How to live life that it"s enjoyable, fulfilling and financially rewarding at the same time.

I look at my dreams as guidance.

Now, you need to know that I almost never dream a whole story... I dream moods. Some situations.

Last night I dreamed about going back to Israel, meeting people I had known, experiencing their attitude towards me. Wasn"t pleasant.

And just before I woke up I was shown the theme I am going to write about.

You see, everyone wants to know what they are supposed to have as a purpose to their lives. Even some students, inexplicably ask this question after years of studying with me. Boggles the mind.
The answer to the questions is simple. Ask a better question.
A better question would be how to live life that it"s enjoyable, fulfilling and financially rewarding at the same time.

That question has a lot of potential.

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If you are not getting well on the diet I muscle tested for you...

Some people"s health number first rises and then plummets again. One in ten, on average.

What do the people whose health number behaves like this have in common?
First off, let me say that they mean well... but...
They violate some basic ground rules of the system I suggest for well-being.
The system is based on the theory, that if you eat and behave consistent with what your personal genetics suggest, then you will be well. But it seems that a food list used in the 21st century way is not able to do it for most people.

What is the 21st century way? You have vegetables, supplements, spices, fruits from all the five continents. Many are hybridized. Many are GMO. Many are sprayed to stay fresh, irradiated, cooked, pasteurized... All of which was impossible for your ancestors, and only came about in the past maybe 50-100 years. The same time span that people are getting fat, getting chronic diseases, and human intelligence, creativity, and hardiness are diminishing.

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One area where every student of mine is lacking is communication.

One area where every student of mine is lacking is communication. When suddenly they do something that I consider communication, I cry. One of my recent articles brought a furry of communication... but it was a "fluke", an accident, a one time event.

What is communication, really?

The dictionary says: conveying information. Bah humbug.

 
The purpose of communication is to get what you want from life, through other people.
Communication is a tool. For the most part the purpose of communication is to get what you want from life, through other people.

If the purpose of life is survival, and survival is more guaranteed if you get what you want, then communication is the most needed tool.


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Explanation of the starting point measurements... from the Trump article

Explanation of the starting point measurements:

1. Vibration is measured on a 1-1000 logarithmic scale and it measures how far up the Tree of Life you have climbed.One could also say that the level you have reached in awareness, accuracy and effectiveness in seeing and dealing with life and your dreams in all areas of life, measurably in health, wealth, love and happiness is signified by your vibration number.People in general are low vibration. I have yet to see anyone over 220 coming to me.
2. Your overall intelligence measures the same thing in essence: after all it is your intelligence that you use in all areas: intellectual, body intelligence, financial intelligence, number..., relationship intelligence, and your ability to align yourself with a path and walk it...70 is average. Mine is 100.It"s a weighted average of all intelligences
3. Spiritual capacities: we have hardcoded in our DNA all the capacities the species is capable to master, but we use very few. You use the number I have in your measurements. There are 160 capacities, focus, autonomy, foresight, courage, humility, authenticity, etc.I can"t tell you what capacities you have activated, but from emotions I can make guesses what you don"t have active.You need to jump into the pool to learn to swim, jump off the cliff to learn to fly... this is the principle of capacities: they don"t turn on unless they are needed.
4. Your soul correction follows some archetypes. Your soul correction contains and suggests the capacities and behaviors that can turn your life around and allow to rise on the evolutionary/vibrational scale.I borrowed the names from Kabbalah, but the descriptions are from my observation of people, the outside and the inside, their reactions, their dominant emotions, etc.
5. Attachments are spiritual and energetic wounds on your energy body where you leak energy. Can come from the outside, or can come from within. I pull the strings or heal the holes... when I am paid to do that.
6. The level of your health is on a scale of 1 to 100.It says how effectively your body is working, turning the food you eat into energy, intelligence, and happiness.The main reason, I found, for deteriorating health is eating food that the body can"t recognize as food. And deficiencies is the daily essentials, minerals, vitamins, amino acids, and essential fatty acids.

Also, many people deal with allergies, sensitivities, and intolerances, gut microbial imbalances.... In my health consultations I endeavor examining all these, and prescribe a diet and lifestyle that is sustainable and optimal for the person.
7. The level of hydration of your cells shows how much of the ideal and original 100% of the workability you are maintaining in your cells.Only water compatible with the cell water is allowed in... coherent water. If you put no coherent water in your body, your cells will eventually dry out... and if some disease doesn"t kill you, cell dehydration will.I have the
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Dyslexia, literacy and the President of the United States - a vibrational review

I have a few people in my sphere who admire Donald Trump and think him the highest IQ person nowadays.

One of my friends loves Donald Trump. He is not a smart man, and it is one of the attraction: they are similar.

I just watched a video on youtube that shows clips to illustrate the accusation that Trump can"t read well, that Trump probably has a low vocabulary.

So I am going to do a combo assessment of Donald Trump here... and then explain a few things:

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The answers are not within... so how to find them?

The above statement, in the title, may or may not be true.

I am most interested not in what is true and false, but what is useful or what is not useful.

Thinking, believing that the answers are within makes you search your memory banks for answers.

And it is never there... You never knew the answer, so it won"t be in your mind.
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Yesterday I introduced the distinction "look with fuzzy eyes" on the Feelings webinar.

Words are tricky. You think you understand them, and you think that everyone hears the same meaning when they hear it. They don"t... maybe ever!

The main problem with the Tree of Knowledge: we learn our world through words, instead of experience.

And you end up delusional, making mistakes, and never happy.

This is the main reason for unhappiness. The words create an illusion of being reality... but they aren"t... and moreover the inner map of reality they create is vastly different from reality itself.
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Seeing the big picture... wide cone of vision and a TED talk

Finally a TED talk that explains why seeing the big picture is such an amazing capacity. Why it can alter your life. Why it allows you to learn. Why it takes you out of the fear of making mistakes...

It also explains why "normal" adults stop being able to learn, experiment, be creative...

One student asks: If I have identified something as worth having/knowing, when I set out to read a book or take a class, if there is an agenda there, what do I do with that agenda? How, if I could, would I abandon what I think I should be going after to pursue life as more of an experiment? Does the courage to walk away from what I think is the path, the missing piece?

The agenda he is talking about is the "economical" little (or big) piece you want out of your activity. And once you fix what you want, you"ll see nothing else, like a machine.

No creativity, no growth, no experimentation. Dull. Boring. And a perfect waste of a life.

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Could reading Charlie Munger"s favorite books be considered being mentored by Charlie Munger?

Could, reading Charlie Munger"s favorite books be considered being mentored by Charlie Munger? ((Charles Thomas Munger is an American investor, businessman, and philanthropist. He is vice chairman of Berkshire Hathaway, the conglomerate controlled by Warren Buffett. Buffet has described Munger as “[his] partner.")) Or how to learn to do what people did through reading what they read... So you can do it too. So you can see what they saw.

People with humility and success quote a lot. They know where their views, where their knowledge comes from. And their knowledge is deep, instinctive driver of actions. Not book knowledge, not Trivial Pursuit knowledge. NOT Tree of Knowledge.

I read eclectically. The next few books that are on my list now come from Charlie Munger"s suggestions.

He sees things I don"t. He has wisdom I don"t. What he reads has something to do with it. How he reads, how he thinks... He says: "Becoming rational is a slow, arduous process." You need to build up to developing that skill. Most of us have very small capacity to use our brains. But it can only be grown like a sculpture. So most don"t even start.

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The other sculpture method of creating your life, creating your Self

I have been testing a theory that 5-15 minutes of doing something, every day, is more effective than taking one two-hour class a week.

So I"ve taken on learning Hebrew. On a website called Duolingo.com.

I had to learn typing in Hebrew, and I had to learn a bunch of grammar, a bunch of words. Without memorizing. Without really much effort. ((I had done the same thing with Hungarian earlier this year... re-learning to type, re-learning to write, re-learning to read Hungarian. But I wasn"t conscious of the self-building aspect of it: I had a "reason" to do the "work" because I was corresponding with the author of the book "Feelings". This time, with Hebrew, I have no agenda, I am doing it as an experiment, as an intellectual exercise, as a fun project.))

The secret is to not miss a day. After a missed day it is hard to go back to an activity. The first week I did all my sessions at the end of the day, just before I went to bed. But even then I could put in my 5-10 minutes. It"s been 19 days.

First off: it"s satisfying. I have an experience of myself that is pleasant. A feeling that I am growing. That I am not living an empty life... hm... interesting.


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Approval Addiction: the main symptom of no self, no core, no courage

Statistics show that nearly 100% of the population is addicted to the approval of others, yet few of us are aware of it. And for average person with modest goals, it doesn"t really matter.

The problem arises when an ambitious person decides to build a career, business or pursue dream that requires substantial exposure to rejection. Studies show that over 80% of these people abandon their ambition within the first 12 months due to the pain of daily disapproval.

This is how Approval Addiction shatters dreams.
Approval addiction comes from the misunderstanding and the distortion of what the Tree of Life need, the need to meet the expectation of others tells you.
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Insights are a dime a dozen. Each insight is an opportunity mostly not acted upon

I have noticed that my health number has gone up 10 points, and my hydration went up another 3 points.

I also noticed that maybe I am a little smarter. I see a little more than before.

I have also noticed the same on students, that when their health improves they see more too... so I am not unique this way.

But yet, in spite of the high vibration, certain things scare the crap out of me, sorry for the crude expression... You see, high vibration doesn"t necessarily make you more polished.

So, this afternoon, as I was listening to my 67 step for today, I had an insight. Meaning: I saw something that has far reaching consequences... potentially. ((By the way, this is why the saying "insights are a dime a dozen" is true. And insight creates an opportunity that you either take advantage of or not. But alas, when you think about opportunity, you always think about buying a lottery ticket that will win, or that good looking stranger walking up to you and suggest to go out... Not acting on your insight. Even though the way out of the situation you want to improve, is through acting on insights.

This type of opportunities in the 67 steps coaching are by the hundreds... and most people don"t act on any of them. They remain insights: a dime a dozen.

The way to get your money"s worth in any program, including this one, is to act on the insights... That is how to have it be life-altering.

Doing it the way you watch television is the way to have it make you busy, and make ultimately no difference.)) 
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People are writing to me that they had no trauma to bring to the Sunday Feelings Webinar.

A trauma is an incident. The significance is in your emotional response, not in what happened. The same incident is no big deal for others, but it is, or was a big deal for you.

Here is an example from my life:

I went on my biweekly grocery shopping trip with the old folks van yesterday.

They asked what"s new, and I shared that I asked the Community Center to give me a chance to do a short lecture on water. The answer to that was a groan. Audible, and coming from a deep reluctance and distaste.

It wasn"t the right time to deal with it then and there, so I stored it away for analysis later.

And this is "later"... let"s do it now.

First off: the groan awakened a whole series of memories, unpleasant memories of earlier similar incidents.

Earlier similar is a technical term.

Let me explain:

When you are upset, you are never upset from or by what is happening right now.
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Another missing piece of the healing puzzle...

I learned something today. It"s a big catch. And instead of being ashamed... I am happy. Because we can all get better because of it.

I don"t know about you, but I am always surprised when I learn something new. What there is to know rarely show up as something that is missing... and most of my reading rarely results in substantial learning.

But today, two major things... What a day, eh?

One I can share about, the other: I am in the middle of it, so I"ll share once I have made it instinctive part of my life.

This one, the one I can share, is about digestion and well-being.

Before today I had never heard about prebiotics. Or if I did... I must have pooh-poohed it. Just like you pooh-pooh (to express disdain or contempt for; dismiss lightly) many of the things I write... lol.
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Human survival need: Meeting the expectation of others

Before I get into defining what this need is doing, and what is the extent of it, I"ll tell you what may be in your way...

In the movie Sling Blade, the main character is asked in an interview, just before he is released from prison: "Will you kill again?" He answers: "I don"t reckon I have a reason to..."

This is when you know he will...

Animals don"t kill their kind... or not often. And never from anger.

Humans do.

And therefore, to make it possible to live in societies, societies created rules, laws, that are non-negoitiable.

The ten commandments in the Bible are the main inviolable rules. Don"t kill. Don"t steal. Don"t covet. etc.
The need Meeting the expectation of others is a need that makes it possible to develop and grow a self.
Without meeting the expectation of others, namely society, namely being lawful and decent and not a freeloader (a burden on society), you cannot develop a self.

The other extreme is when you think you need to be liked... When your actions, concerns, ideals come from being liked, being well thought of... you cannot develop a Self, your self is not yours... it is wholly and fully owned by the circumstances.
It is a thin line (like with everything) between not meeting the expectation of others and being a slave to others" likes and dislikes.
A balancing act.

I know it intimately. In every single interaction I need to walk the thin line, step on toes on one hand, be true to myself on the other, and have integrity as well.

Now, what triggered this article is an interesting phenomenon, that I don"t think is rare at all.

Just like in the movie Sling Blade, the main character, Karl Childers has no moral compass, and views life that killing is OK if you have a reason, a lot of people consider stealing OK. As long as they have a reason.

I used to be like that. When I was in England, at age 18, I was accused with stealing. I felt angry and developed a roving eye. I was looking for stuff to steal. To create some balance?
It took me many years to get rid of that anger, and the justification for stealing.
I didn"t steal big things, but I stole.

I see people stealing. Often the justification is: "My folks, my ancestry, my father was robbed of (fill in the blanks) so now I am taking back what is ours."

Of course there are people who steal just because they want what they steal...

Same is the situation with keeping your word, having your word be true to yourself. Having your behavior true to yourself.

I am interested in this justification angle. I am interested in the reasonable angle... when you have a reason to steal, kill, lie, cheat, betray, be shitty, cruel, mistreat yourself or others. Be lazy, Be self-serving. Be wasting your life.

Why? Because you will be, in life, either reasonable or unreasonable. And how you do anything is how you do everything...
Having justification for anything makes you a reasonable person. In every area of your life. And being reasonable
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One of my clients emailed me the other day for a permission to sell energized water on ebay.

One of my clients emailed me the other day for a permission to sell energized water on ebay.com

It is one possible way to make money with what you bought from me.

When I was first introduced to the concept of Energized Water, I bought product that used entrainment, an energetic process in which the higher energy item pulls up the lower energy item to its own level.

They did that by putting energized water into a chamber: into a pipe you could put into your bottle, between two walls of a mug or a container, into an egg, into a pyramid.

Before I created the Water Energizer Audio, I enabled my clients the same way. My most popular product was the energizer pitcher: it had a closed chamber where you could put energized water, or a gel insert that I energized for clients.

It worked.
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A fresh look at lack of humility... the lack that causes you to not be able to learn new things

I am reading a book that says: the purpose of life is survival. ((It is clear that the purpose of the genes is survival. Not the vehicle (for a human gene the vehicle is a human body) but itself. The gene. Long and short term survival. The gene actually doesn"t care whether that survival is noble, enjoyable, fun. None of that. Just survival long enough to produce another generation of vehicles.

The human vehicle, because of its consciousness, desires quality of life, liberty, and self-determination... the list is probably a lot longer, but the human vehicle, you, definitely considers a life without those not worth living. Not a life for a human. The history of humanity could be told through the struggle, resignation, stagnation, loss, of those values. From freedom to overt slavery to hidden slavery... this is where we are now.))

So I am going to look at the issues that hold my students back through that distinction: survival. If what I find is true about my students, it is probably true for other people... as well, maybe even you...
So, the question is: how does lack of humility serve survival... or the illusion of survival? After all an individual"s ability to survive increases greatly by learning new things... and yet.

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The Desire Trap and how to release it... A life with greed, want, desire, or resistance cannot be a happy life

The book Feelings writes at length about the Desire Trap, ((Quoting from the Feelings book by Margoczi:
Although the desire trap may look harmless at the first sight, this is the trap the most people suffer from around the world. Another reason for discussing the desire trap first is because it often connects to other traps to form trap systems with them. In order to understand the essence of traps, let us take an example. Let me invite my dear reader for a pint of beer in the local pub (or the more sensitive ones for a tea in a tea shop). We are sitting there peacefully with our beer at the counter when the rhetorical question arises: Do I desire a beer? The answer is: No way. The man who has been wandering around the desert for two days: yes, he desires a beer. He"ll almost die to get a beer, that is how strong his desire is! As a matter of fact, you can also desire a beer when you are sitting at the counter but you cannot fall into a desire trap. You only need to stretch out your arm and the beer is yours. Due to its function, desire can only exist for a few seconds until we get the object of desire. The two criteria of a desire trap though are: the desire itself and the fact that you cannot get the object of your desire.
)) but ultimately offers no escape route.

So I have been observing, and experimenting. Also attempting to widen the definition.

Desire for what...
The essence of the desire trap is two-fold

1. what you desire is not possible for you, or not right now. So you fantasize about it, and it gives you momentary relief... and thus it creates the trap. You keep desiring and you keep fantasizing about getting it.
2. what you desire is not up to you, or desiring it is a "rule" you made up for survival. Because it is not up to you, you can"t attain your desire.

The physical manifestation of desire is greed, and it shows up in the throat.

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When the teacher needs to do the work for herself: climbing the Tree of Life

I listened to step two ((The blue footed booby bird)) of the 67 steps, I think, the seventh time three days ago, and then again yesterday.

The step is about evolution. Growth. What it takes to grow... personally. It"s also about being adaptable, it"s about adapting.
Adapting is very hard. Why? Because part of adapting is to say no to what you have been saying yes to.
So it is complete upset, confusion, fear, uncertainty, and personally, it feels to me that death would be preferable. That is my 50% TLB speaking.

I always bring the example of climbing the ladder, but it is not how it feels. It feels really jumping. And when both feet are in the air, you don"t know where you are going to land.

I am seeing that in every area of life all the yes"s I am saying are keeping me the same, and I am terrified of saying no to them and saying yes to something else.

It started with my health.

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I don"t feel like writing an article today...

 



I don"t feel like writing an article.

It feels like unless I am careful, I am slipping into a depressed state. This happens around Daytime Savings Time... I get confused and sleep too much. And the body decides that it"s time to go into hibernation.

I have been able to stop this process every time for the past few years... so I am confident that I"ll be able to come back fast.

But this post, instead of an article, will be a few links... links to stuff I found useful reading.

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The person who is most adaptable and willing to change is going to win in life

Changeability, adaptability: what prevents you from being changeable or adaptable so you can win?

Darwin may have said: The species that is most adaptable wins the genetic lottery. Humanity"s, society"s emphasis is on smarts, but smart people are often losers.

Groups of people survived in history if they could adapt to the changing environment, the changing of the world successfully.

This is also true for the individual who wants to be successful and live the good life. (Success in one area does not translate to the good life, where you are successful in health, wealth, love and happiness equally).
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False Confidence? overconfidence? confident or overconfident? What is the measure of correctness?

An open and well-reasoned person might be very wrong, even if they"re rightfully confident. A falsely confident person could well be right, even if their confidence is false. Confidence is a feeling, a state of mind, and a way of presenting oneself. It isn"t in itself a good measure of correctness.
False Confidence, overconfidence, confident or overconfident... What is the measure of correctness?

The measure of correctness, (from value science, Axiology,) is clarity. You can be visible, clear and crystal clear. These are categories of how accurately you see reality.

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How does the Days of Power help you become more of yourself? To climb the Tree of Life...

I thought I would share something I haven"t talked about in a long while... And that is your memories. Your pain memories... specifically.

We all have it. And they are, for most people, packed away, in some fat, or some muscle, joint... like any other toxin.

Life is smart. You cannot be very effective with life, very present, if you have to deal with pain that can"t be resolved... emotional pain.

Many people go to classes to rid themselves of the pain, but these classes don"t work very well. Why? Because when you retell the story, you get caught in the story instead of feeling the pain. You feel the "marker feelings" the words awaken, but not the original pain. ((Marker feeling, the expression, comes from the book "Feelings" by Margoczi))
The pain is NOT in the story... stories are words. But the pain is real, and the words, the story, push the pain further out of reach.

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What do you have to prove? That you are smart? That will make you ignorant AND miserable

I have shared with you in my previous article all the juicy principles I gleaned from my conversation with the student who hated the idea to become proud of his ancestral heritage.

But I had one insight that, for me, was worth a lot more than the rest of the two hour long conversation.

I actually saw, for the first time, why my decision to accept being stupid, was so dramatically effective for me.

When you live your life inside smart and stupid... you live inside a circumstance.

You don"t have much to say about your abilities... I mean, it is true that if you hydrate your cells, you get smarter. It is true that if you make peace between your two selves with the Unconditional Love Activator: you become smarter.
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Principle guided life... OK... but what principles will make you happy?

When I wrote the article about racial, ancestral identity and its importance, I touched on something that is not valuable for most people... because I didn"t go deep enough and I didn"t accurately identify what it takes to be proud of who you are, where you belong.

I got on the phone with one of the people who was very unhappy about that article... I was eager to talk, because it is near impossible to go beyond the visible by yourself. It is a whole lot easier when you get input... because what is invisible to you can be visible for another.

The conversation was fruitful... And the insight to me was: it is not virtues, it is principles that form the basis of a happy life... I will elaborate...

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Awareness: what the heck is that? A word... OK. But what does it mean?

It is said that awareness ((Awareness is the ability to directly know and perceive, to feel, or to be cognizant of events. More broadly, it is the state or quality of being conscious of something.)) , the awareness factor is the best predictor of someone"s chances for success.
Simply put: your awareness is a measure that expresses how far your head is out of your anus, and how much of what you see, hear, feel reaches your conscious awareness and triggers an APPROPRIATE response there.
That is quite a mouthful, right? So to make it easier, I am going to speak computer language... if you don"t understand, I am sorry. I use many different analogies later on in this article, so just hang in there... OK?

The brain receives all the signals the sensory organs provide, but is selective about bringing it to the conscious, because of bandwidth limitations.
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When the empath is stumped... or what is love? Can seals love?

Seal Finds Toy Version Of Itself, Can’t Stop Hugging It
I have been looking at the pictures of this seal treating the plush version of itself with obvious feelings and every time I shake my head and say... "no, animals can"t love".

But what if what we see on these pictures is what love is, and not what we have been calling love on the Tree of Knowledge? What if?

I have a stuffed toy, a tiny bean bag tiger, I have been acting the same way as this seal. And the feelings I feel myself, and the feelings I feel from the seal are exactly the same.

So what is love? What is the seal feeling, what am I feeling?

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Violence: is it innate, or is it imposed on humanity?

One of my students wrote to me:
Self-care. I perform the poorest and I"m not consistent. Not sure what one category it fits under, in a way I can see it being a part of all big four areas of life.

To me it"s like I need to steal it in order to get it, it doesn"t come naturally or where I don"t feel guilty. Even reading by myself I feel guilty of being selfish. It"s etched in me and so when I do want to take care of myself it feels like I have to fight for the right, when I really don"t.
Now, it should be obvious for anyone who has read the Feelings book that what she is talking about is the basic needs of a human. That the phenomenon she talks about is not personal, that most women, especially in different male-centered cultures will mistakenly behave like this: violently deny their own needs. Rights vs. needs.

It is not very different from self-mutilation. It is just done with different tools.

It is a violence against life, against nature. Denying Life, being on the side of Death.

On the Tree of Knowledge all kinds of violence is ok... including self-violence. You suppress, you deny... but eventually it comes out.
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One of my jobs in this world, I say, is to restore people to their racial, ancestral identity.

I have been watching youtube videos and movies for a few days now... The focus is becoming more and more on being who you are... being true to that... and inside that seemingly limited "arena" be the most you can be, the best you can be.

One of the great evils perpetrated on us humans is the dogma that we are all one, ((Don"t get all out of shape... I do believe we are all human. I do believe we are in this together. I do believe that only if we cooperate we can save our race and our Earth... But I also see that people who preach this are intolerant, uncooperative, and hateful. And I suspect if you got bent out of shape, then you are one of those...)) and that was also made to mean sameness.

Horse shit.

I am not same with you... I am the end of a blood line of thousands of years of persecution on one hand, sharpening the skills to live in a hostile environment on the other. A tradition where what is in your head counts... because it cannot be taken away. Everything else can be taken away, but who you are, and what you know cannot.

How could I be the same as you when you only care about your money. When you think you are your money...

This is just one example... but as you can tell, my pump went up.
In my coaching practice, the most successful are the people who are able to reach deep down and become proud and guided by their ancestral heritage.
And those that have none, or deny that it"s important, struggle.

I just finished watching a few documentaries on Nina Simone, a black musician who was a rousing advocate of the same for the Black people...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sL1m7SvoICw
This great evil came from India... along with a lot more harm, a lot more Tree of Knowledge.

I passionately hate Indian gurus. I even hate Osho... he is a guru I have learned a lot from.

But unless we can love ourselves with all our differences, we can never love anyone else. We can preach love, like all the cults do, Christianity is one of these cults.

Or peace, Islam is famous for that lip-service.
Any religion, any race, any ancestry that uses who they are, what they believe, to dominate, control, oppress, or try to change another is EVIL.
There is beauty in diversity, and on the Tree of Life it is peaceful and a yes to life.

But this one-ness/sameness sand in your eyes hogwash is a destroyer of self, a destroyer of self-respect, a destroyer of human power.

The sniveling Chinese who wants to look Caucasian... and loses all advantage of the many thousands of years of diligence that is the Chinese heritage...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=26VyuB99mCA

The fearful Black Moslem who denies that it has anything to do with his identity can"t turn up the courage until he faces the music.

Of course, some of my students were born into the whitewashing of who you are... to bring you closer to The Brave New World"s Alpha, Beta... programmed no-personness... I don"t know how to get them catch the spark.
Your core needs
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No man is an island. You need others if you want to succeed... How to get people on your team

One of my students said to me: "you are like a scientist. And yet so much of your work lies in the realm of the not easily measured."
I have always had a difficulty answering the question: What do you do?

Defining what you do is important. To whom? To you: if you want support. Unless THEY know what you do, they don"t know if they are aligned with what you do or not...
It is a need and a must to "meet the expectation of others". It is a survival need. You can"t skip it.
Depending on what stage of personal evolution you are, it may be a lot more important to you than meeting your own expectation.

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Judge, Pre-judge people? Pre-judging is a cognitive bias... how to avoid making stupid value judgments...

Our prejudices often rob us from seeing what is in front of us.

Prejudice is a simple two-part word: pre-judge. Meaning: judge from some simple criteria, like the color of someone"s skin, the strength of their grammar, their clothing, or whether they curse or not.

And then we stop looking, because the judgment is already there: this or that.
Pre-judging is a cognitive bias, it is the mind"s attempt to save you time. It is accurate for our purposes of survival, about 60% of the time. 40% of the time it is inaccurate, and leads to stupid, self-defeating decisions.
Most people get married based on a the 40%, hire people, buy stuff, or not buy, reject perfectly good matches.
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Taking you where Life wants you to go ... Updated because it is important

This article distinguishes the most important thing you need to know about growing.
Without growing you are dying. Every minute of every day.
Survival is dying.

The purpose of life is living.... not dying.
Most people I know are either stuck or are coasting... They are going noplace... fast or slow... it is unsatisfying and yet... starting to move in the direction Life wants you to go, or even where you want to go is near impossible... Just look at most people...

This article will reveal a secret... the secret of taking your life where Life wants you to go.

I have been clear that Life wants each of us to go someplace... not necessarily physical, not necessarily to a life-purpose, and yet it is a place. A non-physical place.

When I ask myself where Life wants me to go, after the almost immediate fear-reflex, I feel that I am where Life wants me to be. Doing what Life wants me to do. Afraid that I am not going to succeed.

But then again, Life is not a life-coach who talks you to death with goal setting, and specific, measurable results, and milestones, and bold audacious actions...

Thank god, because if it came to goal setting, I would be a slacker...

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Even if the movement starts in the direction of hell... it can take you to heaven.

As you can see, I republished one of the most important articles I have ever published.

What is important in the article is the insight. It is an insight about a life well lived. Einstein said:
"If A is a success in life, then A equals x plus y plus z. Work is x; y is play; and z is keeping your mouth shut." ((This quote says that being successful means being useful in three important ways.

x and y are simply about having a life. The more good things you do, the more you get paid, and the more successful you are at life. Play is fun. z is important because speech is so common. As a lever of influence, it has a high impact on your sum total of usefulness.

z means it"s hard to say something useful: talking is useless by default. Taken literally, it means that you can only become less successful by talking. Talk only hurts, it never helps. Taken as a poetic license, it means that the odds of saying something useful are against you.

Talking sends information into the world. The conversation is overtly about the things in the world, but covertly about the speaker. Even assuming that the talk about the world is useful to the listener, the covert message about yourself is noise, vanity, or masochism.

Speakers who leak vanity risk being preyed upon by good listeners with an agenda. Those who leak masochism invite others to play "Kick Me". Even if the covert channel sends just noise, it is diluting the useful information on the overt channel. Therefore, talk is best reserved for short windows of opportunity to put in a key bit.

An experienced conversationalist from a healthy social environment tends to be short and sweet. Highly successful people are known for what they did, rather than what they said.))
The insight is that you can use the laws of physics in your life to succeed.
We can use Newton"s first law to achieve great things, to live a life we were meant to live, to live the life Life meant for us to live.

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Custom Activators, Clarity, or How To Get Out Of Your Rut? Clue: Changing habits

"The thought of getting out of this hole, this interminable rut, going around in circles, doing the same thing over and over again, is positively thrilling!!!!" - A Student in the Soul Correction Workshop
We had our first session of the Soul Correction workshop yesterday. When I got off the call, I realized that I didn"t record it correctly: the audio settings were off, and there was no sound.

I was bummed out. I have, earlier, distinguished, that what keeps me from winning in life is a habit, I can describe better by telling you what I don"t do: I don"t look before I leap.

Not checking if the audio settings were correct, is one symptom, one expression of this issue.

I am working on this new "thing", custom activators, and the custom activator I am creating for myself, is going to be the first of its kind.

Until this moment I"ve thought it was going to be called: "Look before you leap..." but because I wasn"t quite sure, I was letting it gather some energy by itself.

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13 Questions That May Lead To Clarity on the Tree of Life... but to no clarity on the Tree of Knowledge

The mind hates uncertainty. It drives itself nuts not to answer a question. Any question. Asked or unasked. If you paid attention it is almost always in search mode... trying to answer a question. That"s why it is so busy. But it is working on questions that are bad questions... irrelevant, and there is no answer to them in the mind. Then you can"t sleep.

This phenomenon, the questions we don"t even know we asked gives us the results (or lack of) you are getting in life, health, relationships, and money.

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How I raised my vibration: my secret method revealed.

Kindness reveals the diamond...
Change must begin with clarity of where you are... precision, exactness, all of which you and I have been trying to avoid.
So we make up all kinds of stuff, including the butterfly analogy. After all if you need to go through transformation to become a butterfly, you don"t have to be responsible for any of it... it is a miracle transformation, it is out of your hands.
In this article I"ll show you how I change, from a totally different place, the place of conscious change, where you don"t need a miracle, you don"t need voodoo, where you need work... (Oh no Sophie, not work again!? lol)
I will show you the work that brings out the diamond, the shine, the beauty in us... the best work anyone can ever want or wish for.

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Clarity is power, but meaningless and powerless on the Tree of Knowledge.

But on the Tree of Life clarity is the main component of having a winning life.

Clarity, on the Tree of Life, is finding the cause of an effect... Once you know the cause, you can play with it like a musical instrument: you can change out of the cause, you can modulate.

You have yourself and your life tamed sufficiently that you can safely say: I have the power... I call the shot.

On the Tree of Knowledge you cannot see the cause. It is hidden under an avalanche of feelings, "science", words.

That is the purpose of the Tree of Knowledge, by the way.

And because you have no idea, anything or anyone can fool you.

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You hope to be rescued, but you would die before you would ask for help... go figure

As I am observing my students they belong to two very distinguishable camps.
People who ask for help, and people who don"t.
I myself belong to the second camp. But my reasons for not asking help is different from yours... lol. Maybe.

When I look back at my childhood, I must have decided really early on that asking for help is useless. At best they say "go away", or who do you think you are... At the worst they beat you up.

And I could use a lot of help. Especially in learning. Especially since by brain damage almost 20 years ago.
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How reliable is your judgment? Are you judgmental or astute? but is he worth a damn?

To judge something accurately, you need a lot of skills, spiritual capacities, including seeing the big picture, etc. You need to be able to tell similar things apart. You need to be astute. You need to be able to answer the question "But is he worth a damn?" ((The originator of that question, But is he worth a damn? Tai Lopez looks for credentials, because they are easy to check. But when I go and check the truth value of the books he recommends, I find anything from 3% to 9%... and that is not worth a damn.


Treating Tai"s steps, or what his teachers say, or what the books say as the truth will trap you on the Tree of Knowledge... and yet. And yet I recommend that you do the 67 steps... But do it the way you take a shower. You take a shower, you get wet, you towel off, and you move on. But getting wet has a lot to do with a good life...


What? It is hard to say, but being exposed to a lot more of the world than you would sitting on your ass, doing the same things day in and day out, will slowly and surely allow you to be more, see more, and be a lot more astute... because you can see a whole lot more. Will it make you astute? No... by itself: no.


But by doing things that test what you learn... hell yeah... at least in the area of life where you are testing. So yes, I recommend it.


I myself became a lot more astute by doing it... I am asking a lot more questions, and questions that are taking me to the edge of human knowledge... maybe into the "unfolded" part of the Holographic Universe.))

As I have said before, if you are a midget you see the knees of people, and you will make your judgments from the knees...

If you judge people to feel better about yourself, or to place yourself above them... you are fooling no one except people who are on the same level as you are, intellectually, spiritually, and in emotional maturity.
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Life is for living. But what does that mean?

I have come to say: "I don"t see how it can be done"

It"s taken me many years... and diligent practice.

My soul correction is arrogance... Knowing it all. And being rigid about it.

In the olden days I used to say: "There is no way", or "I can"t..." or "It can"t be done"

The difference between the two attitudes is: one is arrogant, the other is not. It has taken me this long, because letting go of what you know, letting go of knowing that you see the truth... is painful.

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Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony

If you look, carefully, now you know why you are not happy.

Here is another quote: People get married because they want their lives witnessed. When your life is witnessed you feel alive... I was par phrasing the Susan Sarandon character"s words in "Shall we Dance?"

The best way to make sure you are on the path to happiness... is actually to be in a coaching program.

In my 67 step coaching program I witness your life.

Obviously, if you don"t care what I see: if you don"t care that I see that there is no harmony in what you think, what you say and what you do, then it is not really doing much for you...

If you don"t care...
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The crucial difference between being flexible and being floppy, or What is the difference between people who grow and people who don"t?

One of the 67 steps talks about the acquired attitude in life, called by Martin Seligman: Learned Helplessness.

It is a distinction, and it seems that none of my students have even attempted to observe it, identify it, and recognize it... like the color in the color exercise. ((The goal of the color exercise is to get to a point where you can see the color everywhere, even where you could not see it before. Transferred to other distinctions, for example "learned helplessness" you would be able to see learned helplessness in all behaviors where it is a component, or where it is underneath other behaviors... you would suspect it in areas where you never produce results, etc.

The real secret in distinctions and the ferreting them out is this: you cannot be responsible for what you can"t see. So the goal is to see where previously you could not see. But see with your own eyes. Not through someone else"s.

If I point out a behavior, you may correct it, this specific behavior, for this one time. But if you cannot see the pattern, the distinction, then you"ll leave all the other occurrences of the behavior wreak havoc.

In essence I am teaching you to see on this site, to see. Most of you refuse to see... by the way.))

Because nearly everyone has it, and because it is so important to recognize it, recognize it as a learned behavior, not innate, not natural, not coming from the Tree of Life, I am going to do the work here... as a demonstration of what mastering the color exercise can give you.
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How The Tree of Knowledge goes against nature... on the level of individual. Case studies

The insights of this article came from participants. The insights could not have come without participants looking at their behavior and attitude from the sensations perspective, which is the Tree of Life, working with what nature intended.

On a sidenote: I don"t think nature intended 99% of humans to be obsolete and be replaced by Artificial Intelligence. I think nature intended evolution on a more human trajectory.

But back to what we have discovered, what we have observed, what we have gleaned.

First off: I will begin calling the feelings that come through the senses: Sensations. I think that the book should be re-christened as well... but it is really not up to me.

I"ll organize the observations by the soul correction... but you may find your limiting behavior in any soul correction.
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Feelings and emotions: what is the difference?

One of the big obstacles that is in your way to growth is not being able to tell things apart, things that are different, but the difference is either subtle, or it is below the water level. Or is confusing because the names from the Tree of Knowledge use the same word for both

One of these is going to be important, so I"d like to encourage you to put some energy and effort into telling these two apart: ((tell the difference between (someone and someone else) (or something and something else) to recognize the things that distinguish people or things))
Feelings and emotions.
Why is this important? and why you want to learn what I say and not what others teach... ((I was looking on the internet for pictures to make this post lively... and to my horror, I found that everyone says something different about this topic... So your best bet is to forget everything you have elver learned, everything you have everl read, and just follow this article... and call feelings what i call feelings (sensations) , and emotions what I call emotions. The resulting clarity will snatch you from the chaos of the confusing interpretations of moronic hirelings of the Dark side and put you, potentially, on the only place where you can be happy: the Tree of Life)) 
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The essence of teaching is that someone learns, not the act of teaching. So if I learn, then he taught.

I saw something today that can be important to for you to learn, because I don"t think you know.

It was prompted by an article by James Altucher, a blogger (personal vibration: 170) who I like and feel disgust for at the same time.

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Who or what is in power in your life. You or something or someone else?

March is a survival month. I have been observing it for 30 years. If a business can make it past March, then it will make it another year. This is due to people"s (the buyers who keep business in business) spending habits...

For people, the reason they don"t have money to spend in January, February and March, I think, begins by overspending in December. Then they scramble through January, February and March to make up for the Christmas indulgence.

Most people live hand to mouth, YOLO, Epicurian...
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If the opportunity to step into the success you crave came along: would you be able to take advantage of it?

I was listening to the step that talks about being prepared for opportunity.

Now, please listen up, I intend to teach you a spiritual practice. So if you listen "about", in a gossipy way, you won"t get anything, and that would be a pity.
The step says: be so good that they can"t ignore you.
But: you can"t just be "so good" from out of the blue. It is a point on a journey of a thousand steps.

The problem for most people is: what should be the first step?
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