"t miss it completely.

I am planning of offering something special to the people who are on the call live, that won"t be available through the recording.

The webinar is for subscribers only... So when you register, your email will be added, automatically to my mailing list.

Here is the link to register in the webinar or the replay

Register in the upcoming webinar

I"ll do my best to make it fun in addition to being educational.