The third brain... immersion: the secret to mastery of life and growth

There are, in my experience, three thinking brains, at least potentially, in every human...

The first thinking brain, the mind, that is in cahoots, in collusion, working against you with the selfish gene. That is what creates a life of reactivity, full of fear, full of anxiety, full of sharp turns and devastating jerks. I"ve lived there... and I hated it.

The second thinking brain, the one that evaluates, reasons, figures stuff out, is slow and plodding, and hard work. Creates real solutions, keeps you out of trouble... but not fun.

And then there is the third thinking brain... the work of thinking is done in the background, on the back burner, while the foreground is silent, resting, or busy learning something new..

That is where I live now.

I am getting a few questions about that, and I decided to tell you as much as I can see... the mechanism is largely hidden from my view... It is in the background...

I"ll use myself, and clients" and students" stuff as illustrations...

In the past month I saw more maturing, more "going to the next level" than I had seen in all my career as a coach.

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The third brain... immersion: the secret to mastery of life and growth

There are, in my experience, three thinking brains, at least potentially, in every human...

The first thinking brain, the mind, that is in cahoots, in collusion, working against you with the selfish gene. That is what creates a life of reactivity, full of fear, full of anxiety, full of sharp turns and devastating jerks. I"ve lived there... and I hated it.

The second thinking brain, the one that evaluates, reasons, figures stuff out, is slow and plodding, and hard work. Creates real solutions, keeps you out of trouble... but not fun.

And then there is the third thinking brain... the work of thinking is done in the background, on the back burner, while the foreground is silent, resting, or busy learning something new..

That is where I live now.

I am getting a few questions about that, and I decided to tell you as much as I can see... the mechanism is largely hidden from my view... It is in the background...

I"ll use myself, and clients" and students" stuff as illustrations...

In the past month I saw more maturing, more "going to the next level" than I had seen in all my career as a coach.

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Time to reinvent yourself as someone you can love

You live in a world of your own design... Time to reinvent yourself as someone you can love

Your own design is like a filter you look through. You can"t see the filter, just like you don"t see the window unless you touch it...

A filter is like a pair of glasses...

A filter is also like a pair of glasses... They can be dark tinted, they can be yellow, green... and the world occurs differently with each pair of glasses. You can"t see that it"s the glasses that make the world look the way the world looks to you... unless you can take it off...

You can see only the ripples. The indication that there is something there...

It"s the ripples that we don"t like... we don"t like the things we do, the things we think, the things we feel. We want to change the ripples. But the ripples are the surface of the iceberg... hidden, invisible...

But you can"t change something that you don"t know. You can"t change something that you don"t see.

We all want to reinvent ourselves, our world. Because what we have now is not working too well, not serving us too well. We can"t have what we want, and we suffer.

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But reinventing is a science, and it is not a "from the outside to the inside" thing.

It"s exactly the opposite.

I have done two Reinventing Yourself workshops this week.

Reinventing is a skill... and a process, and something it is worth learning, it is worth practicing, experimenting with, because you have to live with your new invention.

Because no matter how you slice it, you always live in a world of your own design.

Your occurring world.

And your whole self... the being, the doing, the having.

Reinventing is not fixing.

Reinventing is not fixing. Whatever you are trying to fix gets into the "new you" and taints it. It is still calling the shot... and the new you will be a new version of what you wanted to fix. So fixing is not the path to a reinvention, to a new you that you can love, respect, and honor.

I am going to give you everything you need to know to successfully reinvent yourself.

Here are the steps to reinvent yourself

1. Step 1: Distinguish in detail who you are, the you you will start with, the one that you don"t really like, the one that you hide, and the one that is making your life... not so desirable.


2. Step 2: Embrace it. Consider that there is nothing wrong with you. Like a child, when you say no to, when you try to change it, it will get you in the end.


3. Step 3: When you can totally embrace the old self, contemplate how the new invented self could be. Come from your natural inclinations, your strength in the invention of the new self. It will still be a lot of work to become that new self, but building on your strengths, it will be easier and more natural.

Now, I have worked with thousands of people, but I have never known anyone who could do this on their own.

This work is like digging for gold

Why? Because this work is like digging for gold. Between you and gold is a lot of dirt. And you need to safely discard the dirt to get to the gold.

Unless there is someone who can hold the dirt, you"ll be stuck with it.

Dirt, in this work, is all the ways you are that devastate you. All the ways you are that you hate. All the things you do that you are not proud of.

I have a hunch that most people are so attracted to mind movies and other stuff, because they cannot dare to confront who they are and how they are... they want to jump to the dream, to the beautiful, to the rich.

But there is no jumping in the physical universe: you cannot defy gravity.

What goes up has to come down... The unattended and denied you will prevent you from having your dream life... sooner or later.

Another way to look at self and reinventing the self

You are born with a machine like self. It"s predictable and consistent. It"s called your soul correction.

There is no life outside of the world "designed" by your soul correction.

It"s like a prison, it"s like living in a machine.

The machine does not care about you.

So what can you do?

With the work of reinvention, you can steadily enlarge your prison, the elbow room you have inside your machine.

Reinvention is like an artist creating a drawing. An artist does not stop at one drawing. An artist creates lots of drawings. And with each drawing the world becomes a little bit bigger.

Without work that enlarges the world, you live in a world that is more like a trench than anything else. One dimensional, and not fun.

The most important work is done after the work of reinvention: allowing a slightly bigger, a slightly different world to show up.

I am sharing the method I used to take myself from a vibration of 85 to a vibration of 930.

Am I promising that you"ll get to the same vibrational level where I am? I am not promising anything.

You"ll get what you get.

Your vibrational level will be consistent with the number of times you reinvent yourself as a new person, the variety of ways that new person is, the amount of presence and work you invest in being that new person.

And ultimately the number of spiritual capacities you have to do the work.

Spiritual capacities, like curiosity, astuteness, awareness, patterns, creating mental representation, ownership, causing... remember, there are 160 capacities.

You, most likely, have five capacities. Maybe seven. And most likely you feel smart, and you feel that you can have everything you ever wanted with what you have.

The most frequent question I am never asked is this: how do you be that new person?

Because inventing a new self is only the starting point. The seed level. Then you need to grow a full grown tree.

And unless you do it, you won"t... duh.

I remember spending 10 hours straight distinguishing the beingness of brilliance and contribution.

It happened 29 years ago: I needed a job: I was desperate. Someone asked: why should they give you a job? I answered: I am brilliant and a contribution.

I was neither brilliant nor a contribution at the time, I invented it. [note]In fact I was a know-it-all, and a helping junkie...[/note]

The interview was the next day, so I stayed up all night. I stood in front of the mirror, talking to "the person in the mirror" because you can"t do this work alone successfully.

I saw that having answers, talking much is not brilliant... Brilliant is not a result: it"s a starting point, a way to look. A way to listen. A way to relate to things.

That what I already knew had nothing in common with brilliance, in fact brilliance comes from the willingness to look, to ask questions, to be there for the thing to show itself.

And I saw that doing good work, what I think is good, what I think needs to get done is not a contribution. Or helping... A contribution begins with what the job, "the other" wants and needs.

I saw that if I squarely put my attention, if I merge with what "the other" wants, I can be a contribution.

Instant result... and THEN month of practice

Next morning I got hired on the spot, even though I went to that interview after a night of not even getting to bed.

I practiced those two new beings for a few months before I tried my hand on "generosity"... "respect"... "authenticity"... Powerful, winner... all new invented selves.

Each time my vibration rose, and the prison got bigger.

One new element of my workshops, the inventing of a new self, is that I can now muscle test if the person, the participant has the capacity to be that new self. It"s dangerous to assume that you can be anything... it is a lie.

You have the capacity to be some things, maybe even well, but you needs more capacities to be other things.

 

So beware... don"t invent pie in the sky.

PS: In a call this morning I discovered what is the capacity that is missing to succeed in inventing yourself successfully and then be that new person.

I"ll write an article about that... You"ll be surprised. Guaranteed. Here is the link... it will be active at 10 am, May 23...

PPS: here is an excellent quote

“invent yourself and then reinvent yourself,
don"t swim in the same slough.
invent yourself and then reinvent yourself and
stay out of the clutches of mediocrity.

invent yourself and then reinvent yourself,
change your tone and shape so often that they can never categorize you.

reinvigorate yourself and
accept what is
but only on the terms that you have invented
and reinvented.

be self-taught.

and reinvent your life because you must;
it is your life and
its history
and the present
belong only to
you.”
Charles Bukowski

PPPS: Here is the link to register in the Reinventing Yourself workshop

https://www.yourvibration.com/workshop

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The energies, energy remedies are like a cane... the cane helps you go where you are going.

The energies, energy remedies are like a cane... the cane helps you go where you are going.

• If you are going to a good place... wonderful.


• If you are going to a bad place... the cane helped you to get there.

Energy remedies, energy healing, spiritual capacities are support. Supporting you to go where you want to go.

If, in spite of all the energetic support you have received from me, you are still in a bad place, you should look at where you are going.

You cannot blame the cane. You cannot blame it for not taking you where you"d like to be.


Number one rule of the world is free will. If you want to go to hell... be my guest.

I tell you, I show you, through countless of articles, how to alter where you are going... but you don"t listen.

I am watching people. They get fixated on what they want, and they are going down, fast.

You think that if you make yourself wrong then you can become free of what runs you, free to choose a different way of being.

Keep on dreaming. The opposite is true.

Taking responsibility has no room for making yourself wrong, blaming, pointing fingers, neither to yourself, nor to circumstances.

Blame stops your power. Keeps you stuck. Prevents you from moving freely. Allows only the same direction you"ve been heading.

Like with everything, any resistance keeps you hostage. Blame, guilt are resistance.

• You can use your "cane" to find your way... like a blind person. (that is what we call experimenting!)


• You can use your cane to support you when you are weak.


• You can use your cane to fight your demons... and go nowhere.

Take your demons with you. They are just demons.

Here are a few examples:

• This person emailed me for The Sight capacity, a cane, to help him go from broke, lost, and directionless to something better.I gave him a few questions to answer, so he can access his power. Instead he got hooked in guilt and self-blame.Until he can see that it"s devastating, but he doesn"t have to BE devastated, he will remain stuck, and I won"t turn on any capacities... His vibration spiraled down to 70.


• This person made a different mistake: he tried to follow the light.A month or so ago I turned on the capacity "faith" for him. He found himself on cloud nine... courage, self-expression became available. Then, like a good systemic person, decided to connect to Source, and make it even better. He promptly lost it, and has spiraled down to a vibration of 130.

And here is my example: I don"t try to go to the divine. I bring divine to everything I do. Scrubbing the sink, taking a shower, sleeping, cooking, talking to you.

To the degree I do, to the same degree I walk on air. At this point I bring the divine to 70% of all I do.

How? I don"t know.

My hunch is that when I am working from the intrinsic level, the vertical plane, that is when I can do anything... even things I don"t normally enjoy to do, like scrubbing the sink, or muscle testing 561 items so I can be certain someone knows what they can eat. Even though it kills my fingers...

Bringing the divine to everything expresses itself in having no resistance, neither in thoughts nor in attitudes.

My muscles may get sore because 561 times I try to pry my fingers open... but they don"t stay sore... because I didn"t resist. Didn"t blame

By the way, if we have had a health session and I didn"t give you a list of what you can eat, you can get it now. Will I give it to you for free? I don"t think so. Why? Because I value my time and my abilities.

If you want it, you can get it for a half-hour of my time (that is how long it takes.)

Or find out what is your health number...

What is the connection between respect and appreciation?

What is the connection between respect and appreciation? Both respect and appreciation are spiritual capacities... states of being.

I am having a lot of insights lately. Of course, it was predictable: I am running an experimental workshop: it is driving up the questions.

When you have questions, relevant questions, you are going to get insights. Irrelevant questions? no insights.

Anyway, the circumstance this morning is this: I accidentally double-paid for the Tai Lopez course. Sent a support request to get a refund, and they answered that their policy was to talk to me, to make sure I was who I said I was.

I have been fuming about this. I mean my lower parts are fuming, and I, the Self, have been observing it with curiosity. Very strong emotions, by the way...

What is it that is offending my lower self?

I have found that the Tai Lopez company is inconsistent in its dealings with people... Say they are for me... but... I paid for their product. Accidentally I double paid. They accepted both payments. But now, they are making me jump through hoops for them to transfer the money back to the same card it came from. Feels inconsistent with who they said they were.

No trust. It hurts. It feels like disrespect. So it seems that respect is very important to the lower self... I mean my team (ego, soul, emotions) just wasted more than half an hour in this muck and mire: anger, disappointment, being put out, etc.

So that is respect... or at least respect when it"s missing.

So what is appreciation?

The way I teach appreciation, the capacity, it is different from how you have had it. I teach that appreciation is being able to look at something, anything, and value it accurately, on a minus 100-plus 100 scale. But value it nevertheless... instead of fighting it, saying it"s wrong. The usual crap you do... Yes or no. Binary. Rejection.

But as I was pondering this, it occurred to me, that your knee-jerk reaction to things won"t allow you to appreciate anything.

Given that we are now working on the Knowledge/Strategy/Execution model, your lack of ability to place a value, a non-binary value on something will make you do another jump: jump into the middle of execution, without knowledge, without strategy... smack into the middle.

Much like jumping into the deep pool without learning to swim, without having rescue people present, without a floating belt.

You"ll sink. And that is exactly what happens when you have no appreciation for models, for others" hard work, for what other people did who went before you. Or for swimming... the depth of the water, learning and strategy.

You are looking at the reflection of yourself, and you think: what do they know? because you yourself don"t know anything... or not much of any value.

And your lack of respect to the person who was willing to go through a process, so he can teach you... oh no, you know better, and you"ll cut corners. Or oh no... why bother creating a strategy, or learning what there is to learn, I"ll just wing it.

Or in case of a spiritual capacity: why bother spending the time learning about the being the capacity allows, why create a strategy to make it grow roots in your being, and why do the steps that are needed?

In the worst case you"ll just ask me to activate it again.

You are stupid, and all you can see is stupid around you. You can"t have respect for something you see, or even pay money for... because your lack of respect for yourself will decide who and what you respect.

Catch 22, if I have even seen one.

Can you get out of this Catch 22? We shall see...

Some 20 people are still in the game... and all I hear back is silence. Dead silence.

Are people waiting for me to do it for them?