10 ways to be boring... Are you boring?

I was lead to an old article of mine. Controversial, and I bet not very useful.

I wrote it four and a half years ago. I have grown a lot since then.

In the article I was attempting to guide you to detect truth value, estimate the vibration teachers and products... without muscle testing.

In the article I was making the same mistake I have been making, all my life: supposing that you can see patterns, that you can see behind the curtain, that you can see more than you actually can.

Emotional intelligence ((the capacity to be aware of, control, and express one"s emotions, and to handle interpersonal relationships judiciously and empathetically.)) , seeing emotional patterns, being able to detect lies, not by rigid made up rules, like in law enforcement, but to actually see something that another is trying to hide, or someone trying to make airs, or such... requires a lot higher emotional and overall intelligence than most of us have.

Being able to sense what the other"s intentions are... or even to see your own intentions, it is hard.

But how do you develop this emotional intelligence?

Certainly not through movies.

The other day there was a Netflix outage, and I went to Amazon streaming videos... I am a premium customer...

They had a series, The Man in the High Castle, and watched two episodes. Then I decided to buy the book instead.

I read the reviews of most everything before I buy them. I only read the bad reviews. There were many. They all were bad because someone watched the movie first, and compared to that, the book was boring, dense, nonsensical. Nothing was happening.

This is the kind of book that teaches emotional intelligence. Where the things that matter only happen inside.

You want to learn, through these books, that people think differently from you. It starts the process of taking you out from behind your eye balls.

We all need it, and need it desperately.

Reading books with a lot of actions are actually harmful in this regard.

If you can fall in love with looking the inner happenings, then your whole world can get elevated.

We all want to understand, we all want clarity, we all want certainty.

Without a high emotional intelligence it"s impossible. Without it you are boring, and stupid... because you don"t understand.

If we still lived in hunter-gatherer societies, you would be the dead ones...

Unaware, locked into a limited perspective, thinking that is all there is, the only way anyone can look.

Watching movies will not add emotional intelligence skills to your skill sets, because you cannot see and hear the thought process, the internal dialog the person is having with themselves.

And here is another reason you may want to raise your emotional intelligence:

People who see things only from their own vantage point are boring...

And being boring is not what you want to be... at least I hope.



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