Tell me your problems and I"ll know the size of your life...

When your life is about you... when your life is about others... when your life is about ideas.. these are different sizes of a life you can have. In this article we"ll examine the effects of these levels on your peace of mind, level of fulfillment, the quality of your life.

We"ll start with me... and my experience.
In 1988 January 1, around 3 minutes after the ball dropped on Times Square, I declared something that ultimately turned my life around.

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You can’t fix being human

You can’t fix being human

..that is one of the disappointing things you learn when you do work with me. I won"t feed you balooney like "you are a spiritual being having a human experience..." and other garden variety horse manure.

The other half-sentence is just as disappointing: "you can"t get out of this life alive..."

These two half-sentences address 70% of the popular delusions of humanity.

When you internalize these truly, when you start to be energized by them then your vibration will jump 50 points or more.

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Republished: There Are 3 Categories Of Gurus Mirrored In The Three Types Of Seekers. Locate yourself by identifying your guru"s type. Clarity is power!

There are three categories of gurus and three types of seekers:

Guru Category 1. The Hopeful Path: Naive, pliable, hopeful. Hoping that what you are doing is going to take you out of the misery: having feelings, and a constant battle inside between the aspects of a human being, each pulling in a different direction. You really really really want to be enlightened! Really... lol. But you know you aren"t.

There is shame and guilt and sadness in your emotions, and often anguish: the fear of being caught.Ultimately you "do" this spirituality stuff to get away from being human.You fail. There is no escape... you are human, with all that comes with that territory.

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Energy healing, coaching, nutritional consulting: what do they all have in common?

Yesterday I had an "energy healer" type of person on the Open Mic aka Talk to Me webinar.

Normally these webinars are really fun: we talk. Students ask questions, some great, some simple and to the point... they have fun, I have fun, and our relationship deepens.

Yesterday was a different kind of session: there was this "energy healer" guy... and he was into arguing, debating, talking about what he thinks, what he learned, blah blah blah.

He considered my webinar his forum to disseminate his wisdom. His learning. His take on the world.

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Donald Trump: soul correction, vibration. overall intelligence... the other side of The Donald

Soul correction... if it is accurate and really something recognizable, then you should be able to tell someone"s soul correction without knowing their birth date.

Of course you need to know the person well.

This is exactly what happened this morning.

I found an email in my inbox recommending an article on what Tony Schwartz, Donald Trump"s "The Art of The Deal" book"s ghostwriter has to say now that the Republican"s make Donald Trump their presidential candidate. Donald Trump: personal vibration: 70. Number of spiritual capacities: 4, overall intelligence, including emotional and spiritual intelligence: 30. For contrast: Adolph Hitler: personal vibration: 100. spiritual capacities: 4. overall intelligence: 50.

I am only halfway in the article, and it is already clear: Donald Trump is the archetype of a bombastic liar, a delusional self-aggrandizing sociopath... The soul correction of "Finish What You Start".

Obviously each soul correction is a scale... where the correction is done to one degree or another.

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Updated: Silent Partner: The Key To Being A Winner In Life

Updated with new insights... Soul Correction: Silent Partner: The Key To Being A Winner In Life

Most people live like they are alone. Left to their own devices, to struggle, to eke out a living for themselves, to take care of everyone else but themselves. The wind is always blowing in their face.

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The average number of people in any program that actually get the results promised by the program is as low as 1-2%

What is the paralyzing factor that is responsible for producing such low results in any type of program?

The normal result is 1~2%, and an extraordinarily successful course with lots of handholding can clock a 7% result.

And this result does not see to depend on the amount of schooling people have, or the average IQ...

This afternoon I listened in to a webinar orientation of the marketing course I am taking. As I said, the course is two thousand dollars, ten weeks, and it started yesterday.

Its bulk was answering questions. And the questions were a dead giveaway why people don"t succeed in the courses they take:

You can already see on day two of a 10 week course who is not going to succeed. Who is asking the type of questions that belie their thinking habits...
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Life skills... skills you need for a good life

Here is an article from skills you need dot com
Become worth a damn
The term ‘Life Skills’ refers to the skills you need to make the most out of life.

Life skills are usually associated with managing and living a better quality of life. They help us to accomplish our ambitions and live to our full potential.

Any skill that is useful in your life can be considered a life skill. Tying your shoe laces, swimming, driving a car and using a computer are, for most people, useful life skills.

Here at Skills You Need you"ll find lots of information about life skills and life skill development. We don"t cover tying your shoe laces but you will find hundreds of articles around personal development.


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How do you know if you are growing, or just imagining that you are?

My homework for the course I am in is to read 200 testimonials to a book in my niche.

My niche is self growth, becoming a human being, being all you can become...

A little vague, I am afraid. But being able to pinpoint what attracts people that say they want to grow is what I want to do... so I have been reading those darned testimonials.

I"ve chosen to only track testimonials to book I have read myself:

Frequency by Penney Peirce (personal vibration: 130)... Truth value 3% and E-Squared: Nine Do-It-Yourself Energy Experiments That Prove Your Thoughts Create Your Reality by Pam Grout (personal vibration: 170) truth value between 5 and 8 percent, depending where the reader"s vibration is. ((If you have read e-squared... I have, it has a number or exercises to prove that your thoughts create reality. Half of those examples are actual examples and repeatable, half of those examples are lies. Actual lies. As in fibs, made up, stories... Not true.

I have a student who has lived his life feeling inferior, because in church, in his childhood, every single person seemed to be able to connect to god, but he could not.

The truth is that less than one percent of Christians actually feel they connect to whatever hey call god... the rest would like to... but don"t.

The same is with the prevailing theory that your thoughts create your reality... A great thing to pretend about...

The same is true about the idea that your beliefs hold you back or propel you to greatness. Bah humbug. But tons of "gurus" make a nice living with that... not the least Christie Marie Sheldon... the queen of erasing wrong beliefs.))

The readers of both books claim that the books were life-altering.

I have a disappointing news: those books are pretense-fattening at best.

So how do you know if you are growing?

I have shared some of the ways I know I am growing in another article... but it may be personal. So let"s look at something that has unquestionably caused growth, my health consultations.

You see, it is one thing to trust my muscle testing results, that they tell you if you grew or not. It"s quite a different thing to be able to see it.

If you are not growing, your problems remain the same, said in exactly the same way, approached in exactly the same manner.

I remember going back to my ACOA ((Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional families)) meeting four-five months later and the same people sat there and said the same exact things the same exact way as before.

Some of my students repeat the same sentences, same concerns over and over... and I know they aren"t growing.

And other students begin to talk about different issues that come up because they are at a different place in their lives.

Unless what concerns you, what you complain about, what you are dealing with has changed, your efforts haven"t taken you to growth... yet.

If you read or dream about taking a trip, your concerns don"t change. You actually have
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Learning new things is hard... what is on the other side of pain?

I hate to learn new things. I am learning disabled. It"s not an excuse, it"s a fact that is in my way and makes any learning process torturous for me.

Does this mean I don"t learn new things? No.

I am OK with slow. I am OK with the pain. I am OK to move through dark fog to come out on the other end with some clarity.

I always think it is going to be easy, but it never is.

Teachers don"t like me, because they think I am stupid... or that I don"t belong.

But that is their problem.

I am a turtle... and their favorites are hares...

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How to grow some balls... at least seemingly

As I have mentioned, I have signed up to an expensive course that teaches a marketing method to pick the right people that are a good match for what I am attempting to do: take a group of people to the level of human being, the next evolutionary level for the species.

Signing up opened a can of worms.

Several daily emails, and a slew of offers, all beyond my need, all beyond my budget.

Today, a week into this campaign, the fifteenth video, the offer is 20 thousand dollars... and I am ready to throw in the towel.

It is like being in a restaurant,

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I laughed myself silly

This video is five years old, at least... but I just saw it the first time today...

The talking dog...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ykF7yYR7qcE
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Could you, can you have a great life without ever adding a spiritual capacity to your arsenal?

Could you, can you have a great life without ever adding a spiritual capacity to your arsenal?

This question has never been asked of me, so I am asking the question, for you, on your behalf.

Because we are starting to see that keeping spiritual capacities on is not the easiest thing to do... unless...

I"ll talk about that unless later on in this article.

So, what is the answer?

The answer is surprising: you can have a great life without ever adding a spiritual capacity.

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Self-expression: what is the Self you are expressing? With your life...

People throw around the words: self-expression, but I have never found a person who knows what it means.

Most people look how you express yourself not what it is you express... This article is about "what" not "how"... What is the Self you express with everything... your life, your job, your relationships, with your music, poetry, and your life.

There are two selves, and the reason life doesn"t work for most of us is because the two selves are not connected in any way. Self 1: your genes, your desire to survive and procreate. Self 2: your human desire to be higher than just your genes... to live your higher self.

Self in the expression of the higher self, the evolved self. The self Shakespeare means: To thine own self be true.

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Pleasure seeking behavior... or more aptly let"s call it: avoiding pain behavior

There are two kinds of pleasure.

Pleasure that is immediate, impulsive, and requires no or little sustained effort and
Pleasure that is the result of work... sustained effort.

No matter what pleasure you seek, what makes it pleasure is the contrast: there needs to be pain for pleasure to exist. ((Hunger makes food pleasurable... lust makes sex pleasurable... tiredness makes sleep pleasurable...))

Although I could write about pleasure that you earn through hard and sustained work, and I have written hundreds of articles about it, people with too small capacity for pain rarely turn around and become people who want to earn their pleasure.

So in this article I"ll address the pleasure seeking behavior of people, you?, whose pain threshold is very low.

Pain is a discomfort. Most pain is emotional or intellectual, only some are physical.

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Are you happy with the results you are getting? Money, happiness, health?

Are you happy with the results you are getting?
In your efforts for money, in your efforts for knowledge, in your efforts for happiness, in your efforts for health?

One useful technique that you may try in your case is to invert the usual questions.

What are the usual questions?

How can I...?
Why can"t I...?
What can I do so I...?

And if you look, there are articles and books and videos telling you how you can, and what you can do, and maybe even why can"t you... occasionally.

But if you notice, all those answers haven"t helped you.

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What is another word for allowing? How does it make you live in abundance

 

I have another word for allowing for you, that has always worked much better for me than the word allowing.

The other word is "having room for"...

You see, if you live in tight quarters, than everything that intrudes it, everything that you didn"t design to be there creates clutter, hinders you in your movement, cramps your style.

If you move into a larger house, that maybe even has a basement and an attic, and a few extra bedrooms, you have room for a lot of stuff... even for a lot of stuff that you neither need or want.

But you can afford the luxury to let those things be, you have them, they don"t have you... meaning they don"t have your goat.

You let them be... that is what having is.

And, ultimately, this, allowing/having room is the difference between scarcity and abundance.
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Truth value... let"s talk about truth value

During the summer of 1966 I ran into a girl I knew from elementary school. Turns out she applied and was accepted to the same school I was going to start in that September.

We were having a chat. I remember thinking to myself: Compared to her I know everything... why am I going to school?

We both graduated. I am sure she still thinks she knows everything. My experience is that I know less and less as time goes by.

Whether you can identify with my 19 year old person, or my 69 year old person, and to what degree will be important, so jot it down.

This article will attempt to answer truth value.

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Will you Take Action Toward a Goal or Dream?

When I watch or coach people: most people quit... first they pretend to be still in... but they stopped generating that goal or that dream.

Brandon Burchard, in this video and pdf give you a tool to evaluate where you are standing with regards to a certain goal or dream... and make the necessary changes so you can be closer to being a person who will accomplish what they dream about, what would really serve them and their lives.

here is the video, and below the video is the link to the pdf... the evaluating guide.

By the way, this is the perfect time for me, given that I just committed to spending two grands on a course... and I don"t have two grands to waste... so I am going to do exactly what I am asking you to do.

Go do it.

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Managing yourself...

Let me start with a story that will upset you:...
As I mentioned in an article yesterday, I just bought into a two thousand dollar program. It seems to be the best prepared program I have ever done, with amazing organization, attention to detail, little videos explaining everything again and again, purpose, how to find my way, what order to do things and why.

To my surprise I experienced hate as I was listening to the originator of this program.

He can do everything I can. This program already has thousands of people signed up. And I don"t think I matter to anyone, even though the teacher is emphasizing how much each person matters to him... I KNOW he is lying.

I have a chip on my shoulder. My ego is bruised... and...
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Conscious awareness is the best predictor of worldly success... your worth a damn factor is close second

To my surprise, people have no idea that their worth a damn factor has been neglected since they were little babies.

They get "encouragement" to not know that there is such a thing... and then they grow up to be seriously not worth a damn, and they suffer.

How does it work?

If you are consistently praised for being a good girl, a pretty girl, a smart girl... you"ll think that that is what there is to it. That is your ticket to the good life, to paradise.

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Leaky gut... 90% chance you have it... Now, how you feel, will start making sense to you

4 Steps to Heal Leaky Gut and Autoimmune Disease
by Dr Axe

Article truth value: 10%. Why so low: because the author doesn"t know about the fact that all food is toxic to some level to people whose ancestors did not adjust to that food, and develop counter measures.

Also there is a lot of Tree of Knowledge in the suggestions. I"ll add my notes where I can.

Leaky gut syndrome is a rapidly growing condition that millions (about a billion according to my muscle testing) of people are struggling with and don’t know it.


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Do what is hard when it"s easy... what does it mean for you?

I am hearing that you can"t wrap your minds around Seneca"s principle: "do what is hard when it is easy".

So I am going to give you some examples... and then ask you to add your examples to the comments section. Let"s create at least 50, OK? Together...

Maintenance is a good example. Exercising is easy while you still can. If you don’t, movement becomes difficult… and then you are seriously limited.

I think the “do it what’s difficult while it’s easy” is vague, so all of life fits into it well. It"s a principle. It"s a distinction. It is a way to look at the world...

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The core influence exercise

This post is a summary of the presentation of Frank Kern about Core Influence.

This is really powerful EXERCISE for everyone. It will definitely change the way of you relate to yourself and your life.

What is your Core Influence?

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A good method to find yourself and know yourself... your core

I often catch myself stingy... if that is really what the beingness is

Some 30 years ago I started a magazine. I didn"t want to put my own picture in the magazine, so I put a woman"s picture there who was a lot like me, instead.

It was self-protection, the sign of an intense aversion of being touched by someone I didn"t want to be touched by. I can feel it now that I am talking about it.

The same feeling but weaker comes up when I think of all the people coming to my site who I would not want to talk to.

A few years ago I listened to a talk by Frank Kern (personal vibration: 300). The video of that talk...
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Opportunity favors the one who is prepared... or do things when they are easy

Business, marketing, and other business things are not my favorite things to learn or do. Even though I come from a family where three out of five (I have two brothers) have MBAs, and my father was god of the topic in Hungary...

I gave up going for it one credit short: an enemy of my father would not let me pass an exam...


Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work.

~Thomas A. Edison


I don"t like these topics because they need organization, creating systems, and I am not good at them. I tighten up when I have to do things I am not good at.

I could learn to be good at them, but everything comes at a cost, time and brain cells taken away from what I am best at.

But...

Let"s see if it would be worth it...


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For every complex problem there is an answer that is clear, simple, and wrong.

What I didn"t say in the last article about conscious awareness and discipline, is probably as important as what I did say.

Lots of people argue that your subconscious or your ego are more important than what you are aware of consciously, but that may not be true.

Your ego, your drive given to you by the genes and their selfish desire that is so often counter to your conscious desire: unless you know thine enemy, the enemy will always win.

Your decisions from the past that are now not in the conscious part of your brain: ditto. If you don"t know at least the most important decisions that have taken you to where you are... then they will continue to run the show, that is your life, and take you where you are headed.

Both other-than-conscious aspects (ego and past decisions) of you need a lot of digging, observation, pondering, and developing strategies to counter.

I have an unconscious desire to be broke. I have an unconscious desire to be sick. I have an unconscious desire to be an outcast.

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Conscious Awareness is the greatest predictor of happiness, success, and health... but what about self-discipline?

Every so-called guru talks about the subconscious mind, and such nonsense.

What they don"t talk about is how much of what is happening, what is real, what is in front of you is making no impression on you... how little of what is around you, what you are reading, watching, listening to reaches your conscious awareness.

And whatever you do is based on that 1-3% that you actually aware to or the 100%... and you think you have all the facts.

"Everyone operates and makes decisions based on his or her current level of conscious awareness."

This is why your level of awareness is the most predictive of you success.

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A great video training on how to build success in your relationships... I really love this one.

You can"t build a pyramid without a foundation (even if you"re in the alien school of pyramid construction!)

So, what is the foundation of your pyramid?

In our conversations a pyramid will be a code word for your vibration, for your financial freedom, for your health, for yur happiness...

The common shared characteristic of all those areas is that without a foundation you can"t build anything that is worth building.

People at large, you, lack any foundation.

Some have some spotty foundation.

And the outliers have a strong foundation.

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Breathing Difficulty, Holding your Breath, The Parental Disapproval Syndrome

Sometimes when you poke around you find stuff you didn"t want to find, didn"t want to know, you"d rather not know. But if you know it, if you are willing to face it: you have a new lease on life... So read it.

This article will lose a good percentage of my readers, it"s so sacra-religious, it"s so profoundly upsetting.

I am guided to watch movies, especially hit TV series. It is hard to tell what I am going to see, while I am watching them, hours after hours, on Netflix, but I know how it works, and I know that unless I start to see stuff that my life isn"t giving an insight into, I will not be able to distinguish for you all the ways that the enslavement, that caused you to be miserable, does its job.

This article is about the family. It"s about how family is used to enslave you.

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I"ll sell you my secret weapon - Updated

The Big Bundle of energies other people sell piecemeal... I am going to sell you as a bundle.

We all hear and read about energy healing, but most of that healing doesn"t work or it"s disappointing.

But here is an energy tool that works... Really.
The story
I first heard about Mr. T., the ugly Indian energy master, from my client and massage therapist... She raved about how he caused cows to give more milk and trees to bear more fruit. In addition to healing people.

Bull shit, I thought, but didn"t say it.

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#Breathing, #Energies, #EnergizedWater, #Healing, #Raiseyourvibration

If you are one of my students who isn"t getting better... Or not as fast as you hoped you would

If you are one of my students who isn"t getting better... Or not as fast as you hoped you would, you should ask the question: Why you won"t follow a system, why you lie, why you"ll never amount to anything worthwhile?

This article will attempt to point you to some answers...

Our tendency to socialize and spend time with people with our lesser (at least in our not so humble opinion) is so strong, and so "normal", that I expect you not to recognize it in yourself.

Why? Because the desire to do that does not come from our conscious self, it comes from our "other than conscious" self, the selfish gene.

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The Power of Breathing

The Power Of Breathing

Anyone who desires to teach what they can do has a real big problem. The problem is remembering what they did to get where they are.

Of course, judging from people"s vibrational numbers, most people that teach anything in this spiritual realm, don"t teach what they do, they teach what they"d read, heard, but never actually experienced themselves. Their knowledge is Tree of Knowledge. Second hand knowledge, worthless. Fills the mind with useless information. Useless, as in: you can"t act on it and achieve what it tries to express, because there are steps the speaker doesn"t know about: it is not their experience.

Now, with that said, I have had the problem myself: accurately and completely teaching you all the steps I have done to get to where I am. I have been watching, observing myself, to find the missed pieces, or steps, that would make the path more complete, so that no steps are missing, so that you can get to exactly where I am, which is today 993 on the vibrational scale.

I have found a step that is a good candidate for "missing step." Breathing.

Some 36 years ago I was struggling with severe insomnia. I was tense. My mind was churning with unwanted thoughts. One day, accidentally, while looking for the bathroom, I entered a room where a group was practicing relaxation.

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Why are you holding your breath? And why it is an ineffective way to manage your emotions?

I get insights in bite size chunks... here is a new insight I just got.

Your attention, that force to reckon with, that power you wield to bring life to stuff is connected to your breath.

They say: what you pay attention to starts moving. This is why, when you are at the chiropractor, they say: breathe into your hip, or your knees...

You see, they know breathing into something brings it mobility, awareness, and life... what they didn"t know is that it is your attention that is brought to the sore or stuck part with the breath.

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What"s the opposite of fear?

When you ask someone: what is the opposite of fear, they say "courage". But they are mistaken. Courage will never take you to the other side of fear... fear won"t disappear with courage.

The opposite of fear is neither fear nor courage, it is abundance.

Fear is like a flower closing its petals. Courage is still trembling, still closed, still fearful.

But a fully open flower, blooming, fully knowing that a day later, a week later it will be dead, is throwing oneself into the whole big beautiful world, and living life with abandon. With wonder. With gusto. With dance.

When you look at your life, look at the people you know, you rarely if ever see anyone like that.

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Rewiring the brain: The chains of habit are too weak to be felt until they are too strong to be broken.

Most of you live life as if you lived forever. You are patient when it comes to doing what you set out to do, have long term goals and aspirations for your life, that you do nothing about. You are patient.

But when you start doing something, you want instant result. You want it yesterday. Impatient.

This patient impatience renders you an unhappy loser, an underachiever, a never do well... Guaranteed.

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It"s amazing how much you can get if you quietly, clearly, and authoritatively demand it...

Everybody dreams of a stress free life... even though stress wakes you up. Stress as in challenge. I am not talking about the anxiety where you are fighting what if scenarios... that will never happen.

My countryman, who worked in Canada, Selye Janos (aka Hans Selye), was an endocrinologist, who was the first to demonstrate the existence of biological stress.

Stress response, what stress can do to your body.

But in his groundbreaking book, "Stress without Distress" he showed that stress also keeps us alive.
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What can YOU expect from any program? Self-improvement, spiritual growth, making money, etc.

The most popular page on this site, www.yourvibration.com, is my Mind Movies review page.

So I decided to add a few words to it... I added this today:
Bad news: no matter what program you buy, if you remain the same inside, small, arrogant, and fearful, no program will do anything for you... For most people there is a schasm, a big divide between what they want and what they do... And that big divide needs to be bridged by small purposeful actions. But the problem I see with any results based goal setting program: most people are incapable of designing the small actions, let alone doing them. So the success rate of a program like Mind Movies is way less than 1%...

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The History of the Middle Finger

A bit of history? with a labio dental fricative.

The History of the Middle Finger:

Well, now......here"s something I never knew before, and now that I know it, I feel compelled to send it on to my more intelligent friends in the hope that they, too, will feel edified.

Before the Battle of Agincourt in 1415, the French, anticipating victory over the English, proposed to cut off the middle finger of all captured English soldiers. Without the middle finger it would be impossible to draw the renowned English longbow and therefore they would be incapable of fighting in the future. This famous English longbow was made of the native English Yew tree, and the act of drawing the longbow was known as "plucking the yew" (or "pluck yew").

Much to the bewilderment of the French, the English won a major upset and they began mocking the French by waving their middle fingers at the defeated French, saying, See, we can still pluck yew! Since "pluck yew" is rather difficult to say, the difficult consonant cluster at the beginning has gradually changed to a labiodentalfricative "F", and thus the words often used in conjunction with the one-finger-salute! It is also because of the pheasant feathers on the arrows used with the longbow that the symbolic gesture is known as "giving the bird."

And yew thought yew knew every plucking thing. Didn"t yew!!

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When the guru is wrong...

Today I learned a lesson so cruelly cutting, my stomach hurt from it.

Now, being on the other side of it, it has opened my eyes to so many things, I am surprised.

I found out that some of my carefully crafted assumptions based in decades of education might be wrong.

I have been fighting it for more than a week now... and finally, today, I had to face the piper.

The polar pitcher, the equipment I use for energizing water, has changed: the pitcher you get on Amazon today are slightly smaller than what I own and have based my water energizing system on.

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How to measure vibration? How to measure consciousness? how to measure your vibrational frequency

It is good to know where you are at. With all the pretending, with all the charts, you probably overestimate or underestimate your vibration, your "vibrational frequency".

To measure another person"s vibration, your vibration needs to be above 200... and even there, you need to be connected to Source, be outside of your ego, to do that... to muscle test the other person"s vibration. My vibration is above 900, I am completely outside of my ego, so I trust my measurements.

People"s lives, emotional state, achievements, relationship prove that my measurements are accurate.

I can measure your vibration for a donation of $5 or more. I will email you the number, and my experience of you while I was measuring your vibration. If it is obvious to me, I will also email you my recommendation of a product of mine that will either ease your current discomfort, or will start the process of raising your vibration.

If someone has measured your vibration already... then you want a second opinion. If this is you, email me the person"s name or email address... I"ll also measure THEIR vibration for you to see how accurate they could be in measuring yours.
What is vibration? What are we measuring? What is the process?
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Updated: Soul Correction: Finish What You Start

Soul Correction: Finish What You Start

Update 7/10/2016:

The archetype is the flatterer scam artist. If you are their victim: They will hook you with their compliments, flattery, while suck you dry, take you for your last dime, without ever caring about you, and without ever delivering on what they said they would do.

If you are the person with this soul correction: You find yourself with projects half started, never finished. You find yourself getting enough satisfaction out of buying a self-improvement program, but you don"t actually listen to it or use it.

Your self-image is "insignificant." Maybe even weak, inconsequential, not important. Or you suffer from delusions of grandeur: you are or should be the best the best looking, the smartest, a hero... except that you are literally unwilling to do the work to make it happen... What"s in the way is that pesky "should already" be that. Or "it should be easy for me, even if it is hard for others"

You instinctively know who is a sucker, and you latch onto them. I must be a sucker: you are attracted to me... Why? How? I am sensitive to your flattery... that is MY weakness, and you know it.

It"s all a game.

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Updated: The secret of being able to change, and be reborn with a higher frequency

The original of this article was published a year ago... I have added new insights today

The secret of my being able to change, and be reborn with a higher frequency, a higher vibration, is that I have been able to keep in check the societal imperative to care about other people more than I care about myself. And in addition to that, I have been able to admit to myself all the errors of my ways that I can see. So I don"t even want to look good to myself. I am willing to accept myself, warts and all... for all I am and for all I am lacking.

This comes with giving up the emotional impact of others view of me, of others opinion of me, of others praise or hate of me, and my opinion of me... especially when I make a mistake, a false step, or when I make a fool of myself.

This attachment to opinions needs to be actively given up: no epigenetic shift, no transformation, no energy remedy will make these opinions neutral: we do live in a society, and others opinion of you and your products determines your money: and your money determines whether you eat, be sheltered, have leisure time, and a lot more. And your own opinion about yourself will determine whether you are going to play fully... or shrink.

So opinions are important, but they are not important emotionally.

Fear is emotional. Careful, thoughtful pro-action is not.

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Only people who are willing to go to hell and back can have real compassion and be happy.

It"s been a weird couple of days.

Every time I stop doing something my mind goes to evil acts I have seen in movies or read about in books.

It started with the Marco Polo series on Netflix. I realized that I can"t watch betrayal... something about betrayal is too difficult for me to be with.

I wondered if it was that I saw myself in either the traitor or the betrayed, but I don"t think it"s that.

But it dislodged a veritable mound of buried memories of acts in books and other movies.

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Limiting beliefs... what should you do about them?

Limiting beliefs... can you zap them like Christie Marie Sheldon pretends to do? Does listening to some guru, watching some Mind Valley video help you chuck them, change them, or eliminate them?
The answer is no. You can"t eliminate limiting beliefs, and they can"t eliminate limiting beliefs either.
Limiting beliefs will not go anywhere. You have to find another way to win: stop listening to them.

I have limiting beliefs, but you would not know from my actions. I don"t consider my mind chatter significant. I only listen to advisors that I hired... I never hired my mind chatter.
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When your life is looked at through a different filter, you see something you have never seen

Photographer Removes Phones From Photos To Highlight Our Terrible Addiction
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How addicted are you to your cell phone? The real answer may surprise you. “Removed” is an awesome photo project by American photographer Eric Pickergill that highlights our horrible addiction to smartphones in a whole new way. Pickergill removes phones and other digital devices from his photos and as a result presents an entirely new photo—one that shows how much we are missing out on everyday moments all because of technology.

Pickergill admits he’s not above smartphone addiction; he spends far too much time on his mobile devices too. It wasn’t his own addiction that inspired the project, but instead a family he encountered while out taking notes at a New York café.

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One path to Self you may want to take

One of the capacities you want to cultivate is the capacity of being in awe. Awestruck, awe-inspired.

Why? Because unless you can be moved on the inside, you are dead and I can"t help you... nobody can.

Unless you can attain to a certain level of awe, you are not going to be able to have a purpose to your life, or love, or rise above the pedestrian existence of the current humanity.

And no, I am not going to turn it on for you, please don"t ask.

This is a project you need to invent for yourself, and try to get in the state of awe. Inspiring stories, inspiring books, inspiring people, inspiring movies.

Awe is being present to the beyond... the beyond of the level where you are, the beyond of the knowable universe... from where all power comes.

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The sad guru... Paramahansa Yogananda

Yogananda... I have measured his vibration at different times, in different contexts, always having a different number come up. So today I spent some time in his space... to see what"s up.

Paramahansa Yogananda was a sad person. For two reasons, the two sides of the same coin: he had something that he wanted to share, and it wasn"t shareable.

His words are simply his idea what made him the way he was, and the words did not communicate. Did not do for others what they, he thought, did for him.

So, slowly but surely, his words became a lie. Now, he himself wasn"t the way he said people should be: he had sadness, grieving, devastation move into his heart.

And greed... wanting. Wanting it to be different. Wanting that burning go away from his throat and his upper chest.

And then it all fell apart... and what remained is pretense.

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5 Characteristics Of Grit -- How Many Do You Have?

Reprinted from Forbes... ((by Margaret M. Perlis I write about Excellence in practice, people, places & product.))

Recently some close friends visited, both of whom have worked in education with adolescents for over 40 years. We were talking about students in general and when I asked what has changed with regards to the character of kids, in unison they said “grit” – or more specifically, lack thereof. There seems to be growing concern among teachers that kids these days are growing soft.

When I took a deeper dive, I found that what my friends have been observing in-the-field, researchers have been measuring in the lab. The role grit plays in success has become a topic du jour, spearheaded by Angela Duckworth, who was catapulted to the forefront of the field after delivering a TED talk which has since been viewed well over a  million times.

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I am changing... Why aren"t you?

I have been changing. Subtly.

The biggest problem with subtle changes is that they go unnoticed. And if you are like most people, you want encouragement, you want people to see that you are becoming something better.

But your environment is about as aware and as present as you are, which means: not very. And besides they are busy having their head up their ass... so until you are very very very different, they don"t notice it.

A good example is your weight: if you drop two dress sizes... then they notice it. But if you are doing it right, in a sustainable fashion, it"s taken you months... And for those months you had gotten no feedback.

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